COMING OUT - PART 2 | Childhood, Family, Present Situation | Atulan's Story
Like we mentioned in PART 1, COMING OUT was always a scary and equally important step in all queer lives.
In today's video Atulan talks about his personal experiences before and after coming out to his family and friends. We planned to make this a two part video, so we can fully describe our experiences from our own individual perspectives.✨🤍
We apologise beforehand for anything that might hurt or offend anyone in the video. This our personal experience, and we in no way disregard anyone else's. We would even love to hear your coming out stories in the comment section below ⬇️
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0:00 Video Snippet
0:05 Honey Imm Home Intro
0:22 Video Intro
1:45 As a child did you know you were different?
2:44 When did you know you were gay?
4:18 How was your college experience being gay?
5:49 Negative experience that you yet remember
7:20 How did your parents get to know about you being gay?
9:50 Present situation
10:50 What should parents do when their child comes out to them?
11:25 What would you tell your parents right now?
13:00 What would you tell young Atulan right now?
14:25 Video outro
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Atulan talking to his younger self made me tear up a little🥺. You guys are so strong and beautiful. Just remember, 'everything is fine in the end. If it's not fine, its not the end.' Love you guys 💗🦋
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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@seema483
2 жыл бұрын
Aah thank you for pinning my comment oh my god😭💖
@moon_light7736
2 жыл бұрын
@@seema483 you deserve That 🇮🇳🏳🌈💖
i usually don’t comment on videos but i just had to, i’m 16 and i’m a straight female and this honestly broke my heart. the fact that you have to be “scared” or “afraid” of something you literally cant control just because of society saddens me so much. i cant imagine going through this, and you guys are so strong (i watched part 1 aswell).knowing that people you love most, your family and friends, not accepting you for who you are is terrifying. i hate that we’re living in a world where this is not normalised and people are still SCARED of being themselves. a world where being different is considered as a “bad” thing. considering how this is considered a taboo in india & in other parts of the world, i’m so glad this channel exists to bring awareness and let people know they’re not alone, because sometimes all you need is somebody to accept you & be there for you. i’m so glad both of y’all are in better places right now and you were strong enough to share your story. you’re accepted, loved and validated and you matter and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. for anyone in the closet, i hope you come out on your terms and are treated the way you deserve to be treated, just like the rest of us. i love y’all and thank you for this:) loud and proud always. for anyone in the closet, im fucking proud of you and i love you and know you’re going to be just okay although it doesn’t seem like it rn, bcs there’s always light at the end of the tunnel. much love:) please reach out anytime, this is a safe place:)
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
Thank youuu! #grateful for allies like you!
@theJesai
Жыл бұрын
thank you so, so much. I’m in tears reading this. You’re too kind :’) it feels like no one would ever understand- you’re amazing for seeing that some people are just different, even though you may not be that way. Thank you
I started crying when Atulan shared about his parents knowing about his sexuality and the present situation. But the falling of the flag immediately soon after I couldn't stop laughing. I was like, seriously!! Hugs to you both. Be proud of yourself. Love to both of you. I have friends who are gay. And they are amazing ❤️❤️
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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I wish more parents see this, specially whose kids are queer and they don't wanna accept this ..I really wish them to understand that this is not choice (as my mother thinks) and there is no shame. I don't get why people have associated shame with same gender love. To atulan's parents! Uncle aunty, your kid is doing great work. This KZread channel must have given hopes to others that they will be accepted by society. Be proud of him ❤️ we're already so proud ❤️🏳️🌈
i'm a 17 year old non-binary queer person living in india and so i could relate to you both so much and for some reason watching you guys where you are right now, happy with everything you have makes me feel at peace because it gives me hope that even though things are hard, it will get better at some point so thank you so much for talking about your experiences, im sure it must have been and im so grateful that you still did it
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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Guys, you brought me to tears. It's very emotional. I know how hard it must've been for you to show such courage to come out and share it with the whole world. To Atulan's parents: Uncle, Aunty, we can understand how you must be feeling about him coming out and telling you that he is completely different from what you think he was. Also, you might be afraid of what people will say. You may be thinking that 'is it normal?' 'is he sick?' etc. It's okay for you to think that way. Atulan took nearly 25 years to understand himself. So you might need some more time to explore this topic and that's okay. Remember only one thing: Atulan is the same son of yours who has brought you all those little joyous moments, whose naughtiness you adored, who grew up so fast and you may think now is on a 'different' path. Whatever happens doesn't change this reality that he is your loving son and as far as I may say, a very nice human. So, don't stop loving him, cause simply you can't not love him. And about the LGBT topic, here I've found a group of parents of LGBT young people. You can have conversations with them on this topic and share your concerns. Sweekar Group: facebook.com/SweekarTheRainbowParents/ Also, you can talk to a counselor specializing in LGBT topics to get to know the community better. Again, I request you please please please try at least once to understand it, for Atulan at least. And sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable or if I've been rude. Can you pardon me?
