Wow, there are so many subscribers overseas. Thanks to the producer, I had a lot of fun filming

@rasesvari

Жыл бұрын

I found your views very relatable bro probably because our scenarios are quite same you earned a subscriber today 😃

90% of my problems can be solved with money. Those who did not experience poverty will never know what happiness money can bring.

@SpankinMusic

Жыл бұрын

I prefer social justice to having money. With social justice, that is, education for all, fair and equitable distributions of wealth, of rights and responsibilities, consideration of the family unit, of the individual human being, caring for the environment, caring for workers, preferring the needs of poor and vulnerable people (instead of caring for the mega-rich)… all these focuses will bring money into the wallets of the needy anyway. Ideal? Yes, it ‘is’ ideal. And we need to move each other in that direction, together, by our dialogue and action.

@patthonsirilim5739

Жыл бұрын

@@SpankinMusic problem is you need money or at least people who are productive in society to make those ideals a reality and problem with wealth distribution is that even in total fair system you will inevitably have some player who play the game better then other in life and life is like a game there always winners losser and in between there will always be those who is simply more gifted and will feel like they were shortchange if they were to be given the same amount of resources as the lesser productive member of society therefore he will either do less or society will find ways to circumvent and reward him acordingly so that he will provide those talants equality in opertunity education and health care that i can agree but equality in wealth simply unrealistic.

@SpankinMusic

Жыл бұрын

@@patthonsirilim5739 I assure you, I have no interest in carving out a false utopia of humanity without individual difference. There will be the extremely conscientious and hardworking and, if justice is true, these will reap the reward. I speak for those who are without the means to sustain a dignified living. The parameters of that *quality of living* may fluctuate across time, given economic capacity, but I do believe in the baseline basics, among which: food, housing, healthcare, education - basic numeracy and literacy… the add-ons of upward social mobility are nice-to-haves, but the fundamental concern is with each person being provided a basic quarter of living.

@nim4383

Жыл бұрын

That's what we think. When we have money we'll have different problems to worry about

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

@@nim4383 I agree and if we have money, we will not suffer economic problems as much or at all if we are wealthy. However, we have other problems to deal with that does not involve money.

people with money always say "I dont think money matters, as long as you're happy" because money has never been an obstacle in your life so how can you see an obstacle most people face, if you have never seen that obstacle. It is one big problem everyone could so without. Obviously doesn't make you a good person, but makes life easier

@noimoi9422

Жыл бұрын

@@cyy3390 The point is that they don't see money as an obstacle in life because they never had to deal with them. The things that more fortunate ones suffer from are things to do with themselves and their own being and "leisure" you could say. Whereas someone who is less fortunate has to deal with it in terms of family and future life. Let's take dreams as an obstacle for both sides. Someone who is rich can practice arts but then later gets the pressure from family to take over their business. They can still practice arts as a hobby. Wheres someone who is poor can't even think of doing arts and has to work their whole life to get to a point in life where they can practice arts as a hobby.

@1flash3571

Жыл бұрын

@@cyy3390 I would rather have problems when I have money than if I didn't have any.

@mavikiolanski9210

Жыл бұрын

@@cyy3390 "have to understand from their point of view" Nah. We do not need to. They already have had their privileges from the beginning. Understanding them does not get us wealth.

@elisabeth73

Жыл бұрын

@@mavikiolanski9210 Really?

@umaranib686

Жыл бұрын

Yes. My aunt and I don't really go after money but still she has to work to feed her family as she is a single mom. Whereas, I could do any job I want even though that doesn't have to feed my family. She told me the same thing, 'If you never know how a life without money would be, you can't say money is not important' .

You can definitely see that the self-made millionaires are more calculative and objective on their opinions because that's what made them successful while the inherited millionaires are more free/relaxed and subjective on their views because that's the privilege they got from growing up in a wealthy family and that is to not think too much about life and just enjoy it.

@thereallucymoon

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@erdua_

Жыл бұрын

YESS perfectly said

@jutakiatjiarapan

Жыл бұрын

Perfectly said

@schilztfurin968

Жыл бұрын

They are dull

@Jaspieces

Жыл бұрын

totally a spoiled child since birth i bet they didn't owned a single cheap item and yet have a guts to say money is not a bigdeal as long as you live happily, if im with their shoes i will gladly ask those self-made millionaires how to take care of it.

Having money doesn’t mean you are automatically happy, but it sure is easier to be happy when you have it vs when you don’t.

@liii3622

Жыл бұрын

yeah - if all your basic need are covered money will not make you happier, however, if your basic need aren't covered money will definitely make you happier

@celianeher7637

Жыл бұрын

Some of the most unhappy persons I haved meet are the ones we consider rich. Money make life easier but not happy.

@liteasura6111

Жыл бұрын

@@celianeher7637 We all have different definitions of Happiness, we also have standard of Happiness. With my definition, you CAN achieve more happiness with money. This is why there is a saying. "Ignorant is bless". If you don't know a smartphone exist, then you are content with your life even if you don't have it. This can apply to non materialistic value, if your part of the country doesn't know about LGBTQ, then you just don't care about it.

@jabesparker12

Жыл бұрын

They say money can't buy happiness, habbi me to dubai....

@liii3622

Жыл бұрын

@@jabesparker12 dubai probably the place on earth I'd least want to be

Are we gonna casually ignore how they just got a whole bunch of random millionaires and sat them in one room?

@silverspoon386

Жыл бұрын

i wonder this too😂

@joyapaul236

Жыл бұрын

"yo,you a millionaire ? come with me."

@tanshi2136

Жыл бұрын

I wonder how they did that lmao

@kaylahope2859

Жыл бұрын

you haven’t seen middle ground?

@janit2624

Жыл бұрын

I think The real millionaires don't have much time to make video like this, I mean they're busy right? 😂

The pain of being financially unstable is a unique one. I was homeless when I was 10, and I’ll never recover from that.

@kunikuzushi5949

Жыл бұрын

Real

@ZaNC4847

Жыл бұрын

Wish you all the rainbows and smiles from now on

@shivanshshukla5883

Жыл бұрын

Read the book "the courage to be disliked"......it speaks against the existence of trauma in one chapter.....present or future matter

@Yamiya08

Жыл бұрын

The stress not having money gives me is something I'll carry till I die. no jk

@lovelysoob1713

Жыл бұрын

Wishing you nothing but the best 💗

Money buys you the freedom to attain happiness. The more money you have, the more freedom you have. Thus more opportunity to pursue happiness.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

It depends on how you define happiness. That is why there is a saying that money cannot buy happiness.

@user-lz5vh9bb5w

Жыл бұрын

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj No it doesn't depend on how you define happiness at all. If you have more money then that means you have more freedom, opportunities and time to pursue whatever it is that you define as happiness.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

@@user-lz5vh9bb5w if that is the case then why are so many who are rich and famous so unhappy? They commit suicide too.

