DELIVERY and the RING OF FIRE | The Phases of Labor - Part 3 | Birth Doula

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Delivery and the Ring of Fire | The Phases of Labor - Part 3
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Are you a first time mom wondering what happens during birth and especially during the delivery stage? This video is part 3 of 3 in our video series: The Phases of Labor series. In it we talk about what the hardest part of labor is, what does delivery feel like, the RING OF FIRE, and the last thing that happens after baby is born! If you've heard some labor and delivery stories about the ring of fire during labor, it's something you should actually look forward to... WHY!? Because it means your body is doing exactly what it should be! Pushing during labor can be the most satisfying part of birth... plus it means you'll be meeting your baby so very soon!
What are you most looking forward to once baby is born? Or, if you've already had a baby, what was your reaction when he/she was finally in your arms? Comment below!
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  • @AmenJenn
    @AmenJenn4 жыл бұрын

    I just found your videos the day before I went into labor. Your breathing techniques helped me birth all natural. I arrived at the hospital dilated to a 9. Most of it was at home! Thank you so much for these videos. First birth was medicated and I did this one all by myself 💕✨

  • @BridgetTeyler

    @BridgetTeyler

    4 жыл бұрын

    Woo hoo, Mama!! You're so amazing! I'm glad you made it to the hospital on time!

  • @meliamedaverman3558

    @meliamedaverman3558

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm planning to have most my labor at home using Bridget breathing techniques. First baby how exciting.😊

  • @AmenJenn

    @AmenJenn

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@meliamedaverman3558 best wishes ✨ it’s not easy to remember how to breathe like this in the heat of the moment but it’s a game changer! Congrats

  • @TheSg360girl

    @TheSg360girl

    2 жыл бұрын

    My first labor was medicated. Hoping for the second to be unmedicated and all natural! Wish me luck!!!

  • @andyseo4873

    @andyseo4873

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BridgetTeyler I have story for u for my experience that is my vibe tribe not is going well

  • @aletaking6363
    @aletaking6363 Жыл бұрын

    I just wanted to share a tiny bit about my first delivery 36 years ago. I did manage to dilate to around 5 by the time I was on the bed in hospital, and I had a midwife to assist me. My 1st birth was 5 hours from my water breaking to the actual birth, my 2nd birth was 1 hour 40 minutes, beginning with contractions and some bleeding, and my 3rd was 3 hours after losing the mucous plug. Obviously I had riveting pain like most women, and I used this kind of a thought process and vision each time I had a contraction, which made the contractions work for me more efficiently. I envisioned my cervix opening up a little bit more with each contraction, and almost having appreciation for myself and what I was doing. In actuality that’s exactly what’s happening and going on, and by concentrating on that inner vision I was very much in control. And truthfully, it was the only way to get out of that pain, bcuz it made me angry. That probably sounds funny, but that’s how I felt. I have to say that with my 3rd birth, I really wanted some way out of it, and was even hesitant to walk out to the car. And after maybe 10 minutes, knowing that I needed to get on with it, I was off to get it done and over with. It’s been fun reading others comments, we all are magnificent beings to be able to have live births and live to tell about them♥️! Good luck to all of you. Now raising them is another long and huge undertaking that came with some much bigger headaches than what we all were probably planning on, but we’re all still amazing!

  • @lucybird8679
    @lucybird86794 жыл бұрын

    I had my second baby on the side of the road, on the way to the hospital, obviously it wasn't planned, but it was the best birth experience i have had. And it was a lot quicker! No complications. He was ready to come out ha ha

  • @BridgetTeyler

    @BridgetTeyler

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh! What a story to tell!

  • @svcrain

    @svcrain

    4 жыл бұрын

    I've said many times throughout my pregnancy that I wouldn't mind delivering in the car lol (that way the doctor's can't try to intervene too much) We live like a mile from our hospital so I don't see that happening haha. What a cool story that must be to tell though!

  • @yewandfernhollowbyandietwi6448

    @yewandfernhollowbyandietwi6448

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had my second at home on accident and unassisted (my husband delivered the baby) and it was an awesome experience! Everyone thinks it sounds horrible and so scary but it was so great!

  • @meliamedaverman3558

    @meliamedaverman3558

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@svcrain this is why I plan to have most my labor at home so doctors can't intervene much. I rather listen to my body cos it knows what to do

  • @mamaraya8818

    @mamaraya8818

    2 жыл бұрын

    I had my last at home unassisted and caught her myself in the living room 😅 She was ready when she was ready. Was out about half hour after my water broke. Was standing and didn't even push she came out on her own with contractions and was crying before her shoulders were out ☺

  • @DammnnSkippy
    @DammnnSkippy2 жыл бұрын

    First time momma and I just gave birth 6/24. I’m so happy I found your videos. Your breathing exercises helped me get through labor. Woke up at 5am with contractions, When I arrived at the hospital at 8am i was already 8-9cm dilated. Once in the room i was at 10cm and its time to push! Baby girl arrived at 8:57. Everyone told me they rarely see a fast delivery for a first time mom. I just kept breathing through the contractions, and when pushing I told myself im getting closer to my baby, thank you!

