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@michaelhastie7324

Жыл бұрын

Allow me to offer 500,000 more thumbs up..

@michaelhastie7324

Жыл бұрын

And Thanks For Eva's Mom...

@maryhagen5116

Жыл бұрын

​m

@nancyhon406

Жыл бұрын

Hi, im confused as to why yr channel registed as LA BIBLE but the ppl here seem to be from sodom& gomoeeah.. & we do know what happened sfter tht? Pls explain how these " sharings" will serve go do Gid's will on Earth?

@picilocarnal

Жыл бұрын

💰 will make you try anything, let’s be honest.🤷🏽‍♀️😝 I wonder if Guantanamo prisoners get off on the domination too.😮

I don’t think 27 is late, especially in her field in the industry. At 27 she understands boundaries, which is essential, while being beautiful and young

@katherine2911

11 ай бұрын

100%, and her powerful response to say people goes to death without discovering themselves

@emem2863

6 ай бұрын

Yes. It's just unusual because most women in Western countries get involved in the sex industry are between 18 and 22. My guess is that many times they don't think about the negative consequences and they're easier to manipulate by predatory people in the business. I think it's better to be a little older where you can better understand boundaries and deal with any negative consequences.

@SexyBizBabe

6 ай бұрын

100% agree! I think most people get in too young when they don’t know how to speak up for themselves or even know their boundaries, wants, needs, yet

@mrs.w8193

5 ай бұрын

She’s 27? Woah. She looks and seems way older.

@emem2863

5 ай бұрын

@mrs.w8193 She started in the business at 27. She is no longer 27 and did not claim to currently be 27.

Bruh, the person who recruits guests/ speakers for this channel needs a huge pay bump. The range is diabolical. From spys , to gangsters, to soldiers to a dominatrix. Epic

@karenfontenette9165

Жыл бұрын

You know them clear people is intrigued with all kinds of sexual acts! Filthy sexual acts, and these third word slots whonhas nothing more to offer knows they want to get the wealth of the clear people so they offer them what they lack in the most. This world is simply going to hell fast! The Roman's way of living read the Bible it explains everything! Sodom and Gomorrah pure filth!

@helpyousleep7386

Жыл бұрын

i did! i was going to invest my profits in a black unicorn, said to be the best race horse of our generation. would of retired on the breeding fees alone and documentaries like this ruin it for everybody....thanks

@kyliemaree8213

Жыл бұрын

I love it because I never know who they’ll have on next and it’s always such an amazing range of different stories from great to horrible and no matter the experience I feel like I always take some knowledge from it.

@DrStrange_177A

Жыл бұрын

@@kyliemaree8213 exactly. Way better than mainstream media in my opinion

@tiler99abc

Жыл бұрын

Diverse not "diabolical".. 😂

I really hope she will write a book one day. She is sharp yet cautious, highly sensitive to detail and every sentence she speaks is so eloquently put.

@janecoe9407

7 ай бұрын

id rather hear more about her childhood life. that would unlock the key to why dshe does these sick things.

@ajisenramen888

6 ай бұрын

I don’t think it is sick or sickening. It’s a consenting adult human connection. Like a therapy session. It’s a lifestyle.( For most New Yorkers and Californians anyway 😂) If it is not for you walk away. If it is, find out why if you are interested. Above all those be safe, know yourself. 😅

@user-bj5wf9fq4n

6 ай бұрын

I just love her transparency. She’s real, unlike most people that fall into the mundane, denial, unrealistic about the norm of human behavior.

@msforce9

6 ай бұрын

I believe it's narrow-minded to label and condemn whatever we don't comprehend and feels different from us. Obviously she has a powerful side that helped her go against the grain and follow her true yearning. She is happy, makes other people happy, while making money and staying true to her self. That looks like success to me.

@nidanida2863

5 ай бұрын

There is a fantastic book by another dominatrix.Unbound by Kasia Urbaniak. Kasia is also daoist nun and the book is more focused on the psychological and philosophical sides, with golden insights on power dynamics. One of the best books i ever listened to. Highly recommended the audible version.

Her response to the AGE thing is so important for people to understand. For every industry and every aspect of life. We should be able to choose our path in every single stage of life.

@lilykangethe8911

11 ай бұрын

Right? Like why do people think 27 is old? What’s the rush for really?

@TWHowl

11 ай бұрын

I agree, except with younger undeveloped minds pursuing potentially life changing adult oriented fields.

@RebeccaEvans

11 ай бұрын

Wayyyyy better to be 27 than 12. Yup

@celesteadeanes4478

11 ай бұрын

@@lilykangethe8911 a bat for the intimitated male to bash with put her in her place...lol , nope. persoally i always thought a dom woman would be MATURE grey at the temples aristocratic worldly

@sweetie539

11 ай бұрын

The men prefer women younger so they can manipulate, brainwash and abuse them. They are exposing their pedo brains.

I get the impression that she could literally do anything or be anything she wanted and just be at the absolute zenith of that field.

@pauldudakadanielthomson8890

Жыл бұрын

Jim Morrison , Jimmy Hendrix and Janis Joplin, in music.

@Hoptailful

Жыл бұрын

@@null_geodesic She's classy, refined, emotionally aware, articulate, and intelligent - her other career pursuit was LAW. She's not a conman. She is 100% justified in being confident though. Rightfully so, she has a lot to be confident about.

