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@Ramadmurthy

3 жыл бұрын

@Hank Acham Good morning

@cartergomez5390

2 жыл бұрын

I'm gonna jump at that.

@rubicunduseratiudas1264

8 ай бұрын

Enough already!! Cut it out, will you? There's no such a thing as "emotional intelligence" or "almond milk" or "white chocolate" or "trade deficit"... We no longer know what universities are teaching. We got people all over the place calling themselves "scholars" or "experts" who publish and write in academic journals and sit in scholarly or academic seats; they give speeches, they head departments… And you know that what they’re saying is COMPLETELY FALSE. THE TRIUNE BRAIN THEORY AND NEUROLOGY COMPLETELY DEMOLISHES THE CONCEPT "EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE"...

@rubicunduseratiudas1264

4 ай бұрын

"Emotional intelligence" is like "almond milk" or "white chocolate": IT DOESN'T EXIST.

@Samrules888

Ай бұрын

real smart or "emotionally" smart

emotional intelligence refers to how well we handle ourselves & our relationships: the four domains; self awareness, self management, empathy, putting that all together in a skilled relationship

@royward410

5 жыл бұрын

you an idiot being clever is more important than being a little sis do you think wars are won by being EMOTIONAL?????

@demianfraserdarling

4 жыл бұрын

sharafat hussain u literally copied this from the video

@liamc1102

4 жыл бұрын

@@royward410 emotional intelligence is crucial for great success it often brings greater health and success than IQ

@riyasahamedpoolakkal6641

4 жыл бұрын

@@royward410 IF YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY ENTELLIGENT , YOU CAN EVEN AVOID WARS

@tyreid3560

3 жыл бұрын

poggers helped with my college hwk chad

Emotional inteligence should be taught in schools. Starting to learn these sort of things in adulthood or in your professional career through "soft skills" workshop is NOT enough. We should all know how to deal with our own emotions and how to respectfully communicate with others. It's a skill to be learned and our children need to learn it now.

@susydyson1750

2 жыл бұрын

as small a skill as taking a conscious breath before doing anything helps enormously!

@anupbhatt8643

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah it's good to have subject like emotional intelligence in school but at the same time these are the things that cannot be learnt theoretically or it should have to more of practical.

@ben_alfred

2 жыл бұрын

they teach it at mine. exceptionally irritating pseudoscience

2 жыл бұрын

@@ben_alfred Yours is the only sane comment here!

@jackjack4412

Жыл бұрын

​@@ben_alfred it's not pseudoscience. Share one argument for your opinion.

Honestly once you become emotionaly intelligent nothing or no one can shake your happiness no matter what they say

@JLDReactions

8 жыл бұрын

+secret person Yes, I think the bad stuff is there to teach us lessons. That's the only way we grow.

@ritahart2249

6 жыл бұрын

Paul the warrior Also no one can lie to your face and not be "sniffed" out. What does that say for 62 million Americans who voted for the lying orange clown faking it?

@lyfecast6960

4 жыл бұрын

Paul the warrior AGREED! That’s why it’s our first Principle at LYFE CAST for that very reason!

@normadeluna3349

4 жыл бұрын

Paul the warrior I want to practice emotional intelligence. I want to have peace.

@shazzkhan2201

4 жыл бұрын

@@normadeluna3349 the first step is self awareness. We need to understand our feelings, emotions and over all personality and conduct a SWOT analysis first

SMART START: ANSWERS 1. Recognize your EMOTIONS. 2. MANAGE your emotions. 3. Motivate self to ACHIEVE GOALS. 4. Recognize emotions in OTHERS. 5. Manage your RELATIONSHIPS. The video our teacher chose didnt have the answers at all 😅

@cantthinkofaname3995

4 жыл бұрын

Camarito Cyborg omg please help me with this for school!!

who's watcting this for class

@jordymartinez1178

3 жыл бұрын

me :/

@oshane2012

3 жыл бұрын

yep for snhu

@fromaddicttostatic2549

3 жыл бұрын

right here brother lol

@Royalty_girlie

3 жыл бұрын

me

@CrisDontMiss

3 жыл бұрын

Let me get them notes

The talk makes a lot of sense and makes the understanding of the subject more complete

I am a paid member of Big Think Edge, and I must say it has changed my life. Thanks a lot to the entire team.

Thank you so much Prof. Daniel. Now says, I we see many people esp young people lacking basic social skills, they need to learn " emotional intelligence".

the book is really precious...it affects my own life in a positive way

Simple words to understand yet very powerful knowledge about human emotions. Thank you for the video

I believe EQ is what makes true leaders as opposed to only managers.