  • @momosaku16

    @momosaku16

    Жыл бұрын

    did you purchase the online course or just use the free youtube videos? I`m on a budget and don`t know if the payed course is just something extra, or if it`s really worth investing into

  • @shanarose.o

    @shanarose.o

    Жыл бұрын

    happy early 3rd birthday to baby girl!♥️

  • @yurijones6372
    @yurijones63724 жыл бұрын

    I had the best birth.. Literally didnt feel anything.. i just had my son 3 weeks ago and i legit pushed him out so fast like it was an such an empowering experience

  • @izzateesafia7854

    @izzateesafia7854

    4 жыл бұрын

    how did u prepare for such a smooth delivery? can u please share 😃

  • @yurijones6372

    @yurijones6372

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@izzateesafia7854 well i wanted to have a natural birth but my son was two weeks late and i was ready for him to just come out finally. But they induced me and 5 hours went by and i couldnt relle handle my contractions, so i asked for the epidural. Knowing for future knowledge that me being numb down there was a very good idea just incase i ripped. The key to a good birth is letting ur body do the work and pushing with every contraction. Good nurses midwives etc. I had my sons godmother in the room with me so limit the ppl. But also the urge to finally meet and love the person you spent 9 months making is also a good motivation

  • @izzateesafia7854

    @izzateesafia7854

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@yurijones6372 great to know! Thanks for the motivation on yr final sentence there😃

  • @k47marie71

    @k47marie71

    4 жыл бұрын

    that's how mine was, it was super painful but the second I started pushing all the pain was gone. didnt even get the ring of fire

  • @k47marie71

    @k47marie71

    4 жыл бұрын

    so glad I didn't get the epidural:)

  • @elcapitanmorgan556
    @elcapitanmorgan5564 жыл бұрын

    You DO NOT HAVE TO PUSH INTO THE RING OF FIRE. That is your body’s way of telling you it needs a couple more seconds to stretch a bit and loosen and then the baby can move down further !

  • @jessicaanderson1186

    @jessicaanderson1186

    4 жыл бұрын

    Would like to know more about this

  • @elcapitanmorgan556

    @elcapitanmorgan556

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jessica Anderson your body will push the baby out in the end, it will in all likelihood still be uncomfortable, but you should not rush to push- give your body some time to stretch. Look up Ina May Gaskin - she explains well. The Matriarch Of modern midwifery

  • @jessicaanderson1186

    @jessicaanderson1186

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@elcapitanmorgan556 thank u! I had seen a video where a girl had a terrible 1st baby. She pushed when told and tore horribly. Her second birth she pushed when she felt ready and didnt tear.

  • @mycupcake61

    @mycupcake61

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jessica Anderson do you remember what the video is called

  • @jessicaanderson1186

    @jessicaanderson1186

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mycupcake61 I dont remember I'm sorry. I've seriously seen so many videos in the past few months just trying to prepare myself.

  • @angelestrevino1368
    @angelestrevino136811 ай бұрын

    I’m due September 16th 2023 and you saying “ hey momma “ just makes me feel so comfortable 💕 I’m actually going to give birth in Davis I know you say your in the Sf Bay Area, and you seem like such a gem! I’ve been watching your video to prep for a water birth 🙏

  • @oliviaindelle5100

    @oliviaindelle5100

    10 ай бұрын

    Oh my gosh I’m due September 15th 😂

  • @LCSDarkAngel2006
    @LCSDarkAngel20064 жыл бұрын

    My labor went by so fast! I guess early labor started Friday 11/15 after my doctor's appt. (she had checked my cervix. I was 50% effaced and 0 dialated at that time). Mild back pains continued the next day. But come 11/17 (this past Sunday), back labor pains REALLY picked up and I honestly thought I was still in early labor. But things progressed so fast. The only way to bear through my pains were pacing around. I also took two baths and two showers. I realized I was in active labor when the bath wasn't "slowing things down." So, I told my fiance that he should start packing his hospital bag. He had to do a few things before we decided we should probably go in to L&D. I did more pacing. When we arrived, I half expecting to be sent home, but to our surprise, I was already 7cm dialated! My plan was to go unmedicated. They still offered the epidural and/or IV Meds. I declined. I did however, use the nitrous oxide, but only 3 brief inhales 3 times. It didn't get rid of the pain but it did make the contractions SEEM shorter. Shortly after we learned I was 7cm (probably 30mins later), the contractions got super intense to the point that pacing no longer helped but embracing my fiance with him applying pressure on my low back did. Real soon after those began, I told the nurses that I "feel pushy." It was go time! My fiance said I pushed for only 45 mins. I did opt in for a mirror. I nearly asked to change pushing positions because my legs were cramping from having to spread them open, but when I saw that the doctor had a good grip of my baby's head, I was like, "okay, I'm ready." Three or 4 more good pushes and my little man was born. I wanted to say thank you for your videos. The breathing techniques and all other information you provided helped tremendously! I am so happy with my experience and super proud of myself! I remained calm throughout the whole thing which helped the process go along nice and smooth!

