Just going to say it, it's much easier to pack in a carry-on when you're a size 0 influencer and all your clothes are tiny and you're going to a warm climate. Also if all you're doing is walking around and touristy things. If you do any kind of outdoor stuff, or don't wear the smallest clothing, or you need warm clothes, your suitcase will get heavier very quickly.

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

💯

@isleeptillnoon5256

3 ай бұрын

Actually not that hard, you just have to be mindful of the material of clothing you wear. I stick to light but warm materials like merino wool, cashmere, alpaca, linen, viscose/modal, down, moisture wicking synthetics, typically no cottons unless it's voile fabric. These either don't need to be washed often or are super quick drying. I also wear multi use items and focus on accessories to give my outfits a little something something. All my heavy items I wear to the airport and divest them once I go through checkin.

@liztomelden9673

3 ай бұрын

Ditto! I’m a size 4 and most of my clothes are small and can fit in a monos. I’ve also invested in high quality material so that I can stay cool in warmer climates. I tend to stay away from cold countries. LOL

@xqueenfrostine

3 ай бұрын

It’s definitely harder when you’re bigger but it can be done. I’m a size 24 and did 2 weeks in Spain last November carryon only. It did involve either washing/febreezing and rewearing some items (though not as many as you’d think, I managed to fit 10 tops, 4 bottoms, 3 bras and a weeks worth of socks and panties into one side of my Beis carryon). If I had decided not to bring an extra pair of shoes and less makeup or if I had gone to the max with my personal item instead of just bringing a large purse, I might have been able squeeze in enough extra clothes to have avoided most of my rewearing. Lauren from the channel It’s the Kellys is a size 18 and travels exclusively out of a carryon, even when she travels to cold destinations. Her packing videos are great to get ideas on how to pack light as a plus sized woman. That said, I’m much less concerned about weight as I tend to fly a US airline to Europe and then take the train once I’m there so that does make it easier. I also travel with minimal tech. The most I bring with me is an iPad, but honestly I’ve started questioning the wisdom of even bringing that when I spend way more time with my phone.

@whimsical_flower

3 ай бұрын

The climate you’re traveling to makes the biggest difference. If your packing shorts and tanks, no matter what your size, it’s going to take up less room that sweaters as and scarves. When I travelled to Europe this fall, I had such a hard time finding packing videos for cooler weather. They all packing for warm times of the year and tropical destinations.

“What’s the point of even existing if you have to live that joylessly” 😂

“They are lying to you.” THANK YOU!!! 🙌 Yes, finally somebody said it….! 🌟

@carableu

2 ай бұрын

Finally!!!

I love how real you are. As a big girl, its frustrating to watch all the "pack with me" videos from tiny ladies who can literally fit thier whole wardrobe in a carry on.

I live in Europe and fly carry-on only all the time with airlines that have a 7kg weight limit. I don't think they have ever weighed my bag. I have, however, had it weighed in the US and Asia. I usually take the largest possible personal item and try to put my heaviest items in it because they rarely weigh that. But, I think the real "key" is to ACT like your bag is light. When you handle it or pick it up, pretend like it weighs nothing. Sometimes I will throw it around a bit in front of the people who look at the bags to make it look lighter than it is. Works every time for me because it is almost always overweight (sometimes significantly).

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

😂 it sounds funny, but that’s really a great idea. I’ll try it next time I fly

@_brandixx

3 ай бұрын

🤣🤣 love this advice

@aldonastraczek

3 ай бұрын

I used to live between Paris and Copenhagen and AF never put any carry on on a scale however, during super busy periods airlines such as Norwegian would systematically weighed the bags.

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

It’s funny you mention AF. They were my first experience with having my bag weighed (flying out of CDG heading back to the states). It has scarred me from flying on them since they combined the weight of my carryon and personal item. But I might try them again if you’re saying that’s not common practice

@aldonastraczek

3 ай бұрын

@@FlirtingWithTravel it's probably because of your suitcase. I usually have my samsonite and just a small handbag and they do indeed tend to weigh bags that are overpacked and / or oversized.

This was so real-I did a ‘rehearse’ packing a few months back to try the carry on only method. I did manage to do it, but it was so stressful and in the end I was like f*** it…I’ll check one bag and bring a small carryon with me with my toiletries and a change of clothes in case my luggage gets lost-just wasn’t worth the stress and aggravation.

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

Absolutely👏🏾 check it and reduce all the stress

@notoriousMAG

3 ай бұрын

Plus room for souvenirs 😉

@suzanneakerley1354

3 ай бұрын

I do this now also, I cant lift a carryon into an overhead compartment. Also need meds to in my personal item and a small handbag for when I arrive.

@VBoo459

24 күн бұрын

Yeah until perhaps your luggage does get lost or stolen. It’s the worst.

@sarahboulter9937

3 күн бұрын

Preaching to the choir ❤😂

I watch a lot of packing videos and it's usually capsule wardrobes for skinny people and one piece of tech. This was so honest a real it doesn't seem real to be able to travel with one bag

We've been there during our 1-bag-carry on-only journey. My longest (6weeks) travel in 11 countries and 9 flights with 5 airlines, so I had to fly with the requirements from the airline with the smallest size and lowest allowance. So many people have already given great tips. For me, I would add that i had a breakthrough when I listed the packed items with their weight (a spreadsheet). The spreadsheet was initially slow to compile, but it's been the most useful (for me) first thing I do when packing. In the spreadsheet I highlight the most valuable items, and then I go through a process of elimination untill I get to the needed weight. It takes the 'emotion' out of packing for me. I've been traveling for 10 years with 1 bag only (with some exceptions) and it is a stress free way to travel. Good luck in your journey! We all have different needs when we travel!

@rachelp3245

3 ай бұрын

@elmiaugremling What a great idea! I’ve never thought to weigh every item and put it into a spreadsheet.