Hey Atulan, if your parents need someone of their age to talk to (particularly your mum), I can ask my mum to talk to her or even my fiance's mum. My mum has talked to other fellow gay parents before and helped them understand their gay kids. They are both in Delhi. I hope it gets better and better for you. 💛🏳️🌈✨
@deepabhi1233
2 жыл бұрын
This talk can really be helpful, I've watched the Hulu series "Love Victor" and there also when the parents find out that their son is queer, one of the parent decided to attend a meeting where other parents with queer child discuss their journey and how did they managed to help themselves as well as their child throughout the whole coming out journey.
@abhinandangoyal1736
2 жыл бұрын
Good bro Hats off to you for taking an initiative for making parents aware
@pre_instar
2 жыл бұрын
@@deepabhi1233 I loved 'Love Victor'- and the meeting is called a PFLAG
it makes me so happy when you guys post.... hope you have a great future ahead.... thanks for making us happy
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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@sar983
2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome 👍😇
I almost cried listening to the message he gave to himself 'young Atulan'🥺.you too are too beautiful. 💫
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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@fahadqaisar9734
2 жыл бұрын
Where you live in dubai location i live in dubai
Oo!! I didn't know that Atulan is Bengali. Atulan aamio Bengali 🥳. And yes, Bengali families are very strict regarding education. Tomra dujonei bhaalo theko, aamar shubheccha 😊🙏🏻❤
It was interesting to hear Atulan unfolding the various phases of his coming out story with so much confidence and boldness. I guess you must be experiencing lot of peace now and Divesh being a moral support to you. ❤️
It makes me so happy to know instead of all this, you’re one of happiest people on Internet who even GIVE smiles, love you & keep posting pls🥺
Such sweethearts y'all are🥺 thankyou so much, both of you, for opening up about such a private aspect about your life. It takes a shit ton of courage to do that and I'm SO proud of you for that ❤️❤️ both videos were so beautiful in their own ways and I can't appreciate y'all enough Lots of love and even more power to you🤗
Those words in the end I really needed that today!! Love you people
When I watch ur videos it's like I have to be strong u both inspire me a lot literally m in a phase of life where I m not comfortable to talk to anyone even can't explain my feelings to anyone it's like there is no one who can understand me but literally u guys made my day thanks a lot and keep it up guys ur bond is just so beautiful ✨😍
'life is not that bad' I hope I'm able to say that too someday
Atulan you are so brave. It's not easy but keep going, we'll all be there with you always! You really inspired me. Love you guys!💗🌈
I don't know how but whenever I watch you guys my face automatically lights up with a huge smile. You both give me such positive vibes that I cannot explain, I just wish that someday I can meet you guys. The kind of love you both have for each other is something missing in our generation. I wish that you both stick by each others side through thick and thin and always keep us contented with your videos. Loads and loads of love to you both.
Aaaaa my brave boys are here to unfold their beautiful stories again 🥺💌
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺THAT'S SO SWEET OF YOU!
@marwaasad1889
2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome you're the honeys so I'd say you're sweeter :)
Thank u for making this video... It is really helpful for people, in various points of life, who r struggling to come out.
Kinda happy that atulan didn't have to face everything, bless his brother for being supportive and nice
This is so inspiring! Really proud of you, Atulan. So happy to know about your college experience :)
My sweet honeys are back ❤️🥺 Wish I could jump inside the screen and give you guys A MASSIVE HUG ❤️ Sending you so much love ❤️
i hope you both achieve great heights in future and everything gets sorted out with your family , atulan . in the end , love wins. lots of love to you both. it's a ship for me!!!!
I think you are handling your parents well. Giving them time and giving them space to figure it out (not pushing the agenda) is a good approach. My parents took a while and now we are all a big happy family. Time does heal everything and you have a very calm, cool, collected head on your shoulders.
Mine is also same story. I will not going to tell my parents coz I know the situation will get worse. But you are the best couple. Stay blessed...
You guys made me emotional.... more power to you both .... May this bond and love shines for eternity 🤗🤗
Visiting your channel again and again. Together you both are adorable. Completely compliment each other.
Your parents should all be proud for raising such brave, positive, sensitive, sons, who are an inspiration to so many others.
