👗I’m sharing my favorite daily etiquette rules classy women follow. I hope you enjoy the video!

@AndreaMartinez-ip2vu

2 жыл бұрын

My husband was so annoyed early in our relationship whenever he sneezed and I didn’t say “bless you”-he would wait a few seconds and then say “you didn’t say bless you” 😂 Now it’s automatic on my part for any sneeze 😁

1: sorry, please and thank you. 2: greet people. 3: say bless you when people sneeze. 4:open door. 5: give people grace.

@krisb3939

3 жыл бұрын

I call them manners

@catgames703

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah 😂

@godddd.6857

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@WhatchuTalkingAboutTucker51

3 жыл бұрын

I’m working on saying my apologies instead of saying I’m sorry.

@KaRiNa-pj9sb

3 жыл бұрын

I had forgotten about #5 and but I will get on it today. Thank you!

It is a sad commentary on our present society that someone has to teach adults to use common polite phrases. This used to be the cultural norm. I am glad that you are trying to bring classy back!

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the kind words, Robbie. 💕 We have many mainstream influences inspiring people today to be selfish and disrespectful. I am happy to teach something I’m passionate about - kindness, gracefulness and elegant living.

@leilarabiey527

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you, these tips and lessons are tremendously needed in modern life.

@cbh2409

Жыл бұрын

It's a sad commentary on you that you didn't notice the errors.

One of the greatest pieces of advice I heard growing up was not to say "no problem" and use "you're welcome." Take pride in the effort you put in to something and don't brush it off, no matter how small.

@junior6447

3 жыл бұрын

I say no problem, not because I am not prideful in helping someone, but it literally was not a problem to me to come and help. And I would be happy to help again.

@nilnil7325

3 жыл бұрын

Saying 'no problem' isn't being dismissive. Its just a casual, friendly way of saying "Don't worry about it, I was happy to help". Its intended to put the other person at ease so that they don't feel indebted to you for the help you offered.

@audreyjanecantrell3667

3 жыл бұрын

@@nilnil7325 I don't know, but my dad always taught me never to use it. You could use 'of course' for a situation like that.

@renettegordley6673

3 жыл бұрын

Saying no problem after a thank you sounds terrible to me.

@corinnapierre588

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you

I love that this video focuses on what truly represents class and elegance! Sadly not everyone with chic hair and clothes is very elegant or classy due to the way they treat other people.

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

Elle you are absolutely right! An elegant person is truly someone who treats others with kindness and respect - not simply someone who is well-dressed. 💕 I’m so delighted you enjoyed the video!

I’m going to my very Christian friend’s house, they are really “proper” so I’m trying to act more proper whenever I go there lol.

@Flowersbyalexis

3 жыл бұрын

I feel this lol. I’m going to my Christians boyfriends moms house tomorrow in the Alabama 💀 talk about proper

@yeti6601

3 жыл бұрын

@6Sarcasm._.Lemon9 lol

@morganlynn7235

3 жыл бұрын

I love your style! I have been looking for videos on elegance & etiquette but many of them focus on affluence & impressing wealthy people or come off as being arrogant. I love that you are very down to earth & want to encourage the average woman to be a lady but you do it in a very refreshing way! My favorite tip was giving others grace! As soon as I heard that I knew I would follow your channel. 😊 Keep up the great work!

@mistyfox2078

3 жыл бұрын

@@morganlynn7235 hey I think you responded to the wrong person, hope you find the person though!

@ladytee7711

2 жыл бұрын

Be nice that's all you can do don't change who you are because you have christian friends that are proper key word "christian" they would love you for you if they don't then I'm not sure what christians you are hanging around x I say this out of love

if someone sneezes now we all run!!

@sadenni

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@missangelina6254

3 жыл бұрын

We run for sure!!

Sometimes I don't greet my manager/supervisors due to having low confidence yet people assume that I'm confident because I carry myself well, so this was a good reminder for me to always greet others. I can be in my head a lot and it's funny how a lack of etiquette can unintentionally can create misunderstandings between people.

"Hi, how are you?" I always smile.

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

I love it! 💕 I’m sure your smile always brightens someone’s day!

Also speaking over others when they are speaking, it's a big pet peeve of mine...

Meditation helps with grace, especially balancing the heart chakra.

