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@randommodernhistory

10 ай бұрын

i want to tell you i live in estonia a small town near tallin named kiili i like you

@greyeyes_greyeyes

9 ай бұрын

My son already lives and works there. He thinks Estonian people are ok and he likes the place.

@sweetblesso355

2 ай бұрын

Hello bro can you please help me get a job in estonia? Thank you

@MananAnwar

2 ай бұрын

Thank you@@randommodernhistory , please say hi on IG or tell me when you are in Tallinn

@MananAnwar

2 ай бұрын

@@sweetblesso355 Check out this video kzread.info/dash/bejne/jH6NsZJxn6nHn7Q.html

I'm an Estonian living abroad and every time I come to my summer house the thing I enjoy most is the silence!

Actually we just want our babies sleeping in fresh air bc the baby sleeps better and is generally more healthy this way. Never actually thought about the cold thing... kids sleep outside, just the weather changes during the year.

@ERTChimpanzee

9 ай бұрын

Proovi seda trikki talvel :D

@sebrozsebastian

9 ай бұрын

also the fact its supposed to challange and improve the immune system, we kinda had enough history lessons to see how bad it is to just stay inside like medieval nobility, a slight cold killed them from 1 snowball

@katarinarikk9486

9 ай бұрын

Many in the Nordic countries feel its normal as well

@silvaraspel7183

5 ай бұрын

​@@ERTChimpanzeewhole year long sleeping either outside or on balcony or by open window. Pretty common in Finland and Scandi aswell

@ERTChimpanzee

5 ай бұрын

@@silvaraspel7183 Not in my family. If you are an estonian then write a comment in estonian.

The not talking thing...Sure it can be like that. But if you buy groceries or something, you just say hello. And as an Estonian, I think not saying hello is just rude. At my place of work if someone steps in and does not say hello I will consider that quite rude. I will say hello anyway. It's simply common sense. You walk into a room that has people you have not met today, and you say hello. Big public places are different, but when you get to a clerk. You say hello and goodbye.

@laurienator

9 ай бұрын

My grocery is Russian speaking, so I keep my silence.

@Idgaf-1998

4 ай бұрын

Some of your people are so impolite that they don't even respond to a simple hello. I was studying at Taltech as an exchange student and there were many estonians that were extremely rude. I had a habit of greeting everyone but many of them just ignored my greetings. It was so upsetting.

@MiracoloItaliano2.0

4 ай бұрын

В Прибалтике депрессивно. Она выdмирает, людей нет, все разъехались.

@jyriruut

26 күн бұрын

@@Idgaf-1998 The behaviour is like in a lift: you don't say hello in a public place to a stranger with whom you have no business. Exchanging "Tere" in a public place means that the persons know each other quite well, and is connected to a readiness to fulfil certain social obligations.

@naterest5033

16 күн бұрын

I live on Hiiumaa, pretty much everyone knows everyone, except "pötku(d)" (we call people from the main land this way :) but people that stay on Hiiumaa in the Summers, we call them "suve hiidlased"), we always say "Tere" to everyone, even the people from main land, just we usually don't get a "Tere" back, well sometimes we do, we just wanting to be friendly here.

As an estonian i would say you're most correct about keeping your reputation. It can easily cost you relationships and especially jobs. When my friends hire new people, they often throw the names in our group chats like "hey, does someone know this guy?" and sometimes someone says like "yea, he's an asshole because XYZ". That person won't even know why he/she wasn't hired but Estonia is small and if you burn bridges, you might set fire to a lot more bridges than you initially intended.

@Pidalin

10 ай бұрын

Not hiring people because of some gossips created by stupid rednecks is the most idiotic thing ever.

@ERTChimpanzee

9 ай бұрын

Sa räägid Brigitte-Susanne Hundist? Vastik inimene see Hunt.

@sebrozsebastian

9 ай бұрын

@@OrangMation Estonians arent that petty, if you are NOT hired for something, you must have done some pretty bad shit, forgive and forget doesnt exist when you were setting up camers in kindergarden toilets or beat a dog up. If you obviously, accidentaly dropped a baby? yeah thats pretty bad but youre still given a chance to get the job

@ullo-ragnartelliskivi4639

4 ай бұрын

this is the way. the country is so small that if you fuck up, it comes around in a circle and smacks you in the back of the head later.

@MiracoloItaliano2.0

4 ай бұрын

В Прибалтике депрессивно. Она выdмирает, людей нет, все разъехались.

Practically all of that I know from Norway. :) Yes, Estonia is truly Nordic. :)

@180FiftyFive

10 ай бұрын

Estonia is unique. Of course in the greater scheme of things our culture is closest to Nordic, but I feel Estonia is a unique place that doesn't need to identify itself next to other cultures. For me it's Estonia. I hope in the future we don't need to identify ourselves as part of a bigger group and people recognize us as the unique people we are.

@aivarsein8701

9 ай бұрын

@@180FiftyFive True! Big Birds fly alone and most powerful trees are alone far from others.

