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Omg. I feel you already know the mental anguish I am going through after her recent discard. I was never angry in the relationship, never, but now it's over. I feel furious.

@killjoyredux8361

Ай бұрын

Because they never gave a chance to express them without shifting blame or raging or ghosting... And we stick it out thinking they will change, then they go for good as if you never existed. Such women are everywhere these days.

@truhhhhhhhokIII3

Ай бұрын

@@killjoyredux8361smart people understand what Narcissistic Abuse is…or at least the part about how its both genders can be afflicted with NPD and they both do the exact same things. Im a guy so i can let you know how beta your sentence looks. Lots of good people end up with narcs, but knowing maybe if you are just a bias person, thats a huge turnoff for any woman and will def get them to ghost you. If im a dude and noticed your wording…so a woman whos generally way more observant would too. Just a thought.

@dinab7852

Ай бұрын

​@@killjoyredux8361 In my case, it was a man.

@Alec50

27 күн бұрын

Yullia told me from the beginning, my perception of her was all made up in my head. From the beginning, she used direct apathetic language saying all men are liers, that i was liying, that i dont love her because i dont ask her questions about her 24 hours a day 7 days per week.... 3 months in I am her saviour, 4, 5 months u can not do anything right, almost i disgust her, evening before silent treatment she screamed at me over the phone i told you not to speak negative... ALl I said I dind feel well about new asthma medications. Ultimately She discarded me when i asked her what was wrong with me in the beginning, her reply not much, my reply when will you tell me im perfect, she replied maybe never

It's sad to think that NPD sufferers will always be at the bottom of that emotional chart in "Shame", simply because they cannot look inward at all or explore themselves without having a meltdown

@dinab7852

Ай бұрын

So well said 👏.

I always play your videos whenever I'm feeling extremely down and feel like I can't move on. Your channel and extremely soothing voice keep me sane and help me to keep going... Thank you 100X

My current narc bf got me out of a relationship with a malignant narcissist. He helped me find myself again. I found a hobby I was happy and peaceful, very hopeful. I got lost in myself with my hobbies all the time. Then he started devaluing me and discarding me because of my hobby. I finally made friends again. They wearnt good enough to be my friends but he now is friends with all of them and I am 100% alone all the time. He built me up to the highest point. Just so he himself could smash me back down to the bottom. Now I dont do anything. I mostly am by myself crying until he wants to love bomb me. Now he wonders what happened to me and looks down on me cause I dont so nearly as much as I once did. I appreciate you so much. I will lift myself back up again.

This makes a whole lot of sense. Which is why 5 years ago now I should not have been too quick to take the bus for revisiting that accident location where we had planned for me to buy a different dress to attend my youngest daughters wedding in 2 more days. Decided to on the same day to make a police report after being in a roll over car accident 3 days earlier than that day while I was still needing to shop for a dress less than a block away to finish preparing ahead of time to show up for my daughter's wedding in a couple of more days on that day. There in the police station nearest to that same intersection was where I saw someone else showing up at the police station to ask for help after he lost his vehicle while he was at work in a parking lot. Talk about confusing situation for me to be in. Later when I was at my family doctor's office to follow up after ending up in the emergency ward behind the receptionist desk there was a female receptionist with blonde hair whom I had never seen before nor have I seen her since that day. She said something really weird while insinuating that I was driving during that accident which both me and my daughter were injured in while I was seeking help there alone and so according to her that was why it was going to be too late for both me and my daughter according to her only the passenger to get any compensation from an insurance company for us to heal properly. It was then I started to add quite a few things up about the word called corruption. What was that blonde woman doing there at the time? Was she an A.I. specialist offering to fix their computers or what? Since I was suffering from a concussion that week among other things too while as usual being over responsible and people pleasing too was I serving the healing process in my body well enough at the time? Well for sure if I had tripped and fell that week which I did not. Was still a way too risky plan that day for me though. Well at least I didn't have to cope with a bunch of lies being told about me in that emergency ward just a few days prior to that day in the police station. The day one police person there encouraged me to move away from that neighborhood near West Edmonton Mall.

Thanks for the video, very spot on, If people want to play head games with you, you have 3 choices 1 figure out why,2 stoop to their level and play back,3 just unplug the game and don't play the game 🎯 game over 💯 no contact.

@CommonEgo

Ай бұрын

Unplug the game! Love that 🙏❤️

@dinab7852

Ай бұрын

3rd option is the best one.

Fantastic video w/ great suggestions. Regarding the last item of hobbies, I would also include volunteering as part of that topic. I don't have any hobbies per se, BUT I love volunteering at my local animal care and control shelter. Since COVID-19, I only do the animals' laundry and wash their dishes. It's very relaxing to me. I can spend 4-8 hours doing these tasks. I leave feeling fantastic as I've contributed to my community and helped our local companion pets to be comfortable while they wait to get a new home. Fab content as always!

You definitely made a connection with me when you mentioned Peace and Love,I must say that to my self every time I think of something that is making me uncomfortable. Peace ☮️ and ❤😊

Thank you for sending this again. I've listened to this one, more than once. I'll need to again. I'll look at the others. I'll go from here. 😊

@CommonEgo

Ай бұрын

Thanks! This one is actually new today. Hope it’s helpful!🙏❤️

@user-sn5uq1ie6c

Ай бұрын

​@@CommonEgo Yes. It really is.