@Hoptailful

Жыл бұрын

@@null_geodesic I get the impression that you literally would say or do anything to tear this woman down. It's embarrassing, and thinly veiled misogyny that anyone can see through, that I'm not prepared to give you a further platform on which to broadcast. So we're stopping this here. Real women support women! Real men support women.

@none2912

Жыл бұрын

@@Hoptailful You're coping. Every dominatrix loves submitting to a man, you can go ask them, they dream about it

@RA-wp6th

Жыл бұрын

@@Hoptailful Yet she's sleeping with married men. Classy.

40 minutes in when she’s talking about her ex partners responses…”how could you choose to do that when you are so old” and she laughs and laughs 🤣 totally disregarding the archaic male response of targeting a women’s age, assuming it will have a devastating effect on her (us)….Absolute legend ❤

@MaxPower-js1sk

Жыл бұрын

I don’t think that single men of any age would pass up the opportunity to have sex with her. I’m a man and her age is irrelevant. She has something amazing and idk what it is.

@am5790

Жыл бұрын

you go, girl....grl power....lol

@Livewire1722

Жыл бұрын

What do you consider old?

@LeMerch

Жыл бұрын

She’s a total exception to the rule though, which women tend to latch onto as an example of the rule. Funny stuff!

@Livewire1722

Жыл бұрын

What do you consider an old age? Lol.

She is well educated, especially in speaking. I hear no ‘um’s’, or ‘er’s’, no ‘like’ every other word. Soft spoken. And thoughtful concerning her business. An interesting guest.

@AndreeaCe

15 күн бұрын

When some has been very well prepared for an interview, has some speech training, that happens fyi.

@rovilan

10 күн бұрын

Maybe you should stop being judgmental of people that have this kind of businesses

@dejavu666wampas9

10 күн бұрын

@@rovilan - Whom are you addressing. Me or the other poster. I said nothing judgmental or negative about this guest.

@rovilan

10 күн бұрын

@@dejavu666wampas9 yeah you, but I didn't mean it in a bad way , you kinda sounded judgmental glad you are not 👍🏻

Ava is a queen. Articulate, empathic, poised and the clarity in her voice is incredibly alluring and soothing.

@pinut187

8 ай бұрын

*Eva

@Angrymobs62

3 ай бұрын

Sounds like the woman God warns smart men to avoid 😂

I like how respectful the interviewer is and all the good questions

@ED-007

Жыл бұрын

Same.

@picilocarnal

Жыл бұрын

Respectful? He’s totally into her. He even looks nervous at times. He hesitates in his questions a lot.

@cedergrenpeter

Жыл бұрын

@@picilocarnal I totally agree with you. He is very uncomfortable in his questioning ... very repressed and so British!

@NinjaBooKitty

Жыл бұрын

@@picilocarnal Exactly. He's not really that objective. He just hides it better.

@janicechrist666

11 ай бұрын

He's like this with everyone - it's not about attraction for him, it's just his natural demeanor. He's respectful in his curiosity - he's trying very hard to make sure he doesn't say the wrong thing or anything offensive, and that can be difficult when you don't know everything about the industry.@@picilocarnal

Eva is so intelligent and comes across as so comfortable in her own body and mind ..wonderful voice too .I think her humour helps her too .

I officially LOVE her! The transparency, her demeanor her intelligence

@minoozolala

11 ай бұрын

Psychopaths are indeed very charming and can fool you easily.

@francookie9353

11 ай бұрын

*Demeanor

@giltsholder

11 ай бұрын

@@minoozolala What's wrong with you

@betehaase

11 ай бұрын

What a voice!

@minoozolala

11 ай бұрын

@@giltsholder If you call recognizing psychopaths "something wrong with you", ok. You should learn to too. It will save you a lot of grief.

One of the best interviews I've ever listened to. And yes, she does know a lot. And yes I'm sitting here thinking, "I want to be like her!". The strength and ease is very attractive.

@lizkim1546

Жыл бұрын

I do want to be like her! I’ve thought on doing this

@donswork3059

Жыл бұрын

I disagree. Uncomfortable interview because interviewer was not at all skilled. Asked many dumb questions.

@unapatton1978

Жыл бұрын

I work on the other side of sex: as a physio on all kinds of physical ailments. How sex 'works' is also still mostly taboo. The stereotype of sex workers is young, naive and exploited. I would love to be as sophisticated as her.

@christinemott8799

6 ай бұрын

Ur disgusting

@annaku_lickalicious-qt-tt

5 ай бұрын

ahaha, count me too!

What a beautiful, respectful conversation. Very telling that the interviewer led with curiosity and not a need to be an "alpha" and '"destroy" her "masculine energy." So different from many conversations around sex that we see on social media.

@Bookooky

Жыл бұрын

The interviewer was really dull and unresearched. Why on earth are you praising a man for not being abusive to his guest?

@stephaniejimoh4374

Жыл бұрын

​@@Bookookywell, of course he still had a lot to learn about the subject. And so did we. That was the whole point of the interview.

@lizzybeary

11 ай бұрын

​@@Bookooky I did not get 'praise' from OP.

@MoPoppins

7 ай бұрын

@@BookookyThink about it….the whole point is for him to approach this topic unresearched, so that he could learn along with the rest of us--much more organic that way. If he weren’t good at this, he wouldn’t ask good questions.

She is incredibly articulate. I loved listening to her.

