I am working on this right now in therapy I had trouble understanding it until I watched these videos thank you !!!

@schematherapyinstituteaust

3 жыл бұрын

glad it was helpful for you!

This describes my relationship right now. It's so frustrating. I'm the attached she's the avoidant. I feel helpless sometimes

damn the thing about I need space really resonated with me, I do this a lot. bullseye and ballpark is a good way of outlining it

@schematherapyinstituteaust

Жыл бұрын

Glad it's helpful!

Very interesting thank you!

very helpful. in my faith, we hv a holding cross...this helps me see how it is helpful. just wonder if Rita can stabilise her video? maybe get a gyro stand. :D Thanks so much!

@schematherapyinstituteaust

Жыл бұрын

So glad it is helpful for you!

I have this schema, no maternal bond, or affection, emotions ignored etc. but I’m more avoidant in intimate relationships. Like I’m mirroring what I didn’t see or experience as a child. Is this a normal one too?

@schematherapyinstituteaust

Жыл бұрын

yes there are different ways of coping with the schema - have a look at the avoidant coping modes.

@blissbombseventeen8114

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏! I will have a look and bring it to my psychologist xx

isnt this a huge difference between what a partner can give you and emotional deprivation from childhood? I dont care my perter is lovely if my parents failed....

@schematherapyinstituteaust

3 жыл бұрын

Hurt that happens in relationships can be also healed in relationship but it's long road 55linka and therapy is often needed in that situation.