High-performing students who earn high grades throughout their K-12 experience can develop a misguided belief that their grades are the proof of their intelligence, and even their worth. But being wrong and failing grades are not disqualifiers; failure is a part of learning. Edwin W. Lee II, PhD is the son of parents who are both former soldiers and teachers. He is the brother of a talented chef, a godfather to three beautiful children, and a friend to many. Edwin is a higher education administrator who serves as the Assistant Director for Student Academic Success in the Office of Diversity, Outreach & Inclusion in the College of Engineering at The Ohio State University (OSU). His work focuses on empowering historically underserved engineering students with learning instruction, problem solving skills and career engagement opportunities that enhance their educational experience by improving their self-efficacy and sense of belonging. He completed his undergraduate work at Louisiana State University and masters and PhD work in electrical engineering at OSU. He is also the co-host of the podcast "Black Men Unlearning," a member of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc. and the National Society of Black Engineers. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx