After I was in a horrible relationship that ended at the beginning of the year I’ve watched your content religiously and it did a worlds of help to me being ok with myself while still working on myself. Thank you for everything!

@CourtneyRyan

5 ай бұрын

🥹 it’s my pleasure! Hugs!

@AnthonyManzio

5 ай бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan Guys online is trash

@JohnLambert-kc5zq

4 ай бұрын

Will you be my girl john

Hey Courtney, this is just the video for me. I’m almost 20, never had a gf. I’ve had plenty of girls ask me out but I could never say yes because I didn’t have a phone (strict parents). I’ve also dealt with depression the last few years but I’m finally getting out of it. I’m starting college soon so I hope to meet a nice lady to spend my life with and finally get a gf 😂

@retro_crasher

5 ай бұрын

Same(ish)! I am 21, and I bought my own phone in highschool cause my parents said no and took it away after 6 months in middle school having a phone. I was too addicted, but it had its pros and cons. Was really eye opening. Try not to get addicted! Keep strong and you'll be great!

@adriantataranu2769

5 ай бұрын

Guys above, are you living in Korea? You DON'T NEED PHONES to meet girls ! A phone doesn't help you AT ALL to approach a girl/woman!!!!! Advice: NOTHING helps you to approach a girl or a woman IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BE APPROACHED BY YOU ! If she does want, you'll be the first person informed. No phones, no technology, no tricks. Real life is cruel and you are alone! Bare in mind this rule! Now, be prepared to be humiliated, dropped down when you expect the least, all in all be prepared to die in the ferocious reality of relationships. Good luck guys!

@isaiah3127

5 ай бұрын

​@adriantataranu2769 bro having makes it 100 times easier. This is the 21st century where most people our age have had a phone since they were 11. It makes communication way easier. What if you have to get somewhere you've never been. I mean dating can definitely be done without a phone but at the age we're at it's pretty much required.

@Phillyfan94

5 ай бұрын

Thats nothing I’m 29 and i never had a girlfriend. I had to work alot on myself get over alot of trauma. Now i can say i’m ready for the dating world

@HetNeSS

5 ай бұрын

Dude, don't waste your 20s. Live large, fuck everything that moves. At 20s there's too much immature shit in their heads, that needs rumbling. Speaking as former 23-year old, who'd tried to make relationships with 18-th year old gf

Not married, but ive been in a long term relationship. I’ve found so much value in your channel Courtney. It has really made me a better partner and has helped me to better understand myself and my values. Thank you!

@CourtneyRyan

5 ай бұрын

🥹🤍 it’s my pleasure!

I'm just turning 39 next month, after my last relationship in my late 20s ending horribly I decided I needed to work on me. That's what I've done for the last decade. Recently started dating. I do worry about the mistakes I WILL make but it will be more about who I am and my ability to self correct. I don't believe many women who learn about me would hold it against me. To many guys haven't gone back and examined there life as a story and figuring out how to explain it without sounding pathetic. That's the problem, you're more ashamed of the lack of work, you won't be able to explain why you were single not that you were single.

@ericsohn9133

3 ай бұрын

Good luck bro! You are on the right track

I’m a 37 year old father of two young kids and I’m recently divorced. I have 20 years of relationship experience, but only with 1 woman. Helpful video today, thanks. Would love more thoughts on dating in your 30s or dating as a single father.

@Nethan2000

5 ай бұрын

Women are horrified of committing to a man who has not been vetted by other women. Your children are like a visible mark of quality. Take pride in them.

@Microphunktv-jb3kj

5 ай бұрын

im one year older than me, but have had relationship of half my lifetime... and i had none.. too introverted, too logical... lack of animal sexual instincts i just see no value in women... im clearly meant to be lone wolf i guess... born in the wrong time, raised of the values of old world.. and became adult and that world didnt even exist what my parents raised me for.... stunted parenting

@hotpockets69

5 ай бұрын

Bro, you need to go try and get that old thing back. Ain't nobody other than a mother with multiple kids want a single father with multiple kids.