@tsaijiegrace9184

Жыл бұрын

I see you love bdsm lifestyle it very lovely lifestyle

@getback3554

Жыл бұрын

As for me I don’t fancy BDSM 😂😂, but it’s quite an interesting story of hers 🫢​@@tsaijiegrace9184

@dbuck1964

Жыл бұрын

@@tsaijiegrace9184😂🤡

@queva3062

9 ай бұрын

​@@tsaijiegrace9184😂😂😂

@Camerasdontlie

7 ай бұрын

I love Femdom. My place would be to serve mistress.

This was a very respectful and highly educational interview. I feel like you gave her grace, autonomy and didn't make her feel like she should be ashamed or uncomfortable and it also gave me as the viewer a chance to address some of the questions I have had about this, actually with the way you were asking , it gave me an inside of what I really wanted to know. I wanted to know about the psychological and physical takeaway of the profession. Do I feel like in the states we can get to a point where we have interviews like this? I'm not sure 😂 but it definitely shows response of keeping it respectful, and empathetic for the person who is giving this information, this was a good and productive respectful interview , I definitely learned a lot.

Thank you for sharing her story. And thank you for being very respectful and honest with your questions you had for her.

She is a fascinating story teller I could listen to her all day! She is so classy and refined.

@Allyourbase1990

Жыл бұрын

I love classy women and she is very well spoken and classy

@endisnear306

Жыл бұрын

She is not classy

@ivanarajic9822

Жыл бұрын

No she's not. That's an act

@craigcrawford6749

Жыл бұрын

Nothing says classy like pissing and shitting on someone

@Black.Spades

Жыл бұрын

@@ivanarajic9822 Nobody is born classy. It's a trained and taught form of thinking, behaviour and expression.

I know Eva and honestly she is one of the kindest, most humble,smartest, weirdest people I know. She has a great laugh that tells you that she enjoys life. She is so confident , emotionally intelligent and laid back. But also disciplined and has a great structure in chaos. I am so happy for her that she is getting the attention she deserves. ❤

@ewannoelkailevi4772

Жыл бұрын

Did she pee on you?

@carolwood9270

Жыл бұрын

She is very facinating and different. It’s amazing to me that certain people can have such a diverse outlook on life….

@srm0520

Жыл бұрын

In my opinion her conversation is on a level 10 here and he’s at about a 4 😂 he’s trying to keep up but seems out of his league.

@jadezee6316

Жыл бұрын

nonsense..her laugh is contrived and practiced...her appeal is her masculinity....there is nothing feminine about her....its not about power its about shame....and her talent is being able to be around unattractive weak men because she is getting paid for it

@sakurazukamorisubaru

Жыл бұрын

@@srm0520 I think he is really good. He asked a lot of detailed questions about things people probably would be curious about, when they have no idea about her field of work.

Fascinating. Thank you for an articulate and insightful series of reflections on life.

As someone who worked for many years as a dominatrix in NYC; she is a wonderful representative of the better side of it. The image in many people's minds is one of cartoonish, unclean environments; and while that does exist, it's absolutely the contrary if one does it on their own terms.

@kornaxon3522

11 ай бұрын

Could you please say a few words about the worse side? I'd like to hear about both. 🙏

@placebomandingo2095

7 ай бұрын

As a boy I asked my dad why people would want to be bound or dominated, and he said "because they don't want to bear the responsibility for their own pleasure.".

@lahaza6515

7 ай бұрын

Well, that is one aspect of it for sure, but there are so many different types and fetishes that are brought about for so many reasons that it's a bit more complex in most cases.@@placebomandingo2095

@TalLeGal

6 ай бұрын

@@placebomandingo2095😮

@angelumali8773

6 ай бұрын

​@@kornaxon3522Ikp 23:12

It's interesting, how many people think that confidence is about ignoring reality and believe you are always some sort of superior perfect being. While in reality what you percieve as a confidence is basically accepting that anything might go sideways anytime, doing what is in your control to prevent it and not stressing out about things that are out of your control.

@konyvnyelv.

4 ай бұрын

Confidence means feeling superior

@paulhofmann3798

3 ай бұрын

Confidence is trusting in God yourself or what you do. It’s different than arrogance. Confidence cam go together with being humble.

She's spot on about Fifty Shades - it's written like a script for a movie. No more real than Pretty Woman is about prostitution.

@sallybalkin8507

Жыл бұрын

I agree. I know a significant amount of DV counsellors and support workers. They call the relationship in that book, abuse. In BDSM, there is supposed to be mutual respect, outside the role playing. And the role playing is consensual. And consent can only be given if fully informed and understood. The ill treatment and manipulation without understood boundaries is horrible. So disrespectful. I think it's sad that a lot of women (and it was mostly women who enjoyed the book and movie) feel so insecure in their sexuality, they bought that titillating, abusive story as if it was real. The movie 9 and 1/2 Weeks was closer to reality, although again, an abusive, manipulative, non-consensual relationship. I had a similar, occasional-relationship as was portrayed in 9 and 1/2 Weeks, but not as intense as, or manipulative like that. He really got off on my pleasure. And it was fun. Ultimately he made me feel good about myself. Not abused. And I have been victim of DV, and have helped friends escape DV, more than once in my life. So I know the difference. 50 shades was a farce and could have led vulnerable people , who wanted to expand their sexuality, into abusive relationships.

@bennyton2560

Жыл бұрын

@@sallybalkin8507 well said. amen to that

@dbuck1964

Жыл бұрын

@@sallybalkin8507 you’re completely wrong about the movie nine and a half weeks. The entire relationship between the two people was explicitly consensual, until till he attempted to coerce her into having a threesome with a prostitute. For this, she left him and ended the relationship. It portrayed her as the strong one, and him as the weak and needy one.

