Couple Things | Mathew Hussey
This week on Couple Things, we got to chat with dating expert, Matthew Hussey. Matthew talks with us about his advice for anyone that is starting, ending, or currently in a relationship. We even ask him what his #1 pick ups line is… We think you’ll want to tune into this one. It gets juicy.
Here are a few topics that we cover:
0:00 Timestamps
2:37 Is Mathew single?
3:30 living up to the pressure
5:53 how andrew won over shawn
8:07 andrew’s first impression of shawn
9:42 are there certain qualities that everyone is attracted to?
13:23 what should someone look for when dating?
14:32 investment and timing
17:56 what are the true compatibility factors?
20:30 key principals to follow while dating
27:03 going back to people who aren’t good for you
30:08: improving your confidence
34:24 marriage and mathew’s goals
39:14 do pick-up lines work?
41:50 first impressions
44:12 the importance in how you react
47:40 what attracted mathew to his girlfriend
51:30 why mathew is constantly learning
53:26 the absence of judgement
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“Being ready for a relationship is not the same thing as being ready to not be lonely anymore.” That’s huge and a lot of people don’t make that distinction!
@marciefinn6295
2 жыл бұрын
This is fabulous podcast for the younger generation who are looking for a relationship with no self confidence.
The way Andrew listens to Shawn intently and looks at her with adoration shows his genuine love for her and that he truly “understands her essence”.
That’s how I feel about my husband. 23 years together and what initially attracted me to him was him being his true self, being silly, making me laugh, and just being 100% real. Still to this day he’s always 100% and my best friend in the whole world. We’ve been through so much and always still laugh together and just have fun with each other.
Been married a looong time, but sharing this with my daughter. So much good information. And you two are a precious couple!
My marriage experienced some hard times, and I was ready to walk away.. after 5 years of both of us putting in a lot of hard work, we are still together and have found happiness again!!
I liked when he said "Someone who accepts, understands and soothes my crazy" that's perfect, that's a keeper!
@corinabentancur3456
3 жыл бұрын
When he said “Someone who accepts, understands and soothes my crazy” I felt that I’m so grateful I have a husband that is so patient and loving towards me when I’m crazy from dealing with everything life 🧡
Coming off a divorce a few years ago and with 3 little children and finally in my first relationship since the divorce. This spoke volumes to me! Dating is hard especially in this day and age. This is my first time listening on you tube! I am forever a fan ❤️
Timing is everything… that cannot be more true!! My husband and I knew each other for 6 years before we started dating. 2 years of dating before marriage. Now 9 years happily married. Timing is truly everything!!!
WOW! this was great! What you say you are looking for and what you accept are two different things....that shook my core! Thanks for this guys!
@haladuabubakar4400
3 жыл бұрын
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3 жыл бұрын
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@givegive9105
3 жыл бұрын
Hello do you need help on how to get your ex back or restore someone you love specialist who helped you me out
Shawn: “Andrew’s game was rough at the beginning” 😂 I love them!
“What you say you’re looking for and what you accept are two different things.” LOVE this. Sooooo much truth!!!
Character really is such an important trait to look for in a significant other. I love that he appreciated finding this in his current relationship!
Ooof “being ready for a relationship is not that same thing as being ready to not be lonely anymore”. So. Good. As a youth pastor and also dealing with young adults, that’s definitely good advice I’ll pass on!!
I’m not currently in a relationship but got so much out of this.
It’s completely wonderful to see a couple not taking their blessing for granted. I love that you are constantly nurturing your relationship! It’s EVERYTHING!
Love that you show that relationships aren’t always easy…it can get messy and work but if you are with the right person and willing to put in the work it is totally worth it!
“Timing is where it’s at.” So raw, real, and true!!!! (New subscriber; Nashville native, and hoping to win that $500 so I can come see y’all at ZANIES !!!!)
I just love how real and relatable this podcast is.
Teamwork is definitely huge in a relationship and having someone who is honest and communicates well with you goes so much further than just attraction ever will!
I love listening to all of the advice that you provide, knowing that you are raw and real with everything makes it easier to listen and not feel attacked. I feel like a lot of people have lived through things that they thought were "normal" whether it was because it's what they saw growing up or what they always experienced. But knowing there's a way to come out of it happier and able to learn from the experiences that you've been through make each day worth it! For me personally looking back is never easy, but at least now when I look forward I feel prepared, ready and supported by the ones that are in my life now! Today I can say that I'm happy, that my kids are happy, and our futures are bright!
Everything that was said is so spot on, huge fan of yalls podcast!! “Arguing well” and communicating effectively is so important! I’ve also learned that learning your persons love language and knowing what brings them happiness is so crucial too. My bf just lost his dad about two months ago and that was the hardest thing he has had to go through. While it is devastating, it definitely brought us closer. Keeping him busy and doing things that made him happy really helped him get through that really difficult time❤️
“Timing is everything” cannot be more true. Thank you for these conversations!
