Dare to Be Independent | Camila Coutinho | TEDxPaloAltoCollege
Males are expected to achieve career success while female counterparts are often expected to stay home and take care of children. Camila challenges widely-held assumptions about "traditional" roles in relationships. Camila Coutinho is one of the most influential bloggers in the world due to her simple, fun and creative writing style. Coutinho created “Garotas Estúpidas” (“Stupid Girls”) in July 2006, the first fashion blog in Brazil, which covers the main highlights of national and international fashion, beauty and lifestyle. Coutinho originally created “Garotas Estúpidas” (“Me, Stupid?”) as a way of sharing her passion for fashion with her friends, but her project collected national and international recognition in 13 years of existence. Over the years, Coutinho has collaborated with a variety of international fashion brands such as Jimmy Choo, Dior, Burberry, Diane Von Furstenberg and Dolce and Gabbana. She was the first Brazilian digital influencers to join The Society Management. With over 2.4 million Instagram followers, Coutinho is one of the most recognized bloggers worldwide, and appeared in the prestigious list on Forbes Brazil’s 30 under 30 in 2015 under the fashion and lifestyle blogger category. In 2017, she reached the Business of Fashion 500 list as one of the most influential people on fashion in the world. Coutinho launched her first book, “Estúpida, Eu?” in 2018, which tells the story of her career; transforming her hobby into a business. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
Пікірлер: 178
Fathers are treasures in this world. My father never underestimated me as a girl. I love him so much
What a message! Not only for woman but for everyone who’s want to get the real independence. Camila deserves the best!
@tatianarc25
4 жыл бұрын
Douglas Lucena nd she is a beauty blogger.... and had everything in her life... very rich family.... she is not at all what she is saying.....
@vinaydhiwar8604
Жыл бұрын
Simp
@LA-ly1nt
Жыл бұрын
@@tatianarc25 if beauty is where her passion and interest lies, then that's her choice. Why condemn someone's passion and interest just because she said that beauty is not everything that a woman should have? It's like saying someone who loves cars should not take the bus at all, and if you take a bus, you are not who you say you are? And the rich family part, why, should they cause themselves to be bankrupt and poor, begging on the streets? If they are rich, they are rich. That cannot be changed, unless somehow their business fail or something. Think and comment logically. Don't let any old fashion mindset and prejudices cloud yourself. Be better.
Que incrível poder ver onde vc chegou! Passaram várias lembranças de quando eu enquanto adolescente lia todo dia seu blog!! Palestra inspiradora!
Lembro de ler o GE desde a época que nem falava de moda em si, mas das celebridades. Vi Camila se tornar sucesso mundial e isso é tão maravilhoso. Ela merece tudo o que conquistou mesmo.
I never had a father and my mother never cared for me going to collage. All of my dreams and goals were nothing to her and they bother her I felt as if my goals were insulting her as a person.... I regret not leaving her long ago and follow my own way with new people maybe that could give me support and encouragement. I am a smart and creative person and I don't want to waste it.
Parabéns Camila pelo sucesso e por sua carreira 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Você é inspiração! 💙
Maravilhosa!!! Coragem, é pra frente que se anda! Te admiro!
O sorriso no final tipo: eu consegui!! Linda! Parabéns!
Que orgulho de vc menina!!! Parabéns!! Deus te abençoe sempre 🇧🇷🤗😘
Congrats on the presentation as well as on the strong nessage. Independence is key to a life of fullfillment.
I feel so proud of Cami! You nailed it! Thanks for representing us so incredible!
@RichardTavilla
6 күн бұрын
Now 4 years later 1 in 4 American women are on anti-depressants and the most unhappy since recorded history. Being strong and independent means that you’re alone with your cats on the holidays with no kids and no happiness. Run from feminism.
Camila Coutinho MARAVILHOSA 💕💕💕🌻🌻🌻
Camila é incrível! sou fã blogueira raiz inteligentíssima
Perfeita, NUNCA ERROU!
