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Islam permits divorce. There is a whole set of regulations concerning divorce. These are designed to ensure that divorce should not be resorted to light-heartedly, or in a fit of passion or resentment. It should be a deliberate act resolved upon after a careful consideration of the consequences both for the parties and the children, if there are any, of the marriage.
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  • @mrao3124
    @mrao31244 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is the most difficult responisibility 😭 may Allah grant us all patience

  • @samihahossain2287

    @samihahossain2287

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @aminahaqzee5038

    @aminahaqzee5038

    4 жыл бұрын

    my sister marraige iusess hooms problems so contact Shah abbas + 923414850022. perfect person in alls spiritual helinng powers and sultions

  • @JahannamHellfire

    @JahannamHellfire

    3 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is a huge responsibility

  • @yousraadly7341

    @yousraadly7341

    3 жыл бұрын

    The more its harder the more God multiply your reward coz nothing easy in life got benifits and Satan's make Good thing hard to get or do so a human give up on it there for gets denied from paradise eventually .dont give up even if it gets tougher as long as what you do please God/Allah .

  • @AndreaB_SlaveofAllah

    @AndreaB_SlaveofAllah

    Жыл бұрын

    Alhamdollellah it really is difficult Remember Allah test us

  • @spillthedeen
    @spillthedeen2 жыл бұрын

    Inshallah i will find a better husband with a stronger deen. My ex husband said talaak so many times in every argument it was so hurtful and traumatic.

  • @iamnaz9

    @iamnaz9

    2 жыл бұрын

    Are you divorced?

  • @spillthedeen

    @spillthedeen

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@iamnaz9 islamically yes I am

  • @knucklehead4787

    @knucklehead4787

    2 жыл бұрын

    Blame him 👍🏻 good

  • @spillthedeen

    @spillthedeen

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@knucklehead4787 the blame goes where its due

  • @StayFocusOnYourFaith

    @StayFocusOnYourFaith

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah help you Amine.

  • @tboolah1
    @tboolah15 жыл бұрын

    May Allah forgive and reward jannah for every Muslims read this comment

  • @hammadahmad6312
    @hammadahmad63124 жыл бұрын

    We really need to understand the importance of Talaq! It is HALAL! It is better to not be married than be miserable!

  • @niquabispeaksabyssiniaiman9048
    @niquabispeaksabyssiniaiman90484 жыл бұрын

    Subhan Allah I’m also going through a Divorce we are not compatible but Alhamdullilah Please make Dua for us Allah bless you ! Ameen

  • @UmmAyman0

    @UmmAyman0

    4 жыл бұрын

    May Allah make it easy for you. Ameen

  • @niquabispeaksabyssiniaiman9048

    @niquabispeaksabyssiniaiman9048

    4 жыл бұрын

    Umm Ayman Ameen Jaza kha Allah u Karin

  • @mysharahman4566

    @mysharahman4566

    Жыл бұрын

    Sister I am going through similar situation. I need to boost up my morale. How are you now? I hope you are having a great life.

  • @faisalistic5436
    @faisalistic54365 жыл бұрын

    Brothers and sisters please pray for me.

  • @GuidancePoint

    @GuidancePoint

    5 жыл бұрын

    insha Allah

  • @AbdulmalikWasagu

    @AbdulmalikWasagu

    5 жыл бұрын

    Faisalistic May Allah guide us together....AMIN

  • @louloubelle1330

    @louloubelle1330

    5 жыл бұрын

    Faisalistic May Allaah swt Grant you sabr, May Allaah swt Grant you wisdom and understanding through whatever it is that your are being tested with. This test make have gone of for a few years but know that you have to pass it and Allaah knows best

  • @reformandpurify4873

    @reformandpurify4873

    5 жыл бұрын

    What happened

  • @hossainrubel2012

    @hossainrubel2012

    4 жыл бұрын

    Insyaallah 🙏

  • @WhiteDervish
    @WhiteDervish4 жыл бұрын

    Finally, someone mentioned the men as well! :'(

  • @fazminacareem478
    @fazminacareem4785 жыл бұрын

    Hi dear brothers and sisters. Im facing much more difficulties in my marriage life because of my in laws. And now im in a state that, it is unable to bear my husband's ill treatments because of his family. And on top of everything im pregnant. Im planning to file a divorce case. Please pray for me. May Almighty Allah bless all of us

  • @incredibleindia7916

    @incredibleindia7916

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dear sister, Divorce is not a solution, please keep patience. We will pray for you Allah fill your life full of happiness with good health and wealth. Ameen

  • @fazminacareem478

    @fazminacareem478

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@incredibleindia7916 Ameen.

