This lady is bilingual, she speaks English and the truth.

@Mina-hn3ms

Жыл бұрын

Well said

@erickcadena8468

Жыл бұрын

I learning English with her

@erickcadena8468

Жыл бұрын

@@user-sb8hz1np5q yeah my first language is Spanish and only reading her subtitles, I was trying to understand everything, but now I can understand everything then, I would like to watch without subtitles cus sometimes it's hard Understand her and another native American speaker

@erickcadena8468

Жыл бұрын

@@user-sb8hz1np5q¿ am I? It's a question asking you by yourself

@user-sb8hz1np5q

Жыл бұрын

@@erickcadena8468 you should say I am learning not I learning That's what I was trying to say

‘people who get angry at you for putting yourself first are the same people who benefit from you putting yourself last’, so powerful

@astroboy3968

Жыл бұрын

s/o to my ex friend

@zineb_.1mr

Жыл бұрын

Iread that comment the moment she said it😭

@yemisrachlakew2406

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@brunakelly1877

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@meghajakhmola6422

Жыл бұрын

this woman is something else ♡

it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest

@SelmaHayi

18 күн бұрын

great book

1. set small daily goals 2. make friends that would be an example to you. 3. stop attaching yourself to everyone and everything. stop being desperate 4. don’t fear if you outgrow something or someone 5. confidence is silent. “you have to be humble, but aware of your worth.” 6. have and RESPECT your boundaries. 7. do not laugh at jokes at your own expense 8. whenever somebody makes a joke or anything towards you, ask them to explain it 9. at the end of the day, the selfish win. so fuck everything, you need to place yourself first. 10. know yourself. ask yourself questions in order to comprehend more of you. so that you’ll always have a reason for what u do, and can shut tf up arrogant people who ask. 11. treat yourself as you would treat someone you love 12. start right now. start with what you have

@user-ys9lo4eo4k

2 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot girl💙 I need it a lot

@Rosiebella31

Ай бұрын

Thanks honey 🍯

@bratzxrose

28 күн бұрын

Thanks Queen

@SnehaThakur-ff2cw

26 күн бұрын

That's great help! Thanks honey ❤

@growing.flowers

20 күн бұрын

Thank chu

"Confidence is not loud." "Be humble, but aware of your worth." Honestly love that!

@riruru6474

Жыл бұрын

First comment

@liamneslind5708

Жыл бұрын

Only be humble infront of eyes

@summersmith

Жыл бұрын

haifa wehbe is a great example

@dove3853

Жыл бұрын

Remember that the Lord Jesus Christ died on a cross for you because He loves you so much. He then rose up from the dead three days later. The Ten Commandments are called the moral law, (most of us are lying, thieving, blasphemous and adulterer at heart) you and I broke the law Jesus paid the fine that’s what happened on that cross. By believing that Jesus died on the cross and rose up from the dead 3 days later and not just confessing your sin, but also repenting of all sin you have done and putting all your trust in Him in prayer, He will grant you everlasting life as a free gift.

@thegodfam

Жыл бұрын

@@dove3853 The best confidence is found in God 🤍✝️

“90% of life is confidence, and the thing about confidence is that no one knows if it's real or not.” - Maddy Perez

@kaylahmatano1749

Жыл бұрын

yes I love that scene

@user-py2ro7gv7u

Жыл бұрын

But the problem is that everybody knows when person is imitating confidence, all mature people can feel it. Also the feeling of fake confident is worse than feeling insecure when you are that person

@liliiglesias

Жыл бұрын

perfect.

@Blulisianthus

Жыл бұрын

@@user-py2ro7gv7u I think what we’d need to do is be okay with people knowing you’re faking it. Eventually you’ll get there for real, you’re just practicing. You know why you’re doing it, you know it will take you somewhere. They can judge you if they want to, at the end of the day the people who are worth something will be with you. That sort of thing?

@user-py2ro7gv7u

Жыл бұрын

@@Blulisianthus thats correct. people that ive been talking about in my surroundings usually trying to fake it by bulling someone, but if they re nice theres no problem with it

I started crying when liz said do not laugh at jokes at your own expense. This is what I do to myself, I don't take myself seriously and just to make other people laugh just to please them, I actually laugh at jokes on myself and I consider myself dumb infront of them and that's the reason why no one values my words and no one takes me seriously and Liz I wanna thank you... You are helping out so many girls with your powerful words and thankyou again! May God Bless You💗

This is one of the best videos I have seen on the internet. An advice from woman to a woman. You really felt like an older sister! Thank you!

idc if ppl criticise her or how she acts and spreads messages, she motivates me. she’s cool and inspiring and everything i need. she’s a better therapist than anyone LOL

@rk1ye13

Жыл бұрын

love your profile 😌

@miapurple7

Жыл бұрын

your profile photo 🥺

@windixoxoo

Жыл бұрын

ur pfp is so cute 🥰🥰 we love jungkook

@abcd_efg7568

Жыл бұрын

No cause ong

@africanlily6107

Жыл бұрын

People dont like her?

"Be humble, but know your worth. Confidence is not loud" Loved this ✨

@sweetiegrandes9665

Жыл бұрын

I know it's a weird question but why does everyone want to appear confident?

@oreosaredelicious4000

Жыл бұрын

@@sweetiegrandes9665 why would anyone want to appear shy, or unconfident?

