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  • @MikeBowShow
    @MikeBowShow4 жыл бұрын

    Omg Michelle’s first LB!!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 also my b if I forgot to put the toilet seat down 🚽

  • @MissKayanYeung
    @MissKayanYeung4 жыл бұрын

    people are saying Chris's standards are too high or intimidating but I 100% am on his side. Most of what he said is just based on the person's character, flexibility and willingness to learn and grow as a person. Someone who can't cook scrambled eggs? It's not they're a bad cook, it's that they're consistently bad at cooking (don't learn to improve) or even is a careless person (to let something just burn). You can only burn and waste food so many times till you realize that person just sucks as a human. Kudos to Chris for having good standards 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @caffeinatedx

    @caffeinatedx

    3 жыл бұрын

    what if I just cannot eat under-cooked food?

  • @geneticglob1612
    @geneticglob16124 жыл бұрын

    Can we take a moment to appreciate how adorable Jen is?

  • @_jennle
    @_jennle4 жыл бұрын

    Chris's foodie red flags make this episode 😂

  • @bensonq

    @bensonq

    4 жыл бұрын

    kk

  • @bwingbwinggwiyomi

    @bwingbwinggwiyomi

    4 жыл бұрын

    Such high and subjective standards pahaha

  • @BlueGlow26

    @BlueGlow26

    3 жыл бұрын

    Unrelated but your hair looks really nice here 😄

  • @BlueGlow26

    @BlueGlow26

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bwingbwinggwiyomi they do feel very subjective, but I think it can be extrapolated to mean the more general values they talked about, but those things he said are the signs that flag the person as someone who might not fit with the values

  • @lolol8552
    @lolol85524 жыл бұрын

    Jen was so funny with the helloooooo that’s meeee I’m your red flag😂😂😂😂🚩

  • @ashaankperiera165
    @ashaankperiera1654 жыл бұрын

    Chris: Talks about his very *specific* red flags: Yeah you NEED to be able to make eggs. . Girls trying to date Chris knowing full well he's in a relationship: Write that down! WRITE THAT DOWN!

  • @Haruki_chan
    @Haruki_chan4 жыл бұрын

    He was getting so emotional about the eggs XDDD who hurt you ?

  • @CalaCrisp88

    @CalaCrisp88

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey, some people have eggpinions. There are some people who prefer their scrambled eggs to be *liquid*, but we still respect them. Mostly.

  • @elucified

    @elucified

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@CalaCrisp88 yo don't judge LOL I learned how to cook eggs but would specifically looked up Gordon Ramsey's recipe and his technique of cooking the perfect scrambled eggs really is quite liquidy LOL (it's like constantly folding in the eggs while on the heat and off the heat quite a number of times) I think it's cuz people don't realize you're supposed to let it cook itself a bit.

  • @parepidemosproductions4741
    @parepidemosproductions47414 жыл бұрын

    Imma just not comment because Chris brought up a good point: it is not always what is not there, but realizing the dynamic between you and the person you're getting to know/getting into a relationship with. What you typically expect from someone, may adjust because of the dynamic you have... That's beautiful!

  • @kawaiiafangirl
    @kawaiiafangirl4 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations Michelle on your first Lunch Break!

  • @ilai7893
    @ilai78934 жыл бұрын

    Agree with Chris' point about not being closed minded to new experiences!

  • @EnvyTraxus
    @EnvyTraxus4 жыл бұрын

    What Jen said about parties is so true. Honestly even with just regular friends, I find it hard to connect with them if they're the type to drink and party every weekend since I don't drink or hit the club either. Honestly that's probably something I need to work on since it's hard to ONLY find friends that aren't into drinking/partying.

  • @celine5
    @celine54 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate Taylor and Chris bringing up the gender norms and potential homophobia associated with guys caring about style and fashion! It should not be an expected responsibility on the girl to “fix” her partner’s style. And if a guy wants to dress better, he should feel comfortable exploring that without any assumptions about his sexuality.

  • @justice_k6440
    @justice_k64404 жыл бұрын

    Literally, every time Jen mentioned a red flag, I was like "SAME!!" She was definitely on point.

  • @naruyuyu
    @naruyuyu4 жыл бұрын

    Yay! Michelle's first lunch break!

  • @jess6155
    @jess61554 жыл бұрын

    yay welcome michelle!!! ♡ excited to see you on more lunch breaks (as long as you're comfortable!!) also I think most of these red flags could be summarised as respecting your choices/preferences/interests and actually wanting to get to know them, which is getting to know you!