Y’all are seriously such couple goals! I love to hear y’all when you’re joking and when you’re being sincere. Y’all are so relatable and I just love watching you interact as a family!
Love how raw and genuine you all are
All of this hits home. Spot on. Thanks for being real & having guests who do the same!
Timing is everything - it literally is! Being in the right place at the right time can allow you to meet your spouse, find your dream job or anything! I love watching your videos!
Y’all always make my day! And I think it’s awesome that you’re doing a show like couple things! We need more positive family influences in the world! ❤️
I love how real the topics are you guys cover!!! Thank you for being real and sharing!
I listen to every single episode and this episode had SO many golden nuggets!! I’m thankful there is a platform like this so we can all keep learning not only to better ourselves but our relationships as well
I love watching all of y’all’s videos! You are so open and honest about your relationship and what y’all go through. It makes it so relatable to take what y’all say and use it or see the same situation in my own life.
I love how real guys are, and the topics you dive deeper into are extremely relevant to life. And I just wanted to say Thank you for that!
I love that y’all are so honest and open!
Love to hear couples being honest! Thanks for this!
Shawn and Andrew’s podcast has taught me to continue to strive to do better, and be better. To work on my relationships with not only my fiancé but my family as well. Thank you for all you have taught me and the world. Please don’t let anyone stop you. 💙
Not only are you both super relatable but no matter what age your viewers are we can relate and compare our experiences and relationships to your advice! Thank you so much for this podcast! It’s super inspiring! 💕
I absolutely love how open you both are and relatable. I appreciate your variety of content and the uplifting message you continue to convey! ❤️
Love the discussion of compatibility, infatuation, and true investment in a relationship!! A great reminder that relationships are built on choosing to invest in your person all the time!
I love how humble Matthew is from the beginning of the podcast to the end! I also loved his honesty when he admitted he sometimes looks at old videos and doesn’t agree with them anymore. He is constantly learning, growing & evolving as an expert and that’s how I always hope to be in my marriage (as a non-expert, only 6 years in). This episode was very interesting to listen to and very enjoyable, thanks for creating quality content! :-)
I have been married 15 years! I love listening to your podcast and hearing everyone's take on things!! I love the realness off it! Keep on keepin' on!💖
I absolutely love how real and open you guys are about everything. I love following along on your journey and watching your sweet family grow.
You guys are couple goals! I love watching you two interact with each other; you can genuinely see the love. I can’t wait to dive into the rest of your episodes. “I want to make people feel less alone” - y’all are doing that!
My husband was and is still exactly who he is and is so authentic and genuine. I can always count on him and we’ve grown so much already!! Makes a huge difference!! Love y’all’s vulnerability, authenticity, and positivity! Also love learning more about what makes you all you and what you’ve been through on your own and together!! Inspiring to see and is healing and helping so many!!! Keep crushing it!!!!!!
I love how real and open yall are on your videos.
Love how relatable your podcast is to different people in different stages in their lives! Love you guys! 💛
I had never heard of him before, but it was really fun to listen and glad that he is always updating his opinion instead of just saying the same thing over and over again! Thanks!
This podcast brings so much awareness and opens the door for real conversation. Love it
“Timing is where it’s at.” Love this podcast & cant wait for the tour!!
What a great channel to be running! Having positive messages about relationships and advice is so needed, truly appreciate it🙌
Love how you all talked about how it is different to have and be in a relationship compared to just being tired of being alone.
i love how real you guys are in your podcasts!! love listening!! 🖤
I needed to hear this! Timing is everything!!
This channel is such a fantastic resource no matter where you are in marriage, dating or just relationships in general! Good job guys!
Always amazing to watch and hear!! Thanks East fam!! ❤️
As newlyweds (and gymnastics coaches), my husband and I love following you both. Thank you for being so open with sharing your life to help others grow.
I absolutely love this KZread channel and how real you guys are on a wide range of topics!!
You two have been such an inspiration in my life. I wait anxiously for the next episodes!!! Thank y’all so much!🥰🙏🏼
Loving how inviting you guys are. Giving people ways to start conversations with partners and also with ones self about relationships. 20+ years married here... started in the unconventional way of met on dating site..emailing back and forth because cell phones weren't around...lol Thanks for this channel. Also thanks for working with Abbott- Abbott hospital in MN saved my Dads life, many many blood transfusions..keep the donations coming!
Grateful for this and for you both! Always seem so genuine and real❤ so thank you!!
Love this podcast so much and always appreciate hearing the great conversations Shawn and Andrew have with guests. Great episode!
This helped so much. Been going through hard times with my significant other, and have learned so much to help our relationship., and same with your podcast! Thank you!❤️
Love listening to you all, I have really grown in my one aspects of being in a relationship because of you! Thank you ❤️❤️
LOVE your podcasts and videos. You guys are the most genuine people I’ve seen on social media. Wishing ur family a life full of happiness!
"You want me to package it and write a letter? Nah, I'll just keep the hair dryer." Soooo relatable!
