TIMESTAMPS: 1:20 - Heather’s background 4:44 - The relationship with asking 9:00 - Story of getting fired 11:00 - Being comfortable in chaos 17:00 - My entire thesis of doing 18:00 - Everything is vulnerable 22:40 - Stepping into fear 23:30 - Personal branding strategy 26:35 - How the algorithm works 27:10 - Responding to haters

@LiterasiAzure

4 жыл бұрын

Add Indonesian language, please

@winnersnewsnetwork

4 жыл бұрын

Great podcast/video guys! Heather... My folks are and most of the family still live from Worcester! First half on Hamilton...the other on Massaoit ... Uncle had Hudson's Spa at the top of the hill on Hamilton. Great story 👍❣️

@winnersnewsnetwork

4 жыл бұрын

Husson's Spa

@connorconnor1477

4 жыл бұрын

Gary, what do you actually sell besides words?

@gfoxplayz2525

4 жыл бұрын

u are the best

"If you want to conquer fear don't sit at home and think about it, go out and get busy" Dale Carnegie

@DrawingBase

4 жыл бұрын

a love that

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

hell yeah! I totally agree

@LifeVersity

4 жыл бұрын

@@MagnatesMedia Absolutely! and I feel like they'll still be relevant far past today also

@Malik_Hoff

4 жыл бұрын

From his house while writing at his type writer...

@ShaunSurgener

4 жыл бұрын

LifeVersity soo true!! Nothing is as bad as it seems it will be. Let’s crush it friends

I can’t even lie, Gary gave me the confidence to start my channel back up and this time I want to be more consistent. I’ve always started but then stopped because I was so worried about judgement from friends, and also thinking i’d blow up or gain traction after a month, but I understand now that it takes time. Anyone reading this, do what you love. You only got one life, so make it count. And yeah people might laugh, might joke, and might even roll their eyes when they constantly see your content on social media, but they’re just mad because they don’t have the courage to do what you’re doing. Do what you love, and love what you do.

@AkhilNova

4 жыл бұрын

@@Korealife Let's do it! What ideas did you have in mind?

@barrnoneunleashed

4 жыл бұрын

This is the exact problem I'm trying to overcome, it's so hard to get out my own way and just start!

@horaciosalazargomez9488

4 жыл бұрын

I totally feel on you, man! Lots of success in your life! :)

@ShaunSurgener

4 жыл бұрын

Akhil Nova that’s wonderful man.. perspective is everything and whatever you can do to continue to give you the confidence. Glad to hear you are back at it.. let’s get it and lmk if I can ever help

@ShaunSurgener

4 жыл бұрын

The Puppet Master yea that can be the hardest part! Everything we do in life is based on pain vs pleasure neuroassociations. Until the pain of our current situation is greater the pain of change, we won’t change.. so you gotta get leverage!!

"You only have your brand, your experience, your network" - this resonated so well. 9:20

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

So trueee!!!!

The moment you rise above fear, you will learn that success has never been as easy as before. Love u Garyvee 🙏

Great interview! I loved it when Heather said she thought she had job security when she worked for someone else, but realized later the security comes when you are the boss. I tell my coworkers we don't have job security because if our company has 2 or 3 bad quarters and don't earn money, there will be layoffs.

@remidibeatz8780

4 жыл бұрын

Facts! And this was a great interview. Especially since shes older and found her way into entrepreneurship

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

Hell yeah!

Judge the Judger! Daily Positivity Energy! Thank you Gary!

@JazminBautista

4 жыл бұрын

Degung Badrun agreed! He’s always dropping value

You're changing lives Gary, hope you fully understand that. Forever grateful for finding you, and your content, and integrating that into my life.

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

gary is the man!

“Stepping into fear” and “betting on yourself”: these two ideas make me feel empowered and anxious at the same time.

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

Hell yeah! Be brave!

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

So true but makes you even more awesome

@Squeakerx

4 жыл бұрын

They should. ;)

There is no one putting out better content right now than Gary - dude is way ahead of his time.

I just did my first LinkedIn post based in this video. I could never get past the fear of posting too much, but your comment about how the algorithm s are configured based on the consumer not the one posting, finally hit me. Thanks so much for the ah-ha moment.

Hi Gary. Thank you for your inspiration. I am diagnosed with cancer today, but your speech never changes the way it encourages me. Now I have to face a different challenge, but I will keep watching your move and encouragement.

