If you still don't understand queen Lee after this, then you'll never, you need self introspection, because I've learnt a lot from this, LADIES LET US LEARN TO LOVE AND PUT OUR SELVES FIRST

@sueeland5675

6 ай бұрын

Amen comrade💪

@palesanesengani

6 ай бұрын

True

@masegomorupule5591

6 ай бұрын

Thanks, o re kgotlatse Queen ❤️❤️❤️

@thandazomathapelo6910

6 ай бұрын

Ka nnete hleng

It's my first time seeing and hearing about Queen Lee. I love how confident she is. She is speaking her truth and doing that brilliantly so. People indeed don't love people who speak the truth. She speaks without fear or favour. 😅😅🎉❤

@LethoHali

6 ай бұрын

Same!

@mellowouthere

6 күн бұрын

Queen Lee is the one

I've been married for almost 30 years! I was blessed to understand that I am a woman first, before the role of wife and mother. Also my husband understood clearly what his purpose was for marriage, why he wanted to get married, his role in the marriage etc.

@clementinejabulani8827

5 ай бұрын

Darling I really need to learn alot 😢

@aanndile

5 ай бұрын

🩷🙌🏾

The thing about Queen Lee (Lala) is that she is open like a book and she is loving.She likes to give sound advice to ladies.Women envy her looks and lifestyle.She is blessed!!!! The devil hates it.She is phenomenal this woman.She is vocal.There is so much to learn from her.She likes women who go any extra mile, do small businesses to look after themselves.She discourages laziness and procrastination.She is a ⭐️.She has a good ❤️.Jealousy from people will never stop her from living her life to the fullest.She is amazing!!! In that way she rubs the people the wrong way, unintentionally.Her story made her.PERIOD!

I respect myself for coming out though its not easy but it helping me not to settle for less , job or marriage or anything i wont settle for less

Queen Lee's story is almost like mines. I left him, not because I did not love him anymore, but because he could not protect me. His family (especially mother) was controlling our relationship. Few months after I left, I received a call/s from him. He was apologising and wanted us to fix things but I did not want to subject myself to that toxic family. He apologised for not protecting me , and he told me on how his mother was treating his current girlfriend. He told me that he swore that he will do things differently with the new relationship. He fought for her, but she could not handle the "toxic mother", she left him. He got sick, I was still receiving messages from him to give him another chance,, but I was over that relationship. He passed on lonely because of his family.

@mskhumalo5118

6 ай бұрын

Eish , very unfortunate. Some families just can't let go of their kids 😢

@GOSSIPWITHDEB

5 ай бұрын

😢

@sibongilentshangase4398

5 ай бұрын

I'm going through this.

@noluthandomasondo

5 ай бұрын

@sibongilentshangase4398 Love and light to you Sbosh. Whatever you decide to do may you find strength. Such situations drain you. When I left, I even suffered depression because of fear of the unknown. I was in that relationship with this person for a decade, so to think of starting afresh terrified me.

@LuckyJudaz

5 ай бұрын

He's from which province.?

I smiled so much when Queen Lee said “ Hi Lalaa”😊

I'm going through what queen Lee went through I hope one day I'll have the strength to leave this toxic family

@ElizabethBenjamin-cl1de

2 күн бұрын

Moghel you can do it my darling.

"let me speak my language so that I can swim" These are very powerful words!!!!!! Love this expression!

If you listen with an open heart, you'll understand what queen lee is saying. Confidence, independence and understanding that marriage is not all roses but "hard work with love"

Thank you Madam Speaker for this...much love for both of you❤

@madams___speaker

6 ай бұрын

Thank you too!

Enjoyed the conversation, I concur, it is extreamely vital to be independent as ladies so that you are brave enough to leave a toxic marriage and not stay cause abantu bazothini or because of your poor background ❤

Most people when u put urself first, they think u have been Brocken, most by man....n is not like that cuz u don't take nonsense..n if something is not what u want.....so they don't believe is self confidence........power women ...even guys are afraid of you as a women....they say waipotsa...n think u know better....I've found myself being single n I am fine with it ..n proud

@moe_ramz

6 ай бұрын

Same ❤

Most people are quick to misunderstood Queen Lee. Let's learn to listen ladies so that we can understand. I love you Queen Lee❤❤❤❤and I really love this conversation.

This was a lovely episode. Her level of confidence is what i aspire to have 😊❤ love it.

Wow! Beautiful interview, very real, i learnt a lot and thanks to you beautiful ladies❤

Life in general inyanyisa, it all depends on which stage or chapter you are in, if Uyajola mjolo Uyanyisa women go through so much emjolweni, also if you are married you’ll also have challenges emshadweni. Period…

@khanyagatsheni

5 ай бұрын

😂😂yeah true it doesn't matter ukuthi uyajola or ushadile

I am glad I gave this podcast a chance. My new favourite ❤.

