Enneagram 4s do all the work in their therapy sessions 😂 "Thank you for that question. I've already thought extensively about this, let me tell you about my inner complexities while you listen for an hour"

@halynmiyoko4735

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly this 😩

@magreyeyes

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao!! So ME!!!🤣🤣

@niki_singing

3 жыл бұрын

HHAHAHAHHAH ME

@doopeedoo

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@EveInTheMachine

3 жыл бұрын

LOL I can totally relate to this. I have an extremely high four wing, and I've always been quite obsessed with figuring out that stuff myself that I really ceased seeing the point in even going to therapy. I do my own crying therapy sessions at home now. 😂

And all the nines everywhere said “ l think I should start seeing a therapist...”

@KS-cz9qc

3 жыл бұрын

And also said, “This might actually be fun.” 😂

@kathyhughes8196

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah, baby, I've got a therapist! Love it!

@emilybarker3240

3 жыл бұрын

I’m a nine in therapy and this is hilarious because I went to process resentments that I needed to voice!

@k9qtea

3 жыл бұрын

I literally just commented that, haha

@crystalcleara.k.a.missyoko1430

3 жыл бұрын

This really hits home to be honest the moment you realize l need therapy

The 9 going off and letting out all her rage has me feeling so seen! ❤️🤣

“I just withdrew into my safe room. That’s what I’ve nicknamed my brain. I could spend all day in there.” 😂 Perfect!

As a 9 and a therapist I 100% approve of this video depiction lol

As a 9 who spent 11 weeks at an 8 week group therapy program before being told, “It’s ok, you’re good, you can go now...”, I approve this message 😂

@Jana-yd8je

11 ай бұрын

First I read "As a 9 who spent 11 weeks among 8s"... Was thinking. Good lord!! Why?

"This bleak, beautiful, dystopian wasteland that is the garden of my soul." That's beautiful--and so true. Who can understand it if I can't?

As a 9 I feel like the rest of the world is getting a glimpse of my inner monologue when the default in public is silence.

Type 5: "I think I'm going to DIY this" I own about 3 dozen self help books. I have gone back and forth with therapy vs. purchasing workbooks, researching, etc. . I literally received a DBT workbook in the mail today. 😂

Haha. 8 Here. Therapy Goal: Gentleness, Tenderness, and Softness. Fml The type 9 impression is SPOT ON!

@punkitten2456

3 жыл бұрын

I’m a 9 who went to couples therapy with an 8. Both interpretations had moments that seemed a little too spot on! Hilariously well done!

Me (a 5w4): Pauses intro to look up "Dodo Verdict." ....Ok, now I know and can proceed with the rest of the video...but I will probably end up down a rabbit hole of research later because of this...LOL ;)

As a 9 I can vouch for the accuracy of this portrayal. Deciding to go to therapy was the best decision ever and the hour was never long enough. My only regret has been not finding the therapist that I clicked with a decade earlier. I love knowing she is there if I need to return. My sister and closest friends are also privy to this side. Especially in private with some wine. It probably only took thirteen years for the friends to pry that door open. I’m glad they did and then proved I could trust them in the years since. Those that proved otherwise never ever get a hint of what’s behind that door as I smile gently and stand guard.

The 9! I am realizing how much fun seeing a therapist would be now! To rant to a total stranger about all the things people have done to upset me and let out everything I hold inside would be amazing!

The 9! 😂😂 crying with how accurate that is!

@aflyingfig

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@cocoa261

3 жыл бұрын

it hurts...

What you did with the nine in this video... in her insulated safe space... THANK YOU 🙏 ! I have always felt like an imposter nine because of all of that she’s holding back... and I always, I mean *always* use the phrase, “I’m not even exaggerating!”! Brilliant!!

@aflyingfig

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. I find myself saying that a lot too.

Thank you for all the great comments, friends! It looks like Leeann was finally able to nail the 9 (something on which she has been working very hard)! This one was a lot of fun for us so thank you, as always, for your feedback 😘😘

@milaalaniva775

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Bravo!

@expandwithmar

2 жыл бұрын

This is awesome, I lovr your videos SO MUCH even though I didn't always resonate with the way 9s were portrayed. (But I loved seeing all the others). So glad you were aware and working to get better at 9s!!!

