Let the man cry damn! He is losing his wife and you fools think it's a joke.

@onlychino

3 жыл бұрын

Fr if it was reversed, people wouldn’t be laughing

@H81234

3 жыл бұрын

@@onlychino exactly people still have a lot of growing up to do. This comment section is part of the problem. Men aren’t allowed to express their feelings still? 🤦🏻‍♀️ I don’t care how he looks crying or whatever. The man is broken people need to leave him alone. It’s heartbreaking.

@onlychino

3 жыл бұрын

@@H81234 I know right? Men are told to just “man up” or “get over it” that’s why men die by suicide more than women. Men need to know that it’s ok to feel like this. It’s ok to talk to someone. I’d rather listen to you then cry at your funeral you know? It’s so sad.

@Simon_Electric

3 жыл бұрын

Its better out than in, he's being true to his emotions, now the healing process can begin.

@H81234

3 жыл бұрын

@big boi what does having emotions have to do with gender? If that was the case men wouldn’t have the abilities to have any emotions.

I feel so bad for this man, I really hope he’s doing better. Good on him for being open about the pain he was feeling.

@robynjames3505

3 жыл бұрын

he is! they came back on the show a year later & he looks and acts completely different. they help they provided really made a difference and they were even able to mend the relationship:)

@robynjames3505

3 жыл бұрын

it’s on youtube!

@danielguzman4338

3 жыл бұрын

He is

@czpanama

3 жыл бұрын

Soyboy!!!

@Mtb-cp6gz

3 жыл бұрын

Don't feel sorry for him. He's a mug. He's the people who pay us "extra" money. It's his choice to be that way

Funny thing is she clapped when he told him to leave

@StealthMode3924

3 жыл бұрын

She was sick of him and his attitude.

@TinaM7

2 жыл бұрын

I saw that to

@5thhorseman982

Жыл бұрын

Thats how the show works ....BLAH BLAH BLAH, WOOOO, clap clap clap.

@orefiledilotsotlhe3447

Жыл бұрын

How can she do that? She bought all of that on herself.

Well done, Dr Phil, totally inappropiate! Don´t laugh at people´s pain. Men also cry, men also have feelings and emotions.

@08starheart

3 жыл бұрын

The laughers (for others' pain) deserve to have their asses whooped

@wyattcorbett9631

3 жыл бұрын

Wrong real men swallow their pain and keep it in a deep pit in their heart until it eventually kills them

@hughjanus125

3 жыл бұрын

It’s just Phil. He’s no doctor

@dbzispimpin

3 жыл бұрын

Men are not allowed to show pain or weakness. Even in this super liberal climate, where everyone's feelings are taken into account and there's so many avenues for emotional support for kids, women, teens... etc... Men just get laughed at. If a women is slapped in the face by a man the entire country will grind to a halt, it will be on every news station, there will be parades and ribbons for domestic violence, there will be support groups and hotlines for women in trouble... but if a man is attacked by a women it's laughed at and ridiculed. We live in a world of pure hypocrisy. Bullying is bad unless it lines up with the typical liberal agenda, in which ONE kind of bullying is totally okay, but if it's against a child, a woman, a person of color, a trans person or a person with an unorthodox sexual preference, then it's heresy, but if someone is physically or emotionally abusing, attacking or torturing a man, especially a WHITE man, all you'll hear is crickets.

@LauRa-re9un

3 жыл бұрын

@@dbzispimpin Totally agree. That is why I find the laughs totally inappropiate.

I like how the guy crying wasn't even affected by his laughter, he just continued the conversation even while the audience was still clapping, he just ignored it and I'm proud of him!

@jenniferoviawe6616

8 күн бұрын

It's because he got the sympathy that he was looking for.

I don't think the husband's crying is a "weakness". He looks emotionally depleted. This was the first time a professional told his wife that her behavior was destroying his mental health. Obvious he doesn't have a good support system in his life.

@icareg

3 жыл бұрын

his mannerisms are very boyish. its eerie tbh. to me its like hes a small child that needs a mommy (his s/o)

@czpanama

3 жыл бұрын

It's not weakness, it's soy.😉

@willa.568

3 жыл бұрын

I feel this man’s pain. Emotionally depleted is the exact way to put it.

@VinOnline

3 жыл бұрын

@@czpanama haha

@justacupoftea5771

3 жыл бұрын

@@icareg I really don't think so personally, the person he put so much time and effort into has treated him with nothing but disrespect than to top it all off she cheats on him. I don't think he is completely innocent here but he is just done with everything, having someone tell you that the person that you love isn't the right fit is a very emotional thing especially coming from a professional. give then man a break smh

Real men cry. It can be an emotion, a need, a release. I cry. And never ashamed of the tears.

