Colors of Tobi: Being Transgender in Hungary
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There is a tiny village in Hungary, where Éva and her family live. Her 16-year-old child recently came out as transgender and lives by his chosen name of Tobi. After the initial shock, the whole family comes together to support him.
However, Éva is quietly suffocating from the idea of losing the girl she was raising. Tobi is determined to become a man biologically, all while he struggles growing up. Éva is trying hard to be the mother her son needs, while Tobi starts questioning the boundaries he set up for himself as a transgender man.
'Colors of Tobi' is an emotional tale of releasing and accepting.
Director: Alexa Bakony
Пікірлер: 197
Sorry but gender is determined by genetics, not feelings.
@danielbetancur1250
12 күн бұрын
Biology is, not gender. Read a book
@DogratDavis
12 күн бұрын
@danielbetancur1250 Gender is still fundamentally predicated on sex, otherwise, it would just be called aesthetics. You read a book.
@teloiiv
12 күн бұрын
Biology, not genetics. Did you inherit your gender in your genes?
@_ArsNova
12 күн бұрын
@@teloiiv Your gender, like every trait that determines who you are, stems from your DNA. I.e. your genetic makeup. I never claimed gender was hereditary.
@user-wh2oy2ul1q
12 күн бұрын
This is not about feelings, it's identity. And also, gender is not determined by genetics, nonetheless.
Good job getting an unsubscribe from me
@techcafe0
12 күн бұрын
adios, you won't be missed
@DesaDonalba
12 күн бұрын
@@techcafe0 who cares what woke people will felt or not? ;D
@dewetmaartens359
12 күн бұрын
Me too, I'm out.
@DaStarrchild
12 күн бұрын
Werd we out
@66kbm
12 күн бұрын
Ditto, ignore the fuckwits comments.
Narcism and obsession is what I see to be honest. Or am I crazy?
@The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death
12 күн бұрын
No, you are ok!
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?
@firstdirst5519
8 күн бұрын
@@purple6188 compliant that you use butplug to often
@firstdirst5519
8 күн бұрын
@@purple6188 in name of god put boutplug out of your mouth
I thought this was Vice media for a minute there.
This film is from 2021, and most of it seems to be filmed before 2020. It got way worse since then, I hope he is doing well!
You can identify what ever but it doesn't change reality
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
Who's reality? God's?
@dylendog
10 күн бұрын
@@purple6188 go milk a bull and see for yourself
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
@@dylendog Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?
Bárki bármit próbál magyarázni ez nem normális dolog..... Valami valamikor nagyon félre ment gyermekkorban. Keressetek szakembert aki segít. Minden embert tisztelni kell de ez teljesen szembe megy az evolúcióval...... Sérült emberek ezek. Jobbulást kívánok nekük 🤘
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?
I don't understand why some transgender people get upset so easily, not understanding that people have to get used to it. When in 17:43 Tobi is upset because his mom called him "Jazmin" is inlogical to me. They were clearly talking about a situation that happened in the past, so it was normal for his mom to say "we used to say Jazmin, not it" because then it was in fact, Jazmin. Parents also have to deal with a lot when their child is changing their whole appearance, name and getting a sex change when they were living years with a whole different person
@DogratDavis
12 күн бұрын
It's because this is about power and attention. These people don't actually believe they are the opposite gender.
@teloiiv
12 күн бұрын
@@DogratDavis I believe some people really feel like other gender, a friend of mine is trans as well, but he acts normally, but I do agree about attention when it comes to some people
@user-wh2oy2ul1q
12 күн бұрын
@@DogratDavisplease learn science and biology, how your gender identity and body has been developed. Gender and human biology is very complicated, and trans, enby, genderqueer, or such is very legit thing in terms of science
@MikasTinyLife
12 күн бұрын
As a transman, I NEVER got upset. These things take time. People around me got scared when they accidentally did it wrong and were so surprised when I wasn't mad. I'm on hormones now, and it has never happened since as I now pass and look completely male
@Kiz-0
10 күн бұрын
Because being called your old name or gender is physically painful. it may not seem like it but it feels like being stabbed in the chest. on top of the depressive state.
Nagyon rendesek a szülők...! Csak még ne bánják ezek a gyerekek egyszer a nem átalakítását.
@madmax6827
11 күн бұрын
Rendesek? Inkabb bolondok.
Why do they all look, act, talk, and dress the same, no matter which country? It's almost like it's an internet based social contagion.
@user-wh2oy2ul1q
12 күн бұрын
It's just because you don't know them in real life, people obviously avoid you if you're also acting such a netizen thing in real life
@patrickmunneke8348
11 күн бұрын
That's exactly what it is. A social contagion.
@deidresable
11 күн бұрын
Yep they all the same in every country
@bahrom942
11 күн бұрын
@@user-wh2oy2ul1qoh mate wait till pride Month, you see weirdos walking with stupid dresses even naked.
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?
Not good for society
@RabbitWatchShop
12 күн бұрын
Your hate isn’t good for society
@okilydokily
12 күн бұрын
@@RabbitWatchShop Your brain is mush
@RabbitWatchShop
12 күн бұрын
@@okilydokily replace “Your” with My, and you’ll have an accurate comment.
@jule3480
12 күн бұрын
@@RabbitWatchShop. I don’t care what an adult chooses to be. But what has upset me as a women is elevating men identifying as women OVER women. I see it in sports, change rooms and bathrooms. Transgender women should not compete against biological women. The two sports men/ boys and women/gils exist because the male sex is physically stronger/ faster than females, end of story. The bathroom/ change room, I’ll just say I would NEVER choose to be in a state of vulnerability of being partially or fully undressed in an enclosed room with a strange man in such a setting. Especially as I have been physically assaulted by a man in my past. I wish people who call women against shared spaces “ transphobia “ would also consider that something like one in three women/girls have experienced some form of abuse and how it makes us feel.
@RabbitWatchShop
12 күн бұрын
@@jule3480 I’m trans and 100 💯 percent agree with your statements, and often state all that in opposition to my own community.
A cara de decepção dos pais 😂
Az egyik legundorítóbb dokumentumfilm, nem érdemes megnézni azoknak, akiknek még egészséges az agya 🤮🤮
Being a clown 🤡
мама терпения и еще раз терпения!! с таким чудом а чуду надо психиатора и голову лечить
Wow 🤭
such a small minority of people forcing there views on children , telling my kids to be gay is ok, straight is great, keep your views to yourself
@bahrom942
11 күн бұрын
The reason they target on our children is because they can't have any.
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
@@bahrom942 Who's 'They'?
@romans1450
8 күн бұрын
@@purple6188 You know and you're shaking, everyone knows "they" degenerate societies.
all the snowflakes in the comment section are so offended when someone just wants to live his life
@bahrom942
11 күн бұрын
Not just living, they are contagious, these tiny minority being pushed in media, turn on TV, most likely you gonna see gay parents or non binary person as main actors in films and even cartoons
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
@@bahrom942 I'll bet you can condense your comment to 2 words or less and still get your opinion out there for others to read. Give it a try.
Colors of Legions
Image being a dad and leaving this as your legacy after you are gone. hahaha
Walking Fairy Floss. 😅
"Комментарий удален Нам стало известно, что ваши комментарии нарушают правила сообщества в отношении: • дискриминационных высказываний. Если вы продолжите вести себя подобным образом, мы можем лишить вас возможности оставлять комментарии или удалим ваш канал." Вот тебе и "свобода слова", я никого не оскорблял, просто выразил своё ОБЪЕКТИВНОЕ мнение) И моментально был за это наказан. Очевидно ведется жесточайшая пропаганда. Как хорошо что я живу в нормальной стране 😊
@purple6188
11 күн бұрын
You're the victim?
@pinkkangaroo
11 күн бұрын
в нормальной это в какой? Если в России, то хочу тебя огорчить, ничего нормального в России нет. Россия - страна агрессор, армия которой ежедневно бомбит украинские города. Хотя о чем это я, большинство россиян гордятся этим.
@resistance123
11 күн бұрын
@@pinkkangaroo США убили 1-2 миллиона гражданских в Ираке, ГРАЖДАНСКИХ. Но они печатают фантики и покупают всех вокруг на них же, особенно СМИ, со ВСЕГО мира. Если вы думаете что оппозиционеры довольствуются только донатам от зрителей, это конечно же не так.
@resistance123
10 күн бұрын
@@pinkkangaroo Конечно, что еще делать с абсолютно неадекватным режимом у своих границ, достаточно посмотреть на эмблему разведки Украины, это же прямая угроза нацбезопасности, она должна быть ликвидирована. Ну а еще у нас нет печатного станка с помощью которого можно купить за фантики мировые СМИ, поэтому США которые убили больше миллиона гражданских в Ираке никакие не агрессоры, а миротворцы и демократы.
@pinkkangaroo
10 күн бұрын
@@resistance123 обратись к психиатру, надеюсь, тебе еще можно помочь.
As cores do toba: pseudociência na Hungria
This is clinic case, need a doctor. Parents suffer.. but this human simply playing with them. Narcism on high level.
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
Why the muddled word salad?
Сколько живут такие люди после тотальной операции?
@resistance123
11 күн бұрын
Если не заканчивают жизнь самоубийством из-за своих тараканов, то у них начинается онкология и другие аутоиммунные проблемы, но исследований конечно никто проводить не будет, пока что это очень выгодно, на обычных транках и антидепрессантах зарабатывают триллионы, а если еще менять местами половые органы и проводить гормональную терапию, а потом от всего этого лечиться ... 🤑🤑🤑
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?
I was waiting for a physical change of Tobi due to male hormones...but I only see a female wearing oversized clothes - who has got a name and sex change on documents. I work with someone who is a male now and was a female before. Very nice dude. Its just....the dude I work with takes hormones and has a beard.
I'm just reading these mean comments and keep thinking about one thing: are you guys okay? So much hate from ppl who are not well-educated on the topic. Trans people don't hate on anyone, so why would you? Btw I used to know Tobi for a short time when we were in the same high school and he is a good person with a big heart.