I love how the four took total control of the session. She could teach the therapist a thing or two about feelings.

holy moly...that 9.... Leeann, I know you said why are 9's so freaking hard but you totally nailed it lol

Oh my goodness! I’m so filled with joy! I’m a 9 with a heavy 8 wing and I LOVE what you did with this character! I’ve watched your guys’ videos FOREVER and I can see how much work you’ve put into getting the 9 right! She’s evolved so much! No one else gets it quite right. Thank you!

As a psychotherapist I’m laughing and touched by all of your enneagram re-enactments. Spot on and I’m a 4. Brilliant.

Type 4. I feel attacked.

What's my Enneagram type? I'm a "You know me, just smiling and gaining and losing energy from meeting everyone's needs at the same time" wing "I wanna be the BEST client EVER" 😂❤

I’m a 9 and literally started going to a professional therapist because they were being paid to be legally bound to keep my stuff secret! 😆 I feel so seen 😅 (and it’s really uncomfortable 🙈😂)

I am a 5. This is accurate. 👍

@ILuvHudson1

3 жыл бұрын

My husband is a 5. I'm a 9. We do therapy together. 😂 I have to stop talking to see if he will say anymore words.

@elliebeth09

3 жыл бұрын

@@ILuvHudson1 My fiancé is an 8, and I can see a similar dynamic between us that you mention. I’m perfectly fine letting him be the one to share all of his thoughts and feelings during our pre-marital counseling sessions; I sit there and just think my thoughts. 😂

Lol@4. But lordie we cry during therapy. 😭😭😭

@Youtubeknowwho

3 жыл бұрын

Girl yes. So many feelings.

The Seven fidgeting with tissues in therapy is tooo real 😅

Ohhhh the life of a 9!!! Great job ladies!

@mrs.manrique7411

3 жыл бұрын

The 9 made me think of my sister when she calls me. The first thing out of her mouth is either, "Don't tell mommy this," or "Am I on speaker phone?"

"That sounds deeply unpleasant. Who would agree to that?"

As a 9 with fluctuating mental health, this gives me a bit of motivation to look into therapy

As a five this hit too true. I've been avoiding looking for a therapist because I feel like i haven't learned enough about therapy to go. I need more information! 😩 who what when where why and all that jazz

@yuukinoyuki9064

3 жыл бұрын

I definitely fall into the, "there's no greater high than fixing a problem yourself" mentality 😂

That darn dishwasher just can't do the dishes right.

For the whole video I'm like..I don't understand..and they are exaggeratting..and then 8 comes on and I'm like..yeh that's my hubby in a woman's body..and then my sweet 9 comes on..and I'm like 😂😭😂😭😂 riiight...this is what my last appointment actually looked like..via phone though, but I did sit on the floor and poured my heart out 😂😭

@kathyhughes8196

3 жыл бұрын

Also a 9 married to an 8! What an insane combo!!

@kamilaapetauer

3 жыл бұрын

@@kathyhughes8196 yeh..quite insane 😅 but what a tool enneagram has been to us ! 🙌

@kathyhughes8196

3 жыл бұрын

@@kamilaapetauer Us too!

Have you guys done one on the different enneagrams firing someone? My friend and I were talking about this the other day and how I’m an 8 and just would walk in and say “You’re fired. You didn’t do what you were hired for. Leave now” and my friend who is a 9 just wouldn’t show up

I felt the 4, deeply.

Being a two is such a yikes. I hate how accurate it is

Enneagram 5, I showed up to therapy with an outline of my life and list of probable issues. Got told I had a problematic relationship with my mother so I decided to research that on my own. Anyway, this was so accurate, it’s inspired.

@emnelson4315

3 жыл бұрын

Ha! Relatable. I went to a therapist who said some things I liked and resonated with. I asked her where she learned them and she named a book. I read the book and was like, OK, I no longer need to see the therapist. 😂 5 swings 4 and 6. P.S. I used to be a therapist. Exhausting!! What was my 5 self thinking??? Just because I like to know psychology things doesn’t mean I’m a good fit to be a therapist.

