I always encourage dying patients to let go of whatever is holding them from resting in peace. I bet this is what he needed to rest.

@i_Like_Desserts

Жыл бұрын

If I was a dying patient, I would be so glad to have someone listen to me while I talk about things that have been holding me back. And I agree! This might have just been what he needed to say. Read more

@Child.DazaiOsamu

Жыл бұрын

@@i_Like_Desserts we already clicked on the real ‘read more’ 😭

@chaislaw5014

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't visit my grandmother b.cos she just doubled down on her lies and manipulations in her death bed To the point of actual cruelty, telling her husband of 68 years , my grandfather, that she cld hav done better, and that he was never good enough....she was an abusive liar her whole life, ppl don't change just cos they are dying

@ellengrace4609

Жыл бұрын

@@chaislaw5014 That is horrible. Your grandfather will have a difficult and complicated grief. 😢 You’re right, these horrible people actually get more cruel as they get older.

@chaislaw5014

Жыл бұрын

@@ellengrace4609 it was devastating to hear and made me very relieved I didn't go see her because vi was the only person in the family who wouldn't take her abuse, and I did not want to upset my grandad Futher by fighting with his wife on her deathbed, and I wldn't have let her use dying as an excuse either. My mum and grandfather cared for her at home for as long as was possible and she was vile and ungrateful until the end.

I thought my grandparents' confessions at the end of their lives were wild. They were not really "murdering a family member," but my grandmother's first child caught dysentery (back when people died of this) and after a doctor repeatedly scolded her that the only "cure" was to completely stop feeding the child, and her husband enforcing the "diet," she had to sit by and watch as the toddler slowly starved to death. You could see in her eyes that my grandmother never forgave herself.... which made her habit of immediately asking us grandkids if we were hungry as soon as we arrived at the farmhouse and her obsession with constantly cooking massive meals for us... suddenly rather dark. 😢

@theopkingdom3433

Жыл бұрын

😢😢😢😢😢. Tragic... 🥺🥺🥺

@susieries3947

Жыл бұрын

My father remembered as he got older being very sick at about age 3 and his mother holding him and the doctor saying “feed him anything he wants because he’s going to die anyway.” His mother Gave him coffee and somehow he survived

@krazyworld6433

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't stay with my husband after he enforced a "diet" like that.

@xinnasinpatria3202

Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

@mamad4551

Жыл бұрын

Dam. This would explain why people in the south are always offering food and a cold drink and even shelter or a ride because I was forbidden for so long

Deathbed confession are one of the craziest things to hear. It's like being honest last minute and "getting away with it"

@sknapp19911

Жыл бұрын

Wild that there’s something about crossing that threshold where we instinctively don’t wanna have that kept in and have the urge to confess it.

@DH-gk8vh

Жыл бұрын

Hmmmm...do they "get away with it"? There's much to deal with on the otherside.

@Veela666

Жыл бұрын

​@@DH-gk8vh you mean the empty void?

@annadentis9743

Жыл бұрын

​@@Veela666 I doubt that we all are going through difficulties for ultimately no reason

@ellengrace4609

Жыл бұрын

I read somewhere that the most common deathbed confession by women is that their child/children’s father is not the real father. I assumed this is what my mother told my dad about me. My dad and I had a close relationship until my mother died. After, he was very mean to me but started treating my sister like a Queen. He would look at me and yell “she’s my daughter.” I was so confused by that initially. Then the pieces started coming together. I took both the Ancestry and 23andme dna tests and it appears my “real” dad is actually a relative of my mother, though I can’t seem to get conclusive answers.

My grandpa just a week before he died tried to tell my mom about a brother she didn't know that she had he said "i want to see my son" and when asked which one he said "the one i left behind." He was very urgent and insisted that he had a third son but as he was explaining a nurse came and wheeled him out because visiting time had ended. We beileve that the son he was asking to see may have been from his first marriage when he was stationed in Japan during the Korean War, when the war ended he was forced to leave behind his wife because the USA didn't recognize their marriage. My mom found a photo of his arms around a small boy but up until that last visit with grandpa he had always said that the photo was of one of his comrads sons. We will probably never find my Japanese uncle because we have no documentation of him or my grandpa's first wife's name.

@sierrarescott3227

Жыл бұрын

I recommend doing 23&me and Ancesty. You never know. Maybe he's on there.

@ginblossom70

Жыл бұрын

During the Korean war if a GI had a baby with a Korean woman, the Korean government would not allow that woman and child to leave. Sometimes they punished the woman. Sad. I once worked with our Veterans of war and some told me sad stories about Korea and Vietnam.

@kimberly8185

Жыл бұрын

Do a DNA test !! You never know what will come up!!

@jasminepetal3972

Жыл бұрын

Ask around in japan w you grabdpas young picture?!?!

@sarahmurphy-nf4yl

Жыл бұрын

😢 😭

One of my great aunts killed her abusive first husband. He was on a ladder working on their gutters, she pushed the ladder over, and he fell on their fence and died. This was back in the 30s when divorce wasn't really a thing, she had married him when she was 16 and he was 32 and he had the "accident" when she was 19. She later remarried, had several children, and lived quite happily with her second husband. She confessed to the whole family on her deathbed. Nobody was overly surprised cause she never was one to take someone's shit lying down.

@meganmoney3479

Жыл бұрын

He was twice her age? Was that recognized as pedophilic by scientists back then despite the social acceptance? I’m sorry if this was too far, you don’t have to answer the question

@muzikluva86

Жыл бұрын

Good for her🥰

@loef27

Жыл бұрын

She would of been a hero to a lot of women then and now!

@melanieclark7949

Жыл бұрын

@@loef27 ...would have...

@hashtagmate

Жыл бұрын

That is extremely justified. I can't even imagine what horrible abuse the poor girl had been put through by the hands of this (closeted) pedophile Good for her

My mother did in-home hospice care for a retired NYPD detective. The stories he would tell her about how police operated back in the day WAS PRICELESS. They would let the fathers or husbands of r-pe victims have 5mins alone with the suspect and a rubber hose. When he was still in blues he repeatedly went out to domestics for this one couple (in a day and age where that was rarely reported), and hubby was always tuning up the wife. He finally broke her jaw, and some ribs that punctured her lung. She lived but it was bad and she was too scared to pursue charges. So the cop goes to the guy and tells him he has a warrant for his arrest, cuffed him, put him in the squad car and “drove him out to a nice spot in Long Island and made sure he’d never find his way back home”. It’s crazy what ppl confess to when they’re very old or dying

@minigol91

Жыл бұрын

Honestly good for him!

@squidwardstentacle

Жыл бұрын

now that's justice

@sI0m0

Жыл бұрын

now this is the type of shit we gotta bring back😭

@cicelypatterson3927

Жыл бұрын

Now THAT is what I call justice

@rebeccakleitz3177

Жыл бұрын

This cop was one of the good ones.