@semedrisstouda4676
12 күн бұрын
كان ذو زوك كبير
@DogratDavis
12 күн бұрын
"Well educated on the topic" is just code for indoctrinated on this topic. There is no actual education to be had on gender. Transgenderism is a cult centered around queer aesthetics. And yes, all they do is go on the internet and hate.
@mikeymike1981
12 күн бұрын
So saying what you don’t agree with is hate? No body wished any hurt on him.
@user-wh2oy2ul1q
12 күн бұрын
@@mikeymike1981Okay because you are on behalf of everybody
@eeweeweew
6 күн бұрын
Do you know how he is doing now? This film is from 2021 and I am worried for any transgender person still living in Hungary.
Расчеловечевание подростков, все это от сатаны
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
Satan isn't real.
@dylendog
10 күн бұрын
@@purple6188 keep going and thinking that way and sure you'll know
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
@@dylendog Are you threatening me DylenDoggieStyle? Next time, keep your hate-filled comments to 2 words or less. Your opinions don't stand for much anyway. DylenDoggieStyle, you need to update your moniker. LOL. Peace.
Good Documentary
Always here. Always will be! ❤🏳️⚧️
Egy lányt vesztettünk el a woke miatt!!! Mindet ki fogom írtani!!!! Nemzetiszocialista Magyarországot!!!!!
Nobody is asking what the common factors are among these youth that might be causing the body-brain disconnect and mismatch in self-perception. Is it chemical, hormonal, societal, injections, there is more to this phenomena. Individually they perceive it as their unique truth, but the statistics are alarming. On reddit alone there are more than 30k "detransitioners" who suffer varying degrees of permanent changes and other sorts of harm by what is happening. 😢 They need compassion and for us to fight to protect and help them
@purple6188
11 күн бұрын
Why the muddled word salad?
Only♀️and ♂️
Very good documentary. Tobi is a nice young man. He's got really good parents. Cherish them as long as you can. Once they're gone, the world becomes a very lonely place. Oh, anyone with a "just my opinion" bag of words that attack, belittle, dehumanize and outright call for voilence, hatred, intolorance or you "have some advice", just keep it to yourself. Pray to God for you and your love ones. Focus on becoming the best possible human being you can be. Earn your place in heaven. Prove to God you deserve to be there.
@DogratDavis
11 күн бұрын
It's very telling that you cleverly try to equate anyone who dares to voice an opinion on a social movement with calling for violence by lumping all those categories together. You should work on your own intolerance of diversity, and your own relationship with God.
@purple6188
11 күн бұрын
@@DogratDavis We know each other so well. God and I see your hatred for Tobi and his family. You see God and me as purveyers of acceptence. Heaven is not for you.
@romans1450
8 күн бұрын
@@purple6188 Psalm 139:21 King James Version 21 Do not I hate them, O Lord, that hate thee? and am not I grieved with those that rise up against thee? No one "Earns heaven" false preacher with a malicious cloak of "love". No ones proves to God that they deserve to be there, we were all sinners saved by Jesus by faith. You mistake love for tolerance very dangerous teaching, not everything goes. Who are you to say heaven is not for him, if he trust in Jesus Christs finished work on the cross + nothing - nothing he is saved. Pharisee. Also Deuteronomy 22:5 King James Version 5 The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are unto the Lord thy God.
@purple6188
8 күн бұрын
@@romans1450 Do me and God a favor. Keep your opinions to 1 word or less. Your muddled word salad doesn't say anything intelligible.
A Tobi não conseguiu mudar de nome, que tragédia 😭😭🤧🎉
@purple6188
10 күн бұрын
Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?
my eyes aaaaargggggggggg my eyes
В ПЕЧЬ!
@purple6188
11 күн бұрын
После Вас!
@user-lj4nj6hq6z
11 күн бұрын
@@purple6188 НЕ ДОЖДЕШЬСЯ.
@purple6188
11 күн бұрын
@@user-lj4nj6hq6z Жертва Отдел. На что вы жалуетесь?
Amazing family !!!! 😍 communication is the key to understanding !!! Thats evolution !!! LOVE AND RESPECT ✌🏼 So sad and pathetic to read hatefull comments …. Those people have no f****king lives !! I hope those haters dont have kids because ignorance is one hell of a problem espacially when its transmited from the familly !!
I think what happen is we are the oppesite sex in our last lives and still hold on to the association.
@DogratDavis
12 күн бұрын
The same people who make fun of religion and praying to flying Spaghetti monsters all suddenly treat gender like it's a supernatural force and believe in souls and past lives
@user-hi1et2tb5u
12 күн бұрын
@@DogratDavis Religion is a form of control,I believe in God but not Bullshit from man.I barely trust my self TBH.
@firstdirst5519
12 күн бұрын
weak shit
Its nice to see supportive loving parents 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
@dionysise5008
12 күн бұрын
Criminals
@flora9069
12 күн бұрын
@@dionysise5008 you're a bigot!
@firstdirst5519
12 күн бұрын
failed parents
@patrickmunneke8348
11 күн бұрын
It's child abuse
انحرافكم شيئ مقزز فعلا
This is the worst documentary i ever watched 👎🏼
🤮🤮
oh. ok
🤡🤡🤡🤡