@GreedyDragonBrewing

5 ай бұрын

I'm older than you but have found myself in the same boat. My previous experience was college days and frankly I am in a different place in my life to go back to that! So I agree... how do you restart, get back into the dating scene and find a potential partner

@inconnu4961

5 ай бұрын

@@GreedyDragonBrewing I too am in the same boat! I was married for 14 years, didnt date at all the 6 years before. the dating world has changed drastically. its a dumpster fire out here!

This has been a great year for watching your content, and I'm appreciative of all your great videos. Here's to more greatness in 2024, Courtney! 🥂

@CourtneyRyan

5 ай бұрын

You’re so kind! I’ve loved your comments throughout the year. Thanks for being here my friend! ❤️

@anamegoeshere

5 ай бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan womansplain much ?

Best relationship advice from a couple that had been married for almost 60 years: understand your partners faults and deal with them. What does this mean? Understand what your partners faults, quirks, habits, etc. are and if none of them are deal-breakers, you understand that you will not change any of them or make them go away; so in other words, you deal with them. And for those of you that think you don't have any of those, you are wrong; you have some...everyone does. My wife and I have been very happily married for over 30 years...

Courtney, after my 6 years relationship ended, I took a year off dating. Now I'm putting myself out there again. Even though I have some experience, your videos help me so much! You have no idea how many men you are helping. Thank you for your time and effort!

Thank you so much for this. As an introverted man who has no dating experinece, it's nice to feel validated. May the New Year be kind to you!

I've been married 12 years and I've found many of your videos to be balanced, actionable, and effective in a committed relationship. Of course, It takes a willingness from both parties to be curious, to put advice into action, and wake up every day willing to marry your partner all over again. Best wishes for you and your husband!

Yes, as a lady I would love relationship advice for women! I stumbled upon your channel when I was single. I'm now in a loving relationship and I think your videos definitely contributed to the journey here. I would love to hear more focused on women as well. Thank you! 😊 Edited to add: My boyfriend slid into my DMs from a ski group on facebook. Never had any success with dating apps. So it was a bit of a mix of hobbies and online. It's crazy how well we have worked together even though I knew nothing about him before our first date. 😂

@CourtneyRyan

5 ай бұрын

Ahh this makes me so happy to hear! Thank you 🥹 & wishing you all the best in your relationship! 🤍

@AllyPenguin

5 ай бұрын

@CourtneyRyan thanks so much Courtney!! He really is so special and I'm a very lucky girl.

@alansun70

5 ай бұрын

I enjoy chatting with women & a few feminine stores. I do believe singles do need to make compromises, though.

@nobodysperfect06

5 ай бұрын

I assume you are both in your 20s

@AllyPenguin

5 ай бұрын

@@nobodysperfect06 I'm 31, he's 35.

I've never had a girlfriend myself. I'm 30, and honestly after being single for so long, I'm growing more and more fond of being single. Yes I have days when I don't want to be, but after hearing so many stories and tips on dating and marriage, I think it's been a good thing I've been single for so long. As an introverted autistic 30 year old man, it's difficult for someone like me. Even at churches, soup kitchens, clubs, libraries, and other places I go to. Each woman is different so trying a new approach with each woman is always a roll of the dice and never really worked for me. I've gotten a few numbers but nothing came from them. On top of that, it's hard for me as it is navigating through daily life and never having broad knowledge about reading people. So yeah, I think it's good I'm single, yeah it sucks at times but with each passing year I remain a bachelor, I becoming more indifferent to relationships. It's just too much for a man like me to do it anyway. I'm just not really compatible with anyone. Now you're probably saying "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" and yes I understand that and I don't really care if a woman wants me at this point.

@therealneogg

4 ай бұрын

I respect it

@W4V3RN

4 ай бұрын

Keep your head up king. Life turns around when you least expect it.

