Andre, if you see this, there is a large Russian Population in Chicago, Illinois AND more importantly they have NO 3 strike rule!!! Mark knows people there, there are a lot of outreach programs which could help you get your education, find a home and a job. It is only a bus ride away and Mark could help you. Best of luck. You deserve it!

@SoftWhiteUnderbelly

2 жыл бұрын

Great suggestion Annie.

@elainew2230

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, Chicago would be better than LA.... and a fresh start. It seems that if he got clean, and went somewhere else where he had a job, friends and a purpose things could be different.

@Producti0nhyper

2 жыл бұрын

Helpful comment…35 likes….hateful comment 34K likes. This is a great suggestion, and hopefully Andre can enjoy the rising sun like the rest of us. I wish him the best.

@krisblunt6293

2 жыл бұрын

Chicago? Yeah, jump out the pot of Hell and into the fire.

@bonhamcarter4488

2 жыл бұрын

@@krisblunt6293 don't be jealous

Andre, Im a russian from UK, I know how our culture is with drinking and domestic violence - there is a lot of generational trauma unfortunately. Please dont feel you have to identify with the story about suicide running in your family. you can break that pattern and get some help. Stay strong Andre!

@lisanevins3605

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful words. yes Russians have many amazing qualities. It seems Andre has been failed by many people throughout his life. I hope he loves himself & finds his way to have a happy life that he deserves.

@anneillerbrun7909

2 жыл бұрын

I'm a Belarussky in Canada--- He looks like a Chuvash --his strength comes from deep inside. Too bad he can't go back home. There's a big community of resent Russian immigrants in Portland Oregon--

@lisanevins3605

2 жыл бұрын

@@anneillerbrun7909 go home to Russia? No , he has more where he is.

@scarletsletter4466

2 жыл бұрын

@@lisanevins3605 I know right. Not many of us are looking to go back to Eastern Europe from the US. I think he'd be better off coming to the east coast like NYC where we have many large established communities of people like him

@dirtbagbooda1162

2 жыл бұрын

@@anneillerbrun7909 I live in Portland and yes there’s pocket communities of Russians and they stick together mostly

He’s telling his story, but he barely looks up, so you know it hurts. You’re not alone Andre. You can recover from meth, I’ve done it, you can get your education, you’re young enough. Believe in yourself and you can do it, there’s help out there.

@caitchri2426

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, his body language is so telling. He seems ashamed and defeated. He just needs something to be proud of…

@damienholland8103

2 жыл бұрын

Education costs a lot of money. I think becoming sober and getting a job are more realistic goals.

@emilyflotilla931

2 жыл бұрын

Kudos Stephanie!

@nunyabizwacks6711

2 жыл бұрын

ive never met so many body language experts in one place in my life as i have on this channel

@nunyabizwacks6711

2 жыл бұрын

@@damienholland8103 💯

This man had so much to say. He probably hasn't ever had anyone truly listen to what he has to say. Thank you for listening Mark. This was an amazing interview.

@yootoob1001001

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, Jenny Smith. I was thinking earlier about these beautiful people telling their life experiences and stories and how for some of them it may be the first time someone is actually listening to them. And many of us are! Even in the hardest stories, many many people have that moment they share some wisdom or grace that shows that the flame in them refuses to go out. Andre is one of them and I wish him the very best.

@hnybee113

2 жыл бұрын

I think Mark is an empath!!

@lgpollock68

2 жыл бұрын

@@hnybee113 I agree, Laura💜💜

@georgie-peorgie73

2 жыл бұрын

Your so right..😥

@georgie-peorgie73

2 жыл бұрын

@@hnybee113 we need empaths sometimes..😉

The hardest part is you can sense his kindness. Jesus Christ. How can this man be ok? I hope he can.

@vicpadilla9425

2 жыл бұрын

You called it, Jesus Christ is the way out.

@thornmatthew8395

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sure there are other ways too but this is certainly a strong option.

@vicpadilla9425

2 жыл бұрын

@@thornmatthew8395 I am older now and believe me my life has been very difficult.. But God has been with me and helped along the way.

@vicpadilla9425

2 жыл бұрын

@@YourInASoulTrap Why is that ? Because you say so ?

@vicpadilla9425

2 жыл бұрын

@@YourInASoulTrap What do you believe that you think is the Truth ?

When he first started speaking I thought, "He speaks with a Mexican accent. Interesting." Learning that he's from Russia was very interesting. Sounds like he learned English from Mexican American locals.

@jaybird6090

2 жыл бұрын

Looks like jail tatts the white boy on his neck He done time in Cali pens kicked it with the homies

@kimmead3683

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I thought.

@EllicottCity1

2 жыл бұрын

I thought the same

@MariaEOD

2 жыл бұрын

I immediately noticed that “WB (Warner Brothers) White Boy” logo.

@MariaEOD

2 жыл бұрын

I thought he was a mixed Mexican “milkweed”. 😆

This dude is a damn warrior considering all the shit he endured

@soniamartinez5591

Жыл бұрын

You Know what because god is hel him and wish Hr made best Of his love fr get a job try and find good peole around you May god help you make a famikly And give the of You with your Kids that got ng to help ou stay much make a family try and forget the past and being a new life you make not for it bit get a dogbir cat these thing bring happens hod bless you sir

This beautiful boy needs a hug for an entire year.