@oreosaredelicious4000

Жыл бұрын

@SuM of NoN that’s why I said OR. read carefully

@txcda

Жыл бұрын

@@sweetiegrandes9665 Numerous studies confirm that higher self-confidence and self-esteem predict a higher level of happiness

@tvdfangirllll726

11 ай бұрын

mikasa is that yoU ??!!!!

liz ... u saved my life, truly😭! did you know? because of watching your videos, my voice gradually changed to be secure, i used to have small and timid voice and i thought i couldnt change it(i have cptsd), but look at me now??? MY VOICE TOTALLY CHANGED. and not only that, i became more comfortable in adjusting posture to be straight posture, and not slouching anymore(i used to feel slouching was more comfy). and now i can vary my responses so that i can adjust my style of talking. AND IM NO LONGER TO BE EXTREMELY LIMERENT(?) LIKE I WAS BEFORE. im able to do my activities and complete it daily only FOR ME, and never think to do anything to please others. thank you so much, liz🥰

@cicada12345

Ай бұрын

lil update guys now im able to communicate calmly with elders? like i used to isolate myself from them and now i feel confident talking with them! my social skill is increasing

@amande22

Ай бұрын

i’m proud of you 💕💕 you deserve it !!

@cicada12345

Ай бұрын

@@amande22 thank you so much😭🌸♥️♥️♥️

@DiyaJain-id1jg

16 күн бұрын

Goshh woww I'm so happy and proud of you. You deserve the world sweetie

@cicada12345

16 күн бұрын

@@DiyaJain-id1jg aaaaww thank youu🥰🥰🥰🙏🌸

I'm introvert but I don't depend on friends because I'm completely alone. I go out alone and i do what i want ❤

@saraaam3506

2 ай бұрын

I admire you!❤

I manifest that every person who read this, will get confident friends, they are REALLY hard to find, and watching this video was like a hug of positive vibes, thank you Liz

@Opbabyyx

Жыл бұрын

Amen

@CdeCeliaca

Жыл бұрын

Thank you💕

@SoggyMuffin007

Жыл бұрын

After being in an extremely toxic friend group where everyone was just feeding off of each other’s insecurities, I finally found someone who was fully confident in themselves and is able to spread that confidence and positivity onto others and I couldn’t be happier

@heyyy1325

Жыл бұрын

If u think they're really hard to find, they will be really hard to find. Confident friends are easy to find and confident friends come to me effortlessly. Periodt.

@rasy9951

Жыл бұрын

Thank youuu

The fact that she just fessed up to her issues and OWNS her solutions makes me realize I have run out of excuses for not becoming who I want to be. Thanks Liz!

@localbaddie_8438

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss, I need to realize that my life starts now. In order for me to become the person I want to be I need to stop waiting and take action.

@odvezlet1793

2 жыл бұрын

I saw once her tiktok about her familly problems and she really survived, we really have no excuses anymore 😫

@AllUserNamesAreUsed

2 жыл бұрын

@@odvezlet1793 I would be curious to know I can say I've seen people like her and ajust assumed her life and family are probably perfect. It's a wakeup call for me

@AH-os2lp

Жыл бұрын

مدري وش تقولين بس يا حلوك حلوااااااه بس💗💗💗💗💗💗

@catallystic

Жыл бұрын

@@localbaddie_8438 so how you been doing?

"I'm litterly going to be the best mom" "all the love i needed as a child,I'll give my children" ❤ You made me cry😢

Liz, I get bullied just because of my forehead... But because of you I found confidence to defend myself. Thank you so much

@Ceejay-yo1vi

9 күн бұрын

Wow that's improvement. Good for you

@ArasPe-yy5fs

8 күн бұрын

I honestly think you are very pretty

i love how realistic and honest she is

@mackeyladove8166

Жыл бұрын

😍

@mackeyladove8166

Жыл бұрын

😻🙀

@stefanalbu9227

Жыл бұрын

We, the people who live in cities, need confidence......and we can have confidence.......it's just that.....we lived too much in the city......and we are not strong enough......yet.......for this planet. But we can be strong enough

@forevermoa.

Жыл бұрын

did she get plastic surgery on her face or is she that naturally gorgeous?

@jacobsmith2157

Жыл бұрын

@@forevermoa.does it matter

THIS QUEEN NEEDS TO START A PRODCAST

@kaylahmatano1749

Жыл бұрын

She really does !! praying she does at some point hah

@elchiponr1

Жыл бұрын

What's a prodcast?

@elchiponr1

Жыл бұрын

@@mo777- yeah its not a prodcast lol

@KeyMariee_

Жыл бұрын

YES

@dove3853

Жыл бұрын

Remember that the Lord Jesus Christ died on a cross for you because He loves you so much. He then rose up from the dead three days later. The Ten Commandments are called the moral law, (most of us are lying, thieving, blasphemous and adulterer at heart) you and I broke the law Jesus paid the fine that’s what happened on that cross. By believing that Jesus died on the cross and rose up from the dead 3 days later and not just confessing your sin, but also repenting of all sin you have done and putting all your trust in Him in prayer, He will grant you everlasting life as a free gift.

you know i never had a friend or somone to tell how i feel or what to do. With you know i can walk confident knowing no one will lower my bounderies. Thank you so much liz❤

You have definitely changed my mentality and I thank you very much Liz, you have opened my eyes to things that I did not want to see "red flags" and I have watched your videos and now I have become more confident in myself 💗

"confident people are silent becuz their confidence radiates..." So true🤐

@bbelucie3949

3 ай бұрын

mengatasi

Liz is the first “self-help” influencer that has ever actually moved me. I genuinely believe what she is saying. She is so straight to the point and sharp that I listen to whatever she says. Thank you Liz xxx

@corrosivecub

Жыл бұрын

facts i feel like she could start a cult and i’d happily march my way to it😂

@florencee3324

Жыл бұрын

Yes I started to feel insecure and searched for Liz’s video to help get me out of it and I feel SO much better!