I worked in a nursing home/rehab faculty to pay for school when I was younger and heard something similar. An older man I would usually play cards with was terminally ill, one night he asked if he could confess something to me, I said yeah sure expecting something silly b/c he was a bit loopy. He got real serious and started talking about when he was around 12 years old him and his 8 year old sister were out playing in the woods behind his house. He had dared her to jump off a big rock and she wouldn't do it, so he climbed up and pushed her off. She fell and hit her head on a log and started bleeding and screaming, he got real scared he would get in trouble so he took his jacket off and covered her face to make her quiet but she was still screaming and crying so he picked up a stick and started hitting the jacket. He stopped, picked up his jacket and she was dead. Said he got really scared then and ran home. a little while later he went back with a garden tool and dug out around the bottom of the big rock(it was on some sort of an incline with a little crevice at the bottom or something like that that would get washed out when the creek near it would flood he said), he dug out some debris and rolled her back in it then covered it up with a bunch of leaves and sticks. That evening when his parents got home they asked where his sister was and he told them she had gone to their cousins house to play. He said after he told them that he took his sisters bike and laid it beside the road half way between his and his aunts house so his dad would think someone in a car had kidnapped her. It started getting dark and his sister wasn't back so his mom went to walk to his aunts house to get her, found the bike and then found out she wasn't with her cousin and ran back home. His dad drove to the police station and everybody started searching for her, he said this went on for several days but never found her. That summer they got a bad storm and the creeks flooded and her body was found on a creek bank a mile from their house. He said everybody assumed a man had taken her and killed her but that it was actually him that had done it. He even said his parents thought it was his uncle, his moms sisters husband at the time b/c he had said his sister was going to his cousins house to play. Said his dad eventually drank himself to death and his mother never talked about his sister much after it happen. I thought it was very weird but he did have some issues, some times he would forget how to play the card game we would always play. His daughter and her son would come on Saturdays to spend time with him some times, a couple weeks later I saw them so I made small talk and some how brought up something about his sister and his daughter said her dad didn't have any sisters just 2 brothers. I was so relieved. Not long after he passed away, his brother and a couple other people came to collect his belongings and I asked if I could attend the funeral since we were good card buddies, his brother said of course I'm sure he would like that. He told me where the funeral home was and then where he was going to be buried..... and this part I'll never forget... he said I guess the family will be together again, he'll be with mom, dad and little Caroline again. That was what he said his sisters name was. I said I didn't think he had any sisters, he said oh yeah, but she died a long time ago. I just got speechless and said ok, see you there. I didn't go to the funeral but now wish I had or at least asked a few questions to his brother. I really got to thinking about it, the way he talked about digging out under the rock to hid the body, lying to his parents about her going to his cousins and even taking the bike to make it look like someone in a car had taken her... it sounded like a lil serial killer in the making, for a couple months after I was obsessed with it, I knew he probably had other victims. I tried searching old archives, newspaper articles anything I could find about missing people or unsolved deaths. I never found anything I thought could be him but damn, I really wish I had said something about it to his brother tho.

@wabbajack4461

Жыл бұрын

Wow to have someone lay that on you. Can't imagine.

@makelightofthedarkness

Жыл бұрын

W.O.A.H

@phenitagomes1292

Жыл бұрын

May she rest in peace

@sarahlovesbudgies

Жыл бұрын

Damn! That sounds like a VERY heavy weight to have layed on your shoulders!

@dianegreen1937

Жыл бұрын

Too much details to not be true.

That’s wild! Related: There’s a guy that started a service of *funeral* confessions. Terminally ill people hire him to read confession letters at their funerals.

@mdeborah827

Жыл бұрын

How much does it pay?

@zeenoash.8805

Жыл бұрын

True. How much is the pay?

@caseydonners9220

Жыл бұрын

I’ve seen this there was an officer that died and was reading a letter left to his children it was sad

@WxBuggin

Жыл бұрын

​@@mdeborah827I hear the guy makes a killing

@mdeborah827

Жыл бұрын

@@WxBuggin I need to check this line of work out.

Vietnam really was so super hard on so many. My uncle was a helicopter gunner so killed alot of people. When he was on his death bed he cried alot and said that he was worried he wouldn't get into heaven and it broke my heart so much

My grandmother’s mom got smallpox and those days in their culture, if someone was near death, they carried them to the Forrest and left there to die alone without infecting others. She was left deep in the woods at the verge of death only to show up months later with no memory of where she’d been or how she had survived.

@hellowendy1029

Жыл бұрын

Whoaaaa. That's insane!!! Is your grandmother still alive? You should get her to give a verbal history of everything she remembers about that story so it's documented for history!

@meganmoney3479

Жыл бұрын

Is there any more to that story?

@virginia9629

Жыл бұрын

@@meganmoney3479 unfortunately there’s not much coz the small pox outbreak was in 1890 and my grandma’s mom passed in the 1960s and grandma a few years ago.

@thienngo7252

Жыл бұрын

@@hellowendy1029 it shouldn’t I think. Since you know our body have a mechanism where if you really really really wish to delete something you would actually command the brain to do it? Think. What a person in a forest full of dead bodies or dying people live a month on? Hunt animals or go berry picking? Or a kind fairy nurse her back to health? It must have been something horrible that she forced herself to delete that memory completely

@hellowendy1029

Жыл бұрын

@@thienngo7252 no you're totally right. I'm sure her brain blocked a lot out!!

I had a great friend that delusionally lied on his death bed. All of our close friends were at his hospital bedside telling him our great and funny stories of our friendship. When we were finished bawling our eyes out, he spoke. He told us how grateful he was to have us. He then proceeded to tell us about being a secret intelligence agent. We all listened intently to all of his stories. All his stories mirrored the exact storylines of so many spy movies. I'm guessing his dying wish was for us to know him as a great hero. We're still wondering to this day what must have come over him because his stories were his last words. He passed overnight.

@Blssc

Жыл бұрын

Idk to me,this old man is probably clean. Nothing hunting his conscience. I hope so at least. Thanks for sharing!

@MissUnConcerned

Жыл бұрын

@@Blssc Sadly he was only 56. He was just an all-around great guy to know and be around. If you listen to country music, he was the type of guy who Tracy Lawrence was singing about. The song is " You find out who your friends are". Also, thank you for your response.

@hellowendy1029

Жыл бұрын

Depending on what his illness was, he may not have been consciously lying. Sometimes the brain will confuse memories of the persons life with memories of things seen on tv/movies.

@redtailarts101

4 ай бұрын

Maybe he just... Remembered the movies but couldn't remember that they were movies.