@franklegere6939

2 жыл бұрын

AS does a garter snake. So I guess that makes it a real man. Good to know next time I'm working in the yard.

@sarahdemartin1183

2 жыл бұрын

@@franklegere6939 real men cry and it’s attractive

@dallaspatterson4844

2 жыл бұрын

Not in public. Don't humiliate yourself on national TV. Really!!!!

@rachaelsnapp8654

2 жыл бұрын

@Uncle Gilbert You're one of those guys that punches walls when he's upset, aren't you?

@TJ-it1bm

Жыл бұрын

Crying is one thing, but blubbering due to weakness is a whole other problem. Even AFTER Dr. Phil kicked the guy off the stage there were a couple of snickers from the audience because of this overgrown baby's over the top reaction.

A real man is not afraid to cry, no matter who's watching.

@GypsyGirl317

2 жыл бұрын

That's right. I raised my son that way too, and he's a strong man, a wonderful husband and father, and is comfortable crying in appropriate situations. 💖

I could hug doctor Phil for kicking that self-righteous man off stage

I love when Dr.Phil knocks someone off a pedestal, or even just a high chair on his stage.

@chanajohnson4833

2 жыл бұрын

I do too

Bless this crying man, he's a good man!

@jannaw9167

3 жыл бұрын

He choked out his wife on a freeway

@theofficialzeldamaster6377

3 жыл бұрын

He's a abusive controlling bastard.

@iloading_

2 жыл бұрын

@@jannaw9167 oh ur so perfect huh

@scootchieandboo7475

2 жыл бұрын

@@iloading_probably actually! it's not hard to be better, just don't choke and abuse someone who wants to leave you lol

@positiveego5397

2 жыл бұрын

No he is not, but he can be better.

I consider myself somewhat of a manly man and I promise I’ll cry in an instant about my wife and family

@irene16no23

3 жыл бұрын

And i love you for it! Dont ever change! ❤👏💪

@amnanoreen7486

3 жыл бұрын

That’s so cute

@geoculus5606

3 жыл бұрын

@@jacejohnson7113 It's difficult to talk sometimes when you're crying.

@abdullahabdilaahi3872

3 жыл бұрын

@@geoculus5606 Yh, your voice becomes muffled.

@DizzyK1D

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao u aint manly if u crying over a female then u fool

I can’t stand seeing grown men cry I always end up in tears too I don’t see how someone can smirk and laugh at someone suffering.

I hope this man found someone absolutely amazing and this memory is barely a blip on his radar! God bless him.

@saramarshall2957

2 жыл бұрын

I think he got back together with the wife

I was married to my wife for 18 years. Married at 18.. 4 kids later she ran off with a crackhead.. now she is homeless on the streets. Strung out on meth and heroin. Im raising the kids solo.. letting go was the hardest thing. She even used me for a while. Money. Food.. rides.. etc.. and I jumped for her... my 12 yr old daughter told me to stop one day when I was heading out the door for her... she said she will use me as long as I let her... and you can't help someone who won't help themselves... and she was right.. currently I have sole custody. Kids haven't seen her in over a year. They don't ever want to see her.. and all we've heard of her is she's strung out.. homeless. Won't work. Shacking up with any guy who will give her a place to sleep. Some things you just can't fix.

@shubhampathak3633

3 жыл бұрын

more power to you... keep it going... tough job indeed.

@Venezia41

3 жыл бұрын

You're very strong ☘️

@murdahmammiez

5 ай бұрын

Ur daughter is wise beyond her years Protect her at all costs and get ur kids some therapy. Having an absent mother can cause long lasting wounds

@damamae950

25 күн бұрын

you have all my best wishes for health and strength

@dshdesigns

25 күн бұрын

Update.... Still haven't seen the kids mom.. but we're doing great. Bought a house. Kids are all on honor roll and happy as can be. Couldnt ask for more. Honestly and sad to say... with her not in the picture life's great and were doing better then we ever have.

Oh bless him, he is so heart broken. Poor guy 😭

That awkward moment when you're jewish and you emotionally cry out "Thank you Jesus!" on national tv 😳🤐😅😂🤣🤣

@kimmoore0427

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao! Best comment ever! I am ☠️☠️☠️ 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

@johnmcmanus2447

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think he was Jewish? I know the rabbi is, obviously, but I don't think Charles is?