@aesinar

Жыл бұрын

@@florencee3324me too! shes a life saver

@yassy9938

Жыл бұрын

Me too she’s amazing ❤

@secretgossipxoxo6259

10 ай бұрын

Yes get Botox now😂

as a girl who was bullied during half of her life I feel very identified with you, the way you express your traumas and how you go through them day by day really identified me, thank you so much for sharing this content and inspiring people like me to be the best version of themselves :3

U motivated my daughter to stay true to her self. She listens to u and we talk about u and everything u have to say! She is so inspired of your thoughts and everything u experienced. U understand that me as a mother should teach her that, but sometimes u just need other people to say what u thinking or the kids wouldn’t listen…. But after this, and your open dialogue made me talk to my daughter and she talked to me and really opened up❤

1. set small daily goals and accomplish them 2. make friends that u can be like 3. take care of your physical appearance 4. stop attaching yourself to everyone and everything 5. realise that it’s okay to outgrow people and situations 6. confidence is silent 7. realise that most people are really just interested in their own life 8. learn about body language 9. start conversations with random people 10. start having boundaries and be firm about them 11. do not laugh at jokes at your own expense 12. in order to be valuable to others we need to value ourselves first 13. spend time with yourself, journal, get to know yourself 14. start acting like you are already confident 15. praise yourself everytime you look into the mirror 16. treat yourself as you would treat someone you love 17. be so proud of yourself!! 18. start now with what you have

@udontknowmyname8714

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@bellaelzoeme4318

Жыл бұрын

@@udontknowmyname8714 you are welcome 💓

@anestysp9044

Жыл бұрын

it"s literally helpful

@bellaelzoeme4318

Жыл бұрын

@@anestysp9044 happy to hear that!

@priyankanagdeve9783

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so so so much!❤

i respect this woman SO MUCH. honestly, Liz gives off caring mother vibes 🫂

@user-ok1xq5qm9t

Жыл бұрын

if u need mother vibes in ur life, u surely unconfident person.

@amiradenby9482

Жыл бұрын

@@user-ok1xq5qm9t can you be quiet

@user-ok1xq5qm9t

Жыл бұрын

@@amiradenby9482 i like to tell harsh truth

@shen9794

Жыл бұрын

@@user-ok1xq5qm9t you’re unconfident if you feel motherly vibes from someone??where’s the logic in that?

@user-ok1xq5qm9t

Жыл бұрын

@@shen9794 because if your confident indepedent human being you dont need mother caring.

As a person with disability... Liz is the elder and mentor i never had... and she is the reason on why i learned to love myself

I'm so glad I found you a couple hours ago! There are so many people dealing with post traumatic stress disorder... unfortunately...so am I. And to see that you are so strong empowers and motivates me so much Thank you for your work❤

This woman deserves a big "Thank You" from me. 5 yrs ago, I farted in front of my friends and they'll bring it up every single time they see me to embarrass me but a few days ago, after watching her video, I was like, why is it even embarrassing? I'm not the only person in this earth who farts, so today morning, these people brought it again and I had to reply, "you guys hold your toxicants in your body?" and I've never ever in my life felt this level of confidence.

@succubusl0v3r

Жыл бұрын

I don't think you should call them your "friends".

@handsomebeomgyu6458

Жыл бұрын

that is so low from their side to make it a laughter. everyone farts. it is a sign of normal body and organism

@d41sy

Жыл бұрын

that's so embarrassing on *their* behalf. image holding something so irreverent over a supposed "friend". ditch them or establish boundaries, even if you end up losing them in the process. better them than yourself.

@nelcyveronica5861

Жыл бұрын

Did they said it every time during 5 years? 😮 those guys need to get a life asap

@rithikaveeresh2903

Жыл бұрын

so happy for you

For myself 12:32 don’t be embarrassed 15:45 talk to people 16:30 don’t please 17:50 know your worth 18:38 bullying 21:28 put yourself first 23:37 pretend ;) 24:20 compliment yourself

@tikdoe7563

Жыл бұрын

Might come back to this later

@ntalt3953

Жыл бұрын

Coming back to this

Scared of first day of school so listening to this cause going to new school and I need to be better n have a new mindset.

With the title I thought it was a funny video and that's why I clicked on it but when I got to know it was literally about confidence, I did not go for the back button cause I started to enjoy what you were saying. I'm already confident but some things like 'setting boundaries' and the stuff when people think you can do everything for them and put them first really hitted me hard. When you soo seriously said 'to put yourself first', 'to say NO to people when you feel it', it really putted a smile on my face. God must have thought I need to see this and that's why he must have made me click on it. One new and interesting thing I learnt from you is to praise yourself in front if the mirror. I liked that a lot, it's new to me. Whenever I think of it, a smile spreads to my lips😊 Now I'm going to try for myself and love myself and maybe it'll boost my confidence to a higher level than before. I know the comment doesn't matter to you, being good or bad, but I just wanted to write it (for myself). Thank You!