  • @xEternalSoul
    @xEternalSoul4 жыл бұрын

    i think the cooking one is totally reasonable, if youre a grown adult you should be able to feed yourself and not rely on take out 24/7. im not asking for someone to be able to cook a 5 course meal but the basics at least or the willingness to learn over time, idk i see people around saying 'lmao XD instead of boiling water i would burn water!' like thats nothing to brag about please learn some basic skills so you dont starve..

  • @nathaniel1069

    @nathaniel1069

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don’t try to help people who don’t want to be helped

  • @elucified

    @elucified

    4 жыл бұрын

    This, and then there's the twitch streamers who seem to love bragging about not knowing how to cook and just order 24/7 are so shocked when opinions from people outside of "chat" are judgmental of it. Even if I had all the money in the world I would still cook from time to time tbh...

  • @cryskiiim
    @cryskiiim4 жыл бұрын

    lmao I'm so intimidated by Chris' standards... and he already has a girlfriend T.T

  • @danoops

    @danoops

    4 жыл бұрын

    so many food red flags with him

  • @sleepingone

    @sleepingone

    4 жыл бұрын

    Forreals. I can’t cook or even boil water but thankfully my SO handles all that

  • @vettaj9752
    @vettaj97524 жыл бұрын

    Loved this episode!!!!

  • @elucified
    @elucified4 жыл бұрын

    I'm catching up on LB episodes so I've actually seen a few with her in it and I gotta say, I really like the way Michelle laughs. Something about it feels so confident and reaffirming. Like YAAAAS GIRL, LAUGH. LAUGH LOUD AND LAUGH PROUDLY.

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle4 жыл бұрын

    I am the QUEEN of ignoring red flags!! Honestly the more red flags, the more attracted I am to them ( I’m working on this LOL )

  • @bwingbwinggwiyomi

    @bwingbwinggwiyomi

    4 жыл бұрын

    I pray your heart doesn't break so much then.. lmaoo it's good to work on recognising the red flags though.,

  • @SamElle

    @SamElle

    4 жыл бұрын

    쀵쀵귀염이 oh I’ve cried so much over these guys, sighhhhhh

  • @reycheljoyrobles5503
    @reycheljoyrobles55034 жыл бұрын

    Michelle!! We love you, be on more Lunch Breaks!! :D

  • @awesomelyaweshum0911
    @awesomelyaweshum09114 жыл бұрын

    welcome Michelle!!! was waiting for you to finally appear on lunch break ❤️❤️❤️ and I relate to Chris so much about it being a red flag when he or she can’t enjoy a good fast food 😫😂

  • @alansanders6589
    @alansanders65894 жыл бұрын

    Yay!! Welcome Michelle!!!

  • @Teenahy
    @Teenahy4 жыл бұрын

    Love your vibe Michelle 😄😊

  • @yeolsoe
    @yeolsoe4 жыл бұрын

    Ive been waiting for michelle to show up on one of these ♥️

  • @Apples2aco
    @Apples2aco4 жыл бұрын

    YUSS ENJOYED THE EP ^^ :D

  • @melodybycarmen
    @melodybycarmen4 жыл бұрын

    I noticed they don't actually eat on lunchbreaks anymore😂💗

  • @twoserene
    @twoserene4 жыл бұрын

    Red flag if they punch walls or get violent over something small

  • @hiraest1477
    @hiraest14774 жыл бұрын

    yay michelle's here!!

  • @j_anekim
    @j_anekim4 жыл бұрын

    "pink flag" omg shes so CUTEEE

  • @jemintherough3571
    @jemintherough35714 жыл бұрын

    A person I dated did not like "Spirited Away". My response: kk

  • @bwingbwinggwiyomi

    @bwingbwinggwiyomi

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omg that is a huge no. Sprinted Away was my first ever Ghibli film so I hold faves and nostalgic value to it :"))) binged it so much as a child loool

  • @desireeskumachan

    @desireeskumachan

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank God for the past tense. You did a great job making it a person you "dated"

  • @hellozukohere6410
    @hellozukohere64104 жыл бұрын

    Love you guys, cant wait for ya'll to be cuddled up in a room for lunch again..🙂

  • @AmruthaViswanath
    @AmruthaViswanath3 жыл бұрын

    Chris's gold chain gives me LIFE

  • @blackdawg7361
    @blackdawg73614 жыл бұрын

    "Michelle, ma belle, Sont les mots qui vont tres bien ensemble, Tres bien ensemble, And I will say the only words I know that you'll understand, My Michelle." -- The Beatles (circa 1966)

  • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
    @bwingbwinggwiyomi4 жыл бұрын

    Michelle is so kyoot! But yeh I agree with most of these tbh! Esp Chris' valid point about how certain people will bring/can bring a different understand and quality of yourself to the front! I know it has done for me and one physical quality I suppose is that it turns out I don't mind a bit of body and facial hair on a guy depending on how they look in general lool 😂

  • @Teenahy
    @Teenahy4 жыл бұрын

    Yes Jen....are you looking on my list😮😄

  • @kirawrxD
    @kirawrxD4 жыл бұрын

    when yall started talking about eggs, it reminded me of when i was in 1st grade and had learned already had to cook fried eggs and i had eaten like 4 in one day. i asked my brother how many eggs is too many and he said 2 a day is fine... so i thought i was gonna die or get some disease or stomach issue because i had eaten 4 XD oh to be young and naive

  • @arkayceedom
    @arkayceedom3 жыл бұрын

    Chris' red flags were giving me flashbacks to the pet peeves episodes when he got a bit riled up.😅

  • @RondyWooten
    @RondyWooten4 жыл бұрын

    Chris really came after me with that scrambled egg comment.

  • @HowToNguyen
    @HowToNguyen4 жыл бұрын

    Yess, Michelle!!

  • @Lion-ik6lv
    @Lion-ik6lv2 жыл бұрын

    "I want them healthy, but not too healthy." lol

  • @Teenahy
    @Teenahy4 жыл бұрын

    Chris...you are love that fast food....I get you...redish flag😁

  • @wawawalrus
    @wawawalrus4 жыл бұрын

    Everyone should put the toilet seat AND the cover down. That way nobody wins! 😂 (plus it looks nicer)

  • @vsquar3d
    @vsquar3d4 жыл бұрын

    A lot of these are minor annoyances. My red flags are if they've had too many partners in a short amount of time, if they have bad hygiene, if their friends are all assholes, if all your friends dont like this person. I feel like red flags are a bit more serious.

  • @CookieCreamCrumble

    @CookieCreamCrumble

    4 жыл бұрын

    exactly! those are real red flag, everything theyre rantig about it just pet peeves. get a dictionary wong fu

  • @avolovo

    @avolovo

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for clarifying. I thought many of these were also just small pet peeves and it’s unfair to nitpick everything little thing. Is it even possible to find someone who can be “perfect” ie not have a single pet peeve about them? I doubt it.

  • @jadenpoulsen3833

    @jadenpoulsen3833

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's what I was thinking the whole time!!

  • @Teenahy
    @Teenahy4 жыл бұрын

    Chris you're on point😄

  • @TheRabidbunnies
    @TheRabidbunnies4 жыл бұрын

    With RHPC shutting down, it's awesome to see you guys still going strong (hopefully). Love the content!

  • @kparker905

    @kparker905

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wait, is it officially shutting down? I just saw one guy announce he was leaving, but I thought it was continuing to happen

  • @uyghuryaghma5358

    @uyghuryaghma5358

    4 жыл бұрын

    they're just taking a break pretty sure lol

  • @jasond3058
    @jasond30584 жыл бұрын

    Did anyone else notice they’re using dual headphones? Especially love Jenn’s dual earpods 😂

  • @melmusica

    @melmusica

    4 жыл бұрын

    One is for filming audio and one is actual video conference call probably

  • @marcuswilliams1329
    @marcuswilliams13294 жыл бұрын

    Lol you guys should get Ray-J on lunch break!

  • @iHEARTice94
    @iHEARTice944 жыл бұрын

    Chris getting triggered by BURNT eggs. LOL

  • @meditautomatic
    @meditautomatic3 жыл бұрын

    Jenn...quarantine hair!? I feel attacked. (My fro is beautiful) lol

  • @FallingRiceballz
    @FallingRiceballz4 жыл бұрын

    "no one is getting trashed at kickbacks" ...aite imma head out...

  • @globeamaranth7390
    @globeamaranth73904 жыл бұрын

    i type u and you even in the same sentence, never knew this was a red flag for some people!!

  • @zhugeliang4617
    @zhugeliang46172 жыл бұрын

    I love Jenn’s voice.

  • @rysonlee8556
    @rysonlee85564 жыл бұрын

    Jen with the 2 different sets of earbuds at once

  • @francescafernandez2417
    @francescafernandez24174 жыл бұрын

    Jen where’s your shirt from it’s super cute!!!

  • @_jennle

    @_jennle

    4 жыл бұрын

    uniqlo!