@NewtonMAmom

3 ай бұрын

I do the same - the spreadsheet really helps. I'm going to Paris for 8 days next week and only using an under the seat bag - this includes my 5 lb CPAP machine in it because I'm rooming with someone not my husband. Layering is key and wearing the heaviest items on the plane. I bring laundry sheets and wash underwear every few days. Merino wool socks can go 10 times without washing. I just bring 2 pairs and wear my compression socks. If I'm over weight, I put a few small heavy items in my coat pocket (like external battery, toiletries, or kindle, etc) and later just put it into my bag. I do a dry run at home using my travel toiletries and only take 2 more days worth of toiletries at the most. I bought assorted lightweight containers from Amazon (they have held up well). Even for my leave in conditioner that I need only a pea size amount, I just squeeze a little in a snack sized zip lock bag. every ounce counts. I've done 6+ weeks in Europe with only a regular sized carry on back pack and no personal item (stuffed in the backpack for later use). As an older plus size woman, I normally keep my backpacks to less than 15 lbs.

@nuvoclassic

2 ай бұрын

Now why didn't i think of thaT? Adding the weight of each item to my spreadsheet that I've been using for decades!? duh! tfs! love your tip!!!!

@kathrynhiggins9227

2 ай бұрын

A CPAP is a medical device that shouldn’t count in your weight limit…

@MNP208

2 ай бұрын

Tell me you’re doing laundry if you travel that long.

Check out the laundry sheets because they not only are lightweight but you can tear off only what you need to use. I have been using Tru Earth for years and they dissolve without leaving any residue.

@truepeacenik

3 ай бұрын

I respect laundry sheets. I cut into quarters, pop in a snack sized ziplock bag. Same-sized bag gets glycolic acid peel pads.

I absolutely love the realism in this video! Watch a million videos prior to my trip next week and this one was the best one so far!

@PatriciaCooksey-wr8hd

2 ай бұрын

I like the realistic packing process. I would suggest that cleaning up the language would give a more respectful presentation.

As a flight attendant my off duty travel suitcase is a delsey. Hard case to protect but very light. I carry a book bag for all my tech, and a compression cube with one days worth of clothes and my toiletry bag and tech items. I use a small crossbody nurse/sling that can fit my book bag if needed but most of the time they don’t say anything. I definitely carry more stuff than you I just use lighter bags.

@bcloetta

3 ай бұрын

We might have the same bag. I love it. And I pack the same..large “purse” bag that holds toiletries and electronics. Some airports do weigh at gate for carry on😱. I go carry on with the two bags, and have never been stopped.

@jenb.1889

3 ай бұрын

Hi! I’m a flight attendant as well. I’m in need of a off duty suitcase. What model delsey do you have and what backpack do you use? I’m still learning how to pack efficiently as a new flight attendant.

@JoannePage-bm9hs

3 ай бұрын

What crossbody bag are you using. Mine is too small and looking for a change.

@cricketcrigler

3 ай бұрын

I never thought of the weight of the carry on!! Thank you for pointing that out. ALSO, thank you for going through the process of repacking and weighing.

@Oceangirl1234

3 ай бұрын

@@cricketcrigler I have one of those things at home that you just put the suitcase on to weigh it

I would cut jeans, fleece lined pants, and thick chunky sweaters. Take up too much space and weight. Replace with thinner options made from a merino wool for warmth and less weight or thinner materials with base layers underneath (like heattech from Uniqlo) Add down jacket, coat, or vest they weight nothing but are so warm. For shoes it will change your aesthetic, but swap out leather sneakers for lightweight trainers. I had some tree runners from allbirds that were so light, but you can any light running shoe.

Thank you for sharing your honest frustrations with the weight restriction. You were quite funny! I have friends who mock me because I usually have to check a bag. It just isn't fun travelling if you have to wear the same clothes over and over. I don't mind doing laundry but I have encountered a lack of laundry facilities where there was supposed to be some, malfunctioning machines (a dryer that did not dry anything), etc. I would add my endorsement to the laundry strips. Light as a feather and they do work. PS you did not mention undergarments!! I hope there was room for them! LOL

This was such a wonderful and SUCCESSFUL packing video! It was great to see your process. It was great you showing all your considerations and all the pivoting you had to do to make it work. Even your frustrated cursing was great to see :-) I agree that the weight of the bag itself and the other smaller bags is the number one consideration. I just did 2 weeks in Europe with a backpack and I'll never go back. Traveling lighter is now an obsession. My tips are: 1. Bare minimum toiletries in the lightest weight containers (I'm talking ziploc bag light) Anything you can buy at your destination, like sunscreen and soap, just do that instead. 2. Lightweight shoes (I had two pairs in my backpack but they were very light) 3. Maximize that personal item (which you did, but I was waiting the whole video for you to get to it, lol) 4. Minimize the tech (you don't travel to be on your computer for hours, ditch the extra one. Same goes for extra tablets, chargers, smart devices, etc.) 5. Don't pack ANY just-in-case items. If it's not likely to come up, it's not worth bringing. And if you need it, it should be easy to find at your destination. 6. Laundry strips for sink laundry. Washing up undies, socks and undershirts in the sink was an absolute game-changer! Bring a small clothesline to airdry and you're golden! Happy travels!

@FlirtingWithTravel

4 ай бұрын

love Love LOVE these tips!! Thank you for sharing

@tracya.5908

3 ай бұрын

#5 is real. I’m regretting being a whole bunch of just-in-case items on my trip.

@realDianaRose

3 ай бұрын

#1 is so true! And seriously if you're flying from the US to anywhere else and would normally bring sunblock - just buy sunblock. Every country has better sunblock than we do, the US hasn't allowed new formulas in decades and I'm at the point where I want to bring a whole suitcase with me just to bring home sunblock because it's so much better everywhere else (think transparent, extra protection, smells good, and doesn't break you out everywhere)

@juliepoolie5494

3 ай бұрын

@@realDianaRose And a heck of a lot cheaper! My daughter is in Spain and she found the isdin brand face sunscreen for $25. It’s $75 in the states!

@Elemalele

3 ай бұрын

What about undergarments?

Great packing. But we are allowed one carry-on and a personal item or small bag. You can put your laptop, tech accessories, docu, and purse in a personal bag. Your clothes and toiletries in a luggage or backpack. I've done it when I went on a Europe trip recently with just that.

