Does it really go down in the DMs? 👀 ft. Linda Dong & Mike Bow - Lunch Break!
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On October 3rd, he asked me what day Lunch Break comes out this week
@Mailman2-1Actual
4 жыл бұрын
It’s October 3rd
@rjdiego6427
4 жыл бұрын
@@Mailman2-1Actual why does this reply only have 5 likes
sliding into the DMs LOL thanks for having me! :D
@Pyridius
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for guest starring, I'm sure most of us would want you to show up on Lunch Break more often!
@grymmd
4 жыл бұрын
Linda, I'm just as creepy as you~
@protoman2260
4 жыл бұрын
LOL 🤣
@stawbewii
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Linda, it's nice to see you being real and opening up. It's so relatable!
@Sorozatfuggoseg
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Leenda, you are great. Hope to see you in jkp and jkn again. Hope you want to be in jkn again lol 😂
the way Leenda deadpanned “LinkedIn” 😂
@protoman2260
4 жыл бұрын
Kelly Ngo FR! 😆
@HAlC-up4hm
4 жыл бұрын
...I've done it. lol
Linda this whole video: I came out here to have a good time and honestly I feel so attacked right now
Phil actually giving good life advice for relationships and love
Phil being worried for Linda made me laugh so hard
@mr.q337
4 жыл бұрын
Papa Phil instinct kick in XD
@Ezero8
4 жыл бұрын
He's right, it explains so much about her videos lol
@kkp4297
4 жыл бұрын
phil being a responsible older brother.
@trudytriad4574
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
"Don't date until you finish college. Why haven't you found one yet?" "YOU DIDN'T GIVE ME THE TIME TO DEVELOP MY SOCIAL SKILLS" Me: *chokes on drink*
@karenlee4935
4 жыл бұрын
lmao this needs to be a gif so i can send it to people
Phil achieved level 10 dad in this lunch break. lol "I believe in attraction at first sight" "Yeah. That's like love-ish...right?" "OH GOD I AM SO WORRIED FOR YOU!"
Linda: "Attraction is love-ish" Me: "NOOOOOO" Wes, Mike, Phil: "NOOOOOO" God: "NOOOOOO"
@amieamie7136
4 жыл бұрын
Linda is a hopeless romantic 😂😂😂
@AsiatiqueMedia
4 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what Linda feels
@sjappiyah4071
4 жыл бұрын
TheAntinomies LOOOOL
I’m a serial dater...Cocoa Puffs..Frosted Flakes..
@teerich2011
4 жыл бұрын
It's better than being a serial killer
@esperanzaruiz4782
4 жыл бұрын
New date every morning? Couldn’t be me, I’m in a cere-ous relationship with Cinnamon Toast Crunch
@toricow8573
4 жыл бұрын
That was corny. Corny Flaky.
“hey i like your photos” reminds me of “do you like messi” from kim bok joo 😂
Phil at 13:01 “But. You. Didn’t. Give me the time to develop my SOCIAL SKILLS.” 🤣🤣👌🏻👌🏻
Do we give good dating advice or what?! 😄😄😄
@kdpc06
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, to be honest it was actually really helpful and it’s made me think a bit more on how to engage with people when dating. It was also nice to hear that I’m not the only who feels so pressured to couple up. Since all my friends have gotten married and I’m the last single person in the group it’s just painful when relationship status comes up because I get ganged up on.
Man, if Wes DMed me about my pictures, I think I'd be too star stuck to even realize he was shooting his shot.
Love what Wes said about some people don’t need a companion and are just satisfied with their friends and family and health etc. I feel the same way. Also for people who aren’t aware there is such thing as asexuality and aromanticism. People that identify as asexual don’t have sexual attraction for people so they may not like to kiss, hold hands etc. And then there are people who identify as aromantic who don’t feel romantic attraction towards people. They have no desire to date, get married etc. At the end of the day just live your life comfortably and by how you feel and what you want. Don’t let people make you feel weird for not wanting what’s considered the norm in this human life. We are satisfied with different things.
@magnolia3802
4 жыл бұрын
Glad asexual and aromantic perspectives are being voiced and included! When Wes was responding to Phil’s suggestion that all humans want companionship and implying a romantic/sexual partner is the means of fulfilling that universal need--- and Wes forwarded the case of people who don’t feel that need and can instead be happy with friends, family, career, I immediately thought of aromanticism too!
