Look Matthew, I know you're proud of the movie, but I need a movie where you act out more of those things you talk about. That was really enlightening. I heard you say those things before, but actually SEEING them in an example just made it much clearer to me how many signals I've ignored over the years because I was just oblivious. That gave me so many flashbacks to moments with men I found odd, but didn't think much about.

@alexandrapomeroy8050

6 ай бұрын

lol, I’m not alone in the world of missing signs. My small daughter could tell me that someone liked me and I thought they were being friendly. I.e. if a bloke went to the toilet 3 times in 20 minutes I’d have assumed he had a urine infection!!!!

*It is only when we no longer compulsively need someone that we can have a real relationship with them.*

I am giggling at all of these, i love how you are making the LIVE-action examples because now I know this guy is doing a lot of these on purpose!! LOL

realised I am flirting just like this guy LOL

@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

6 ай бұрын

LOL

That gong that was added between FOMO and FOMU is absolutely brilliant!

How am I supposed to focus when SH is wearing that shirt??? 😂🔥😎

I’m so glad you posted this! Most pf your videos make me feel sad about my past. This one actually makes me look forward to the future and be open to something good, even if it’s just for flirting. 😁

@roxanab.1626

2 ай бұрын

I felt the same watching this. I am still watching the video and yes that's how I felt and what I was thinking as well . :P

At this point I don't even want guys to like me anymore. That are all a total pain in the ass. I'm good. Lol. I'm over it.

I do all 7 of the first things LOL. It goes both ways and also has not worked out for me... Flirting Introverts FTW 😂❤

I always enjoy listening to you Matthew! Good to meet your brother and HUGE congratulations to you and your wife on your wedding!!🌟🌟

I've always listened to dating advice but I really like the way you approach it. Some people make it seem like we are doing something wrong. But you just say heres a helpful fact. A way to improve yourself and your self esteem.

This is solid gold.

Best acted examples ever! Thanks❤

I once dated a guy, who started to look for the places to go together every time after sex and it never ended up anywhere...He used to stay until morning, we had lovely breakfast and he just walked away. We discussed the opportunities and just never used any of it...And of course I found myself heartbrokend eventually. So, one invitation only is not enough.

your humor is just 😭 😄 so dumb and great. i always love your skits. it's always great to see these clips again. aaaaand a little late, but congratulations of getting married 💕💕💕 :)

OMG love all of this! Congrats on the life, book, movie, just all of it! Been a fan for years! Still single but ready-ish to mingle, Thanks Matthew and Team!!!!! :) Love the humor! :)

@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

6 ай бұрын

Good luck with the mingling! ❤

Loved this! I was laughing too 😂

SOOOO exciting rushing to get my receipt so generous Mathew thank you thank you

Thank you Matthew Hussey 💓😎

i've just know u and seen several videos of you but this one was a way informative and practical. thank you so much

The subtle signs part was amazing. I kid you not before this video I thought he was a compulsive texter or that someone was constantly asking him what he was up to or something like that because he often "uses" his phone out of nowhere when he's right in front of me in a group, but not talking with me (sign #6) and I do look at him like 🤨 because he'll often do that instead of socializing with the people right next to him, which I found weird. I would have never guessed it was a way of "looking cool and distracted", but it makes sense in his case and the funny thing is that he did get to catch my visual attention doing that haha and that he's also a below-average texter, at least in my experience, not too terrible, but bad... so the sign does make sense. I also didn't know sign #4.

Aw these are the nice ones they do that.

Good ish, bro! Yes. Fellow bros like myself gain a lot of insight from your videos.

@samscarletta7433

Ай бұрын

Ugh 😫 The " bro brigade"

@demian8439

29 күн бұрын

@@samscarletta7433 😆 Just embrace your inner bro, bro.

I love this video😅❤

😂 Brilliant Clarity

This is feeding my delulu hahaha

Like your videos

I really really like this video , I've found pieces I've taken with me in many of your videos , this one is just like on another level. I think we all saw this and did think "Oh , is this what I think it is?" 🤔🧐 and we were never sure, now we can be a little more sure about it let's say. 🤭🤫 It was great , thanks. 😅😆

I looked up Encanto album😂 I will take your word for it😂 I feel you, so felt that around my family 👍🥴 I'm surprised there's not a PTSD disorder named after such torture, I had Dire Straits stuck in my panel van player for a couple of years that and my mum and her friends ABBA Obsession. Going from the outback Overlander army Hardy yakka discipline life to exposure to childrens show entertainment 😵‍💫 🤣

God, Matt and Jameson look sooooo young in that clip!! 🧑‍🦲😁🥰

yeah that is true.