~Set daily goals; learn to trust yourself ~Make friends you want to be like; helps you get confident like a mentor ~Take care of your physical appearance; value the way you present yourself, if you don’t like something fix it! ~Stop being to desperate;always be realistic with the way people are(learn it’s okay that peoplethings leave new and better will come ~It’s okay to outgrow people; learn that things can change and that’s normal value your happiness ~Confidence is not loud; it’s about what your aura projects not your words ~Don’t be embarrassed; who are you embarrassed of? Your not the main character of their life ~Body language; shoulders back, chest out good, posture, use hand gestures (helps with trust), open body language! ~Go up to people and talk to them ~Do not except disrespect; set boundaries, don’t let people use you, it’s okay to say no you don’t need a reason ~Show that you value your time so people respect you and are their best version with you ~Do not laugh at your expensive; don’t let anyone disrespect you, don’t take a joke it’s going to turn into what they mean ~Ask people to explain the joke; don’t ever let people disrespect you. ~Be selfish; put yourself first, what is bet for you? ~Know who you are; if you know yourself no one else can tell you who you are( know what you don’t like how you want to be treated start spending time with you self journal) ~Act like your confident; no one will know ~Give yourself compliments; don’t expect them from others ~Start with what you have; your improving a blank canvas create your best self

@juliette3170

Жыл бұрын

thank you

@lethalmatcha

Жыл бұрын

thank you sista

@thunder_bird1

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Lan-wu4iv

Жыл бұрын

This really help 💗🥺

@viktoriia.kravchuk

Жыл бұрын

thank you so much 💘 a lot of great thoughts and advice in one video 🫠🙌🏼

One thing I notice about traumatized children (which I am one) is that they all want to be the most loving parent for their kids, and it's so warming and heartbreaking at the same time.

@00carloseduardo

Жыл бұрын

For real

@danielius1306

Жыл бұрын

What’s sad tho is that big portion of those traumatized people tell themselves that they won’t be like that, but then end up being like that

Liz your videos poped up at the right time I needed the most. You have a beautiful mind, you remind me so much of myself and my mother. Thank you for your videos ! God bless you !

This is real honest therapy. Better then Better Help. Love this not just sitting in a chair and my therapist is so damn quiet. Words in action are my inpiration. Thanks.

6 minutes in and she has spoken STRAIGHT facts. I’m 26 now and I knew this naturally at 16-18. If you tell yourself “for a month I will hit the gym straight no matter what” and you actually hold yourself accountable even when times are tough, you can’t help but feel proud of yourself. Unfortunately, from ages 22-25 I started behaving like a complete bitch because I wasn’t trusting myself due to me not following up with my promises. If we as human beings hit the gym, eat clean, and focus on making money consistently no matter what, we will all be extremely confident.

@Notme811_you

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I feel like I knew this naturally till age 13.

@mrhamzariaz

Жыл бұрын

@@Notme811_you What do you think made you lose what you knew naturally?

@aestheticallypleasingaesth8941

Жыл бұрын

Most of the things you describe makes you confident are external, which are good, but I hope that confidence comes from within and truly a reflection of your love for yourself.

@jreamscape

Жыл бұрын

@@aestheticallypleasingaesth8941 no it makes you confident internally because you trust yourself to follow through and you create an identity you agree with

@JesusGodHolySpirit3

Жыл бұрын

Liz's confidence is based 100% on her looks and for being 26 years old when she is 23 years old is not a healthy situation here. Let's see a liz that has confidence without fillers, botox, lip injections, skin routine and just a plain Betty. Liz worth is $0.5 million selling you lies and fairy tales! Confidence is manners to yourself, not pleasing others! when you turn 35 years old let's have a discussion about this individual and be honest. Liz is a fraud.

I copied this and this is just to remember! ~Set daily goals; learn to trust yourself ~Make friends you want to be like; helps you get confident like a mentor ~Take care of your physical appearance; value the way you present yourself, if you don’t like something fix it! ~Stop being to desperate;always be realistic with the way people are(learn it’s okay that peoplethings leave new and better will come ~It’s okay to outgrow people; learn that things can change and that’s normal value your happiness ~Confidence is not loud; it’s about what your aura projects not your words ~Don’t be embarrassed; who are you embarrassed of? Your not the main character of their life ~Body language; shoulders back, chest out good, posture, use hand gestures (helps with trust), open body language! ~Go up to people and talk to them ~Do not except disrespect; set boundaries, don’t let people use you, it’s okay to say no you don’t need a reason ~Show that you value your time so people respect you and are their best version with you ~Do not laugh at your expensive; don’t let anyone disrespect you, don’t take a joke it’s going to turn into what they mean ~Ask people to explain the joke; don’t ever let people disrespect you. ~Be selfish; put yourself first, what is bet for you? ~Know who you are; if you know yourself no one else can tell you who you are( know what you don’t like how you want to be treated start spending time with you self journal) ~Act like your confident; no one will know ~Give yourself compliments; don’t expect them from others ~Start with what you have; your improving a blank canvas create your best self

@xxire7

Жыл бұрын

How do you want to take it?

@anandkeshri4382

Жыл бұрын

@@xxire7 Wdym?