@GeniusSavant1

4 ай бұрын

Try the gym start working out

@MisterBlackroad

4 ай бұрын

You could simply be schizoid

@anaccount7923

4 ай бұрын

@@GeniusSavant1He said that he doesn’t want anything, lol

One of the best male improvement channels out there. Keep up the great work, Courtney. I wish you the best into the new year and much more success! 🎉

@CourtneyRyan

5 ай бұрын

You’re so kind, thank you 🥹

Many thanks for all the content you have made in 2023, Courtney! We are all looking forward to the content you will make in 2024. Happy New Year!

@CourtneyRyan

5 ай бұрын

It’s been a pleasure. Thanks for being here and happy new year! 🤍

Courtney, Happy New Year 2024 to you! This year in 2023 was my first year tuning into your channel and I have really enjoyed it! You have a very positive, supportive and upbeat delivery style with great insight for. keep up the great work!

Courtney, you’re a breath of fresh air in the current toxic dating scene. I think you’re helping a lot of decent men.

@annetteseavers5548

5 ай бұрын

I agree totally ❤ because I only find male in dating apps how only want casual relationship and only want sex 😭. So I have given up . I living in Sweden 🇸🇪. Perhaps it is different in USA . I love this KZread channel. And it helps me to understand English much better 😍

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🎬 *Dating advice Q&A by Courtney Ryan covering late bloomers' concerns, meeting women beyond bars, and sustaining long-distance relationships.* 01:10 💑 *Don't let inexperience hinder dating; own it, prioritize other things, and remember experience doesn't guarantee attractiveness.* 03:16 🍻 *Bars aren't ideal for meeting women; try mutual friends, shared hobbies/groups, or consider online dating.* 05:37 💔 *After a breakup, take time to heal, reflect, then ease back into dating, checking alignment with your goals and values.* 06:49 🛌 *Advice for married men to maintain physical interest: focus on emotional connection, show affection, prioritize partner's needs, and be open to spicing things up.* 10:32 👔 *Choosing a first-date outfit depends on the occasion; consider dressing appropriately, making a good impression, and being hygienic.* 12:07 🌆 *To meet people in a new city, join local communities, engage in hobbies, network, or even reach out via social media like Instagram.* 14:13 💑 *Long-distance relationships in college can work with shared commitment, communication, and alignment in long-term goals.* 16:04 🧴 *Winter cologne recommendations for men: Pruna Rosa Black, Maison Margiela Jazz Club, and Parfums de Marly Layton among top picks.* 17:54 😇 *Being "too nice" can be detrimental; balance being a good guy without crossing into pushover territory by maintaining self-respect and boundaries.* 18:36 💔 *Being too nice in dating can be detrimental; it may involve putting someone on a pedestal, ignoring your boundaries, lacking self-respect, allowing yourself to be used without reciprocation, or chasing excessively.* 19:18 🤔 *Rating individuals based on arbitrary factors like having a British accent or owning a boat can be entertaining but doesn't reflect true compatibility in dating.* 20:28 🧠 *Choosing a partner reflects your emotional development; working on yourself helps attract compatible partners and fosters personal growth.* 21:37 🌟 *Dr. Nicole LePera, known as the Holistic Psychologist, offers excellent dating and relationship advice, focusing on mental health and self-improvement.* 22:19 👩‍❤️‍👨 *The creator has a new channel for women to share more personal content, aiming to tailor advice specifically for female viewers.* 23:45 👰 *The creator is married, embracing the opportunity to discuss healthy relationships and marriage dynamics in future content, aside from dating advice.* 24:55 📚 *The content creator acknowledges the learning process in relationships, catering to both singles and those in long-term relationships or marriages for continuous growth.* 25:08 👍 *Expressing gratitude for the support received throughout the year and celebrating reaching 650,000 subscribers on KZread.*

@Spaceguy

3 ай бұрын

Thanks

This channel helped me so much in my dating life. Don't have a gf...yet but helped me see results I never expected not only in the dating world and in my personal life. Keep your head up kings!