@colemacedo-phillips5768

3 ай бұрын

Oh yes! Hearing how he tried to take his life after his girlfriend broke up with him was heart wrenching! 😢💔

I feel like if Andre just had a period of time when he was truly loved, supported and encouraged he could do so much and turn all of this around. What a tough life to try and navigate on your own. Sending lots of love his way. ❤️❤️✨

@afterforever2765

2 жыл бұрын

so well said!

@christinelittle7229

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@fadedrose9

2 жыл бұрын

So true. It's so hearbreaking. I just want to put my arms around him & tell him how sorry I am that he was treated so badly his whole life.

@JC111WPB

2 жыл бұрын

1 Cor 13

@bronzewolf3

Жыл бұрын

Agreed I don't think it will take much to turn him around... Love, support, companionship, encouragement, he's a real sweetie. I hope he finds someone out there that will see him for who he is

This is one of the most heartbreaking stories I heard on SWU. I'm feeling a strange mix of empathy, sadness, and hope

@MEL2theJ

2 жыл бұрын

Excellent comment

@mindycalderon3297

2 жыл бұрын

i agree 😭

@Vsan2910

9 ай бұрын

Agreed! I would contribute to a gofundme for him and I have never given to a stranger before . Came to the comments to look for one

I don’t know how one person manages to be so strong. The fact that this young man is still living and breathing after everything he has been through is a show of pure resilience. His story is one of strength and it’s truly inspiring. This channel constantly highlights the products of generational abuse. I watch this channel religiously and everyday it teaches me to be less judgmental, to be more empathetic and to work harder everyday to break those generational curses that have been bestowed upon us. Thank you, Mark.

@sandife4nandes365

2 жыл бұрын

Very well said. It also reminds other survivors of how hard we have worked to overcome so many obstacles. And yes, drugs and mental illness does not discriminate. From the 1% to below poverty. Abuse comes in all forms.

@yazangannon1292

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandife4nandes365 Exactly. A daily gentle reminder of how far we have come is solid motivation to keep pushing in the right direction. Keep pushing, my sister. You’ve got this 💪🏽

@John49910110

2 жыл бұрын

Fuck resilience RESISTENCE!!!

Damn Mark you're coming with the hitters lately. This is a special one. Andre had a really hard life. I hope he can figure it out.

@terywetherlow7970

2 жыл бұрын

Oh a Blue Jay for your thumbnail....I love them!!

@leanneadams2549

2 жыл бұрын

Every single blog blows me away !!! A lot people need to hear these people and their stories !!!!!! I hated being adopted for my years but now o realize I was lucky. Very lucky 🍀 😔🤷‍♀️😡

@nunyabizwacks6711

2 жыл бұрын

@@leanneadams2549 yup. thats the bad part of being young, you just cant really see whats right in front of you and whats real. And sometimes that pure ignorance of being young can eff you over before you even have a chamce to really learn, and it fucks up your life. I always say, just being young in general, specifically a teen/young adult, is or can be one of the most dangerous things in life. I swear i dont even see how as many of us make it thru as we do, must just be a miracle of life

@aliciamari85

2 жыл бұрын

@@nunyabizwacks6711 I disagree that it's ignorance alone, as you seem to think, because that would imply that everyone older is superior. Age doesn't always equate to wisdom, and young people suffer unimaginably while in the "protection" of adults, so maybe the word you're thinking of is trauma. Trauma is damage to one's development, and therefore what appears to be ignorance ( to people like yourself) is really just an adaptive perspective on life that serves the purpose of keeping young people from succumbing to a painful life experience they should never have experienced in the first place. Here we are in 2022 and what improvements have we made to fix a society that can't comprehend Why hurt people keep hurting people in the first place? What failed systems have been reformed for the sake of those it continues failing? Has the prison system and government agencies changed for the better? I'd say no. I'd say this country has ignorantly failed to correct its bad habits, and in return fails its most vulnerable populations willingly and knowingly. What really blows my mind is the insanity of the general population who expect different results from systems that do not change.

My heart hurts for him! Watching his mom commit suicide and no one helped him. It’s just heartbreaking.

@msteans87

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@elgr4489

2 жыл бұрын

Yea hard to see a man cry , poor guy

@JC111WPB

2 жыл бұрын

What about his mom committing suicide in front of him and then not even one of his many relatives (that he mentions in the video) having the decency to take him in and at least give him some degree of comfort? Horrifying selfishness of mammoth proportions.

Please give us an update on Andre. He has survived so much. Witnessing his mother's suicide at the age of 6. Sent to a foreign country and learning a new language. The abuse. Prison. He has so much potential.

An alcoholic goes to Russia to take a child that’s been through trauma back to abuse and neglect him further. I call that person a monster. I can totally see how he went down the path he did. I’d anyone deserves compassion - it’s him. He’s still got a beautiful soul and I hope the second part of his life is better than the first.

