COMING OUT - PART 1 | Family, Problems, Present & More | Divesh's Story
Coming out was always a scary and equally important step our lives. In today's video Divesh talks about his personal experiences before and after coming out to his family and friends. We planned to make this a two part video, so we can fully describe our experiences from our own individual perspectives.✨🤍
We apologise beforehand for anything that might hurt or offend anyone in the video. This our personal experience, and we in no way disregard anyone else's. We would even love to hear your coming out stories in the comment section below ⬇️
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0:00 Video Snippet
0:05 Honey Imm Home Intro
0:22 Video Intro
2:22 How did you realise you were gay?
3:42 What motivated you to come out to your parents?
9:14 Did you ever feel physically unsafe during this time?
10:18 How did you find peace mentally?
11:20 What helped Divesh the most?
12:12 What's the present situation like?
15:00 Message from anyone coming out of the closet
16:20 Video Outro
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I'm bisexual; it feels good to say that to some anonymous people rather than my own family cause I know they wouldn't support it
@GDivyaKumari
2 жыл бұрын
@@dystocynic good for you !
@wriddhisengupta7017
2 жыл бұрын
Heyy hi... Hope you are doing well. I'm also a bisexual. I have started my college now, I don't know how to say it to my parents 😌
@GDivyaKumari
2 жыл бұрын
@@wriddhisengupta7017 I can't say how to tell your parents because I don't know them and how they'll react but you have to do at some point so best of luck ✨💚
@wriddhisengupta7017
2 жыл бұрын
@@GDivyaKumari yeah true😊. Though they are really very supportive, but I'm just a bit nervous... But thankss ☺️
@porrrnesian_parrrapio7
Жыл бұрын
Ikr. I can feel ya :) and me too. I'm a proud bi but no one knows it except my bestie, to whom am glad that she excepted me. And now y'all know it
The look Divesh gives Atulan when he says don't cry 😂. And it's good to see you're at a better mental state then two years back. Love u both and keep spreading love💓👍🏻
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
next year I am moving out of my parents place and in my room that flag is going to be the first thing I will put on the wall. Also this was such a wholesome video you guys are inspiration for so many of us and Divesh saying youutoob is the cutest thing ever :)
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahah all the besttt! We’re planning that toooo!
@smritibansal5757
3 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome cheers to being comfortable with who we are 🤍
@jaiharyana2576
2 жыл бұрын
@@smritibansal5757 you're a sin to our indian society....go to pakistan
@user-ew1ik2bm4b
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah mee too. I'm lesbian 🙂🏳️🌈
@shrxya796
2 жыл бұрын
@@user-ew1ik2bm4b me too..I'm a bi- 🙂
The way atulan looks at divesh when he's speaking - 🥺❤️
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahah he’s my cutie pie
@reginaphalange7074
3 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome y'all are both cuties 😭❤️
That "suicidal thoughts" broke me on a different level, i have never expected divesh went through this. I am so sorry divesh. This shows the reality of LGBTQ community. They are indeed unsafe. You are right, harm is harm, either physical or mental. I wish in future parents open up about it and support their children in every way. I hope people learn that this is normal and LOVE IS LOVE. All people need is "EDUCATION". 😭😭❤️ I am glad you found your other half. Atulan thank you so much. Divesh thank you so much. Big hugs to you. ❤️❤️❤️
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
💌💌💌💌💌thank you Annie!
@anniekim1480
3 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome ❤️❤️❤️
@thesultana9004
Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you Annie. I once went to a debate conference, and I was in a committee called UNHRC (United Nations Human Rights Council) which was all about discussing about LGBTQIA rights. One of the executive board members was gay and I could clearly see in his eyes how he felt when we discussed about those topics. So I kinda felt like crying at that moment.
It's all about what kind of family you have. If they have above average intelligence, come out in teens. Otherwise finish education, get a job in other city and then inform. Financial independence is essential if you have a dumb family.
@rupsabhaduri5523
3 жыл бұрын
That's right❤️
@cerciaslytherin6845
3 жыл бұрын
That's my plan. I made it when I was 14 and heard my dad reaction to karan johar dancing in an effeminate manner was to have him and his kind be buried alive....