You have to be careful with feelings because they will get you into trouble very quickly. To many people allow their feelings to control them instead of them controlling their feelings. One example which is very troubling is giving themselves to another person sexually. Please remember that once you give a piece of yourself away to someone else you can never get it back. The next thing is when you give yourself away sexually you are being given a piece of everyone else that person has been with previously. Protect your integrity. Be the best version of yourself you can be. Edit: a lot of women I have talked to have claimed they hurt themselves more by allowing their feelings to get themselves in bed with other men. If a man wants to have sex with you quickly then you are dealing with a boy not a man.

Very wise advice, confirms I am on the right path, thanks !

Thank you for great advice.

dont lie to yourself its ok to cry 🎉

How does capitalist employment perspective resemble narcissistic abuse? How does authentic loving friendship upset the narcissistic mind, and how can we prepare for safe and healthy limits that might allow for the narcissist to heal? What lessons and stories from your spiritual tradition help you get to better relations with others including people afflicted with narcissistic personality disorder?

My neighbour is a narcissist and I think she is a sociopath too. She is my upstairs neighbour who is using some device to eavesdrop on our floor. Everyday and night she disturbs me in my sleep by making some or the other kind of noise on the floor. She also reacts by making noise when I say something. Nobody else gets disturbed bcoz she doesn’t make much noise but her target is me. So she makes just enough sound to disturb me. So nobody in my family believes what I am saying. It’s been 3 years pls help. I need help. I don’t know how to deal in this kind of situation

@laurivaltter

Ай бұрын

put something on ear

I have question am i emotionally cheating on morgan with my ex boyfriend Stephen behind morgan by meeting up and texting and calling Stephen on phone and laughing with stephen and holding hands with stephen and watching high school musical dvds that me and Stephen love without never never having no sex and can i have affair or cheat without never never having no sex because i am not interested in sex .

@alcudiababe1

Ай бұрын

You can do all that and have it mean nothing and if it truly means nothing tell your boyfriend that. If he says anything about it (a) tell him you have nothing to worry about when I'm going to you and telling you what's going on in my life (because it's the silence part thinking that he won't understand which will drive him crazy) and let them meet (because the two of them never meeting will bother him becausethaen its again the secret part that will eat your boyfriendup) and (,b) and uou need to be prepared for this (,b) if your bf is soo uncomfortable about it you have to be prepared to put your bf first because he needs to know nothing comes before him. I always remember Rachel and Ross discussing their Nannie in friends when Ross tells Rachel "if something or somebody makes you feel this uncomfortable I wouldn't ask you to do it." Try not to get defensive and start telling him to trust you and your judgement because even if he does trust you he's not going to trust another man. When my partner at the said about not to invite men over to the flat, house without him being there I respected that because I just think you've got to get used to some ground rules set down.

@LaDonnashielded-kc7zm

Ай бұрын

Glad you feel that it's not cool. If you feel secure enough to tell Morgan , process how you would feel in a reversal. It's narcissistic to me and gross. My ex emotionally cheated and I emotionally separated, so it was over. Be nice.

thx bby

@ 7:00 ish marker, I have no idea as to what you mean at all. Follow, recognize, allowing, feeling, observing mmmmm ??? Feeling into and not following. Lost me big

@CommonEgo

Күн бұрын

Feel the feelings in your body. Don't follow the thoughts. That inner narrative is like a runaway train and it's not helpful

Ok. I took a deep breath before I typed this. I was super excited to hear the "5 game changing self care tips" just to be disappointed by a promo. It's been a week of absolute hell I will not get into but a multivitamin will not heal the core wounds these Narcs inflict. I recommend Les Carter to all who are suffering. Unsubscribed.

@CommonEgo

Ай бұрын

Thanks to the “promo” for allowing you to watch this content ad free. You could have easily skipped if it wasn’t for you. You can’t completely skip ads without paying for premium. 👋

This makes a whole lot of sense. Which is why 5 years ago now I should not have been too quick to take the bus for revisiting that accident location where we had planned for me to buy a different dress to attend my youngest daughters wedding in 2 more days. Decided to on the same day to make a police report after being in a roll over car accident 3 days earlier than that day while I was still needing to shop for a dress less than a block away to finish preparing ahead of time to show up for my daughter's wedding in a couple of more days on that day. There in the police station nearest to that same intersection was where I saw someone else showing up at the police station to ask for help after he lost his vehicle while he was at work in a parking lot. Talk about confusing situation for me to be in. Later when I was at my family doctor's office to follow up after ending up in the emergency ward behind the receptionist desk there was a female receptionist with blonde hair whom I had never seen before nor have I seen her since that day. She said something really weird while insinuating that I was driving during that accident which both me and my daughter were injured in while I was seeking help there alone and so according to her that was why it was going to be too late for both me and my daughter according to her only the passenger to get any compensation from an insurance company for us to heal properly. It was then I started to add quite a few things up about the word called corruption. What was that blonde woman doing there at the time? Was she an A.I. specialist offering to fix their computers or what? Since I was suffering from a concussion that week among other things too while as usual being over responsible and people pleasing too was I serving the healing process in my body well enough at the time? Well for sure if I had tripped and fell that week which I did not. Was still a way too risky plan that day for me though.