@xxire7

Жыл бұрын

@@anandkeshri4382 I want a copy

@nittynotkitty

Жыл бұрын

​@@xxire7 take a screenshot and copy text from lens

@iamqueennickyminajslay9607

10 ай бұрын

thank u smm !!

this is so important video for being better version of your self. i watched this like half a year ago and again today... idk what id be without this

When you said at the beginning that you want to be the cycle breaker... wow you have my utmost respect. As a child of someone with PTSD it is everything. Love you.

Liz we need that self care, skin care, diet, or maybe even a daily day in your life!❤️ Go girl💅

@luxtravel4970

2 жыл бұрын

Yessss

@Sunshine-du4zl

2 жыл бұрын

yess

@anabillaviv9178

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss

@ssseli8164

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss skincare please

@princesslacson6291

2 жыл бұрын

We need that glow Liz.

why is making confident friends soooo hard!??! I'm tired of always being the most positive, confident & energetic person, I need someone to share this energy with to multiply it but everyone is soooo insecure 😩 Watching this video felt like I was finally having the conversation with a friend that ive always wanted. Someone smart , uplifting & aware! Thank you for being here & sharing your energy with us, it goes a long way 💗

@ailynmarin4930

Жыл бұрын

This is so truee

@Sydney-jt5bu

Жыл бұрын

Same, I’m surrounded by a lot insecure ppl who like to self project

@shahdshabrawy46

Жыл бұрын

I will tell you something actually you attract just people who are same to you and you will not be able to see how are you acting in the real way you act until you see yourself talking and all of that so i advice u to recored videos even you are the only one who gonna see and then you will know the breaking points in your mentality and then when you fix it and become best version of your self every amazing one will seriously want to be around you exactly like how all of us want to be around that amazing girl in the video

@geetika6540

Жыл бұрын

Literally, I love my friends but they can be so draining sometimes

@teodoraborisova6915

Жыл бұрын

Yesssss honestly ima work on myself on hope that i manifest confident friends

I am so glad this showed up on my feed. Like literally your words are so powerful!!! It's been a year since you posted this but I hope you're doing a better job at dealing with your trauma :)) YOU LIT ME UP INSIDE LIKE THE 4TH OF JULYYY

I've learnt so many things from this video and not only from this video. You make our lives better❤ thank you Liz

Every time I fall back into my depressive episodes I go watch her literally

@halass28

Жыл бұрын

Samee I really love her

@user-br1sn4yy3l

Жыл бұрын

she can pull all the depression out 💋

@lazygirl9773

Жыл бұрын

Same. It's my third time watching this because right now, I feel like I'm going back to my old self who's insecure about everything, have too much social anxiety and thinks too much about other people's opinion.

@daeith1233

Жыл бұрын

Same

@rachel-tz4ld

Жыл бұрын

REAL

She's like the older sister I never had. Thanks Liz. You're amazing ❣️

Dear Liz, I started watching all your videos from the beginning and I am keeping notes, I am trying to become the best version of me and you are really helping me. I wish I had more people in my life like you! Thank you for all your effort in creating this content❤️😊

I could watch this lady's videos forever. Love you Liz, thanks for being the wise older sister that i never had and the best mentor❤❤❤

i can feel her confidence through the screen, honest and straight forward advice. Thank you Liz

I just got up and styled my hair, did some light makeup, Straightened my back, and now I'm planning to finish all of my homework and other things that I've been putting back for a while, just after watching this video and the "create a new version of yourself" video , the amount of motivation and inspiration liz gives me.. It's unbelievable. Thank you liz, truly 💕

@kamranhaider8894

Жыл бұрын

Proud of u

@sedra8088

Жыл бұрын

Love you girl

@dxamienn_edits

Жыл бұрын

I’m living for this energy rn.

@nidhikhare7757

Жыл бұрын

Slayyy girl slayyy

@claauudiiac

Жыл бұрын

soo proud of you sister❤❤

Lizzz I seriously just wanted to thank you for making me realize such a simple but important thing. Self respect. Like Ive been through some things these past few years in which allowed me to love myself more, gain confidence, think in a more positive way and raise my vibration. I've seen the changes in my life and I'm grateful for it. But this year, I realized that that was not the end of the journey, it'll never be. I felt that deep inside here was still a part of me that lacked confidence and eventually it led me to this downfall. But Then I found you. You're giving me the power to step back up in confidence, I'm still working everyday but I know that ill achieve it. In this video, you said that we should never let anyone joke about us from the start and you're right. I have a friend that when we first met started joking about me, and actually it was funny, I laughed too. But eventually I started realizing that its too much, it became like a daily routine to the point that it was a little irritating. Like how much did I not respect myself to let that friend say these jokes and make it become like a every second thing just because I didnt want to ruin the friendship. Like yes I shouldn't care about other peoples comments but you made me realize that I should step up for myself, even if its something that's not a big deal. if it goes over my boundaries then I should respect myself. Thank yiouuuu Lizzz, you truly helped my a lot with confidence. I wish the best for you!!