@user-lz5vh9bb5w

Жыл бұрын

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Because they're not using the freedom that their money buys to pursue happiness, or because they're unlucky and haven't found it yet. Also, there are plenty of poor people who are extremely unhappy as well. Poor people can of course be happy but if they're not then they don't have as many avenues to pursue to attain happiness. I say this as someone who was poor for many years but am now middle class (so I'm not rich but I'm comfortable).

@VidManic864

Жыл бұрын

On the same train of thought. Financial arguments are one of the biggest reasons for divorce. Having money doesnt automatically make you happy. Instead, its the security, freedom and opportunities that money brings; which can make you happy.

I agree that even though you never got help financially from your parents, being born in a wealthy family is in itself an advantage. It's already a step forward in the direction of becoming rich. It helps that you don't have to worry about working side jobs for your parents and siblings, you get into better schools, there might connections helping through some steps of the way and etc. I also agree with the point that everyone tries, but not everyone gets to be rich. For the ones who do get rich, I would say its true that they probably put in extra effort, sweat and tears. But sometimes it all just falls on luck. It's just something some people don't realize, in life, luck IS a variable too.

@Yoonji9212

Жыл бұрын

I think luck, skills, intelligence and ambition are definitely needed if you want to be rich. If you don't have this, you'll probably don't succeed.

@seasirensnow9041

Жыл бұрын

Actually I think even ur born rich that doesn't mean that everything will go smoothly.. yeah u have a point there but when someone want to be rich they also need connection to support them so it's quite the same with having ur rich parents behind.. when ur born rich doesn't mean that ur efforts being neglected it's just that u got early chance to being rich by urself.. it's unfair to think that rich kids r successful solely depends on parents whether or not their got helps from them.. coz rite now I believe like everyone else that luck actually is main factor deciding on whether u can be rich or not.. coz although ur born rich if u didn't have enough luck anytime u can be broke.. that's y I believe..

@tulam1215

Жыл бұрын

It's not that they dont realise luck is an important element, but it's more like they deny it. They feel that if they admit that luck was in their way then people will not see their success happening because of effort and hard work, but just simply because of luck.

@rebekahlee4211

Жыл бұрын

Completely agree with your first statement. My cousin and I are both healthcare professionals but his mom paid for an expensive private school and bought him his own practice/business while I had to forgo getting into the number 1 school in my field and currently am sinking in loans and will unlikely be able to open my own practice. We were both very studious people and he's honestly one of the sweetest cousins I have and I love him but I will say the wealth he was brought up in definitely gave him a higher advantage, and that advantage will also be passed onto our children. I'm definitely in a way better place than my parents and I know my kids will be in a better environment than me to succeed so I really cannot complain about where I am in life but I definitely agree with the advantage that wealthier families have to be successful. But at the same time I believe they also have to realize and take advantage of their advantage. My cousin didn't need to go to professional school, his parents are both loaded on their own, but he wanted to pursue higher education, so I admire him in a way too.

@hlway40

Жыл бұрын

I agree to your statement here. In my opinion, other than luck, there's one "hidden" variable too.. That's called "fate".

Coming from a person whose family is well off (now), money doesn't equal happiness but it 100% helps to direct you towards it. I don't have to worry if I will have enough money to pay my bills or put food on the table. I don't have to worry if my parents and grandparents have enough money to get by. Thus, I can primarily focus on my own goals/ needs. I don't like my current job? Ok, I can change my career path and I won't have to worry about tuition fees or other expenses. Knowing that I have this safety net, no matter what, IS a HUGE privilege. Does this mean I am 100% happy? Ofc no, like everyone else, I still have problems. However, had I been poor, I wouldn't have had the luxury to even worry about these problems (let alone have a dream) since I would've been too busy struggling to survive.

@flawtee4150

Жыл бұрын

Thank for this💕 I can't help to feel slightly madness( I know it is bad but I cant help it knowing family problems and life problems join to attack our life😭)if the privilege person invalidate and sugarcoating our life being not privilege in life. I wish a best life for you. Yas true survival in life is so irritating and being always go for practical hehe but I think we can make it in the future like the self made in this video, so wish all the best for all of us, privilege or not privilege. Sorry for my bad English.

@AstroNero.

Жыл бұрын

Well said!

@mies626

Жыл бұрын

you would have triple the amount of problems and pressure that you could never even be able to imagine and grasp without the experience in the first place. another important fact to add to your argument.

@nicejokes7

Жыл бұрын

Wrong on so many levels. So many fucking levels. Because sometimes Comfortable equates to Happiness. If you buy a homeless family a home, do you think they will only be comfortable? Fuck No, they will even start crying because of how Happy they are. Imagine you need $100k for your parent's operation. You fail to bring that money and both of your parents die, do you think it will feel uncomfortable? How does this even male sense? If I fail to do that, I'll be sad and feel guilty till my last breath. But if by chance, a kind man offers to pay 100k for your parents operation and they lived, are you saying that you'll be comfortable? That's it? Just how the fuck comfortable has to do with being happy? I bet your ass that, you'll smile and shout the moment you hear that someone is offering to pay the bills. So stop this BS.

@2WistedWolf

Жыл бұрын

thanks for sharing this, and totally agreed with it, happiness of course doesnt equal on money, but its all about what happening in our minds.

MONEY DOESNT BUY HAPPIENESS , ITS BUYS FREEDOM TO FIND HAPPINESS

@ot7stan207

Жыл бұрын

it gives you the ability to choose

@geegeecook5063

Жыл бұрын

Money is numbers and numbers never end. If it takes money to be happy, your search for happiness will never end.

@broccoberrietv4551

Жыл бұрын

​@@geegeecook5063 just possibly give you the free time to search rather than a slave to survive,, rent ,food job. Although these experienced are beneficial taken time away from your awakening journey

@arapaimagold8088

Жыл бұрын

And to find the path for that awakening journey. First you must move away material life. And it's pretty clear in bible when Christ said to a young man to sell all of his possessions. And also in heart sutra, the realization that everything is merely a illusion.

@broccoberrietv4551

Жыл бұрын

@@arapaimagold8088 A Amen.

Money ≠ happiness Money = better living conditions For example; my rent is cheap, my dad and I are the only ones working out of a 5 person family. I’m working at a fast food restaurant and my dad works in maintenance a school. Life is definitely less stressful when dad, mum, my brother and myself were working. My family would have been able to finally buy a house. Edit: my mum left us out of nowhere so it is less financially tight because of food/alcohol/ cigarettes but less happy because there is drama now. So I’ve come to realise it doesn’t matter. Money is money, I love my siblings I love my dad and that is what matters like you see homeless people with a spouse and a dog and they’re happy how they are. I think it’s a state of mind (if we’re getting down to the most dramatic point).