  • @serenityq26
    @serenityq264 жыл бұрын

    no. i dont do parties, crowds, clubs, or drugs and yes if you took dare in school like all us 90s kids you would know alcohol is a drug. NO THANKS. lets go to the park, lets go the museum. lets go hiking or chill at home were we can have deep long conversations without outside distractions. i'll take conversations over anything else out there

  • @bwingbwinggwiyomi

    @bwingbwinggwiyomi

    4 жыл бұрын

    Damn I wanna be your friend lool that sounds so fun, my kind of activities tbh :3 and going to cafes sometimes or ordering in and watching movies :D

  • @gracehong621
    @gracehong6214 жыл бұрын

    I like how yall incorporate yall ads lol

  • @hannah.leblanc
    @hannah.leblanc4 жыл бұрын

    I enjoy the red flag videos. :)

  • @parepidemosproductions4741
    @parepidemosproductions47414 жыл бұрын

    ngl, when fully comfortable, I can go on ramble mode while starting out, I am very probing... rambling is a way of giving a lot to latch onto in a sense🤷🏾‍♀️🥴

  • @sweetgissy
    @sweetgissy4 жыл бұрын

    Lol I still occasionally burn my scrambled eggs 🚩😂

  • @MezzoPiano1234
    @MezzoPiano12344 жыл бұрын

    michelle!! 😊✨

  • @awkwardaquamarine19
    @awkwardaquamarine194 жыл бұрын

    I'm the worse red flag for WF staff. I can't cook eggs (or anything, really), I'm allergic to chicken, and I don't like bobba. Oh well! Guess I'll be alone for the rest of my life. 🚩😂

  • @urwilcom9245
    @urwilcom92454 жыл бұрын

    I know a girl who tells everyone like she’s is proud of It. She says she sucks at cooking she even burnt water.

  • @KongmengVang95
    @KongmengVang954 жыл бұрын

    My biggest red flag or deal breaker is bad hygiene.

  • @allyh2055
    @allyh20554 жыл бұрын

    Why does Chris have an air pod in one ear and headphones in the other lol

  • @miyukigirl3
    @miyukigirl34 жыл бұрын

    This was so funny to watch cause all I can think about is my boyfriend's friend and I'm just like "yeah, he's a red flag" XD (PICKY eater, only eats burgers/hot dogs. Is not open to trying new things, doesn't know how to cook and almost set his house on fire by trying to make "grilled cheese" by turning his toaster on it's side)

  • @3446
    @34464 жыл бұрын

    if you have so many red flags, you are a red flag.

  • @jaygallardo5252
    @jaygallardo52524 жыл бұрын

    If a lot of things trigger red flags for you, you will be considered someone that is “high maintenance” and THAT is truly a red flag.

  • @Sydneys0920
    @Sydneys09204 жыл бұрын

    Jens cup!!!! Where to get that?

  • @crystalmoonark
    @crystalmoonark4 жыл бұрын

    When Chris said his red flag was people who only eat meat. I felt attacked xD .

  • @Teenahy
    @Teenahy4 жыл бұрын

    Yes Chris...Asian food is red flag for me and ....I am not Asian 😆😄

  • @jeny.5416
    @jeny.54164 жыл бұрын

    12:50 Mark Lee has left the chat 😂

  • @Teenahy
    @Teenahy4 жыл бұрын

    Hush Michelle. ..re the friend intro

  • @stephanieong616
    @stephanieong6164 жыл бұрын

    AND when people text "ic"!! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @Gh0st662
    @Gh0st6624 жыл бұрын

    Awh, I thought you were playing the game Red Flags.

  • @ravenuy7496
    @ravenuy74964 жыл бұрын

    I get triggered with “kk” too 😂

  • @09292418635
    @092924186354 жыл бұрын

    I am this old, that I learned there is such thing as "poop knife" like to literally cut off your poop into pieces so it would go down the toilet. sorry I am late to the party xD

  • @09292418635

    @09292418635

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Dung Lee hello there! is Dung ur real name? Dung is poop in Korean xD

  • @09292418635

    @09292418635

    4 жыл бұрын

    no offense btw, just a curious question :)

  • @GummiesAJ
    @GummiesAJ4 жыл бұрын

    18:00 feel so called out lol yOU U R are

  • @Teenahy
    @Teenahy4 жыл бұрын

    Please can you share the links to the lunchbreak videos Jen reference...thanks 😄

  • @upleeth

    @upleeth

    4 жыл бұрын

    TinaMck04 If I’m not mistaken the previous red flags video is this one kzread.info/dash/bejne/lZ-E0ZauiaTenag.html

  • @superplusextra9634
    @superplusextra96344 жыл бұрын

    That sad moment when wong fu uploads after you're done eating 😢 whyyyy Also 12:51 huge red flag. I've met people who don't know how to do basic essentials.