@nukillerfridaymusic911

2 жыл бұрын

That alcoholic being his actual family. Parse his words carefully. It is clear he wasn't adopted.

@kristabell5107

2 жыл бұрын

@@nukillerfridaymusic911 that alcoholic wasn’t his actual family. And I didn’t mention the word adoption. He himself said she was horrible and he had no affection for her. Read and listen more carefully.

Gripping, raw, and heart wrenching. A 6 year old boy still trying to make sense of the world that has continued to mess him over. These videos constrict my chest with pain. Mark, you are giving respect and honor to broken people and their stories. Thank you.

@elisabethsalmon4107

2 жыл бұрын

FOR REAL...HEART-WRENCHINGLY SAD

@timhughes3684

2 жыл бұрын

He’s 28. I know what your trying to say but calling him 6 seems condescending

This is one of the hardest interviews I’ve watched on this channel. My heart breaks for him. He is so resilient. I hope he can find a path forward and learn to love himself.

I’m a preschool teacher at a private school in Orange County. Every time I watch these videos and hear these HORRIFIC childhood stories, I always want to work with children like Andre instead. One day I will. It’s just not fair that children have to grow up like this and others are born with every opportunity. It breaks my heart.💔 I want to reach the children that never started life with a chance.

@haleyoneil9172

2 жыл бұрын

Are you absolutely certain that you aren't working with children like him? I'd be willing to bet there are at least 2 or 3 kids going through something you have no idea about. Unfortunately drugs and hard times, misery, etc does not discriminate

@dp6970

2 жыл бұрын

@@haleyoneil9172 I’m a mandated reporter. I’ve been working in Early Childhood Development for 15 years. I know what the signs are. I’m not saying it can’t happen in such a wealthy area, BUT I have not seen any red flags so far, and I’d bet that 95% of the children are living healthy, safe, and well adjusted lives. I’d like to work with the other end of the spectrum.

@roninkraut6873

2 жыл бұрын

@@dp6970 You’re right. Abuse/neglect isn’t a common occurrence in that part of the social class. The money on the other side is awful so if you truly want to do it then be aware that you are doing it for no reward.

@dp6970

2 жыл бұрын

@@roninkraut6873 I understand and it’s definitely something MAJOR to consider if I’m going to make the leap one day. It’s not right that the pay is crap. People in the profession work there asses off for the good of disadvantaged children. That’s hard work, emotionally draining, and it’s a thankless job. They should be paid 6 figs.

This is one of the best interviews in this channel

@ninaportwoodshields202

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. My heart is breaking for him. Here’s a person who truly deserves a break and a hand up. He’s so smart and honest. I would love to contribute to him.

I was worrying lately if I would become de-sensitised from watching all these people’s plight, but I know listening to Andrei that I need not have been concerned. This story probably broke my heart more than any other. All I can see is this beautiful little boy at the bridge watching his Mum fall to her death, smiling on command going round the Christmas tree, sitting on the plane that was taking him away from all he knew and then in the back of a car in a strange scary lonely place. It just breaks my heart. Such trauma. Such lack of love in his most formative years. Andrei -I’m in Ireland but I’m sending you a great big hug from across the miles and every positive vibe I can muster that your life improves. Look at all you have dealt with in your 28 short years and you’re still here! Think about all you the positive things you can achieve in the next 28 with that strength of character. I hope Mark can direct you on the right path and I would gladly donate to help in any way with that. Gods speed x

@iDKonic128

10 ай бұрын

U've taken the words out of my mouth literally! I was wondering the same thing then I come across this episode and I've to pause the video not even 10 minutes in. My tears just wouldn't stop flowing for him and his story and it's only the start of the video. I truly hope Mark helped him in any way he could and all of us viewers from around the world just want to give him virtual hugs, words of comfort and love! His story is so touching and I really hope he's doing better now and that he's healing and finds some semblance of peace!

What a horrific & sad story about his mother. I can not imagine how traumatizing that was. I wish this guy all the best & hope he finds the love he deserves.

@alyssag.5758

2 жыл бұрын

I wasn't able to follow it. How did his birth mother die?

@marylougeorge9890

2 жыл бұрын

@@alyssag.5758 Suicide. He was 5 and she threatened if he didn't put a note into his grandmother's hand, she would jump off a bridge. She did right in front of him.

@alyssag.5758

2 жыл бұрын

@@marylougeorge9890 oh my goodness. So sad. Thanks for the explanation.

Poor dude I really feel for him, hard life… everyone deserves a second chance and everyone deserves happiness…

Andre shows character, insight, resilience.

How could a mother do that to her poor sweet baby boy. She set his life up, right at that moment. You deserve so much more. He is so beautiful.

@zanemoloney4630

2 жыл бұрын

She also let him get beat up by her boyfriend

@lancewilkerson5819

2 жыл бұрын

He is very beautiful. He has so much potential to make something out of himself. He has the personality to get a good job and everything.