@magnolia3802
4 жыл бұрын
Something to add is that just because an asexual doesn't experience sexual attraction doesn't mean they also don't want to kiss or hold hands. Sure, they might not want to do those things. But plenty asexuals do want to, they just don't experience them as being sexual. For me, I'd say they fall more under sensual attraction (attraction to sensory experiences to be had with someone, ex. touch of holding their hand, sound of hearing their voice, etc.) and romantic attraction (attraction to romantic experiences to be had with someone, ex. expressing affection and/or commitment). I guess for sexual people they'd just have an added lens of sexual attraction through which they'd experience kissing or whatever else.
Wes so smooth He doesn't even know he's hitting on the person.
@thewesleychan
4 жыл бұрын
Yeaaah. There's probably a different word for that lol
Thanks for the words of affirmation Wes @14:10 !!! very hard to explain this to your traditional parents and inquiring friends of when you will be partnered up
Phil: i believe in attraction at first sight Leenda: that's like love-ish 😅😅 Phil: i'm so worried for you 😂 LOL Leenda's so cute
You know what, just bless WongFu. Watching their videos is like having best life teacher, makes you rethink stuff and also about these lunch break series, it feels like sitting with friends and having really great and important talks, cos not always we have that chance but it feels so good and healing, that’s just how it feels. Thank you, WongFu team! More more great projects and ideas!
ah wes described exactly how i feel. i’m 25 but not really interested in dating nor do i have the urge to get married because i’m already happy with my life and just being around my friends and family. i don’t want kids either so i’m really glad my parents support how i feel and don’t pressure me into marrying and having kids.
Man that’s totally the experience. “No dating till you graduate, get a job, buy a house!” Then suddenly it’s non stop suggestions about my parents’ friends’ daughters.
i love Linda!! She's someone who really likes and cares about the Asian Community!
Forever alone squad, where y’all at?
omg i really loved that bit when Phil was talking about parents and when Wes was talking about singleness!
Thank you Wes for pointing out that you don't need to be in a romantic relationship to be happy. As an aromantic, I have no interest in dating or marriage, but that doesnt mean I cant have meaningful connections and relationships that are just as important as romantic ones. Marriage is a social construct!!
Phil talking about how parents put pressure on us to get our lives in order before they're gone made me so teary because it's so true.
I think Mike actually deserves a No. 1 fan of Wong Fu award.
"Just like love" Beautiful...just like Wes.
4:10 PHIL I'M WATCHING YOU
@chachieabara1635
4 жыл бұрын
waikayec Jenn was right.
@GurjotRandhawa
4 жыл бұрын
Ahaha I didn’t even notice until you pointed it out
It's really great to have been able to see Phil grow more comfortable talking about the feels when things get real over the last few years.
It's so subjective. Everybody has different needs and are at different points in their lives. But some good advice here and do what works for you. Have to try, and see (date, socialize, etc) what you're ultimately searching for.
I love this episode! Very raw and a good length. Great job, guys!
Better to be single than to be with the wrong partner and a kid.
THIS...just this... thank you WongFu, Mike Bow, Leenda Dee!!! I needed this
One of the most captivating discussions yet! Great video!
Dude on the far left is that guy that will give you some real advice and truth, even though it's unsavoury. We all need a friend like that.
This was such a great episode! Thanks!
YAY! Extra long lunch break video to eat my lunch with AKA longer break for me too!!!😄 look forward to these every week!!
I loved this episode of Lunch Break! You guys should have Leenda and Mike on more! They're amazing
Wow, thanks y’all. This was super helpful and I wish I’d found it sooner! Subscribed! 😊
Be patient guys, you will all find the right one for you! For me, being single has taught me a lot about myself. Made me realise what I actually wanted and that I needed to work on aspects of myself. And that is okay. Because our timeline is different from others, doesn't mean that something we've failed or something. We are on our own path living a beautiful life.
I absolutely loved Leenda's honesty!!!
i love wong fu so much, i get introduced to such fun creators, i did not know who leenda was now im binging all her videos😁
Love this lunch break, thanks 4 doing it!
Loved the convo :) def think that as you get older, too, there’s more self-acceptance of who you are as a person . While those societal pressures are still there, you develop the confidence to just be like: “nah, I’m good, thanks.” :)
Watching Mike Bow wanting to start eating but waiting for the right timing.. 😅
"LinkedIn" lol ....too real
12:38 damn you can feel the heaviness of Linda's voice
This was a lovely episode! Not just the topic but y'alls friendship.
Lmao 4:09 look on the right!
This ep was so good!