And older lady I knew many years ago had a longtime friend of hers do a deathbed confession that shocked her. She said the woman told her that she and her husband desperately wanted a child but the women never got pregnant. It was during the Depression and there was no money for doctors. Her husband took a job where he was going to be away from home for a few weeks and he asked a neighbor to stop by every day to check on his wife. The neighbor agreed to do so. When he did, the woman got to thinking, this man has seven children - what if it was her husband that had fertility problems? In desperation she deliberately seduced this neighbor when he came to "check on her" every day. Her husband returned from out of town and was none the wiser. Nine months later their daughter was born. The woman had never told anyone about this, never confessed it to a priest, but wanted to tell someone before she passed away. Well, my lady friend was shocked to the core, but it was a deathbed confession. She took it and left it at that.

@kalijanis8288

Жыл бұрын

That’s crazy 😮

@DoubleDogDare54

Жыл бұрын

@@kalijanis8288 She never told her daughter the truth either. Just wanted to confess it to someone before she died.

@kalijanis8288

Жыл бұрын

@@DoubleDogDare54 yeah, I couldn’t imagine that… damn

My dad didn’t have any confessions to be made. He was half-awake, in pain and confused, but every time one of us said “I love you” (we said it to him practically at the end of every sentence for those last couple of days), he always said it back. At the end, all you have is your truth, and now I often think what a special person he was, that this was his truth. But it tracks. It’s how he lived every day of the 43 years I knew him.

This made me think of something strange that happened to my husband just a while back. He works for a package delivery service, and one of his regular stops is a nursing home. One day he walks in to make his deliveries, and this little old man walks up to him. The man was crying, with tears streaming down his face, and he looks at my husband and he says, "I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. I am so so sorry." Just apologizing over and over and over again, crying the whole time. My husband didn't really know what to make of it, but he just smiled and told him, "it's ok, you don't need to be sorry, it's ok." Eventually, one of the nurses saw what was going on and retrieved the man and took him back to his room. My best guess is that my husband looks like somebody that the man used to know. And I can't help but wonder.. what did that man do? He was clearly nearing the end and was deeply haunted by something. Whatever it was, I'm glad it was my husband that he approached, as he's naturally a very upbeat and gentle person. I'm hoping that he (albeit unwittingly) brought that man a little bit of peace that day.

A woman confessed to a co-worker of mine that she had run an illegal child sex trafficing ring for almost 30 years. She was never caught and the only reason she had stopped was because she got sick. The woman confessed because she thought her cancer (a particularly nasty one) was her punishment and that by confessing she would get into heaven since she was Christian. Which is sadly a wildly held belief. No matter what you do, you can just ask for forrgivess and it's magicly okay to torture hundreds of children.

@viys3261

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, that idea makes me feel sick. Literally just replied to someone who said that confessing warrants forgiveness in response to a black nurse who refused to forgive people for confessing to atrocious crimes against black people.

@Lolibeth

Жыл бұрын

That's really common in Protestant sects where profession of true belief is the only 'requirement' for salvation. It can be...really messed up, but it explains a lot about the USA

@Lori_L

Жыл бұрын

​@EAH that isn't just a belief in the US but with protestants everywhere in the world. Don't catholics also believe the same thing?

@JF32304

Жыл бұрын

Well, it says in the word that it you confess your sins before me I am rightful and just to forgive you. So yeah, they confess on their deathbed and are forgiven, I just wish they would have done it earlier and had a better life. But damn child sex trafficking for 30 years and calling yourself a Christian at the same time .. damn ok.

@viys3261

Жыл бұрын

@@JF32304 Nah sorry, they’re burning in hell. Where’s the justice for the children?

I had an elderly patient with dementia tell me that while serving in Vietnam, his squad killed their lieutenant. The reason was the lieutenant was an idiot and was giving orders that were basically suicide missions. I didn’t doing anything about it because he has severe dementia and might be telling me something he saw on TV last night. You never know.

@lavee88

Жыл бұрын

My father inlaw was jumping out of helicopters behind enemy lines & he got qn dishonorable discharge for killing his lieutenant because he wasn't trying to kill no woman & children.

@YortOK

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like the plot to Platoon

@thebee0320

Жыл бұрын

I honestly wonder if trauma is associated or causative of dementia. Anecdotally, they all remember something, and that something is often a bad thing.

@piaaadah

Жыл бұрын

​@@lavee88he had morals. The women and children never signed up for that. Thanks for sharing.

@vitoribeiro

6 ай бұрын

This was actually very common during the Vietnam War. You shouldn't doubt about it

I had an older lady who realized this would be her last admission to the hospital. Slow day so I had lots of time to talk. She proceeded to tell me how she killed her father and husband by over dosing them on narcotics because " they needed to rest." I got up and called in a chaplain.

@theretrodragonyope

Жыл бұрын

I wonder if she did thay just to kill them or legit was trying to help them sleep?

@sarahmcinroy2321

Жыл бұрын

A friend of mine is training to be a chaplain... I can't even imagine the things people confess to them...

I’m a caregiver and I’ve had pedos with Alzheimer’s confess what they did and talk about it none stop like it was their favorite memory and they were desperately clinging to it. Changed my brain chemistry

@MidnightSunshine27

Жыл бұрын

Omg, pedos are the only type of ppl I could never forgive. I could never take care of them. You're so admirable. How do you do that? I just can't imagine listening to those confessions and helping them wash, I will hurt them for sure 😢

@ms.pirate

Жыл бұрын

I hope they rot in hell

@sarajohnson6855

Жыл бұрын

Some people need to be put down.

@SupremeKingSovereign

Жыл бұрын

​@@MidnightSunshine27 For me it is the people who rape while slowly killing the person for pleasure. I remember a story about a teen who abducted a small boy, he would dislocate the boys bones and reconnect them because he enjoyed the sound.

@high-bi-password

Жыл бұрын

And painfully at that.

Last year right before christmas, I took care of an old man at the hospital where I had my nurse training. He told me with tears in his eyes that he hasnt seen his family for years due to corona and because his family lived on the other side of the country. 2 days later, on boxing day, his family came to visit him at the hospital and he passed away while his family was with him in his room. I felt so relieved that he could see his family one last time before he closed his eyes forever.. :(

OH MY GAWD! My mother took her secrets with her. She didn't even tell anyone in the family her secret about my birth to ANYONE and now my family thinks I made up $#!+ years later. I finally found one tiny admission of her duplicity, like this one, it was in the Bible I had given her on her 50th birthday. Inside the Bible, stuffed in the pocket of the cloth cover was a photograph that was over 50 years old of a man. On the back of the photo was written, "your dad". By this time, she was two days away from dying of cancer Jan 2012, and my dad had died in 2006. He never got to know his only daughter because she was too selfish to tell me the truth. I do have a younger half brother that I hope to meet this year.