  • @autumngernon
    @autumngernon4 жыл бұрын

    I'm due in 11 days. Despite this being my 6th child with 5 successful vaginal births behind me and only one epidural, and three born at home, I was finding myself exceptionally anxious this time around about birth, and not even fully understanding why. After two days of watching many of your videos I feel much more prepared and I am even feeling excitement, which had been missing from my plethora of emotions. Thank you very much for sharing your knowledge, and with such positivity and candidness. You have helped me immensely.

  • @symoneprice4980

    @symoneprice4980

    2 жыл бұрын

    How was the birth after 5 babies???

  • @FaezaMoghul
    @FaezaMoghul2 жыл бұрын

    This described my transition exactly down to a T. The "I can't do this" and the hot/ cold flashes/shivering all happened. My water breaking at home, while reading natural birth stories in bed, to meeting baby at the hospital was just under 7 hours. I used hypnobirthing techniques and it was completely unmedicated- no IV and no continuous fetal monitoring.

  • @camillarhodes2311
    @camillarhodes23114 жыл бұрын

    I’m not even pregnant.... why am I here?

  • @winingtheday

    @winingtheday

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im not even a woman why am i here?

  • @laurenj432

    @laurenj432

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because it’s informative and she’s a great teacher🥰 I’m a teenager and probably 6-7 years away from having kids, I just enjoy her content

  • @kelea6788

    @kelea6788

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe y'all have a calling to do her line of work?? 😇

  • @Jessoh8

    @Jessoh8

    4 жыл бұрын

    By the time you do get pregnant, you’ll know so much! Lol

  • @hamakerheather4596

    @hamakerheather4596

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂🤣 Hard facts!! I’m not even pregnant and I’m trying to prepare for labor. 😅

  • @BriginaWalton
    @BriginaWalton4 жыл бұрын

    So interesting how people's bodies experience things differently! I just delivered unmedicated, and I had super bad back labor, but didn't experience contractions in the front or the ring of fire. But man, was that back pain crazy! Really really intense, but not at all what I thought labor would be like.

  • @jenamiller5024
    @jenamiller50244 жыл бұрын

    I’m stumbling upon your videos now, and they’re so healing to me. I just delivered my second daughter a couple days ago and it was a scary fast labor (contractions started at 1:11am, arrived at the hospital at 2:10am at 5cm, 2:20am was 10cm, 2:28am baby was delivered) and my baby girl was sunny side up so the back labor was incredibly intense. It was so fast and delivering naturally was unplanned, it was quite a traumatic experience for me because I never had a moment to stop and process what was happening. Your videos have been such a blessing in helping me process what I experienced and put knowledge behind the images and memories I have from my birth.

  • @jasmineb6145
    @jasmineb61455 жыл бұрын

    I’m become obsessed with your videos. This is baby number 3 and really want to do natural. Your videos are so informative!

  • @BridgetTeyler

    @BridgetTeyler

    5 жыл бұрын

    YAY! I believe you can have the birth you desire with education and great support on your side :) Let me know if you have any questions I can help answer!

  • @kryss439

    @kryss439

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here! I would like to go natural on my 3 but I am soooo scared!

  • @Lesbanfe

    @Lesbanfe

    3 жыл бұрын

    There are a lot of VBAC2C support groups on Facebook

  • @negricana858
    @negricana8584 жыл бұрын

    I remember I was 7 cm and I told the nurses I needed to poop , they didn't believe me and they checked me and I was fully dialated and had my daughter

  • @gabrielleshim3908

    @gabrielleshim3908

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same exact thing happened to me

  • @melissahernandez4329

    @melissahernandez4329

    4 жыл бұрын

    It’s annoying when some nurses treat every pregnancy the same

  • @yazzh7776
    @yazzh77764 жыл бұрын

    I’m not even pregnant... I’m just here for research before I get🤰🏾

  • @noxyhadebe1539

    @noxyhadebe1539

    3 жыл бұрын

    same here, lol

  • @fimadaefe9904
    @fimadaefe99044 жыл бұрын

    Thank you loads!!! Because of your video’s I had the easiest birth and it went quick!! First child, 5 h labor and 16 minutes of pushing later, my daughter was born! All your tips and tricks helped me a lot!! 🧡🧡🧡

  • @BridgetTeyler

    @BridgetTeyler

    4 жыл бұрын

    WOW! This is so incredible! Congratulations, mama!