@tulam1215

Жыл бұрын

Better living conditions = more likely to feel happy.

@S_N_

Жыл бұрын

@@tulam1215 yep

@rosaliebosma

Жыл бұрын

@@tulam1215 to a certain extent, but I think that as soon as you can afford te basics and a little more (like a new piece of furniture every now and then and a vacation once a year), the extra money isn't going to make you much happier. If it does, it's probably because you're biased to think that "now that I have more money, I can be happy." I think that once you have too much, you'll always want more, which makes very unhappy. If I were to compare money with school grades (and they are much alike), this would certainly be true for most people.

@jhondoe4526

Жыл бұрын

Happy = gaining something you wish to have Example your living in worst living condition and wishing to be better, and you happy because you achieve it Yeah if that input of your happines is related with money , then gaining money would make you happy

@devaxionrl8189

Жыл бұрын

Money is happiness don’t bullshit

The rich girl is kind of woke tbh. When she was explaining about her past dating experiences it was quite daunting that some of her exes would borrow money. With those circumstances you can have that mindset to find someone with the same financial situation or higher because some just date you for money. Although if you find someone who is genuine and loves you even if having financial difficulties, ofc grab the chance.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

Exactly and it is hard when you are wealthy to find someone who truly loves you for you not for what kind of wealth you have.

@ot7stan207

Жыл бұрын

She was surprisingly more aware and humble than I expected.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

@@ot7stan207 Just because anyone is rich means they must be snobby. You can be poor and be snobby and annoying too. It also depends on your personality and character too.

@Hrathen39

Жыл бұрын

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj well it would be obvious if they go out of their way to not make you pay for expensive things and do activities affordable to the average income. That's pretty indicative to their morality

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

@@Hrathen39 yes and I never denied that which is why I said it depends on their personality and character.

A wealthy person who have never been broke wouldn't know how it feels to be broke, so according to their experience they would definitely say that money doesn't bring happiness because they have only dealt with sadness with money !

@sokunthealy7619

Жыл бұрын

I mean why don’t they donate all their money and asset and start working 9-5 like other people. I hate it when rich people don’t recognize their own privileges and always try to make it look like they got no privileges and money doesn’t matter.

@khletus9061

Жыл бұрын

@@sokunthealy7619 Maybe because money doesn't make them happy ? Should money make them happy because they have it while others don't ? They never said they were not privileged, they're just saying it doesn't particularly make them happy, being happy doesn't equal being thankful for what they have... It's just perspective

@sokunthealy7619

Жыл бұрын

@@khletus9061 no, maybe what I wrote cause misunderstanding. But I was trying to is their mindset of “ I don’t think money matter, as long as you’re happy”. When they never experience what it feel like when the basic need cannot be met because of the lack of money. Yes, you don’t need to be wealthy to be happy Or being wealthy doesn’t make you happy, but you do need to have enough money to cover your basic need. Saying money don’t matter, as long as you’re happy is very privileged mindset, and don’t realize that.

@SuperKagomefan

Жыл бұрын

This chic literally just said how having a lot of money effs up her dating life she can't date normal people. Everything comes with a price. Money does not buy happiness, it can only improve living conditions and provide comfort. Things on the spiritual, mental health or relationship side, friendships and romance- that can't be bought. Have you seen Willow and Jaden Smith talk about hanging out with their friends, their friends always expected them to pay and would leave them with the bill? I think you are seen as less of a human the more you make, to some folk and more like an ATM. Crap like that is sad.

@jesseye33

Жыл бұрын

@@SuperKagomefan that’s right. It’s like how my university classmates hate doing project work with free riders whom pretended to be his friend cause he’s dean lister and will ace the project just by himself. You start to doubt everyone around you just cause you’re privileged. You also gets expected to pay/do more/give more just cause you’re richer/smarter. It’s a curse when you’re nice and get taken advantage of.

its true that "A wealthy person will always says money is not everything" "A beautifull person will always say beauty is not everything" because they never faced these obstacles, they never faced financial problem or never faced problems that comes when you are not beautiful.

@numresunw

Жыл бұрын

But having those problems doesnt mean you cant be happy tho, i think it actually depends on your definition of happiness, how you face those problems, your goals in life and much more

@user-xw5gx4ft2j

Жыл бұрын

Beauty is not everything Iam pretty but that didnt help me, not a single time

@pooh133

Жыл бұрын

@@user-xw5gx4ft2j beauty is EVERYTHING thats why there are things like "pretty privilege", you might wont notice but being beautiful does help you in life

@Light-dg9lx

Жыл бұрын

If beauty and wealth is everything, means people who have it both are living a perfect life, in a dream land?

@reinhartgregory

Жыл бұрын

I believe that the people who say that are either ignorant or lying

I don't think trying hard will automatically lead to success. If you lack skill, talent, and intelligence you can try very hard but still fail. I also think it is an advantage to come from a family with money. Silver spoon can try and fail, but still have family to catch them when they fall. If a person from a poor family takes a risk and fails they could be homeless. On a different subject ; I think Jei is a very cool person.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

True but if you have the skills and all but are lazy, you will not get anywhere too. If you come from a rich family, you are still better off than the average person in some ways.

@tulam1215

Жыл бұрын

And not to mention the element of luck as well. Some people could just try as hard as you, have the same skills as you, but they are not as lucky as you so they didnt make it.

@xygdra

Жыл бұрын

@@tulam1215 I got woke some months ago about a teaching regarding Luck. You have to place yourself at a position that increase your chances to attaining that luck. Crude example: you have to at least buy a lottery ticket to win the lottery. Better example: You must first cultivate your skills or talent (not the same) to a degree where you can use it to entice luck, ie you and your colleagues are competing for a new manager position, what did you do/have something special that can even be considered as a candidate for that position, then only comes to luck, as opposed to not even being considered as a candidate.

@arapaimagold8088

Жыл бұрын

Fate & luck is external factor in locus fo control. It's our want vs the will of the universe. And the best way to work with the will of the universe is by keep asking the universe everyday before you go to sleep. Am I on the right path? If I'm not on the right path, help me and put on the right path. Putting aside our ego is the only way to welcome peaceful life with abundance of provisions in life from the universe.

@kimchifriedrice8869

Жыл бұрын

I think opportunities also bring a lot of advantages to determine whether you will become rich or not in life. I know a lot of people who are hardworking and street-smart but they still struggle from the lack of opportunities life brings to them. Maybe in the future, they will have that, but not all have these kinds of opportunities, so basically, they still work hard, but not enough to escape themselves and their families from poverty.