An idea is to get a jacket that has inside pockets you could load with things like technology items or toiletries.

@RymVri108

3 ай бұрын

I second this! I have a denim jacket and the inside pocket can fit a tablet. Or a family-size bag of trail mix. Or a small, furry animal.

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

Haha, we might need the story behind knowing a small furry animal fits in the pocket 🤣. I’ve been recommended the Scottevest and might need to get serious about it.

@sally3570

3 ай бұрын

Exactly! I bought a Scotty vest for this reason. It has a million pockets and fits an iPad!

@auntlynnie

2 ай бұрын

@@FlirtingWithTravel I have a Baubax 3.0 jacket. I’m around a size 20 women’s clothing and wear their men’s 2X. It has amazing pockets. I carry my wallet in the zippered pocket, my phone and kindle in the inside slip pockets, and there are so many more pockets that I don’t even use!

Thank you for sharing. I have always felt that some content creators were not being honest about how they fit a month’s worth of clothes in a carry on bag.

@susie9893

3 ай бұрын

I've recently done 6 weeks in Canada in winter carryon only. It's doable, just gotta pack smart AND know what the airlines DON'T count in the restrictions

I watched a video by Sarah murdoch. She is affiliated with Rick Steve's. It is 1 hour 13 minute presentation she did 7 years ago. What she does is goes into the bathroom and puts everything on, no joke. After she gets weighed, she will go back and remove everything and repack it in her backpack. She only travels with a tiny backpack and even carries a pillow. Btw, pillows dont count as luggage, so alot of people will stuff a pillow case with clothes. Also, hiding a smaller backpack on your front or a larger fanny pack under an over size hoodie i have seen done as well.

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

Haha, I’m just imagining walking up to the counter like Joey from Friends when he put on all of Chandler’s clothes. But whatever works!

@cjkathe

3 ай бұрын

I love the video where Sarah weighs her clothes piece by piece. Silk weighs less. Her underwear is hilariously thin but weighs nothing. Check out her tips. She’s 6’ tall and packs as a tour guide in a small bag. Crazy cool.

@blackanne

Ай бұрын

Some Airlines figured out the pillow trick and are not checking whether it's actually a pillow or pillowcase stuffed with clothes.

I love this video, this is way better than anything YT has suggested in the last week. Just a quick scarf hack: search for one scarf that has different patterns and different colours. My scarf looks like four different scarves, depending on how I fold it.

@nuvoclassic

2 ай бұрын

I agree with you - I always buy one multi-patterned scarf as trip souvenir. amazon has inexpensive scarves/shawls too. tfs!

@llamasugar5478

Ай бұрын

That’s a great idea! Also, a reversible jacket is nice to avoid the samey-samey rut.

As toiletries are often the heaviest part of packing, and liquids have to go through security anyway, I put mine in my small backpack which I use as a personal item.

I enjoyed your video. I'm also a plus size woman who enjoys travelling too but whenever I look out for videos with packing tips, the ladies are always thin and petite (which is okay but the tips most of the time doesn't apply to my needs 😅). It's great to know that I'm not the only one who has to sacrifice some clothes and items to fit the airlines standards, still I think that those companies are just trying figure out more ways for people to eventually only carry a passport.

@susie9893

3 ай бұрын

Yeah I remember seeing an interview of Kylie Minogue and she mentioned how much easier it is for her to travel compared to all her friends. Bcos she's so tiny says she can pack an endless amount of outfits and still be carrying far less than all her friends. See DN Danie for practical tips for minimal travel for plus size women

Here in Asia the carry-on weight limit is often 7kg (15.4 lbs) per person. It's hard to pack within that! I can pack my backpack with tech, toiletries, and other essentials at 7kg. But then I need a separate bag for clothes. The only way I can make it work is by taking my toddler's weight allotment. 🌸Heidi

@fofita17

3 ай бұрын

Do they weigh your carry-ons before getting on the plane?

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

I’ve had it happen at different times. Flying Emirates out of EWR they weighed at the ticket counter (I couldn’t get a mobile boarding pass). Out of JFK on Swiss Air, the weighed at the ticket counter. On Air France in Paris they weighed my bag in the line for security. And extra fun, Air France uses a combined weight of carry on and personal item so there’s no shifting things around to sneak extra weight in bags.

@KenshoQuest

3 ай бұрын

@@fofita17 Yes, we’ve had our carry-on bags weighed by Air Asia, Philippine Airlines, and Peach. Sometimes it’s at check in and sometimes it’s at the gate before getting on the airplane.

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

At the gate too!?! Just when you feel you’re free and clear? Is nothing sacred anymore? But thanks for naming airlines, I know to be on the lookout. I got lucky with Cathay Pacific and Thai Airways not weighing bags