The best day that we can count is the day after wedding🎉❤ right Matt? The honeymoon is awesome. When you wake up with someone who you loved and wanted so deeply. But not like.. I'm on the movie with someone on my bed who I don't know who the hell is he!! Is honey and nightmare after it😂😢 but this experience only written in my memories 📖 and cause me pain when I wake up every morning feeling the ONE is not excited for me or. gone forever🏃

Lmaooo, my love interest did most of this.. he actually went to my work

I mainly enjoyed the video for all the POV montages of Matthew flirting w/ me :P

can you do a video about Signs when you really like somebody /Signs when you chasing the feeling of active attachment

@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

6 ай бұрын

good one ❤

It's like watching a video about myself 😂😂

That is a DEEP v bruddah.

@moriahpaige1

6 ай бұрын

11 mins in 😂 👍🏽

I often miss out 6 out of 7.. toinks

Thirty ONE?!?!?!😮

Sorry mate but your bro needs a better shirt than the man décolleté 😂

So, I work in a restaurant/bar most of your examples people need me for anyway. So how would I know when it’s flirting and not just needing to know and I’m the most comfortable to approach. And next to that I like to know how can I show that I want to do more then just my job and want to flirt with them? Lines are different when I’m the bartender… and I find it hard to see that difference. When I’m just going out, I don’t have a problem with flirting or getting to speak with people I don’t know and when they trying to flirt, but there not the man I want to flirt with. I work at a place where people come in to that I do like to flirt with. One part of the reason why I wanted to work there, to bring myself closer to the sort of people I would like to meet.

Idk but the first 6 I feel like are normal. I LIVE IN THE SOUTH. I feel like we all do it.

i want to pre order it, but I'm into audiobooks these days, and it doesnt work via audible

So are these signs the same if you already know him?

How long should a situationship last, and will it become a relationship? Thank you

@letrice2892

6 ай бұрын

speaking from experience situationships aren't healthy yes at first u might enter them for fun but eventually feelings start to form for either both parties or one person. When I did that I was fresh out of a relationship and even though my mind wanted to enter another relationship my heart was broken that I settled for situationship as a way of avoiding any heart break again. And it backfired on me bcuz I eventually developed feelings for that person I wasn't in love with him but I cared deeply for him and the fact that I entered with not wanting a relationship he didn't think or view a possible relationship could be any way . And eventually i was ready to go to another level but by the time he was opened to be in a relationship he didn't want it with me and he reconciled with an ex and married her about 2 yrs later . So if u really want a relationship don't enter into a situationship at all simply date until u find some one to become exclusive with and take it from there I don't regret that he and I didn't take things further I do regret that I allowed my broken heart to make a silly decision of entering a situationship instead of taking time to heal and repair my heart

2:07 😄

Matthew i need guidance ive recently broken up, she left our 15yrs relationship and the reason is that she fell out of love. Ive been doing the no contact rule but i have this feeling that she will eventually look for someone during this period just to fill in the absence or void. I badly need guidance right now

Question: How is it with a colleague? He told me he liked me, that I am cute. Maybe we also had something going on while we were drunk, but no-one from the office knows beside the two of us of course. But he is holding back due to him knowing at work it is not ideal to be dating a coworker (one has to leave, even tho I don't know if something like this is really possible for the employer to do, when acting completely professional and doing the job whilst at work). So he is caring about his job, saying what we are "doing" there is dangerous. We are not texting, I think so we are not growing closer (holding it back) and growing more feelings. We try to avoid or even ignore each other at work / act super casual so no-one will notice. But I still catch him looking at me, smiling this "weirdly" sometimes, fixing his stuff, acting nervous in meetings, or walk past my office more times. The tension is there... Thank you!!!

A guy that I have kind of been eyeing gave me the no teeth smile and I thought he thought I was weird and didn’t like me.😅

And here I am 29yo, never dated and I am debating if a guy that asked my and my friends number is actually interested in me or my friend. I think he is cute and contacted him (little messages) my friend didn't, he responded but with weary wage ansvers, conversation that is leading nowhere, idk what to do or think

That face at 3:07 I encounter very frequently by old and young, male and female, with strangers in the park. I thought it was a sign of awkwardness, not flirtatious interest.

Hilarious 😅

What if he did all of these things but then he cancels our first date? Worse, he actually forgot about it? (he did apologize though, but in a cool, 'I don't care as much as you would expect'-kind of way). How is that explaining itself???

@asuwish7640

6 ай бұрын

That's not ok. Forget about him, and move on.

@anonymousanonymous1859

6 ай бұрын

Then he’s attracted to you but ultimately doesn’t care… move on

@oanamunteanu4744

6 ай бұрын

Or maybe he has Adhd and plenty things in his mind 🤷‍♀️😬☺️

@katherinegraham3803

6 ай бұрын

He totally forgot your date and didn't seem to care? He's either not that interested or he's incredibly flaky and unreliable. Either way, nothing is going to come from pursuing things with him.