It’s not weak of him to cry. What is sad is his wanting this woman in his life despite her treating him like dirt. She thinks she can snag another man easily…. Nooo ma’am. You’re not all that.

@annepurcell4495

2 жыл бұрын

I know, right? She looks like a busted Bratz doll.

@miltoncat

2 жыл бұрын

@@annepurcell4495 haha!

@Joy-ne8sj

2 жыл бұрын

He’s weak, because he choked her, and threw her out of a car on the freeway, and purposely keeps her from talking to friends, and family. No real man would put his hands on his wife in anger.

It’s funny cause he’s a religious man but he won’t adhere to “thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s wife”.

@jasonborda4145

3 жыл бұрын

not every man who believes in Jesus follows the commandments you know.

@hungrygamer7717

3 жыл бұрын

Well he’s a Jew

@ng3069

Ай бұрын

Then you're not following Jesus! ​@@jasonborda4145

"If you ever gonna be together it´s gonna be from a position of strenth, not weakness".

This is like a Mad TV skit.

@jodydunlap6374

4 ай бұрын

THATS WHAT I THOUGHT!!!

That’s Phil’s way of saying “only I will mock and shame guests. Not you”

@DwightLivesMatter

8 ай бұрын

Exactly, he just wanted the power for himself.

@MyVideos-fm7ug

8 ай бұрын

@@DwightLivesMatterfor sure. At the same time, I do have to give Phil some credit for handling that accordingly. That man he was mocking is clearly going through something bad. In fact, I sense overtones of suicide with him, and possibly even homocide to go with it. There’s no limit to the number of lives someone like that will take along for the ride with them whenever they come to the decision that their “off the deep end” moment is going to happen right then and there… wherever that may be

@jennifersuzannebk5149

20 күн бұрын

These people are so gross

It's because he is laughing and being inappropriate while Coach Mike Bayer is talking.

@maryannerapana3375

3 жыл бұрын

Just plain rude and no consideration of other people who needed help when someone smirk down on a person...

@LauRa-re9un

3 жыл бұрын

@@maryannerapana3375 Totally inappropiate.

@rosenbaum75

3 жыл бұрын

You think? Hmm... I hadn't thought of that. I wonder.

@The_DC_Kid

3 жыл бұрын

No it wasn't. It was bc the jackass was laughing about the man crying.

@chanajohnson4833

2 жыл бұрын

@@jacejohnson7113 Yes I heard that too

I have never cheered so hard at a TV in my life as I did when that's smug SOB was kicked off stage, and when Dr. phil said imma call your rabbis etc, I went stupid cheering like YESS!!! FRIGGEN EH!!!! Finally some justice for those who truly suffer in the heart.... I just wanted that poor guy to be validated and he soooo was.... Bless him and dr. Phil for his intolerance of that unethical prick.

Bless him. I hope he’s in a better place now.

Its better out than in, he's being true to his emotions, now the healing process can begin.

"If you laugh at someone who cries, I promise I will make you cry" - Grandpa

That was a fake cry and it was ridiculous 🤣

I can't see how these people can go on TV for these issues. It's so hard to express and process emotions like this without having national TV watching and judging.

He just needs to get it though his head that she doesn’t want to be with him like she left him 19 times you can’t force someone to be to be with you

@analigiabatres9114

2 жыл бұрын

@D and Z it is understandable that it would be difficult to move on. But you need to accept it if someone doesn't want to be with you. HE ABUSED HER.

@cynthialewis690

2 жыл бұрын

Was it missed?? In 12 years together, they had "relations" 1 time. Probably not what she was wanting, needing, and expecting. Her self worth was at its lowest point, and this dude shows up. Thats how that happened. Never underestimate the importance of mental, emotional, and physical intimacy in a relationship. It can manifest itself in many ways depending on the circumstance. But it must be there.

I respect Dr. Phil for doing this because he was being disrespectful. Then again, this dude was crying very dramatically as well 😂😅

@Tommygunn258

3 жыл бұрын

Women love a man who whines and cries like a 5 year old, it gets them excited and you know it's true

@chanajohnson4833

2 жыл бұрын

@@Tommygunn258 Ummmmmm not at all I have no clue where you got that from but that's not true whatsoever

@Tommygunn258

2 жыл бұрын

@@chanajohnson4833 I was just being sarcastic, I didn't mean it

@chanajohnson4833

2 жыл бұрын

@@Tommygunn258 Oh damn you for sure had me thinking you were serious😂😂😂😂😲😏😏My bad then lol

@c2thefuture

2 жыл бұрын

@@chanajohnson4833 I heard that on Buzzfeed Very reputable source imo

I felt something was off with his tears, it didnt feel genuine. Not sure if him laughing was so despicable.

