Dating: Good Jealousy and Bad

Ask Pastor John
Episode: 1177
Transcript: www.desiringgod.org/interview...

Пікірлер: 35

  • @mkirules
    @mkirules3 жыл бұрын

    "Every episode is now published on KZread" Me, who has only ever seen these on KZread: "Interesting"

  • @simonerobledo8198
    @simonerobledo81986 жыл бұрын

    Peaceful confidence in God is the place where I want to be

  • @glennminor6880

    @glennminor6880

    5 жыл бұрын

    Keep praying, you'll get there. If you can feel yourself getting closer to peace in God, then you can get all the way there.

  • @Panda-gp8rj
    @Panda-gp8rj4 жыл бұрын

    This really spoke to me. I never knew I had a selfish pride type of jealousy :( Thank you, for this correction! God bless you! 💖

  • @michaelstark2382
    @michaelstark23826 жыл бұрын

    I'm really enjoying God using you pastor John! God bless!

  • @oar-N-oasis
    @oar-N-oasis2 жыл бұрын

    "Grow in trust and grow in love"..🙇

  • @JohanaFlores13
    @JohanaFlores133 жыл бұрын

    Very insightful, thank you for this !

  • @jkpow93
    @jkpow939 ай бұрын

    Great answer. I realised this 🙏 asking the Lord to help me with insecurites but also knowing exclusive romantic affection towards your significant other glorofies God. Realising how much marriage and everything points back to Him and His love

  • @amberbdabbin6248
    @amberbdabbin62486 жыл бұрын

    First comment ? This is an amazing post ❤️

  • @user-fl9xn3os8x
    @user-fl9xn3os8x8 ай бұрын

    Praise God!

  • @escajedac2740
    @escajedac27404 жыл бұрын

    Grow in trust and grow in love Amen 💞

  • @hernameistito6302
    @hernameistito63023 жыл бұрын

    Grow in trust and love with God!

  • @lizzkl89
    @lizzkl895 жыл бұрын

    What if we do good jelous but the other person things its a bad jelous?

  • @AndreRosario-zm8pf
    @AndreRosario-zm8pf7 ай бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏🌎✝️ Thank God for the kingdom. Isaiah 9:6. Thank God I will always honor my marriage and family. Isaiah 54. Ephesians 5. Hebrews 12:2

  • @wilhelmenns791
    @wilhelmenns7913 жыл бұрын

    I’m in a relationship . I have no jealousy feelings on my gf and it really worries me. I actually should engage already. But I have no excitement to get married. What should a do?!

  • @benitojohngenitojr.5608
    @benitojohngenitojr.56084 жыл бұрын

    Filthy Spirits Likes to think Filthy Rags, the Flesh.More in Negative Thoughts Than Positive Good Spirits of GOD in Christ, and Positive Good Spirits of the Servants of GOD in Christ.

  • @kar3n35
    @kar3n353 жыл бұрын

    I was just thinking about this last week. I see my pets het jelouse sometimes. Maybe if one is getting toomuxh attention or if on get a treat. I think thats healthy jelousy. Unhealthy jelousy is acusing the partner of being a cheating or been cheating or calling them name like hoe or being controling. I saw a wife even counting the km on the husband car everyday cus she was jelouse. Soooo. If ur jelousy is like a pets is ok if is more is not good.😅

  • @andrewdennis3538
    @andrewdennis35384 жыл бұрын

    I am confused... Is it good to be jealous over someone else's relationship with God? Is it ok for me to be jealous that somebody is getting more attention from God than I am?

  • @sheba2422

    @sheba2422

    3 жыл бұрын

    Romans 2:11 "For god shows no favouritism"

  • @helmsscotta

    @helmsscotta

    Ай бұрын

    That's envy, not jealousy.