@rikkileannyarbrough

Жыл бұрын

I hope you do too. I’m one of 23 half and whole. I didn’t get to grow up with any of them. The last time I met a new sibling I was 17. And we still think there are more out there. Good luck!😊

@gaylabruce9904

Жыл бұрын

Rikki, I am so sorry for you having to deal with all that. It's so hard when we think we did something wrong because of the way our parents treated us. I am going to lift you up in prayer. I hope that's okay. 🤍🙏🤍🙏🤍

@sarahmcinroy2321

Жыл бұрын

My dear friends I grew up with didn't realize they had an older half brother until after their dad died suddenly. This mystery brother is happily married and has several kids. The eldest of my friends flew out to meet him and they got on so well and he moved out there to live near them. He now has a wife and kids of his own and their kids are the best of cousins.

I remember when I watched a video once explaining about a woman, who was working as a hospice nurse, and her patient was an 80 something year old woman who was not entirely coherent. this old woman ended up complaining that she was seeing a young black boy in her room and kept asking the nurse to make him leave, eventually it was found out that this woman had accused this young black boy of rape when she was young, and he was beaten and lynched, and when she was on her deathbed, the memory of him was torturing her.

@Gabrielle14lol

Жыл бұрын

Wait so he didn't actually-

@toobeeornottoobee

Жыл бұрын

@@Gabrielle14lol no she lied.

@toobeeornottoobee

Жыл бұрын

@@Gabrielle14lol im sorry for not making that clear

@ginblossom70

Жыл бұрын

Good for her. If there is a heaven, I hope she was tortured with the memories up there.

@angelagibbs1717

Жыл бұрын

I believe people who hurt and kill ppl before they die they suffer.. she got what she deserved for lying he haunted her.

My grandpa had dementia. When I'd go to visit he thought I was grandma. He started apologizing to me for things he'd done while he was away during WW2. That was kind of crazy. I talked to the nurses to find out the best way to respond. I just ended up telling him I loved him and grandma forgave him. He seemed happier so that was good.

I've heard of some messed up things happening involving wars but this one takes the cake

@missjo2036

Жыл бұрын

I'm sure something else will add to the cake

@leewizon

Жыл бұрын

I agree it's messed up but so is pretty much all of war. To me this is a very ignorant comment because I can think of far worse atrocities in that same war alone.

@alternativeprincess4783

Жыл бұрын

It's just that bad for me because it's family, not even just family but a twin, and he let his family think he had passed while not letting his brothers properly mourn him.

@bullymaguire1087

Жыл бұрын

What the American soldiers actually did in Vietnam is infinitely worse than what this guy did

@AB_Evans

Жыл бұрын

For sure. If this is true... Yikes. Humans can be absolutely cruel, and beyond insane. It's flabbergasting what some people are capable of doing - many times without a second thought...

I like to go out and visit homeless people and learn their stories. There was one gentleman that told me his name and then he told me that wasn't true that that had actually been his twin brother's name but. When his brother died he felt so lone that he started using his brother's name to feel closer to him.

@JF32304

Жыл бұрын

He's not homeless due to laziness, it's due to trauma. I've learned that here recently. It's got almost nothing to do with laziness but rather trauma.

@MrRickle

Жыл бұрын

@@JF32304 exactly, it’s like hoarders. It’s always trauma.

@lynneanderson4255

Жыл бұрын

​@@JF32304 - The "people are lazy and that why their homeless" trope is bs. It allows people to feel superior to others or assuages their guilt about their participation in or benefitting from a rigged system.

A reminder that when someone is on their deathbed, especially when they have dementia, they may not always be able to tell truth from fiction. It's pretty common for people to tell stories like this that are actually from movies or books, but the person thinks that they themselves experienced it.

@user-pi3hd2bt3f

Жыл бұрын

Okay but his daughter found a confession that he couldn't have written while he was dying from dementia

@eldritchteletubby9319

Жыл бұрын

@@user-pi3hd2bt3f i wasn't talking about this specific instance. Idk if the note is enough evidence, but I'm really talking about other examples. If someone's grandmother confesses that she killed 8 people before she dies, i don't want the person to just assume it's true without other proof.

@BizarreAvenir

Жыл бұрын

I wonder if we are old, we will think some TikTok that we watched happened in our life and we tell it as our story in some elderly homes

@imalrockme

Жыл бұрын

@@user-pi3hd2bt3f would the daughter show that confession to the nurse, years later?

@veronicamaine3813

Жыл бұрын

That’s the part of the story that makes me think the whole thing is not real - how would the nurse find this part out? I highly doubt the daughter is keeping the nurses contact details. It’s a story from a friend of a friend scenario- also if you known twins, as the wife would have known, you are able to tell them apart - they usually have small physical differences in addition to character differences ( one is taller, has a birthmark etc) If this is true the wife knew and just chose to not admit it.

I had a patient once tell me her daughter wasn't her biological daughter. Turned out to be true but no one knew until then! The daughter had some tests done and found out her biological mom was actually her moma sister. She had her at a young age during a traumatic period in her life and didn't want the baby so she gave it to her sister. She tried taking that to her grave.

That sounds like a really compelling movie. Tragic yes but I would watch that movie.

@bridgettehan9192

Жыл бұрын

Same

@YRO.

Жыл бұрын

Watch 'Brothers'. It's not the same story but has a similar vibe to it.

@q.t.gamingfamily

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. I think it's fake too

@q.t.gamingfamily

Жыл бұрын

​@@SuperNovaBass73probably crying too loudv that out risked exposing the entire platoon. That was a movie scene too.

@heathernks8

Жыл бұрын

​@@q.t.gamingfamily Exactly. It has to be fake. How would some rando hospice nurse know that YEEEEARRRS LATER the daughter found a confession in his Bible?😁 It's like folks drop all critical thinking skills the second someone plays a little spooky music🤣

Is it wrong for me to say I want a movie made based on this? I really want a movie based on this.

@HeatDeathDestiny

Жыл бұрын

A good plot is a good plot, no matter how weird or dark or offensive or whatever

@krystalnguyen3285

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I'd watch

@allmight5008

Жыл бұрын

There's one, asian movie actually

@lovelyscorp79

Жыл бұрын

I feel like it's been done. I could be wrong. But something tells me I'm not.

@chocolate_chipp_00

Жыл бұрын

A decent amount of this idea is found in the background of the character Don Draper in the show Mad Men.

If you've got old family bibles in your posession, seriously go through them. They were often used similarly to journals or diaries by families. We found out about an either stillborn or illegitimate sibling of my grandmother's after translating notes her father had written in the margins of the family bible. Her birthdate was there with her name at the top of the list of all the other siblings, but no living sibling had any knowledge or idea who she was. Crazy family secrets are lurking everywhere.

@Geolies

5 ай бұрын

Thanks for telling 😮

People have confessed secrets to me. They must be good at reading people because I'm taking the secrets to my death. I wish they would stop. It's to ease their burden, but then I have to share the burden. I feel sorry for priests and lawyers.