That time I can't wait to say my husband this and that😂it sounds so perfect when they say it...

@madams___speaker

6 ай бұрын

Right?!🤣🤣🤣

@MamaHakoe

6 ай бұрын

There's nothing wrong with it just don't forget yourself as an individual

@menniekumalo3276

6 ай бұрын

If you are gonna live your life based on other peoples experiences you are gonna be miserable Sis

@mildrednhlapo109

6 ай бұрын

Absolutely nothing wrong with it, but sometimes batho ha ba na timing ya "my husband this, my husband that". Even when it's not necessary motho o no off ramp(a) feela a o jwetse ka monna hae. It can be boring sometimes I kid you not.

@relelekitlane9378

6 ай бұрын

The is nothing wrong with saying that my love...

Queen Lee is my girl. I love her so much ❤ I used to watch her lives, so healing. She has a big heart and so caring and wise.

I'm in Queen Lee's position and that's why I'm leaving. These things happen. Families know where to press and the husband knows.

Love this woman, a true queen indeed 🙏🏾👏🏽 thank you for sharing your knowledge. Truly inspiring 🥰❤️🍾

Marriage? I respect it. It's not all glamorous my dear, I've been there and I had to quit bandla.

This episode makes me love Queen Lee more ❤😊❤

Second marriages are not perdect but they are the best, just make sure u dont ignore red flags, dont rush into marriage to proove a point, make sure u fall in love with a man u love u more, who will choose u over and over again, one who enjoys being with u. One who accept ur kids and understand u are a mother. A matured man who understands that ur kids have rheir own father as much as his kids have their own mother. Dont force ur kids onto ur husband's family and dont change things too quickly at once in their lives. To build a meaningfull blended family sometimes its good to not follow the norm and "culture" in order to make ur new inlaws comfortable. Rather follow the law and its easy when u are married to a matured man

Madam speaker and Queen Lee Kea leboha hle 😢😢

I'm here after watching her podcast about her former marriage, such a painful story.

@mercifullrahlane1418

25 күн бұрын

Same

Wow very informative, the queen even spoke about uncomfortable truths ❤

@madams___speaker

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for listening

Thank you madam S I love queen Lee I have learnt a lot she’s a vibe ❤❤

Yes Queen Lee id very outspoken and on point!

You said it all Queen Lee, it hits deep ✊

Love loved this interview - this lady is wise. I need to hear more of her, so inspired. Walked away from this so much wiser, ke mafolofolo ka bophelo. Felt the love and truth pouring out from her. Just amazing...

Anm new. I enjoyed listening to Queen Lee. I got married very young and phew 😅thank you the truth. May the God bless her and family. ❤

Queen Lee thank you,,, Ladies let's copy, confidence lives here❤️❤️❤️

I love the words of encouragement ❤👌

As women we where taught not to shame our husband or wife in public but we can correct them at home l am not saying pretending is good it's. Not and she is telling the truth coz once you take your issues outside it's hard to fix them

@nette2144

6 ай бұрын

Another thing is that when you make up behind close doors, outsiders may hold onto the past that you both left behind. Hence couples need to entrust their issues to people who are bound to preserve your confidentiality. Professionals. Sometimes we seek advice from people who should not even be giving us advice.

@zaneleluhabe8863

5 ай бұрын

Coming to the issue of being "hated".I think out of 100 it's only 20% who dislike you,do you think it's even worth it to pay attention to such?As for us women asinakuthula nje amongst ourselves

33:31 mona she hit it on the nail, there is always a balance necessary to tackle differences, as much as one has a duty to protect his wife, fairness on dealing with issues is also important because we are all human and we err.

Tiktok, bring me her. I love both of u guys. Madam speaker, thank you for this beautiful interview ❤❤ Queen my queen ❤

She looks so gorgeous. Ong I love her make up . Her story is uplifting and fulfilling. Modimo o Mogole tlheng 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰@madam speaker you are doing such amazing Job. Thank you so much for this interview for us to understand @queenlee better without any stray. Keep doing great things sisi Modimo ke oo

Queen 👑 Lee said all the truth's 😊 I have learnt a lot from this

Tjo I love this womam! The truth she speaks... 🥰🥰 God bless this woman!

The way i understand Queen Lee❤this was really beautiful to watch

Step mothering is not easy, Some stepkids are more challenging than others. Some baby mama come into the mix as well. U need a man with backbone, one who will trust ur judgment with his kids(if u are a fare stepmom, judge and evaluate urself and be honest with urself). A man who has his house in order, will handle his problems, making it easy for u

Two Queens that I adore. I love you guys

All that you’ve just said is an honest truth Queen Lee.