@180FiftyFive

9 ай бұрын

@@aivarsein8701 thats a beautiful analogy, speaking of big birds - i saw a pair of golden eagles here 5 times this year. nature here is sublime

@aivarsein8701

9 ай бұрын

@@180FiftyFive I see them a lot too, I live in Muhu island.

@user-kp2kl2jt3r

9 ай бұрын

No, Estonia is not considered Nordic. Estonia is a country located in Northern Europe, but it is part of the Baltic region. The Nordic countries, also known as Scandinavia refer to Denmark, Finland, Iceland, Norway, and Sweden. While Estonia shares some cultural and historical connections with the Nordic countries, it is not officially classified as Nordic. Instead, it is considered a Baltic country along with Latvia and Lithuania.

Babies outside sleeping is quite ok in scandinavia too! They sleep better and it builds immune system.

@mikukene1998

6 ай бұрын

Yeah not really, anything below -10°C is not recommended. You can see people do it but it's not normal.

about the talking part, we just avoid smalltalk and think its pointless, however going to the store and not greeting the cashier or thanking them after is absolutely still considered rude.

I would absolutely love to be able to run my errands without having to make small talk with anyone. Thank you for the fascinating look at cultural differences.

@haanjamiis

10 ай бұрын

I think i'm not alone if I say "I fking hate Smalltalk". Thankfully I live in Estonia 😁

30 years ago it was pretty normal in Poland too, that kids were going to school on their own, spend all day outside alone (without supervision). Now it's not so often and depends on the area. As to pedestrians, we have in Poland a law that forces drivers to stop when a pedestrian is nearing the crosswalk. I guess the same is in Estonia.

@metsatroll

10 ай бұрын

Yeap, it's the same in Estonia, we have that law as well but laws won't protect you from death so you always need to watch our for BMW drivers.

@henrikg7661

10 ай бұрын

Same in Sweden back in the days

@ddpxl

10 ай бұрын

This is also the law in germany and the netherlands... but that doesn't mean they pay attention or actually stop. I think the amount of crosswalks, especially in tallinn, is what makes you super aware. There are also crosswalks on major 2 lane streets, which totally blew my mind the first time and i had to slam my breaks to stop.

@tacodoritos2421

10 ай бұрын

@@metsatroll Why BMW drivers? Usually Peugeot and Opel drivers are the worst

@metsatroll

10 ай бұрын

@@tacodoritos2421 In Estonia the most unlawful drivers are driving BMWs, brand new Audis and brand new Mercedes'. Why them? Don't know. BMW drivers have been the worst for over 20 years but Audis and Mercedeces are new. (Like in the past 5 years). The ignore the most traffic laws. You know the jokes how BMW drivers don't use their turn signal? They also don't stop for pedestrians at a crosswalk :D

Babies sleeping outside in winter time and people naked in sauna etc is quite regular in nordic countries

@forgottenmusic1

10 ай бұрын

Naked sauna is not regular in every Nordic country. When I was in Denmark, a local guy invited to take some beers; as I already had plans to go to the hotel sauna with the other Estonians, I invited him to join us. He asked about the "dress code" and hearing that usually we go to the sauna naked, but he can go however he likes, he thought I am fooling him, and went to ask the other Estonians about it. Needless to say, he didn't join us. And, a friend of mine had a similar, but even more colorful story with an Icelandic guy, who freaked out for himself, but not for his gf who was also there. Seems like at least these peoples associate same sex nudity with being gay.

@MananAnwar

10 ай бұрын

Been to sauna with swedes and can confirm. No nakedness.

@katariinak7257

10 ай бұрын

@@forgottenmusic1 I said quite regular, not 100% rule. Naturally some more and some less, also depends the circle of specific people. In Finland even in public saunas (genders separated) people are naked with complete strangers.

As Estonian I really don't understand that silence in those service situations. Hello and thank you is elementary for me like breathing. But overall your are right. I liked your video :)

@MananAnwar

9 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching Aivar.

As a Latvian I can relate to some of them. Especially on kids outside, babies in snow and pedestrian rights

@MiracoloItaliano2.0

4 ай бұрын

В Прибалтике депрессивно. Она выdмирает, людей нет, все разъехались.

@Shajirr_

20 күн бұрын

@@MiracoloItaliano2.0 ну по крайней мере лучше чем в России, где у людей уже нет прав, а скоро и вообще большинству запретят выезд из страны

@MiracoloItaliano2.0

20 күн бұрын

@@Shajirr_ При чём тут Россия? Речь идёт о демографическом состоянии Прибалтики. Скажи мне, каким образом праздные разговоры о России поправляют демографию в Прибалтике? И страна, которая всем запретила выезд, не Россия, а европейская украйна. Европейский путь во всей красе.

I was genuinely shocked when i went to greece and started crossing the road only to jump back cause of a car, like i tought it would be normal and common sense

@Pidalin

10 ай бұрын

That happened to me even in Lisbon, these southern countries are like traffic hell, you have to be always super careful and expect cars even where it's hard to get there by car, but you can be sure that someone will do it. 😀

@SiiriRebane

10 ай бұрын

@@Pidalin in Rome i learnt that one has to put out their hand to indicate wish to cross a street, even on crosswalk, similar to hitch-hiking hand gesture. and then most cars stop. italians seem to think that god created traffic lights just for their beauty, for humans to look at, but not humans to obey traffic lights.