@simplyme9016

2 жыл бұрын

She wasn't a true mother, she was just a female that was able to reproduce, a REAL mother would put her children first. His grandmother and aunt also failed this poor guy!! Losin his mother, watchin her jump off a dadgum bridge, the thing they should've done was do what family should've and would've done, was take him in, and raise him, lovin him, and givin him a lovin home.... it's absolutely RIDICULOUS they left him in that home, and never picked him up. He was set up to fail....he was a six year old little boy, who needed love...😭😭

@rainystormcloud7499

2 жыл бұрын

He mentioned that suicide was a "generational curse" in his family so his Mom could have been suffering from a mental breakdown made worse by the alcohol.. so sad 😢

@annamorgan5909

Жыл бұрын

His mother was very clearly mentally ill, which drinking no doubt exacerbated. She was not in a healthy, logical state of mind. Her illness and subsequent suicide was devastating to both of them. ❤️

With some help from therapy he could be an amazing advocate for adopted and fostered children. He is so self aware and knowledgeable.

Andre if you read this I think with some therapy from all of the past trauma you will live a beautiful life. You’re an amazing and very resilient man. I wish nothing but the best for you and peace ❤️❤️

Dear Andre, You are worthy. You are important. You are smart. You have a place on this earth. I’m so sorry for everything that has happened to you. Nothing will ever take away or erase the past, but you can make it out on the other side. This world needs people like you. Someone who can inspire others with their story and change for the better. I hope you find your path. Thank you for sharing your story. Good luck, friend. ♥️

@JC111WPB

2 жыл бұрын

Nice

My heart hurts so so much for this man. How can someone radiate such kindness and warmth despite enduring such despair and sadness?

Andre-“ if you ain’t real. what’s the point?” My man. Stay up brother.

Andre if you read these comments. Just know that you are loved by many of us SWU family members. You are worthy and deserving of so much more than what’s going on right now . Sending you love. So much love. And big BIG hugs my friend

I’m angry at his mother for doing what she did in front of her little boy , i’d be messed up too . 🙏 He is a smart young man , i hope he can get some assistance to go back to electronic school . 🥲

😔Whenever I am tempted to complain about my childhood I watch one of these and think… my experience wasn’t that bad. I know everyone perceives their experiences as being bad but these videos can really put things into perspective. I thank Andre for sharing his story. I hope the universe reaches out to help and protect him.

@sandife4nandes365

2 жыл бұрын

Rob, you are so right. Sending you hugs.

@-Adrienne

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

@-Adrienne

2 жыл бұрын

@@ItsSauIGoodman true... everyone processes trauma differently... depending on where you are in your life perceptions may change in the moment...

@Scratchync

2 жыл бұрын

Very well said!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Hes from Russia but talks like a Mexican from L.A. bro you invited to all the cookouts.

@nicolehall2177

2 жыл бұрын

🤣😭

@davechristian7543

2 жыл бұрын

haha thats wat i thought 'so who knows wats true as iv never meet a Russian who talks like a Mexican lol 'Haha actually iv never meet a Mexican eh haha 'Hip Hip Onda-lay

@naturalianoss

2 ай бұрын

@@davechristian7543 he has russian accent quite a lot

The mother in me just wants to be his mom and hug him and love him. Gosh this breaks my heart

I've watched this channel for years.This is first time I've literally felt heart broken for this guy.Bro. I know you probably won't see this but if you ever come to Louisiana I've got a job for you.

@YvonneChavez

2 жыл бұрын

Wait seriously? Maybe we are not watching the same vids.

@MrJennifur1

2 жыл бұрын

@@YvonneChavez Opportunities are hope. We all need hope.

@YvonneChavez

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrJennifur1 What are you talking about that pertains to what I typed?

@katinthehat_81

2 жыл бұрын

Manners, lady.

Andre, you are a very resilient person. You will make it through this heartbreak just as you have made it through others. Make good choices and keep moving forward - the love and peace you deserve is waiting for you.

This was one of the best interviews of this channel. I wish you Andre a better life, where you find your peace. Don't give up!

This poor guy. He has so much potential. He really makes my mothering instincts come out - I just want to adopt him and help him get on the right track so he can be safe and happy.

Andre, I believe in you. You have a deep capacity to love and are so self aware, despite all you’ve been through. Head high my friend. Your spirit is remarkably strong. Keep going. Hope comes back. I promise.

Andre is in pain over his traumatic loss of his mom and his sad childhood. From what he described, it appeared that he is abandoned and unloved. Unsurprisingly that he turned to drugs to cope with pain and loss in life. He escaped death twice, and he is still young. The road ahead is still long. I hope he will appreciate himself, get clean, and continue his education. He is worth than what his ex-girlfriend think of him. Your past don't define you. Your choices about your future does, Andrei.

I can definitely relate to some of his story. Being around constant fighting as a kid, moving all the time, living with no lights water, barely any food. I was kicked out when I was 16, my mom tired to put me in jail a few times. I've been homeless many times. I finally found someone and spent almost 6 years with him helping him with his health problems he passed away in late 2018, I had back surgery in early 2019, I lost our home a few months later lived in hotels for almost 6 months. Through all of that I never really had a chance to grieve almost completely gave up hope. Finally after all of that I've bought my own home and have been financially stable for almost a year.