What a amazing message! Everybody and especially every girl should listen to go for it and chasing their dreams, you're really inspiring Camila ❤️
@RichardTavilla
6 күн бұрын
1 in 4 American women are on antidepressants. Being independent means that you are without a man and alone. Why in the world would anybody want that? Feminism was a huge lie. Now, women are alone with their cats and still working for a boss instead of a husband and family.. Wow, why would anybody preach that you should be alone? What a miserable existence
Amazing Camila, parabens!! Perfeito!!
CAMILA ❤🇧🇷
Amei Camila! 🙌🇧🇷👏👏👏 Bela palestra!
Parabéns Camila! 🌟
Maravilhosa ❤
You're the best! Recifense arretada! 👏🏽👏🏽
Incrível muito inspirador!!!
This was so inspiring! Arrasou mt Cami!!
Camila arrasadora ! ♥️😘
Perfeita. Arrasou.
Camila, sempre além das expectativas. Admiro desde o início do GE. Melhor TEDx ❤️
Palestra incrível, nunca erra
Maravilhosaa❤
You rock and we love you, Camila. 🇧🇷
that’s what everyone should know, but thank you Camila, you really brought the right words to make people realize this 🙏🏻
Congrats, Cami! You rock!👊🏼🇧🇷
AFFF EU AMO ESSA MULHER
Perfeitaaaa
que orgulho BRASIL!
Que maravilhosa, Camila! Amei muito! Ps: adorei seu livro! Parabéns pelo grande sucesso, o mundo é seu!!
É possível que eu tenha recebido outros elogios antes, mas o primeiro que realmente me lembro veio de uma professora e foi sobre inteligência. E foi dado junto a um conselho a minha mãe, que mudou minha vida. Era algo como: sua filha tem potencial, a Sra deveria colocá-la numa escola melhor. Depois disso fui pra uma escola conveniada a faculdade, depois virei bolsista na melhor escola da cidade e de lá parti pra faculdade.
Being independent is important in our lifes as women. I think indepence's comes to us when we decide to ignore what people can think about us and their opinions. Once I heard some episode on a podcast that I like a lot about this, actually we are humans and is very normal to think sometimes about what someone else could think about us, if we don't think about someone else opinion probably we could be psychopaths, it is normal to think about that, but is our daily decision choose our opinion first, a psychologist once told me "your opinion is as valuable as another person opinion", and since that, I think I give more importance to my thoughts. As we all know, life isn't easy always as we would like, people, even people we love, could let us down, and that's why we have to forge our self-esteem, and forge our independence and our self-confidence, my message is for women, I think all, men and women, have a lot of weight upon our shoulders, but in that order why not support us as women we already are?, independece is the faculty to waking up and say everyday "I'm alive, I'll live as I wish, I'll built the life that I want for me", sometimes when I feel bad with myself and I realize that nobody is around me to taking some advises, I repeat myself all of those things that surely I would tell someone else, and that helps me a lot. Independence is a daily decision.
@chisolafulayi8239
3 жыл бұрын
kindly share that podcast
Incrível 👏🏼
Melhor TEDx de todos 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Amazing !! 👏🏼👏🏼
Strong message. Thanks 💛
Maravilhosa!!
Muito bom Camila Parabéns!! 👏🏻👏🏻
Incrível!!!
Good luck! Hope that you find happiness in independence!
maravilhosa!!!
inspiração.
Amazing!!!!
Excelent Camila 🇧🇷❤️
Camila como sempre muito profissional e responsável!!! A nova geração de influencers devia se inspirar em pessoas como você.
Rainha do Brasillllll 😍👏
Amazing talk!!
When you have your own independence you don't have to thank anybody for anything.
INTELIGENTE E BEM SUCEDIDA! ADORO
Assisto esse vídeo sempre que preciso de uma dose de ânimo , Camila é maravilhosa ✨
Que gracinha, Camila! That's it!
Camila MARAVILHOSAAAA!!!!
Que mulherrr ❤️😍
Maravilhosa😍
Sensacional!!!!!
Rainha define! 👏👏👏👏
Great and crucial message!!! Please read: THE BEAUTY MYTH by Naomi Wolf. Last but not least: let's all make sure we no longer address women as "you guys". 🙃
MARAVILHOSA
Muuuuuuito bom
Mensagem foda Camila ♥️🇧🇷
Que linda , competente 👏👏
Parabéns, Camilla!
