Does it really go down in the DMs? 👀 ft. Linda Dong & Mike Bow - Lunch Break!

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  • @morewongfu
    @morewongfu4 жыл бұрын

    On October 3rd, he asked me what day Lunch Break comes out this week

  • @Mailman2-1Actual

    @Mailman2-1Actual

    4 жыл бұрын

    It’s October 3rd

  • @rjdiego6427

    @rjdiego6427

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Mailman2-1Actual why does this reply only have 5 likes

  • @LeendaDProductions
    @LeendaDProductions4 жыл бұрын

    sliding into the DMs LOL thanks for having me! :D

  • @Pyridius

    @Pyridius

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for guest starring, I'm sure most of us would want you to show up on Lunch Break more often!

  • @grymmd

    @grymmd

    4 жыл бұрын

    Linda, I'm just as creepy as you~

  • @protoman2260

    @protoman2260

    4 жыл бұрын

    LOL 🤣

  • @stawbewii

    @stawbewii

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey Linda, it's nice to see you being real and opening up. It's so relatable!

  • @Sorozatfuggoseg

    @Sorozatfuggoseg

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Leenda, you are great. Hope to see you in jkp and jkn again. Hope you want to be in jkn again lol 😂

  • @kellyn.993
    @kellyn.9934 жыл бұрын

    the way Leenda deadpanned “LinkedIn” 😂

  • @protoman2260

    @protoman2260

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kelly Ngo FR! 😆

  • @HAlC-up4hm

    @HAlC-up4hm

    4 жыл бұрын

    ...I've done it. lol

  • @disgr_ace
    @disgr_ace4 жыл бұрын

    Linda this whole video: I came out here to have a good time and honestly I feel so attacked right now

  • @strom51
    @strom514 жыл бұрын

    Phil actually giving good life advice for relationships and love

  • @Tvd563
    @Tvd5634 жыл бұрын

    Phil being worried for Linda made me laugh so hard

  • @mr.q337

    @mr.q337

    4 жыл бұрын

    Papa Phil instinct kick in XD

  • @Ezero8

    @Ezero8

    4 жыл бұрын

    He's right, it explains so much about her videos lol

  • @kkp4297

    @kkp4297

    4 жыл бұрын

    phil being a responsible older brother.

  • @trudytriad4574

    @trudytriad4574

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @muzicx12
    @muzicx124 жыл бұрын

    "Don't date until you finish college. Why haven't you found one yet?" "YOU DIDN'T GIVE ME THE TIME TO DEVELOP MY SOCIAL SKILLS" Me: *chokes on drink*

  • @karenlee4935

    @karenlee4935

    4 жыл бұрын

    lmao this needs to be a gif so i can send it to people

  • @HAlC-up4hm
    @HAlC-up4hm4 жыл бұрын

    Phil achieved level 10 dad in this lunch break. lol "I believe in attraction at first sight" "Yeah. That's like love-ish...right?" "OH GOD I AM SO WORRIED FOR YOU!"

  • @TheAntinomies
    @TheAntinomies4 жыл бұрын

    Linda: "Attraction is love-ish" Me: "NOOOOOO" Wes, Mike, Phil: "NOOOOOO" God: "NOOOOOO"

  • @amieamie7136

    @amieamie7136

    4 жыл бұрын

    Linda is a hopeless romantic 😂😂😂

  • @AsiatiqueMedia

    @AsiatiqueMedia

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know exactly what Linda feels

  • @sjappiyah4071

    @sjappiyah4071

    4 жыл бұрын

    TheAntinomies LOOOOL

  • @MikeBowShow
    @MikeBowShow4 жыл бұрын

    I’m a serial dater...Cocoa Puffs..Frosted Flakes..

  • @teerich2011

    @teerich2011

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's better than being a serial killer

  • @esperanzaruiz4782

    @esperanzaruiz4782

    4 жыл бұрын

    New date every morning? Couldn’t be me, I’m in a cere-ous relationship with Cinnamon Toast Crunch

  • @toricow8573

    @toricow8573

    4 жыл бұрын

    That was corny. Corny Flaky.