The perfectionist in me was always wanting everything to be perfect but after listening to your podcasts and your journey I’m embracing the 0 Fs mentality and I love it! I’m doing a culinary vlog and I’m out and about getting content for almost a week worth all in one day just talking to people!! Thank you for being legit and raw.

I listen to personal development every morning while I stretch and Gary has become a big part of the routine. It's just fresh and genuine. Stumbled on this video this morning and thoroughly enjoyed. Heather came across just as genuine as Gary and the real conversation from both sides resulted in several useful nuggets to carry forward with me. Thank you for the great content!

Lots of content regarding fear lately, just do the thing ! There is absolutely no harm in trying and failing, but the regret in never taking your shot and never knowing is so much greater than failing. Just make something.

@Briae

4 жыл бұрын

Trying moves the needle forward 🙌🙌

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

I just made a video on exactly what you're preaching. BE BRAVE! The fear won't ever go away.

@danielrolle2901

4 жыл бұрын

Tristan Stulce - Grow on Instagram I have no problem with this but some people just don’t have this mindset. They’re taught in school to do mountains of research to get an A. In school I realized that 80% of the things I’m learning I won’t need in the future so I was never one to aim for perfection but a lot of people think otherwise.

@bladelazoe

4 жыл бұрын

Yup, Some people never learn and wake up at 80 thinking "WTF, I was gonna do x y and z, what happened?". Last Summer was a big turning point for me, I just started tackling every fear I could and practicing shit I was bad at 100 times and BAM progress! Got my license, practiced driving, challenged myself to go on the slingshot, skysraper and then skydive. Asked some women out. Got used to failure and rejection. Pushed myself in the gym and got stronger. This part might not be for everyone but I also got in touch with an escort(Inexperience is a bitch).

Please follow your side hussle!! I'm so grateful the day I was made redundant (4 years ago), that made me start my own business and have to make it work (as a mum of 2) otherwise I would have never taken the leap.

Haters will dislike people that actually want to succed will watch and support people. PERIOD.

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

great advice. best of luck with your future

@ryanbush9897

4 жыл бұрын

Tyler Bow Hudson Appreciate it!! But I am only here to spread positivity and bless someone’s day with the slightest of advice!

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

This is so true

Great content as usual Gary. I like the “judge the judger” part. Ithink I’ve always done that

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

It really is great content

I missed 64 days of one year of middle school. Youre very relatable Gary. I often didnt feel good there.

@unmiss-com

4 жыл бұрын

The system of education is obsolete. If you gain better knowledge in other places - jump there.

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

what would you like to do?

Everybody fails, especially if you start from zero. You don't know what works and what doesn't Don't give up after failing - just continue testing. You can lose, but you can learn from your experience.

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

hell yeah!

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

So true!!!!!

@unmiss-com

4 жыл бұрын

@@jaay3283 What topics are you intrested, bro?

@unmiss-com

4 жыл бұрын

@@jesuscorona8861 Losers give up when they fail ))

"Judge the judger." Fucking amazing revolutionary life changing advice

One thing I’d hate is to see a crap-ton of Empathy Wine ads after watching Gary’s video. One thing I love is passively being reminded I wanted to order it just because it’s sitting on that table and she mentioned Chardonnay. 👍🏼👍🏼

Amen, that’s why I started to “Create” & not hesitate, we have such a short amount of time on earth, why not create content based on what you’re passionate about and keep the light in you. Starting my KZread channel in 2020 was one of the best jumps I’ve ever made🙏🏻💕Gary Vee is where it’s at for real talk🙏🏻🙏🏻💕

"The algorithm is on the side of the person that's consuming it, not on the side of the person that's posting it." Insight. Thanks Gary. Thanks Heather.

This video is super awesome. I love that Heather found her way to entrepreneurialism despite her circumstances. And the way she landed on the Elvis show, I am here for it! Just goes to show: you gotta put one foot in front of the other and keep moving!

So true, Gary! I was scared of affiliate marketing but starting it was my best decision ever. All I did was find a great tutorial and take the first step.

@connieharriger419

4 жыл бұрын

@Fidel Seamans Here you go: theninjamarketingblog.com/blog-strategy

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

hell yeah! you gotta make the first move!

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Nice! That's great to hear!