Wow. This is beautiful and inspiring. Thanks camila❤️ Love from india 🇮🇳
The best😍😍😍😍😍
Perfect
Do Nordeste para o mundo! Arrasou!!!
Being independent in thought and action is something many people struggle with!
@RichardTavilla
6 күн бұрын
1 in 4 American women are on antidepressants. Being independent means that you are alone and a miserable. Why would you want to be independent of a good man? Feminism was a huge lie. women all gladly work four hours for a boss instead of a husband then they turned 40 an hour alone with their cats
I wish someone had advised me like this, I quit my job to care for my family an now I am paying dearly for it. Thank you
Way to go, Camis! Congrats!
Yep
Amazing! So much proud of you*_*
RAINHA que diz, né???? dona e proprietária da internet
Camila maravilhosa!!!! Orgulho dessa Pernambucana arretada 👏👏👏👏👏❤
Maravilhosa
Awesome
Mt bommmm
Fantastic
Prooooud!! 💙
Sensacional, superou o seu medo de palestras e se saiu muito bem ♥️
Connecting.. to Courageous, Smart 📱 Princess.
CAMILA ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤ this
Power girl❤️❤️❤️❤️
Women's Independence is 💥💥💥💥
As a woman, we don't have to choose. But a child needs to spend time with their parents. Truth is : Working with children I've to deal with so many kids getting raised by their nanny or relatives. That's something to think about it.
@leticianascimento832
4 жыл бұрын
juliana santos I agree. I’m a mother and have had to choose in order to be present in my child’s life. Otherwise she’d have been raised by a relative or nanny which then would have had other consequences and impact in my child’s future.
@madi2450
4 жыл бұрын
Am I reading this in 2019? 🙄
@juliana6066
4 жыл бұрын
@@madi2450 no you don't. Just put a child in the world go work as crazy as Camila coutinho does now and later you can tell me the results....i've a student 4 years old her (single) mom travels a lot due to her job..you have no idea the things that she says or does every day in classroom...its like she screaming to the world: I miss my mom so badly. I'm not saying as a woman have to quit our job and stay home with kids. What I'm saying is :If you don't choose life will choose for you.
@juliana6066
4 жыл бұрын
@@leticianascimento832 Priorities... if we don't choose life will choose for us!
@Elaine-px4fw
4 жыл бұрын
@@leticianascimento832 I wonder if her mum was a full time mum, always present and supporting her in her dreams... That would be interesting to know. I'm a mother of 2, a boy and a girl and one of the values that my husband and I want to pass along to them is to be independent. I always worked my entire life and now taking this time to be a full time mum has been essential to race my children yet challenging for sure. I do want to go back to work...but One thing at the time...I miss my job a lot but I know that someone will do my job as good as mine or even better but no one can substitute my value as a mum, specially in the first 1000 days of a child's life. To help my children to feel safe, connected, loved and confident in their childhood and feel confident to explore the world and to be free and independent in the future I am taking a break now in my career for them. To be a present mother to them has been my priority more then any other dreams that I might have in my personal life.
Cami ❤🇧🇷
Eres lo máximo Camila ❤️ ojalá puedas hacer mas post en tu instagram y en garotas estupidas en inglés 🙏
Absolutely loved it ❤️ more power to every human on the road of becoming better version of themselves.
❤️❤️
This is wonderful. More women need to be like this instead of just depending on a man to do it.
@RichardTavilla
6 күн бұрын
One in four American women are on antidepressants. There are many surveys and peer studies on how women are the most unhappy since records have been kept . Being strong and independent means you are alone on the holidays with your cats. Feminism lied to women
SHE IS AMAZING
Maravilhosa, amei 💕💕💕
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You do have to choose that's what women have been fighting for!!!!
I'm 15 this year, and This is the age I start to actually figure out what I like, you know. Relationships and all aside. But the thing is, for example, i love reading and i'm starting to write my own books, a passion I really never knew I had, and many more but my family, father, sister mother, they really couldnt be bothered with me unless I get good grades and clean the house. I do get so discouraged but I realized that just because they dont really care about my interests or hobbies, doesnt mean I should give up. I find my own sources of encouragement and support where I cant get at home and this ted talk actually cleared up some things for me.