@Kurio71

2 ай бұрын

Empathy?

@huh7708

Ай бұрын

@@Kurio71 emotional intelligence.

Best book I read during my undergrad studies. Thank you, Mr. Daniel!😉

DANIEL GOLEMAN IS THE BEST! (WELL, ONE OF THEM). MY ETERNAL ADMIRATION AND GRATITUDE. I'VE LEARNED A LOT FROM YOU THROUGH YOUR BOOKS FOR BALANCING, INCREMENTING MY EI AS WELL AS MY STUDENTS'!

Many people lost their position,job,promotion,because of not controlling their emotion and fell prey to their enemies.Balakrishnan

@rameshbabu2088

9 жыл бұрын

True

@tonyr.2321

9 жыл бұрын

I am one of them,

@ntg128

9 жыл бұрын

Well said!!

@anikchowdhury9708

3 жыл бұрын

True,I am a victim of that

@Ramadmurthy

3 жыл бұрын

Good morning . I do agree with your opinion.

They say grief is the root of compassion. Once you get in touch with your emotions and understand them, you can use them to read people etc.. ADHD is also correlated with EI

@dudutv4769

4 жыл бұрын

Tell me more about how it relates with adhd ..please

@khunpingpong

3 жыл бұрын

@@dudutv4769 2 schools of thought. nature and nurture...if your brain is only 50% the surrounding is 100%...the result is 75% no regret.

Great stuff! My emotional intelligence has improved significantly since applying myself and understanding that I NEED to do it! Put the work in! It pays dividends!

Self-awareness is key!!! Ask yourself, "What's my current emotional state?" Most people struggle to answer this question even with conscious effort. That being the case, those living their day on autopilot (unconscious) will be nearly impossible to become self-aware.

Thank you very much for such simple explanations!

Wow! Daniel Goleman has EQ expertise and I genuinely was soaking up every word. I absorbed and highly enjoyed this educational snippet. Thanks!

My business tutor showed me this today, im doing a diploma and emotional intelligence is the key to success.

He's a good speaker. I like the way he simply broke this down

Thank you for good read!... difficult to find browsing shelfs things that speak to you... very clearly winner.

I honestly think social media has been the most destructive force for Emotional Intelligence our species has faced so far. I'm quite curious to see if/how we'll adapt to it.

@jeremyjery01

Жыл бұрын

There is evidence to suggest that excessive use of social media may have negative effects on emotional intelligence. Social media can lead to increased feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and depression, and can also contribute to a reduced ability to empathize with others. One reason for this may be that social media platforms encourage users to present a curated version of themselves, leading to a lack of authenticity and empathy in interactions. Additionally, social media can create a sense of FOMO (fear of missing out) and social comparison, leading to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. However, it's important to note that social media can also provide opportunities for connection, community-building, and learning, depending on how they are used. It's all about finding a healthy balance and being intentional with our social media use.

@KhachikKarakeshishyan-ny1zp

11 ай бұрын

In this point I should oppose with you. Before that, I want to mention that the social media is not for adaptation it was created for information availability and everything in internet. Our goal should be to manage that information by being Emotional Intelligence.

@AlbinosaurusR3X

11 ай бұрын

@@KhachikKarakeshishyan-ny1zp It's a poor argument to say what it was intended to do in the fave of the obvious harms it *actually* does. The informational aspect of the internet does not require social media to exist to fulfill its purpose, for that matter.

@jimiboi87

11 ай бұрын

I honestly think that emotional intelligence has been the most destructive force for social media our species has faced so far. I'm quite curious to poo on it. 🙉💩

@njongige

7 ай бұрын

​@@jeremyjery01I agree with this idea. Social media has created a barrier to more human direct interaction. Why do we call it social media? There aint a thing social about it if our children cant spell their names correctly without asking google or siri (Secretary of Secrets)

This was very helpful. Crisp and clear. Thank you.

I respect him so much. He understand when to emphasize the important shit with intelligence.

very interesting and so so important. Great channel.

Emotional Intelligence is most important! I agree

@luckygirliie

6 ай бұрын

I love your pfp

Emotional Intelligence is one of principal method in our life and everyone has their own method in order for being individual. However we know a lot of people whose call emotional and quick to anger, so it's never too late for changing yourself by managing your emotions.

simply awesome hugs n love to u i can see an amazing and strong person in u God bless you

Muy bueno! Gracias por los subtítulos!