Money doesn't automatically make you happy, but that doesn't mean it's any less important. You need money to survive in this world. My goal is to work hard to have just enough money so that I don't even have to think about it. Like, not exactly rich, but comfortable. But knowing how uncertain things are, I guess I understand people that prefer being safe rather than sorry, and just bust their asses off to get rich. I guess this all depends on how you were raised and how present money was in the day to day conversations of the people closest to you.

@qaywsxedcrfvtgb796

Жыл бұрын

I like your thoughts and point of views. Would you like to exchange Instagram to communicate?

@carito728

Жыл бұрын

I think a lot of people who have to bust their asses of do it because they have a family though. Like for example, if you're living alone you're gonna be able to make more money and work less (thus fulfilling your goal of living comfortably) than if you have a partner you spend money on or a worse, a child, the latter being known to be incredibly expensive obviously

@regulus2000

Жыл бұрын

@@carito728 That's very true. I don't intend on having children for this exact reason. Even still, I can already feel how difficult it is to get just the bare minimum to survive. With a family to provide for, it would be even worse. It's sad seeing how so many people live miserable lives because all they can think about everyday is how they'll feed their families.

@VisibleMRJ

Жыл бұрын

You need power to survive. The only reason why people couldn’t just come up and punch you in the face is because that person have less power than a group of people that come together an agreed on certain rules like no punching people in the face or we put you in jail. That’s why weapon manufacturers will never run out of business.

@ncz7

Жыл бұрын

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The last question shocked me a lot from both sides (If you try hard enough anyone can be rich.) I think there are so many variables put into place for the rich to stay rich and the poor to stay poor that not everyone can achieve it. And the people failing didn’t fail because they “didn’t try hard enough” it’s because the chances and opportunities aren’t on their side all the time. And I thought that at least the self made millionaires would understand that. Becoming wealthy often has to do with taking risks.. anyone sitting there can probably say it’s easier for them to take such risks because the only have suffice for themselves. On the other hand a single mother working 3-4 jobs can’t take such risks because she has to put food on the table to. Does it mean she’s trying any less then the people sitting on those chairs at that giggle broadcast? No.. it doesn’t.

@211candygirl

Жыл бұрын

Well said

@fightingfingers6550

Жыл бұрын

agreed

@xYooSu

Жыл бұрын

definitely.

@blue_pullover

Жыл бұрын

They're trying hard for different things. Anyone can be rich if they try, but not everyone will have to make the same sacrifices to get there. Some will need to sacrifice more than others.

@pushkarpardeshi1195

Жыл бұрын

For the people who says money can't buy happiness then please transfer all your money in my bank account because I know how important money is in life and iam already born in a wealthy family but still if anyone having a lot of money but still are not happy then transfer your money in my bank account

I agree with the silver spoon girl. Relationships are also dependent on money. When I am the one spending on everything, the guy feels inferior and tends to think he is not capable of taking care of a family. If money is not an obstacle, you can enjoy other things in life without much worries. You can't just live for 30+ years in a comfortable way and accept someone who can't afford your lifestyle. It gets too difficult once you're used to it and people normally look for something higher than their current status always.. So it makes sense why women go after well-settled people.

@cavegirl8052

Жыл бұрын

Agree with this too.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

I don’t agree with that 100% as that is old school and traditional thinking which expects the guy to always be the breadwinner. You both help provide for the family, but the most important thing is to do it willingly and happily and not mock your man for making less if he does. I have examples in my family. My sister in law makes more than my brother but they both contribute and do their part. They also respect each other too and not look down on the other for making less. My cousin also married a nice guy who has an unstable work history and not much of a career, so my cousin is the main breadwinner. She loves her husband and does not look down on him. They have been happily married for over 20 years with 2 young adult kids now. Therefore, women looking for men with money are either old school or are gold diggers. If you have a lower social position, do you even qualify to look for someone of a higher status? My former friend managed to marry a rich guy but she suffers from his family looking down on her and treating her unfairly. She may not need to worry about money but has a ton of other problems to deal with. I kind of agree with your last points. Those who spend a lot and live lavishly cannot get easily used to living a more frugal lifestyle. That was one of the reasons why Hk actress Gillian Chung divorced. One of my cousins divorced as she is high maintenance while her ex husband is a loser with not much money. Having the same views on money is important too. But if you truly love anyone, then you can change and sacrifice for them which is why the Japanese princess gave up her royal position to be with her commoner husband. Therefore, it just depends.

@umaranib686

Жыл бұрын

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj No I don't mock the ones who don't earn much. They themselves have a low esteem and even though I am not much demanding, they think they can't keep me happy without earning much. If they are respecting each other and consider themselves happy, then that wont be a problem. One can only feel it when they are in a relationship and the other one is not feeling significant just because they don't earn alot of money. Also many guys dream that if they are rich, then they can keep women happy. That's not true and they should change their mentality. Then only the relationship will work out. Women looking for men with money ain't bad, say if they were also brought up in a rich family too. Even though I dated poor guys, they made me feel like I was different from them and had a mindset that well-off people can do whatever they want. It's like I am still loyal no matter what but still get judged because I have a lot of options. Women can depend on men for money; that's not wrong completely. Many women want to work but for others, they just want to get settled and look after family. That ain't a problem. If a man is confident with himself, he can take care of the women and not depend on women. But men now expect the women to be working together with them and raise their standards. So it's not like men don't look for girl who are earning more. It goes both ways but marriage should be based on love, not just money. If they think too much about money, they can't be happy. That's why I said even relationships are influenced so much by this materialistic world today.

@sornkpop7244

Жыл бұрын

I think that's more attached to women. Women are naturally hypergamous

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

@@umaranib686 But your mentality is still old school thinking that the guy must always be the provider which is not the case these days…Not all guys dream of being rich to keep the women happy. But yes, that is true for traditional old school guys. My point is it goes both ways now not like the old days where the women just stay at home while the guys work. Times are different now. My parents taught me to make my own money so I can marry for love not money. Plus, having lots of money does not mean you will be happy all the time. I agree that it should be more than just money only and should he based on love more.

Money doesn't buy happiness but it can sure buy convenience and comfort which is exactly what I need in my life HAHAH

@arapaimagold8088

Жыл бұрын

Life is good as long as we didn't fall into the trap of luxury commodities.

@ani.xr26

Жыл бұрын

Fr I'd rather be depressed and crying in a Mercedes than be crying on the streets and be starving at the same time.

@micammssssss2311

Жыл бұрын

Trueee ✨

I don't think anyone can be rich just by trying hard. There's just too many factors in play, knowledge, skills, discipline, intelligence, vision, goal, network, luck, market environment, market condition and many more. If one look around, there will always be people that are hardworking but are just doing average in their career. In fact, there are also plenty of hardworking but poor people out there.