@lifeasbron843

2 жыл бұрын

I need to learn more about this lol

The reason why I came to this video is because lately I feel stupid when I say thank you or you’re welcome to people. The way they respond to me saying thank you is as though they don’t want to hear it. They don’t say you’re welcome either. I observe people’s behavior and every year people just seem to get more rude. Perhaps is where I live, Miami, Florida 🤨

@b.b.4850

2 жыл бұрын

I've been in Orlando since the pandemic, but I lived in Miami for ten years and people are definitely ruder there. It was always a shock when someone would hold a door open for me, it seldom happens there. Miami is a city full of opportunists for sure. As much as I miss my dear friends and my former life, I don't think I will be returning there at this point.

I am so glad to see you in another decor! This background is beautiful, and it feels like we're having a conversation in your living room.

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching, I’m delighted you enjoyed my etiquette video.

I just realized I already do all of them like a “life” rule, do people really need to be taught how to say thank you and you’re welcome?

@lifeasbron843

2 жыл бұрын

Hi ,sadly yes :)

I love this background and there is no echo, a happy new year to you.

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

Happy new year and thank you for watching my video.

Wow, you are so elegant and so right about treating people with grace. I respect people and show them grace and they give me the same.♥️♥️😊😊🙏🙏

In the work environment I use Good Morning and Good Afternoon most. I use Hello mostly with strangers.

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

Rosalie, I love your greetings! 💕 Thank you for sharing! The acknowledgment of others is a kind gift we can always give to brighten someone’s day. ☀️

I really enjoyed this video. Thanks for sharing!!

Ty for the reminders!!! 😄

I just found your channel and am binge watching your beautiful messages. I see that you are no longer a KZread. I wish that you where, but I also see you offer books and still have your videos up. You have bless me. Thank you!

I was looking for something like this forme. I am glad to have found your channel

I really loved this video, thank you!

You carry yourself so well. Thank you for sharing your insight and I'm so glad I subscribed 💗

@lifeasbron843

2 жыл бұрын

She really does

Absolutely fantastic video!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽❤❤

Thank you, you are very kind and sweet to make this video.

Very nice reminders ❤

Wonderful message about the gift of grace!

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

The gift of grace is such a beautiful to live - we all need grace (including ourselves)! 💕 Thank you for the kind words, Emmy! 🥂 I’m delighted you enjoyed my etiquette video!

Love your channel!!

My goal this year is to tap more into my femininity and become more ladylike. I believe it will make me a better wife and mother. I'm loving the journey!💗💗💗

Missed you. Glad to find you again. Missing the white pump! Thanks for all that you do!

I like to greet anyone I met whether I know them or not by saying namaste with a smile.. it's like a daily habit ☺️

Loved it thanks very much

Hi Devoreaux! I LOVE your name, such a unique name! Can you possibly do a video on bra's? The right fit, how they should feel and look. How to clean them? The right bra's to go with certain outfits?

Thank you. ❤

Excellent video

I say "bless you as well.." when someone says bless you. some laugh...some adore it. is that proper? im coming from a genuine place though..

@rose-mh1ry

3 жыл бұрын

I guess it's lovely in all the beautiful tones and genuine heart and a smile.❤️

@Godbody321

3 жыл бұрын

@@rose-mh1ry exactly thank you

Good thoughts madam keep up!!

I am new here, I love the way you speak. You just got a subscriber.

YOU HAVE A CRAZILY BEAUTIFUL SMILE!

What a lovely smile and voice you have

Great channel! 👏👍

really, I love your smile

Thank you!! Extremely important with Millenials. Unfortunately, I'm not seeing it as much in this culture as in prior generations. I would like to share this comment. I'm not sure if it's culture but we were taught not to say thank you after someone sneezes.

For me, everything is about psychology. Most people have "inner demons" that affect their actions toward other people. As a self-taught psycho-analyst, I can see these demons clearly, so I try to be considerate of the fact that the majority of people cannot sort through their personal issues with either themselves or with anyone else as I can, because they are often not aware of these issues to begin with. I am a person who cannot stand to be disrespected, but after moments pass and I meditate on a situation, I let it go and I'm OK. Anywho, understanding others helps - even though, as mentioned in the video, certain behavior is unnecessary, and certain behavior will not be overlooked by me if it's too extreme or creates a victim - and it keeps me humble. I am proud to be the person who can ease the minds of those around me by helping them to also understand others' points of view and their feelings, but also to help those understand their own feelings and actions.

thank you so much mam for such videos . You are so kind , beautiful and most lovely women I have ever seen.