Muito bom a colocação das palavras ,tive que vê várias vezes para ler mais deu para entender , obrigado

I am really excited to learn more about it and become and emotionally inteligente person. I just started reading his book and I am enjoying it a lot!

Thank you to share your knowledge and deep feeling with us!

@manju.suthar5240

2 жыл бұрын

Heyy

Working on this myself, never too late if the Millenniums “ get it”. ❤️

Mr. Daniel you are a genius.

I read many positive think like book but emotional intillegince very relibale and practical.

very useful videos thanx alot

very interesting topic. The military when training senior NCOs, Officers, help them in their war time Peace time missions. Solid presentation and well appreciated!!

I'm reading this book now and it's a real eye opener.

@stephennn403

4 жыл бұрын

What's the name of the book

I've had Daniel Goleman as my Hotmail avatar since 2004, when I was 12. I see his face every time I log into my laptop. Never knew who he was and only found by google image searching him. What a discovery. I feel like I'm meeting up with an old friend.

To every culture emotional intelligence can be learned with practice, but in saying that some are not very open and flexible

Im using your Theory of Emotional Intelligence as the main model for my theses in my MPhil.

IQ is definitely only one aspect of intelligence. EQ is not something that is naturally taught in school, but extremely important.

Self awareness Self management Empathy Putting it all together

Truth be told, I'm only watching this to pass my finals since I don't copy notes. The joys of college....

@TheCyberG

7 жыл бұрын

same here po.

@hafsaboutzakate3853

7 жыл бұрын

Same here haha.

@aryamansingh7105

7 жыл бұрын

Same ...

@adeadeniji3883

6 жыл бұрын

Lianza D. I

@GauravKalyan

6 жыл бұрын

same here but they are really helpful in life as well.

Ive learn this skills as I stater practicing meditation.

EI is an attempt to encompass the values we follow , in terms of our culture, intuitions, intentions and discipline to confirm how capable we are to control ourselves and then the other's issues come

The idea that EQ can be learned is so encouraging.

I would love to see how this could apply to our teens in high school, to promote better image positivity.

I always think I had some special power😂😂 I could literally tell how person is feeling I was fascinated to know what was it. Thank you😊

@normadeluna3349

4 жыл бұрын

Vaskar420 .G me too. I am an emphat.

To became awarded of your own emotions and pick up more emotions in your surroundings

Very useful thank you

Very interesting and useful analysis.

All this sounds good as long as we respect those who have different EI than us

I'm in. We need more training on Emotional Intelligence.

@whatyouneedtoknow

4 жыл бұрын

Have a look at this kzread.info/dash/bejne/aXiWo8dyhJysnM4.html

@5MinutePsychology

3 жыл бұрын

I often wonder why we don’t teach Emotional Intelligence to kids at school. At least not intentionally.

Great video!

I think this is not taught nearly enough in our educational systems. It is a huge problem.

@vallon1225

8 жыл бұрын

agreed

2:30 LOL. I have had lots of close encounters with those entities in my job and because it. Sometimes I have won, sometimes it has been a big fail!

Okay, you're the new Einstein, no doubt anche it. You saved my life years ago, but only now I can really understand why.

Thanks sir

Nice explanation

Great video! The speaker is referring to a meta-analysis. Does anyone have the link or name of the article?

Doing research on emotional intelligence. Thanks for this video

love this

Go get his book! 11/10 recommended!

Daniel Goleman a whole legend

This says a lot about the schools I went to

Handling own and customers emotion is the key to success in customer care

@AlbinosaurusR3X

2 жыл бұрын

True. Sales is like this too.

A theory to put on into our lives to learn, to control, to succeed in your life 👍

I could listen to him talk for much longer :D

Obrigado Daniel 👋👋👋👋

Thank you for uploading this wonderful video-Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. It is a good idea to teach these Soft Skills in the Schools and Colleges.-Dr.Balu.

@motivationalquotes6154

Жыл бұрын

Ok, are you still alive

I think a lot of cultures have a misleading perspective about emotional intelligence. for example, in my region in china, people associate emotional intelligence with not being authentic, and always focusing on social skills. I think it's dead wrong. just as daniel mentioned in his talks, great leaders have both inner awareness and outer awareness that make them drive high performance in teams.

Emotional intelligence: self-awarness, self-management, empathy, social relationships.

@infini_ryu9461

2 жыл бұрын

All of which can fall under the umbrella of General intelligence, so a separate theory is not required. Low IQ people have low impulse control, we already have a working theory for this stuff. EQ is just a cope. "Well, you might not be academically gifted, but you're emotionally gifted." is just complete nonsense. Feeling feelings is not intelligence, either.