  • @Yinyueify
    @Yinyueify4 жыл бұрын

    “hey i like your photos” reminds me of “do you like messi” from kim bok joo 😂

  • @JazzzyGee
    @JazzzyGee4 жыл бұрын

    Phil at 13:01 “But. You. Didn’t. Give me the time to develop my SOCIAL SKILLS.” 🤣🤣👌🏻👌🏻

  • @MikeBowShow
    @MikeBowShow4 жыл бұрын

    Do we give good dating advice or what?! 😄😄😄

  • @kdpc06

    @kdpc06

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, to be honest it was actually really helpful and it’s made me think a bit more on how to engage with people when dating. It was also nice to hear that I’m not the only who feels so pressured to couple up. Since all my friends have gotten married and I’m the last single person in the group it’s just painful when relationship status comes up because I get ganged up on.

  • @iwillgiveyouapassion4986
    @iwillgiveyouapassion49864 жыл бұрын

    Man, if Wes DMed me about my pictures, I think I'd be too star stuck to even realize he was shooting his shot.

  • @societybye7166
    @societybye71664 жыл бұрын

    Love what Wes said about some people don’t need a companion and are just satisfied with their friends and family and health etc. I feel the same way. Also for people who aren’t aware there is such thing as asexuality and aromanticism. People that identify as asexual don’t have sexual attraction for people so they may not like to kiss, hold hands etc. And then there are people who identify as aromantic who don’t feel romantic attraction towards people. They have no desire to date, get married etc. At the end of the day just live your life comfortably and by how you feel and what you want. Don’t let people make you feel weird for not wanting what’s considered the norm in this human life. We are satisfied with different things.

  • @magnolia3802

    @magnolia3802

    4 жыл бұрын

    Glad asexual and aromantic perspectives are being voiced and included! When Wes was responding to Phil’s suggestion that all humans want companionship and implying a romantic/sexual partner is the means of fulfilling that universal need--- and Wes forwarded the case of people who don’t feel that need and can instead be happy with friends, family, career, I immediately thought of aromanticism too!

  • @magnolia3802

    @magnolia3802

    4 жыл бұрын

    Something to add is that just because an asexual doesn't experience sexual attraction doesn't mean they also don't want to kiss or hold hands. Sure, they might not want to do those things. But plenty asexuals do want to, they just don't experience them as being sexual. For me, I'd say they fall more under sensual attraction (attraction to sensory experiences to be had with someone, ex. touch of holding their hand, sound of hearing their voice, etc.) and romantic attraction (attraction to romantic experiences to be had with someone, ex. expressing affection and/or commitment). I guess for sexual people they'd just have an added lens of sexual attraction through which they'd experience kissing or whatever else.

  • @deem3365
    @deem33654 жыл бұрын

    Wes so smooth He doesn't even know he's hitting on the person.

  • @thewesleychan

    @thewesleychan

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeaaah. There's probably a different word for that lol

  • @ttrinh25
    @ttrinh254 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the words of affirmation Wes @14:10 !!! very hard to explain this to your traditional parents and inquiring friends of when you will be partnered up

  • @sweetheartycandy
    @sweetheartycandy4 жыл бұрын

    Phil: i believe in attraction at first sight Leenda: that's like love-ish 😅😅 Phil: i'm so worried for you 😂 LOL Leenda's so cute

  • @Valentina-jc7wr
    @Valentina-jc7wr4 жыл бұрын

    You know what, just bless WongFu. Watching their videos is like having best life teacher, makes you rethink stuff and also about these lunch break series, it feels like sitting with friends and having really great and important talks, cos not always we have that chance but it feels so good and healing, that’s just how it feels. Thank you, WongFu team! More more great projects and ideas!

  • @lalakoaiko
    @lalakoaiko4 жыл бұрын

    ah wes described exactly how i feel. i’m 25 but not really interested in dating nor do i have the urge to get married because i’m already happy with my life and just being around my friends and family. i don’t want kids either so i’m really glad my parents support how i feel and don’t pressure me into marrying and having kids.

  • @KienTran
    @KienTran4 жыл бұрын

    Man that’s totally the experience. “No dating till you graduate, get a job, buy a house!” Then suddenly it’s non stop suggestions about my parents’ friends’ daughters.

  • @onedollah
    @onedollah4 жыл бұрын

    i love Linda!! She's someone who really likes and cares about the Asian Community!

  • @kawaiiafangirl
    @kawaiiafangirl4 жыл бұрын

    Forever alone squad, where y’all at?

