Nice video! ATPUA FTW! Lol. I recently had an insight along these same lines, actually. Namely that collapsed awareness is unattractive because it gives off narrow and (as you said) intense vibes, and that expanded awareness signals a kind of open, groundedness in a person which is attractive. Very interesting.

@m_ashcroft

3 жыл бұрын

Ahah no PUA vibes that’s what I don’t want 😂 But yes exactly. Humans are very good at detecting the internal experience of other humans, even if we’re not aware of it or able to put words on it easily

That was really helpful...I know I can be way too intense sometimes, and it was helpful to see you model the two forms of attention, I could actually feel the difference across the screen, which is crazy

Hahahaha your reaction to Siri cracked me up, "Live... 🤷‍♂️" Hadn't thought of that "prey" vs "predator" thing even though it kinda is a common trope. Interesting ideas.

@m_ashcroft

3 жыл бұрын

I need to either remember to leave my devices outside or find a way to temporarily turn off Siri! Yeah it was interesting to make that connection. There's a case to be made for "there's fun in 'being predated' in this context but only if it's done right"

Great video, definitely see how being too focused on someone can make them uncomfortable, thanks

interesting line of thoughts!

Great video mate

What's the title of the book you were mentioning?