Love these.. thanks for this podcast and staying real. ❤
As someone who is engaged and getting married this upcoming October I must say that he truly hit this out of the park!! He speaks such a raw genuine truth and it is truly inspirational. My fiancé and I both agreed we were going to live together before even considering getting engaged. Dating versus living together/dating is a complete game changer. There are certain things that people have hardwired into them maybe in their cleaning routines or their eating habits and etc. and sometimes those can make or break a relationship but without living together and getting to know that side of them you may never know it to be one of your pet peeves!! Thankfully my fiancé and I once we moved in together our relationship grew and flourished into something even more incredible and we worked together wonderfully just as a well oiled machine would do. It’s so crazy how God created us all differently but creates a person for us that is different but that’s perfectly into who we are. Can’t wait to see y’all in Charlotte!!
Absolutely love this video, being real and raw is such a big thing to me and I love that y’all are so open and honest!
Such truth! Love all the different topics you two cover in all the episodes, keep them coming! Love you! ❤
Thank you all for this awesome content! Love these videos so much!
“Timing is where it’s at” Love thisss. And so applicable to all aspects of life! Enjoyed this week’s podcast a lot! 💕
@amberlinder1604
3 жыл бұрын
He is absolutely correct finding someone that accepts, understands and soothes my crazy. It is important to find someone that will understand you and help you not change you.
Great show! Thanks for all talks y'alls work!
It is so wonderful that you guys get so real. Thank you for everything you share💗
So informative! Always love listening to your Couple Things episodes!
Love this podcast!! Thanks for being great hosts!
Y’all have such a great perspective on things!!!! Love listening and being a part of the family ❤️
Love hearing all things couple. Excited to check out the channel.
Thank you guys so much before doing these podcasts!! I love listening to you guys! ❤️
I really love watching y’all’s videos. They really do help me with everyday life, especially working on a relationship after my son was born.
love matthew hussey!!! you guys are so easy to listen to seriously. i’m definitely more of a spotify kind of listener when it comes to podcasts but you guys are special
Love love this podcast, always excited to listen.!!
Y’all are so great!! Love the topics y’all choose to talk about. I spent my whole day yesterday bingeing the podcasts From the very beginning! Thank you, thank you for being a wonderful couple and sharing your experiences with us!
Timing is everything! Love this!
This was good! Thank you. Timing is where it’s at!
So happy I found this podcast! Love you guys and thanks for sharing your life with us!!
What a great episode...I just started listening to your show and things this is a great way to increase the value of your relationship. Love it !
Love listening to couple things when writing notes for school! So much great advice.
Thank you so much for being authentic, having new people, being relatable and genuine. Keep doing what your doing 🤗
Absolutely loved this episode!! Absolutely love you all!! Thank you for all you do for us!!!! ☺️☺️🙏🙏
This is so good. I love that you guys take the time to dive into things like this. We live in such a fast paced world that I think these are important questions to think about going into relationships. I think that’s why so many marriages fail because you’re marrying and idea of a person not who they actually are. Love this 🖤🖤🖤
I love that you are both so open and honest
Love you all! Love Couple Things! I can’t say it enough! I also like the diversity of couples that you show! It’s really awesome seeing your relationship and the relationships of others both older and younger, more experienced/less experienced, etc! Lots of wisdom and lots of good nuggets!! Nice to know people all over either have put in the work and have learned lessons or are putting in the work and are learning lessons as they go! No relationship is easy, but it is so worth it!! Been one of the most rewarding things and biggest blessings of my life, even with the struggles that come with it!! So many dynamics that you don’t even think about! Thankful to hear everyone’s stories and lessons!! We are all so unique! We can all learn from and with each other! That’s what it’s all about!!
“Timing is everything” couldn’t agree more. I had so many roadblocks thrown in my path that held me back from where I was trying to get, but had so many things not gone wrong I would have never been in the right place at the right time to meet my spouse.
This video was amazing. Relationships are the most challenging but rewarding thing. What spoke to me most was Shawn talking about Andrew being so authentic and himself because nobody is perfect at all and being yourself is the most vulnerable thing you can do. Something I’ve heard before that I’ll always hold onto is “Take them as they are, not as you hoped they’d be”
Always so informative I love watching/listening! Thank you for all you do 😊
Thank you for your rural honesty and advice. I am close to 60 and will celebrate our 38th Anniversary July 16. One thing we have gotten away from is “date nights”or time to ourselves. Thank you for putting things in perspective and reminding of what is important. I am looking forward to following your podcasts and excited for what it will do to help my personal situation and help our relationship. Yes, even at almost 60 and 38 years of marriage we need to reignite that spark we once had. Wishing you the best with your newest little blessing, your family is beautiful and you both are wonderful parents!
“timing is where it’s at”- love!!
Absolutely love the podcast!! I’m always looking forward to the next episode 💛
Loved this! Very insightful!
This is a great episode. I needed some of these reminders today!
Love what you guys stand for and how real and open you guys are!
Love your videos! Subscribed today! Thank you all for always being so honest and open!