  • @pajdayang
    @pajdayang4 жыл бұрын

    “ hello? I’m here. 😫”

  • @nataliexnguyen
    @nataliexnguyen4 жыл бұрын

    AHH, MICHELLE!!! 😊

  • @jcheng47
    @jcheng474 жыл бұрын

    it is still safer to stay home so i will continue to grow my hair :(

  • @sweetgissy

    @sweetgissy

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you, I actually respect guys not exposing themselves, I haven't gone to get my hair redone for that same reason.

  • @_jennle

    @_jennle

    4 жыл бұрын

    was just kidding about that 😅 yes stay safe, stay indoooors 🙌🏼

  • @AltairCrysis
    @AltairCrysis3 жыл бұрын

    Hard disagree on quarantine hair -- if anything, that's the opposite of a red flag! It means the person was so careful about staying indoors as much as possible that they didn't go out for a haircut.

  • @scoobmx
    @scoobmx4 жыл бұрын

    Wait how is having quarantine hair a red flag lol

  • @wawawho18_adventures
    @wawawho18_adventures4 жыл бұрын

    i love fries too wink wink

  • @despicablepenguin
    @despicablepenguin4 жыл бұрын

    Wow I couldn't date any of these people even if they didn't have SO's! I am totally inconsistent with if I spell you out or u but it's mostly bc it's whatever mood I'm in and if I want to take the time to spell out you or u

  • @artbyingrawr
    @artbyingrawr4 жыл бұрын

    Just a random criticism, it’s a little weird if ur hosts are wearing apple AirPods but are trying to advertise a different brand’s wireless earbuds! Just comes off a little conflicting!

  • @minusid
    @minusid4 жыл бұрын

    why chris is usin 2 earphones? '-'

  • @isabellegomez2455
    @isabellegomez24553 жыл бұрын

    Doesn't like Asian food/the food of your homeland/what your mama makes at home? ReD fLaG - that's real! Who doesn't want their SO to celebrate that huge part of your culture? AND seconding kudos to Chris! I think he's coming from an open-minded POV of someone with more experience/being in a committed relationship. I feel like the more specific the red flags are - the more idealistic instead of realistic your mindset is for dating and looking for your partner!

  • @Niceone11202011
    @Niceone112020114 жыл бұрын

    Next episode will be green flags

  • @vettaj9752
    @vettaj97524 жыл бұрын

    My best friend only eats meat.....she hates veggies and fruits....red flag!!!

  • @kt032
    @kt0324 жыл бұрын

    the discussion devolved from red flags into dating preferences toward the end of the video. chris’s list of expectations is ridiculous. you don’t like their style so that’s a dating red flag? they’re eating too healthy that it’s pretentious?? come on mang be more flexible. there is no ideal person out there that meets all these specificly high expectations. but i still like yall at wongfu, that’s just my opinion :)

  • @HeeHaw101

    @HeeHaw101

    4 жыл бұрын

    i think it's totally reasonable. also he never said eating too healthy is pretentious, it's only a problem if u act like youre above people who eat fast food. for some people, thats all u can afford, so it's kind of insensitive to act like youre above eating fast food. if they dress poorly, i think that one is less of a red flag, but they should at least look presentable and show that they care about themself. i think the red flag would be if a guy thought caring about style and fashion makes him gay or less masculine. and cooking eggs makes sense bc it's a basic skill. no one said u should be a masterchef, but you should at least be willing to try to learn the basics. u cant just live ur whole life ordering take out

  • @CookieCreamCrumble
    @CookieCreamCrumble4 жыл бұрын

    Jen: Being an extrovert is a red flag Nah that's just a you preference

  • @brandonsmith666
    @brandonsmith6663 жыл бұрын

    jenn is so cute

  • @cvong1016
    @cvong10164 жыл бұрын

    10:17 all the vegans 👁 👄👁

  • @rainiidays
    @rainiidays4 жыл бұрын

    ASSthetic 🤣

  • @conniethehoarder
    @conniethehoarder4 жыл бұрын

    Kk is ok but K is definitely annoying lol (unless it's just an acquaintance in which case I might not notice)

  • @pfguo87
    @pfguo873 жыл бұрын

    One of my red flag is if my date's BMI is higher than mine.

  • @xFenGz
    @xFenGz4 жыл бұрын

    Can girls put the toilet seat up after they're done. Thanks