@maznyo

11 ай бұрын

I found it rather like a hallucination of a seriously undefucked British housewife. Stopped at about page 50.

@tlrcarroll

11 ай бұрын

@@sallybalkin8507That’s the problem with “vanilla” interpretations of this sort of thing cuz they are attempting to understand from outside the experience and have no idea of context, nuance, etc. What they assume is happening is very superficial, but they don’t really understand the deeper meanings and concepts that exist.

Wow, did I enjoy this interview. I enjoyed how respectful the interviewer was and still asked very personal questions in a kind of not intrusive way? When Eva Oh muses about why women write to her asking about the career and what reasons people might have for going this path - she mentions the strength. That's spot on. To feel this powerful. This in control. To be trusted that much. I used to be in clubs as a 19-22 y/o know-nothing person 'playing' a dominatrix. But it DID give me true pleasure and I enjoyed every second of it, even if I was pretty naive and did not know a lot about what I was doing. I didn't do anything that would potentially be dangerous. But I did have a problem with separating myself from this. I lived a fantasy. I was a different person outside of the club. I could not take this strength with me. I probably had it in me, but was so used to my everyday much more introverted role, that I shyed away from it. I sometimes cringe when I think back about how little i did know. But I know that my feelings were real. This interview brought back all these memories. What I also find fascinating: Like many people from that scene, I am deeply pacifistic. I dislike all kinds of violence - even loud voices. But it's entirely different if its about the dynamic and everything happens with consent.

fascinating talk. I love that her takeaway is 'I know nothing so i might as well have fun' so humble, but she has such a strong presence at the same time.

Great interview. She is grace and class all wrapped up in one. Her voice is intriguing, very diffrent, and sophisticated. Eva is a beautiful lady and it would be great if she considered about being a talk radio host on NPR, National Public Radio. Her voice is very relaxing and calm and she has a talent in communicating with others easily in an open manner without appearing threatening. She is very professional in her demeanor and the way she presents herself.

@angelinemuriuki7384

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more!

@dbuck1964

Жыл бұрын

She wouldn’t make any money working for NPR! 😂😂

@carlalandrau6033

11 ай бұрын

Since when does grace and class become a part of prostitution. Something is seriously wrong with women today. I've never seen a classy prostitute

@queva3062

9 ай бұрын

​@@carlalandrau6033you mean you haven't visited one 😂😂😂😂

@queva3062

9 ай бұрын

​@footlova😂😭

This is fantastic and fascinating! I myself am a mental health specialist and a previous dominatrix. I find this combination to be extremely helpful in being able to understand someone on a deeper level. My favorite thing was to understand WHY someone liked what they liked, or where is started. Human behavior is remarkable and it's odd how so few people actually take the time to understand themselves. If you ask 100 people, "what do you enjoy sensually and sexually" many people have no idea how to answer. Being a Dom and in the mental health field was a profoundly helpful combination to help people dive deeper, get their real needs met and learn about their own mind more. Such a unique experience in life! Thank you for making this video ❤

@phoebeel

11 ай бұрын

What would you suggest to do to actually find out what you like sexually? I am almost 30, very open minded towards sexuality itself in other humans but I have NO IDEA what my desires are. It's quite frustrating. My psyche and physical responses are just stupid. All these pop culture wisdoms about sexuality are not really helpful. What can I do?

@phoebeel

10 ай бұрын

@@biancamascarenhas5235 hey thank you so much for that. It didn't really answer my question though... Like I know of the "fetishes" I like and I try to talk about it with my boyfriend. He's on board with all of it but I'm still shy talking about it. Hopefully, that'll get better. My real issue is, I don't know what feels good. I know I should try out different techniques but if I do that it mostly doesn't feel amazing so that I lose interest very quickly and just stop completely. I also cannot help my boyfriend find the right technique or spot because I don't really know it myself. I use vibrators, mostly womanizers. Sometimes, I can just use my hands. But I never get this WOW feeling people talk about. Sometimes it feels like I am just completely numbed compared to other people. I have no trauma. I don't really have much shame around sexuality. It's just my body doesn't really respond to normal sexual touched except for vibrators.

@stevedavis6879

10 ай бұрын

I kinda got deep reading into that, and I quickly changed my outlook . Wise words 👌

@S-rn6xn

10 ай бұрын

But surely as a mental health specialist you shouldn’t be pushing these guys into doing things that have been from unhealthy patterns or an unhappiness in their lives that they turn to this stuff without them knowing it?

@scarlettfrancesca

10 ай бұрын

@Scott-rn6xn Based on my response, where did you get the impression that I would be pushing or forcing anyone to do anything? That is definitely not what I said or implied at all. I said having the knowledge in both of these areas can be very helpful for working with someone who wants to dive deep and understand themselves, their behaviors and their backgrounds, as well as their desires and passions, on a different and deeper level.

What an incredible woman and a very respectful interviewer. Few and far between in these spaces. Really appreciates this interview! I hope she achieves everything she wants to and more.

What a Fantastic, REAL dialogue! Thank you both for opening up the conversation. I’ve been on a similar timeline - Catholic, university, non-profit, corporate background, got into the lifestyle 12 years ago and then the industry 8 years ago. I’ve had a lot to reconcile, still not out to everybody. But what can I say, you can’t shake what is in you, and, like you, Eva, the curiosity, and the satisfaction derived from these relationship dynamics continues to fuel and energize my life. Thank you!❤️🥰🙏🏼

One of the MOST interesting person i have listened to. I was glued to the screen. I would love to hear her longer.