When I don't know you, I look at the mirror and think that I am so ugly even when my friends post a picture of them I comment there" slayyy/ u r so prettier than me" but when I know you I became so confident I start to care about myself, love myself and everyone start to call me selfish, when anyone call me "u r so ugly" I replied "Not like u, I love myself that is enough ". Thank you Liz you are a QUEEN ❤❤❤❤❤🥀

i didn't realize how much this vid changed me until i watched it again after months. 1. i started setting daily goals and i was so determined to accomplish them. now it's been 2 months of me exercising bcz of that and it's my first time being this consistent 2. i did not "ditch my friends" bcz they weren't even friends to me, they weren't the ones for me and they were exactly like you said, instead i made new (real) friends and met people with a goal and purpose in life. it really affected me positively! 3. i started intensely taking care of my skin (suitable products & healthy diet) , body (exercising & moving more) and hair (treatment) alongside with my mental health and 6 months ago me wouldn't have believed it. 4. im also working on confidence and healing together, i do the positive slef talk and it never failed me, i got closer with god, closer to my soul, i meditated, i prayed, i searched for ways and signs and i GOT them, im way more chill than i was like about a month ago, and i still crave for the best 5. "humble, but aware of your worth" OMG little did i understand what this actually meant first time i heard it from u liz! but it's ok bcz i get it now. i used to be jealous of so many people, thought that no one liked me so i kept trying to please them and pretended that im someone who isn't me and the result? fake friends and a lost self, im grateful i started to get connected with my real self before it went too far. 6. i started setting clear boundaries and i showed them to people, the respect they built for me ever since was 👌 7. i started trying to know the real me through every way i can reach, i ceased watching shows just for fun and started reading books and watching things that can get me closer to myself, and i can say that i built an unbreakable respect and bond with me. and im so happy with it. 9. the self praising might look dumb air cringe for some people but i think it's a cute way to accept/love how you look (tmi: is sometimes blush when i compliment myself) and it makes me smile more through the day so why not?🤨completely harmless & kinda helpful! phew, that was the longest comment i wrote in my life, but i just wanted to show u how i take your words to heart and it really got me somewhere i wished i'd be in. if you're going to read this or not, im always grateful for you & you'll always be in my "things im grateful for" list

@heyzero1414

11 ай бұрын

you seem like you've made much progress

@Hj-rs9xr

8 ай бұрын

Alongside with-> alongside

@hrtzyuri.

7 ай бұрын

Im so proud of you, keep going ❤

@franceskajashari3713

6 ай бұрын

I am so so happy for you keep going queen!❤🎉

@nishita5643

6 ай бұрын

Sooo soo proud of you , Keep going , You gonna rock it

Liz, I just wanna say one thing I find your videos the most comforting out of other youtubers and that's because you seem like you actually say everything from the heart and you don't sugar coat things, you seem like an older sister to me and I am grateful for that. Thank you so much

@rubyjendek1961

2 жыл бұрын

yeeees! she is so sincere ☁️🤍

“trauma doesn’t go away THAT easily!” this spoke volumes. I was shunned for 3 years straight by ex-friends who i thought were my genuine friends. they called me too tan, too skinny etc. and i thought it was completely normal. 2 years after cutting them off i’m still working on it. thanks liz ❤️

Her message is the perfect elaboration of what BTS has taught me . Respect and love to her and to BTS 💜💜💜💜

I loved everything she does, the way she talks, the way she moves her hands and her personality and her special presence. I can watch her all day and never get tired

@anessade

Жыл бұрын

same for me

@lilsoso8103

Жыл бұрын

that's confidence baby

@FiNN--

Жыл бұрын

@@lilsoso8103 confidence? She has beauty surgery's -> that is the opposite of confidence. If you are confident you dont need surgery so change your appearance :)

@anessade

Жыл бұрын

@@FiNN-- She, a self-confident person, accepts and loves her body, but she knows that she is not perfect, and she can have plastic surgery if she wants because she knows that this will not define her value as a person, she will continue to love herself no matter what.💗

@larissa-wc4kk

Жыл бұрын

@@FiNN-- Omg, I could have a million surgeries and still talk about confidence, after all that's how she said, "If you're not satisfied with something, change it."

she really inspires me to take more pride in myself, and to change how i percieve myself and how i project myself to others. thank you liz

@Madawi08

Жыл бұрын

love ur skins pfp🤭

The part that left me amazed is when she talked about her date and how she refused to get in the car if she wasn't opened the door ♥️ had to pause for a few seconds to reflect on that, literally amazing

She is the reason why I am finally seeing a therapist just to talk, and she’s improved my life 15 fold since I started watching her. Thank you so much Liz

Wow, this vid is so powerful, i'm 19 still dealing with "social anxiety", lack of self confidence etc etc.. and it helps so much, like a few years ago i was the most insecure guy and i've been making improvements little by little and i'm doing so much stuff that i couldn't before, just by daring to do little things that are awkward to you and progressively increasing the difficulty you'll be way more confident, and god i still have a long way to go.

@skxii6662

Жыл бұрын

GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE BABY! whenever its wearing two different pairs of shoes in public, talking to random strangers or listening to music in your headphones loudly. DO IT. Its gonna get more comfortable EVERY TIME. its called exposure therapy. The best for combating social anxiety ❤️

@qzerzae4032

Жыл бұрын

@@skxii6662 ty

@kiito4044

Жыл бұрын

same! I'm 19 too and younger me would kinda be disappointed that I'm still dealing with the same issues but I have to remind myself that life doesn't end at 19..it sort of feels like it just started :)

@emmastone8779

Жыл бұрын

@@kiito4044 same here!! I was literally reading my younger self’s notes, and it was saying how omg in a week I turn 16 and I’ve done nothing with my life. Being 19 reading that now I’m like 😂😂 girl, you don’t even know the half of it.

