detach, go ghost & glow up. DND MODE ACTIVATED 🎧
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's video I chat with you about detaching from things that are currently not going your way in life, how to "go ghost" and put your energy back onto yourself by showing you some of the things that help me do just that!💗
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Timestamps
00:00 intro
00:33 detach
01:18 go ghost
06:14 glow up
13:20 grwm
15:15 toronto life + spin class
19:40 grocery haul & eating right
26:04 meal prep
27:53 self care night
34:35 sunday morning + hot yoga
39:23 skin care + deep chats about family
Пікірлер: 332
Went ghost from everyone for 8 months. I have so much peace joy and wisdom. Mental and spiritual growth is on point.
@tabriadukes8438
2 ай бұрын
Got the thought to go the rest of the year and just focus on my spiritual and mental and physical
@divineariestarot558
2 ай бұрын
what did u do in the mean while as u were ghost
@jhp4012
2 ай бұрын
@@divineariestarot558 deleted social media. Stayed in the gym and church. Found my peace. And lots of rest
@jhp4012
2 ай бұрын
@@divineariestarot558 took a break from my friends and focused on loving me. Got to put yourself first. Love yourself to much that you enjoy your own company. Love your own vibes and people will feel it. Got to put all that energy on you
@MakomboreroMadaliso
Ай бұрын
@@divineariestarot558I wanna know too
I literally stop scrolling on IG and stopped posting for the last 2 months I think... my energy is so much heightened and my life more INTENTIONAL
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
looooove that!!!!!
@LasheyMonique93
2 ай бұрын
It’s only been 3 days since I deactivated instagram and it has done WONDERS for my intentions too!
Dealing with a narcissist and I feel so mentally drained so exhausted I'm so unhappy we argue all the time after this video iv come to a decision to just end things & move on with my life.
@ShanitaBartlett
Ай бұрын
Very exhausting he broke up with me and im so depressed cant win either way 🤦♀️
@AbbieLena
6 күн бұрын
How are you doing after this angel? Xx
@AbbieLena
6 күн бұрын
@@ShanitaBartlettare you okay?🥺
@ShanitaBartlett
6 күн бұрын
@@AbbieLena No im still sad 😞 just taking one day at a time drowning myself into work and doin therapy and grieving group therapy. He also keeps looking at my tik tok and i dont know why when he has moved on and seeing someone else which is hurtful cause he moved on quick as hell i guess he never valued me or our relationship its really sad im tired of crying everyday
i'm healing from an 11 year relationship and 6 of those years i was married. i can't wait to see what God has in store for me.. taking it one day at a time.. this glow up is now loading lol.
Never quit making these videos, you are wonderful to listen to.
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you ☺️
@xoxolottalove4d
3 ай бұрын
honestly! Your aura is amazing your helping so much, new subscriber❤
@eliciagoguen
2 ай бұрын
@@xoxolottalove4d ahhh thank you so much 🥺
Scorpios unite on this video because the way I will detach and fall all the way back to later come back better than ever!!!!
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
YESSSS!!!
@CheyBluexoxo
3 ай бұрын
changed my number, deleted my socials, started eating healthier, drinking more water. it’s only been a week but i feel so fucking good. a weight lifted off my shoulders fr
@ChelseaAriel
3 ай бұрын
@@CheyBluexoxo I deleted my socials too awhile back, I’ve been thinking about changing my number too I think you just gave me confirmation to do that! I’ve also been trying to eat healthier and get back in the gym.
@CoffeeCrashedMal
3 ай бұрын
Does it also apply for scorpio moons? Because i def feel this but go halfway sometimes
@ChelseaAriel
3 ай бұрын
@@CoffeeCrashedMal I feel like it does if you have Scorpio in your big 3!
While ghosting work on your body, mind and spirit! Take long walks by the beach, eat healthy most of the time and read good books you like, take a yoga class, martial arts or whatever your into! People will eventually be blowing up your phone.. keep ghosting until your good ❤🥂💪👻✊🙌
@vodkavuitton
14 күн бұрын
Moving on & ghosting is not the same thing ✌🏽 stop finding any way to keep attaching yourself to someone's journey. They are not ghosting you they are living their life without you in it. Get a clue & grow up
the way that this came at just the right time 🎀
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
🥹🤍🤍🤍
@Gaurisharma897
3 ай бұрын
Sameee
"Attached to things outside of ourselves" Period ✨
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
✨✨✨
Oh how I rushed
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
I love YOUUUUU 🥹
@watermelonslice2515
2 ай бұрын
My heart skipped a beat when I saw the title.