@subikshajegadish3525
2 жыл бұрын
@@cerciaslytherin6845 oh shitz man, i hope you gain financial independance soon and achieve whatever you want
@cerciaslytherin6845
2 жыл бұрын
@@subikshajegadish3525 thanks 👍
@shashankisshere
2 жыл бұрын
10000% right
The sweetest line in the whole video was 'and now I take my boyfriend home'
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
hahahahaha. SAME!
@chetanvinayak6799
Жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome are you both very ticklish I am extremely very very ticklish I love ❤ and enjoy being tickled
@chetanvinayak6799
Жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome on my barefeet I enjoy having my barefeet tickled
You two are so mature, I loved the way you gradually let your parents know that you were gay. I am so pleased that they have accepted you and Atulan! You two are great together!
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
💝💝💝💝🤍✨✨✨
the intro was the most adorable and wholesome stuff ive seen all year.
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
💌💌💌
@pemachoephel7092
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely...
U guys dont know how much inspiring ur for the indian queer ppl 🌈😭❤️✨
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺💌💌💌
@naya7268
2 жыл бұрын
Yaa tho not only queen people but the whole LQBTQIA+ community. Great work done by them🙌👏
Aww, all the love to divesh, he had went through a lot, so good that he had his best friend, and even though his parents kinda ignored the topic, now at least he is strong and proud to put it out to them and to the world
More people (me included) are learning to accept and educate themselves about this. I can imagine how hard it was for you. I'm so happy for you guys 💖 Also you guys are the cutest couple ever
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
🫀🫀🫀💌💌💌
Thank you for this! It really gave us the strength and let me hear the words I needed to. Cant thank you guys enough. Im so glad you guys got through it.
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Thank youuu! 💌💌💌
All excited to watch your coming out story. ❤️
Aaaye damn excited....much luv to ya both!!!
Felt a bit sad to hear the initial part of the story. Glad to know that you are mentally strong now with a good support system around you. I guess Atulan must be your greatest support where you can share all your feelings and find happiness in each others company. Loved your honest confession about your coming out story. ❤️
I literally Loved the way you both connect to each other and honestly when i saw the notification, I had an Adrenaline rush!!!! Love Love!!!!!!
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
🤍🤍🤍🤍💝💝💝thank youuuu!
Yayy, waiting to watch it, hame bahut wait karwate ho aap dono yaar, but koi na, its always worth the wait ❤️💖
Divesh, you’re so cool! More power to you both! 💪🏻
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
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Love you both 💞💞 Keep growing together! More power to you !!
I've just started watching your videos, and I must say there is something so authentic and pure about your relationship, and it is so unfiltered and I can only just feel what you are feeling, and y'all are super adorable and I hope to meet y'all some day! Bless you two always❤❤❤❤
Seeing you both doing so good makes me real happy ❤️😊 let problems be a part of life to help you both know each other the best in every space .... I'll keep supporting you till the end 😊
We have been waiting so long for this.. This is so sweet and so emotional at the same time Kudos to Divesh and lots of love to you both❤️❤️
I’m a new subscriber and I’m so happy I’ve come across your videos :) Thanks for sharing your coming out story Divesh! So many important messages here
So much power and love you. I hope that you heal from your past and live your life with content. Love you both so much !!! ❤❤❤
Great video guys! I love that part where Atulan was mouthing words about Dinesh reminded me of Phoebe Buffalo from Friends haha
Nice to see you guys back i missed you. Love how atula looks with such a proud and admuration .love is love as you say , big hug from Belgium
You guys are just best.... inspiration too many people...keep loving and we all love you:)
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I have been following u guys since a long time now and I got to know that u guys love traveling and looking at ur instagram it seems like ur life is all happy and everything seems so flowery on social media that I never realised what u guys went through ! This vdo brought me to tears ❤️ Nobody deserves to go through this ! It breaks my heart to know that almost every member of the LGBTQ community has to go through this But we are so proud and happy that u r in a much healthier mental state rn ❤️❤️ lots of love!!