You can here some audience laughter when he says “ I don’t have to like it do I?!”

Wow the way these people act over getting help. Sheesh.

I feel so bad for that crying man that I just wanna give him a big hug!

oh my goodness i felt so sad for him. that’s true pain no filter

Listen I want everyone to know I was this guy a year ago all you men out there treat your women like gold because once they're gone that's when you realize what you lost way too late what this man is feeling is real pain maybe a little bit of guilt and shame absolutely let him cry let him get it out

How did dr Phil hold it together 😂😂

Lord have mercy wrap your arms around him.

Did anyone notice audience members laughing too though?

@topsuperdave64

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I noticed it 1:27

I'm all for second chances and forgiveness in relationships; but I could never get back together with a man who's choked me out and dragged me out of a car by my blouse on side of a freeway.

That rightfully called smug little man needed to be held accountable. Go Dr Phil!!

Yeah u should never laugh at peoples pain especially as a “counselor” smh I hope the husband is ok and moved on and is healthy

his mannerisms are very boyish. its spooky tbh. to me its like hes a small child that needs a mommy (his s/o)

@chloevassallo6288

3 жыл бұрын

He seems so emotional about losing her yet he’s abusive and doesn’t wanna take responsibility hes probs got biopolar or some

@icareg

3 жыл бұрын

@@chloevassallo6288 sure but it's pretty common for a child to have tantrums and be abusive towards their parents. It's somewhat to be expected.

Usually I laugh at these situations but the look in the man's eyes makes me feel so sad for em

0:55 Roaring round of applause to dr phil!!! NEVER AND I MEAN NEVER LAUGH AT SOMEONE SUFFERING!!!!

@dr.menyac6499

Жыл бұрын

Probably the same dude who made a ww2 joke last week

Lmfao dr phil is actually calling his synagogue

Phil turning into Maury. Soon he'll be like, "You are NOT the father!" 😄

I get a Chris Farley vibe from this guy for some reason. Hope he's doing better, though. He was really hurting there.

@nickgates4259

3 жыл бұрын

Its cause hes acting

@simonacland9028

3 жыл бұрын

I thought of big Farley aswell but yeah he's a nice bloke :)

Seems like a lot of unnecessary drama when the end prize is her. Take it as a blessing dude and leave. Let smug face take care of her.

This guy seems awesome, I hope he's doing good today.

Everyone’s proud of this crying man and me as a sensitive man himself can honestly say that although there’s so much support by women I. These comments, it’s simply not reality, he’s not helping his case and woman do not in reality choose men who exhibit this openness emotionally.

I totally agree 👍it might have been awkward for people watching but I think it's because he was in so much pain and it finally came out. Probably after many many years of pain.

That was an eye opener 😳 ❤ Thanks Dr . Phil ❤

I never understood why it's called "asking" someone to leave, asking implies you can choose not, that it's a request, shouldn't it be "telling" someone to leave.

@reactking7093

2 жыл бұрын

As long as you can understand it there's no point in wasting thought on it.

Did a Jewish man say “thank you Jesus.” Or am I missing something.

@alanalycan3986

2 жыл бұрын

Can someone please explain to me why that's bad ??😬😬 Google says Jesus is Jewish , what am I missing???

@CJ15554

2 жыл бұрын

@@alanalycan3986 Jesus was a Jew. He was also God in the flesh. The Jewish people reject him as God. So it’s strange to hear a Jew thank someone they reject.

@alanalycan3986

2 жыл бұрын

@@CJ15554 ahh ok ! Thanks

I begin to feel his emotions being he was losing someone he wanted to love and honor. And somewhere down the line, it will take a stronger woman that can pick him back up and put him back on his feet. Unfortunately, no other woman (besides my mother) has put me on my feet yet - not once in my lifetime. And it won't be long until I turn 41. I already know what the next 41 years of my life is gonna be - the same as it's always been - permanently cursed. No girlfriend, no wifey...

If you don't let them feelings out they will turn inward into anger and that's when you become bitter and angry at the world you have to feel your emotions and work through them.

@Lighthousepreserve

2 жыл бұрын

Then it hurts the body. The body keeps the score.