@analozanonorheim9466

Жыл бұрын

Please go to therapy. It's not your responsibility to take this burden on. You deserve peace.

@Kiss_My_Aspergers

Жыл бұрын

I don't know if you're into video games, but I'd really like you to look into the story of the one called _Fatal Frame III: The Tormented._ I believe the main story and themes are highly related to your current predicament and may in fact help you find an outlet for this role you've taken on. Please of course make sure you are seeing your GP at least semi-regularly, and that you're speaking to a therapist and/or psychiatrist. I would not be surprised if this "duty" of yours is causing PTSD/C-PTSD. I'm being completely serious and non-hyperbolic with this warning. Please take your mental health seriously and put your well-being at the top of your priority list. You can't help others when you are already in desperate need of help. When accepting others' Holly, be vigilant that you aren't swallowed by the Snake.

@phenitagomes1292

Жыл бұрын

For what

Whoa. Definitely NOT what I was expecting!!! This is just....crazy. I feel bad for the daughter though. All those years believing that was her father only to find out it was her UNCLE that had been sleeping all that time in her mother's bed and held her hand as a little girl. That's freaking creepy!!! She's gonna need a therapist after that revelation.

@Jamie-gc9cp

Жыл бұрын

well, we don't know if the daughter was born before or after he came back from the war. could still be her father.

@TurtleMaster326

Жыл бұрын

Also, if he raised her as a father, then he kinda took on the role for her and it isn’t as creepy if you think about it. Still definitely creepy, but that parts not as bad

@jiophone2412

Жыл бұрын

I think it was his own daughter cuz she said he took his bro's identity and his wife no mention of other family. The kid seems to have been born later.

@ellengrace4609

Жыл бұрын

I wonder if the wife knew.

@nirvanasingh2

Жыл бұрын

​@@ellengrace4609 If she saw changes in him she might have just assumed it due to trauma from being in the war

My mom had dementia. She ended up falling and breaking her hip. This basically put her into full time delirium. All she wanted to do was pray. She was on hospice me and my sisters where caring for her. She then started re-enacting a birth. After the "baby" was born she started saying please don't take the baby. D then she proceeded to say my oldest sisters name then re-enacred her birth. Then said the second oldest name, and re-enacted her birth. She continued to say the name then re-enact the birth. Including me, I'm the youngest of 5. Afterwards we started wondering if we have another sibling. The fact that she would say our name then re-enacct the birth of all of us in order. All except this baby that someone took that was born before my oldest sibling. 🤷‍♀️

@laurenmackenzie2014

Жыл бұрын

This gave me chills for some reason

@ArielaShines

Жыл бұрын

probably

@sarahmcinroy2321

Жыл бұрын

This would make me want to do a 23andme test or something similar...

@piggieria

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahmcinroy2321 - I did 😁 no matches so far.

@ruralmetalhead

Жыл бұрын

The first child could have been stillborn. It would explain why she, in her delirium, acted that traumatic scene out.

My uncle waited until his last breath to tell his only son, that he had a daughter of another womam, a bit older than my cousin. Lesson: if you think your parents cant crap you up until their last breath... you are wrong.

When I was a paramedic we had a high security prison nearby and we had quite a few calls to it and one inmate I was transporting confessed to me that he was guilty of the murder he had been accused of and convicted of. Normally that kind of thing would have had to stay between us but whenever we transported one of the inmates a police officer would ride in the back of the ambulance with us so of course he heard our conversation too but the inmate knew he wasn’t going to live so he just started talking

One confession received was I didn’t kill my last husband. She was married several times out lived all her husbands. Apparently she murdered them all but the last one. She said she’s never spoken of or told anyone By the way she looked I believed her completely. Sure she was facing her judgement look of fear 😧

My great grandmother had Alzheimer’s and started to relive her past trauma. One involving the death of one of her little brothers. See my great grandma was about 6 years old when her mother, Perla, placed a boiling pot of starch on the kitchen floor and walked away telling her 6 year old daughter, Sylvia, to watch her toddler brother and infant brother. Her infant brother Vincenzo kept her distracted and her toddler brother crawled into the kitchen and managed to tip the pot over onto him, essentially boiling him alive. Perla blamed Sylvia even long into adulthood for the death of her baby brother. This was not the first offense either by Perla. Perla lost another child due to her inattentive style of “parenting” when she left Sylvia’s older brother outside when he was also a toddler. The toddler ended up running into the streets and being hit by a car. Moral of the story is Perla was a horrible mother and apparently CPS wasn’t a thing back then.

@Kegers

Жыл бұрын

Perla aimed all the hate she received from the older sons death at the daughter as deflection from her own guilt thinking it would make less heavy on her soul. It just made the daughter scarred psychologically. Hope she doesn't hold it against herself.

@redsunrises8571

Жыл бұрын

I heard a story of someone who put drinking water and herbicide in similar unlabeled jugs and then one of their young children drank from the wrong one and died

@loef27

Жыл бұрын

My aunt had a friend that had a pot of boiled water on the stove, her toddler knocked the pot off the stove and over half of her self (sorry that she had to suffer but she did survive after being induced into a medical coma.) However the "friend" blamed my aunt because she called her.

@amandaconstanza

Жыл бұрын

my mom had a baby brother in the 60s that died from some disease, but my grandma told my mom that it was because she gave him some cake one day 😑 she was traumatized bc of that thinking she killed the baby

That's messed up... a lot of the comments are too. My great grandmother's confession was that she liked making us lemon tarts because we hated them and it made her happy to know we ate it anyway. That was it. Like WTF everyone else!?!?!

@high-bi-password

Жыл бұрын

LMAO WHAT

@pink8634

Жыл бұрын

That’s the best one yet!

I had a patient tell me she was a nurse working in maternity she said she had killed little black babies of unwed mothers after she passed I made the notification call to her sister the sister said that my patient was also a nurse I was surprised I asked did she work on a maternity ward her sister replied yes how did you know I replied she mentioned it ...wow

@annea5781

Жыл бұрын

😱

I had a patient once who told me he had a secret family in another country. On his death bed he asked me if he should tell his American wife.... I called the chaplain and left the room. 🏃‍♀️

I cleaned the rooms at a hospice center and got pretty close with the patients. One lady had worked on the nuclear bombs dropped in WW2. She said they didn’t tell them exactly what they were doing. She was one of the first women in the navy in her particular group. They were all women. I think she said it was at the Oak Ridge Nuclear facility near me. She said she was afraid she had karma coming to get her 😢 She had all these amazing pics of her on ships etc, in her uniforms. She had medals… she was amazing. I’m so sorry she had to carry around that guilt.

@phenitagomes1292

Жыл бұрын

For what. What did she think they were going to do with it? Put it in a museum?