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Thank youuu! Your acknowledgment means the world to us! 💌💌
Keep inspiring, loves🦋
Eager to see part 2
The thumbnail is so cute 💗🌸
Awwieee guysss🥺♥️✨ Love you guys!!
So proud of you guys :) This is obviously something very personal and you guys decided to share this and im sure this will help many. We need more of this in our country- a platform where people of the LGBTQ+ community can talk and look upto discussions like this because as you said in our country things are always "swept under the rug". I strongly believe that once we stop conversations from happening, we find excuses (like "oh its just a phase") and not solutions which means accepting people for who they are, regardless of their gender identity and sexual identity. Very excited for the next video ( i really hope everything went well, Atulan). Love u guys xx
I Wish And Hope Every Soul Finds Their Atulan To Their Divesh.And It's Good To See You Both Stay Happy And Healthy Together.❤️❤️❤️
You are doing great unlike other ones literally youtube is flooded with top bottom stuff😢
the fact that i got tears and goosebumps even though divesh didnt!! dude u guys r really strong!! will always support u!! love love
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
🤍🤍🤍🤍💝💝
may god bless ya both lovelies !! kudos to you guys and your courage ! stay happy 4eva
We soo need Part-2 ASAP....!
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
ASAPPPPP!
This is so hard..I know it now seems very Normal and not difficult..it must've felt terrible then..so proud of you.. you are my most favourite hero from today ❤️
The fact that most of the people from lgbtq+ community go through this breaks my heart. I could sense your pain Divesh, and I'm so sorry you had to go through it, but you are strong, I'm so proud of you for it. I'm sending a big virtual hug to you
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! 💌💌
Well m soo glad that u both r finally at a stable stage to comfortably talk it out...stay safe nd healthy...Love u both!!♥️
just want to tell you both are incredible and I love watching you both together.
Youtoooob I love you divesh! And you guys such a inspiration 💗
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha 💌💌💌
wow , so proud of you guys ❤❤❤
Thank you for your honesty and candor. I'm sure this kind of stuff isn't easy to disclose because it's a public platform. But Thank you regardless. I am looking forward to part 2 as well, but this comment is for both of you. Thank you for your bravery and willingness in sharing your experience with us.
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
💌💌💌💌💌💝💝💝thank youuu!
I'm glad that you're mentally stronger now!!!
Congratulations guys.. lot's of love and wishes for future ❤️
U guys are awesome..keep going !!🤗🤗
I am already crying... QAQ.. i watched this video more than three times.. it is great when you have someone to open up your mind and soul in dire situations like this.. I AM REALLY HAPPY AND SAD FOR YOU GUYS.. Lub you so much😍😍🙏🙏
Loved the video You two are so cute 😍 Lots of love guys 👦❤
Divesh really did well and the coming out and the truma he passed through is really inspiring...Pls put the second part as soon as possible... Eagerly waiting for it...
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
YESS! 💌💌💌💌
A much needed conversation!! Keep shinning brighter!! Will be waiting for Atulan's coming out video
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! 💌
Aww!!! I just love you guys can't wait for next video!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending all my love and good energy to you both 🌈❤️
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🤍✨
Feel so emotional looking at these coming out videos but u guys are also..some of the beautiful souls on the earth. Best wishes!! Lot of positivity to both of u in life..
You two look awesome together hope you always stay happy together❤❤❤😊
I really felt bad for u divesh glad u came out of it ,your sad face made me in tears tho ,,,,but we are really really proud of u guysss tysmmmmmmmmmmmm🥺💗i hope ur life will be filled with joys now☺️
Damn I am so proud of Divesh that he talked about this topic so nicely !!!! And also proud of Atulan that he came out to his parents 🎉🎉🎉 so so so excited for Atulan's story 💙💙💙
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
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Thank you for this. This would be relatable and helpful for loads of Indian kids ❤️ proud of this gen 🙌🏽
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
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This made me emotional for sure...its not just someone coming out of the gender closet you know...somehow we all live in our closets which are toxic...unhealthy but they wrap us around & we lose the confidence to fight...you're right guys...the people around us are really important... I really feel you two are my friends...so just sharing...I was a victim of abuse from my partner for 3 years...then a beautiful friend arrived & gave me the strength to fight...today I'm out & it was a learning experience for me & it doesn't bring tears anymore...I feel he doesn't deserve it... Don't know why I said all this but really felt like putting out there... Guys if anyone going through anything just surround yourself with people who help you grow...it really helps... And you two beauties...you have us by your side too...anything...anytime...anyday... Lots of love
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Simontini. We’re so glad you’re in a better place now! Please take care 🤍 Here’s to friends like yours!