Queen Lee makes total sense to me. I don't understand the hate she's getting

Loved this episode❤️

👑Queenlee🙌🏽thank you madam speaker

Thank you queen Lee and you madam speak I love you and god bless you ,what a beautiful episode ❤

That make lots of sense .. Thanks guys

Love Queen Lee's energy❤❤

Madam Speaker is such a Warm Safe SPACE. Your listening Skills Sesi 😊 Out of this WORLD ❤

Tjoo madam speaker i will get married again this encouraged me a lot❤❤❤

That’s my chomi well done👏👏👏🥰

Queen Lee has gained a follower thank you

First time I hear or see this lady but I love her already

What I'm learning here is selflove 😊 and that marriage ain't no fairytale but it's doable

Thanx, thus, what I did after divorce love me make money, work harder ❤ self care so important

Wow what a btfl interview , i learn alot here thank you.

Yuuu wat an eye opening episode😍

What a beautiful and informative session ❤

@madams___speaker

5 ай бұрын

Thank you

Wow wow wow. Thank you Queen Lee

Ohhh my God kea morata Mosadi enwa hle….she is sooo brave and always makes sense❤️❤️❤️ Queen Lee please start a youtube channel

Queen Lee needs to be a marriage counselor.🤞stru!

You wil always be my number 1..I literally started watching vlogs last year nd I watched urs from wayyyy bck jst so I can be up-to-date nd I am keep on keeping on God bless❤

@madams___speaker

6 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you

Madam speaker ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Speaking for the rest of the continent: young women who get inspired in your space. This one I got lost in the language…. Sounds really rich though…. ♥️♥️

Beautiful interview Queenlee❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@madams___speaker

6 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤

Nna I honestly think that if my ex really supported me and stood by me, I would still be married to him. He was working together with his family to destroy me and he was leading the pack. Queen Lee is right, there love and support of your spouse is very important. May the Lord keep your family together forever 🙏 ❤❤

@LuckyJudaz

5 ай бұрын

Wena you were always right all the time.?

It was so beautiful ❤️🤞

Queen Lee i need to be like you this year❤It's just the beginning of the year but everything seems to be falling apart on my side but i refuse to go downwheremy enemies wantsme..

Hence I had to leave because my ex husband couldn't protect me, I was in hell. My father doesn't talk to me because I asked him to return the lobola.

As someone who wants pretend and now know the signs of pretending umm its hard out there😊

Thank you, Madam speaker. Nice show.

@madams___speaker

6 ай бұрын

Most welcome!

We need to know our love language, then we can appreciate people around us better. Self love beats them all.

Lots of love ladies ❤❤❤

Preacher is preaching 🙌

Wow I'm so inspired ❤

Pretense is a norm to this world...🤞People are victims for being truthful...

Psalms 127:1 [1]Unless the Lord builds the house, They labor in vain who build it; Unless the Lord guards the city, The watchman stays awake in vain.

I wish she hadnt mentioned the kids…. Especially the part where she alleged that the father said he would choose her over them. A father can love his new wife and his kids equally.

@moe_ramz

6 ай бұрын

lol you don’t know men wena. Nothing new here 😅

@take-it-slow

5 ай бұрын

Iyoo I also felt that imagine my dad not choosing me 😭😭😭

@keotshepileplaatjies8424

4 ай бұрын

​@@moe_ramzexactly!! Men divorce kids when they divorce their mothers

@nonomk2444

2 ай бұрын

Remember she said she loves them when she miss one of them she would cry and fetch the child.

Its the glow and beauty for me

Very powerful ladies....

This woman is hurt… 😢you can tell from looking at her face. 😭Men also make me feel like this.

@pudding3012

6 ай бұрын

Bro its even its shocking to watch

@user-vw4qm1cn4d

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 clean your heat

@itumelengntshihlele4914

6 ай бұрын

Hala prophet😂😂😂your looking for negativity and you just couldn't find one so you prophecies😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.take the advice and learn to love yourself

@pudding3012

6 ай бұрын

@@itumelengntshihlele4914 and youre focusing on the comments that you percieve negative instead of the ones that are positive,youre the problem...check yourself 😊

@Missfab86

6 ай бұрын

If you look for sadness you will see it. If you look for happiness and joy you will also see it.

I wish my sister can watch this 😢 she is in a abusive relationship 😢

@LuckyJudaz

5 ай бұрын

Show her this

Queen Lee, we need a woman's conference with you ❤️

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏Queen Lee, I Love you

🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦African women over the years have been trained to work hard in school work hard at home .. basically die cleaning and cooking but the one time were not expected to have standards and maintain them are when choosing a spouse ( who doesnt even make the cut just for the sake of a husband and title of wife ) or staying in a runbish marriage .. society will have you running mad in your own home.😢😢😢

@LukeRev480

6 ай бұрын

Amen! We are still dreaming about fairtail marriages and when people like QueenLee warn us, we say they are jealous or marriage is a blessing as if life is not a blessing.