@Pidalin

10 ай бұрын

@@SiiriRebane Here in Czechia, you have to always thank driver by hand gesture when they stop for you, if you don't do that, they will just drive over you next time. 😀

@greyeyes_greyeyes

9 ай бұрын

So true 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

For a Estonian really cool videos to watch. Thank you. All the points you mentioned I would say that these habits are very common in all EU northern countries like Finland, Sweeden and Norway .

I think most, if not all, of your points also would go for any Nordic country, and some other European countries as well. Most points is the same here in Lithuania where I live. 😊

10:50 thank you for advising the eye contact with driver. As (mostly) driver, I feel much safer when pedestrian acknowledges the car, visibly. Road conditions change, conditions like black ice may mean the breaking distance becomes unexpectedly long, a hooded pedestrian not even looking around when stepping onto crossing is bit of a problem, because people expect cars to stop.

Keep on being you Manan! I really love the longer podcasts you have been doing. The nakedness story hit close to home. My cousin married a lovely dude from the US and when his friends came over for the wedding - we actually had a quick meeting how being naked is ok and if you feel uncomfortable be in your swim trunks

I once visited a public spa while skiing in Austria. This place had a lot of different saunas and was quite big. There were at least a hundred people. And almost all of them were naked. There was a possibility to get a towel too but almost noone used them. So it is not just an Estonian thing :)

@caroline4323

10 ай бұрын

Hehe... I went to sauna in Turkey, so I started taking my swim suit off, bra and... "No, no!" You keep that on!!!! Welll... OK... Then I went for a massage.... "No, no, you keep the bra on!!!" Czech here... We are not the most eager naturalists, but hey, sauna? Massage? :)

@MananAnwar

10 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing.

@johaquila

10 ай бұрын

In fact, most (not all) of the points listed are equally true or at least true to some extent not just in Finland but also in all the Germanic countries except Britain/Ireland and in all the northern Slavic countries.

Cars don't stop to let you pass just because they're nice like that, there's a law where not letting a pedestrian pass on a crossing can mean a hefty fine. Since it's a matter of interpretation of the police at this point, most people don't take the chance and have gotten used to stopping at crossings to let people pass.

@katrintopkin

10 ай бұрын

I mean yeah, it's the law. But also, the pedestrian culture is big in Estonia, since even if you drive a lot, you still have to use pedestrian walks quite a lot too. (can't get everywhere with a car. ) So I guess you see that side of traffic and you empathize. And there the childern you have to watch out for.

@TheAlpenelvis

10 ай бұрын

I'm pretty sure that there's a similar law in every country and yet it is not respected everywhere the same. You can't have police patrolling on every crossing, so the fine excuse is not convincing at all.

@P6hjap6der440

10 ай бұрын

@@TheAlpenelvis we have lots of unmarked police cars. And If the cop is driving behind you and you don't stop, you're gonna get a fine for sure

@mrsmerily

9 ай бұрын

lets be honest estonian pedestrian complain all the time how bad it is.... they should watch these videos more.

My parents and grandparents fled from Estonian during World War 2 to Toronto Esto community. Most Esto’s in TO had cottages N. of Toronto, we had sauna’s at home or at cottage, raised to follow rules/laws (very big deal), older Esto’s in public, spent their words like it was money, very frugal lol & I can’t stand 🥵☀️hot summer heat!!!

@MananAnwar

8 ай бұрын

I am writing this from Toronto right now.

Cool video! I'm Estonian and I absolutely won't get naked with others, lol. Cars stopping is true. My grandpa used to gross zebras without lever ooking at the cars. I guess he assumed that every car would stop. I'm suprised he never got hit by any. Kids going to places by themselves is awesome, it gives so much freedom and independence and builds up responsibility.

Regarding foot, I think the underlying phenomenon is "alul ei saa vedama, pärast ei saa pidama". There is the urge not to stand out from the crowd by being the first to break the ice, take a snack, sit down, be the source any type of change in the group dynamic. Once one or several people accepts the snack and the group dynamic has now switched to "we're all eating snacks", the snacks WILL be eaten and eating won't stop until they're all out of them. People have a lot of inertia that has to be accounted for.

@lembittork5421

10 ай бұрын

"Alul ei saa vedama, pärast ei saa pidama" = "In the beginning it's hard to get started, at the end it's hard to stop". This is the typical description of a socializing event, a party. There's an awkwardly long period of reticence, shyness, politeness. Finally it's raucous, all over the place, plenty of glasses lifted, really late. Why didn't we start earlier?

These are always fun to hear, these vids

Saw you walking along my street just yesterday. Small Tallinn indeed ;) Cheers!

@MananAnwar

10 ай бұрын

Say hello next time !