@scarlet_sunflower12

8 ай бұрын

@@phenitagomes1292Maybe? I mean I’m assuming that in Hospice, you get really close to the staff (as you see them everyday). They probably thought OP was a good person, and would take care of/ preserve these things after she passed away. She may not have wanted to part with them till she died!

I'm willing to bet that a retired hospice nurse in her own deathbed will end up having so many confessions herself from all the patient stories she's accumulated over the years that she might as well write a novel 😅

----had a pt from WW II era. He used to cry & ask God to forgive him b/c he was ordered to go into a village & kill everything that breathed. His one bullet killed a mother holding her newborn. He would say, "I can't forget her eyes." 😢 It was so sad. Those were their orders. He told me they killed dogs, cats, people, and livestock. Nothing lived. Back then, you could lie about your age & the Army would take you. He was in his teens.

@high-bi-password

Жыл бұрын

I would have put that bullet in my own head.

That is crazy. I bet he was jealous and wanted his brothers life. So sad to be betrayed by a sibling but especially sad that it was a twin. I feel sorry for the daughter having inherited this evidence when no answers could be given.

As a mother of identical twin boys, this story is fascinating and disturbing. I'm very surprised no one close to them figured it out

@shannonkuhn4205

Жыл бұрын

They may have suspected something but passed it off as a war changing people

My ex father-in-law told his actual family that he had an affair and my ex and his 2 sisters actually had ANOTHER sister he had been hiding all his life....crazy 😮

@phenitagomes1292

Жыл бұрын

Selfish

So was the daughter conceived after the brother-killing twin returned from Vietnam or before the murdered twin left for Vietnam?

@mayamartin7359

Жыл бұрын

Yes we need to know

@Gamer_Mama_0611

Жыл бұрын

Holy sh*t I didn't even think about that until now 😳

@musiccmann

Жыл бұрын

if (and im assuming they are) identical twins then it wouldn’t matter bc she’d still be his “biological daughter”.

@ludmilabonacchi

Жыл бұрын

​@@musiccmann yes it matters! Not for genetical reasons but for sentimental reasons!

@nailsbyc7120

Жыл бұрын

Yes... I was wondering the same thing. And did he kill him by accident or on purpose.. what a story!!

I really enjoyed reading the hospice worker's stories. Read most of these comments.

lady: talking about murder confessions steve: 👁️ 👄 👁️

I'm an RN who happens to be Black. The confessions that I hear are those of dying elderly White patients (male and female) confessing to horrible and cruel acts towards Black people when they were young. I'm talking about horrors from assault, rape, maiming, murder, child cruelty and assault. Once they confess, then they ask me for forgiveness. I believe that they must feel that confessing and asking to be forgiven of crimes that they committed towards Black people by a Black person on their deathbeds, will absolve their guilt and get them into heaven. I just tell them that everything will be okay and to try and rest, but I can't and won't help ease the minds of these monsters. I usually request to swap out those patients with another nurse. It's amazing how many sweet, innocent-looking, elderly people are harboring atrocious secrets. One very racist and demented patient, during moments of clarity between his racist rants, threats and attempts to attack Black staff members, would describe how when he was a young man, he and a few other family members would literally snatch people of color off the streets, mostly women and children, bring them back to "our basement and peel their skin back by putting a bullet through their heads". He'd promise the Black staff members the same fate when, "my people get here". He'd give so many disgusting details that we knew he wasn't lying. The other way we knew he wasn't lying would be how his family members would react when they were around to hear his recollections of his past and his current promises to continue his rampages. A book or a movie would have to be unending in order to highlight the atrocities that 70, 80 and 90 year old grandmothers and grandfathers have perpetrated towards others. I'm not the only Black medical professional that this is happening to either.

@mayamartin7359

Жыл бұрын

My dear. I am so so sorry you are going through this. 😔

@archie2223

Жыл бұрын

Wow, that must be hard to do, as an asian, I often underestimate by white people to

@ArabicLover101

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry…

@fluffytail6355

Жыл бұрын

White people always get the benefit of the doubt even though they’re horrible to the core. Black people never think whites are guilty or anything, they put them on a pedestal.

@pek5117

Жыл бұрын

Damn, that's terrible

I took care of an elderly man that had no children and was never married he was part of a specific Association which shall not be named and days before he died he would wake up screaming I hope she got away I hope she got away it wasn't right I hope she got away

@AntareanSun

Жыл бұрын

I’m guessing that it’s the Witness Protection Program (not expecting a reply btw)

@graceburrell8800

Жыл бұрын

Or The Klan.

@clamh84

Жыл бұрын

Could be a priest.

My best one is a patient who grabbed me by the scruff of the neck, whilst very much in the process of dying, DNACPR. Grabbed my uniform, pulled me closer, and said "before I go, I just need to tell someone" "I just shit myself. I never do that" Was fucking hilarious, but he was full on serious

@bumblebeagan

Жыл бұрын

i think that's the funniest deathbed confession i've ever heard lmfao

@leemiggels6370

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@zoecrozier6564

Жыл бұрын

It would be one of those times you would actually be relieved. One sec you are thinking you're about to be attacked, then he says that and ya like oh thats fine I deal with that all the time 😅 those who don't nurse would be like eww no. As a nurse its nothing

I heard about a woman who lied about a boy. She said he attacked her. Kid was arrested. A lynch mob persued. Castrated him, burned his house down. The dying lady said she made up the whole thing. Because she was jealous of his sister's clothes. She told a nurse this. Because she kept seeing the boy appear in her room.

@jullietmburu9672

Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭 all that because of envy, and pretty clothes? The human heart is capable of great good and great evil... So so so sad... Poor boy!!

@Meg0307

Жыл бұрын

This is common story going around. Zero proof of it being true.

@jamiebarringer4019

Жыл бұрын

@@Meg0307 I've worked with hospice patients. And it is common to see the deceased. Usually friends or family.

@mysticmusical

Жыл бұрын

This is pretty psychopath if true. At first I wondered why she would go after the boy instead but then realized it would affect her and her family more this way. She would be guilty by association and unable to wear pretty clothes or even just live a good life. It's chilling if that's why.

@jamiebarringer4019

Жыл бұрын

@@mysticmusical even if it's false. There are many accurate portrayals of similar circumstances in the south.

I wonder sometimes if some people actually HAVE dementia. Apparently I’m an easy person to talk to, and I’ve heard some insane things from patients with “dementia”. One guy told me he set his ex wife up to be killed by the police, and sent his son to prison. He would tell me this several times,and when I asked him questions, he’d say “I told you, I put the cocaine under the wheel well and the gun under the seat, remember?” Another guy was really sharp (looked and talked like Billie Bob Thornton) and I asked “why are you in a place like this?” And his answer was always “well, I lost my damn mind. It was either here or prison”. It’s not really hard to get an unspecified dementia diagnosis

@dorrettp1339

Жыл бұрын

Omg

Whoa.... that is some confession.