@AlbinosaurusR3X

2 жыл бұрын

@@infini_ryu9461 Spotted the guy with low EQ. =P

@infini_ryu9461

2 жыл бұрын

@@AlbinosaurusR3X I would be offended if EQ meant anything. It doesn't.

@AlbinosaurusR3X

2 жыл бұрын

@@infini_ryu9461 It wasn't meant to offend. Was simply a joke. =)

This is an AWESOME video Emotional Intelligence! Emotional Intelligence is the first of the eight Principles we teach! Thanks for making such a wonderful video!

Meditation books like Practical meditation and The way and goal of Rajyoga can help in similar ways, they are at 'omshantistore'.

2:30 love him for that

Interesting how society has rediscovered this concept. I would suggest this is a natural corrective reaction to the PC trend that tends to negate individual responsibility for what they do with their emotions and places it on everyone around them - the "I'm sad and its your fault, so fix me" attitude. Focus on emotional inteligence allows critique of individual reactions born of emotional impulse. Hopefully it will give acceptance to the notion of individual responsibility in pulling ones self out of a sense of victimhood, but without destroying the concept of justice needed for social order.

There is evidence to suggest that excessive use of social media may have negative effects on emotional intelligence. Social media can lead to increased feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and depression, and can also contribute to a reduced ability to empathize with others. One reason for this may be that social media platforms encourage users to present a curated version of themselves, leading to a lack of authenticity and empathy in interactions. Additionally, social media can create a sense of FOMO (fear of missing out) and social comparison, leading to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. However, it's important to note that social media can also provide opportunities for connection, community-building, and learning, depending on how they are used. It's all about finding a healthy balance and being intentional with our social media use.

I discovered my EQ is a 135 after doing an extensive 1 hour test. Im blown away. And my IQ is 130 plus. I am blown away. Do you have any tests? By the way I am 56 and a half, so I contribute the number from my street smarts and experience. Plus, I am an Empath, so my social and self awarness and management is near perfect. I am glad that I did these tests during covid. I even outscored Dr, Phil once, 160 EQ. Good to know where I stand worldwide. I just thought I was me. I was a singer and drummer in a band, mental health care worker and Mom. Im glad I know how important it I s to just read anyone. I think, it can be a negative thing too. I feel things that aren't always good. Good to know

I think a practical model should be introduced in every school and organization curriculum.

Love how he juked that question about cultures via cultural relativism, smooth move dodging the bait, well played

Thanks

Im watching to better my life

Excellent

Thank you so much, you explained it very clearly. 👌👌👌09.07.2022, 21:20

Best book I have ever read

Thinking back on my upbringing and it shaped my emotional intelligence being challenged mentally by my Mum

Two issues regarding leaders that fail to be addressed - 1) a lack of necessary technical skills to operate independently and successfully in their field, and 2) the lack the ability to think or argue rationally - this is an issue that I think will continue to be problematic, especially since these are not really considered ...

Hello everyone... i need ESCI measurement scale given by Goleman... kindly help me in this regards

Hi Daniel I began your book this day. And despite not having read too far, I concur. Problem? The folk who need to learn from your book will rarely read (if indeed they can read!) Oh incidentally I am a mere 15 months younger than you. I do not mean to detract from your wise words however as a bloke (I an Aussie living in Thailand) who did not complete secondary school, I support your words. I revert to my second sentence. Cheers, with respect from this fella whose nickname is Grumpy.

how about the emotional quotient for student?? how to measure that?? related with their achievement in school??

I agree we should be ble to measure EQ in different cultures. religion, cultural limitations like a gendere segregated societies surely will impact, for example, a person's ability to exercise great listening skills or empathy. Also, surely in autocratic societies or countries it would be compounded by authoritative leadership and even dictatorships?

Why is it that I embed this video in powerpoint and I keep getting a message that this video is unavailable?

Would anyone know the name of the report where the meta-analysis he refers to will be? Thanks in advance :)

Great news 👏 👍

Just today, in the moorning, i've discover this freaking topic, and it freaks me out, i feel just powerfull like a fk god, like when youre a kid and you know your body can whistle.

Managing distressing emotions… but it’s sounds very much like “don’t ever have huge outbursts”. Just to confide in some definition. But feeling and expressing feelings expressively is what makes us humans, but yes, let’s all be ashamed of certain public emotions. If you listened carefully that’s essentially a nutshell.

Human relationships are fulfilling