Such a great video! Love it

The family system, I completely agree with. I have two half siblings who are from different fathers but the same mom and a lot of people I know are similar in that sense.

Summer cottages: Pretty normal in the Czech Republic, too. It's not about too much land after the communist era, it's more like "you cannot go anywhere abroad, so you spend all your holidays in your country and you don't want to stay in your city apartment the whole time".

@JelenaBraum

10 ай бұрын

Most of the things you named are actually similar in the Czech Republic. We don't do saunas so much, that's one difference. We do swim naked in ponds sometimes, though, especially with friends or in nudist areas.

Very informative!

Cold helps you sleep. I usually expose the bedroom for few hours of outdoors temp to cool for this same reason.

I am Lithuanian, when I was in school I had my best friend coming to my house quite often. She would come and see some kind of snacks in my house and she wouldn't ask if she could have it, she would say "i need to go to the shop". We would go to the shop and she would buy the exact same thing I have at home (she would crave it after seeing it but it was completely normal not to even try to ask for it). And yes, when someone is having a snack, nobody takes it, usually nobody asks for it unless the person who is eating will put the bag of those chips in front of you and that means you can take it (also most of the time no verbal conversation is needed for this action).

Manan bai Eid Mubarak 🎉

Shopping without saying a word is totally possible in Manchester too with all the self checkouts every grocery. Winter air is healthy. Bacteria do not like subzero temperature so you got lot less of germs in the air when it's cold.

Summer houses is a project to invest your money into - it also shows your level - the more nicer country house the more money you should have😂 Usually country houses are a place to escape to. I live in an appartement in Tallinn and have a country house near Aegviidu:)

What I've heard, we have summer cottage houses, because it was part of the soviet program against alcohol consuming. People needed to have their own gardens with houses that weren't winter-proof to avoid them from living there, but to have enough activity to keep themselves away from destroying activities. It was also a necessity to have your own vegetable and fruit garden to grow your own food, because food supply in the shops during the soviet times were limited. But ofc, the summer cottage houses tradition is older and people form abroad (writers, artists, etc.) came to Estonian seaside summer houses decades and decades ago.

9:43 We have a lot of "faith" in owning realestate. Historically many farmers bought their farms and themselves out of serfdom so that might play a role. Then as you mentioned there is the returning of properties that were confiscated during the Soviet times.

good to know this about the grocery store. I well be traveling soon there. It's just like Iceland and Norway. thank you for the video.

We do talk lol. People are different Manan. Great work covering the topic!

Good evening Manan, So many of the points mentioned also occur in Germany as well. It’s also very normal in Summer for family’s visiting parks to be naked. Very interesting. Chat soon 👍☕️

@MananAnwar

10 ай бұрын

Thank for sharing.

I'm from the Netherlands living already for 7 years in Estonia and can extremely relate to this video. It's funny that you talk about the family structures. My Estonian girlfriend indeed has only half siblings. She shares 2 sisters with the same dad and 1 brother with the same mom. Never knew it was this common.

@MananAnwar

8 ай бұрын

Tere tere

@allam9823

7 ай бұрын

in Nederland en in Belgie hetzelfde

Indeed there are shared showers in places like schools and work places. I shower at work every day. But what mostly helped me get over shyness was the boot camp. The mandatory military training where I was for 11 months. You don't really have a choice there, where or even when to shower. After that I had no issues showering at work. But before I was shy, despite of saunas and stuff.

Yes, I only talk when I actually have something to say or somebody asks something. I usually observe the surroundings, meaning, I do notice what's going on around me.

Regarding the summer cottages, it was pretty normal to have these since way back in the Soviet times - it was normal in my native Lithuania, Russia and many other Soviet republics. These houses were either inherited from the grandfathers who were born and live in the countryside, or these newer cottages and even little cottage villages/communities were developed and built. Spending time in the countryside is a big old tradition in the Baltics, Russia et al.

@allam9823

7 ай бұрын

мне на своей тихой даче на Волге в России нравится больше, чем в Италии, хотя в России уже давно не живу

Loved this, thank you for the great content Manan!

@MananAnwar

10 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

Babies sleeping outside in cold is normal in many countries.

The silence thing reminds me of what a friend of mine described in Tromsø, Norway. She said it would be perfectly normal for someone to walk half an hour down to road to his friend’s cottage, go inside, sit there by the fire together for an hour or so, then get up and leave, and not say a word at all. (And then I imagine a Turk, Greek or an Iranian in that situation…I think their head would explode!)

Actually not saying hello or thank you to a cashier is not considered good manners. Why many Estonians have family cottages - many people's families originate from the countryside. Even if children moved to a town/city, their parents (or some relatives) most likely stayed in the countryside and so the children could later visit them and maybe later would inherit their country houses. Some places were also returned after the collapse of the Soviet Union to the families they were taken from. Since Estonians are happy to own a place outside of city where they can stay and enjoy nature, they are not prone to selling these places, especially since they often have a sentimental value. Also, it's not that hard to get yourself a nice place in the middle of nowhere since the prices are not very high in these places; therefore the unlucky ones who still have no country cottage often get themselves one.