Music, film, working out, studying, 9-10 hours a day running my business, hanging with friends, camping/ hiking / snowboard trips, beach, my 2 dogs. I just don’t think there’s any time for games/ heartless manipulation - IM BOOKED! 🤷‍♂️

I thoroughly enjoy how wholesome this advice is. Im rooting for and encouraging anyone who is using these tips to grow! 💯

Courtney, I have to say that is a bless to hear you speaking online, I like your tone and your logical approach to these topics and the way to present and breakdown your points of dialogue. congrats keep it that way.

Great advice! One of my dating struggles has been ghosting where the person stops communicating out of nowhere and how to cope with ghosting

@Gawillamon

5 ай бұрын

Same it’s hard to not get into your own head about it when that happens and wonder what’s wrong with you or what you did wrong….

I won’t go into much detail, but after a horrible situation I experienced recently, your videos have been EXACTLY what I’ve been needing. Thank you, Courtney. 💙

Happy new year! Thanks for the content. Love the fact I discovered this channel this year! After some self improvement and getting through school, I think with your help I can really start having the confidence to go out some time in the future. You are a good role model and have lots of good insights for a guy like me. Eye opening content to some degree and really hopeful/ confidence boosting as well. Thank you so much for the content you put out for us, and I hope you have a relaxing holiday!

Hi Courtney. Thank you so much for putting together this content for us. I've been trying to work on myself before putting myself out there, and your videos helped me along that path to be the best version of myself. When you are talking about online dating as a possible avenue for the introverted, what sites/apps would you recommend? And happy new year to you.

Wish you a happy new year Cortney 🎉!! Thank you for all the videos you did this year... Thank you 🙏 😊

Thank you Courtney! Been following your channels for around a year now. Even though i'm in a building phase and choosing to stay single, your videos all help!

Congrats on your marriage and Happy New Year! Wishing you and your husband the best in 2024.

Wish you a Happy New Year Courtney and thanks for the very valuable and interesting content.

I'm one of many married guys who watch your channel, I find it helps me with my relationship with my wife . . . good job Courtney.

You're incredibly well spoken. You move from idea to idea so fluidly. Its pretty incredible to watch; like you dont buffer in between thoughts and rarely use the same type of language.

@rwar531

5 ай бұрын

Wow stop simping or just tell her u wanna have sex

Have a wonderful New Year, Courtney! ❤

As an introverted man who has been single for the last 14 years and who has been rejected too many times, in the last year I gave up and lost hope of getting back into a relationship. Finding your channel and watching your videos has made me want to try again. I know I have a lot of work to do, starting with overcoming anxiety and the idea that the other person is going to reject me because all the others in the past have done so. Thanks for everything and thanks for all the videos! I hope there are many more to come in 2024! Happy new year! 🎉

@inconnu4961

5 ай бұрын

You have more courage than me. i've basically given up for the foreseeable future. I also have anxiety issues, and trying to meet women (and failing) has made it much worse than before.

@travisvoss5006

5 ай бұрын

As an introvert I can understand your pain, man!

@te9591

5 ай бұрын

Give yourself credit for having the nerve to approach a woman for a date.

@lendily7208

5 ай бұрын

@@inconnu4961 I wish I could help you! I'm sure you're doing the best you can! Anxiety is horrible. If you give up, things don't get better and over time things get much worse. I know it's very difficult but don't give up and try to believe it's possible.

@AEdavirgin

5 ай бұрын

Don't put yourself through that. They just want you out there because they enjoy rejecting you.

Much respect for not editing out what didn’t work out

Hi Courtney. Married guy here. Loved the relationship advice. I’m taking some of the dating tips to apply in my relationship but anything you have for those of us in a relationship would be great. I’m a recent subscriber and love the content. Keep it up. Great stuff!!!