@eb1504

Жыл бұрын

Thats the truth man

@vibin9476

Жыл бұрын

exactly. and some of the most hardworking people have too many obstacles, too much to lose, yet not having enough, it’s so sad

You can see the differences by how the self-made millionaires and inherited millionaires both dress differently

@edenswaltz

Жыл бұрын

the self-made millionaires dress professionally (like they would jump right back to work after this video) and the inherited ones dress casually like they would go back to their house

You can work hard at a mcdonald's and never be rich but if you work hard at a mcdonalds save your money, become a manager and buy your own franchise then you're getting some where. Knowing how and where to invest is key to being rich. Most rich people worked a regular job saved and invested in something. So not only do you have to work hard you also have to work smart.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

But investment is a gamble as you can get a lot but also lose a lot too.

@Law19157

Жыл бұрын

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Yes, most investments fail but everybody only talks about the success not the numerous failures. An investor needs to be knowledgeable in what they're investing in, understand the market and be persistent.

@divx1001

Жыл бұрын

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj anything in life is a gamble. Even going out every day is a gamble, never know when your dreams will be cut short. Put simply, obtaining success is impossible without taking risk.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

@@divx1001 I agree but investing is one of the big gambles as you can lose it all in a heartbeat.

@kenasssss

Жыл бұрын

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Not if you do it correctly. That's why it's called investing, not gambling. Because investing is a calculated risk, you're not supposed to use money that you'll need to pay your bills, eat, etc. You should only use money you are willing to lose. Gambling is putting all your money in one basket, putting a lot without considering your family, your responsibilities, bills, savings, etc. Investing also comes with a loss, but that's why we are warned about not using money we don't have to do it.

This video just made me think how so many of people who were in entertainment industry were mostly from a well off families like it makes easier for them to have many options to choose from which gives them the freedom which most of the youth lacks at, coming from a wealthy parents gives wings to their children its the fact it relies on the children how they use those wings

@secre117

Жыл бұрын

so true.

@laura7204

Жыл бұрын

This basically defines most foreign idols in the K-pop industry especially in the 4th generation

11:48 realistically speaking, if you were to compare a "rich" person and a "poor" person who both gave the same amount of hard work, it would still be impossible to get the same result.

@jesseye33

Жыл бұрын

There are too many other variables in play than just wealth and amount of hard work

@shindoxxx

Жыл бұрын

The starting point is different. The rich one starts from 100 meters to the finish line, the poor person starts from 1000 meters behind. If both gave the same amount of hard work, poor person would still be very close to the starting point as if he/she hasn't done anything at all.

@loon7181

Жыл бұрын

70% families lose their wealth by the 2nd generation and 90% by the third but definitely, rich people have better teachers and a safety net. But maybe that safety net can also lead them to failure. There are many people with rich parents that aren't particularly outstanding and I sometimes wonder what will happen in the future.

I like having Jei on this conversation. And also I think all of their ideas are valuable. Each one makes sense in different situations. And I also think that people shouldn't judge others on their wealth

As someone born poor and getting rich (parents got rich) when I grew older, iam kinda in the middle of everything. I still remember the days when my family was poor. I am very grateful that my family are kinda healthy and don't need to worry about money that much anymore. But my greatest fear I have is, that either by me or by my children, the money my parents worked very very hard for/saved up is getting wasted completely. I feel this immense pressure to be "at least not to dumb" to throw everything away my parents gave me. Even more, I need to be more successful than my parents. They made around 3 millions euro from 0. So I should at least add 2 million to it, so my children will have around 5million to inherit.

"He buys real estates as hobby". Thank you Sir, for buying it for sight seeing and speculation while I work 10+ years to just own a decent sized apartment. Honestly when I clicked I expected some brag, but this really hits hard!

The way Jei carries herself and answers every question presented to her really makes me admire and respect her, her confidence is just smth else. I must say she is a really good speaker and makes me want to focus on listening to her only.

@phoenixfire6205

Жыл бұрын

Same feeling dude

There’s one more thing I noticed, coming from an old money family background, it’s that the expectations from your family are sky high, they expect you to grow the money and pass it on, meanwhile everyone in your surroundings assumes that you have everything and don’t need to work at all, it’s not true, the pressure is always in the back of your head. When you come from a background like that you can’t have just a "regular" job, you’ll be considered a failure, destroy your family’s work that been passed by generation, someone needs to take care of the land, run the businesses. Another interesting thing I noticed is the new money generation, where people try to flash with fast cars and designer clothes, well I can tell you that all the wealthiest people present themselves I’d say almost poor, we don’t flash, that’s not what money is about, if someone has actual big amount of money they’ll buy for example land, not a Gucci T that’s worth $2. What all of this is about is health, good food, good air, good water, if you have money you can ensure yourself a good lifestyle, and hopefully pass it onto the next generation.

@Alinkhayra

Жыл бұрын

True, but some old money family they inherit the ‘money management’ skill so they can achieve that financial freedom life.

I also dont think anyone born rich can ever be truly self made because i think people forget how important good connections are. I can work hard my whole life and not reach the same place as someone who grew up among rich people who could help them get jobs/experience/knowledge every step of the way.

@LilMoonieDragon

Жыл бұрын

You can make good connections if you aren’t wealthy though. Is it harder? Yes. Impossible? No.

Watching this makes me realize…I REALLY miss Jei on this channel! Such a cool and honest vibe that shines from her

@SOMEJEI

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ☺️ i miss you guys too

@maxgohagen7489

Жыл бұрын

@@SOMEJEI We need more people in this world like you. Stay true to yourself. You are a bright light in this sometimes dim world!☯️☮️✌️

Sorry, but if your "starting point" is a silver spoon and help from your parents to start your business/ project, then you're not "self-made". You may be a hard worker and you may have worked hard for your wealth, and we're not taking that away from you, but at the end of the day, your starting point is $ x-million; whereas the "poor" person's starting point is wayyy less, and sometimes even negative (in debt). Also, the way of thinking... You may be miles ahead, bcoz you have knowledge on how to handle money, and possibly how to create wealth, just from your upbringing.

@Law19157

Жыл бұрын

They said no help from your wealthy parents, as an zero assistance no money no nothing. Statistics show that wealth is lost by the 3rd generation.

@AmritenduRana31082000

Жыл бұрын

You sound stupid.Even if you don't have millions ,if someone really belives in their business they take loans or try to work hard and bring investors.If you have rich parents that great .Just an excuse by middle class to give an excuse.I know many engineering middle class graduates invested millions in their startup from bringing investors through their talent and knowledge.Knowledge is power.

If you're parents are wealthy, you have access to a better starting point. From better education opportunities to something as basic as better health care. The less you have to worry about the little things, the easier it becomes to focus on other things.