The ways she talk n the choice of word she choose, she sounds more like a philosopher

Ben you did an fantastic job as the interviewer. Your active listening skills are top tier!!! A quoteable by Eve "live quietly but be entertained in my every day"

@ruthanna4713

6 ай бұрын

"I want to gently exist. And yet be entertained" 😎✌️

From the interviews I’ve seen, many women (especially) that work within the sex industry are incredibly smart, aware, intellectual, open, strong, etc and very business minded. Also with a sense of honesty and compassion for sex and the human relationship with it. Great interviewee that certainly understands her responsibility in her role as a dominatrix. I think our general notion of Domination can be very base and I don’t think it is really that at all.

@kyssedbyfyre915

Жыл бұрын

Porn, especially cheaply produced, it's at fault for so MUUUUUCH of the miscommunication & misunderstanding surrounding s3x and s3xuality. Honestly, it's such a poor representation of what really EXISTS and what possibilities CAN exist between people. Porn is the junk food. She's talking about home-cooked meals.

@dominiclawson4058

Жыл бұрын

@@kyssedbyfyre915 I think the amount of porn, the way it’s created, how it’s portrayed, possibly even how women and men accept what they do in scenes definitely has had affect on sex for both sexes. It’s an interesting subject overall, from my own personal experiences I’ve had women push sex in a certain way didn’t feel a need for but I can admit that I’ve done the same and I probably say from my point of view Porn did play a part and i had to look at that and realise the deeper experiences you can have is certainly better for the soul and life in general. More fun most of the time too.

@FuckVirginMary

Жыл бұрын

I wish the interviewer would ask her if she uses drugs or alcohol to do what she does. I heard drugs are prevalent among sex workers and porn actresses.

@kyssedbyfyre915

Жыл бұрын

@@dominiclawson4058 I'll bet the numbers of women who "tried" an act they didn't particularly WANT to try are OUTRAGEOUS! I have to stress that there is a MARKED difference between healthy consensual adult exploratory experiences. I firmly believe that sometimes getting out of your supposed comfort zone WITH A HIGHLY TRUSTED LOVER & tons of communication is just fine... Encouraged really! BUT lines are crossed for various reasons sometimes... people can be simply triggered for example-a response completely unbeknownst and unforeseeable to them until it occurs. In any event, consent is retractable at ANY time. And at NO POINT should a person feel forced to comply with ANY act that makes them feel less than wonderful 🫶❤️

@jadezee6316

Жыл бұрын

lol..nonsense....you sound like a child....she at best is a weak fraud

These interviews are always extremely fascinating. Loved this one❤

A lot of BDSM practitioners see 50 shades as an abusive relationship. Not a realistic portrayal of a mutually beneficial relationship. All the DV counsellors and support workers that I know, and that's many, agree. Abuse and BDSM are not the same thing.

@glendasuggs2813

11 ай бұрын

No, 50 shades was demonstration in poor communication and lack of consent. Very abusive.

@carlalandrau6033

11 ай бұрын

All of it it's sick. It's a sick person who wants to be abused by another. It's a sick person who want abuse someone to get paid.

@JustMe-ub9yo

10 ай бұрын

​@@carlalandrau6033 no its not.

@queva3062

9 ай бұрын

​@@JustMe-ub9yoagreed😊

@carlalandrau6033

8 ай бұрын

@@tookyamanz it is a sickness my dear and a sign of self-hate. Who is else with pay someone to degrade them and beat them. There's no fun in that love unless there's something wrong with you mentally. You deserve love and tenderness. If you want to embarrass yourself or release some stress go to the gym

I knew about foot fetishes, but it was surprising to me to find out that broken/injured feet and ankles is popular. I discovered this by accident when I posted pictures of my broken foot and chipped ankle online in 2021! OMG...there was a frenzy. What bothered me was the whole idea of men liking a wounded, injured woman.

@janecoe9407

7 ай бұрын

that is so sickkkkkkkk

@DashPari

7 ай бұрын

Yeah for sure.. Like wtf

@MrHarumakiSensei

7 ай бұрын

You never heard of Chinese foot binding? A century ago it was quite common.

@Atheria444

7 ай бұрын

I know of it, but thought it was considered a beauty thing…for some odd reason.@@MrHarumakiSensei

@lauralvw8445

7 ай бұрын

That's the whole point of uncomfortable high heeled shoes with painfully thin straps cutting into toes making women limp around like a wounded fawn

the more i find out about being a great dominatrix the more i realise intuition and intimacy /empathy play a huge role and intelligence

It was adorable how he was so surprised and interested in so many things, and how carefully tried questions like when you're amazed discovering something so new and different!! Beautiful interaction and outstanding interview!

@picilocarnal

Жыл бұрын

Adorable? I’d say amateurish.🤷🏽‍♀️

@bennyton2560

Жыл бұрын

@@picilocarnal yeah kinda normie questions all along

@MissOJAY

Жыл бұрын

Outstanding is a biiiig stretch. Let's not reward people for showing up to class. Please

@esikazemese

Жыл бұрын

@@MissOJAY just because you pervs know all about this, doesn't mean other people can't take time to process and ask their questions :) Especially when you interview someone who is not really opened because it can affect their income.