In Australia, we've always had to deal with weight restrictions whether we're travelling domestically or internationally, the majority being a 7 kg weight limit. The key is taking a leaf from the ultralight hiking community, primarily cutting weight from your one heaviest item, your bag. I use an ultralight hiking backpack which has a 40 litre volume and weighs 800 gms (the Durston Kakwa) bonus it's also a thousand times more comfortable to carry than actual travel backpacks. If I'm using a suitcase, it will be a Samsonite (c-lite or the 72 hr range) which has the lightest rolling luggage on the market at 1.2 kgs. They can be pricey but because I travel a lot, it's worth the investment for my convenience and peace of mind. Also taking a leaf from the ultralight hiking community, I wear mostly merino clothing items on the layers closest to my skin. Merino doesn't absorb odours so I don't need to bring as many clothes. Still with the ultralight mindset, I use ziplock bags for my organisation, so make up in one, toiletries in the other, tech in another. Speaking of toiletries, I decant all my liquids for my skincare into 30 ml bottles and my creams into a contact lens container, I find 30 mls is more than enough for up to a months travel for each step of my skincare routine. Hair care and body wash are usually provided by my accommodation so I never pack those in, or I buy at my destination. For make-up, I use products that are multi purpose, ie. Lipsticks that I can use as blush, using a concealer as my foundation (travel size Tarte Shape Tape), a quad eyeshadow that has a shade that I can use as an eye liner, etc. If I have to bring technology, I ditched the lap top and use a small tablet instead. However these days, my phone is more than enough for my needs. But I am a leisure traveller, not a work traveller. I also use the Nitecore power bank which is one of the lightest in the market. Other things I bring to shave off weight, a single use plastic water bottle (typically Smart 1ltr bottle which I can use for months before I throw it out) instead of a dedicated water bottle. Uniqlo nylon cross body bags, super capacious and ultralight, nylon folding walletc(I'm a fan of the nylon bill folds from Muji) instead of large bulky leather wallets. A compact shopping bag/tote so I can separate some stuff that I need with me on the flight once I go through security instead of having to go to the overhead bins all the time to retrieve stuff. I also use it to hang my toiletries where I need to when using the bathrooms. Ear buds instead of over ear headphones. Ultralight hiking umbrella instead of a regular one. I wear all my heaviest clothing items at the airport until I get through either the check-in counter or in the case of if I'm travelling with Jetstar who weigh carry-on at the boarding gate, until after I board. Typically clothing wise, I pack one merino tshirt, chambray or white merini shirt and a merino vest/singlet which the latter is also my sleeping pyjamas or a thermal insulating layer. One or two mid layers depending on the climate, either a down vest, knitted vest or a merino/cashmere/alpaca sweater or a cardigan. One dress that can also be used as a skirt layered under my top and can be dressed up or down. 2 or 3 pair of pants ie. Merino joggers/leggings which I can also wear as pj bottoms or in the case of leggings, an insulating layer under my other pants/dress/skirt, 1 pair of jeans (sometimes) and one smarter looking pants, either in wool or linen depending on the season. For the top layer Two jackets/coats, wearing the heaviest on the plane. 5 days worth of underwear in modal fabric which is superlight and quick drying, 2-3 pair of merino socks, one of which are compression socks. One merino bike shorts, which I use for anti chub rub or as pj bottoms. Two pairs of shoes which vary depending on climate. One giant cashmere or wool scarf which doubles as a blanket or if I'm travelling to warmer climates, I bring a sarong instead which has a million uses. Because I'm so minimal with my clothing choices, it's the accessories I bring which change up my looks. Accessories typically don't weigh as much as clothing items.

@christinae30

3 ай бұрын

Very well said! Agree that the bag is the first to look at!

@SK-tk6yh

3 ай бұрын

Makes so much sense!

@4229819

3 ай бұрын

This was an epic amount of advice. Thank you!!

@susie9893

3 ай бұрын

So true. If I can leave behind PJs I will. Bike shorts have become my short replacements - infinitely lighter than denim shorts but also other shorts. I've become a fan of tunic dresses and shirt dresses for extreme versatility - layering potential increases exponentially. Oh and instead of packing cubes I've taken to using good quality delicates bags. Can still get some compression happening, still organisational AND you have some delicates bags if you have access to a washing machine at any point on the trip. It's a win

@katidid121082

2 ай бұрын

The amount of info in your comment here is more than many travel videos contain, and it's all excellent advice!

I’m convinced the reason they limit the weight is to force many people to check their bag(s). The size limit is obvious (those overhead bins are only so big), but weight feels like a money grab when other airlines have no problems with heavier bags. I feel you on your frustration. I know just how you feel. I’m going on a cruise to Iceland and Norway next year (yep, booked last May!). It will be my first time outside Canada and the US since 1991. 😮

@nataliestevens1225

3 ай бұрын

Weight is a safety limit mostly - bags shouldn't be so heavy that flight attendants/the average person can't safely lift above their head. And there's a risk of bags falling out and hurting people in extreme turbulence. Weight on the plane also adds to fuel requirements, though that applies everywhere not just cabin bags.

Travel around Europe is definitely a pain thus you have to be creative. My trick is using a travel pillow to stuff some clothing, also I use a money belt under my shirt stuff with a few items. Another trick is using Duty free plastic bag for my hats scarf &umbrella. This bag is not consider luggage

Thank you!! Finally, someone is being real about the weight of our bags! Air Asia limit is only 7KG and that includes personal item!

***Hun, just subbed. You make so much sense. I appreciate observing someone who looks like myself. I was fed up looking at stick women KZreadrs - who wear baby size clothes that could all fit in a tinny, tiny, minute, microscopic toilet bag! Watching a luscious lady talk and walk real-life travel commonsense is worth my time watching. My time is precious. 🇬🇧🕊👑✝️👑🕊🇬🇧****

Yes! I watched so many “packing light” videos before my trip to the south of France this past June, and pretty much all of them used bags that far exceeded size and weight restrictions for European airlines. The personal bag allowance for my carrier (Lufthansa) was 11.8” x. 15.7” x 3.9” (no weight was stated) and carry on’s were limited to 21.6” x 15.7” x 9” and 17.6 pounds. Right off the bat, none of my many carry on rolling suitcases (including the one I used on my previous flight to France on United a few years ago) met the size requirements. So I ended up buying a smaller roller carry on. And like you, I hit the weight limit packing just 2/3rds full with just clothes and one pair of shoes. But all the videos I watched to prepare for my trip had people packing huge carry ones and ginormous personal item bags. Some of the personal item bags even exceeded the carry on size dimensions for European airlines. And I am very glad I bought one of those luggage scales, because the Lufthansa check in agent weighed it at a check in, and I was under the limit.

Great video! A travel tip/hack is using a stuffable travel neck pillow (an easy DIY project or buy them online). I've been using a carry-on backpack for over a decade. It works great and knowing your bag was not lost by the airline is even better🙂

I use ziplock bags for my toiletries & power cords/phone chargers … Wear your heaviest clothes/shoes on the plane, only pack as light as possible (ballerina flats, light sandals, light work out T-shirts, light travel pants …). My son & I, we had passed the 7kg limit baggage when we used Air Asia from Kuala Lumpur to Vietnam. They actually weighted our luggage right at the plane entrance! Since I always get cold on the plane, I wear layers of clothes (1 tank & 1 T-shirt underneath my hoodie, 1 capri leggings under my pants + 1 heavy jacket/coat, thick socks & heaviest shoes - voilà, at destination you can re-use those extra layers of clothes …).