  • @mtac1968

    @mtac1968

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can you summarise the tips here please❤️

  • @fimadaefe9904

    @fimadaefe9904

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mtac1968 i actually just looked at all her video’s and did whatever she said! the breathing techniques and some relaxing music in the background. I focused more on the breaks rather than the contractions.. ❤️

  • @michelled.8470
    @michelled.84704 жыл бұрын

    Kind of sad because I can barely remember anything from my last natural birth. I guess I kept my eyes closed most of the time. It was kind of an out of body experience.

  • @BridgetTeyler

    @BridgetTeyler

    4 жыл бұрын

    I totally understand that... had my eyes closed most of my birth too. I'm grateful though that even when I wasn't totally aware of everything, my body was doing exactly what it needed to!

  • @StephanieHajal
    @StephanieHajal5 ай бұрын

    THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU🩷 I can't thank you enough for making this labor & birth series! I watched all of them for my daughter & now I am rewatching them again for baby #2. You help me feel so empowered for the birth process! I recommend your channel to every new mom that I know x

  • @lexiaye2661
    @lexiaye26614 жыл бұрын

    My baby girl with be here in about 6 weeks. Your videos are helping me feel confident and empowered!

  • @jessied2333
    @jessied23335 жыл бұрын

    I just stumbled across your channel and I must say thank you! These videos that I have been watching have been SUPER informative to me! This is my first baby and I want to try with everything I have to have a drug free birth, so thank you for being informative and giving such great advice for me! ❤️

  • @BridgetTeyler

    @BridgetTeyler

    5 жыл бұрын

    You totally got this, mama!

  • @dorothywheeler66
    @dorothywheeler66 Жыл бұрын

    I learned a lot from your videos 2 years ago. And here I am again on my second baby at 40weeks pregnant been watching your videos again to review and so I will remember when time comes. I hope to have another beautiful unmedicated birth🙏🥰

  • @annagrisina6476
    @annagrisina64765 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the amazing videos! You are doing great job informing first time moms about labor!

  • @sitihajarkamsani9244
    @sitihajarkamsani9244 Жыл бұрын

    Everybody talks about your breathing technique. Well, I would like to let you know that I am very thankful that I bumped into your videos and learnt your breathing technique. My labour process went fast and easy when I can control the pain and deal with it. It helps my cervix dilated easily too. I didn't get to learn how to push properly from you yet but hey you helped me major in the process already.

  • @SH-kc9kx
    @SH-kc9kx Жыл бұрын

    The warm water in the birth tub helps me with the shivers. Only ring of fire I had was on my back when the midwife and nurse in the hospital flipped me as he was crowning without consent.

  • @isabelbenito2387
    @isabelbenito23872 жыл бұрын

    Im at 36 weeks. I feel more prepared than i did with my first baby. I was traumatized by labor in the hospital that i didn't want more kids, here we go seven years later. Im happy i waited, it feels like my first time except now i know what to expect and what i want.

  • @ccx4785
    @ccx4785 Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best channel to understand things in the most informative and clear manner! Good for you🎉

  • @Nessa___
    @Nessa___4 жыл бұрын

    I birthed my last at home unplanned - just with partner and 111 call taker. I remember holding my own perenium as I pushed (was on all fours) so I wouldn’t tear. Biggest baby at 8lbs 4 but by far the easiest :)

  • @BridgetTeyler

    @BridgetTeyler

    4 жыл бұрын

    I wish I could hear this story in person! You're amazing!

  • @chelseaq7273
    @chelseaq7273 Жыл бұрын

    I remember saying I can’t or don’t want to do this and everyone gave each other a look and I felt so guilty for saying that! But now I see the look was probably more like them acknowledging that this was it.

  • @chimairamoody3883
    @chimairamoody38834 жыл бұрын

    My epidural wore off at the end of my induction, right as I was starting to contract intensely and it was HORRIBLE never again. Ended up giving birth without the pain relief but made meeting my lil lady so much more relieving/exciting

  • @jazmingonzalez78

    @jazmingonzalez78

    4 жыл бұрын

    Chimaira Moody that’s my biggest fear. Course with my luck, that would happen to me too

  • @mariamsargsian3820
    @mariamsargsian38202 жыл бұрын

    You are making me less scared of birth and i really appreciate it! Thanks! Very positive vlogs and very informative!

  • @jencameron8968
    @jencameron8968 Жыл бұрын

    Research until you can answer every question you have It takes preparation, like anything you want to succeed at, but you can do it without pain. You are awesome

  • @romyberbea4322
    @romyberbea43223 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for all the informations !!i’ve been watching your videos until the last day. I gave birth on 12/12/2020 with minimum tearing due the ring of fire info! I love my birth experience and i’m very happy about it thank you for sharing your knowledge on this platform!

  • @Dia2four43
    @Dia2four434 жыл бұрын

    I’m due in two weeks and I am SO glad I found your channel and these videos. You’ve given me more information than any of my doctors have, thank you so much!

  • @Dia2four43

    @Dia2four43

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@DeeJames1024 why?