@dbuck1964

Жыл бұрын

L O L I felt uncomfortable for him, meaning he clearly wasn’t. 😂😂

"Gently exist and yet be entertained" really resonates with me. Exceptional Interview, thanks

@janecoe9407

7 ай бұрын

that is a facade, she has no friends. she doesnt trust people. she feels used and manipulated. she is just using semantics to avoid emotion and feelings.

@kalimistakidou9103

6 ай бұрын

Emotions and feelings are overrated.

Her perspective is so fantastic. Thank you for the interview

Excellent interview- this lady has an incredible mind and is very self aware Interviewer is also excellent Very interesting

This was such an interesting interview. Professionally done and Eva is an incredible woman who knows herself so well and able to articulate this world to us. So well done!

@linadukstaite558

11 ай бұрын

Eva is a woman who lets people to owe on her… gosh… also she gets exchanged some arse content with a numerous people .. just idea of having sec with someone who was covered in someone’s shit … that is gross … disgusting

I love the beautiful honesty of this woman's story. Thank you for sharing

What an amazing, fascinating, informative interview!! Wow!! I was totally blown away by the entire interview

Fantastic Woman. She might just be one of the most self aware & fullfiled interviews ive come across.

Great interview. But also great interviewer, I liked that he was open to admitting he didn't know these things, but also interested and non judgmental. Too many interviewers on KZread make the interviews about themselves, it's good to see someone interviewing in the old school style of letting the person being interviewed lead the conversation. Also the last few minutes when she flustered Ben just a little but seem genuinely interested in him and what he had to say made me understand why people are happy to pay for her services.

People always talk about the quality of the guests on this channel, and I agree that they're great, but I want to take a moment to say how great the interviewer is. Always has good questions and shows a high level of understanding and empathy for the people he's conversing with.

love her pov... the world needs more of this.. awareness, reflective, comfortable in not knowing but always open for a dialogue

Thank you both for this great interview.

she's got such a calming voice this was super interesting! my favourite kind of "podcast"

Everything about this interview is incredibly good; from the guest to the questions to her answers. Love such insights into the human nature.

Not only her articulate way of explaining and her introspective were interesting. The way you led the interview and the questions you made...this was super interesting! Thank you! Greetings from Argentina

This interview was well done and informative, she is well spoken and was insightful. enjoyed.

@pinut187

8 ай бұрын

She is well spoken!' Like that's a compliment. 'She speaks so well' is not a compliment, okay? 'She speaks so well' is some shit you say about retarded people that can talk. What do you mean she speaks so well? She is an educated woman! How did you expect her to sound?

The way she went “say fetishes” just summed up the whole interview 🤣

@rosieleat6868

2 ай бұрын

that really made me laugh too lol - the Domme slipped out a little bit lol

I love his interview style. Keep solidifying your skillset brother

this interview gave me clarity about what i want in my next career. i'm working on connecting with my True self and creating a life that supports it, but i have not considered how authentic i want people to be with me at work (ie: social worker, therapist etc.). i need to journal about this.

She’s wonderful, beautiful, educated, soft spoken and thoughtful plus kind well done to her and to you for bringing her ❤️

@Allannah_Of_Rome

Жыл бұрын

I'm part Korean on my mum's side and to me her voice is unusually very deep yet subtle. It maybe the Australian influence as I'm also part Aussie and was born here. She speaks very much like my older sister who was born in Korea and travelled a bit before my mum and dad settled here.

@SirenaSpades

Жыл бұрын

She's American.

@willsmith39

Жыл бұрын

​​@@SirenaSpadess she? She clearly said she was born and brought up in SE Asia but they moved / travelled a lot. She sounds a lot to me like someone who went to an international school in Hong Kong, Malaysia or Singapore where you end up with this hard to pin down 'transatlantic' accent.

@moyrahood

11 ай бұрын

She’s also, (as she effectively told us herself she needs to be), an arch manipulator. So she projects exactly the image that you have perceived, viz educated, thoughtful, kind. She may very well of course be all of those things, I’m not saying this pejoratively, I think she’s fantastic! What a woman! But she had the interviewer eating out of her hand didn’t she! He appeared awe struck most of the time. With her insight and abilities to understand the human psyche she would make an excellent psychotherapist if she ever decided on a career change, as she would experience the same truthfulness and rawness from clients that she described to us.

@_PURAVIDA

10 ай бұрын

@@moyrahoodShe will die poor and alone when no one wants her anymore. End of story.

She is the embodiment of a healthy Scorpio: Honesty, psychology, emotion, power, Intelligence.

@WhoWho569

11 ай бұрын

The Scorpios I know are just hyper sexed and jealous. Not all that smart, at least not to my Virgoan standards of smart. But they are indeed intense and not scared of going down a rabbit hole, and that I can respect, having a Scorpio moon and a Scorpio mars myself.

@katiescott2975

11 ай бұрын

Control

@queva3062

9 ай бұрын

​@@Rob-fn1kpthis issue is NOT only for the sex workers -- it's for everyone !!

@cbrushira831

6 ай бұрын

Yes she does have scorpion energy

@miguelpadeiro762

3 ай бұрын

She's a person not a scorpion😮

excellent deep dive, she’s so resilient and creative, definitely an inspiration

This has been my fav so far!

mad props to the interviewer , he asked all the right questions

Amazing interview with awesome honesty. Deliciously beautiful lady with no filter and a straight no nonsense answer to every question. worth every minute

Great interview!