Currently going through a “death” (as a Scorpio) and detaching and going ghost is literally the strategy I said I would take going into this rebirth 😅never clicked so fast lol
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
Hahaha omg! I’m a Scorpio too, so I feel that babes 🤣🤍 this rebirth is about to be…. 🔥🔥
@UpliftedLivin
3 ай бұрын
Fellow scorpio here and same!!! On the verge of a huge shift… I feel it!!
@CandieTalks
3 ай бұрын
Scorpio here & I love this for us 💕
@mammyjah499
3 ай бұрын
another scorpio here i feel it
You're right. I quitted social media since 3 weeks.. I was getting contents suggested that reminded of me my current situation and I was getting triggered agin and again. Now I have a lot more peace now.
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
I’m proud of you 😇
So good.. I had to watch this twice. Its been heavy on my heart to go ghost. This was definitely conformation. 👏
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
Ahhh im so glad you enjoyed 😘
divine timing ❤️🩹
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
Love to hear it 😍
When I tell you that you posted this right on time, I mean you are RIGHT ON TIME!!! I love everything you talk about, your vibe, and how real you are. Thank you❤
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
Ahhh!!! Thank you so so much for vibing with meeeee 🥹✨
Perfect timing. I'm doing this exactly right now! TY for this!!!❤👍
😭🙌🏽 I'm so glad I clicked on this video cause I needed to hear this. Thank you for making this video 🥹
5 minutes into the video I love it already. Such a real and honest speech
I been doing this unintentionally lately.. I needed this! Thank you
Really needed this video. Thank you. Ive definitely been hyper-focusing and stressing out.
Preach Sister Preach!!!!! Yeeeeeeessssss!!!!! Exactly what I needed. Ty so much!
so real. definitely in this phase of my life bur still trynna balance the whole content creator lifestyle with it.
Oh my god 100% this video is speaking life into me 😮can’t believe i caught it two months later!!! Thank you for this video!!!! ❤
Thanks bestie… this was exactly what I needed to hear this morning. I’m trying to detach and your advice definitely helped.
We're done ...❤ peace over pretenders ,so glad your video popped up ,love to you from Nova Scotia Canada
I’m going to start watching a lot of your videos to glow up soon ❤️
I needed to see this omg the timing of this was absolutely divine! Thank you so much 🥹💛
This is something I've been thinking about doing and thank you so much for putting it into words
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
You are very welcome 🤍
This is pure bestfriends energy!! The way she takes us along whenever she's going to do something good for herself ! You inspire me sm elicia. I hope you have a good day!! Loving the topics lately!
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Omg thank you babe 🥹🤍💞
I’m so glad that you’re doing these videos, you’re fantastic
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥹
this is exactly what i needed to hear this morning. thank you.
Feeling like it’s time for a change and I see this video ✨ time to detach and focus on myself ❤️
I literally found this video today and ive been in such a dark depressive state and your words literally actually got to me and caught my attention like it was a message here. ❤❤❤
@eliciagoguen
2 ай бұрын
Sending you so so much love 🤍
This is so on point!! I literally had these thoughts this past weekend! ❤
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
🥹🤍🤍
Such good timing u just came across my TL love that for me... And hearing u such a blessing 💕 ty u boo
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you found me 💞 sending you lots of love 💕
Hey Girl, I just happened to come to this video, and that line of yours really helped me, “I’ll spiral on this later, something will happen or I’ll take care of it during the weekend!” It helped to bring myself back and focus on the task at hand and be productive than to overthink and end up with nothing accomplished . Thanks❤️
Wow I love this thank you for this because I’ve been going through trial and tribulations figuring out who I am learning how to get myself back up and happy again ❤
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
I’m proud of you 🥹
Thank you for this!! This is so soo timely! As someone who is currently in a period of being overly stimulated by work and life in general and constantly feeling overwhelmed, it’s really true that I am at a point where I’m just waiting for that someone/something to make me instantly feel good and at peace and that is not healthy or sustaining at all. Being able to detach and going back to your self is really important. I do hope that I’ll be able to practice and do this wholeheartedly and do/live better moving forward.
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
You’ve got this 🥹💞
I’ve been scared to do this and you uploaded this gem ❤️
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
You got this 💞🥹
Thanks Babe !! This video was tea 🍵💕. Helped ease my mind.