My fav greeting is to give them a smile amd say hello

New and subscribed!!! 😄

In my country you have to thank the bus driver when getting off the bus like 10 teenagers after another saying good morning good afternoon and thank you when getting off and when getting on the bus Everyone in my class said bless you after the teacher that was minding us in our exam sneezed and after sneezing the teacher said excuse me this is so normal in Europe which is weird

I love how your hair looks. I have the same kind but it takes so long to care for it frugally. Love to go to the salon! How do you dry your hair? Thank you!!!

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the kind words. I wash my hair and dry it using a blow dryer and round brush before straightening it with a flat iron.

@minecraftplayslmg9608

4 жыл бұрын

The Modern Lady perfect. Thank you!

What should l do when l'm offered a drink/ or water at a neighbor's house, it's my first time there....was invited to discuss sn issue concerning our neighborhood? Should l accept the drink? Should l finish the glass of the drink? Should l fill the glass to the brim? Please help. Thank you

When I first watched this video, I didn’t understand why she was stating the obvious. This is pretty much how everyone I knew grew-up. To sum it up, “be nice to everyone.” Unfortunately, later or earlier in life, people become complacent or just go with the flow. It’s not easy to stay being nice. I was once confused when someone commented that they had never heard me swear. That gave me a lot to think about. Different jobs also have different people. Not everyone likes nice people. They get suspicious.

I really like your video..thats the thing i want to know..love from pakistan

Great video! And you look like Christina Milian.

I use them all.

getting worked up because someone doesn't say bless you over a sneeze is silly

Sometimes I like to say with a big smile, “Greetings!”

I have a hard time greeting people, I don't want to be the first one because of social anxiety and I have odd fear they might not respond or some reason lol

Beautiful video! Hmm but now I've got a question. I also read on a blog of etiquette that you shouldn't say "bless you" when someone sneezes because you shouldn't draw attention to that. What should I follow then?

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the kind words. 💕 You can choose what works best for you. I personally prefer to acknowledge people when they sneeze by saying Bless You.

@nathaliedr7582

4 жыл бұрын

I was told that it is in spirit of savoir vivre to ignore our physiological reactions, whether it’s sneezing, burping or else... and not drawing attention to it.

I really like greeting in my native language , I think people find it original 🇿🇼

Hey girl new to your channel and thanks for this video! Saying “bless you” seems to be mostly done in North America because back in Jamaica, where I’m from, we don’t do that often lol. But when I moved here I realized it was a common thing which I found sweet

@lauravdmeijs1512

3 жыл бұрын

In the Netherlands we say: "gezondheid" which means "healthiness". So you kind off wish for the person to be/get healthy (and happy). I think the "problem" some have with bless you is for its religious perspective. I'm really happy we are using a "health term" instead of a "religious term", nobody gets hurt or feels left out this way.

I recently read that according to etiquette, we should not say "bless you" to a stranger. Rather, we should simply ignore them. I have been having some difficulty remembering not to say it when I hear someone sneeze. I'll admit, I do feel bad not saying it. I suppose it's like what T M said, it's a matter of respecting others from all backgrounds.

@sewhip

4 жыл бұрын

I actually like I when people say 'bless you' to me, if I sneeze. It's similar to what was said about not being ignored and feeling that your existence matters.

@MissBrownin

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

I have a bad habit of saying hola since hs. I try to say hi instead but wow I’m stuck 😂

I appreciate this greatly, I wish man, and women were required to take classes.

I never did mind, about the little things

I want a glass of grape Kool one ice cube please.

Do you have a video on rude family😕😄😕

HEY

My usual greeting is: "Hello there".

My close captioning always say your name is debra

Wen talking to my pears I use hello or hi but wen referring to older people I say good morning.

Saying “bless you” after someone sneezes is a superstitious thing and I no longer say it. It does feel weird but I don’t go by superstitious customs any longer. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@bluefox7678

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, it did have a superstitious past, but I think that is no longer the case. At least I presume when most people say 'bless you' they aren't hoping that the person doesn't drop dead. Nowadays, it's more of a ' don't feel bad, we all sneeze from time to time.' Do you think the majority still holds to the superstitious meaning of the past?