Yes, the answer is yes. Money will buy you happiness!

@jadenquest9544

Жыл бұрын

*Looks at the suicide list of wealthy people and cries*

@mindofvirtuoso3358

Жыл бұрын

Money doesnt buy happines. Money makes you happy but doesnt buy it. Once ur unhealthy you wont be able to buy your life

@lachibolalaofficial4745

Жыл бұрын

According to me you are right Money is not all about luxury Donating can make you feel satisfied Alot of personal problem can be solved by money And About suicides Rich people can go to great therapists Money is one of the most important things you need with a good heart and a great personality

@s.e.n3264

Жыл бұрын

@@lachibolalaofficial4745 🙌

@Manic_Panic

Жыл бұрын

I somewhat disagree. I usually get what I want and I just get a little satisfaction for a short moment. It's more like, to avoid misery rather than keeping you happy. For happiness, you have look elsewhere unless you have an expensive hobby where money is a big part of like travelling. Then yes, money is the access to the happiness. These types of questions are much more nuanced than they appear and I guess there is really no right or wrong answer anyway.

I think that the biggest adventage of people born in wealthy families is that they got to see their parents’ work habits, strong character etc. The things that make them sustain their money.

ever since i was a child, there was no time i’m struggling to fulfill my primary and secondary needs. only the tertiary part that was not easy to fulfill but still achievable with savings. so i didn’t really stressed about money until i turned 20. i still can fulfill my primary and secondary needs. can somewhat buy tertiary needs with savings but the thoughts that i can’t make money yet scares me. the thought that my parents wouldn’t be able to support me financially in the future scares me. and thoughts how there are really a lot of things that needs money, especially my hobbies and dreams, really make me think ‘ah.. so money is important.’ it makes me think people who said ‘money is not everything’ must be the one who able to experience enough money in their life. there are a lot of things i think about that related to money, i hope someday i can say ‘money is not everything’

@kresspqressie7722

Жыл бұрын

Relate af, you spoke my condition and thought as well

@Mikiw756

Жыл бұрын

you said everything I wanted to say.. I'm 22

@jeanbaguio7919

Жыл бұрын

Omg this sums it up pretty well for me

@hanindhira

Жыл бұрын

its always the rich people that gave a statement money is not everything. the one that doesn't financially stable just pick that up bcs they just want to comfort themselves.

@arapaimagold8088

Жыл бұрын

You should change the part where you're scared that your parents can't financially support you. With being scared that one day that you must become the provider for your parents. That's the push that you need to have courage to challenge the real world.

Honestly this was a great video. I felt like I came away with something instead of just scoffing as someone who isn't a millionaire would when they see a title like this. I liked how they talked it out and explained their standpoints instead of merely being prejudiced and ignoring the views of the other

In all honesty, I think that happiness really relies heavily on perspective and the comparatives/relative success. I say this coming from a middle-class background where I can admit to the financial privilege I have but also experience the stress of debt and financial hardship. Our family owns a 7 bedroom house in an upper middle-class neighbourhood - but this is only possible because of the sheer grit of my immigrant parents. And the help of my older brother who all work together to sustain the mortgage rates. We have this home, and some fairly nice possessions but it’s also because of the financial stress induced by maintaining these luxuries that we’ve almost become homeless and my family has broken relationships. Money doesn’t solve problems, but it can help relieve some of them if we don’t pass the tipping point where chasing/having money causes more stress. There’s a balance.

Having money, family, friends a wonderful partner and great health is the great equalizer in having a happy life.

i agree with the point "money represent someones goal" , it definitley does. One with not very good financial background will set a goal according to their financial status...but people with money can do whatever they want, can achive whatever goal they have cause they will never be financially bound to do something

My uncle always used to say that happiness definitely matters more than money but if you think about it for a while a person can only be happy if he/she is healthy , have a roof above their head , food to survive and a healthy family and all of these can be brought with money only . A poor person can never be happy cause he/she can never get proper treatment and have to lead a life of misery and a rich person who has money will always be scared to lose the money and will make enemies a person with money can never sleep peacefully . So money enough to make you survive is the best option

@rosaliebosma

Жыл бұрын

I have to agree with this balance. Although I do not think all boxes need to be checked to be able to be happy. Sick people can be happy too. As long as you don't give in to the victim mindset, that is.

I have never been well off or anything but I was doing okay and I was pretty happy. Lonely. But happy. Affording living and having food in the cupboard, not worrying about where food will come from, will I have enough for rent and even being able to go buy nice food or clothes sometimes really helps and provides sanity.

Sometimes its just about where you stand in life, plus everyone's experiences are different. We try to understand that.

Money helps a lot, the problem is when you have no money, no love and your health is poor.....😭

Money can't buy happiness but lack of money can bring misery.

I loveeee the born rich girls perspective on if a lovers financial situation was important or not and her answer for why it was is my exact thoughts as well👏👏

the two self made ones should get married 😂

@michaelbrantley675

Жыл бұрын

I was just thinking that strangely enough

@hanvin4935

Жыл бұрын

Hahahhahaha right 😂😌

@kugicaimp192

Жыл бұрын

♡♡♡ GREAT IDEA. I NEVER THOUGHT OF THAT. THAT WOULD BE AWESOME IF BOTH OF THEM ARE SINGLE. ♡♡♡

@strivingforsuccess88

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking about that too 😂😂 They both look fabulous and would look really good together 😚

I want to give another perspective is in a spectrum of poor Vs rich. The ones who are stuck in middle have it alot harder than you think . All my life as someone who is stuck in the middle of financial spectrum. We have to be careful in each step we take one misstep and you end up poor . We have to gamble each step . We have alot to lose at the same time we don't have much to lose . I hope my perspective make sense .

@cleiru7859

Жыл бұрын

I'd still classify it as being poor since you don't have the luxury of failure. Only by being comfortable with failing and having enough to step back on will I consider myself a rich man.

Money brings happiness is a question only asked from whom who has not suffered from poverty. If you can’t afford your rent, medical bills, take care of your parents or family members you would never question the importance of money, but that’s only that is, people overvalued happiness too, happiness and joy are emotions and you can’t feel them all the time, not even buy it, some try with drugs tho, so the arguments doesn’t make sense with the dept of the question asked.

I like Jei, she was born with a silverspoon but I feel like she's a good friend whether you're rich or poor. She focuses on what she likes, and minds her own business. Positive outlook on life. She def doesn't understand what it's like to be poor but I'd take her genuine personality over fake friends any day

Money may not buy happiness, but it makes being miserable one hell of a lot easier!! I literally have 0 (zero) problems that could not be solved with money!!