  • @JahannamHellfire

    @JahannamHellfire

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah swt give you the best husband ameen.

  • @stephaniemchh6476

    @stephaniemchh6476

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@fazminacareem478 I know of a powerful doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

  • @stephaniemchh6476

    @stephaniemchh6476

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@fazminacareem478 +1 ,,,.9 14 22 8 , ,20 41.

  • @potatoesfamily8342
    @potatoesfamily83422 жыл бұрын

    I swear to Allah it's too difficult divorce the one who u love

  • @saimai.915
    @saimai.915 Жыл бұрын

    I am going through the same issue Sister I entirely understand your pain. How do we end the marriage legally?

  • @ayishaluvsu
    @ayishaluvsu5 жыл бұрын

    What do you do if you as a wife are not wanting divorce but your husband threw you out of the house and says he wants divorce?

  • @shamasiddique9620

    @shamasiddique9620

    5 жыл бұрын

    same happen to me

  • @ag135i

    @ag135i

    5 жыл бұрын

    The answer is in the video itself watch it again, in the video the honorable speaker says they should be one person with wisdom from each side who should try for reconciliation, or better and best seek an opinion from a qualified trustworthy scholar/aalim.

  • @tboolah1

    @tboolah1

    5 жыл бұрын

    The marriage never work if it’s just wanted by only one side ... for both sides woman or man ..

  • @louloubelle1330

    @louloubelle1330

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ayisha Edeline then accept it my dear sister if a man can treat you like that then he’s not worth your tears because for each tear of an oppressed wife xx I’m divorced and it took a couple of years but we’re alryt, and life is so much better without the drama and headache you will find out that Allaah swt is the best of planners, so turn to him and observe your deen sister, you will reap many benefits and Allaah swt shall replace him with someone better but you have to know what it is you want xx Allaah knows best

  • @louloubelle1330

    @louloubelle1330

    5 жыл бұрын

    shama siddique then embrace it sister yes it hurts and you will have to get over it but you will get over it, he’s not a man, but a boy. You deserve better and pray, pray for guidance and wisdom because: ‘beware of the du’aah from an oppressed person’ make du’aah (and not for revenge etc) but for a way out of this mess that suits you both because you bothered deserves happiness. And Allaah knows best xx

  • @mamunurrashid359
    @mamunurrashid3593 жыл бұрын

    Allah I love your wisdom

  • @mercyayoub4966
    @mercyayoub49664 жыл бұрын

    Kindly need an advice, I have been married for 16yrs now and blessed with 4 children mashallah. But from day one i have been the bread earner and taking all the responsibilities of the kids and myself. My husband has never paid my dowry( mahar), and now am tired of this kind of life. Especially from his laziness not minding to find a job. I had to leave my children and come overseas to work for my kids but life isn't that simple. I asked for divorce but he denied, what should i do? Right now we don't even have a home as i cant afford rent anymore and taking care of the kids. So even when i go back in vaccation i stay with my sister where my kids are and he is at his father's home. Please kindly advice. Jazakallahu khair

  • @maryharrison1838

    @maryharrison1838

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can someone tell me why my Muslim husband does not want his children to know he is married to an American woman I accept Allah and want to convert

  • @aminahaqzee5038

    @aminahaqzee5038

    4 жыл бұрын

    plz call my sister inshallah solve urs problem perfect person in alls spiritual helinng powers bawa abbas sahib + 923414850022 PERFECT person in alls spiritual helinng powers and sultions

  • @keppykeppy5241

    @keppykeppy5241

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mary Harrison could be that he is still married in a relationship with there mother and using you for a visa this happens all the time and he doesn’t have to tell the other woman about you please come to Islam but run from me that use you it doesn’t get better

  • @JahannamHellfire

    @JahannamHellfire

    3 жыл бұрын

    When he dont provide for you its because he have another women!