@klaabu99

10 ай бұрын

ei maksa unustada nõukogudeaegseid suvilaid ... nn suvilakoperatiivid .. paljudel juhtudel on tõesti tegu esivanemate koduga mida suudetakse sõbralikult jagada mitme pere vahel ....

Very interesting!

sounds great!

Hello! I have three kids and all of them had the best and longest naps outside, in the pram, with cold weather, as babies. Absolute bliss when they sleep three hours straight. 😊

The story at the start is literally (near-)exactly my childhood as an estonian, except for the part about having siblings

@MananAnwar

10 ай бұрын

This makes me more happy than you know.

Good one💯💯💯😀

Great video

As to the laconic aspect of conversing, the less syllables the better, the more "konkreetsus" = concreteness, the better. And silence can be golden. But apparently the Finns have us Estos beat. The famous anecdote is of two men deciding to have a drink at a pub after work. They get their beers, and one lifts his glass, and says: "Cheers"! The other says: "Hey! Did we come here to speak or to drink"!?

@ragnarlaine4065

10 ай бұрын

This type of concreteness is called „sisu” in Estonian

Estonians with good manners always greet and thank the cashiers in grocery stores.

Summer cottages are just homes of your ancestors, since before the soviet union most estonians lived in the countryside, in villages, as farmesrs. The soviet union pretty much forced everyone into cities and destroyed as many countryside houses as they could, but since they weren't very good at doing anything, a lot of the farms still survived. After the soviet union collapsed they were redistributed back to their original owners, or their descendants and if they couldn't find any descendants they were sold at an extremely cheap price. Now most estonians own a house, or at least some land in the countryside.

1. Absolutely true. You can spend the entire day without talking. 2. I actually thought it was normal for 7 yr olds (1st graders) to walk their dog and go to the grocery store (and drink Ale Coq Original) 3. Well I mean the winters in Estonia are always like -15*C, so that might have something to do with it. 4. Well my family has been together since the dawn of time, but yes. Literally every family except my family has at least 1 divorce. 5. Ok, so I practically know 10% of the people in school and my school apparently has the most student's out of any other school in Estonia. Oh and if you live outside of Harjumaa, You might know every person in your county. 6. It's actually because of the construction of (old) estonian buildings. You see the winters are cold af and the summers are hot af. So old buildings don't have air conditioners, making the winters kind of cold and summers unbelievably hot. So some people have summerhomes, because of the hot summers. Also my family has our summer home as like a side project. Like we go there when we wanna work, but idk. I might just be completely wrong. 7. Yes, estonian drivers are unbelievably kind. Some even stop if they see you nearing the road. I don't know why though. 8. That might also be because estonians might be the most superstitious people in the world. They might think you are pulling a prank or something. That's another thing: we are tricksters too 9. Yes. We sleep naked, we go to sauna naked, we are naked in the changing room and walking across the living room half naked is totally fine in Estonia. This comment was written by an estonian.

@MiracoloItaliano2.0

4 ай бұрын

В Прибалтике депрессивно. Она выdмирает, людей нет, все разъехались.

I am an Estonian and I gotta say i can agree on some things like kids being alone outside and the last one also and yeah if you like want to cross a road there is a high chance the car will stop and let you cross the road, sometimes the car wont stop and just ignore you completely

first timer here: i love the content! i sense you are frustatrated with EE or have very different sense of what's normal :) some of the things you consider crazy for me as a foreigner living in Slovenia seems quite normal: a lot of people here have cottages (by the seas in a different country :) or in the mountains and it doesn't exactly mean they are rich. it is not normal that if you eat stuff people jump into it with their fingers, they are supposed to be invited to participate, also it is the law that pedestrians have the priority when crossing the street and the cars are supposed to stop and sometimes they do, sometimes don't. It is also normal to be naked when you go to sauna (it is rude to be actually dressed), you have a towel, but that's it.

My kinda of place - thanks for sharing

@MananAnwar

4 ай бұрын

Great to have you here.

@lanceharvie6933

4 ай бұрын

@@MananAnwar I hope to travel there this year - looks awesome kinda reminds of my time in Koln and Dusseldorf. I also lived in Siberia for 4 years so know a little about Russian life, history and customs. Lack of small talk is also common in Russia which suits me fine.

@MiracoloItaliano2.0

2 ай бұрын

В Прибалтике депрессивно. Она вымирает, людей нет, все разъехались.

okey, i keep seeing the point that estonia has big number of single moms, but it is not what you think. My sister was single mom... no contact or support from the father. But in most cases people have children together live together and they might get married like ten years later or never or there is still father in the picture but parents are not living together, but in many cases if not most there is at least monetary support if nothing else.

Speaking of knowing everyone, don't I know you, Manan, from helping with LinkedIn write-ups? Good video. Cheers!