@thematriarchy2075

2 жыл бұрын

❤

@amandadunn7678

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

This isn’t his first time having his heart broken, women have been hurting him his whole life. 😢

@philinn4788

2 жыл бұрын

women are societys silent abusers, yet all we hear about is the toxic patriachy

@marianatequiero28

2 жыл бұрын

Hopefully he learns from it

Bless his heart. He is a sweet boy. He reminds me of my son. My son is a meth addict in rehab now.

@karenmitchell17

2 жыл бұрын

I wish your son well X

This guy has really struggled with many traumas. His ways of speaking is interesting. He has an accent thats similar to a hispanic accent. Might of picked it up from the gang & all those years locked up

@miapdx503

2 жыл бұрын

He's from Russia and Kazakhstan.

@thematriarchy2075

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-zn9zj4pl4b Yes, and he has zero russian accent, which is interesting.

@thematriarchy2075

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-zn9zj4pl4b I am not saying it's not possible or that there's something wrong, i just noticed he has no russian accent at all.

@at-ge5te

2 жыл бұрын

For sure he did. Sounds like an LA gangster. I noticed that right away too

@mashakooli

2 жыл бұрын

I noticed that too. I only realized he's Russian when he said his aunt's name is Люба. It's short for Любовь, which means love in Russian.

Andre, as much as you need and want to push forward, find a trauma informed therapist to help you process all that you've been through. It's an investment you can make in yourself that can bring you peace of mind, and a solid foundation to build your future on. For real. Stay well, brother.

@Brothersfamilyfarm

2 жыл бұрын

lol... i mean seriously? he's a meth addict on the streets... where the fuck does he come up with 1000$/month for multiple weekly therapy sessions? some people live in a different world...

@Dpurple28

2 жыл бұрын

@@Brothersfamilyfarm IKR one of my family members live in a huge protective bubble.

@dlesliejones

2 жыл бұрын

@@Dpurple28 No, you don't know apparently. A simple google search reveals abundant psych and social services available in that area. The hard part isn't finding a therapist (for free), it's being willing to ask for, or accept, help. As Mark (and Monika) have frequently offered to locate appropriate services.

@willbellamy590

2 жыл бұрын

@@dlesliejones lol 😂 you are a caricature

@agirly1503

2 жыл бұрын

211 will provide referrals for free counseling when he is ready.

Wow.. " Christmas is the best holiday cause they gave us two bag of candies" his exterior is quite a handsome coat of armor holding together a broken, sweet man. I wish I could reach through the tv and grab him and, hold him and tight until he let go. 😞❤

@neems9563

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I wanted to do. This poor man. Honestly xxx breaks my heart

He’s hurting and needs someone to show him a path. He doesn’t know which way to go because he has been shown every wrong direction. I would love to help him.

This guys story tugged my heart. How could a mother do this to her son? It's not a generational curse it's substance abuse. Your kindness is in your voice. Good luck to you I hope to see many more videos of you.

@caitchri2426

2 жыл бұрын

So unbelievably sad that he had TWO women fail him as a mother. Breaks my heart.

@philinn4788

2 жыл бұрын

@@caitchri2426 men are constantly portrayed as the toxic abusers, reality is mothers and women do just as much damage if not more

One of the few things I can count on in this world is Mark uploading another amazing video at exactly 3:00AM every day. Its very comforting.

@jenna6418

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Mark.

@a.wanderer5006

2 жыл бұрын

7 a.m. here but I wonder if he stays up real late or is an early bird who uploads first thing in the morning.

@mak8422

2 жыл бұрын

@@a.wanderer5006 I think he has a set upload time

@NZKiwi87

2 жыл бұрын

@@a.wanderer5006 these things can be set to release at a set time, so the creator doesn’t necessarily have to be there at the time it goes public 👍

@sarahhirshlee

2 жыл бұрын

5:37am here. One of my favorite podcasters this is monsters when releases his videos at 3:00 a.m. as well, which is only fitting for his contents. But my friend Amber over at true Crime and chill was saying the other day how slow for KZread was uploading as did Jada Kennedy, another yt content creator at Urban Extractions. So that begs the question what happens to scheduled release dates and times if KZread for whatever reason is lagging or just overall running slow? 🤔🤔🤔

That early trauma is the deepest and most difficult to help. As a teacher I've had a few students who had similar experiences and they seem to be reenacting their traumas in small ways in order to cope. I just show them I care and support their talent, yet I know each one needs an individual approach and finding that is always the challenge.

@vonderloo3184

2 жыл бұрын

The critical self, super ego takes on the abusers role and continues the destruction of self unless its stopped. Active positive thoughts, CBTs.

@borntoscream

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, really great comments, Kelly Merill and Vonder Loo. Very insightful. It def. made me think about my own life. And the changes that have to be made.

This interview really got to me, I type this with tears in my eyes because I watched my mom die and the pain is unmatched. Andre- you can get clean, you can ask mark for a rehab he might know of to help. One small step at a time, a rehab in the right place could open up doors to support and connections. It’s never too late

Shocking to hear , please God he gets the help he deserves to have a better future, this shouldn't happen to a human being , heartbreaking.

