For all things Type 9 Peacemakers: kzread.info/head/PLm1xoeY8KrF44SHjr0_FiTwgoI0NdXkNs

istg ive mistyped myself as almost every type but my habit of disconnecting/dissociating from a situation whenever I feel threatened and then panic when it comes right up in my face.Looking for a fuel source was so true tho.Finally finding my true type feels so good!!

@YouveGotaType

Жыл бұрын

So glad my videos could help ya find your type!! Thanks for watching and leaving the comment - always great to hear.

Dang… Put my childhood on blast why don’t you 😭😂

@YouveGotaType

Жыл бұрын

🫣 whoops…

Holy shit, you have described my childhood as if you were there watching. Uncanny.

@YouveGotaType

11 ай бұрын

🙏

That first childhood years part is so true for me, omg how the heck do u know that😭

@YouveGotaType

Жыл бұрын

You're definitely not alone 🙏

You didn’t have to call me out like that lmao

@YouveGotaType

Жыл бұрын

lol sorry 😬

@zeinabsaleh6414

Ай бұрын

😂

The trauma I experienced wasn’t as grave as let’s say being SA’d but you are so right I was definitely more of a 3 in my childhood and youth. Great work 🎉

@YouveGotaType

5 ай бұрын

Thanks so much! And glad to hear the trauma experience wasn't so severe 🙏

A fourth, less discussed, response to trauma is called fawning, or people-pleasing. The fawn response is a coping mechanism in which individuals develop people-pleasing behaviors to avoid conflict, pacify their abusers, and create a sense of safety. So for 9s people pleasing could be a strong childhood trauma response.

@YouveGotaType

10 күн бұрын

Yup sure can. Ironically, people are rarely "pleased" with so called people pleasers. There almost needs to be a better name for this kind of "hiding."

Looks like i had mistyped myself in an analytical mood yesterday and this is more me I am a major procrastinator becausei can't deal with stressful situations.

@YouveGotaType

11 ай бұрын

Makes sense!

Omg…. That’s me 😢 (9w1)

@YouveGotaType

Жыл бұрын

You’re not alone 🙏

i'm a 9w8 and definitely didn't have the best childhood. didn't grow up with a father cause he sucked and we actively had to stay away from where that person was living, and we moved places a lot (over 10 times). my mom is unstable and not the most accepting person. and there's a lot more, I won't get into detail, so yeah, not great. however I can't relate to getting into relationships that are unhealthy. I'm very introverted and the moment someone crosses my boundaries... I just leave. plus I'm aroace so I don't get into relationships at all :p (yeah ik it can be applied to friendships too but I don't like having a huge friend circle either so my point still stands) it's interesting, sometimes I really don't act like a usual 9. it's like instead of trying to *make* peace with others, I instead just push them and their chaos away, out of my life, which can result in me being rude fairly often? maybe im not even a 9 tho cause i do relate a lot to 4. i also relate to a bit of 5 and 6 and 7 and 8 and- idk maybe its all just the autism (i am autistic so yeah thats probably 90% of my problems tbh)

Holy heck lol spot on

@YouveGotaType

Жыл бұрын

:) hope it was helpful!

Yes, 💯

why is this so true

@YouveGotaType

Жыл бұрын

Many generations of wisdom from brilliant minds all rolled into one system :)

Well that really says it, this makes me sad to be a nine

Idk if I’m a 6w5 or 9w1 I mean 😅I’ll continue to think about it

No puede ser, soy yo en toda su expresión.

@YouveGotaType

Жыл бұрын

¡Estoy feliz de escuchar que se sintió preciso!

“9s learn to suppress their desires, which is an incredibly de-energizing pattern.“ Time to look to my own needs, desires, and emotions as a fuel source to free / motivate / direct energy! (In MBTI INFP / Enneagram 9 Peacemaker: stop false tertiary introverted sensing Si ‘maturity’ and idealizing bad past / unhealthy stress 6 traditionalist behaviors, reconnect with core primary introverted feeling Fi values and Type 9 peace, identify auxiliary/secondary extroverted intuition Ne interests that are both fun and should be directing attention, and utilize inferior/quaternary extroverted thinking Te and healthy development 3 achiever dash of needed structure. 5 Element parallels as well, though I need to review. Something like: Fire Heart suffers from not sadness but unstable / lack of joy, blocking vital energy. Need to develop Wood fuel of will and structure to steady dancing Fire flames. Strong Interest Inventory A Artistic motivated by self-expression. CliftonStrengths of Intellection, Input, Lerner, Ideation, Maximizer. VIA Character Strengths: Bravery, Appreciation of Beauty, Love, Creativity, Perspective.)