Eating your stuff by yourself and having no expectations to share seems to be quite common in Manchester too. Occasionally you can get your friend to take some but getting him to take a sip from your whatever drink already open is still next to impossible. And even if you succeed in sharing- do not expect a return of favour next time he has crisps. Could happen still, just have your expectations low. Buying rounds in pub is normal. That's how sharing happens

It could be a description of Sweden, Finland, Norway or Denmark, as well... 😊

Manan, thank you for the outsider's perspective. Having lived abroad for ca 7yrs, i really appreciate the nuances only an outsider is capable of noticing ❤ much love and keep it up! Re: countryside houses. I reckon (or at least in my mind, I've just assumed the connection automatically) it's merely the fact that most of the Estonian folk were slaves and/or peasants for most of our history. Slavery was abolished 1816/1818 or smth, and owning a lot of land back then meant that you were a rich peasant (official term might be "kulak" in estonian), and were, hence, automatically considered an enemy of the ruling classes (hi, tsarist Russia, looking at you 👀), and were threatened to be sent to ... i want to say smth similar to concentration camps, but folk, ples help me out here.. So it made more sense to divvy up the land between your family/mates/etc, which meant a lot of ppl got a tiny bit of land, which cost them next to nothing. And this land just got passed down through generations. And quite importantly, if you pay attention, it's usually "the family's cottage" or smth shared with your siblings/nieces/nephews. I don't think many 30-40 y.olds own their own summer cottage. Unless you are yourself or you are the offspring of "cowboy capitalists". Then, of course, houses are of abundance, private lands and golf courses are smth you "just grew up with", and you definitely are regretfully not aware of the blatant fact that you belong among the top 1% of the Estonians. And because the cottage belongs usually to someone's grandparents or relatives, the biggest falling outs happen when someone passes away, and the tiny bit of land and/or cottage is now to be inherited by the offspring, bringing about disputes along the lines of "you never were there with gam-gam, nor helped renovate the roof/sauna/cellar/younameit, why should you get a part of the land?", as writing one's will is not a very commonplace practice yet.. So, here's my two cents. Sorry for the long rant. 😅 Much love from another Kristiine dweller ❤ Ps. One of your early ones - comparing neighbourly relations to Estonia's history w the occupying powers is a simile i have continued to use when introducing our culture to both locals and foreigners alike. Tysm for that.

@MananAnwar

10 ай бұрын

Thank you Kadri, hit me up on facebook or IG.

About the pedestrian crossings, it is required by law to stop for pedestrians to let them cross the road. It is taught in driving schools and if you do not wait for someone to let them cross then you can get a fine, or on a driving test you can even fail the test because of it.

I'm Manan too, and I'm a software dev. I've started liking Estonia a lot considering my career is in tech.

Similar things in Lithuania. 🇱🇹 It's funny to hear person describes one of the Baltic country that way! 😂👏

Poping here as a french man Estonia looks very cool to me.

These aren't things that are considered normal just in Estonia, every single thing you've listed is a Baltic thing.

Introverts dream to live in a place that doesn’t do smalltalk 😍

Hope you had a good Jaanipäev 👍

@MananAnwar

10 ай бұрын

Quiet at home, that was lovely.

@KrK-EST

10 ай бұрын

@@MananAnwar I hope you take part at stleast one of the smaller municipaly public celebration next year. For example here in Kose (30min from Tallinn in direction of Tartu) there had allways been big name ame artists for Estonia (even a big name/pop star in Europe was performing in last years Jaanipäev) but still local enought go have chill ans relaxed Estonian atmospere usually only family and friends parties/celebrations. Also this year here and in many places it was pree to participate due to gov support. And next few days after are usually the days people relax and recharge at home. Yes we are a quiet people at most part but if we party, we party hardy 😄👍

babies outside in winter is a common tradition yes it is for tempering and health purposes. Of course, parents check that they are not cold. Since weapons are generally prohibited for private individuals and police control is very good, it is relatively safe for children to move and play alone. 😃😃

@piiluja

10 ай бұрын

As a gun owner in Estonia I can say with confidence that getting a licence for carrying a gun is a lot cheaper and easier than getting a driving licence. In other words, firearms are LESS prohibited than cars.

@margitkaru2782

10 ай бұрын

@@piiluja And do you often see people carrying weapons in street scenes? compared to other countries, Estonia is a flower garden 🤣

@piiluja

10 ай бұрын

@@margitkaru2782 What I wanted to emphasize is that main reason why we don't have firearm-related crimes lies somewhere else than in availability of firearms. Firearms are not difficult legally to obtain, period. That firearms are "prohibited" in Europe is USA-ns excuse what actually has become a myth. Estonia has concealed carry law so you naturally can't notice gun even if some private person is carrying it. Btw in Switzerland there are more firearms per person than in USA, but I have never heard about school shooting in Switzerland. Whether some country is safe or not, actual question is not in firearms availability. It is rather question of culture, but who would admit that their culture could be bad in some sense. And one part of Estonian culture is that we don't feel a need for a firearm, so ordinary people like you don't even know how easy it is to actually buy one, and think that it might be even prohibited.