@nette2144

6 ай бұрын

You hit the nail on the head! 1.Unfortunately a lot of people get into marriage without understanding who they are, their purpose for getting married, the purpose of the marriage itself and their individual role in the institution. Marriage is not something to play with, and if you have no clue what you are doing, it will kill you. Kill you spiritually, emotionally, psychologically, financially and in worse case scenario, physically. I have met many couples who should have never been married but they still got married. Setting themselves up for failure. When you ask them why they chose the person they chose, it's usually just fluffy stuff tied to emotions. And they hate it when you challenge them. 2. Many people focus on the wedding more than the marriage! They want the wedding to be perfect but DO NOT prepare for the marriage.

@Miss992vee

6 ай бұрын

@@nette2144 the part about ""it will kill you spiritually" hits home😔 when I look at my mother .she is a zombie.the abuse of my narcissistic father has her paralyzed internally..and she will stay there and is ready to die for her so called master..deep down she knows his a horrible person ..but she needs that TITLE 🤷🤷🤷🤷

@nette2144

6 ай бұрын

​@@Miss992veePlease don't judge mum. Love her unconditionally and learn to be present with her without judgement, fear, bias, control etc. She is already struggling to navigate difficult circumstances in her marriage. Most probably feels guilty, has low confidence and self-esteem. She doesn't need criticism at this point, as it makes her feel bad and inadequate. Criticising her will not help her already dented sense of self worth. When it comes to dad, please remember that our early experiences form or deform our adult relationships. As children, some of us were so injured or disabled psychologically - by neglect, inhibition or abuse. Some of us were so abused that we feel compelled to abuse others in revenge. Some of us were so damaged in the past that we may never be able to relate in an adult way. Pray for your parents, give them grace and hold on to the good that they both did for you. Even more pray for yourself so that God can heal you, and for you to find your own path that is full of love. Namaste sis🙏🙏🙏. Sending you lots of light and love❤❤❤❤❤.

More love from lesotho mi Gueen , ke rata boikemelo ba hau

She is brave to talk

Gueen of gueens our own Gueen Lee❤❤❤❤beautiful and confident 🎉

I think there r ppl who owe Queen Lee an apology

@madams___speaker

6 ай бұрын

I agree but They won’t apologize shame

@mantelekhitsane8935

5 ай бұрын

I'm one of them but nna I just judge d her cz of her tone not listening to her properly 😢🙏

@user-om1mk3ld5q

5 ай бұрын

@@mantelekhitsane8935 I was like that too until one day I listened to all her contents n I learned few things about her that woman is clever n u cn learn a lot from her

Did this lady not get into a "my husband this, my husband that" mode😅😅let others be hleng. I love it for her though, everybody deserves to be loved❤

@nette2144

6 ай бұрын

I don't see anything wrong with a woman saying "my husband this and that". If she is proud of her husband and loves him🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️.

Forever madam speaker❤

I found myself crying 😢😢

@madams___speaker

6 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

Thank you for sub titles, we can follow the story effortlessly, BUT you stopped them halfway and we are lost again. Your international followers love you.❤

@doreenskosana6084

6 ай бұрын

Exactly I wish all the podcast can do this❤❤

@madams___speaker

6 ай бұрын

My apologies I couldn’t finish interpreting on time. Next time I’ll add subtitles till the end ❤

@dikolizaskk5847

6 ай бұрын

I know how you feel.....sorry

😂😂😂😂Jhooo QueenLee bathong ahhhhh, go na le mathata golo fa

My favorites ladies together much ❤

Eh this women shame😂😂 a re nna i was chosen khanti bona are not chosen by their husbands 😂😂😂

@user-vw4qm1cn4d

6 ай бұрын

She is preaching self love dear

@pudding3012

6 ай бұрын

Lol goneng kere yho 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@sueeland5675

6 ай бұрын

​@@user-vw4qm1cn4dexactly when interview started I thought she has pride.ego but listening to she encouraging positive like her

@mahlatsemoremiphala7192

6 ай бұрын

If they were chosen by their husbands they wouldn't meddling in other ppls marriages

@Missfab86

6 ай бұрын

Yoh low self esteem will make you triggered by a woman saying her husband chose her 💔😭

Loved this...Queen Lee is not only pretty but she's telling the truth and truly advocates for self-love and is pro-family....the attacks on tik tok of this interview are definitely by people who did not watch this interview and so unnecessary

I love both of you❤️