  • @Iamatomto
    @Iamatomto4 жыл бұрын

    omg i really loved that bit when Phil was talking about parents and when Wes was talking about singleness!

  • @pipsplace9072
    @pipsplace90724 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Wes for pointing out that you don't need to be in a romantic relationship to be happy. As an aromantic, I have no interest in dating or marriage, but that doesnt mean I cant have meaningful connections and relationships that are just as important as romantic ones. Marriage is a social construct!!

  • @beepbeepcasucha
    @beepbeepcasucha4 жыл бұрын

    Phil talking about how parents put pressure on us to get our lives in order before they're gone made me so teary because it's so true.

  • @caffeinatedx
    @caffeinatedx4 жыл бұрын

    I think Mike actually deserves a No. 1 fan of Wong Fu award.

  • @goteahue9260
    @goteahue92604 жыл бұрын

    "Just like love" Beautiful...just like Wes.

  • @waikayec
    @waikayec4 жыл бұрын

    4:10 PHIL I'M WATCHING YOU

  • @chachieabara1635

    @chachieabara1635

    4 жыл бұрын

    waikayec Jenn was right.

  • @GurjotRandhawa

    @GurjotRandhawa

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ahaha I didn’t even notice until you pointed it out

  • @julzamidala2865
    @julzamidala28654 жыл бұрын

    It's really great to have been able to see Phil grow more comfortable talking about the feels when things get real over the last few years.

  • @xyz-pg3zd
    @xyz-pg3zd4 жыл бұрын

    It's so subjective. Everybody has different needs and are at different points in their lives. But some good advice here and do what works for you. Have to try, and see (date, socialize, etc) what you're ultimately searching for.

  • @StephaniePhan
    @StephaniePhan4 жыл бұрын

    I love this episode! Very raw and a good length. Great job, guys!

  • @victorli5156
    @victorli51564 жыл бұрын

    Better to be single than to be with the wrong partner and a kid.

  • @janidang90
    @janidang904 жыл бұрын

    THIS...just this... thank you WongFu, Mike Bow, Leenda Dee!!! I needed this

  • @AssClappicus
    @AssClappicus4 жыл бұрын

    One of the most captivating discussions yet! Great video!

  • @trudytriad4574
    @trudytriad45744 жыл бұрын

    Dude on the far left is that guy that will give you some real advice and truth, even though it's unsavoury. We all need a friend like that.

  • @OfficialCrystalSings
    @OfficialCrystalSings4 жыл бұрын

    This was such a great episode! Thanks!

  • @jshen5377
    @jshen53774 жыл бұрын

    YAY! Extra long lunch break video to eat my lunch with AKA longer break for me too!!!😄 look forward to these every week!!

  • @Aznlollipop
    @Aznlollipop4 жыл бұрын

    I loved this episode of Lunch Break! You guys should have Leenda and Mike on more! They're amazing

  • @ilhuicatlamatini
    @ilhuicatlamatini4 жыл бұрын

    Wow, thanks y’all. This was super helpful and I wish I’d found it sooner! Subscribed! 😊

  • @safirazuidveen1837
    @safirazuidveen18374 жыл бұрын

    Be patient guys, you will all find the right one for you! For me, being single has taught me a lot about myself. Made me realise what I actually wanted and that I needed to work on aspects of myself. And that is okay. Because our timeline is different from others, doesn't mean that something we've failed or something. We are on our own path living a beautiful life.

  • @braceface813
    @braceface8134 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely loved Leenda's honesty!!!

  • @robinchan4801
    @robinchan48014 жыл бұрын

    i love wong fu so much, i get introduced to such fun creators, i did not know who leenda was now im binging all her videos😁

  • @ylsflv
    @ylsflv4 жыл бұрын

    Love this lunch break, thanks 4 doing it!

  • @applejacks0711
    @applejacks07114 жыл бұрын

    Loved the convo :) def think that as you get older, too, there’s more self-acceptance of who you are as a person . While those societal pressures are still there, you develop the confidence to just be like: “nah, I’m good, thanks.” :)

  • @annahi017
    @annahi0174 жыл бұрын

    Watching Mike Bow wanting to start eating but waiting for the right timing.. 😅

  • @estellelopez6682
    @estellelopez66824 жыл бұрын

    "LinkedIn" lol ....too real

  • @KwanFung
    @KwanFung4 жыл бұрын

    12:38 damn you can feel the heaviness of Linda's voice

  • @houav.61
    @houav.614 жыл бұрын

    This was a lovely episode! Not just the topic but y'alls friendship.