  • @Xessoriez
    @Xessoriez5 жыл бұрын

    Can someone pls tell me how this channel user make the video backgrounds or from where he downloads them? Plz, thanks!

  • @reformandpurify4873

    @reformandpurify4873

    5 жыл бұрын

    Before I used "windows movie maker" but there are many programs for it I think..

  • @IK--nm1fq

    @IK--nm1fq

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just write 2015 background nasheed and it will come

  • @rafia8106
    @rafia81062 жыл бұрын

    Please pray for me. Going through hardship in marriage.

  • @kirtisoma3211

    @kirtisoma3211

    2 ай бұрын

    Trust God he will never let you down

  • @AK-kv2fl
    @AK-kv2fl4 жыл бұрын

    Unilateral divorce by wife It's allowed, right?

  • @MrHussain1998
    @MrHussain19984 жыл бұрын

    This will sound stupid i know But 6 months ago i got a arranged marriage from Pakistan and i mainly did it for the sake of my parents. At first it was fine we were happy with each other even tho we only knew each other a few months, but i came back to the UK in June and things were still fine a couple of months down the line, i started working and didn't really have much time to talk to her ect and then she told her family and which they told mine and from there it went down hill for me, like yes fair enough im to blame but shouldn't she be talking to me about all that? Now further down the line at this point now I'm not happy in the marriage i know its very early to decide but when you have that feeling inside you that it won't work you know, (only some will understand) But now she's excusing me of all sorts, meeting women when i dont, always have time for my friends which again i dont, im either working or sleeping. I've spoke to my family and they're thinking about a divorce. I know divorce should be the last option, but really and truly, you can't force anything that isn't there if you get me? Sorry for the rant just had to get it off my chest.

  • @SJMK95

    @SJMK95

    4 жыл бұрын

    anonymous UK im also on the same boat and not sure what and how to do it as my family is against it

  • @MrHussain1998

    @MrHussain1998

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@SJMK95 May Allah help you in your situation, everything happens for a reason and i hope you find someone you truly love in the futute inshallah x

  • @SJMK95

    @SJMK95

    4 жыл бұрын

    anonymous UK thanks same to u

  • @mnasseri28

    @mnasseri28

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m in the same situation I’ve done nikkah but haven’t consummated my marriage so technically im not really married but idk how to make my parents understand this

  • @MrHussain1998

    @MrHussain1998

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mnasseri28 in islam a nikkah means you're married, unfortunately.

  • @bilqees786
    @bilqees7864 жыл бұрын

    My husband might divorce me soon 😢

  • @maryamshuha168

    @maryamshuha168

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah ease your pain sister 😔

  • @stephaniemchh6476

    @stephaniemchh6476

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know of a powerful doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

  • @stephaniemchh6476

    @stephaniemchh6476

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1 ,,,.9 14 22 8 , ,20 41.

  • @de5iner

    @de5iner

    Жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @salamah8930
    @salamah8930 Жыл бұрын

    I no longer can bare this relationship. When I tell my decision to my mom,she says have sabr.i had sabr for 7 year.i can't take it anymore .i don't know what to do. Should I think of my mom and society or should I think about myself?

  • @Gamerpro08

    @Gamerpro08

    Жыл бұрын

    Salaam alaykum sister, May Allah ease your worries and keep you steadfast in his deen ameeen. Pray istikhara many times, increase your ibaada, pray tahajjud and ask Allah swts help and to clear your heart and mind, to purify your heart, listen to more Islamic lectures about marriage, and then talk it out with him on how you can fix your marriage, go through Islamic marriage counselling, that is if he’s interested in fixing your marriage, if none of it works and you’ve already thought all the consequences once you divorced then no matter what other people feel or think, as long as it’s within shariah and you tried everything, there’s nothing wrong with you choosing what’s best for yourself, your mental health and the mental health of your children. If you stay and have sabr and it’s not affecting your deen negatively then you get more good deeds from Allah azzawajal, but if you can’t have sabr anymore and it’s affecting your deen negatively, it’s not haraam for you to prioritize your deen over staying in a toxic relationship. May Allah swt give you peace in your heart and mind, make you get through this test soon and make you both steadfast in his deen ameeen

  • @razamughal4582

    @razamughal4582

    8 ай бұрын

    Yourself.