@nuvoclassic

2 ай бұрын

Like you, I prefer to 'wear' my clothes rather than struggle to pack them. But I have a casual retired lifestyle.... So wearing clothes works great for me.

OMG I’m soooo happy KZread recommended me your channel. I immediately subscribed. This is amazing. I haven’t traveled since 1997 via airplane. We’re planning a couple of trips within the next couple of years. One to NYC to visit family. One to London to visit friends, and my daughter’s 15s and 16s she wants to go to Italy/Greece and Japan. This video is extremely helpful as everything has changed. I remember I didn’t have to deal with weight. I also could travel with full size products if I wanted to. I’ve been watching so many videos just to make sure I’m up to date with all the changes.

I enjoy travel, I'm not trying to stress myself out playing packing Tetris and I want to have the things I like with me while still leaving pounds available for the groceries I always bring back. I hate spending money on things I have at home. By the time i buy pajamas, toiletries in Europe, etc...I might as well pay the checked bag fee. If I'm not feeling well - the last thing I want to do is go shopping for meds, I want go take what I brought and rest. I keep valuables with me in my carry on and travel insurance is a necessity these days so if they lose my bag, it's covered...

I love how honest and real you are, thank you so much for making this video!

I steer clear of the hardside suitcases when carrying on as they typically are heavier than if you got a fabric/softside. Also I find it gives more when packing. I would purchase some of the items when I get to my destination such a laundry soap, toothpaste deodorant etc . I stick with a neutral color black, navy or tan/beige then i can mix/max with less items and a pop of color or accessories. Keep the scarfs, green sweater over the black sweater. I would have worn one of the scarfs on the plane. A crossbody bag over a tote I think it would be easier to manage/travel with a having to also carry the big backpack.

@missmayflower

3 ай бұрын

My hard side is way lighter than any fabric suitcase. The fact that the fabric gives tempts you to pack overweight. I avoid compression packing cubes for the same reason. A small daypack for personal item allows you to be hands free and stays on your shoulders unlike an awkward tote bag.

Yeah, been there, done that. I have been weighed on every flight to Europe, Africa and usually to South America. I have never been to Asia, so I can’t speak there. It is hard AF to pack only in a carry on for a trip this length without going overweight, especially in the winter. I think you did a fantastic job! I love all your tips and I love that this was a process video that showed your logic for how you made choices. My travel is a smidge easier because I wouldn’t have taken a laptop at all; however, I do travel with an iPad Pro and a hotspot from Solis, which is no lightweight. I also use one charging block that works for several different devices from Anker; I rotate items for charging over a couple of hours if I need to. If I have enough weight allowance, I take the one that actually has a battery pack inside of it, too. I always buy shampoo/conditioner when I get in country (I have very long hair but find the hotel size is enough to get me by in a pinch until I can buy a bigger bottle). I love going into grocery stores and pharmacies in other countries, so this is a fun excuse to head into them. Another tip that I think was embedded but wasn’t said out loud what only bringing 1 bra and about 3-4 pairs of underwear. If you have a bit of powdered soap or a cut up laundry sheet, you can wash these in your hotel sink and dry them over night. Since menstrual cups have hit the market, they are a complete game changer for travel! I started using one in 1999 and never looked back (thankfully, I am now past the need…). I agree wholeheartedly on travel small, pack smart. Scarves are awesome accessories. Don’t forget silk scarves and cashmere either… they both can be surprisingly warm as well as incredibly lightweight. I also encourage bringing a super lightweight foldable backpack or duffel. Yes, you can use this on the trip, but I typically have it for the return trip home. I check my main bag then because I don’t need to worry as much about it arriving on time, but I can still use the lightweight backpack for my carryon on the plane ride back for my electronics and gifts that I might have purchased while traveling. Thanks for such a wonderful, informative video.

guuurl i LOVE YOU the "pardon my language" after the amount of laundry to do 13 mins in killed me! I instantly hit subscribe after that

You are forgetting the biggest hack. Get a coat with big, zipped pockets - put your heaviest things in there. Wear your heaviest/bulkiest items and multiple layer them. You are just going thru the security part; you can repack your bags once past security. Bring silky thin blouses (packs small and dries quickly for handwashing) Also, skip the bulky knitted sweaters/hat and get a fashionable microfleece for the layering layer.

Curvy girl clothing plus heavy luggage immediately rings warning bells when it comes to packing challenges.

Yep, I will never be able to travel that light, lol. Checked bag it is! ✨😂 You did a great job demonstrating how to fit it all in!

I’ve traveled several times with just a backpack. In my experience, they never weigh your backpack. I think as long as it’s not a massive bag, they don’t even bother. You have the right idea of using the tote bag for a personal item. I have a large cotton tote that I use that holds a ton but looks chill. Leaves room for souvenirs!

traveling to New Zealand in a few days. I've watched so many videos on packing and yours is quite refreshing. What you have not addressed is souvenirs. I like buying them as I don't travel very often. I'm a senior so back packs are out of the question. But you have given me some good ideas

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

Honestly, bring an extra canvas bag that zips down, on the way back, you can put your new souvenirs into the bag and just check your suitcase since you’re headed home

@isleeptillnoon5256

3 ай бұрын

Look at ultralight hiking backpacks. Especially the ones with a frame and hip belt. My recommendation for travel is the Durston Kakwa 40l in small which fits all carryon size restrictions and weighs 800 grams. These style backpack distributes the weight to your hips instead of shoulders only so things feel lighter when in reality it's not. If you really want to go the cabin suitcase route, samsonite has the lightest on the market with the 72 hour models and the c-lite ones. Also look into bringing a utility jacket. These typically have lots of pockets, so you can put a lot of stuff in them which you wear until you get past checkin.

@nuvoclassic

2 ай бұрын

I'm a senior - and have used backpacks since my 20's! Love being 'hands free'!

You definitely need one of those travel pillows that you stuff with your clothes! You can also put heavier small items in you coat pockets, like laptop chargers.

