Ok well let's look at this Adultery is when a man lays with a married woman, not when a woman lays with a married man If you are a man's third wife you will be that man's third wife as long as he lives Men can have multiple wives but women can't have multiple husbands Nowhere in scriptures does it say a woman that lays with a married man commits adultery There is only one reason to divorce and be free to marry another and that is fornication before marriage. Oh yeah you can divorce but that will not make a woman free to marry another