  • @mariahwalts6388
    @mariahwalts63882 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for these videos! I am a FTM and I’m due June 19th, I’m in the homestretch. I’m nervous about labor pain and birth. I have a doula and an incredible and supportive husband who is gonna be by my side, and I do have the epidural ready for me if I’ll need it, which I feel like I will cause I am awful with pain, but I just watched your breathing technique videos and now these and I feel more prepared. I want to stay home as long as I can before going in to the hospital.

  • @stephanieo8925
    @stephanieo8925 Жыл бұрын

    Watched this and commenting again! So so helpful to refresh.

  • @deejayslowmotion6428
    @deejayslowmotion64284 жыл бұрын

    Thank you a lot... I'm saving your videos to watch for when the big day comes.. And it's gonna be soon, maybe next week or this weekend.. Don't know.. I'm a first time mom and i wanna deliver baby naturally without medication just like my mom and my grandma did.. I want to fully experience pregnancy and birth.. That will be such a blissful moment.. And yeah, can't wait to meet baby.. I really really hope he's got his dad's beautiful eyes 😍

  • @NiaNook
    @NiaNook4 жыл бұрын

    I was preparing myself with videos like yours, about when to push and how to breath through contractions. When the pressure of the baby's head against me, everything was going so fast and the fight-or-flight senses kicked in. The nurses and OB/GYN came rushing in and were pressuring me to push long and hard when the ring of fire was super painful. I ended up getting the baby out in, probably only 20 minutes of pushing, but ended up with 3rd degree tears. Ugh! Hopefully I'm better prepared next time, because I never want to do that again and was so panicked, I ended up listening to the staff instead of my body, despite everything I studied and wrote in my birth plan.

  • @nazreennakeeb1874
    @nazreennakeeb18743 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the best summary regarding the 3 stages of labour. So much clearer now. God bless you hon. Xox

  • @pressygarcia2755
    @pressygarcia27554 жыл бұрын

    I definitely subscribed, I’m a first time mom and I’m TERRIFIED of giving birth 😫 I meet my babygirl December 28th 🥰💖

  • @stacygriffith6352

    @stacygriffith6352

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm the 29th🥴

  • @ttsexton9445

    @ttsexton9445

    4 жыл бұрын

    28th is my bday

  • @sarahc4163

    @sarahc4163

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m 19th this month 🥰

  • @pressygarcia2755

    @pressygarcia2755

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sarah C 🥰🥰 I hope you have a safe and healthy delivery! Congrats ❤️

  • @sarahc4163

    @sarahc4163

    4 жыл бұрын

    Pressy Garcia thank you gorgeous! You too mama 🥰💕

  • @splitarrowfarm
    @splitarrowfarm Жыл бұрын

    Loved this 3 part series thanks so much for sharing such great content!

  • @thebeautycafebyerika
    @thebeautycafebyerika4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much !!! We are having our first child in November and this 3 part serious has been so helpful to help educate myself and my husband. 🥰🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽🤰🏽👶🏽

  • @thebeautycafebyerika

    @thebeautycafebyerika

    4 жыл бұрын

    Also has always been a goal for myself to go natural , as long as it’s possible and safe to do so. I know we can all go in with plans and things can go so many ways but I’m sticking to positivity and speaking a natural birth into existence

  • @darelyndamiles9321
    @darelyndamiles932111 ай бұрын

    This is my first natural birth and I'm watching your videos to get ready. I hope I can get through it. 🙏

  • @xNintenJenx
    @xNintenJenx4 жыл бұрын

    This is both terrifying and helpful for me. My baby isn't due for another 5 months but trying so hard to prepare! In the country I am in epidurals are often not an option and my hospital doesn't do them so I have no choice but a natural birth!

  • @alyssamusil9941
    @alyssamusil99413 жыл бұрын

    Wow, my OB asked me to take pitocin when I had this rest period. I thought it was bad but now I wish I took that rest instead! I wish I knew. Also, I pushed for so long but I had no tears and wonder if that long pushing was my body's way of preventing tears. Thankful for my body! Thanks for sharing. :)

  • @TheRenaissanceAmazon
    @TheRenaissanceAmazon2 жыл бұрын

    This is an excellent and helpful video. Thanks so much!

  • @Mxmma1400
    @Mxmma14004 жыл бұрын

    I’m due in about 4 weeks or so and I’m so scared but you’re so calming! Definitely binge watching alll of your videos😂❤️😅

  • @dcoke89

    @dcoke89

    4 жыл бұрын

    Xavion’s Momma I’m due in 4 weeks as well 😬 good luck ! Lol

  • @Mxmma1400

    @Mxmma1400

    4 жыл бұрын

    dcoke89 you too girl!! I hope we both have healthy deliveries and babies❤️

  • @Priscilla_Guerrero

    @Priscilla_Guerrero

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here! Eeek! Very excited!

  • @shellybelle6781

    @shellybelle6781

    4 жыл бұрын

    How did it go!??? I’m due in 4 weeks .