Made me cry 😭😭😭😭 So much love for you, Atulan ❤❤❤
So proud of you guys🌈 also, more power to you Atulan! Just so you know, we love you and we're ALWAYS here for you ❤️
I see a large part of myself in you Atulan! Love n strength to both of you ALWAYS 🤍❤️🤍❤️🤍❤️
Your msg to your younger self is so heartfelt❤️
I'm happy for Both OF You! You both did so well! ❤️🥺
It was so damn tough to watch. I tried not to cry but listening to those harsh experiences made me feel like I'm helpless to see you guys like this. Even talking about such things and your parents reaction to all of that must be so so so so hard. That reel kinda thing starts playing and takes one back to relive those horrifying moments. You guys Hats off! You've been through so much and a lot must be happening now as well given the kind of society we are in. I really wish all your hardships regarding this especially comes to an end pretty soon. We just don't want to see your happy faces but shinning eyes with a happy heart too ☹💜
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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What a wholesome video. Atulan is so self aware and so confident in himself now. Wish you well with your family.
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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Aww, we all srsly need to hear what atulan would've told his younger self, hope his parents keep in touch, keep smiling, we love you 😍💖, and this is hard for you, but tysm for sharing all this with your homies💗
i love you both sooo much, PLEASE STAY STRONG LIKE YOU ARE 🥺💜
Ayeeee our cuties back again with those beautiful little stories about the divinity of this beautiful relationship!!🥺😭♥️ Stay like this forever pls!! U guys are seriously an inspiration!!!
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
🥲🥲🥲🥲💌💌💌💌
@sanchitasaha3268
2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome damn such a pleasure it is to have that reply!😚♥️
Am 32 and Gay. I came out to my parents 6 years ago. It was so hard to see them struggle with understanding the concept essentially. Fortunately, I did not face much awkwardness and the question my father asked was why I had not brought this up earlier and suffered so much all alone. It was such a huge relief to have come out. Now my tight knit circle of family and friends know the truth and it isnt so heavy to deal with anymore. I have never been in any relationship and seeing you guys so much in love with each other really warms me up. More power to you both and wish a lot of great health and happiness!!
@mohammedimran8416
Жыл бұрын
It's a concept and a whole bloody wrong concept.
You guys are inspiration to many. God bless you guys and may you have a happier and beautiful future together. ❤
It was so sweet to hear about how your brother advocates for you. As a sister I would 1000% prefer that my parents take out their shock on me rather than my sister, to protect her heart. Ideally, parents would talk to a therapist and deal with their issues like adults. 🙄 I'm bi and my sister is trans, so this all hit very close to home. Glad that you are out to them and able to not be afraid anymore ❤️
It's always a treat to eyes to watch you both ❤️❤️
Time heals everything & life is not that bad!! 🥺❤️
So Proud of u both. How they are so understanding ? When Atulan said " I do understand that parents need time". It was so positive. I hope one day I get son like you. Love Love Love
I've been going through some shit in my life and the message that atulan gave to his younger self just made me cry. This was beautiful!
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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Just found this video and I absolutely love it 🤩 coming out is not easy no matter what part of the world you live in...thank you for being so brave and sharing this with us... You both are such beautiful people ❤️ lots and lots of love and hugs to you
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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When you were on young atulan part, it really felt like you were talking to me. Thank you so much, I actually really needed that!🥺💗🌈
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Rashii! 🤍🤍
I don't know why but everytime I see you guys together it makes me feel soo soo happy that I can't even express. But if your parents are watching this and reading the comments I want to tell them 'You have raised your kids so well. There are so kind and strong. It's really difficult to come out and speak about yourself and that too when your parents are not behind your back but these champs did not give up on anything life threw at them.' All the love to you guys. ❤️❤️
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
thank you Muskan!
Atulan is being so understanding with his parents…god bless this kiddo and other lovingly tolerant children like him with their journey 😊
Atulan, you talking to your younger self was such a beautiful moment. More power to you both!
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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Atulan is such a sweet person..the way he talks n explains everything is amazing..more ❤️to him..
Thank you for sharing your story with us atulan it means alot to us. God bless you both💙
I love you both so much... And thanks for the mail ID... You're the most positive thing I ended my day with...
I just want to tell you that I am proud of you guys ♥️✨
I am really proud of Atulan. he is so brave and confident . And i am happy that he is leading his life the way he like . I think this video is happy part of my day . NO words to appreciate him.