@picturerent7184

4 жыл бұрын

I have also a KZread channel where I taught people how to make money

@MagnatesMedia

4 жыл бұрын

@@picturerent7184 good luck with the channel! 😁

The fear piece right near the end hit home. Something I've been thinking a lot about after talking to a co-worker. Really has been pushing me lately and this shit hit different. Where she said she felt the fear chipping away... Man that was me.

@wealthy5702

4 жыл бұрын

Aaron Dailey never tolerate the intolerable. I wish you the best brother.

Great episode Gary! Judge the judger really stuck with me. I also loved the part where you discuss how you can always find ways to do more and grow your business, like with the twitter and search for intern. Awesome as always, thank you! Much love ❤️

Thanks you so much Gary VEEEEEE you’re the best 💖💙💚💛🧡🖤💜❤️

Really glad to hear that you assume the worst too when people reach out!

I DEEEEEEEEEPLY appreciate this. *hitsreplay ..especially about the vulnerable reach out and keeping it real. I've personally had a really hard time asking for help and not because of pride its more out of a, "am i good enough to even ask". And THATS what keeps me stuck....that im now taking ownership because its my shit not others. So its getting over my own self. Im good at being like fuck the rest, the noise... whats everyone else doing... i don't care about that, and that feels good... im the one I look at everyday, and im calling myself out. So THANKYOU to the both of you.... really effing appreciate this!! Love. ❤

Everyone: A-Z Gary: Aaron Andelson-Zack Zarlington

Gary! That is exactly!!!!! What I needed to hear! Judge the judger. Don't let anyones opinion of you override your opinion of yourself. Headed back to work after 6 weeks of being off for surgery and I have learned a great deal from you and have an entire notebook of upcoming KZread videos and ideas and have embarrassingly already started 😯😯😯. Thanks for what you do. Six weeks is a long time to collect your thoughts and redirect your focus and feel great about life. My concern has been dealing with people who are very sharp with their words....and the last two minutes of this videos is exactly what I needed. I'm very comfortable with who I am and what I am about. And! I have had the concept in my head for weeks, but you just verbalized it for me and I am super ecstatic. Thanks man!

Loved the conversation! Some great takeaways for myself as far as fear and judgement. I’ll keep you posted on how I take steps to eliminate both.

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

For real!!! :)

Judge the judger and what the market says, own it! Great advice, thanks Gary! That’s spreading love right there.

friday night hustle, thanks for the boost Lord Vayner

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

hell yeah! keep it up brother

SO GREAT INTERVIEW..

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Was great indeed

Thanks for motivating us, Gary!

Every time I watch Gary I just get so motivated

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

same! gary is the man!

@TJolley

4 жыл бұрын

Tyler Bow Hudson definitely is !!

@TJolley

4 жыл бұрын

Lycia Jontal 💯💯😄

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Right? RIGHT? :)

I think you have to be dynamic just like Gary's personality is. We get so stuck thinking we have to be one type of way, because really we think it helps other people understand us better, but it's limiting. I'm starting to see the way Gary works and have started implementing it in my own life. Being extroverted sometimes but then being introverted other times. Being loud then being quite. Being care-free then being serious af. It's only when you operate from that framework, you can start letting go of who you desperately want to hold onto. The fact is you are going to change, and you should change everyday if you want to. Fear, to get to the point of the video, requires that you change and stop holding onto your past self. We're afraid to let go of who we "think" we are. Just get over it and start becoming malleable. You've got nothing to lose if that becomes your new norm.

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree! Gary's the man!

@beerguide37

4 жыл бұрын

Adapting to the situation, to people, even to yourself. Well said.

Beautiful talk. Very powerful and enlightent woman. She picked up on all the gems Gary dropped for her.

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

So true!!!

I used have strong aversion to rejection. But I feel that the more you are devoted to something, the less you are likely to be affected by rejection. I got the feeling in a recent training. I can tell the difference between when I was asking without doing enough homework and when I was asking after I made an extra effort. It's such a good feeling of "I'm working harder than anyone and failure doesn't taste as bitter." It's counterintuitive but it's what I really feel. I want to feel like this every day for the rest of my life.

