Story one is a master class in letting low self esteem destroy you.

@SSFighter1701

2 ай бұрын

Yeah his whole “I don’t understand why the sister was so angry” hurt a but but basically explains it all.

Dud I cringe at how they broke up. That's not a gf you break amicably with. the disrespect to op and sis is too much. and he's like cushioning her.

@HeoBaby24

2 ай бұрын

what did the sister do?

@Some_Idiot_on_the_Internet

23 күн бұрын

​@@HeoBaby24 Re-read the comment.

@HeoBaby24

23 күн бұрын

@@Some_Idiot_on_the_Internet he said the sis is too much. what did the sister do?

@connorsullivan2745

17 күн бұрын

@@HeoBaby24another reread

@brianbarber5401

17 күн бұрын

@@HeoBaby24try reading all the words.

I hate this whole "if you cared about their feelings you wouldn't have told them" it's so dumb. If someone was literally insulting me, 'playful' not being an excuse, I would want to know. I don't want to be friends with people who do that. Idk why so many people think it's immature and 'drama loving' to tell someone that others are talking behind their backs

@sheluvssmokedupeyes1

2 ай бұрын

That's not it sometimes when you tell people they don't believe you especially when it comes to a significant other

@CyberCervine

2 ай бұрын

@@sheluvssmokedupeyes1 sucks to suck in those cases. I've lost people who didn't believe me then they always end up finding out anyways. Sometimes people are too stupid in love to realize when others are telling them the truth and that's on them, not the person telling them what's happening.

Story 1 this is a consequence of having no spine and being a doormat. Instead of getting mad with the gf he gets mad with the sister. The sister was too nice to him. He didn't even stand up for his sister. This op is so pathetic. And he hasn't learned anything

@justinebidulopoutchini9774

2 ай бұрын

« I didn’t want to know » after begging his sister to tell him what his gf said, when his sister didn’t want to tell him!

@DesertRainReads

2 ай бұрын

Well, he did leave the girlfriend in the end. Do I feel he could've done better? Definitely, but he owned up to being an asshole and has apologized to his sister, even took her out to cheer her up. I agree he has much to learn and grow from but he isn't a horrible monster or anything.

@ikingsnad7451

2 ай бұрын

Oh look another person with the perfect response to every situation they will be in. Wish I could be you and be completely logical in every situation I come into and always make the correct response. The OP made a mistake and owned up to it after. People make mistakes especially during the heat of a terrible situation. Get off your high horse.

@genuinelypink3838

2 ай бұрын

Honestly, seeing how horrible he responded to multiple times he should have stood up for himself and his sister, I can't consider that a mistake. Nah that's a character flaw. If I were the sister I would have left him to his misery. He's the type to get cheated on and not want to know.

Being spineless is weird. The only reason I can think why OP would lash out at his sister instead of the actual guilty party, his girlfriend, at first was because he thought it would be safer to blame his sis for it. Ugh. But not all spineless people do this.

Story 1 - OPs sister is too good for him and for the 'friends'. Plus, if they talk abou their boyfriends like this, imagine what they do to eachother. Story 2 - OP MUST sue and go to the police. BIL is a predator, its not about sex, but about power. Its time to lawyer up and put him in jail, plus I bet there is a lot more they will find out in the middle of this dirt.

Op1 is such a weakling.

Story 1: Your sister has a right to be mad on your behalf; dump your gf; she showed her true nasty colors by what she did!

@andreavanhoof6047

2 ай бұрын

Story 1: You have no right for being mad at your sister when she said that your gf did not deserve you. Actually, you and your gf both deserve each other because you both suck! You do not deserve to have an angel for a sister! You have no spine OP! I dislike you!

Girlfriend, you haven't called me for a while. Didn't call him. Is she really your girlfriend? She clearly doesn't care about you or your feelings. What a tool. 😒

boa story one: What a bby - he should be thankfull that his sister cares so much about him and HE ASKED! That just stupid... he still has to grow a lot...