@qzerzae4032

Жыл бұрын

That's true, those 3 things play a lot in this type of issues

i literally cried 14 mins into the video, I wish i had a figure like you growing up to tell me i am worth it, to make me believe i am worth it. Thank you for helping others out there!

@metanoia0705

Жыл бұрын

this

@carmenbae5876

Жыл бұрын

believe me, you're worth it❤️

@Meryem-xc8og

Жыл бұрын

tell yourself that!!!

@mmarmerc

Жыл бұрын

You’re always worth it❤

@arcqne76

Жыл бұрын

gurrlll self validation goes a long way, just ;ike she said in the vid you don't need nobody, you got yourself!

When your vibration is high you will attract ppl that are positive-so the contrast of separation is a low vibration.-you still have a lot more to accomplish way more way bigger-change your mindset-it is not about cutting anyone off- ppl have their own reality to create- so it is not about others-your at a level to be getting more endorsements from major corps & offers than you even have interest in- commercials...acting roles...etc etc- Stay humble - Just relax and be beautiful

Thank you Liz. In half an hour you made me realize how much my "friends" are dragging me down. Guess gotta find someone new

I've been dealing with so much bad energy and low confidence recently to the point that I can not go to my classes at University without a mask. I constantly had to hide myself. I'm in class right now without any mask or even makeup! Idk how she did it but she made me so much more confident. I know it might not be ground breaking but it's a big move for me. Thank you so much! Your channel is the best thing that has happened to me in a very long time ❤️❤️

@winterbear729

Жыл бұрын

So proud of you 😚

@MinMin-kq2zn

Жыл бұрын

@@winterbear729 ❤️❤️❤️

@WitchesForNature

Жыл бұрын

You’re doing amazing! Very very proud of you! I hope I can also be like this

@MinMin-kq2zn

Жыл бұрын

@@WitchesForNature I'm sure you'll do great!❤️❤️❤️

@zainebhidoussi1498

Жыл бұрын

you did this yourself you're that amazing

your videos make me wanna get up, get outside and do something with my life. and that's a big compliment coming from someone who deals with anxiety + depression 😂

@anessade

Жыл бұрын

do it, you can do it, you know that💗.

Hello! I’m glad I stumbled upon your video. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Your opinions and self-confidence is admirable and how you speak with conviction is amazing. Your beliefs and experience and how you view things seems like a perspective completely unalike with the myself I grew up as, however, on this path for self-love I am developing the esteem I may have lost a long time ago. Your viewpoints, although seemingly unfamiliar to those of mine, mirror how I feel as well. You have simultaneously opened my perspective to not only change my limiting beliefs but agree with your opinions entirely. You have reminded me to commend the respect for myself I deserve. Thank you. I am grateful for that.

Me alejé de mi grupo de amigos porque, para ellos, divertirse era definición de tomar alcohol, salir solamente de fiesta; además de enfocarse en otras vidas, criticar bajo del agua y tomar la universidad como si fuera la secundaria. Y entendí que yo merezco rodearme de personas similares y hasta superiores a mi en los sentidos académicos y personales y antes pensaba que éste pensamiento era egoísta, pero ahora entiendo que los lugares en donde estoy definen el tipo de persona que soy, de manera inconsciente. Con mi nuevo grupo de amigos, que son mucho menos de los que tenía, me siento distinta, confiada, centrada en lo que quiero, porque compartimos metas altisimas. Gracias a este video. 💟

1° Set small daily goals and accomplisht them 2° Make friends you want to be like/get mentor 3° Take care of your physical appearance 4° Time means nothing if the situation is not brining you happiness anymore 5° Learn about body language 6° Start conversation with random people 7° Do not laugh at jokes at your own expense 8° In order to be valuable to others we need to value ourselves first 9° Spend time with yourself, journal, get know yourself 10° Start acting like you are already confident 11° Praise yourself everytime you look into the mirror

@rama-uh2gl

Жыл бұрын

Tysm❤️

@cules_hub7996

Жыл бұрын

​@Naes Galaxy i agree. I disagree with the way she presents to be confident. There is a fine line of being arrogant and confident and in some cases such as the one with the guy not opening the door is wrong. As well as when she doesn't do anything that doesn't benefit you. If you dont sacrifice for others without getting benefited some times then fck it

Rewatching her videos is so healing 🧘🏼‍♀️

Liz... I have no words left after watching this. I watched ur video 6 months ago n i can't believe myself on how much changes ur advice brought in my life. I have grown alot n became more confident n a beautiful person. Taking ur advice really help me grow myself everyday. love u darling n ur video is so helpful!!!!

Keep these motivation video’s coming!! I love learning all these new self improvement tips. ❤

y'all...kindness is also important, don't treat people like shit

These sessions are like personal therapy for me. I feel as if you're directly talking to me. Thank you so much Liz! May Allah bless you lots and lots for the good that you do.

@seclow203

2 жыл бұрын

is she from the middle east?

@salimatakere1180

2 жыл бұрын

@@seclow203 i think so she looks arab

@martianxmanhunter

Жыл бұрын

May allah bless you with whatever you’re trying to manifest and improve upon your life mashallah

@amelaam13

Жыл бұрын

Can we be friends ?

@LaUraStar1993

Жыл бұрын

@@seclow203 I think shes from Chechnya

I just want to remember these lines. "You have to be humble. Right? but aware of your worth." "everybody is so busy and engraved in their own lives. Nobody really cares about you. You're not that important. SO, what is embarrassment at the end of the day?"