Respect Dr Phil Telling it how it is 👌💯 Poor man hope he wins his wife back

I felt like this my first year after my divorce in 1999 and it was tough. I have only had 1 relationship in 2009 to 2011 and still single in 2021. I love women and just have no clue how to approach them anymore.

He needs major counseling for co-dependency. Omgg 19 times, why does she keep going back!!! I think she gets off on him, wanting her so much.

@analigiabatres9114

2 жыл бұрын

When I first watched this I thought this was one sided abuse. I'm wondering about the woman now though.

No rabbi or Synagogue would agree with this. I remember watching the episode when it first aired. Really SAD.

I tell my son it's ok to cry...it's ok to share his feelings....it's human thing

@jennifersuzannebk5149

20 күн бұрын

Why?

The guy’s getting tossed is one of the few times I’ve agreed with Dr. Phil. I normally think he’s a jerk.

Only strong men cry. It's little boys who don't.

@firemonkey1015

3 жыл бұрын

Not true, it’s about the time and place imo

I'm glad he asked that particular man to leave. It is absolutely cruel to make fun of someone who is upset!!!

Dr Phil is a SUPER EMPATH! 👍🙏🕊️

A job damn well done Doc. I legit feel sorry for Charles. Although he did abuse Sally, he was open with his mistakes & he truly wanted to try to change himself for the better, which I can absolutely respect.

Well that was awkward 😳

This narcissistic abuser crying about loosing his wife immediately after justifying choking her, is a joke

@DwightLivesMatter

8 ай бұрын

Exactly... he deserves no pity. His feigned remorse is indeed laughable.

Best , cut to the chase TRUTH! Well Done.

I ain't gonna lie. I laughed also.

@arnoldhernandez1910

3 жыл бұрын

Oh ok so i wasn't the only 1 😅

@arnoldhernandez1910

3 жыл бұрын

@Nino Sokrivo yes i kno lol

@MrIgottap

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I'd have to go sit in the corner too.

@cassandramartinez6263

3 жыл бұрын

Anhahahahahahahhh

@cassandramartinez6263

3 жыл бұрын

@@MrIgottap lmaooo I’d be out the back door too

why is the guy acting like it’s a skit💀

@Allyourbase1990

3 жыл бұрын

Like a chris Farley SNL sketch

He's asing for help on future dating advice

I've seen a up date they are together and they said are really happy thanks to Dr phil

man, the golden years sure seem to provide some slim pickings.

@adamburling9551

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

It's a hard truth to accept that many people are better off being single. I'm 36 and it took me several relationships to realize that about myself. I love animals so I adopted two dogs lol. Unconditional love from my best friends/kids

Poor guy he's hurting bad! Hope he's gotten help after this!

There is so little context in this short clip. I don't understand what is going on

I'd have a beer with this man any day.

How could you NOT laugh😂😂 The guy talking to him could barely hold his laughter in 💀

Well done Dr Phil .u go Dr phil

0:50 Super Mario has fallen on hard times 😂

I believe that the reason some people feel the need to stay in a relationship that is a disaster, and not good for either party, is because they have fear of having to start all over again and that they will never find another person that will love them!

A man who laughs at another man’s pain and cry for mental help is not a man, but a coward.

This video is from 2 years ago and it only have comments from today

Why are they clapping? That was very rude of Phil to treat him that way. He kicked him out in front of everyone. Abuse of power and influence is what that is. Arrogant!

Omg this guy is on the brink

Poor guy is and this man had the nerve to laugh 😡💯

Let this be a lesson to all the men out there. Women say that they want men to show their emotions, but when the emotions come out the men are mocked and cheated on.

@user-cy4vw1qj9m

3 жыл бұрын

I don't like people laughing at other people and Dr phil shouldn't allow it regardless

The one time Dr. Phil was a legitimate therapist

Lmaaaoo. Pause the video at 2:05 and look at the ladies mouth behind him 😂😂😂

In another episode Dr Phil says "big boys don't cry but men do" and he's right.

Thank God Dr Phil is saving her life and his life. God, surely is saving him . And definitely saving her life. Only pray, that he really gets help.

After leaving the first time, it should have been over. Let her go.

This is what a woman can do to a man. If he cares.

Inappropriate Is So Very Very Mean & It Means People Are Laughing At You While You're Telling The Good Thing & The Truth!

I felt bad for this man… Breaks my heart honestly. I’d put my money on my guy with the white hair, dude wants to laugh in his face smh what a coward.

You do not kick people when they are down. The first lesson to being a true warrior. Reading a situation and responding appropriately is compassionate.

Jesus he needs a reality check...