Yeah. . . My father's whole life was rewritten on my Grandmother's death bed. After he walked out and simply said "She had her reasons."

Sounds like a movie plot.

@karentucker2161

Жыл бұрын

Or law and order show

I was expecting a trauma induced mental breakdown and massacre of a village, or shooting dead a Vietnamese woman he had a one-sided not serious sexual relationship with upon her telling him she was pregnant with his child. This is pretty bad too though. 😱

@angeloliver7613

Жыл бұрын

What dark expectations, but i thought the same things

@johannageisel5390

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I also thought the confession would be about the raping and/or killing of civilians.

@zeenoash.8805

Жыл бұрын

....that is weirdly specific.

@ea6102

Жыл бұрын

​@@zeenoash.8805 You hear so many stories of things like that happening though, it's really sad

@SGpre75

Жыл бұрын

You just know or hear one side of war stories. Have you ever been fighting in any war or in any soldier’s shoes to know what really happened. Everything has different reasons to happen.

imagine being present for your own funeral

My former roommate (She worked in a nursing home where family would often abandon older patients at so the staff and other patients were their only interactions) once told me that a woman had confessed that she actually murdered her first husband in her 20’s because he was abusing her, but the autopsy just showed that he died of an unknown stomach ailment so she was never arrested for it. She was a widow and had three adult kids with her second husband. She passed the night after she confessed this in her sleep.

Why would the daughter to back and tell the nurse about the letter years later? Not sure I would want to admit my "father" had done something like that. To be honest I doubt I would remember who I had spoken to about it if they were a stranger lol

@Gamer_Mama_0611

Жыл бұрын

It's hard living with a lie. It often feels better to have someone to talk about it to. And I'm sure the nurse was the only one who would believe her at the time because nurses hear a lot.

@imalrockme

Жыл бұрын

I commented the same way, moments ago!

@Aestheticbutconfusedgirl1705

Жыл бұрын

She might have been rude when the nurse told her or maybe she was just looking for someone who understood

Holy shit…. That was crazy. I can only imagine the stories people hear in situations like this… lol… there are plenty to go around I’m sure.

This is why I happily live alone in the middle of "nowhere". Mankind is one scary monster.

@MorenaCubana

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

These two guys I grew up with, sweetest guys ever, had divorced parents. Their dad died suddenly of a heart attack. They find out they have a half brother living on the other side of the country, married, has kids... The older of the two goes to meet him and his niblings he never knew existed and now they're all super close. Sometimes you don't get a chance for a deathbed confession. Sometimes your secrets find their way out after you are gone and can't explain them...

Im a 20 year nurse and I have 2 really incredible stories. I feel blessed for all the pts and families I was honored to serve. The stories are too long to share here but people definitely want to get things off their chest. One of the stories was so scary and its absolutely one of the reasons I'm a believer today. ✌❤

@skittlesreacts

Жыл бұрын

What's the story that made you a believer?

@unexpectedshadownemesis8167

Жыл бұрын

please I am very curious about the story and would be grateful to hear it

@tabithawhitaker9273

Жыл бұрын

@@unexpectedshadownemesis8167 awe I honestly appreciate that but they are seriously too long to share. I will say one was from a Gay gentleman and a lady who's family swore her off. And both of them seen things I can't explain at the end, no joke. The woman's story is the one the has stuck by me for years. In my opinion, there is definitely something on the other side. Hope that helps✌❤

@unexpectedshadownemesis8167

Жыл бұрын

@@tabithawhitaker9273 thank you for answering, that’s very interesting

As my father was dying he kept telling a nurse who was a hospice nurse and a family friend, that at night his mother came to see him to tell him when he would be leaving. My daddy did die on the exact day he had told the hospice nurse and his doctor that he would die. He died on Father’s Day just as he had said. So it makes you wonder.

I had a man he would not take his meds till he told me he killed his wifes lover he shot him on the railroad tracks. he was in his 90s and he cried like a baby cuz he did not want to kill him 60 years prior. My patient died like 3 weeks later.

Damn that's some ciel phantomhive stuff

No kidding, in the Philippines, we had a TV series similar to this story. The special forces twin pretended and took the life of his dead police officer twin, wife and kid, all because of a secret operation. He didn't take advantage of the wife though.

@melissachartres3219

Жыл бұрын

He should have. That would have been hot.

@pennyinheaven

Жыл бұрын

@@melissachartres3219 That’s not gonna go off on our free TV. Best medium would be an indie R18 movie. We’d rather have a lot of guns, some mafia on drug cartels, gore and very censored r scenes, than mess up family dynamics.

I don't think the army would allow brothers to service together. Especially identical twins.

@thirtynine3955

Жыл бұрын

I asked Google and it says brothers can serve together but usually not in an active duty units. There was also the Sullivan Brothers from WW2: The five Sullivan brothers were World War II sailor brothers of Irish American descent who, serving together on the light cruiser USS Juneau, were all killed in action during and shortly after its sinking around November 13, 1942.

@redsunrises8571

Жыл бұрын

​@@thirtynine3955sounds like a good reason not to let them serve together. Imagine losing 5 sons in one event

WOW !!!😢 MY HUSBAND CAME BACK FROM VIETNAM & WAS VERY MEAN. WAS KIND MAN B4 SO THEY DO CHANGE.

@galacticnerd3243

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I find that viet vets are commonly racist

I was my grandma's caregiver and she was seeing people she didn't know, she would say I don't know you when it was just me or my dad in the room.... yeah it was scary.

I think reconciling is the most important thing. I never want to have bad blood between my family and I. You never know if what you say to them will be the last thing you say to them. So don't make it hateful. Just forgive them then let it go. No use in staying angry at someone who's getting ready to die. It's petty.

On my unit, we have had patients with dementia confess to things that really had me questioning if I should tell someone......

I was taking care of an old mean ass woman and she told me she killed her son!! Said he had too many problems and she needed the help to survive and it was her or him. So she killed him with his own meds. Gave him too much insulin she said

I don’t care how identical you are… for your wife not to be able to tell your two different guys…. 😅

@Positively_Bri

Жыл бұрын

"It was like he was a different person after the war"

@solarlass5807

Жыл бұрын

​@Positively Bri I was thinking the same thing. War can change a person.

@Jamie-gc9cp

Жыл бұрын

@@solarlass5807 but small habits don't change, like the way someone eats, put on their socks, or kiss or touch you. =/

@AutisticAthena

Жыл бұрын

​@@Jamie-gc9cp what if she DID notice, but just thought it was an improvement?