@ramonmuniz4950

5 ай бұрын

whats your advice for a 25 year old virgin like me.

These videos calm me down so well, especially after literally just having a tought evening talking to a girl I’ve been trying to get to know for 8 months and feeling like I actually fucked up

Your videos provide great deep insoghts with motivation for introvert men and keep motivated to look forward to build new relationships with people. Thanks a lot Courtney, it really helps for people living abroad outside their hometown

Its been for several years I haven't dated after my long relationship which ended and been watching your channel for a year and a half. Not so long ago, I went out of town and not 1 but 2 girls said hi to me randomly. We chatted, and I end up going on a date with one of them. To me, self-respect and love yourself plays a role. Will continue to watch your channel and want to wish you a safe and Happy New Years. Greetings from Southern California.

A pleasure as always to extract so much useful knowledge from that brain of yours, Courtney 😌

I’ve dated off and on since I was 16. I’ve gone on a dozen dates with women and only had relationships with 2. I’m still single and knocking on the door of 40. It’s been 8 years since my last relationship ended and my confidence has yet to bounce back. Being continually friend zoned and ghosted has taken its toll!!!

Yes Courtney, we would love you talk more about intimacy and those "taboo" with no reason topics. It can help out there a lot of men. Happy new year and wish you the best. 🎉

Happily married woman here. Huge fan. I would love advice on how to stay spruced up for my husband and keep dating exciting for us. Thanks

@CourtneyRyan

5 ай бұрын

So glad you’re here! ❤️

Discovered your channel a few months ago and definitely one of the best by far.

Glad to see you taking on one of the more difficult topics. Introverts and neurodivergents need more help than neurotypicals in navigating these interactions, and there is very little good advice that is geared to them. Good work!

Cheers 🥂 to the new year Courtney. Unfortunately, dating has not worked out for me, so im just keeping my head down and work. I look forward to content other than dating

I was one of those who thought 'people should just has to accept me for the way I am' only to realize it's not a good way to find a partner. As they say: "You are what you attract." Dress, act, smell and live like a slob, you're only gonna attract other slobs. I had to clean up my act, especially after my uncle gave me a good tongue lashing, only to have a roommate years later who had the same mentality I once did... except worse. He literally has no standards; I would always find the apartment messy with food stains everywhere. I told him he has to clean up and asked him 'what would someone he likes think if they saw his home in this state?' He told me (half-jokingly): "I'll just find someone who has no standards." We went our separate ways a couple years ago, he's still single and lives in a messy home to this day.

2024 is the Year Courtney hits 1 mil subscribers. I feel it. Keep on keeping on Courtney!

Courtney hitting us with an end of year banger! Courtney, you are wonderful. Your content is so refreshing. Is there a 2.0 single Courtney Ryan I can take out?

Just remember that you have to weed out the bad apples before you can find one that's nice for you.There's way too may instances of women taking advantage of guy's emotions both online and irl spaces. Just be aware of what kind of person you want to be with, and if it looks like you're running into a landmine, chances are you'll end up in a very uncomfortable position. Stay safe, and remember to always be the best version of yourself for others out there.

As an introvert, this video was very helpful! Happy New Years

@CourtneyRyan

5 ай бұрын

I’m so glad! Happy new year!

I think guys in general need to stop worry what women might think about and concentrate on yourself and become a little bit better every day. - Put yourself first because no one else will.