  • @Emseeaye
    @Emseeaye4 жыл бұрын

    I go in tomo for my induction! Eeeeekkk plan on re-watching you videos during the first 12ish hours before the pitocin

  • @hclements3884
    @hclements3884Ай бұрын

    These videos are great, but it's good to remember that these are generalizations and birth can go so many different ways. With my second baby my placenta felt like jello, but with my third my placenta was extremely difficult to birth, even harder than getting my second baby out had been. I felt totally blindsided by the experience and had a very hard time emotionally with my placenta struggles, I think partly because I was so surprised and confused that I was having to work extremely hard to get through the placenta part. Now I'm pregnant with my fourth and I'm working on preparing myself to practice radical acceptance all throughout birth and lean deeply into my intuition and what my body is telling me.

  • @elliebee6448
    @elliebee64483 жыл бұрын

    I remember 30 minutes of desperately wanting to push before the nurse finally gave me the okay. Then, when she set me up for pushing and I experienced the first real push, I didn’t want to push anymore (it was so so uncomfortable)! I wonder if it was because I was on my back! I’m hoping this time (2-3 weeks away!) I will be able to push in a more comfortable position.

  • @healthiswealth27
    @healthiswealth27 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for all your videos. I just had my cute baby and i used some of your technics and they worked.

  • @neomakobe3075
    @neomakobe30754 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for being so candid! Thank goodness I found you. I'm 38w+6d with my first child, and I've been freaking out(still am, lol), but I'm feeling much better knowing what I should more or less expect.

  • @stephjose9401
    @stephjose94015 ай бұрын

    Getting so excited for our natural birth at a Birth Center for baby number 2. This is helpful!!!

  • @swayj1020
    @swayj10204 жыл бұрын

    I wish I would've watched this before I gave birth. I had a un medicated birth. I didn't handle well. Babies head got stuck on my cervix at 9cm and my body was telling me to push while nurses said I couldn't because I would tear my cervix. So after she got unstuck and I got the green to push I pushed her out in 3 pushes. I don't remember feeling the ring of fire but I tore second degree. I'm hoping for no tears next baby.

  • @meganarcidiacono4556
    @meganarcidiacono45564 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your information. My classes are cancelled due to COVID-19 pandemic. Loved your short videos!

  • @malorie8557
    @malorie85573 жыл бұрын

    It's really not the labour or delivery that scares me - it's not being strong enough to telling the nurses I want to do what my body tells me NOT them. I have had two friends who recently had babies at the hospital I will be deliverying at and the nurses do seem to care what the patient wants but I'm still so nervous I will just let them tell me what to do.

  • @stephanieo8925
    @stephanieo89252 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this! Birthing my third in about three or so weeks at home♥️

  • @nka4622
    @nka46225 жыл бұрын

    Really great video, thanks! With such informative videos, you’ll have soooo many subscribers in no time! Loved the way you explained everything.

  • @BridgetTeyler

    @BridgetTeyler

    5 жыл бұрын

    So glad they're helping people!

  • @kiimbyBela
    @kiimbyBela4 жыл бұрын

    Do you have a video on positions for when pushing? Which did you do that were helpful?

  • @espiojan
    @espiojan4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Bridget, I am due to give birth soon and wanted to say thank you for your videos. Now with Covid, it is almost impossible to have any classes. I found your videos informative and has educated me so much on birthing.

  • @annetums
    @annetums4 жыл бұрын

    I do have one question, I’m delivering twins. How is the process when the second one comes out? It it much easier then the first since your body has already pushed out the firSt? As well when do placentas come out if they’re seperate?

  • @JennaJenna15
    @JennaJenna159 ай бұрын

    I feel like I asked for the epidural when I was in transition. I was 8cm dilated and was having the worst contractions and was projectile vomiting. I couldn’t control the pain of my contractions or my vomiting, so I asked for the epidural. I secretly prayed that I would push baby out by the time they arrived with the epidural, but that didn’t happen 😭 I got the epidural and was so happy to not feel the pain anymore. 2 hours later, I pushed baby out. I often feel sad and beat myself up about getting the epidural because I so badly wanted to birth unmedicated, but I gave in. I’m so grateful and thankful for a healthy baby and an amazing labor and delivery, but I don’t know how I could have continued with the pain and vomiting for any longer. I pray next time I will get my wish of an unmedicated labor 🙏🏼

  • @spartacus3015
    @spartacus30152 жыл бұрын

    I'm a couple days late on this video. Still good info. Didnt experience this with the first, but definitely did this time around.

  • @cynethaprosta2665
    @cynethaprosta26658 ай бұрын

    Whoops I'm 39 weeks and 6 days but I'm thankful for this videos ❤

  • @TheHollexandria
    @TheHollexandria3 жыл бұрын

    Love your videos! I'm 28 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child, hoping to go natural with this one because I hated the way the epidural made me feel with my first.