@margitkaru2782

10 ай бұрын

@@piiluja Yes, it is true that a lot depends on the internal culture and upbringing of people

To me, and to many of my friends. The taking food part has nothing to do with trust or being nice. You've said it yourself, to us food is sustenance. If I accept your chocolate or crisp or anything. Then it leaves me with taste and an empty feeling - craving for more. So it's just easier to say no to the temptation to devour the entire pack. I think the above has also a big cultural aspect. Most of us grew up having snacks and things on the table, that we weren't allowed to eat. It was there for the show - in case someone comes. It built a kreeping feeling deep inside, that if you have one it's harder to stop yourself from having another. Btw, I had no idea how dangerous life can be for kids until I moved to UK. I cherish the freedom I had growing up. And I will move back to Estonia so my kids could grow up the same way.

In lithuania we don't do sleeping kids outside, but everything else applies in Lithuania too

Hello! from finland, we acually grill in saona, like put sosage on folio and on top of the stones.

@MananAnwar

5 ай бұрын

😬

I am amazed and have not noticed that we Estonians have become so rude, I was brought up to say thank you, hello, goodbye even to the cashier in the store, bur driver etc. Maybe because I grew up in a small down.

I grew up walking to school, riding my bike as a 4th grader 4-5 miles away from home when I got my first bike 🚴. Life in the 1980’s and early 90’s that was normal.

@VsKristi

2 ай бұрын

We were all playing outside till late and knew when the dinnertime was and after that went out again. I once wandered too far when I was 4 and when I got back my mom was crying, looking for me. It was easy to lose track of time bc in summer it doesn’t get dark before 11-12.

Being an Estonian, I’d say it’s actually quite rude not to say hello and thank you when going to a store or anywhere really. It comes naturally to me and mostly to cashiers as well. Especially in areas that speak predominantly Estonian. The thing might be that if you’re foreign looking, they just assume you don’t speak Estonian and won’t just bother saying something you don’t understand. Of course there are exceptions, but please people, be civilized and say “tere” (hello) and “aitäh” (thank you)

@klaabu99

10 ай бұрын

it's sad but estonians are rude .... mine vaata poes mitu inimest teretab kassapidajat või tänab ... naeratamisest ma parem ei räägigi ... 50% juhtudest kui räägitakse kassapidajaga tuleb sealt midagi ebaviisakat... see on kurb reaalsus

@Aivar380

10 ай бұрын

@@klaabu99 Paljude eesmärgiks ei olegi minna poodi, et kassiiriga lobiseda. Eriti häirib kui saalitöötaja või letitagune tüütab fraasiga "Kas saan kuidagi aidata?". Viisakusest vastad "ei, aitäh", aga tahaks talle vastata: "Kas ma tõesti näen nii abitu välja". Pealetükkiv viisakus on üsnagi ebameeldiv nähtus, kuigi lõunapoolsetes maades täiesti tavaline ja normaalne.

@elgasalme9331

9 ай бұрын

@@klaabu99 Eestlased ütlevad küll. Pigem muust rahvusest ei ütle midagi, sest oi-oi äkki peab siis eesti keeles rääkima, mitte parusski. Kuna teenindajad ongi enamasti vene rahvusest ja seetõttu on vene rahvusest klientidel dilemma mis keeles tervitada ja parem siis ei tervitagi. Lasnamäe müüjad ise ka sel põhjusel sageli ei tervita -nende arvates ei sobi Lasnamäe kliente eesti keeles tervitada ja ootavad mis keeles klient ise alustab.

Pedestrian culture her is hit or miss,in turkey and thailand its mostly every man for himself, but in norway cars stop to let you cross from a mile away. In estonia cars will stop, but i have had a couple of encounters with crazy or negligent drivers so its still best to keep caution IMO.

The cottages are mostly from soviet era. They were not ment as a summer homes, but as small agricultural plots. And those plots were given out freely (needs confirmation). My grandmother got one. My mom could've gotten another in same general area, but it was too far from train station ( almost 3km vs 1.7km ) and they had no need for it anyway. And the lil plot... You could grow whatever you wanted there. We had apple trees... currant gooseberry raspberry bushes... carrots potatoes you name it. A lot of food for a small family. Not for whole year, but plenty. Funny thing about the houses is that you got given a plan for the house that was acceptable for that plot. Everyone got same plans, yet all the houses looked different ( floorplan was same ) . People built the houses from whatever materials they got their hands on.

@SiiriRebane

10 ай бұрын

i think they are 2 different things. small plots of land for agriculture were one thing and summer cottage is another. true is, one could build a small shed on this small plot, what building later might've been upgraded to living cabin. land use was maybe given for free; soviet times there was no land ownership, all land belonged to state, citizens had only using rights, not selling or buying.

@VsKristi

2 ай бұрын

Or, you had your grandparents’ country house, possibly even a traditional farmhouse (rehielamu).

Thanks for this video. I found it quite restful visiting Estonia how you were not expected to make small talk everywhere all the time but as a "puritanical American," I'll be skipping the sauna.