This was such a dope and inspiring interview to hear her story of losing a great corporate position to jumping into entrepreneurship at an older age. Props to her and Gary V for providing this content!💯

@HeatherMonahanOfficial

4 жыл бұрын

ReMiDi Beatz I’m so happy you liked it!

thank you for bringing Heather to your podcast.I always tought andsort of hoped to be pushed from my job to not have any other choice left but to jump in a new experience

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

This video is really helpful right

Conquering your fears sets the pathway towards success

Thanks Gary, I’ve been watching you and I can’t thank u enough. u really make sense on everything . Thank You

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

He really does do that!

Judge the judger “whew ...mind blowing “

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

True true

@jivanbansi9640

4 жыл бұрын

Get JustTaylorThings.com

@jivanbansi9640

4 жыл бұрын

Or not

this video came to me at the perfect time. This is perfect Gary not just for me but this info is great for my loved ones to share this feedback and knowledge.

Soooo true!!! I wish I started vefore I let fear get in the way. Once I learned to mess up productivity the needle started moving forward!

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

hell yeah! Be brave!!

Admit it ... Gary has a warp speed mind ... Fascinating ! But OH MY he’s blowing minds ... his content is super deep super fast

@JazminBautista

4 жыл бұрын

rick poghll I agree his perspective is unique

The last 3 minutes of this video was the most important part of the podcast

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

Thanks you so much Gary VEEEEEE you’re the best because of you’re free advice and knowledge I started my own podcast on KZread about what I love ❤️ not about what is popular ⭐️

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

he's the man!

@nobswithsb

4 жыл бұрын

Tyler Bow Hudson yes 🧡⭐️

I love the talk you had! Thanks for being awesome!

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

gary's the man!!

@DimiHard

4 жыл бұрын

@@jaay3283 He sure is!

Gary I think you are a philosopher

JUDGE THE JUDGER...THANK YOU GARY 💯

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

great advice. best of luck with your future

@gurdeepbhagat

4 жыл бұрын

@@jaay3283 thank you tyler 💯 gary rocks ❤️

Great show!

Love this interview! Lovely interviewee!

I love the conversation at the end of this video talking about others opinions. That is something I strive to do and care more about the opinions from people that know me and not put so much stock in those that don't.

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Same! I agree with you.

Incredible Gary!!! Thank you ❤

Great vid Gary, totally enjoyed it, thanks!

When it comes to haters and critical comments, always audit the source. Not every voice merits credibility and many just create mental clutter that slows your roll to success. Don’t tell me what I should do until you show me what you can do. 💪🏼💯

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

This is a really nice read!!!

Amazing! :) Thank you!

Love this bro

Tuned in

Thank you for getting mics set up and the amazing upgrade to your audio quality!

Gary, I just subscribed and liked this video. I have a lot in common with you and Heather, but, I was fired from my position due to health issues. I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia back in late 2013 and it was a huge struggle to get out of bed each day. Anyway, I grew up with the exact mindset that the two of you had; work and retire from the same company that you started with. I never knew what and "entrepreneur" was when growing up. Both my maternal grandmother and mother were entrepreneurs, one sold Avon and the other, Home Interiors. I started working when I was around 10 or 11?? babysitting, cooking, cleaning, and working for my mother, stocking items, taking inventory, putting bagging items. Overall, I was making good money for throughout my young life. I had money hidden all over my bedroom, lol. I've always wanted to follow in my grandmother's and mother's footsteps in "working for myself, so, now that I am disabled, I am forced to work for myself as I can no longer work from a work office, so, I'm building my own home office. I've been an insurance agent now for 2.5 years, hating cold calling. I'm slowly getting past the "objections". Last thing, you are absolutely right about the fear of cold calling, warm calling and so forth until you do it then it becomes easier and you laugh at how fearful you were about with individuals. I'm very empathic and humble, because I know what it's like to literally loose everything due to a disease and life long injuries incurred by being in the military. And, my parents always told me to "walk a mile" in other people's shoes. Hope this made sense. Stay safe and God Bless

This whole interview is GOLD!

Face you fears

Thank you for the motivation Gary!

@JazminBautista

4 жыл бұрын

ComfySafe agreed 🤝 he’s dropping so much value

I don't know what I am thinking while writing this but I always feel happy after seeing your content , thanks man!

Love this, beginning my Follow A New Path speaking events and nervous as shit....but...I got this!💪🏻

This may be the best content I've seen of yours. And its maybe the last thing I'm going to consume... Im trying to start posting as of tomm, well, now today, instead of consuming as much.. cheers.