@cricket5692

2 ай бұрын

Agreed....op isn't a man-child or a door mat....he's just a huge stupid baby. He has to be good looking if anybody bothers with him given his intelligence and maturity.

Op needs to do some serious personal growth before they're ready for a relationship

@w.reidripley1968

2 ай бұрын

All three of them handled the matter in an immature fashion -- same with the friend group. This is par for the course in high school social dynamics. This will be a maturing growth experience. Which does not make it a comfortable one, at all.

Get's angry with sister for looking out for him, chill with gf for talking shiz about him, dismissing his feelings, saying her taking the pi** is fine and being a b**** to his sister. He is so bad, his sisters going to go NC with him in the future at this rate

I'm one of those guys that women feel too comfortable around. It can be a blessing, but often it is a curse in so many ways. The shit I have heard is just gross. One night a lady friend started talking about her boyfriend's bedroom action. In disgusting detail. I remember that night because that was when I just snapped on her. I said something like "Why would you even tell us that? What the fuck is wrong with you? What do you think your bf would do if he found out how much you disrespect your relationship?" Turns out the women didn't see it as an issue. They honestly believe that guys talk about the same stuff. I tried to convince them that grown adult men do not talk about that stuff. We respect the privacy in our lives and our lovers lives. Well it became a shouting match because they honestly thought I was gaslighting them. It ended when the girls called their bf and asked them, what do guys talk about when women aren't around. Their questioning was very obtuse and not directly on the subject matter to attempt to manipulate the answers. There was a small moment of silence when the women discovered that if their bf found out how opening they air out dirt they would all lose their relationships. Then they huffed that copium and told themselves that men are weird and that it was perfectly normal to talk about private topics with friends. It has been like 10 years and I never hung out with them again. They still contact me from time to time to see if I'm willing to hang out. I just ignore it. I'm a great friend, and a lot of my close lady friends see me as a pillar of support, but I will throw away a friendship in a moment if I even get a hint of disrespect.

Story 1 no it wouldn't have been better if the sister didn't tell him. Itd be worse if he found out later and they were married. Also how can he not fathom his sister got mad cause she cares? Be lucky she didn't side with the gf and join in, shes a good sister

Are we not gonna talk about how the cat laid down with him when he slept 😭💖

Story 1 - WOW Sister was “danged if I do, danger if I don’t.” OP is a fucking knob for this. I hate OP. Sis should just not say anything next time

@Maninawig

2 ай бұрын

I agree he is an idiot, and he needs to make it up to his sister, but it's sadly a normal reaction to attack the one thing you can when you're that distraught... he'll learn not to do it next time though.

@raven2785

2 ай бұрын

It's actually more common than you think, there's a reason why every time other people can see a woman is NOT good for your guy friend/family, they keep it to themselves. Like a good little horndog, the guy tends to side with the fish market between her legs. The only thing you can do, is be ready to catch him when he eventually pulls the cord on the parachute. The worst part is the horndog gets angry at you when you finally tell him that his girl was a See You Next Tuesday as if he wouldn't have cut you off if you told him when he was in too deep in the fishery.

@DesertRainReads

2 ай бұрын

Uh, yeah, did you not see the update? OP owned up to being an asshole to his sister, apologized and has been working on making things right with her. I think he's going to be much more considerate of her feelings and thanking her for having his back through it all in the near future.