Loved this episode of Lunchbreak! what Phil said at 11:18 was gold, also at 14:45!
Loved how honest Linda was! Great ep guys
This was quite informative. I feel like I understand Linda's position a lot since the points she puts out really can be like what I'm going through. I really enjoyed hearing everyone's opinions, especially Phil's. Also, the way Phil mentioned the social skills part--yep that's also me too. Didn't get enough social skills to actually understand dating.
Oh my godd. Linda saying that attraction is the same as love as first sight made me HURT
Damn I wish this was longer. This is soooo relatable
Really great answers guys👏👏👏, more dating Q&A's please☺️
Love is like a plant you assist it in growing when you water it and give it sunlight.
Hahahaha! Leenda's answers were a trip, LOL!!! Time to slide into her DM's. LOL!!!
12:55 Leenda: don't date during college but why haven't you found one yet Phil: you didn't give me the time to devELOP MY social skiLLS relatable
13:31 that's so deep Phil
even though this was one of their longer lunch breaks, it went by so fast thanx
Beauty attracts Personality makes them stay
I love these love episodes!
even though this was one of their longer lunch breaks, it went by so fast :/
Linda is so natural Infront of a camera, she should be in movies.
Linda is more comfortable on Lunch Break than JustKiddingNews!
More dating advice videos! Especially for singles trying to enter the dating world!
Love at first sight? I say yes, it does it exist. From the first days I saw my now-wife online, I thought she definitely was cute. Almost as soon as we started talking (with Google Translate's help, mind you--lovely language differences), I knew she was the one for me. But y'all are absolutely right that true love is a continuing process, something that needs care and attention like a young plant. My parents always told me that marriage isn't easy but that it's incredibly rich.
Wow. This was a really mature conversation. Good answers.
Damn bruh this episode hit me hard, I relate to Linda about parents pressuring you to get married and having kids and it's because of that I'm scared of growing older when I should really just enjoy and live my life the way I want to. People around me are having kids and it makes me feel uneasy all because my mum is constantly on my back about it. Anyway, I'm glad you guys express that it's okay not to pursue that life choice, it brings me a bit more comfort
When I first got to know about wongfu I watched few of very earlier videos 😅 just to know about their journey and it felt great.
Phil is next level relationship counselor!
Was hoping Mike would pull a Phil (from the end of the previous video) and say "by the way this is my girlfriend Linda" loool
Mike’s “OH WOW” at 17:44 felt awkwardly delayed I couldn’t help but laugh 😂
@grounded.growing.and.glowing
4 жыл бұрын
haha *17:44?
Wow! Linda is amazing! So much cool emotions :D Linda please do more vlogs
We need a lunch break podcast 🥺
This lunch break launched me into a lunch break binge instead of studying for midterms,,, sigh *_____*
@strom51
4 жыл бұрын
saaaame
I felt like love at first sight was a thing when you're young because my first love was like that 😂
I’m at that point of no dating until you finish college/university
I have been waiting for so long...finaly down
love you guys
ILLUMINATING!!!!! Thanks so muchfor sharing these highly relatable and entertaining insights!! Really enjoy each of your inspirational personalities and please keep shining!!! By the way, did somebody mention a possible Lunch Break spinoff called "Wes Happenin", hosted by Wes? LOL.....Just an idea! With Gratitude, Largy (The AcrõGecko)
I've had sooooo many crushes, no dates, but bc of that now I'm like Linda.. Tryna find that perfect middle, it's so bad lmaoo
"Haven't had lunch for a while" ㅋㅋㅋ
I JUST SAW LINDA ON MIKEY CHENS CHANNEL! Wow she’s popping up everywhere I love it
@kericwu
4 жыл бұрын
She's blowing up alright! Proud of her! I've watching her since she started
phil giving good advice👏🏻
So happy to see Leenda on lunch break!! Also, I ship Leenda with Wes and Mike. Is that wrong? 😂
Love how Phil just took a steak piece from Mike! lol.
Wesley hitting them DMs. Giving people hope 😂
17:21....wow, some honest truths there
FINALLY LINDA!!!!!
Leenda out here breaking hearts I reckon
Haha since Linda knows the group she is more laid back and comfortable here than JKnews
Proud of Linda who went to the same highschool as I did.
@kericwu
4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha she grew up in the same city as me as well
You guys should really have Year of the Ox on lunch break
lolol this was too good... and too spot on :'|
Ofc sliding into the dms work when ur Mike Bow *hint hint* 😂😂😂
How can you not love Linda :')
I've missed this🤗