I've lived in Estonia for 25 years. Ever gone to a doctor in a hospital, waited behind the door, been asked to come in and sit down, then been asked with one word "räägi" = speak? Or "räägi oma murest"= speak of your worry? No hello. Just roll it out, as if there is no synopsis or reference on their computer screen about what it's about?

@MananAnwar

10 ай бұрын

😂

My other half is Estonian and has a split family with no issue, as for talking we can go days without saying a word and i'm still wrong. Wonderful. If we go for a walk in the forest and we see other people she complains its like Laulupidu !

@MananAnwar

5 ай бұрын

Forests are love.

What did you think pedestrian crossings were for if not crossing the road. Of course cars are required to stop there. This is the law and the same everywhere I've been to.

In the north it is very dark in the winter, so they must make vitamin D in summer, so it healthy to be naked. Also in Romania we are obliged to offer food to others, and they can accept it if they are our friends or they are hungry

People had summer cottage usually from soviet times as during those times it was encouraged to grow your own food during summer and store food in jars for winter. At the time land was not very expensive and in many cases was even given out by government for free / small fee. Many people build by themselves small houses and had gardens to grow food on tjose properties. Nowaday most old soviet people dont grow their of food anymore due to age and young ones just use property to relax during summer time

@MananAnwar

10 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing.

@VsKristi

2 ай бұрын

True country houses (loghomes built before war) are mostly inherited from grandparents. The little plots w greenhouses and small cabins/houses in a planned community - that’s not quite the same, plus it was a hassle to build during Soviet times, took years bc of lack of materials, bureaucracy, etc. I know, not everyone had grandparents living in the countryside but I did and most of my friends did (bc before the war rural life was more active) which I now think is true luxury. A private place in the woods.

I think majority of stuff you told is comon in Europe, especially Baltic and Northen part.

I am also Estonian. yes, the children sleep well outside in the cool weather and that is quite normal here. My parents kept me sleeping outside and I kept myself and so our children do with their children..

This is all normal in Sweden as well lol. Where is this considered weird?

@martinkoitmae6655

4 ай бұрын

Probably in Asia and southern countries in general.

Always intersting to find out things considered crazy in outside world ;P Another interesting fact is that we got a huge amount of russian and slavic culture on that very small area of ground that have completely/totally/110% opposite traditions of, sharing food :D :D. That's sometimes confusing even to me :D

During Jaanipäev it is also normal that shops Are out of Beer , Estonians love Beer

I like these videos Manan!

The not talking thing is something that really struck me when I visited a few months ago. At first I thought they were just ignoring me as a fairly obvious tourist, but then I noticed that even neighbours who clearly recognised each other would walk up the stairs to their neighbouring flats without so much as a "hello"! Very bizarre. I don't necessarily dislike it, but it does take a while to get used to!

@MananAnwar

2 ай бұрын

Definitely it takes time. Where are you from and when are you visiting again?

@SongBillong

2 ай бұрын

@@MananAnwar I'm from England 🙂 I'll be returning to Estonia in May or June. I'll hopefully be staying for a few months!

Independent kids could maybe traced to the Soviet times (at least), when state demanded productivity from parents. So it was normal that kid got home from school, made fire and warmed up the food, tended animals (in the farm), did homework - all before Mom/Dad came home from work. Some kids had grandparent(s) at home, most didn't, some were watched by neighbor or relative. State let the families make their own arrangements. On the other hand, even before SU kids in countryside could have a hour's solitary walk to school every day, or if they wanted to play with a friend it could also have been hour or two away. Father would not take them on the horse for such a trivial thing as a school or play. So it could also be a custom. I hope we'll never know any 'better'.

#2 and #3 true for Latvia, too!

My doughter went from middle of Kuressaare to the Kudjape. And when I asked why? she said she was bored and its like 3,5 kilometers. and she was 3+years old Saaremaa, those gilrls are tough

@MananAnwar

4 ай бұрын

That is both lovely and scary at the same time.

@toivomandel6004

4 ай бұрын

Its not scary. there is nothing to afraid in Saaremaa. its just safe@@MananAnwar

@MiracoloItaliano2.0

4 ай бұрын

В Прибалтике депрессивно. Она вымирает, людей нет, все разъехались.

7. Estonians like to complain about the traffic here, they don't even know how bad it is elsewhere. I think it's amazing here. 8. Accepting snacks comes down to whether you're hungry or not.

@piiluja

10 ай бұрын

Manan has forgot what he said in other video - Estonians eat when they are hungry and not for entertainment. (Eating and drinking as entertainment is main reason of being overweight at my Estonian opinion).

Agree with everything, mby some things are little off, but more true than not. About sauna, naked with kids, it is normal in Estonia, but only until certain age, probably up to 5-7ish. After that, men go with boys and women go with girls. Grown ups also mostly go separately(taking turns(women and men)), but sometimes mix as well, depends on people, some are shy, some not.

In Finland we have similar approach to not talking and nudity. The non-talking thing comes from that we don’t like to talk anything extra, in a situation where it doesn’t need to be said. So either you talk what you need to, or don’t say anything. And we too have saunas.