  • @shamasiddique9620
    @shamasiddique96205 жыл бұрын

    my husband divorce me without any valid reason . i had not did anything wrong with him with his family. i accepted her daughter as mother. i donno what is my fault.

  • @thethankfullservant2206

    @thethankfullservant2206

    5 жыл бұрын

    shama siddique it doesn't make sense did you ask him why

  • @tboolah1

    @tboolah1

    5 жыл бұрын

    Have some pride, why you need a man that show to you that he doesn’t want you ! There are many good and righteous men on this earth..

  • @shamasiddique9620

    @shamasiddique9620

    5 жыл бұрын

    +Ebtehal Al-Subaie yaah i know

  • @NazmusLabs

    @NazmusLabs

    5 жыл бұрын

    shama siddique Allah is with you. What ever Allah has written, it is for the best. Remain patient and you will soon get something better than what you lost, Insh’Allah!

  • @louloubelle1330

    @louloubelle1330

    5 жыл бұрын

    shama siddique Subhan’Allaah sister but there will be a reason. Pray sister, and make du’aah. I am happily divorced, it took me a while to get over him and to move on but it’s better, no drama no stress, and 3 years later: with 2 young son’s, I do my nikk’aah on Thursday Subhan’Allaah to a fully practising brother. You have to know what you want. Bid him farewell you deserve so much better

  • @NobodyGho
    @NobodyGho2 жыл бұрын

    Well in my case. He just left and Is busy getting to know others even while we married and during iddah. And is lowering his gaze for me who is his wife that's under iddah. But his busy with crazy things and not lowering his gaze for others. What's the logic in that?

  • @razamughal9095

    @razamughal9095

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you bloody stupid?? You must be thats why he left you

  • @devaranipillay9415
    @devaranipillay94154 жыл бұрын

    Slmz ...im divorce for a month now..and my husband have me the talaq over the phone 3times ..e was very very angry at that moment ..bt after he cut the call e regrets it alot ...we still Wana work our Marriage out ...e didn't mean it ...we speak everyday on the phone...I'm staying with my mum for the 3months and e is living with his family ...I want to know after the 3months period can we make nikah again ..we also registered English way too ...I married into Islam ...so I don't know much ...I was a non Muslim before....so many people is telling me different stories abt how this works ...I need help honestly...we still love each other and want to be together ... because of this lock down is South Africa we can not go see the moulana ...help desperate

  • @umaribnabdullah829

    @umaribnabdullah829

    4 жыл бұрын

    Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. You must go to Hakim or at least Imam. Depending the school of Fiqh you will have ur answer. May Allah SWT grant you ease in these difficult situation

  • @hajiramuhammad2414

    @hajiramuhammad2414

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tasleem Omar Ally... May Allah make it easy for you. I am from South Africa (Jhb). Take care of yourself🌹

  • @ashfahrehman8204

    @ashfahrehman8204

    3 жыл бұрын

    did u find a solution.

  • @stephaniemchh6476

    @stephaniemchh6476

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know of a powerful doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

  • @stephaniemchh6476

    @stephaniemchh6476

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1 ,,,.9 14 22 8 , ,20 41.

  • @An_Gha_
    @An_Gha_3 жыл бұрын

    Salam bros and sis, why if marriage is kind of sacred and especially divorce is so disliked by Allah all the 4 sahaba divorced? Why did they divorce if marriage is such an important issue plus if you have adab you can overcome all issues, if you really want to. And when people divorce usually the reasons are all related to lack of adab and akhalaq

  • @AB-bc3vi

    @AB-bc3vi

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s a good question tbh

  • @razamughal9095

    @razamughal9095

    Жыл бұрын

    Easy: divorce TO THIS DAY is not a taboo in arab culture. It is disliked by Allah, so is suicide, so is apostacy. You dont have a point.

  • @aba4729

    @aba4729

    Жыл бұрын

    Where does Allah say he dislikes divorce? Surely it depends on case by case basis. Sometimes it's wajib other times it can be disliked.