  • @badgerlife9541

    @badgerlife9541

    Жыл бұрын

    How did the epidural make you feel?

  • @carissaexplainsitall8481
    @carissaexplainsitall84814 жыл бұрын

    Had my first unmediated birth a week ago, and yes, that Ring of Fire is no joke!! Lol

  • @kristicallies8979

    @kristicallies8979

    Жыл бұрын

    Ring of fire and pooping on myself are things I’m not looking forward to 😭

  • @dianawilliams8801
    @dianawilliams88013 жыл бұрын

    Love this

  • @monicasmith5785
    @monicasmith5785 Жыл бұрын

    I had that peaceful moment with my third and I was SO worried everything was just starting all over again! 😂

  • @casd.5485
    @casd.54854 жыл бұрын

    My first born is 11 😳 I’m due March 1st I’m soooo nervous. But watching your videos are helping so I can be a little more prepared. Ps. I don’t remember the ring of fire from the first birth. And it was a natural birth.

  • @melmckenna4599
    @melmckenna45994 жыл бұрын

    You are awesome thank you

  • @juliart9479
    @juliart94795 ай бұрын

    I wonder if the “I can’t do this!” reaction that is so common is a result of the kick of adrenaline that accompanies transition which is activating a sort of fight/flight response 🤔

  • @tangerine5940
    @tangerine59402 жыл бұрын

    When your waiting to push and its the ring of fire feeling, does that feeling fade or do you just wait and then push into it? How do you know when its safe to push?

  • @kaylacrandall8961
    @kaylacrandall89612 жыл бұрын

    I'm on baby 4 and I'm so worried I will tear. I'm trying to make sure i practice a lot more with this baby so I don't tear...it's hard to find doctors who support you in labor, they try to force a modern approach on me every single time and I can't just birth the way I want to.

  • @alishalp6260
    @alishalp62602 жыл бұрын

    I love this video the post of everyone 🤗

  • @suriarasid4455
    @suriarasid44554 жыл бұрын

    For my 2nd child, I was dilated 10cm, I had the contractions but not ovelmelming feeling the urge to push. Is it possible to be dilated at 10cm but the contractions not strong? I'm now pregnant at 34 weeks and hoping to give birth naturally at home because I feel like the midwives for my last birth just pressurized me to push for every contractions and the doctor advised me to have 2nd c sect fear of uterine rupture

  • @3bianca3
    @3bianca34 жыл бұрын

    How much does perineal massage for a few weeks help with tearing or the ring of fire, in your experience? I'm trying anything to help prevent a tear at this point.

  • @kaykareem6922

    @kaykareem6922

    3 жыл бұрын

    Did you find it helpful?? Please let us know

  • @tanyachapel1162
    @tanyachapel11624 жыл бұрын

    With my last birth I woke up in the middle of the night with pressure feeling like I had to "poop". I did not have to :) I timed a few contractions, determined I should probably go to the hospital and arrived in triage at 8 cm. It was go time when I got rushed to the delivery room. I remember asking the triage nurse if I could still get an epidural. Hah!

  • @LorGaoZong
    @LorGaoZong Жыл бұрын

    2nd baby but I’m terrified tbh. I’m doing a TOLAC… I’m still scared about the pain and the just everything. But I’m going to try harder for myself.

  • @ErumDesigns21
    @ErumDesigns212 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing! It gives me courage when I listen to you during this fragile time of my life. I recently hired a birth doula I’m 28 weeks pregnant. This is my first pregnancy. Do you have any suggestions for me in terms of preparing for a successful delivery? And what can I ask of her that will help?

  • @glitterginger

    @glitterginger

    2 жыл бұрын

    Watch as many natural homebirth video stories as you can! It will gove you what REAL childbirth is like and prepare you so you can do it on your own. Every story is different. Every birth is different too. Practice affirmations and really believe you can do this. You are made for this. Water definitely helps with softening tissues, keeping hydrated and birthing!

  • @sheilayangyang9318
    @sheilayangyang93182 жыл бұрын

    It is super helpful! Thank you so much!

  • @maricelaadams1730
    @maricelaadams17302 жыл бұрын

    Any experience with the TENs machine for back labor?

  • @mlind-je5jn
    @mlind-je5jn4 жыл бұрын

    I'm so scared :( having my first baby in about 5 weeks give or take.

  • @mandatory1561
    @mandatory15612 жыл бұрын

    It f****** HURTS!!

  • @TheHonorofKings
    @TheHonorofKings4 жыл бұрын

    Ring of fire!!!! 🔥😫😖😭🔥

  • @oak_leaf
    @oak_leaf2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, I'm wondering how streching and massage of these areas along with eating date, drinking raspberry leaves tea, applying primrose oil may affect that burning sensation. Last pregnancy I used only massage but without too much streching and I've experienced the ring of fire which ended up with rupture by midwife (she told me my baby wasn't well at this point which is impossible for me to verify) and it actually gave me relief. Also, I learned that, while on all four, I can lower my chest so that my hips are much higher and that way my baby goes down slower but does that help at that advanced stage of labour when you feel a strong urge to push? I'd love your insight. Thanks!