Andre-you are an intelligent, thoughtful and insightful person. You have been through hell but are still standing. Please don’t give up, the world needs you 🤞🏼

I don't find myself having alot of empathy for most people on this series. I do some. But most I don't. But Andre is very special. He has a pure heart. I can tell just by listening to him describe his turbulent life that he is what I call,...REAL. If he just had someone or people to love him and give him an outlet of some sort?? He could be a real success story. Help him Mark. Go the extra mile for Andre. He is worth the effort. God Bless you Andre. Best of luck to you brother.

Andre has been literally fighting his way through life ever since he was a toddler... Like most interviews, it really shows you the layers people have in their lives...

This man could have a movie made of him… so interesting but heartbreaking. He seems to have a gentle soul, and he is very handsome. He deserves a better life. He has seen so much.

From my heart to your……I love you son… and wish you nothing but the absolute best……

This is nuts. Speechless.

Precious Andre, please don't let anyone tell you, or treat you in a way. that makes you feel hurt or worthless. I could hear your heart in every word. Please try to stay strong. I know that's hard Andre. I really do. I hope any future updates will tell us you have been able to lift yourself a little higher, you're loving yourself a little deeper and you've found people who really care about you in all the best ways. Much love to you.

@Mohjoe62

2 жыл бұрын

A wonderful comment

@katealigaard1483

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mohjoe62 Thank you so much. I really feel for this precious soul.

@Mohjoe62

2 жыл бұрын

@@katealigaard1483I also. I wish him so much that he finds people who love him, that's what he's missing.I wish you all the best, you are a person with a heart.Love from germany 🤗

@katealigaard1483

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mohjoe62 I am a very ordinary person who is moved when I see people who need nurturing and unconditional love. Andre is one of those broken souls.

@Mohjoe62

2 жыл бұрын

@@katealigaard1483 Yes that's right. He's a broken soul.That's why he needs people who show him love.He's still a young man. He shouldn't be alone.And you, you are a person with a big heart.Unfortunately, not all people are.I wish you all the best.Greets from germany 🤗

This guy's story is so intense; I'm on the edge of my seat listening to every word and I think it's because he appears to be telling the truth. It's heart breaking what adults will do to children and then we throw them in jail once they're an adult. It's disgusting and totally preventable. Kids need love. Love and a warm meal and a decent school. Those things shouldn't be so difficult to give. It isn't rocket science and yet we can send rockets to Mars but cannot figure out how to raise decent human beings. Also, you can get your life in order and getting off meth, while be the hardest thing to do, it will be the one thing that will help you the most. Also, take time to see how women are in the world because being in prison has effected the way you perceive people. It's the non-verbal communication that gets super heightened in prison and so when you get out you are seeing things that people that haven't been locked up have no clue about. Also, they make it so hard to follow the rules for parole and so do not beat yourself up. This prison industrial complex in our country is incredibly powerful and they make really hard to stay out of prison. AND real life is also REALLY hard. Rents are now too high for most people. I pray that you are able to take what opportunities are going to come your way after this video and I see a positive role for you in our society.

@Noname-dg3pm

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

Man, I hope that this guy reads some of these comments because there are so many good hearted people who are supportive & uplifting here.. It makes sense to me why Andre joined a gang, he's just looking for a family.. hope he realizes that he is deserving of love & that the first step is loving yourself & working hard good things always follow that. ❤

To have parents that love and support you from the day you are born is the most important thing for any human. These are such emotional and heartbreaking stories, my heart goes out to these people 😞

I would like to help this guy mark If u could help me with that it would be awesome His story really hit me and he seems like a solid dude not everyone can do time in a Cali pen and live to be free and talk about it I can hear the pain In his voice I’m baffled at how crazy his story is and everything he has been through I legit wanna help the guy

@Finefinish323

2 жыл бұрын

Hell yea im from LA and commented something similar lets get this guy on track shit crazy out here

@bellawalker54

2 жыл бұрын

Sending love from Here ! LA

@tamarack28132

2 жыл бұрын

I’d also like to help. SFV, CA here.

@danab.1947

2 жыл бұрын

Keep us updated if you happen to find him

Andre I hope you’re reading & feeling all the love in these messages. Brian Bennett even offered you a way to move to Oregon! I hope u realize the fact your suicide attempts and attacks in jail didnt work means you’re meant to LIVE. Get help to detox, go to school (someone mentioned CA offers free CDL training) & get counseling to deal with your past and you will live an awesome life. Realize your obsession with that girl is part of your addiction and abandonment issues. Life is tough but your tougher! You have your whole life ahead of you & you will be a help to others down the road. Stay strong & never give up! Blessings & luck to you

@adriannedubins8793

2 жыл бұрын

Excellent post Liz. Insightful!

@ryansuchodolski68

2 жыл бұрын

Perfect post! I feel the exact same way. I just said a prayer for him.