The nine was spot on. I've honestly felt everything emotion expressed over someone sighing when I ask a small favor! Also, I'm pretty sure I will unleash the beast within if I go to therapy. It might just be the liberation I've been needing.

Oh, the 9!! 😅😅😅

STOPPP I’m a 4 & the other day I was like “I should start thinking about my funeral someday.” ....I’m only 24 😭

@jessymv65

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 27 and I’ve basically planned mine down to the biodegradable urn... I’m a 4 if you couldn’t tell

@doopeedoo

3 жыл бұрын

Saaaame! I’ve already wrote some things down 😂

@glampermeg7254

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 37 and already have my full funeral planned, music, location, placement of ashes, poetry read, etc.

Great video! Leeann is pregnant! Congratulations!

The 9 was spot on! I’m a 9 and I have a temper for sure. Like a dormant volcano lol

Wow, the commitment from Leanne to even embodying the different energy in the voices 👏 Subscribed!

Okay, I have never been to counseling but I could see myself becoming a blubbering mess. Yes, I am a 9😅😂🤣

@ILuvHudson1

3 жыл бұрын

You're allowed! That's what therapy is for!! (Also a nine)

the six is so accurate lol

I laughed out loud at the 9 starting with the blanket! As a grad student on my way to be a therapist, I dream of the basket of ultrasoft blankets that my clients can snuggle with. And the rest of it... gold.

@expandwithmar

2 жыл бұрын

That was sooo accurate...Im a 9 and currently wrapped in a blanket as I watched that 😅

@elisa4620

Жыл бұрын

Blankets are the best! Blankets save lives!

Ahhh!!! The 9 is liberated!!! 🦅

The 9! ❤️❤️❤️ Feeling so targeted 😆

OMG! The 9 is so, so perfect! Wow. Absolutely. Oh boy that is dead on. Yep.

I'm a 9w1 and this was so accurate. Literally one of the first things my therapist does is hand me a blanket, because she knows I'm gonna reach for it anyway lol. And I will lose my mind if things aren't sorted correctly!

DIY my therapy is what I’ve said to myself for years hahahaha

Ok...a 9 has never opened up to me then. 😐 I was curious because everyone was saying how spot on it was.

@tiffanychildwithin

2 жыл бұрын

I know this video is old so who knows if you'll see this, but as a high 9, I could not relate to this one at all. I could NEVER bring so much conflict into a therapy session. The other videos they do though that 9 was nailed!

7s in therapy CAN sit still. But mostly we bemoan all the things we've started and never finished. Or we rattle off our plans for the future. In either case, an hour is hardly enough. And the action steps prescribed at the end of the session? Tough luck asking us to squeeze that into our 5,000-page to-do list. Love you, Leeann & Michelle! Can't wait to share this video to all my Enneagram buddies...especially the 9s. 😂

I spy the Monument Earrings by Noonday Collection on Leeann!! Way to rock those, girl!!

So good! I laughed so hard at the 4, 8, and 9 ones especially.

Okay.... I feel I'm both Types 2 and 3 in therapy. Especially with "I'm just tired because I'm taking care of everyone else," and "Why is it that my picture doesn't get more likes."

That 2 is so accurate. I'm constantly putting others before my self goals

Finally someone showed what I am really like at home as a 9. Lol I never understood all the naps and such. I act like this 9 afterwork everyday!

Brilliant, love all of the enneagram clips you create. So spot on and they resonate deeply! I attended a panel yesterday where a Two was describing her terrible experience of having houseguests who did not appreciate all her efforts and had not predicted her own needs as a host - would love to see you create a clip about the types hosting houseguests!

The 7 one also works for going to a funeral with one and trying to get them to talk about it🤦‍♀️ I’ve been to several with my brother now. Also as a 3 therapy started with me telling her my specific goals and what she would not be diagnosing me with because I knew I didn’t have those things and it would be a waste of time😂

The more I watch these, the more I find myself resonating with the 8, which makes me even more sure I'm a 5! That comment about admitting when I'm wrong but never actually being wrong I have uttered in many arguments. And I've even told men that if they aren't tough/dominant enough, I'll end up being tough on them and treating them like a sub, and I don't want to do that! haha But I guess I had to grow into these behaviors. I wasn't very assertive or confident as a kid. Btw, I always love the 4's dialog. Always so dramatically poetic and beautifully macabre. And it always has me busting up laughing in embarrassment. -- 5w4

As a 4w5, I am wounded!