  • @chev6392
    @chev63922 жыл бұрын

    I'm a Muslim woman. My husband haven't divorce me he left us 2 years now for multiple women and living a wild lifestyle haven't taking care of his son allows his women to disrespect me he as well threatened my life and i give him no problem whatsoever . I have always been a faithful loyal wife only thing i do was talk to him about his infidelities and he disrespected me for the hold 7 years of marriage how do i get a divorce from him i need to move on when Allah send a good God fearing husband

  • @uzmabajwa3944

    @uzmabajwa3944

    Жыл бұрын

    Your should take divorce from court

  • @yousraadly7341
    @yousraadly73413 жыл бұрын

    A real Muslims/devoted to God figure loves another motivated by God , hates a God hater ,marry according to God laws divorce who violated God boundaries any thing beside that attitude is gate to hell and its tool called hypocrit.

  • @sintaibramokha5797
    @sintaibramokha57974 жыл бұрын

    No i dont like divorce.. Mary for happiness to complete each others not for noisy like fire.. Allah make different people and heart for one unity and can not separate.. If u can love and mary why decide divorce..its not like tht. If hv be noisy after mary its like salt and sugar.. So no problem bcause its make more close and romance ☺😚 i love to see him if angry but more love if not angry.. Its 2 side between bad and good i will accepted bcause i love him. For me ur always my ocean 😚😍 baby where u.. U hide from me 🙈

  • @stephaniemchh6476

    @stephaniemchh6476

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know of a powerful doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.

  • @stephaniemchh6476

    @stephaniemchh6476

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1 ,,,.9 14 22 8 , ,20 41.

  • @swalehferoz4740
    @swalehferoz47405 жыл бұрын

    I'm never getting involve in marriage. Alhamdulillah marriage is not the only way to Jannah. Seems the muslim ummah don't guard marriage always talaq. By Allah I wish to stand in front of Him on the day of judgment accounting of myself no one else, of course my parents but never a wife nor children. The sins in marriage are more severe. Alhamdulillah may Allah continue making me strong aganist zinna, Amin. Not demolarizing anyone I speak on my own acct. If u wat to take a chance go ahead may Allah guide you.

  • @saeedafg7415

    @saeedafg7415

    5 жыл бұрын

    Swaleh Feroz akhi marriage is obligatory on the man who is able to marry.

  • @louloubelle1330

    @louloubelle1330

    5 жыл бұрын

    Swaleh Feroz that’s just a childish response to someone that doesn’t fully practice his deen, YOU HAVE TO GET MARRIED, Allaah swt commanded it, read the ayahs and hadiths (sahih and bukhari) regarding this. There are many divorces due to ego’s, stupidity, naf’s, always wanting to be ryt and not knowing how to treat one another but miscommunication is the biggest problem in marriage. Or interfering parents and in-laws but marriage is something you have to work at, and is half of your deen so: Fear Allaah swt because you don’t and think you know better

  • @Ss-er5qd

    @Ss-er5qd

    5 жыл бұрын

    my brother swaleh feroz I want to remind you marriage is fulfilling half your deen and that's the first benefit secondly IBM mas'ud may Allah be pleased with him said if I was to have 10 days remaining to be alive I would get married and the benefit here is that you will save yourself from fitnah and this time we are living too much fitnah it's only Allah help we seek thirdly I will remind you our beloved prophet swallahu alleihi wassallam will boost to others yaumul qiyammah by the large group of his ummah and that will happen if you get married brother...let the sunnah go forth and don't stop it with your weak opinion ( forgive me for the mistakes that's from me and shaitan , Allah and His messenger are free ...peace

  • @UsmanKhan-uy1jl

    @UsmanKhan-uy1jl

    5 жыл бұрын

    Brother, one of the wishes of Prophet Muhammad PBUH is to have the the biggest ummah during the day of judgment. He encourages us to have as many children as possible. Have them follow Islam. Everything will come to an end and when it does. May Allah allow your childrens' good deeds will raise your stature in heaven. Its simple multiplication math. 😁

  • @hadji9354

    @hadji9354

    5 жыл бұрын

    Some of the greatest scholars never got married, I guess those random youtube people know Islam better than actual scholars who dedicated their whole life to Islam. what a joke. Marriage is a SUNNAH. SUNNAHS are NOT obligations.