My (adopted, alcoholic) mother committed suicide too and the love of my life, (also duplicitous - screwed up attachment guarantees you are attracted to the wrong people), also told me, "You should commit suicide like your mother," as Andre's girlfriend told him. Words you will never forget until the day you die. It's not even the original childhood trauma that brings you down on a daily basis - you can't change the past - but people and incidents who sometimes willfully aggravate those feelings it in your adult life. This guy is resilient as hell and deserves to have the shit loved out him by someone. You can tell he's got a good heart, is not inherently criminally-minded, nor strung out (laying the reality bare: when you are truly poor, you can't afford a habit, if you aren't willing to do it by hook or by crook.) Not to mention, he is smart enough to realize his first priority is to stay out of jail.

@juliasantana4718

2 жыл бұрын

@Gadzooks 🙄 ok edge lord🙄🤮

I was wondering why he sounded like he was Hispanic until he mentioned the Mexican gang. Poor man was looking for am identity. Not easy coming to America without a strong sense of family and culture. You're bound to loose yourself in someone else's, then get even more lost once you find out that it's not you anyway. May you find yourself

@Wemfs

2 жыл бұрын

Think it was less about finding an identity and more about trying to survive. He didn't wanna continue getting bullied by other races as a minority in his area so he chose to join a gang for protection. That's what it sounds like to me, at least.

I'm totally rooting for him! If he was 10 years older I'd help him forget about his girl too!

Andre, stay strong my brother you are a survivor of a traumatic childhood! I can feel ur pain and sadness, but just know that it’s not ur fault that ur mom decided to take her life. I am sorry all these things happened to you, but U were just a child and u did the best u could from the knowledge that u had at such a young age. Please don’t carry that burden on ur shoulders! Realize that ur a brave person that came a long way from a chaotic childhood. U are a wonderful person stay safe love!

I wish i was in a position to help this fella, iv heard what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. But what ppl leave off the end is, in time. Or eventually. I hope this fella finds happiness.

@gwennk4962

2 жыл бұрын

So true.

My heart aches for him. Sending prayers, good thoughts, and hugs his way. Heart wrenching to watch. Mercy Lord, please help him, in Jesus Holy Name I pray, AMEN!

@PrisTvv

2 жыл бұрын

Amen🙏

@kattihatt

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry, your amens doesnt work.

@wesleyalan9179

2 жыл бұрын

@@kattihatt It doesn't work,sure...but its considered a nice word to say, so thats ok

@angelegabe7770

2 жыл бұрын

@Mardea Ricks ✨🔥🙏🏽🔥✨ Amen in Jesus Name ✝️

@finolaomurchu8217

2 жыл бұрын

@@kattihatt A well wish or prayer is kind to bestow on a person.

Wow, what an interview. I’m not even sure what else to say. So raw and real.

As someone from a troubled childhood, I didn’t even have an answer to “what do you want to be when you grow up” other than Normal

@RG-rl6hj

2 жыл бұрын

And normal isn't easy anymore

Ты никогда не пересечешь океан, если боишься потерять из виду берег. Может, тогда ты обретёшь покой, брат. ❤️

@Cindyd25

2 жыл бұрын

6 is a letter?

@mashakooli

2 жыл бұрын

@@Cindyd25 Cyrillic alphabet

@Cindyd25

2 жыл бұрын

@@mashakooli interesting. I'll have to study up on that. Thanks!

@finestjewels

2 жыл бұрын

Very true.

@user-di2er6cw2j

2 жыл бұрын

wellsaid

Mark, how can we help Andre? He’s been dealt a hard hand and I feel so deeply for him. I believe so strongly that he will heal from this and find happiness. He has a pure, but broken heart.

@Sammy-cm9ce

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, how can we help Andre Mark?

@cynthiamack2350

2 жыл бұрын

Is he getting help?

@nukillerfridaymusic911

2 жыл бұрын

Donate to charities that help the poor and actually to good work. Stop believing these junkie narratives. They are always part fiction.

@yeny7194

2 жыл бұрын

I agree @Sona 😢😢😢 ❤️

@Angel-tw3ko

2 жыл бұрын

Pray for him, that will most definitely help him

Dang Mark you’ve been active I love all this new content thank you ❤️ ..my sister left me with her 4 kids this channel helps me understand her and her illness not just hate her all the time understanding life is hard

Andre, I’m giving you the biggest virtual hug. You inspire me. You are a survivor. Please keep your head up and stay in your lane. You got this. You are gold.

I wonder if he realizes how handsome he is and how much potential he has?

The adoption system scares the hell out of me. Children treated like objects. Eurg.

Mark, as a Sociology major, I appreciate your compassion with the people you interview. For most of these people, this is the first time they have ever felt comfortable enough to tell their stories. I am learning SO much from your channel!

I’ve never commented before and I almost overlooked this video cause the title didn’t grab me but I’m so glad I clicked on it. This is one of the craziest stories I’ve ever heard and trust me my life hasen’t been a walk in the park. Andrei, you deserve all the help in the world. For all you’ve been through and to seemingly not hate the world, wow. I wish I had your strength.

• Stabbed 20+ times • Stabbed 20+ times again • Played Russian roulette as a teen • Tried to shoot himself but gun had double trigger lock. Perhaps a higher power is sending a message.

@raindog428

2 жыл бұрын

Excellent comment

@thematriarchy2075

2 жыл бұрын

Did it take "the higher power" over 40 times? That's pretty cruel.