@naginiriddle7091

4 ай бұрын

I had this happen. This guy flirted with me, initiated interaction, asked me out, and I was super excited because guys NEVER do that with me. And then he wrote out a letter to give me explaining he couldn't "court" me. And then much later down the road, told me he had made a mistake and had not attraction to me. People are dumb.

This is common sense.

I watch these videos just to see this good looking man, love the accent but... I don't hear one word he says...❤😂🎉 Thanks!

Anyone can answer. So I am talking to this guy who said he is emotionally unavailable. But he said he likes me but he just got out of a serious relationship so he isn’t ready yet. And doesn’t wanna be unfair with me. we met twice. He always chats me everyday for two months but he gradually stopped. But every time I post on my social media, anything that seems like I am having a good time. He would always chat me asking “where are you?” , “who are you with?” Like literally every time and within just 2min from posting. What does it mean?

@bodaciousmo

6 ай бұрын

9:40. This man is not high value. He has warned you 100% that he is there to waste your time and energy. He is trying to have you under his canopy- he gets the dopamine from interacting with you especially if you are out, he messages, and you respond. He is taking up boyfriend space with minimal effort. Him saying he doesn’t want to be unfair completely contradicts his behavior. Keep doing the fun things with your friends and leave him on read. There is a man who will put forth that effort and more while telling you he is available to get to know you and respect you 🫶🏻

@prettymarla6692

6 ай бұрын

Sounds like he likes the idea of having you don’t waste your time x

@dee_zm

6 ай бұрын

@@prettymarla6692 thank you Marla❤️

@user-fo9yc8ef2b

6 ай бұрын

@@bodaciousmo Thank you so much! Appreciate this

@anon_ya

6 ай бұрын

Because you appear to still like him you are looking for deeper signs and are not seeing his behavior for what it is… He is keeping you around and wasting your mental real estate, you’re an option for him, he will never commit to you, he’s still playing the field, evaluating his options, and you are just one of many options he’s looking at. The questioning you about who you’re seeing comes across as controlling and manipulative, because this dude is not even your partner or boyfriend so it’s none of his business. Girl, I would tell him you’re not interested in unavailable guys and you’re looking for commitment or whatever it is you want that he’s not giving you, and I would deny his access to you…don’t respond to him anymore, he’s breadcrumbing you and gonna waste valuable time you could use entertaining men who want to pursue you, men whose words match their actions. I wish you the best, you can do it. Move on cause you deserve better❤

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Methew please act in your movie your perfect actor materials having al qualities so dedicated towards work..nd so good looking handsome ❤

Seems to me a Commitment is sacrificing freedom. That's my feeling. Is this normal ?

6 ай бұрын

Obviously don't do something that you feel limits you to the point where you can't live with it. But building something together is going to take time and determination and investment. And courage and sacrifice and you go through it remembering it's not about me anymore, it's the two of us together.

When did the brother get so hot????!!!!

Men are so funny

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍😍😍😍😍😍

I have no idea where these men who behave that way. I am afraid, they don’t exist in the modern society. At least dating in Tel Aviv is usually about “your place or my place”. I hear the same feedback form Poland, Lithuania, even Italy where I live now. Unfortunately, guys go to dates and don’t initiate anything later, or want to have sex very fast. And “I am so overloaded at work!”

I Don’t understand men! Men show me interest all the time. They look at me, they show me they are interested in me. But they never act. If I do something to show them my interest, nothing happend. So I go on with my life. They still show me interest. That’s make me confused, angry and sad! That’s make me feel really question why I exist on this earth! What’s wrong with me??? Are they looking at me because I am ugly?

@Lily_and_River

13 күн бұрын

I think many men (and women probably too) are afraid of real commitment these days. In my experience it can be actual qualities like beauty, intelligence, sensitivity and unconditional love that can scare people off, even for friendships. People are so afraid of real connection or any realness at all these days. Just hold on till you meet a man who is willing to invest and commit, you are worth it and will otherwise regret it. Try to go to places where you are able to meet people with the same values and interests in life as you. And to places where you might encounter men who are more likely looking for serious relationships. You might even want to pick up a new hobby in order to meet more people that are like you, want/do the same things as you in life.

Why are your videos always aimed toward women. Can you make a video that says, "Does SHE want more with you?" Mix it up a bit!

@anon_ya

6 ай бұрын

Because his audience is literally straight women 🎉 most dating coaches have a niche

i believe you credit card scam people...why?

@bianca-mhteam6237

6 ай бұрын

Hey Monique! If you experienced any issues please email our Support Team at support@howtogettheguy.com and they'll sort it out for you. -Bianca, MH tean

@linnie14

3 ай бұрын

@@bianca-mhteam6237 there have been multiple problems... go here, buy this book, get access to "this", but then there is NO access to "this"...and this isn't just once.

Get rich (and yes you can), be a man, don’t be desperate (let them know they’re replaceable). Gal problems solved. Simple. No need for dating advice, it’s common sense.