Love this Q&A. Wondering if you could make a video that really goes in to detail on "slow and steady wins the race." I am 22 and have only first started dating of any sort this year. One thing I struggle with is meeting a girl who expresses high interest at first, but I take things way too fast because I get too excited and come off as clingy or overwhelming, which results in their interest fading. I have slowly been getting better at this, but would like to see some sort of guide for the following: you see an attractive woman in an environment you both frequent (coffee shop, yoga class, library, etc.), how and when do you go about introducing yourself, how to engage with her on a regular basis without being weird, how to flirt without coming off too strong, and how to know when/if you should ask her out on a date, and ultimately how to handle subsequent dates and communication if you get that far haha. I would love to know how to do this because even when a woman gives me very clear nonverbal signs she is interested, I struggle to go up and approach her because I am afraid I will somehow eff it up or go down the road of clinginess and push her away, so I end up not approaching her at all... Help on this would be great as I am sure there are many others in my same shoes.

@user-bn9xy2on8i

5 ай бұрын

For us men at the start it's always a numbers game. Women in general do not explain themselves or will not give the thruthful reason for why they lose interest. Know your strengths & passions, work towards them everyday, therefore know your boundaries (because you are constrained by the effort you put out everyday to become better at your strengths). THat will make you more attractive for women. You can still chat up every girl, but you will have in your mind "She looks ok. But is she worth the effort? What is she able to add to my life?" because you put yourself first. Not this "OMG, OMG, OMG i NEED it to work out with her, she is the ONLY one". Obvious hyperbol here. There is no hard and fast rule on how to do everything because on the micro level every girl is different and responds to different things positively and negatively. As long as you put yourself first, are genuinely interested in her and enjoy the JOURNEY, not the GOAL, you will be fine. Ask her the tough questions to see if she would add to your life and ask her how you could add to her life. Women treat relationships as a business deal, if you show her you do the same she will appreciate your candor. Best of luck to you. You are already doing great.

after HS and college I found it very difficult to find any women remotely interested in dating unless you pass their screening interview, they are not looking for guys who need experience or practice in dating

Thank you Courtney for all your videos. Started watching them in September this year. I am an introverted person, but like to go out and spend time with friends when I'm home, met a few wonderful woman. Biggest dilemma I have when it comes to dating for me is my work schedule and type of work, I work in telecom climbing cell towers. Currently work 4 weeks on and 1 week off which is standard in my industry, most of the jobs are within a reasonable driving distance, but sometimes other states as well. Pursued a couple woman who at first didn't care or see it as an issue that my job requires me to be away for 4 weeks at a time, only to be told afrer a few months its not working out. 2 woman on seperate occassions(wasn't seeing them both at the same time) drove out to where my job had us working a few times, but after a couple months was told its too much and wouldn't work out. Been divorced for 3 years, was married for 9 years, and feel like it somehow lowered my self esteem tremendously and made me scared to talk to girls as well as other people in general.

Thank you very much for the helpful tips! May you have a happy and healthy 2024!

Hey Courtney! Great video! Loved the advice for couples in a relationship, you make the spicy stuff look very classy. I wanted to know how to be more open intimately with my partner with new things she wants to try. Thank you for your time.

We are with you Courtney. Your work is more important than one can imagine. This is only just the beginning. Beautiful.

@MarylandGuy-ey3st

5 ай бұрын

#StopSimping2024

Thanks for mentioning your insights based on your personal experience, that helps a lot. It is really difficult to carry on a personal relationship between the opposite sex, it takes a bit of work.

A very HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Courtney, I've seen a lot of your videos and you've never addressed, dating /intimacy, with people who have physical disabilities, but I met my girlfriend on Instagram and I told her about my disability, and she's not scared off by it, I was born with spina bifida, I use a wheelchair to get around everywhere, I push my wheelchair to get around everywhere!!! We have been dating for a whole year as of December 15!! I live in Maryland and she lives in New Jersey

@nobodysperfect06

5 ай бұрын

I assume you are both in your 20s

@bobcompton5145

5 ай бұрын

@@nobodysperfect06 neither of us are in our 20's!! I'm 50, and my girlfriend is 33!!

I appreciate that you give more in depth material.

Have a happy and prosperous 2024 Courtney all the best!!