@simondgupta3110
3 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome Thank you so much guys...it really means a lot...Thank You!
This is very cutest coming out stories i have ever heard Hahaha you guys are so adorable ❤️❤️
Though ur two guys r v young..but yr content shows next level maturity......one cud feel the emotional journey , he wud hv gone through.Breaking stereotypes n coming out ..calls for applause for you both guys..👍👍
such sweethearts nd strong u ppl are nd surely will be inspirational nd influencing to many more around with your journey lots of love nd good luck to u both
Just wanted to drop in and say that this video brought me to tears. This is just so wholesome and pure. I love Divesh's poise and incredible honesty throughout this. As someone who has gone and is still going through very similar experiences, I must say that I absolutely agree to every single point that you guys made. Having a strong support system - be it your family, friends, colleagues or even good acquaintances is just so important. We don't get to trust many people these days and I'm glad Divesh found such strong pillars of support around him whom he could trust and open his heart to. Would be eagerly waiting for Atulan's one! ❤️ (On a side note, Atulan is a very bad interviewer he keeps cutting Divesh off, very bad Atulan 🤣🤣🤣🤣 just kidding. you are adorable and so is Divesh!)❤️
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahhaahah 🤍🤍🤍🤍🫀🫀
@atmadeepghosh9528
3 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome Ehehehehe
you guys are really really really cute!!!!!!!!!!!!🥺❤️
You guys are literally so cute.
It's so joyful to watch u guys n listen your story,,,mgbu guys with this joy forever ❤️ First time I came across this channel but kind of got addicted to honesty n cuteness of u guysss !!
just want to say thankyou for coming out and i'm so grateful i get to see all this. i wish i was friends with someone just so powerful and strong and what not. i wish you sooooooo light and love 🥺 Also i want that power of acceptance
@allarisnehith4963
2 жыл бұрын
Everything will be alright soon. Dont feel tense.
So proud of you two.Much love and support to you two.😇
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺🥺💌
Love you guys 😍
Waiting for next video..May god bless u both ..very nice video..lots of love from French..
Dude, thanks for sharing this part of life as it is much needed. You two are real inspiration and the way atulan asks questions makes this story raw and unfiltered. Kudos to you ❤❤
You guys are really an inspiration to so many ppl!! Ughh.. Cuties.. Bless you...
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
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heyyyy just found your channel today and thanks so much for your videos and everything you do! this is like the first time i've seen a queer Indian couple and as a young queer Indian myself, it means so much to see that, especially with how conservative and homophobic Indian society can be. i came out to some people a few years ago but they haven't brought it up since so i totally understand the "sweeping under the rug" thing. again, thanks so much for everything you do--it makes me feel like one day, i can be like you two too!! lots of love!! you two are a really cute couple!!
Such rough years! We're very proud and thankful that finally it happened and your families know. I don't know what Atulan's status is like but I get you. Parents accepting their children as they are is the biggest kind of relief. Doesn't matter much who else is on your side but once your parents say those good phrases like I'm proud or I love you the same regardless of anything, this really puts you at ease. Can't wait to listen to you Atulan. Kinda scared too. love love and much love 💜💜💜
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
wish both our parents come to a place where they say that, they're proud of us for choosing to be the real version of ourselves :)
@aparna2203
2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome Awww I really hope that happens sooner **fingers crossed** 💜🥺
MORE POWER TO YOU!!