  • @jasonle6840
    @jasonle68404 жыл бұрын

    Lmao 4:09 look on the right!

  • @chenjus
    @chenjus4 жыл бұрын

    This ep was so good!

  • @janikami21
    @janikami214 жыл бұрын

    Loved this episode of Lunchbreak! what Phil said at 11:18 was gold, also at 14:45!

  • @t-riz7630
    @t-riz76304 жыл бұрын

    Loved how honest Linda was! Great ep guys

  • @xangraneko2290
    @xangraneko22904 жыл бұрын

    This was quite informative. I feel like I understand Linda's position a lot since the points she puts out really can be like what I'm going through. I really enjoyed hearing everyone's opinions, especially Phil's. Also, the way Phil mentioned the social skills part--yep that's also me too. Didn't get enough social skills to actually understand dating.

  • @sungminkim2742
    @sungminkim27424 жыл бұрын

    Oh my godd. Linda saying that attraction is the same as love as first sight made me HURT

  • @chachieabara1635
    @chachieabara16354 жыл бұрын

    Damn I wish this was longer. This is soooo relatable

  • @teelyt5637
    @teelyt56374 жыл бұрын

    Really great answers guys👏👏👏, more dating Q&A's please☺️

  • @ladymex07
    @ladymex074 жыл бұрын

    Love is like a plant you assist it in growing when you water it and give it sunlight.

  • @kyoko703
    @kyoko7034 жыл бұрын

    Hahahaha! Leenda's answers were a trip, LOL!!! Time to slide into her DM's. LOL!!!

  • @mags787
    @mags7874 жыл бұрын

    12:55 Leenda: don't date during college but why haven't you found one yet Phil: you didn't give me the time to devELOP MY social skiLLS relatable

  • @RealSoccerFreak
    @RealSoccerFreak4 жыл бұрын

    13:31 that's so deep Phil

  • @user-yr4ph6md7r
    @user-yr4ph6md7r4 жыл бұрын

    even though this was one of their longer lunch breaks, it went by so fast thanx

  • @MysticGamingJason
    @MysticGamingJason4 жыл бұрын

    Beauty attracts Personality makes them stay

  • @xobrook
    @xobrook4 жыл бұрын

    I love these love episodes!

  • @user-zr4dg3xq2u
    @user-zr4dg3xq2u4 жыл бұрын

    even though this was one of their longer lunch breaks, it went by so fast :/

  • @Worldwithoutboarders
    @Worldwithoutboarders4 жыл бұрын

    Linda is so natural Infront of a camera, she should be in movies.

  • @JezzWat3vr
    @JezzWat3vr4 жыл бұрын

    Linda is more comfortable on Lunch Break than JustKiddingNews!

  • @honeykai8274
    @honeykai82744 жыл бұрын

    More dating advice videos! Especially for singles trying to enter the dating world!

  • @benjimw
    @benjimw3 жыл бұрын

    Love at first sight? I say yes, it does it exist. From the first days I saw my now-wife online, I thought she definitely was cute. Almost as soon as we started talking (with Google Translate's help, mind you--lovely language differences), I knew she was the one for me. But y'all are absolutely right that true love is a continuing process, something that needs care and attention like a young plant. My parents always told me that marriage isn't easy but that it's incredibly rich.

  • @AlexBobalexRavenclaw
    @AlexBobalexRavenclaw4 жыл бұрын

    Wow. This was a really mature conversation. Good answers.

  • @Jenoblade
    @Jenoblade4 жыл бұрын

    Damn bruh this episode hit me hard, I relate to Linda about parents pressuring you to get married and having kids and it's because of that I'm scared of growing older when I should really just enjoy and live my life the way I want to. People around me are having kids and it makes me feel uneasy all because my mum is constantly on my back about it. Anyway, I'm glad you guys express that it's okay not to pursue that life choice, it brings me a bit more comfort

  • @laraibkhatoon1337
    @laraibkhatoon13374 жыл бұрын

    When I first got to know about wongfu I watched few of very earlier videos 😅 just to know about their journey and it felt great.

  • @since_6592
    @since_65924 жыл бұрын

    Phil is next level relationship counselor!