@Lovelou613

2 ай бұрын

@@DesertRainReadsyeah after letting his girlfriend disrespect her

@Taveren

2 ай бұрын

Its not about intellegence its about emotions ​@@Maninawig

Story 1: OP was definitely originally the jerk but at least he made it up in a big way. Many OP's don't do that and just keep blaming someone else, I'm glad OP stuck up for his sister in the end

@mr.halfright

Ай бұрын

He didn't make anything up. Her sister did the right thing, and in return he abused her, let his gf abuse her, did absolutely nothing good for her, and in the end still broke up amicably with someone who talks crap about him behind his back and attacks his family. He's a spineless, selfish POS who doesn't deserve someone like his sister

@jamesplayzreviews

Ай бұрын

@@mr.halfright Not what I saw but okay

Girlfriend is a poster child for crappy people. Also, if girlfriend was his first, and sex is a skill (which it is), and girlfriend is blaming him for not being good at sex, go, exactly, does she think is responsible for what he’s earned? And she’s making fun of his “O” face and noises ? Really? We all look ridiculous at that moment.

Story 1 is the dumbest thing I've seen in years. OP is beyond being an idiot. He's a whole circus. "Oh, let's be friends" after you just insulted my sister? No. Greater than no. How the hell did he even start dating the girl? She doesn't sound like a pleasant person at all. It's just bewildering to listen to his story.

Man it’s just never a good idea to do sex stuff on screen for any reason. It almost never fails to be a bad idea that catches up to you at some point. We had a dude show his parents sex tape to the whole football team, who spread it around. The school found out. Imagine being the parents of THAT kid and having to go in and talk to the school office because your private sex tape is being spread around the whole school and a bunch of kids are watching it!!! I can’t even fathom the embarrassment of that situation, it’s too awful for words.

Op is a simp

First story, op is so infuriating tbh. They have to be young young. begs sister to tell him what was said, then get's angry sister tell's him what was said. Questioning why his sister would be angry because her brothers gf is sh** talking him/> maybe because shes actually a good sister. and thats just stuff from top of my head about him

Story 2: tell all of his family and also the police.

my anger issues could never

1st story, him saying he doesnt understand why his sister was mad about it. Like, maybe it's because she just found out someone she liked being around is talking shit behind her brothers back? I don't mean for this to come off in a snarky or annoyed way, but I don't get how someone wouldn't be able to understand someone else is upset about things being said about them because they care about the person, and don't like that another person was saying shit.

We love a bend to the side

Last story, know this is a bit off topic but if anyone out there has sleep apnoea and is concerned about a CPAP machine please don't be, it takes a bit of getting used to (3/4 nights) but it makes such a huge huge difference, give it a try it does help and is a life changer 💖

27:16 realest comment ever

Hey, for story 2, the C-P-A-P is pronounced Sea Pap

@safetzukic7445

2 ай бұрын

It's an auto voice, i.e. robots gonna read it like a robot. Lol

@Maninawig

2 ай бұрын

@@safetzukic7445 possibly, but that doesn't stop the channel creator from AltFing the term and replacing it with "Sea Pap"

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Story 2: Divorce your husband and go no contact with him and his entire family!

@andreavanhoof6047

2 ай бұрын

Story 2: Ignore previous comment! I am glad that husband and his family were not creeps except BIL!

@verygooddeal4436

2 ай бұрын

27:21 applies to you

Story 2. Can the wife sue the husband for this? He didn't have her consent to show their sex tapes. Did she know she was being filmed? Can she file charges? Omg. And divorce this POS.

@erickaennis2738

2 ай бұрын

I still don't trust the husband. I think Op is gaslighting herself. How did BIL even know about the videos? It's too suspect to me.

@teneluxio

2 ай бұрын

⁠@@erickaennis2738Oh please, you commented before you watched the whole thing and made yourself look like a fool. Both your first and second comment which were each debunked by OP. How about you swallow your pride and just admit you were wrong? You’re giving off the narcissist’s creed vibes.

@erickaennis2738

2 ай бұрын

How about you listen to the other commentors in the video. I am not the only person who thought this was suspect. I am entitled to my opinion. If I'm wrong, then so be it. But I am not going around attacking people for theirs. You are rude. But entitled to your own opinion. So stay blessed. And have a wonderful day.

OP is the definition of a simp. I admit I’m a people pleaser, and I STILL can’t imagine defending someone after they talked to me like that.