@Jivolt

2 жыл бұрын

@@thematriarchy2075 He survived when he shouldn’t have. A higher power may know that he has something to offer this world.

@thematriarchy2075

2 жыл бұрын

@@Jivolt How about just luck that he didn't kill himself? What is a higher power?

@ChrisStokes07

2 жыл бұрын

@@thematriarchy2075 There is no such thing as luck. The truth is it’s all God. You're welcome.

The trauma this guy has gone through is heartbreaking. Unfathomable. I feel for you Andre. Keep moving fwd. You have a lot of life to live.

He is an honest young man even with all that trauma he has had he is still very humble and lovable. God bless you Andre. Don't give up on life your blessings are coming.

He’s such a loving person man I pray that he fight those demons !! He’s still young and can still have/do so much with his life.. he deserves better ….and the system is so messed up it’s time for a change .. can we have a part 2 on him !?

Such a tragic story. My heart hurts for him 😢 He just wants to love and be loved.

Hurts my heart to hear him tell his story and barely make any eye contact. No child deserves to grow up without someone to love and protect them.

I have few words. I have been totally dismantled and broken by my girlfriend /fiancé of 6yrs. Driven crazy & now lost by her leaving me. I understand his confusion & pain. I could not imagine being doomed by not 1 but 2 curses. I needed to hear this as is sounds just like me talking in this interview. As far as his youth.... no words can express how he must have felt as a child. The blame he must have laid on his shoulders as a young man, thinking this was his fault. Shame on his mother for making him feel he was at fault at such a young age.Not all (please do not take this personally) but some women, and people in general, can be so cruel.

I love your red hair Andre! I hope you know your self-worth and what happened in your childhood is not your fault.

@susanstewart404

2 жыл бұрын

Many blessings to you Andre! Love & Light!❤🌱

Hi Mark! What a start in life, an excruciating tragedy in real terms. Your experiences have been harrowing, a lesser person would have given up, you Andre did not ! Throw down that shitty hand you were dealt, switch it up while you have time, you owe it to yourself.

I could see this guy getting clean & speaking to the youth in foster systems

As a long term user, I can tell this guy is strong of mind. If he see's this, I hope you the best brother.

4:58 😢 You can see the trauma, I could feel it thru the screen. 😢

Of all I’ve watched of these interviews - I sincerely want to be his friend. To help him or just be there. He seems very sincere.

Andre don’t give up man, you will find people who love you. I have faith in that. ✌️💚🙏

This poor fellow! My heart hurts for him. His English is remarkable.

Andre, if you see this. You are worthy of happiness, love, and joy! The gun didn’t work because you need to be here. Your voice your story matters. You are loved even by unknown humans❤️❤️

I've watched so many of your videos, Mark, so many. I care about all but some people really hit me hard in the heart and this is one of them. 💔 As a Mother, I want to hug Andre so tightly that he'll pull away because he's had enough and is healed from the love. I know it's not possible but I wish it could be that easy. Andre, if you're reading this, please promise me you'll stay around and not follow your family "curse", please! I see great things in your future; I don't know what, but I feel it's there, son, please don't leave, please try to move forward in a positive way and get help. I'll be watching to see if Mark posts an update. 💕

I’m only 15 mins in and I know everything he’s saying isn’t a lie and it’s so sad. Living & growing up in foreign countries, like Russia 🇷🇺, China 🇨🇳 and Mexico 🇲🇽 (and many others too), the system is just as broken as here in America, but worse!

@thematriarchy2075

2 жыл бұрын

Worse? Why is it worse?

@DREAMP4RK3R

2 жыл бұрын

That interesting. Mind if I ask what your ethnicity/nationality is and what Russia was like?

@nunyabizwacks6711

2 жыл бұрын

@@thematriarchy2075 its def worse. dont be one of those that are brain washed into believing america is the worst place on earth. Trust me, America is far and away a better place to live than any of those aforementioned countries, systems and all. As broken as it may be, its still a helluva lot better than most places

@thematriarchy2075

2 жыл бұрын

@@nunyabizwacks6711 Calm down, lol. I can name you 10 better modern countries to live in than the US, but that was not what my comment was about. Why would he be worse off if he now lives on the streets, just out off jail, and addicted to meth. And it's not a trauma olympics.

@thematriarchy2075

2 жыл бұрын

@Europa Nostra Were you commenting to me? I live in one of those europian countries, and i am thankful for being born here.

This interview really pulled at my heart. I feel like this gentleman never had a chance but hearing him speak so gently and tender with his words. I feel like he has a chance and I pray he finds his way out of this. He deserves better 🙏🏼 and he is so very intelligent! I will say a prayer for you to overcome this.

This channel has changed my life. I want to thank you, Mark Latia for opening my eyes to the depth of the power of the human mind and it's ability to protect and restore or it's DISability to protect and restore. Thank you for giving folks the opportunity to release the trauma that has been stored in them for years. Each time I listen to an interview I can't imagine a human experiencing things so horrific- and then the very next interview there is a person that has been through even worse situations. I can't tell you how much I appreciate Soft White Underbelly.