  • @debbiewilder4738
    @debbiewilder47384 жыл бұрын

    My husband is a professional musician ( Women are attracted to status). When he hangs around women and gives them his attention they get a emotional attached to him. He praises them supports goals and dreams and even helps them ( I call it an emotional buffeta) and we all know that women are turned on by meeting their emotional needs. I feel like hes having and unemotional affair with them, because I feel like they get attached to him in a way that's unhealthy. He says hes just being friendly and Christian I don't believe it.

  • @paulgarcia3945

    @paulgarcia3945

    4 жыл бұрын

    Debbie Wilder i can see how that’d be tough to see. While these women may think he’s amazing, and it may hurt to see them looking up to him & him praising them, know that he loves you & has married you. He loves your unique combination of characteristics so much so that he committed his life to you. He’s nice to these women, try to be proud of that, and take pride in the fact that he comes home to you & loves you. Even tell him you’re so glad he takes the time to speak with them, because if you were them you know that’d be exactly what you needed.

  • @hadassah9323

    @hadassah9323

    4 жыл бұрын

    paul garcia a great point of view!

  • @alextorres990

    @alextorres990

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm torn on this because on the one hand, yes it's important to spread God's love and show affection to His children. But on the other hand, if his involvement with them, is causing them to think ungodly thoughts about a married man. Then maybe it's better for him not to tempt them into sin by getting involved with them. But again, I don't know, I'd actually really appreciate if someone would correct me, if I got it wrong.

  • @preston6618

    @preston6618

    3 жыл бұрын

    If he is doing anything with a member of the opposite sex that makes you feel uncomfortable, neglected, or put your marriage atrisk, he simply needs to stop. God will never ask you to sin or be irresponsible in order to “help” someone. Nothing is more important than your marriage or your spouse. It’s as simple as him loving and respecting you more than he does these activities and his job. Just because he gets paid to do something, or Jesus is a foot in it, does not give him the right to sin against your spouse.

  • @lawlaw6469

    @lawlaw6469

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@preston6618 Just want to tell my experience. My ex has this thing with his ex. They broke up a long time ago. But he always have a room for her. I was crazy mad when I found out she went to my ex’s place and stayed there for a couple days. I expressed my feelings and yes I was very jealous. He got mad and said we break up. I knew I was wrong, but what about him? He always has his arms open for his ex who refused the marriage twice and even cheated on him. He broke up with me immediately after I said I was jealous and stuffs. But, anyways, I just want to lear to be a good person everyday. I hope I can control my jealousy.

  • @JesusFace
    @JesusFace6 жыл бұрын

    Pastor? Past - or [else?] I show you you Jesus Christ's live omnipresent face on my channel while reading the gospel and encouraging you to obey him.

  • @TruthSeeker-wk6zv
    @TruthSeeker-wk6zv6 жыл бұрын

    It has been a hard journey but I feel as though I am finally ready to forgive Jesus

  • @luistorrealba8001

    @luistorrealba8001

    6 жыл бұрын

    Wut?

  • @FretStomperJamo

    @FretStomperJamo

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jesus has nothing to be forgiven for. We have everything to be forgiven for.

  • @TruthSeeker-wk6zv

    @TruthSeeker-wk6zv

    6 жыл бұрын

    But I love Jesus and so I have forgiven him anyone that can forgive me I feel I can also forgive. FretStomperJamo what do you mean we have everything to be forgiven for, I have lived a good life so I do not know what you have been doing wrong that you have need to be forgiven for but I think you need to leave the WE out of it.

  • @luistorrealba8001

    @luistorrealba8001

    6 жыл бұрын

    If you don't recognize your condition and your personal need for forginess then salvation will mean nothing to you. David said "Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight; so you are right in your verdict and justified when you judge." If you dont humble yourself and recognize how wicked and desperate in need for Christ, not Christ in need for you. Romans 3:23 says: "23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;" Repent for the kindom of God is at hand.

  • @PartlySunny

    @PartlySunny

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lilly Hope Huh? Forgive Jesus for what? What did Jesus do to you, that you feel you need to forgive Him?