I've had much more money than I have today. It's really uncomfortable to have 50€ in the bank. I'd rather be comfortable. Yet I'm happier thanks to a lot of other things happening in my life that have nothing to do with money. At some point in the past, I was miserable despite being financially secure. I don't want to go back to that place. Even with more money. Now that I'm happier and mentally healthier, I'll look for a way to be wealthier, so as to be comfortable again. In the meantime, I make the most of my life. Ps : I do live every day wondering how I'm going to pay my monthly bills and rent. I might have to give up my flat and sleep on my parents' couch. Still, I'm not dirt poor so I don't talk from a place of trying to survive, like homelessness or barely able to feed myself. It's all relative.

For me i think living comfortably, food on the fridge and pantry, a nice cozy home with air conditioner, can pay my bills on time. To travel local and overseas sometimes and lastly to be able to help other people when they need something, that's the life i want to afford. I dont care about luxury items most young people nowadays want. But living a somewhat comfortable life without worry because of the money i have seems like a pretty good deal to me

It was quiet interesting see two different mindsets, pls post more these kinds of video

Very interesting video! Comparing different classes and social environments! Thank you ❤

I think money is only important depending on where you are in life. If you're poor you need money to afford everything, then after you have money you pursue happiness and lifestyle.

I think rich people dumb down what money really is. Money equates to all forms of knowledge, consumption and housing. Why not compare people who are born into a poor family(still currently poor) vs people with silver spoons. Without money you are succumbed to a work life that's not your own and will not be able to experience life freely as a rich person does. I don't mean to sound materialistic but Happiness is not even an important factor here. Happiness depends on the person, mental health, or living arrangements. You can be happy or sad despite your financial situation. But if I'm sad I have the MONEY to seek help. The other part of the video speaks about working hard but no one really brought up there's different opportunities for everyone. There's people in this world who have it way worse than what we can imagine. Saying that they're not working as hard is a bit absurd.

Wow such a nice important episode! Thank you for making & sharing this Giggle crew 👍🏻👍🏻

People who say that "You can live happy without money" have the most money. These people do not realize that money is literally the basis for our entire society. Housing, food, employment, it's al money.

@user-db8un2lm4y

Жыл бұрын

Well technically it is possible to live happily without money but it depend on your situation your story, your knowledge of the world Someone who doesn't know what being rich is, would be happy just getting a meal and a family, sadness come when you know something exist but you cannot get it People in the past never were sad to not get a mobile phone cause it just didn't exist, they didn't think about it even once And you don't think about wanting an invention who doesn't exist yet nowadays, but in the future everyone would want it

If you think money don’t buy happiness, you’re spending it wrong

i didnt know jei had a rich family background, I have meant people who did and she doesn't act like any of em.

Great sharing of perspectives! Early on, Minseon observed that it's important to see how someone reacts when there is no money. Though the discussion did not follow that up, I imagine she may have seen or experienced how people can change attitudes for better or for worse as they go from rich to struggling or struggling to rich. But that's just me projecting some of the things I've seen. (I don't have any high rise properties though!) Happa's point about luck was very good too. In the US public discourse about wealth inequality, activists who seek to raise awareness of this issue and its consequences for a fair society say that a common misconception among both wealthy and nonwealthy Americans is that rich people are self-made and reached their current status entirely or largely through their own skill and work ethic. But economic studies indicate that this is a result of distorted perception due to sample bias and/or survivor bias. Our media rarely pay attention to the 75% of small businesses that fail within 2 years of starting. The media doesn't even spend much attention on the majority of the remainder who break even or turn a decent but not multi-million dollar profit. By cherry-picking only the most outstanding results, and then interviewing their creators and owners who are successful, we don't see the ones who worked just as hard but for whatever circumstances failed to survive the gauntlet. Luck isn't everything -- you have to work hard in order to have the right skills, connections, and tools to seize upon that luck when it shows up. But hard work with even just 1 bad luck break too many can cause setbacks for years or decades, delaying or preventing you from ever fully expressing your hard work as financial success. With most of them chiming in on the self-made topic next, I think that reinforces the above paragraph in that they recognize the value of infrastructure -- whether mental/emotional/financial support from parents, or instruction from teachers, community and peers, etc. Dongseok at some moments sounds like he believes most in being self-made at some points, but then on the "anyone can be rich" question, he calls it out as a trick question. I think it's great that he specifies anyone can work hard, but it takes uncommon hard work, hunger/desire for success, and opportunity. As Minseon says, anyone can become rich but not everyone becomes rich.

Sometimes its simply as having a small simple dinner can provide happiness and gratitude over a fancy restaurant eatout. But not able to provide that small simple dinner might lead to anxiety and depression so money is still important but remember constant gratitude will always lead to more to come in unexpected ways. That’s how ❤

For the second question I would have to say that wealth is not the ONLY way to show someone has met their goals in life. If someone wants to be a social worker or school counselor or a teacher, they get paid like shit but still do what they wanted with their lives. Having family and loved ones is also usually a very good sign of a life well lived more so than wealth.

Money buys security & comfort, a major part of Happiness.

Trying hard is not enought. It takes a lot of efforts and fails to become rich. You gotta keep learning and educate yourself financialy and socialy also. You gotta have the mindset, making good connections and sometimes a bit of luck and also be financially smart. It also takes a lot of sacrifices which most people don't want to take. Making money was never comfortable.

This was a deeper conversation than i expected.

in my opinion sometimes effort doesnt really equal wealth it contains more if i have to put it in a equation it would be effort + luck = wealth as there can reasons to why they are not wealthy when they put effort into their works. we can also add connections since it also helps you more in getting a job. Wealth for me doesnt represent your goal in life. it can be a part of your goal but not all. Since there are circumstances that it cant be helped. society is pretty unfair

Having grown up in a fairly poor family, I can recount many happy memories of my past. We lacked many things. I remember I used to cut out toy images from an argos catalogue to play with because my family couldnt afford the actual toys. But I still recall those days with much happiness and nostalgia. I'm sure if my parents were wealthier, I'd have access to more toys and more activities. But I'm not sure if I would say I would've been any happier than my actual childhood. I'd disagree that money leads to happiness.