  • @justkeepsigning5032
    @justkeepsigning50324 жыл бұрын

    Was hoping Mike would pull a Phil (from the end of the previous video) and say "by the way this is my girlfriend Linda" loool

  • @kirawrxD
    @kirawrxD4 жыл бұрын

    Mike’s “OH WOW” at 17:44 felt awkwardly delayed I couldn’t help but laugh 😂

  • @grounded.growing.and.glowing

    @grounded.growing.and.glowing

    4 жыл бұрын

    haha *17:44?

  • @karstenberning
    @karstenberning4 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Linda is amazing! So much cool emotions :D Linda please do more vlogs

  • @LPSawesomnessProductionsTM
    @LPSawesomnessProductionsTM4 жыл бұрын

    We need a lunch break podcast 🥺

  • @bibno9308
    @bibno93084 жыл бұрын

    This lunch break launched me into a lunch break binge instead of studying for midterms,,, sigh *_____*

  • @strom51

    @strom51

    4 жыл бұрын

    saaaame

  • @kericwu
    @kericwu4 жыл бұрын

    I felt like love at first sight was a thing when you're young because my first love was like that 😂

  • @jasminejelly6882
    @jasminejelly68824 жыл бұрын

    I’m at that point of no dating until you finish college/university

  • @berlianandamaranditya9018
    @berlianandamaranditya90184 жыл бұрын

    I have been waiting for so long...finaly down

  • @ywy5615
    @ywy56154 жыл бұрын

    love you guys

  • @caprobatica
    @caprobatica4 жыл бұрын

    ILLUMINATING!!!!! Thanks so muchfor sharing these highly relatable and entertaining insights!! Really enjoy each of your inspirational personalities and please keep shining!!! By the way, did somebody mention a possible Lunch Break spinoff called "Wes Happenin", hosted by Wes? LOL.....Just an idea! With Gratitude, Largy (The AcrõGecko)

  • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
    @bwingbwinggwiyomi4 жыл бұрын

    I've had sooooo many crushes, no dates, but bc of that now I'm like Linda.. Tryna find that perfect middle, it's so bad lmaoo

  • @iiaaannnn
    @iiaaannnn4 жыл бұрын

    "Haven't had lunch for a while" ㅋㅋㅋ

  • @kirawrxD
    @kirawrxD4 жыл бұрын

    I JUST SAW LINDA ON MIKEY CHENS CHANNEL! Wow she’s popping up everywhere I love it

  • @kericwu

    @kericwu

    4 жыл бұрын

    She's blowing up alright! Proud of her! I've watching her since she started

  • @thekristineway
    @thekristineway4 жыл бұрын

    phil giving good advice👏🏻

  • @ankyanku425
    @ankyanku4254 жыл бұрын

    So happy to see Leenda on lunch break!! Also, I ship Leenda with Wes and Mike. Is that wrong? 😂

  • @ymLee6891
    @ymLee68914 жыл бұрын

    Love how Phil just took a steak piece from Mike! lol.

  • @Alex-lk7qy
    @Alex-lk7qy4 жыл бұрын

    Wesley hitting them DMs. Giving people hope 😂

  • @mind_palace
    @mind_palace4 жыл бұрын

    17:21....wow, some honest truths there

  • @subiksharaman940
    @subiksharaman9404 жыл бұрын

    FINALLY LINDA!!!!!

  • @yanzodadon
    @yanzodadon4 жыл бұрын

    Leenda out here breaking hearts I reckon

  • @peacelife
    @peacelife4 жыл бұрын

    Haha since Linda knows the group she is more laid back and comfortable here than JKnews

  • @chinesesogood
    @chinesesogood4 жыл бұрын

    Proud of Linda who went to the same highschool as I did.

  • @kericwu

    @kericwu

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha she grew up in the same city as me as well

  • @mohmmednour3217
    @mohmmednour32174 жыл бұрын

    You guys should really have Year of the Ox on lunch break

  • @jt3483
    @jt34834 жыл бұрын

    lolol this was too good... and too spot on :'|

  • @millienexu5684
    @millienexu56844 жыл бұрын

    Ofc sliding into the dms work when ur Mike Bow *hint hint* 😂😂😂

  • @PokeMinh
    @PokeMinh4 жыл бұрын

    How can you not love Linda :')

  • @mojothemaster
    @mojothemaster4 жыл бұрын

    I've missed this🤗