Love this interview! Absolute confidence boost 😎💪🤓

Gary... life changer. Thank you.

A lot of my bigger shows I’m a bit scared of. I feel with bigger audiences I need a bit of reassurance that they are enjoying it. I love being on stage and hearing an audible cheer between tricks or jokes even when making my way on stage. It’s intimidating sometimes when an audience of 600 is quiet but after the show people run up to you and say your show is amazing. I know how to get through a show with high energy but it just feels better to flow with the show if I can hear my audience reacting to what I’m doing. The moment a crowd gets too quiet I get this stomach drop feeling and I immediately think it’s going bad when it’s not.

@unmiss-com

4 жыл бұрын

Everything comes from experience. More you on the stage - more you're confident.

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

I feel that. I learned a cool way to deal with that... Detached from the outcome. Don't worry about the result and TRUST that you will be able to create something great. Go in with the intention of just giving value and having FUN. Don't worry about their opinions and the quality until the end when you are REVIEWING your performance. I hope that could be of value to you.

@MagicofKeelanWendorf

4 жыл бұрын

SEO Tools TV I’m getting there

@MagicofKeelanWendorf

4 жыл бұрын

Tyler Bow Hudson I listen to all advice! Thank you! I just did a show over the summer and the crowd was popping then I went to St.Louis and the crowd wasn’t that all there I feel. Thank you for reaching out 🙏 always trying to excel myself on screen and in live performances!

You're awesome bro! Love the confidence you have!

Gary inspired me to face fears and do more goals in my life

Wow!!! Pure therapy!!

Judge the Judger...My grandparents would say...Consider the source. Love ya

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Fascinating yes

Great Podcast!!!

Loved this interview!!!

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Same same!!!

Looking behind the scene is a great advice. Thanks (Big Player Pen)

Love this conversation Gary!

@HeatherMonahanOfficial

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@Lacuadraboxeo.

3 жыл бұрын

@@HeatherMonahanOfficial ok heather

Gary is the man

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Yes he is!

Love this woman!

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

Expect the worse so when you get something so far off from it you will always feel like you're winning!

I felt this! When Heather said she picked out 7 dresses to decide on the ideal one to wear bc ppl will judge her based on her appearance I felt that! I feel it is extremely hard as a female to just be yourself, wear what u want say what u want and still be liked for being professional and your authentic self. A man can wear sweats and sneakers and say wtf he wants and he’s cool but if a female did that she walkie be dragged for it. I’m in the process of not letting fear paralyze me from going live and being more visual in my business. I know it’s the one thing that is stopping me from being more successful. Everyday I say I’m gonna go live then I y’all myself out of it bc my hair isn’t perfect or my neck looks too fat on camera 😩😩😩. I’m working on it tho. Amazing vid I love and respect you Gary and now love Heather thanks for being authentic Heather 👏🏽✨

BIG LOVE MY G

First heard of Gary Vee first half of 2019. Just heard of Heather Monahan today, 11/24/2019.

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

Hey Gary! This was a great podcast episode, really learned a lot about asking people and being comfortable with myself. It would be cool to get someone like John Mackey on the podcast. He has a very interesting story and has a big personality

Damn I think I'm falling in love with this man's world

Thank you.

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

Thanking him too

I really wanted to hear the rest of her story about the choice between the two memos. I wish you had let her finish her thought and let her speak.

@ShaunSurgener

4 жыл бұрын

Exalt Video yea it was really interesting!!

Thank you. I hope you have a great day.

Don't worry too much about what other people think because chances are they aren't thinking what you're worried are, focus on yourself and screw others ✌️

Good stuff! Vulnerability Is an asset, only if you learn to leverage it! Growth lies past that divides comfort from fear...

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree! Gary's the man!

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

You put it perfectly

I was able to quit my job as a pharmacy tech after 7 months doing affiliate marketing. People dont realize you can do this for free. It was the best decision I ever made!

@airlebron7467

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

Holy cow heather is amazingly well spoken and strong plus gorgoeus! Thanks for this video in 2020!!!

@jesuscorona8861

4 жыл бұрын

I definitely agree! 👍

True like that !

**RESPECT GARY** From the tears to the cheers #chrispalmerseo

@jaay3283

4 жыл бұрын

hell yeah!

@chris-palmer

4 жыл бұрын

@@jaay3283 yES SIR !