Great video thanks for this. You helped me a lot going through a hard break up obsessed with someone that’s not worth my time new subscriber. 😊
I never learned so much from a vlog before, definitely going to start tuning in 😊.
I was always detached in the physical level but I'm not detached on the mental level and I think mentally detaching is more important than physical because no matter how much you show you don't care your energy still speaking for you.
Whoa it’s like if you read my mind cus I fall back into “deteriorating” habits after an event and yesterday I deactivated insta so I can reset. This is a sign that it’s time to get back up 😌
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
You got this 🥹🥹
@dianar6600
3 ай бұрын
@@eliciagoguen thank you Elicia 🥹❤️
@nopenotnebulah_
2 ай бұрын
Why is this so me😭 I deactivated Friday and it felt amazing
Ugh, I just love your content!! Thank you for this reminder 💛
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Aww you’re so welcome 🥰
as a scorpio moon and sun this is so fricking relatable right now, i NEEDED to hear this. i struggle with anxious attachment and have an insane time being detached from situations… thank you so much for this babes.
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Aww babe I feel youuuuu!!! I’m a Scorpio, I’m so glad this video was able to help you 🥺💞
Thanks for sharing, it was relaxing to take sometime out of the day for myself to watch this. You give some great advice.
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching 🥰
thank you!!! I needed this
Omg I needed this. Thank you!
Loved this!! Needed the motivational talk🙏🏽
A lot of creators are ignorant and obnoxious but I love your energy and your content. Everything you said I can resonate with and really needed to hear this currently. Thank you
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
I appreciate you, thank you! 💕
I really needed to hear this right now❤
This is the confirmation that I needed ❤
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
💞🙏🏼
You’re such a girls girl 🥺🎀 I’m obsessed w your positive mindsettt
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
You are so sweet, thank you for saying this.. 🥹🤍
I love your vlogs! Keep them coming! ❤❤❤
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Thank youuuu 🥹
Amazing as always ❤
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
Thank you babe 🤍
i love youre videos they help me so much thank youuu
Literally perfect timing 😭 I’m so broke and I need to focus
I needed this. Thanks.
Damn! What a comfort video this was. Thank you for this Elicia!
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you loved it 🥰
Just 👏🏼 what 👏🏼 I 👏🏼 NEEDED
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
😍😍😍😍
right words at the right time ❤ Dont stop
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
I’m so happy to hear this 🤍💞
You're my comfort creator!!!
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
This makes me so happy 🥹🤍
I needed this video 😭😭
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
🥹🤍🤍
Idk why I can't let this friend go. She is so sweet to me & fun. However, she's never there for me. She lied about a boy being a creep because she didn't think he was enough for me. I cried in her laps for months. She left me hanging to go party when I was suicidal. She dated a drug dealer and was offended I didn't wanna chill with him. She has been acting hot and cold with me lately. She's so confusing people at one time thought she was in love with me. She didn't want to introduce me to her boyfriend unless I stayed in my car bc she didn't want him to see my figure. She's gotten in w a wild crowd. She seems harder now. Behaves like defensive if she starts to cry. We are both young and I feel like she's treated me better than my family. Idk, I'll be completely alone if I cut her off. I was thinking of pulling away and detaching tho. So, I appreciate the video.
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
You know what to do. Give yourself the time and follow your intuition. Doesn’t mean you need to dissolve the love that you might have for her, but I would suggest nourishing and strengthening the love that you have for yourself. Also, in my opinion reading this comment doesn’t seem like the situations you’re in are in any way healthy for you. Use this time to learn more about your attachment to those people, places and things that do not serve you.
@user-ic4ey6zq3z
4 ай бұрын
You won't be by yourself. You have your self and your family and its so much better to be alone then with negative people.
@CC-cn7ii
3 ай бұрын
Same boat I’m done being there for her she’s not there for me Only thinks of herself and her selfish ways. I need new friends or nobody.toxic friends gotta go focusing on myself way more again Do things alone, read books, grow, go on walks and learn to let people go that aren’t good anymore. I’m trying
@catcat9582
3 ай бұрын
Thanks very much. I am not in situations that serve me whatsoever. I appreciate your advice to me. It was v thoughtful. I didn't realize I could still love from afar and I don't have to separate w hate. Hoping I will make new friends and find a chosen family. I definitely will be alone othe than God after I cut her off. Those around me told me I shouldn't cut her off after she betrayed me bc she cried... I said isn't that like a cheater crying tho... like u said I need to listen to ME for once
@catcat9582
3 ай бұрын
I'm very sorry. It's very painful. Maybe we can just have aquitanced bc we do need a network sadly. We can keep going and find more fulfilling experiences !!!