  • @qas9546
    @qas95462 жыл бұрын

    I was in so much pain with my two births that I never felt the ring of fire. Hoping to deliver my third in a few days and not have to experience it.

  • @marvaagnon4276
    @marvaagnon42764 ай бұрын

    My first child got stuck, and I was in transition for 3 hours!!! I was asking for epidural after an hour, but I had to wait in line. It was crazy.

  • @penguinqueen421
    @penguinqueen4214 жыл бұрын

    I didnt get ring of fire until after baby came out, like he came out and my whole coochie felt like it was on fire& them the nurse put a ice pack on my cooch & i was like ooohhhhh myyyy godddd yessssss lol

  • @jaleysart4657
    @jaleysart46574 жыл бұрын

    This was so helpful, due in 12 days and so nervous 😩

  • @royalg6722

    @royalg6722

    4 жыл бұрын

    Was it scary how we all think?

  • @jaleysart4657

    @jaleysart4657

    4 жыл бұрын

    ROYAL G no i actually had really smooth experience, was only in labor for 9 hours and my baby came out in 6 pushes 🙏🏽

  • @royalg6722

    @royalg6722

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@jaleysart4657 awwww !!! So happy to hear it went well for you.

  • @shab5430
    @shab5430 Жыл бұрын

    Very helpful but I’m super scared. The first one is always the hardest they say.

  • @makaylahawes9603
    @makaylahawes9603 Жыл бұрын

    I have not had a baby yet and don’t plan to become pregnant for a couple more years, but I am so excited to become a mom and pregnancy excites me!! I’m also interested in becoming a doula so your account is amazing ❤

  • @dearsierra4913
    @dearsierra49133 жыл бұрын

    First baby here, I really want to do it all natural.. My mother had 4 children, and had them all without medication. We all weighed about 7-9 lbs, and she said she did it just fine. So maybe genetics are on my side? Idk, but I want to do this naturally

  • @GermaineBalmania
    @GermaineBalmania3 жыл бұрын

    I’m a little over 5 months and I’m due in February. I’m planning to go all natural and I’m so scared. Good luck to all the mamas

  • @DeeJames1024

    @DeeJames1024

    3 жыл бұрын

    How many weeks are you? I'm 29 weeks & due 2/7/21.

  • @GermaineBalmania

    @GermaineBalmania

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@DeeJames1024 Today I’m 26 weeks and 6 days ❤️✨ I wish you a safe and amazing mama 😊

  • @xxxTacoJuicexxx
    @xxxTacoJuicexxx6 ай бұрын

    I’ve been searching high and low for info on how to breath when actively pushing, is it like on tv the “hoo hoo hee” sort of breathing? Thank you in advance to anyone who can help!

  • @katherinechavez-chavarria4298
    @katherinechavez-chavarria42983 жыл бұрын

    How long does the ring of fire last? I’m due in June with my 1st and really want to have an unmedicated birth

  • @ninahanjra6606
    @ninahanjra66064 жыл бұрын

    I agree so much to ur point that you say you can’t do it until you do it 😂.

  • @SychJess
    @SychJess2 жыл бұрын

    I wish I watched this before I gave birth. I had a second, almost third degree tear I think because when I felt the ring of fire I just pushed right through it because I knew the only way to get it to stop was to get him out. Bummer.

  • @angvel6783
    @angvel67834 жыл бұрын

    How can you deal with the pain when you get them on all three places??

  • @fatimaessa6838
    @fatimaessa68385 жыл бұрын

    thank you so much for the amazing videos ! . you said that i should resist the urge of pushing during " the ring of fire " but what is the right time to push?

  • @BridgetTeyler

    @BridgetTeyler

    5 жыл бұрын

    Great question! When women experience the ring of fire the most common reaction is to push less, but your body is going to do a lot of the pushing all on it's own at that point. So either way your body is going to be doing the work. It's really difficult to resist the urge to push by the end, so when you're feeling like you need to push, go for it!

  • @fatimaessa6838

    @fatimaessa6838

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@BridgetTeyler thanks a lot for your answer ❤

  • @mariahiggins4787

    @mariahiggins4787

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m almost crying watching this video because I had such an intense urge to push but because I was only 8.5cm dilated I was not allowed to push. Resisting the urge was way to hard, I still have a ptsd from it 2.5 years later. Now I’m getting induced with baby#2 in 10 days and am so nervous about this stage of labor. I will definitely try this breathing technique but is there any other tips you can give on how to resist the urge to push? Thanks for your videos. They are so informative and I’ve been practicing some of your breathing and excerice techniques!!

  • @marianemashkalo4182
    @marianemashkalo41822 жыл бұрын

    Damn)) any advice for those of us expecting twins?:) first time future mom here

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