Good evening mam ,☺️☺️ I m from India,I m new here I want to be like u🥰🥰🥰🥰

I say hello 👋🏼, good morning 😃, good evening to my Bible study class, when on the elevator and it stop when headed to the Lobby they asked if they can get on I tell them come on in or let’s ride.

Dear Modern Lady, my daughter has her friend over everyday for hours and hours and leaves around 5or 6 am. Tonight this person took a shower in our home and I told my daughter I was not comfortable with this. He lives around the corner with his father. There's not a need. Please any advice will help.

@laurenlilliewilson3646

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Susannah. It sounds like your daughter might have a very special friend there! While this is great for many reasons, obviously this is a little intrusive without set rules or without you (being the parent and homeowner) being aware! That's bad manners for sure! I'd start by giving your daughter benefit of the doubt, but talk to her and express that this makes you uncomfortable. What is their relationship? Official? Just hanging out? That's fine, but maybe boundaries could be set about visits/times. Is he staying for dinner? That's fine but she should give you a heads up! Leaving the house at 5am? Either he should stay over or not at all? When its still dark out, that could be dangerous too. The fact his parents don't seem to notice him coming home at 5/6am makes me wonder what kind of relationship he has with his parents. Is he ok? Could some hospitality be set between yourself , him and your daughter ? Maybe some grace is required here. But one that sets a defined limit, and allows all parties to be aware of comings and goings in your house (which is proper and polite!). Best not to let the situation fester, but better understand what's going on and act accordingly. That allows you to take charge of things a little better. It sounds like you're trying to look for the best etiquette options so good on you! Best of luck

Hello from Australia! I can assure you all that most people here do not say g’day!

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

Hello, Elle! 👋🏽 I have never been to Australia, however I hope to visit next year. 🥰 I am excited to see what the culture is like there!

Im really dont find the need to want others to say Bless you when i sneeze. Why is that a necessity? Im tryyyyyying to understand the "etiquette" part in that. There is nothing wrong with others not saying that to me, so enlighten me please. This specific thing is bothering me.

Just trying to feel like a princess for once

I use good morning or evening as well.

I say, greetings or shalom

hey , is mine

People originally started saying bless you because they though when you sneezed your soul left your body and a demon entered it so they would bless them, and I don’t believe that lol so I don’t feel it necessary to say

Good morning or good afternoon Sometime Hi

Kindness acknowledgmend respect were has it gone ?

Giving people the benefit of the doubt is the kindest act of all.

Iv jest been dumped by my boyfriend well ex boyfriend now and I want to show him that he jest made a big mistake and I want to be abit more classy I'm going to be myself but I want to be a bit more confident and classy too

You are a very beautiful woman.

Did your parent name you after Dominique??

How about when someone sneezes in your office 14 times an hour?! I’m tired of saying it

@dsnintendo22

3 жыл бұрын

i only say it twice

@KM-rj6bu

3 жыл бұрын

They need to be removed from others

Some religions (Jehovah Witnesses) don’t practice and teach their members to say Bless You when someone sneezes.

@TheModernLady

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching my video! You make an excellent point, when religious principles are taught - those that follow that religion should certainly choose to live in a manner that best fits their preferences. I agree with you!

Ma how does someone give a person grace

You might want to reevaluate the sound in your video

I prefer “good morning” and “good afternoon”.

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Unfortunately, stuff like this does apply to the average New Yorker…Bronx..Brooklyn..Harlem and such!!

@bd10232003

2 жыл бұрын

Not totally true. There are still plenty of New Yorkers with manners. Not so much among the youth, but the older adults and middle aged, yes.

But “bless you “is related to religion that doesn’t make sense for non religious people , we need a new way to honor when someone sneezes. In the Latin culture they say salud which means to your health. Bless means to be less than. It also means to consecrate with blood . You can check the true meaning of bless.

@rb7454

3 жыл бұрын

Would you or someone not religious not want to have favor with the eternal beings? Is “God bless you” really that offensive to you?

It really bothers me that it has become normal to say “no problem” instead of “you’re welcome.”

I'm assuming this video is not for the feminist.

I am trying to find a good channel for etiquette tips for women. She is sweet, but the video was a little too sleepy for me.

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I do not see this type of etiquette in Chicago women….