It just so sweet to see that so many people really wants to improve not because someone tell them to but for themselves Keep fighting y’all

🤯WOW! Liz,This is your best talk yet. You have really opened my eyes to how much I need to reaffirm my boundaries. For the past 33 years of my life I have been playing the role of the "nice girl" and it has NEVER benefitted me. Time to be selfish.😎 Thank you young lady 💕

@ennvee1989

2 жыл бұрын

You kinda remind me of "nurberxo" 💕

This video wake me up to reality, i grew up being a doormat, so i was used being a doormat even in my jobs, this video helped me gather the courage to stand up and stop putting myself in situations that are uncomfortable to me just to please others

Thank you, Liz! You help me so much! That's the content everyone needs !!!❤

Im only 10 minutes in and I already admire this, I genuinely love your advice and mindset. It gives me the motivation to become a better person, thank you so much in behalf of everyone. You’re doing a wonderful thing Liz. I hope you heal from everything and you become more and more happy :)

I am a psychologist and you are still able to motivate me harder. Very good job Liz, keep going ❤❤❤

Thank you so much for your videos! I just found your channel a month ago, at a time that I really needed to hear these things. I’m looking forward to hearing about your healing process, thanks again Liz

this woman is preventing us from being people pleasers ✨✨✨

this woman saves me every single time im at low point. whenever i make a decision, her videos pop up in my feed, and affirm them, even though they are scary. you are a hero liz.

Thank you Liz! Because of you I gave up smoking forever! And you changed my life

I literally try to listen this video every day, Liz, you have helped me so much, thank you.

Though I've been watching you for a long time But something happened with me which completely devastated me and I became so insecure about myself , I started hating myself. It's very tough to be the eldest daughter in an Asian family that too Indian. But thanks to you Liz, you lifted me back from that dark hole. I love you so much thank you so much. You are literally the big sister I always needed. Thank you so much and I really love you so much ❤

I never Imagine myself watching all this 28Minute because I'm kind of person who like to read more than listening to someone. Happy that I watched all this and listen to every single word you said. thank you Liz you are the best many opinion have changed 👏🏻 im a new follower from Saudi Arabia. thanks a lot 💓

@Dojeop

Жыл бұрын

Same

@xkay-san

Жыл бұрын

to

@goldenmind5760

Жыл бұрын

وين ترجمه

@zoe.__.9875

Жыл бұрын

@@goldenmind5760 مدري هههه

Love that you mentioned meditating, journaling, and reading. These are universal things that over time are guaranteed to help you out but most people don’t do them.

She's the living sister/mother that I dream of. Thank you so much. ❤️❤️❤️

Liz... I must thank you for being so strong and helpfull to people and I just can't stop to watching your videos... I have a lot of trauma like you and I couldn't find any way to figure it out but when I watch your videos and hear your voices I'm like " Wow! That's the answer!" I love you!

@Barren98

5 ай бұрын

You didn't trust your confidence 😮 0:04

8:21 I can relate to this so much. I used to be desperate for a parter, for a lover, for someone to take care of me. I know this is a normal human desire but this shouldn't be the center of anyone's life. Now I'm learning how to love myself first before I can spread this love to another human being and that's amazing. I'm happy to be coming out of this phase. This video is gold and I'm so glad I've found your channel!! New subscriber earned for sure.

"People have the right to leave because it's their life" - hits different

You’re an angel in disguise and I hope you continue with your videos. Have been real helpful with the stuff I got going on. You’re a stunning creature btw. I would listen to you all day!

I appreciate how real you get telling us about yourself🙌🙌🙌we are not perfect. We are constantly growing and trying lime you said❤❤❤❤thank you. Your videos are helping me a lot!

@Barren98

5 ай бұрын

For how long have you being looking for this kind of an advice 0:04

I really really needed this video. Thank God it appeared on my homepage. It also made me tear up because no one has ever spoken such positive words to me. I wish I had someone to hype me up, and guess what? I'm going to be that someone for myself! I promise this to myself. Thank you, Liz. You've really helped us a lot

@kiito4044

Жыл бұрын

you and me both! happy you realised that for urself bestie ;)

@warmvanillasugar

Жыл бұрын

You go girl!❤

@mariexoxo1282

Жыл бұрын

For real

Person with this level of understanding can't be defeated. Liz is raw and real and honest. I 💯 felt she spoke whatever she has experienced.

Okay so you clicked on this video because you want to be confident. Do you want to walk into any meeting any room with all eyes on you, with people actually listening to you and not pretending like they're hearing what you're saying. Do you want to attract that partner that you desire because your confidence radiates and they cannot do anything but be near you. Do you want to walk into every single room and have all eyes on you? Even if you're just in your pajamas? Because that's the energy,you radiate. Well,honey,keep watching because I will show you in this video how to get confident and before you start to comment:"oh my god it's easy for you to say you're pretty.""It's easy for you to be confident." I was more beautiful when I was younger way more beautiful. I was extremely,like,when I would go out with my mom,people would stop us constantly and be like,you are gorgeous. And I was the most insecure creature on this earth.

i'm just so sorry you went through so much trauma... sending love and happiness!

i love how eager you are to be the cycle breaker and give your future children the love and nurturing you probably didn’t get. you are such an inspiration, literally love your channel.