I can relate so much :) Trying and testing... Tetris 😅 I am a bigger girl too, so clothes alone are a bit heavier. But what helped me was, that I usually buy every day items in the country I go to. (If it is a big city at least). And I always bring slippers for the shower. They are very light, but then I am in no danger of getting athlete's foot.

If you are packing for the photos it probably will be impossible - try all black plus accessories like a cashmere cardigan, marino wool pullover, silk scarves, a linen jacket, in colours you love. 5 tops 4 bottoms (or a dress) 3 layers 2 shoes 1 belt, etc.

Thank you!!!! I thought I am crazy for not being able to fit 2 weeks in Carry on! This is the real deal! 😊

Pausing video to say that I love how realistic this is. Love how you showed your process

Since I often stay in hostels that doesn't provide body wash and shampoo, I'll have the bring my own. I travel with body soap bar, facial soap bar, solid shampoo and solid conditioner. They don't weigh much, takes up little space and they last forever! I don't have to travel with laptop, so that would save me quite a fair bit of weight. I just travel 3 weeks in New Zealand with only 7kg of carry-on backpack!

Were you trying to only pack one bag? I travel with a personal item too, and pack, tech, toiletries and one set of clothes in there,and that reduces weight in my carry on.. amber you already do that? Not sure if that is helpful.And ..I always start With the lightest bag I can …I am also a bit limited in that I can longer carry a backpack ..loved this refreshing video…

I tried to pack carry on for a cold weather cruise. I gave up and checked a bag for the flight. I tend to pack a buff to use as a scarf rather then a big bulky scarf.

Yasss! This video is the real deal. Thanks for capturing the angst I have with EVERY trip!

One tip for toiletries for space and weight, is for my facial cleansers and liquids. I usually put those cotton rounds in a ziplock bag and then lightly soak those with the cleanser. zip the bag and throw it in. They will stay moist for 7-10 days. I also go to the make up and perfume counters and ask for samples.

1 pair of socks? And I guess 1 bra too? Underwear? With your toiletries you're putting a bag in a bag which just adds weight. Just use ziplocs. I'm an adamant carry-on only traveler and I even managed to take a 3 week expedition cruise to Antarctica with only a carry-on and personal item. I flew Aerolinas Argentinas so I had a 22 lb. limit for the carry-on and about 6.5 for the personal item. Now keep in mind I had to bring insulated and waterproof snow clothing. I was able to stick to the weight limit by using the REI packable duffle in the 50 liter size (it's discontinued, but you can just under pack the 60 liter or they also offer a 40 liter...the 50 liter was just max carry-on dimensions when fully packed). It only weighs 9 ounces when empty! The replacements I mentioned each weigh about 1 lb. I won't go into my slightly overweight personal item as they let it slide which was great since I needed a heavy duty waterproof pack since it was going on wet zodiac rides and getting set in the snow a lot. I was able to fit 4 very packed medium Eagle Creek spectre compression packing cubes into the 50 liter REI bag. I even brought an extra of the 50 liter bags to check coming home (believe it or not there's a gift shop in Antarctica at Port Lockroy and I spent generously!). Now full disclosure, carrying a flimsy 22lb duffel bag on my shoulder wasn't pleasant, but it did allow me to be certain I wouldn't have to check my bag. Also, for long trips I usually just buy toiletries when I get there and dispose of them before I leave.

I bought a bag that is just fabric and fits under seats. It weighs like nothing. It doesn't have wheels, though. Buy an umbrella when you get there.

I appreciate your honesty and genuine struggles. I am going through exact same thing. You are doing great!

This is so real! Thank you for this, the stress is real. Honestly, airlines are discouraging carryon usage so we gotta check our shit. You aren’t crazy, it’s just not possible.

I’m a U.S. size 10-12 and I pack for about 2-3 weeks in my 40L backpack. I wear my thicker shoes or boots on the flight and pack one lighter pair of shoes. In the winter I wear into the plane my heavy leather jacket, my hoodie, and my scarf because it gets so cold on the plan anyway so that does make space in the bag. I’ll wear my thicker jeans or leggings on the plane and pack a lighter jean and extra leggings in the bag. I will say I have curly hair so that is one product I bring extra of, but I really use very squishy containers for the few toiletries I have. I don’t buy the “travel size” products because the containers are weird shaped and don’t compress well. The ones I’m using I got on Amazon and have been on many trips. I take minimal makeup too. I don’t do too much editing but I use my iPad Pro or just my iPhone pro to save space. Normally I have my personal item too but just use a small crossbody to go because some flights only let you have the one bag. But on the way home this summer I used my large Le Pliage bag that I keep packed in my backpack for any souvenirs I bring or if the bag is a bit heavy so I don’t need to check the bag on my return 😅.

This is a very true carry on only video I have ever watched!! I have always checked a bag and never lost my luggage.

I did 4 weeks in Europe a year ago in the winter and we did carry on only. I am a size Large/14. Not a size 0. It did require a lot of planning. The first step is to find out the size and weight requirements for both your personal item and your carry-on. You need this info for each airline you are flying on. You will need a luggage scale (they are inexpensive) and an Oxo kitchen scale. The importance of lightweight, but warm layering cannot be overstated! I used an Oxo kitchen scale to weigh each item I was thinking about bringing and lined up, by weight each top, each bottom, each layering piece, each pair of shoes, etc. I selected each type of item based on weight and versatility. We mapped out where the laundromats were at each location, and picked hotels somewhat based on them being walkable to a good laundromat. We did laundry about once a week. We also used a dry bag and a super thin lightweight clothesline for hand washing socks, underwear more regularly. Also, don’t bring your own shampoo, etc. Use what is provided by hotels, and/or buy certain items when you get there. Visited 7 cities in 3 countries. Best vacation ever.

I’ve never flown internationally and I will for the first time in a few months. These are great tips, but if I fail I’ll just check the bag 🥴

@FlirtingWithTravel

4 ай бұрын

You’re going to have a great experience!! If I had to go through my bag getting lost experience again, I wish I would have packed my toothbrush, extra pair of underwear, and a sleep shirt in my personal item just to make things a little easier.