@duck7237

2 жыл бұрын

Me too and this was so accurate!

I’m a 2 and I had the energy conversation with my therapist today. From my bed. Which I hadn’t left all day.

“I’d like you to tell me what to discover.” Six here 🙋🏻‍♀️

Ok sending this to my therapist, ( maybe she will be new fan now?!?) Lol!! Ive got to know my types! Im sure Im more than one..

So accurate! Great job guys!

I AM DYING! I'm a 9 and that was absolutely hysterical. So accurate.

Fabulous! Great actresses, you really managed to get the 9 types little things that they do that makes them who they are. Great video! Thanks

YESSS the crying 3 *called out**

you girls are really amazing. well done for all this that you do!

8 and 9 were the best! (Maybe because my husband is an 8 and I'm a 9.) :-)

my problems started when my sister was born....yes, she is older than me.... bahahahah

I’m a 1. That is basically a reenactment of my very first therapy session... and quite a few since actually 🤔😬

This one is such a HOOT!!! God how I love you two. This one made me laugh as I have left the T2 in integration to T4 and I literally laughed hooted out loud at T 4. I'd nodded to the passing T2, but T4 really got me, an insight into this new thinking! T8 is a good one, I have a friend I'm forwarding this to. I have taught the Enneagram for years....T5 was portrayed perfectly. Never been able to understand fully the T6, so this gave me good insight into a friendship with a 6> Then I so loved the angelic T9 loosing it! Yes, finally a little anger and judgement! LOL And HOOT! Thank you for the best laugh this morning!

@bodhimartina6985

6 ай бұрын

Funny, here I am after 2 years....lost you for awhile

Oh wow you got my type 2 mother 100% right on

I love you ladies, you makes me laugh. Im an 8 with a 7 wing, and I have been wrong only 2 times in my life.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I’d like to see Michelle do a 7!

Feeling very called out as a 2. Lol

Omg this was brilliant👌🥳

Oh why must I be a 4 🤣🤣🤣🤣 whyyyyyy???

8:46 having external stimulation is very helpful for everyone (especially repressed adults) in order to distract ones brain long enough to get out the real issues from behind the barrier. Dont knock stim toys till you try it

😂😂😂😂😂 HILARIOUS!!! LOVE THIS!!!

Dang! I am an 8 and I everything was spot on since the beginning with me. I laugh so much now but again dang! Lol lol 😂

Nailed it.

The voices! Is enneagram 2 a Minnesota accent? 😂😂😂

As a 5, I need to know how you got into my sessions. I demand to know who you work-- What? That's normal? All right, I'll let it go this time.

I really am an enneagram 2 lmfaoooo everything is always spot on, I love it cause I both feel understood and less alone and you also make it fun and since I waste so much energy on making others happy, having something that makes me happy is very necessary cause being a people pleaser and high sensitive easily develops into depression lol

I literally annoy my therapist with back and forth small instances of "Did you know that-" Type 5 literally turns the table between therapist and patient around

I am the 2 too funny! Replaying all the things that happened in my head, yes! Lol

Lol that nine must have an eight wing xD

4s make me laugh

I’m a 4w5 but the 1 and 2 are relatable 😂

’I should also mention I've been planning a funeral for myself’ 🤣🤣🤣

@Jana-yd8je

11 ай бұрын

😄wow. Not a 4, here, but going there sometimes. Calling me out in this vid

Lol 8w9 and yes, let’s get the most out of this hour please!

I feel personally attacked and highly entertained. Spot on mates. Spot on. 👏🏽 😂

Can you tell 2 I had a really chaotic/stressful day and I could really use some vegan cowboy cookies.

I feel /so/ called out by 5, well done

Who would agree to that....🤣🤣

Omg that 9 was scary

This is brilliant. Question - how do you two decide which numbers you'll each do?

Okay, the level of accuracy is scary.