God I love you guys so much for doing this 🥺❤️ You're both so much stronger than I could ever be LOVE YOU GUYS literally thank you for making this channel ❤️🥺
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺🥺💌💌💌gladd!
you guys are the cutest! can't wait for your next video, love youu❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
You guys are the best ❤️❤️❤️ i love you both sooo much and divesh is sooo funny and the way he said youtoob always cracks me up
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha
You both are just amazing not at all trying to bluff but you guys are adorable. Lots and lots of love to you both.
I love you guys ❤️ it's very nice of u posting this ❤️ more Love to you both 💖
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
💌💌💌💌💌💌🥲
If there was any school or a place that let's people volunteer to reduce this gap of understanding things, I believe divesh is gonna rock in creating a proper & independent awareness! When he said "I'M NOT YOUR PARENT N I'M NOT GONNA SPOON FEED YOU - THIS HIT THE SPOT RIGHT!" Hoping to see the day where you be the inspiration to many. & yeah atulan's puppy eyes are lovely. This too shall pass😃#Iam.
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Hahah 🤍🤍🤍💌💌💌💌💌
M proud of u Divu that u came out and u had the courage to talk to your parents about it ♥️ 😊..love u Atulan m waiting for your post asap💖...keep smiling and shining 🌈
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
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I know m straight but what it takes to get inclined towards you guys for a day 😂! White suits you man , cute 😊
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
HAHAHHAHA ❤️❤️❤️
Love you guys huge respect to both of you seriously lots of love 🧿❤️😻😻😻
Nice to see you both. Abhi metro cities mai dhire dhire support badha hai, lekin small town and villages Mai Bahot hi Bad situations hai.
I mean u dont know how many kids living in a remote area you are helping out by talking about this... You guys are bringing a change... 🙏🙏
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺🥺💝💝💝
I'm so scared of coming out that it has affected my mental health adversely. Your stories and videos just give me and so many other indian lgbtq+ youth hope for a better future, so Thank You!💗🌈
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
Hey! Stay well please!!! We’re here if you need us to help from personal experience.
@rashi9953
3 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyImmHome Thanks guys! You are already helping me so much with your videos!💗
You both gave me a courage to start my KZread channel about lgbt thanks a billion time.
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺congratss!
Ohhh yaaa I just finished watching modern family, like all of the season. Don't know if divesh is the cam or not but you certainly are mitch of the show. 😁😁
WOW! Didn't imagine I'd cry in place of Divesh. But I'm really happy that you're at peace now and I hope will be till the end of time. Love you both and I'm very happy I've been with you guys for a long time 🥺❤️💞
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
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I liked how divesh spoke ! Every single thing that he mentioned was so articulate! He did not really blame anybody for his environment like how he said that students around me were not educated about this topic ! There was this guy in my school and I remember how used to be like oh is he gay , he never used to be like that before (this happened around 2017 2018) . It is really important for people to have the knowledge! Most of us don't even know about how they feel what they feel! Also I think that love is love ! It doesn't matters what gender you love ! In Hinduism as well people consider LGBTQ as sin! Even my parents get a little awkward well If I be honest they completely awkward Nd weird when something like this Comes up! But if we see our culture and religion LGBTQ was also there during Mahabharata!
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOUUU!!! 💌💌💌💌
Awww❤️❤️ that a really touch thing i am watching...i am really proud of all of you that u guys atleast honest to yourself 💜 lots of love and waiting for atulans story💖
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
🤍🤍🤍🤍 Atulan’s story is out now :)
me thinking about the time i can watch this without tears
@HoneyImmHome
2 жыл бұрын
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Awww 😍 how cute u are.....❤️ Best couple ever I have seen ❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘.... Love u
You are a sweetheart Divesh. More power to you both❤❤.. you guys encourage me 😅
im so proud of you both😭❤️
@HoneyImmHome
3 жыл бұрын
🤍🤍🤍🤍❤️🔥
Seriously you guys vibe like henry and alex from red❤, white🤍 and royal blue💙
I love Divesh expression ☺️☺️ God bless you 🤗🤗