@nuvoclassic

2 ай бұрын

On one of my first international WORK trips , my luggage got lost. So I never check luggage anymore - and always carry extra clothes in my personal bag [i.e. PJs - if I'm not wearing 'lounge outfit', swimsuit/sarong/sandals, top, bottom, undies, shower cap]. Plus something to read and write in - usually my diary...and my handheld electronic Sudoku...

That was so awesome and honest!!! I love it!! Really great tips, too! I'm headed to UK in March and I was like....oh dear. So much rain gear and warmth needed....

Love the video, and appreciate the list of airlines you included. I’ve never had my carry-on weighed, but my international flights have almost always included some or all US carriers…until my upcoming flight on Swiss Air. I didn’t think about it, so thanks for letting me know I should! Also, I love your wall of plants!!!

I love how real you are. Curse words and all. That’s my thing….finding real life video and not the cute, girly lies that’s on social media. I’m like….every thing is not centered around being cute, i need truth. So glad I came cross your channel

Bravo. And yes…my bags get weighed 95% of the time. I usually start the other way. Leave my extra overweight item in the bag, remove it if they call me out on it, and put it back once through security.

I love the fact you are honest with the difficulties and choices! Love this video!

love your energy

Finally, someone thought about it

This is brilliant. As a New Zealander who would be limited to 7kgs (although all our flights to Europe come with a generous checked bag allowance), this is the most realistic packing video I've ever seen. I'd still ditch the second scarf though. But we'll done!

@miradonfbd

3 ай бұрын

Stuff the scarf in the coat pocket.

I know I'm commenting late, but my top tip is: Buy a stuffed neck pillow with a zipper (not the inflatable kind). Then before a flight, I take the fluff out and re-stuff it with tank tops, yoga pants, whatever can get crumpled up. I have managed to cram 2 leggings, 3 tops, and a couple pairs of thin socks that way. I roll through security with the neck pillow hanging off my purse or on my neck and have never been questioned about it. Have even made it through those small budget airlines with their ridiculously tiny weight limits and had zero problems.

Thank you!! Thought I was crazy now I know the struggle is real!

Laundry detergent strips are great for travel! I just slip a couple in a plastic bag or pouch. Less room & less weight!

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

Definitely going to get some for my trip to Iceland next month, thanks for the recommendation!

@donnamallory4526

3 ай бұрын

Yep those laundry detergent strips are awesome.

I use a backpack and a messenger-style camera bag. Most of the weight I carry is camera gear. I can always buy more clothes in the country I'm visiting. In some countries and even in the US I've shipped things home before my return flight.

I've watched a few of these vids because I have been doing lots of international travel. This is the most realistic video I've seen. Most of these only relate to people traveling on vacation not business. Most of my travel is for business and there's always at least one evening/formal function, so the tips are often not practical for the business traveller.

Hi! Stumbled upon your video when I’m packing too - I travel several times by plane for work & leisure within Europe. There’s an option of paying a bit extra for heavier cabin bag (max 12kg on average) when you’re checking in online for your flight. The price varies per airline I think, but I remember EasyJet charged 14.99€. I do that mostly only when I travel for work, because I need my laptop with me. This may be an option if tech gear is a must?

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

That’s great to know!! I travel standby as an airline employee, and let me tell you, ticket counter agents are super inconsistent on whether they’ll weigh your bags based on basic economy or give you the higher allowances. 😂

This has been my gripe since I fly budget airlines and they tend to be stricter with weight! As you said, what's the point if we only bring the absolute BARE necessities and don't even have fun?! Which not gonna lie, I'm a high-maintenance girlie so bare my minimum is probably a lot too haha. Thank you for actually WEIGHING your suitcase, none of the other videos do this!! Fitting everything into a cabin suitcase isn't the problem, the problem is that the suitcase itself weighs a third to a half of the maximum cabin weight, so you really don't have much room for anything else, especially if you need to take your tech with you! Great video!

I've have watched a lot of videos how to pack light. and I did just a carry on and a packpack to Asia for a month. It can be done!

@nuvoclassic

2 ай бұрын

My travel goal is to ALWAYS travel [air and road trips] with only a backpack (or rolling under seat bag) and fanny pack/crossbody bag - everywhere! I'm 72 and Plus Size 2XL size 11 feet. Wish me luck!

Love your style! I hope you have a great trip!

I travelled to London and Paris for 10 days in Christmas, only carried a carry on bag and backpack. It was totally doable as long as you pack only necessary stuff. I did a laundry though one time in the hotel. Carried 2 pairs of shoes, 1 winter coat, no laptop. Brought lightest 3 long sleeve tops, a pair of black jeans, 2 pairs of warm leggings , 2 sweaters so I can mix match and layers for different looks. I am not a PJ person, I do tank tops to sleep. No make up, only moisturizer, lipstick to use also as blush. Of course toothpaste, toothbrush ( you can ask for these at the hotel as complimentary) if you opt not to bring them. Chargers, cellphone, and adapter. Packing in summer will be better and less weight.

@FlirtingWithTravel

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing! How cold was it in London and Paris in Christmas. Were they merino wool leggings? Or regular cotton.

Honestly!!! I have arthritis now, and need to at least go with carry on. I can check coming home, as I dont care if it goes to Russia first! But it is almost impossible to pack it all in! I have been carrying a backpack(tucking in a purse for the two allowed to be carried on), also, but really want to get down to one bag, and my purse. The heaviest things I bring are my tech stuff. I am here, learning how to do it. I LOVE your honesty and sense of humor! Thank you.