Hi Courtney! Just wanted to say that you have one of the best KZread channels! 💯

@CourtneyRyan

5 ай бұрын

Aw thank you so much! 🥹

getting dating advice (as a lonely man) from a woman is like getting fishing advice from the fish. girls have literally no idea how much more challenging it is to date as a dude.

@sechsauge

Ай бұрын

You´re specifically referring to the "just send a text on twitter" part, right xD? Hillarious.

Happy new year, single guy here in his 30's, thank you so much for the tips to meet girls for introvert men, it's been a nightmare to meet new people after college but I want to try those options, I really want to have friends and eventually to meet someone special of the opposite sex

Congratulations on your marriage! This coming January 1st will be my wife's and my 41st wedding anniversary. From my long experience I can say anyone will be well served following your advice. :)

@Doberman_6773

5 ай бұрын

No offense, but whenever I see a post in spaces like this from someone talking about how 'they've been married for decades', the first thing that pops into my head is "A lot happened while you were away".

Oh yeah happy new year courtney to you and your hubby hope the year ahead brings you futher happyness

Hi Courtney.Merry Christmas and Happy New Year,Thanks for your great advices.Love from Alberta Canada

Congratulations on your wedding, and best wishes for your future with your husband!

Excited to see more content for women! Would love female self growth advice. And maybe how to handle negative men (friends, family, strangers, etc), and how to best support the men in your life (again, friends, family, etc.)

I'm glad you put that advert of me up on your KZread video a hour ago with the gentleman dressed to impress all the ladies out there with a suit and tie. Really hit me with reality that I could be that person attracting the female gender in the right way 👌👍

June 24th!? That my parents' anniversary!! They've been married for 37 wonderful years. I hope you and your husband have a prosperous and healthy new year!

Also some of the EXPRESSIONS you exhibit when reacting to stuff just crack me up !!!!! Keep it up, Your eyes, yummy !!!! XOXOXO Yeah I know I'm CRUSHING !!!!

This video really helped with the answers on where to meet new people. You got married on my birthday too, amazing coincidence! Thank you for the advice.

Happy New Year, Courtney.

Hey Courtney! Great rec on the cologne! I put Prada Rossa Black on my Christmas list because of your channel and ended up getting it. No regrets!!

Congrats Courtney, happy new year.

i miss the fragrance vids tbh. That's how i found your channel in the first place! i was watching one of Teddy's vids on watches with Kevin O'Leary, and it recommended yours. I also picked up Versace Dylan Blue, which i use all the time now!

Though I am older, and divorced, I enjoy your content. Sometimes I have to "translate" what you say to my situation, but it's a place to start

Happy New Year Courtney. Thanks for all the great videos. Regards Johannes.

Hello Courtney, I really do appreciate all the content you made in year 2023🎉, You're simply the best. Wishing you all Happiness love prosperity and success in year 2024🙏❤️✨️🎄✨️❤️

Courtney Ryan, the real lady most girls should be inspired to be! Missed your calming voice -

great video to end the year and get settled well in the near future. Started watching your videos after moving to a new city outside the home country. Would like to know if there are any relationship courses offered through your website portal social media platforms, like other creators have them on their own websites.

Love that I’m watching this on Valentine’s Day 😂

Smart way to end this year 🍓🫒🍒 New look.. with some spice!.. bravvvvvo 👏👏👏

When I go to a new city (I travel), I walk around. I observe what's going on, I talk to people cold-turkey in respectful, light-hearted, interesting ways. It works great.

@Courtney Ryan Happy New Year Courtney!!