@kugicaimp192

Жыл бұрын

♡♡♡ TO SOME PEOPLE, IT COULD. TO SOME, IT DOES. TO SOME, IT DOES NOT. TO SOME, IT DID. TO SOME, IT WILL. ♡♡♡

very interesting video once again. thank you GIGGLE for helping me through tough months of depression with your great guests. I will be in Korea next March/April so if you need a okish looking German guy for some video or just helping out on set just write me. :D keep up the great work.

money can't necessarily buy love but it can definitely buy happiness when you know how much it's actually worth... you can't truly appreciate.. like you can be grateful your not homeless for example but it doesn't truly sink in until you know what it feels like to be homeless along with the struggles... also if u have money, you work your way around life so much quicker

in my case money definitely makes me happy as that's the main obstacle for me now, at least no money to buy some good clothes to go for like important works I think there's a satisfaction that u made it and now u have money to buy whatever u want just imagine u have no money and u're beloved got ill = hell more money = ability to do what u love = happiness as for having a partner, money matters, what I want is for him to be fully independent by himself with what he has without any problem when u have money u can pursue whatever goal u want, like some goals require money like to be a pro golf player u need money even to be a doctor u need money till u finish your studies for like 5 years

"Money is not important" Most of the world problems evolve around lack of money. Why there's corruption - greed of money, poverty, unemployment, health issues. People not only kill others trust but also kill each other for money. Yeah, money isn't important 😐

Being born in a wealthy family is an advantage , I'm a 25 year old guy and i was born in a family which was not so rich and was from a small town. I never cared about money or anything because Most of the friends were from the same socio economic background a m and my family provided everything that they could but later in my life i realised that not having enough exposure as a kid can make or break a deal for you, I was a good athlete and a good student but i had no professional coaching or even a good schooling though my father encouraged me to study by myself some other stuff too. When I joined college most of the kids knew things by default which I read/taught myself even most of the friends of mine can't even join a good coaching or leave the city for better exposure because their parents can't afford it and what they could have achieved earlier in life it took them more years to achieve because they were doing everything by themselves. Now my father and brother run a small firm and are making good money i clearly see the difference between our upbringing (mine and my elder brother) and my niece. She is still a 4 year old child but she's gonna get better elementary schooling than us and now we can afford a good academy be it tennis, dancing, singing or anything.she doesn't have to use public transport and waste double the time than usual. so having rich parents helps directly or indirectly but still my father can claim he is a self-made man.

I completely disagree with that last one, if that was true, most people would be millionaires. I’m pretty sure there’s people out there who have had worked much more than all of them combined, and they’re nowhere near as wealthy as they are. And that doesn’t mean they aren’t working hard enough…

People who say money matters have experienced poverty whereas the ones who object have never experienced poverty

8:18 "because the result of our efforts is money, I think that's why we can think money is the goal. So in my opinion efforts, equal to wealth." in a way it is true but some people put much more effort than another but still earn less.

Saying NO to victim mindset is the key to happiness

@whocares897

Жыл бұрын

This right here! These comments are so typical

Maturity is realizing the guy who said "money doesn't buy happiness" is already a rich person

Money doesn’t make you happy. Sure. It doesn’t provide that happiness you initially thought you’d gain from having it. But it does provide security and you can do lots of things that unexpectedly might make you happy with money. So even though we say money doesn’t buy you happiness, well guess what? The reality is it does. And not just that, it also opens up a lot of doors, opportunities and connections. Not necessarily good ones, but hey connections nonetheless. And to those who want to disagree with me on this, go right ahead. But this is just my opinion.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

It just depends on how you define happiness.

@hanatakumi2523

Жыл бұрын

Happiness is an emotion ofcourse it can't be bought and no one can be always happy but being rich is better than being poor . Atleast they don't have to worry about meals and do something they are interested in if they are bored, unlike poor people who doesn't even have time to rest because they need to work

The help from the parents only rich or not aware people or not actually really into poverty just “stable poor” would actually say yes, there’s a difference… you don’t need to tell those on the other spectrum why. Just like the fashion guy said, since day one the privilege is already there, I’m saying cause I had many

I really like this saying that you cannot understand someone till you have not gone into their shoes. For me, I come from very humble background and mostly I really want to be wealthy, so I can really relate to people who are self made millionaires rather than who have inherited their wealth. No doubt, rich children are living today like they don't care about money because their parents and grandparents worked really hard but the management of wealth is something all should be knowing.

It's an interesting topic... Thanks for making it

When all of them went to the 'anyone can be rich' side I was baffled.

Well, it's better to wipe my tears with dollars when I’m sad 😂

Being born as a silver spoon gives you a Head start in life as options are available for them to pick and resources are made available but for us born into middle and lower class its more hard as we don't have alot of options since our family rely on us also resources are not always available for us

Well having money buy you security, you know you can pay when you need to pay. And that I think made you feel secured and that security makes you feel happy. Doesn't necessarily buying happiness itself, but buying security that's a luxury for a lot of people but a lot of people also find happiness in simple things with our without money in their pockets.

I once failed in my life every place i go for interview will reject me they said my appearance is not suitable for the job and they said i look like a thug well i like ring and accessories but doesn't mean I'm thug i just love to be myself to be my own character when i go to the interview in proper suit with no accessories they said I'm not qualified for the job lol i only applied for the metal factory not big company.. then i start to think that should make my own money by starting making business since i like accessories i start as a dropship i sell quite a lot of accessories in a few month then i become the leader and start having people working under me my life changed after that and I'm so happy with that live but my brother have done something that ruined my life completely..he pour water on my face while i was sleeping so i woke up and realize everything is just dream

The answer is always Yes. Money Buys you time. Time gives you Happiness

shes so adorable i wanna hug her

Minseon story is so incredible plz take interview with her i need to hear her story

I don’t think the question is whether money makes you happy or not - I think it’s about whether the cost of gaining those riches or keeping those riches is worth it. Many people sacrifice everything in their pursuit of wealth and then feel unhappy or shallow when they get to the point they wanted - because of what they gave up in the process (relationships, experiences, family, etc)

Ngl the rich girl is pretty woke about life despite of limited experience with financial instability

I loved this

It is more about how happy you are with the process of becoming rich. Like if you inherit wealth you don't feel the same sense of reward as if you actually made the money for yourself. Money can solve many problems, but the act of solving those problems gives you a sense of reward which brings happiness. So like money in itself does not have the ability to bring happiness, but rather because when it is viewed as a solution, it is when it will bring happiness. There are plenty of rich people out there who struggle with relationships and their family and then they become unhappy..the reason why is because they don't know how to solve that types of problems which cannot be solved with money. This is why there are many 'checkbook fathers' who can only provide for material needs of their children whereas the emotional needs are left unattended. This leads to toxic relationships and family settings. This is the reason why everything in our life should be well rounded and we shouldn't think that money will make us happy. Instead we should ask our selves will money indeed solve my problems, or will my problems require a different solution. Also remember nowadays people think that because they are rich they can attract women..unfortunately that is the wrong type of women you would want to attract.

The guy in the suit seems most intelligent, hardworking and interesting to me.

That girl at the beginning saying “you don’t need money in your life to have a good life” made me so mad, she’s an inherited millionaire she’s obviously never experienced living without money. Girl how about you try living without money then answer the question?

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Their way of perspective towards all these situations is so mature tho.