@jeannestandley-kinata824

Жыл бұрын

In the wife's defence , I have know 3 seperate sets of identical twins over a 50 year period that no one could tell apart. Each had identical body movements, habits and speech. Mirroring each other. Even their own Mother could not tell them apart or distinguish their voices. It is rare but it does happen. If I had not seen it my Self personally, I would not have believed it possible. Also check out the famous Twin studies where identical Twins were separated at Birth and raised in seperate families. Then reunited 30 years later. The similarities are strikingly detailed. Even marrying women with same names, wearing the same outfits upon first meeting, etc.

Imagine if the wife knew something was off and just didn't want to confront the reality of what that would mean. That poor woman. May she rest on peace.

Wow I hope that was fake.

@melissachartres3219

Жыл бұрын

It was.

Kind of like “ Don Draper” in MAD MEN assumed the identity of a soldier he’d just met who was killed moments later. What I want to know was if this man killed his brother by accident / friendly fire or was it cold blooded Murder ?

@momentsformoms9467

Жыл бұрын

Right..the way she said it sounded like on purpose but can’t really say.

@bethgramkow5225

Жыл бұрын

Maybe it was by accident and he felt so guilty he took care of the wife ,family. We will never know

Wth man...I just packed up 4 generations of family Bibles. I stopped searching them when I found a picture of my Great-Grandmother inside the front of my Grandmom's Bible. All of them have hand written family trees in them so I put them in the chest with all the old family photos (late 1800s - early 2000s). But on the topic of death, talk to your elderly family members. Find out what they r keeping secret. I only say this because the amount of absolutely heartbreaking stuff I found out when my parents got dementia. Secrets always come out. I had no clue how to handle/deal/cope with what I was hearing. Also discuss suicide with them... 😭😭

This just proves there are criminals out there, but just never get caught. I'm always worried about people and stuff they might have done.

Oh my. That's a hell of a story. Real Cain and Able type shit.

A woman in California killed her husband 40 years ago. Packed him into a freezer and shipped him to a Somerville (Boston area) storage facility. He was abusive and she told everyone he just walked out on her. I was one of the medics on scene when that freezer was opened. 🤮🤮🤮

My grandpa served in the Vietnam war, he is still alive

My mom had dementia and she said countless things that were verifiably untrue.

Damn… that’s… that’s insane!

Wow... that story just kept getting more and more shocking... I can't imagine the weight of this man's guilt... bless him and his family ❣️🙏🏼💝

Death is either two things, the silencer on a gun, or the gun itself.

This is so awful. I'm sorry to you for having to hear such ugly things. Probably true too. That was a terrible time in our history as humans. Im unable to understand how people who did it seen or lived through such horrific crimes against fellow humans can go about their day or week or lives! On a daily basis -even minute to minute how can they go on normally? How does someone pretend that shit didn't happen? How do they block it out and continue on in their lives? I think the hospital priest should be asked to come and listen to people when patients say this type of dying confession. It's not your job to forgive or help them "get away with it" on into the next realm. It is however part of your job to relieve his pain as much as can be. It is compassion and the caring side of you that allowed or strengthened you to do the work it takes to become a nurse. I am positive that you are an amazing nurse😉. I appreciate all the unseen things you do and have to say people will never know all that caring for others entails unless they are also in the medical field. People will be always judgy. Too bad. Also having different nurses to take over this guys care was a definite good idea.👍take care.

WOW!!!! Deathbed confessions are some of the craziest stories to hear!!!! It's like confessing all of your 'sins' and ATTEMPTING to get away with it!

The most important thing is that the man had a Bible. The Holy Grail.

@Ellaceeceebee

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And so?

@JuditaHoffman.

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@@Ellaceeceebee that was sarcasm

THIS IS THAT ONE HOSPICE NURSES STORY!!

I was a nurse for 10+ years. PCT, CNA, LPN, and a 3 year stint as a phlebotomist working in the ER helping the lab techs. An older fella, maybe late 80s, had a stroke and was in the ICU, neurologist said it was a miracle he could still form words and probably wasnt going to make it through the night. The Dr told his much younger wife that she needed to contact the man's family. She said that his family hadn't spoke them since their Mother passed away, 3 years prior and that she had an accident and fell down the back steps as the dog ran past her when she let him outside. Apparently old fella had killed his wife, received a hefty life insurance check, married the gold digger only 6 months after burying his wife of 30 years. She was also a "trophy wife" but only 65 years old, not the same age as old fella. Apparently a few years prior to marrying 2nd wife his 1st wife (mother of his children) died of mysterious circumstance as well 😱 I was a nosy bitch back then and I called the oldest son, gave him the rundown over the phone, he called his siblings and they all flew in as soon as they could. Old fella lasted around a week, and I had the pleasure of watching and hearing as everything unfolded every single time one of the children made it there 😳 that was a crazy "deathbed confession"

Imagine the wife finding this out. I would feel VIOLATED.

I need to know how and why he killed his brother, and how and why he assumed his identity. Is this creepy from beginning to end? Or was it an accident, and he led a meaningless life, and decided to make a misguided attempt to shield his brother’s family from the loss? You never know how people’s minds work ‘These people’s minds work in funny ways, they’re not like you and me’ - Uncle Vernon

@melissachartres3219

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The whole thing never happened.

@everywherenowhere6901

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Sounds like a case of coveting his brother's wife.

Must have been a very striking identical twin scenario in order to fool the wife of his brother. A terrible injustice for the wife and murdered brother.

So crazy my grandfather was Vietnam he hung his rifle up in his house beside the folded up flag sometimes he'll tell me stories about the war and how it messed him up and sent him to a place he didn't want to be he said he discovered God and now he's a pastor and devoted Christian

Man...that's jealousy on a different level...

My advice as a retired Hospice nurse...Keep those death bed confessions to yourself. A patient of mine told his wife he had an affair for the past 6 years and destroyed this poor woman and children.

@phenitagomes1292

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Nah spill the tea

@sarahlovesbudgies

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If I were the woman I would be so glad to finally know that I wasn't crazy! We women have amazing intuition, lemme just tell you: She already knew in the back of her mind. It was probably a relief for her but it would also throw someone into shock to finally hear the truth.

@high-bi-password

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She may have also “known but didn’t want to know.” Must have been one final twist of the knife on his way out to shift the burden off of himself 😡 Source: my father has zero idea my mother has been repulsed by him physically and emotionally for many years (they’re both terrible) and has had at least one boyfriend since they effectively separated. He’s still in la-la-land, the reason they stopped living together is because father plans to sell their second property and he’ll get more money out of it for tax reasons if it’s listed as their primary residence for 5+ years. Mother couldn’t WAIT for him to leave, she scurried like a cockroach when you turn on the lights.

That’s the life of that sinking desert baby 💀🫶🏽

I had a patient confess to molesting children. I was aware because he'd already served his time but denied it for years according to his family. Sad situation all around 😢

@tele2312

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Jesus.. those poor kids 😟