Great interview. I feel like the questions came across from a genuine curiosity and non-judgemental perspective which was nice to experience from the viewers perspective. -I also think it teaches awareness about non-judgement in general, she basically said thats what the main focus of her job is... Lol unless you want that 😂.

I've never seen this channel. I am blown away by the man. His dignity. And Eva is fascinating. I love how she talks. So elegant. A totally unique and intriguing yet "accessible" person. This was so unique. What a great interview. I honestly can't praise it enough. None of that male silliness and trying to bring things to sexual. Just a truly depthful human exchange. Wow. Her legs and arches are so balletic and muscularly beautiful. To the very last second of the video it was chocked with information and so interesting. I'm amazed. He never stops the questions and ends up getting new layers of answers. Amazing.

@onaclover-coveredhill9618

6 ай бұрын

It’s like you’ve never seen a good interview before. Why would you describe him as having dignity and her being a curiosity? Is it a demeaning thing to for him to even talk to a sex worker? Why does the interviewer have “dignity” in your mind? Do you mean he is respectful of the dignity of a sex worker? I’m so confused. But it seems a little bit like you are applauding him for not being a disrespectful or incompetent interviewer and you are “blown away by the man.” He isn’t doing anything that incredible I would say being able to ask questions in a respectful manner is about the bare minimum. In fact a lot of the questions he asks are showcasing how very little he knows and that’s fine. I just don’t get your comment and it rubs me the wrong way.

@larrylong9367

6 ай бұрын

I had so many things I wanted to say ... but, most people here said them, and with eloquence ... And YOU, (@brendadufaur37) You got my feelings about her so well. She was special. She 'feels' ... She laughed so many times. She is so real. She'd be easy to fall in love with. For me, communication is #1 ... and she is great at it, and so introspective. She was a pleasure.

Extremly interesting personality. Captivating life story, and a pleasure to witness her analysis, which is psychologically quite meticulate. A pleasure to be surprised with this level of discourse in the nowadays world ( u know….) Admirable self respect, seldom achieved by people with “ normalised, respectable, socially apprised careers “. Bravo… and thank you^^

If she is this good as a dominatrix, I hate to think what she would be like as a lawyer!! I think the whole room shuttered....lol. I have so much respect for her integrity not letting her research be used in a way she felt was inappropriate just for money. I see her more as a counselor, therapist. The last questions she posed where really helpful for self reflection in anything we undertake. I wish he would have asked more about her experiences when she is asked to sub.

@rosieleat6868

2 ай бұрын

I don't think she does sub?

Thanks for sharing Eva Oh. I love how she shows that it is possible to work in the sex industry and love it! The general perceptions usually only emphasise the dark part of the industry. Not often do you see the other side, where embracing your femininety can be empowering. It is the essence of womanhood and can be a beautiful thing.

”I just want to gently exist and yet be entertained in my day to day interactions. That's who i gravitate towards these days”

@PollyHistor

Жыл бұрын

At heart, don't we all?

I adore how she's so unbothered with mainstream shit happening all over. And because she wasn't on social media before, she's pretty 'pure' in her though process so to say.

Very eloquently spoken on a subject that can be delicate to approach. Thank you for giving insight into this incredibly interesting subject. Well done!

What's an eloquent interview, I didn't want it to end. I just can't describe how I feel after watching that, honestly I've never felt this way after watching anything! The only word I can come up with is "enriched" I feel enriched!

@fatimatkhakakhova5359

6 ай бұрын

Same! Interested to listen to her podcasts now. I love listening and interacting with intelligent and pisitive, also confident and with a scent of power, but not in a bullying way, people. And she is definitely a great representation of all of the above and more! So glad I accidentally came across this video! Very therapeutic, intriguing, and entertaining conversation. Enjoyed both of their vibes! Bravo 👏

What a beautiful attitude, enjoy life, enjoy all that you can. Thank you to the both of you for sharing.

I think if she ever decided to get out of this industry she’d be an amazing sex therapist. Yes, it takes time to get the degree but man she’d be awesome at it!

@romilly99

7 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing myself. I've never watched an interview on a subject such as this where there has been an open, respectful, and intelligent exchange. Fascinating. Amazing woman.

amazing ! great interview

Woooow!! Thank you so very much!!!! I would slow down the speed of the interview just to make it longer to enjoy! Thank you for inspiration for follow ones joy!!!❤❤❤❤

What a fascinating lady with the understanding in complexities of the mind ! Refreshing 💯

Her vocabulary and use of an elegant language is sensational. She is not rude or crass, she very sophisticated.

I’m twenty mins in and I just resonate with what she’s saying so much

She’s an inspiration. The way she carries herself. She speaks with so much grace. I think you can learn so much from her beyond what she does for a living.

@sgray5979

6 ай бұрын

Really??

This man is completely enamored and fascinated with her, and the answers to her questions! I love her extensive vocabulary, she uses a lot of words that are not common in day to day conversation.. I love her femme fatale energy. She's very feminine, yet strong, and powerful. I love that combo. I can tell that she kept things she shared as it pertains to what she does in her sessions very tame, but that she has probably tested all sorts of limits that would be full hard stops for most. I would have liked more details about the psychological aspect, as far as are her skills innate, or developed over time as she experienced more on the job. She's sophisticated, and edgy at the same time. She would be 2-3 handfuls for the interviewer...he def seemed like he wanted to have a session with her, but realized that $1,000 an hour is out of his price range! LOL Very good interview.