Great job! I enjoyed watching you work through the process. My issue isn’t so much traveling light as it is fighting the compulsion to buy all of the cool convertible clothing mall and micro gear etc. that makes traveling this way so much easier but also tends to cost a fortune when you add it all up which for most people kind of makes traveling this way moot. 😂 I am a sucker for a good toiletry bag (see!) but I have found these tricks work great for carrying toiletries when weight and size are an issue: 1) Use a quart size ziplock freezer bag. Freezer bags tend to be slightly more durable and leak resistant than regular ziplock bags. 2) leaving behind items that you can do without is a given, but don’t discount the toiletries that are provided for you too if you think outside the box. I rarely like the shampoo and conditioner most hotels provide, but I can usually get by with their shampoo as long as I have my own conditioner. the same goes for the lotion. I bring about half of my favorite Lotion and mix it with whatever kind is provided. It isn’t ideal but saves weight and space and works well enough. 3) fill your own toiletry containers. The prefilled ones are almost always way more expensive, and they’re also a lot bigger than you likely want or need. consider what you can buy at your destination. There are almost always going to be stores at your destination that have most of the products you need. Often it’s cheaper and easier to just stock up once you’re there. 4) put some thought into your containers. The refillable pouches work very well and are surprisingly durable. They’re also inexpensive, weigh a lot less than their silicone counterparts, and should be mostly gone giving extra space for souvenirs at the end of your trip. Look at all of your toiletries, chances are high that even in the TSA approved sizes you’re bringing more of most products than you need. Take some time to figure out how much you really need for the duration of your trip, and try to get containers that are just big enough. Good luck and have fun!

I don’t worry as much on the way home. If I buy a few things in my travels and have to check a bag home, at least if it’s lost or delayed I’m home! Lol Just be sure to have your toiletries, meds, chargers, and a bit of clothing in the plane with you in the event of a layover that gets too long or any other emergency. Happy travels!

I have a 3.4 pound carryon bag. I would never buy anything over 5 lbs. Companies do make good ones! Don't listen to influencers!!! Think in outfits that interchange. I usually take three including the pieces I'm wearing. For me 4321 is not needed for week long trips. Yes to a scale!! Thank you for showing us your thinking!!! This was so educational!!!! ❤

@pattymiller4783

3 ай бұрын

What is the bag?

THANK YOU!! Thank you for addressing the rest of the COO equation!

All depends on the climate I'm going to, going to Colombia in a few weeks and use a 40L osprey backpack and a Filson drybag messenger bag, in the backpack - 4 pairs of pants, 3 shorts, 6 pairs underwear/socks, 5 shirts, 2 pair of shoes, toiletries and medications. Weighs 16lbs. Messenger bag has headphones, documents, cables, and camera, another pair of undergarments for emergencies, umbrella, and room for a couple small souvenirs or something. But i use technical fabrics i.e. hiking clothes, as much as possible which really helps.

So real. I had this experience going to Spain on Tap Air Portugal. It's a hassle. Travel tip: Stuff your neck pillow with a few clothing items. It makes a difference.

I am going England for 6 mths from the 3rd week in February. It is tough but I always take a check in bags as well as a carry on to avoid the added stress.

Loved your video. Thanks for showing the true process with the Tetris organizing and the multiple weighing and bag changes. I’m currently packing my carry on a few days early for a family trip to Paris. Will definitely remove items each day as I get closer to departure date. Considering using my travel t-shirt and leggings as my pjs. Will also break out the scale. ❤

@nuvoclassic

2 ай бұрын

Fyi, I always use my travel-T and leggings as PJs the 1st night!

I travel for 5-6 weeks in the summer with carry-on only and I pack a lot! I cheat by adding external packing cube with a carabiner. Game changer.

This was very informative and eye opening. Great examples of alternatives when having to choose between weighted bags.

Good job! I always check my suitcase, but I make sure I take a couple of shirts and undies and teeny-tiny toiletries in my personal item bag, just in case. LOOOOVE BUDAPEST!!

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

So smart! Checked or carryon, I will be adding those items to my handbag in the future, just in case

@donnamallory4526

3 ай бұрын

Try some deodorant wipes too. Less weight and they aren’t a liquid.

This is like me trying to fly w my camera gear from Australia through Asia. Great video! Jackets w large pockets to stuff things into!

This is such a great example of how to plan successfully for flying! Thank you!

@FlirtingWithTravel

3 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@Wendy-lq8uw

2 ай бұрын

You are so real I wish I can do carryon but I also have a check suitcase regardless of where I am traveling

Your best ally to packing light and travelling with a carryon only, is a samsonite curve. I only check my bag if i have to or need to carry stuff not allowed as a carry on. Enjoy your travels!

If you are planning on minimalist travel, the things you bring have to be light, including the bag. It also means that the focus is not on the things you bring, it will be what you do. My Tom Bihn Tri star bag is just over 3lbs and is all I ever need for travel. It is just about small enough to qualify as a personal item. My wife and I traveled with that, a carry on ebag and personal item backpack for 3 weeks in Europe with our 15 month old (which meant the ebag was mostly diapers) and it was easy. It was October so we needed warm jackets so all we used was packable down jackets, a couple pants, a few shirts, minimal tech. Yes, we did laundry a couple times. We wanted to stay minimal to make it easy to get around, especially with the toddler. (Also, you might want to forget some things and get a couple souvenirs to use instead.) If you are bringing two laptops and extra scarves, two sweaters, and non-lightweight clothes, you will not be doing minimalist travel. And that is perfectly ok. Minimalist travel is not for everyone and if you want to bring more things, than that is what you should do. The one key is also pack a change of clothes in your carry on if you have to check in a bag, just in case. If you need to bring more things or like some heavier items to enjoy your trip then enjoy your trip. Travel should first and foremost be fun.

My first time finding you. LOVE your video. Soooo honest and straight forward. Heading to South Africa for 3 weeks this spring and trying to NOT check a bag. Going to watch more of you. ❤️❤️

😅sorry Darlin’, I travelled for 2 months in the UK and Ireland (including a wedding outfit) all in carry on. Not a problem.

I’m using the July ultralight which empty is 3.9 lbs. really makes a difference for international travel and weight limits

Honesty....how refreshing lol

Honestly LOVE this! So helpful - thank you!

This was so satisfying to watch, I was rooting for you like it was some sort of competition ahahahhha Nothing is ever as simple as people make it seem when they talk about packing a carry on only and this video made me feel seen 😅😅

I absolutely enjoyed this! So helpful. Thx 🫶🏼