I appreciate the thought Courtney, but I've been single for almost 11 years (I'll be 29 soon). I've picked up several hobbies over the years. Biking, kayaking, cooking, etc. I don't go to bars and not very religious (so I don't go to church). When the weather is warm, I'm outside a lot of time. Doing yard work, cleaning my car, going for walks, etc. I've tried online dating in the past. No success after several months (this is going back like 5 years ago). All the women acted like they wanted to be super models, caked with make-up, rather than being down to Earth. So, I wouldn't swipe on any of them (they were too intimidating). I don't think it would make any difference today. Part of the difficulty is a lack of friends too. I have a small group of friends I hang out occasionally, but they are more introverted than me. So, I don't look like an interesting person from someone peaking from the outside. On top of that, they don't have many friends either, so its not like I can reach out to a friend of a friend for a date. Most people I come across are 10+ years older. Whether it is at work or grocery shopping. Only people I see kayaking are usually couples. No one else is out walking or biking, let alone their own yard. There are not many clubs, no classes, no casual adult sport leagues, etc. So, meeting new people is very difficult. I think the best way for me to meet someone is through some kind of activity, the only issue is, there are not many near me. Communities don't exist anymore. At least I've never seen one or have been introduced to any. I don't use much of social media in general either, so instagram is a no go too. I've given up on trying to find a date years ago. But there is always still just a little bit of hope that someone will actually see me as me.

Thanks for the useful advice Courtney. And also Happy New Year 2024 from England.

All the best to you Courtney and Teddy in 2024 and beyond! Many thanks for all your great content.

Nice thumbnail Courtney have a happy New years! ✨🌹

I just got out of engagement almost 3 months ago . We fought all the time, she had attitude and tone that wasn’t pleasant to be around with. She put me down ( I did too) but with all that i still love her. Given that i want to be with her but i know I shouldn’t. I have hard time talking to other girls because feeling is so strong still

Lots of interesting stuff. I may have to watch this video again. Have a safe, and happy new year.

Thank you so much for your content courtney.

Here is a suggestion for a video: talk about setting healthy boundaries with girls and how they Perceive things. I think this is a really key issue that at times I struggle with after you get over the first few dates and things tend to go this way. It’s also something that I failed at in my long term relationship that I’m still trying to work on. All and all great content, thankful for your perspective and happy New Year/ Happy Holidays!

@jamessmith7459

5 ай бұрын

Well said but i doubt you have any problems with women

@scottmoore9151

5 ай бұрын

@@jamessmith7459 appreciate it bud but always out here trying to level up and improve and I think this as a video idea would be really cool to hear from a females perspective. There’s only so many videos I can tolerate where Courtney tries to give some really common sense advice I.e take a shower before a date, cut your nails, don’t wear a graphic old tee to a nice dinner date, etc.

@jamessmith7459

5 ай бұрын

@@scottmoore9151 i always spruce up clean shave smell good too bud its the least wee can do but its been over 11 years am not the man i used to be altho am 40 in the new year

Congrats on getting married, Teddy is a lucky guy. Started watching your channel like about a month ago but can’t wait to see what you have ready for 2024. Have a good holiday

Great video. Divorced and trying to get back to dating. Maybe 2024 will be my year. 2013 was a disaster that lead to more disasters. 2020 looked easy compared to what I went through in 2013. September 2013 to Feb 2015 damaged me in so many ways. I'm hoping for a year of repair.

I am 25 and from Bangladesh (southern-asia). Randomly played one of your videos and I liked it so that much that within 2/3 weeks i almost have completed your whole playlist and your my priority subscription in google podcast. I have been never been in any relationship at all which made me very low in recent 2-3 years but your words made me rethink my whole situation and accept the my whole scenario more rationally. It’s helping me a lot in a bit rebuild of myself. I appreciate your work and want to thank you for that, your doing wonders for like of me.❤️✨ (Sorry for such long comment 😅)

@CourtneyRyan

5 ай бұрын

This means the world to me! I’m so glad I’m able to help. Thanks for being here ❤️ wishing you all the best in 2024!

@user-yg9df9qo5o

5 ай бұрын

​​@@CourtneyRyan thank you and Please carry on and keep helping with your work 😁 ❤️✨

All the best for you, Courtney. Happy New Year 2024.

I needed this video literally yesterday 😅