@vkngwmn6636

Жыл бұрын

He has millions of followers...you have no idea what his income is nor his financial situation...who says he cannot afford $1000/hr for a "session"?

@livswank2063

Жыл бұрын

@@vkngwmn6636 That's why I said it "SEEMED"...read to comprehend, not to reply. Good day!

@blindmown

11 ай бұрын

He stammers in all of his interviews lol, don't read too much into it.

@Armistead_MacSkye

6 ай бұрын

Name one "big" word she used.

@BrohamMcgumball

6 ай бұрын

​Clandestine Abrasive Worked "commercially" Reputable Exploratory "Professional Domination" Isolated Versatile Fetishist Enamored Reactive I know, you're very smart, and you've probably never heard a "big word" you didn't regularly use, so forgive me. I read your comment, and then these words/phrases were used in quick succession , and I thought I'd try to be helpful. Three syllable (and up) words ONLY. @@Armistead_MacSkye

Amazing woman! There is so much to learn from her. Very good conversation. Loved it.

Excellent interview. Thank you for your post. 😊

Thanks for this most informative interview 😊❤Cheers

"I enjoy feeling- sick! I enjoy feeling... I enjoy feeling alive!" I enjoy having listened to you.

Thank you for such an insightful look in to the psychology of this subject. I think it's often overlooked.

I love it!!!! Thank you for interviewing such a unique soul she was amazing and very insightful. You both are awesome I had to keep coming back throughout the day I couldn’t help but watch the entire show ❤️🔥🫶🏼

What a truly exceptional mind. Eva is something else. Thank you for this insightful, wonderful interview.

Loved this interview

Whoa this was a rabbit hole that was such a treat to embark on.

Great interview thank you.

I've known a few professional doms. Cis and trans women. I've found a sense of humour and a noticeable kind streak in all of them. I tried it, but I just couldn't do it. It's too removed from my personality. But I know for many it's very cathartic. I was ok at it, when I did phone sex, but to be honest, I found it humourous, and that's soley because I'm so uncomfortable power playing. So I am just not right for the job of dominatrix, where you deal with people who deliberately put themselves in very vulnerable positions, physically and emotionally. I was happier doing pretty vanilla stuff in sex work. Occasionally, especially doing phone sex work, it ended up in a counselling session. I stopped one guy from literally crushing his balls so he could have them removed. That was memorable. People don't know how much emotional comfort you can end up giving as a sex worker. Sometimes it's from the heart, especially with widowers etc... sometimes just because you're getting paid. The client usually knows on a deeper level if there is any sincerity there. Some people just want a connection with another person with no judgement, and a happy ending. Whether that's a physical or emotional happy ending, because some people are not capable of physical happy ending. . It's "more fun" than seeing a counsellor, but it's usually not an appropriate substitute for a professional counsellor or psychologist. Why not see both? I think the best sex worker is a "people person". There's a lady in our building who is not good looking and very badly groomed, but she's nice. She's very pleasant to talk to and she has A LOT of clients. I couldn't go back to it, but I don't regret doing it.

What a fascinating woman, loved this interview.

A truly great interview, one of the best. 👍👍👍 Two wonderful people.

One of the most engaging interviews. She has some great questions for you!

ive been a dominatrix for about 20yrs and i can see why she is top tier. fascinating woman!

@pinut187

8 ай бұрын

So after 20 years in the job you haven’t reached the top tier while you can see that she is?

@saanasalonen8684

8 ай бұрын

do you have a problem with something?@@pinut187

@7eyesopenwide168

8 ай бұрын

@@pinut18724 years as a Domme and I don’t see her as “Top tier” at all. She charges a lot. This doesn’t necessarily make her top tier in terms of her skills and what she provides in reality. Listening to her, I think she’s gotten away with charging as much as she does greatly due to her looks, the fact that she is the ethnicity she is which is GREATLY fetishized, she’s a shrewd businesswoman. But I dare say- bring a sub in a blindfold and have that sub experience a session with her, and then let me have them. Let’s see what they have to say. I’ve got at least 14 years on her. Many thousands more face to face sessions. I also specialized in couples which she doesn’t mention. It’s even more complex than individuals. I never worked at a commercial dungeon, I didn’t learn from providers, I learned from the clients themselves. I charge a small fraction of what she charges ($800 for two hours, often less because I don’t want to exclude people who can’t afford more than $500 a session). 9 hour or longer sessions are great. I love money too, but I love being trusted as a guide and facilitator even more. It shouldn’t be just for filthy rich people. She’s interesting, she’s definitely got skills, but top tier shouldn’t be based on the cost of such a personal and possibly life changing SERVICE. The experiences I’ve had the great honor of facilitating have been priceless. To have been trusted to be given access to people in their most vulnerable exposed states- even to the point of having such control that their lives are literally in your hands for that moment- it’s no small thing.

@7eyesopenwide168

8 ай бұрын

⁠@@pinut187this service should NEVER just be for the wealthy.

@pcharm3711

8 ай бұрын

HOW MUCH DO YOU MAKE?? IS IT WORTH IT?

One of the wisest, prettiest and the most open woman I’ve seen online. You go, girl👏

I really liked the interviewee and the interviewer. Good quality conversation.

Beautiful talk. And one can obviously see that what she radiates out is pure, curious, intimate and kindness. She seems like a great person. And i’m happy to see that you guys chose her to have this talk with.

I don’t know how this ended up on my feed but I ended up hanging onto her every word! She is brilliant and definitely a boss!