Thank you for the wonderful words and videos ❤️ we need this as women & mother's 💕 I feel so much better today 😌 taking care of me ❤️
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you enjoyed this video and you’re so right! 🥰💞 I appreciate you!!
Really loved this video. Happy I found your channel.
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
So glad you’re here 🥰
Needed this!!!
Going through a breakup & I needed to hear this . Thank you !!
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Aww babe sending lots of love 💞
I love how authentic you are.😂🇿🇦
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
😂💅🏽🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
loved the vibes
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Thanks girl 🥰
first minute in, I just want to say thank you
The way I’m late but you always have perfect timing with these videos. Currently on my dnd/glowup journey. Thank you🥹💗
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Aww love you 🥰
what upcoming video topics do you want next!!?? 💗⬇
@corrine.talbot8
4 ай бұрын
This topic was amazeballs!!!!!!!
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
@@corrine.talbot8 yaaaaay okay I’m glad you enjoyed 🥰
@user-dv3xo3cr8s
4 ай бұрын
Can you talk about how to find ourselves after losing a freindship or a break up?
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
@@user-dv3xo3cr8s yes yes 🤍
@kashishagrawal3716
4 ай бұрын
@@user-dv3xo3cr8s Omg yes!!
The way you spekakkk❤❤❤❤❤
Enjoyed this video sooo much thank you 🤭🤭🤭
Amazing video ! Thank you for sharing your story, will definitely try the breathing techniques 🫶🏼
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Amazing ☺️💞
Literally perfect time
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
🥹🤍🤍🤍
My fav youtuber❤😊 Girl is always right lemme take out my note book😅😊
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
Ahhh I love you!!!! Hope you enjoy 🥹
u're glowing, babe!
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Thank u 🥹
Hey lil mama 👋🏽 I’m literally eating my yogurt bowl while watching this 😂 detach from anything that makes you feel like shit…the meat and potatoes statement!!👍🏽 enjoy your weekend!!
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
Yaaaaaaas!!!!! Have the best weekend my lovelyyyyyy 🥰
Feelin this so hard rn yesss ❤
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
🥹🤍🤍🤍
I thought it was me only, but I lose appetite too🎉❤ it’s amazing when u change some little things and lose weight without noticing. I have lost 36 pounds in one year without excercise and diet 🎉🎉🎉 now im motivated to do so!!
right time right recommendation omg omg omg
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
🥰🤍
Love your outfit ❤
@eliciagoguen
2 ай бұрын
Thank you ☺️
But plz talk abt her skin as welll....she is looking like angel😭😭😭😭🥺
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Next video coming out.. 👀🥹✨
@vodkavuitton
14 күн бұрын
Yes she's perfect for Drake & Akim Ravariere. Who gets the girl? Beware she has no songs to steal ✌🏽
You’ve made me just wanna go to the grocery store so bad 🤣🤣🤣 definitely craving some good nourishing food!!
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Do it girrrrrrl 😍
Great advice!
likee srslyyy this video came up on rightt timee likee goingg through a lott of thingss and itss the endd nearr of my phase ik itt but u know sometimes endingg partt is moree hurtingg!!!
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
I feel you babes! Hopefully todays video will help you feel better (it’s coming out in a few hours) 😘
Thank you ❤ much love and respect.
nice episode
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
Thank you ☺️
youre giving huntress aechetype i love it keep up the journey
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
This is so nice to say, thank you 🥹
thank youuuuu ❤❤❤
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
of courseee 💗💗💗
i love your videos and your nails are really pretty too
@eliciagoguen
3 ай бұрын
Thank you ☺️
In tarot it’s called going hermit mode Yaaaasss!
I'm sorry happy I found your channel ❤
Thank you for this video❤ I’m going through my dnd season
@eliciagoguen
4 ай бұрын
I got you 🥰🤍
thank u for this
That Also Includes FAMILY....
It’s soooo hard to remember things are going to workout and I don’t need to know how lmao! Maybe I’ll get a tattoo ! It’s a really good mindset key