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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Atulan's story was very inspiring i love his confidence and bravery ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The flag which you are using at the background is not accepted by many LGBTQ people (more than 56% LGBTQ people). It's not that they are racist but they want to keep the originality of 'Pride' and not adulterating it with any other movement. Just shared this piece of information, hope you guys like it and don't get offended in any means 😅😊🏳️🌈❤
You both together are best .I don't commnet I rarely comment but I can't stop myself... You both are really supportive and innocent...your positivity reflects in your way if talking 💓💓... may you shine in this way 🌟🌟 ... plz try to be more active on KZread ☹️
Feels good ur opening up ❤️👍
All power to you both ❤️ it's all gonna be fine 🥺❣️
Love you both. Thanks for this ♥️♥️🥰❤️
Sending you both, lots and lots of love.. ❤ I wish you all the happiness in the world.. and life long togetherness 😇
yesterday I randomly find out one of your videos and I just wanna say that thank you.🌈
The message from Atulan to young Atulan is so touching ❤️
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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@sudarshanadas268
2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome ❤️❤️❤️
The honesty and pain in his eyes🥺, YOU'VE made it Atulan ! Proud of you 🏳️🌈💞
I love you guys!!!!!!!!!!!! You're soo amazing and cute, God bless you. Please make these videos, they are really supportive, ily
u have been through so much still u kept ur face and dealt with it so good even though u may have been feeling low inside we are really happy and glad that u thought of sharing everything i mean u both u r strongest and cutest and wonderful couple love u guys from bottom of my heart and will alwys be there for u
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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much love to you both🌻🌈
Just found your channel...you both are inspiration 💕💫....LOVE YOURSELF 💜🌈
U guys really earned this respect and love from 27K fam♥️. Really inspiring:) just be together always..love you both !
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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I just don't know ....my tears are out of my eyes when Atulan talked to his younger self.... love u guys 💞💞💞
You guys are adorable!! You both give out positive vibes and that tells so much about the way you guys are kind and the cutest. Keep shining, Keep smiling and keep loving each other ❤️
@superbsheetal9813
2 жыл бұрын
Hey
You guys are soo positive 🌈
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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Lots of love to divesh's smilee!!!!!🐼♥️
Both of you guys are amazing.. 👏👏👏your love gives us so much strength ❤❤❤thanks for this video 🙏🙏🙏
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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don't worry time will heal all wounds; we are your familie you are loved !!!! just be happy with your relationship and all other things will fall in place ... big hug from Belgium
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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Honestly, the purity and vulnerability of this entire conversation makes me tear up. I'm so proud of you, Atulan. So proud of everything, anything that you choose to become. ❤️
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
thank youuuu!!!
@atmadeepghosh9528
2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome it's my pleasure ❤️
"Things might seem very difficult right now, you might not understand everything that is happening or will happen to you just trust in yourself, know that the universe is there with you, know that the people that you need in your life will come to you and will guide you to where you have to be so it might be hard to smile and laugh and stay positive in difficult situations but that's exactly what you should be doing because time heals everything and life is not that bad." 💗💗💗
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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I hope everything with your parents cools down and find the new normal . Much love to you and miss you💓
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
Yes Kratika! 💕
I just found your channel, and i just love you guys💕. You guys are so so so cute🥰.
🥺 Lots of love for you,two. 💜
I hope that things with your family gets better. Sending love.
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
I love you guys 😭❤
Awwww, that's soo brave of you guys😌 and love you guys soo much🥺🥺🥺❤❤
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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Love you guys May you things with family get better
True inspiration you guys❤ Love your videos. Thanks for always being a strong motivator🥰
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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@aditanusheelram7633
2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome Ahhh you guys replied🤗❤
God bless you both. Keep smiling!
Touched and respected for yr honesty and like yr bonds. It's so touching... be there for one another and be happy always....stay safe.. both of u are owesome... keep going 💪✨👌👏
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 💕
I was literally in tears when atulan adviced to the little version of himself !op to u guys!! ❤️All the veryyy bestt!! ❣️
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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@sayeshaadvani5292
2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome ❤️❤️❤️ it feels good to get a reply from ppl u really like thank you guys! Wish u guys togetherness to eternityy ❣️❣️🥺
More power to you cuties 🥺🥺 You don't even know how much of an inspiration you are for other queers struggling to reach where you are today ❤️
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
TRULY✨
"I hope you are at a better place and you don't do what you did to me to anyone else in this world." That shows how kind and pure your soul is Atulan. God bless you. Divesh you too bub. ❤️✨💋
I just love u guysss so muchhh😍❤️love watching your videos, chemistry and compatibility ❤️stay happy
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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May God fill your life with enormous joy and happiness. With time everything will get better and there is lots of good things awaiting ahead.
Atulan, appreciate the fact that you harbour no bitterness towards those bullies. Loved your honest confession about your coming out story. ❤️
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
He’s always been that kind of a person 🥰
@daisygeorge6974
2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome Divesh, you are really lucky to have such a good natured person as your boyfriend. ❤️
@daisygeorge6974
2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome This is just to highlight that there are straight people like us who love your channel and support you guys too. ❤️
You both have come long way Lots of love
Love you both ❤️
So much love and power to both of u 😻
U guys are so brave🥰 love you both!
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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Am on vacation with my family at jaipur, and didn't see youtube, I am 2 days late, I look forward to your videos, I always keep checking if you post, but now I saw it 💫❤️, youtoob world loves you 💕, I so wait for your vids, I feel bad being so late