Brenda was so lucky to have a nice mom. I would have given anything for a mother like that.

Who talks to their parents like that... Even in the 90's 🤣

@svin7987

2 күн бұрын

it's important to learn about sex in case you get interested in it

I remember watching this and I felt so embarrassed back in the day and today... It was the same feeling hahaha poor Brenda!

Jim and Cindy wanted to know every detail of Brenda's personal life. I mean my goodness. They trustrd Brandon more than they trusted Brenda. Poor Brenda

@kathconserv

Жыл бұрын

Jim was the worst. Cindy was better.

@tinahuttner7280

Жыл бұрын

Who knows if they new that they put a double standard for her,some parents don’t🤷🏻‍♀️

@tinahuttner7280

Жыл бұрын

@@kathconservgotta agree w that especially when it was Brandon’s first time w that chic😒

@kathconserv

Жыл бұрын

@@tinahuttner7280 I liked Cindy. Jim I didn’t.

@kathconserv

Жыл бұрын

@@tinahuttner7280 remember that? Jim and Cindy were laying in bed and heard Brandon and Cheryl in bed together and did nothing.

I love Jim talking to her like she’s an idiot, “Did you do something that would make you believe you could be pregnant?” And Brenda goes, “You mean sex? Of course.”

@EastSide-qc5oy

6 ай бұрын

It’s a dad talking to his daughter about sex. It’s gonna be awkward.

@snowwhite2709

5 ай бұрын

And where? When? Does it matter, nope. Interrogation or what.

@startracker5895

5 ай бұрын

@@EastSide-qc5oya father should never talk to his daughter about sex. It should be left to the mother.

@EastSide-qc5oy

5 ай бұрын

@@startracker5895 It’s not up to you to make decisions about how families operate. You can make that decision for yourself and your family but not for others.

@crystalsherman8896

16 күн бұрын

​@@startracker5895 Both parents should talk to their kids about sex

The most excruciating way for a Dad to ask if his daughter .. 😅

@lnicole2504

6 ай бұрын

LOL! Jim talking to Brenda like she is 10 yrs old... "Did you do something that would give you reason to believe that if you were a few days late that would indicate you were pregnant?" Brenda - "You mean like sex? Yes, of course!" 😅 I'm dead! 🤣

Jim: Did you do something that gave you reason to believe that... Brenda: Oh, no, Daddy, just some pure platonic manifestation of my feelings for a guy...

@icyqueen8296

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@tempoticandmeepstar7584

9 күн бұрын

What else did he expect 😂

Mom Is Totally Right About Being “Emotionally” Ready. Sex Can Come With A lot Of Responsibility, Consequences, And Fallout.

That scene seems even more absurd to me now than when I first watched it 30 odd years ago. 🤣

Jim did not care when Brandon's Minnesota girl came and they slept together. But Brenda has sex and it's a huge issue.

@carpentershub1726

11 ай бұрын

Exactly. In fact he was proud.

@lemurianchick

8 ай бұрын

@@carpentershub1726How did he show that he was proud? Plus, a father typically is more protective of his daughter. Does that make him a sexist pig? She had a pregnancy scare--don't forget about that.

@startracker5895

5 ай бұрын

@@lemurianchickboys can get girls pregnant. Why were they never worried about their son getting a girl pregnant?

@niva-vm3vy

3 ай бұрын

They normalized the men can do what they want and women must be pure

@rachelswansonswanson7537

2 ай бұрын

Yes I think that does make someone a sexist pig. Does the father forget he had sex with the girls mother years ago, probably unwed maybe and that girls father probably felt the same way many years ago. So the father needs to realize that his daughter is in the same situation that the father was in years ago with the girls mother. And therefore, the father of the girl can't be a hypocrite, since he did the same thing to the girls mother years ago by having sex with her, so it's not fair to target the daughter. Whether it's the daughter or the son having sex, it needs to handled fairly, I'm sorry but it's no different if the son or daughter is having sex, one shouldn't be discriminated against the other. That is sexist. It takes two to tangle whether it's the boy or girl and I don't buy into dad's being more protective of their daughters when they maybe or probably did the same thing to their mothers. That's hipocritical !

RIP BRENDA 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

OMG, Brenda is such a 90's teenager! All that drama.

@V-li6wo

5 ай бұрын

Did we see the same episode? Brenda's parents are making such a drama about other business

This episode singlehandedly made me NOT want to have sex until I was at least out of high school and 18 years old. And I didn't! I was only 9 or 10 when it aired, too... Also, the drunk driving episode was super influential in my always being the DD for friends in high school and college. Thanks, 90210!😂

OMG I remember back then after seeing the Spring Dance episode when Brenda loses her virginity parents went ape sh*t! They called the network and protested. On the 90210 10yr reunion Jason Priestley actually joked about how crazy parents got over that particular episode. Nowadays sex is everywhere but 33yrs ago when this happened you'd think it was a major crisis or something!

@lnicole2504

6 ай бұрын

So true. You have to remember who was running the show back then. It was the Silent Generation and early Baby Boomers. They had a very different value system that literally did not work for anyone including themselves. Sex was taboo back then. Sh*t, they even struggled with divorce back then.. It was the what will the neighbors think mentality?!

@lillyfahey1921

5 ай бұрын

Sex Was Not Taboo. Sex Was Sacred, Reserved For Marriage. Not The Casual UnImportant Attitude People Have Towards Sex Today.

@lnicole2504

5 ай бұрын

@@lillyfahey1921 However you want to think of it, people were miserable and most were stuck in bad marriages and abusive relationships because of their way of thinking and persecution of morals. That generation was nuts!

@StephanieMT

4 ай бұрын

also the AIDS epidemic

@crystalsherman8896

16 күн бұрын

Parents were wrong for blaming and shaming her.

When I watched this episode being older than Brenda, I have just lost my virginity and couldn´t have any conversation with my parents a they were educated in the "no sex before marriage values". Now we are the generation having this conversation with our children and, when we bring the argument about "there should be no sex without love and commitment", the Zen generation look at us saying "How old fashioned..." For them sex is just like a hobby or sport...

@musicallytalented16

3 ай бұрын

No sex until marriage is better

Cindy's gossipy, she had to talk to Brenda first. Is embarrassing when your father discovers that kind of things.

These parents had double standards. Brandon got treated so much better.

@heathervelasco5159

Жыл бұрын

Jim said it's different with girls lol

@robinbrown2256

Жыл бұрын

​@heathervelasco5159 I disagreed with that so much. Guys can end up in just as much trouble as girls can. It was a ridiculous double standard.

@kerriethompson2073

11 ай бұрын

Thank you! Brandon had sec with his girlfriend in his room, and the parents are like “boys will be boys.” Brenda has consensual, safe sex and her parents basically label he as a slut. And you wonder why she rebelled?

@sailorsister211

8 ай бұрын

​@robinbrown2256 Agreed, just bc Brandon can't get pregnant doesn't mean Brandon can't still make Jim and Cindy grandparents. He could still get a girl pregnant. Brandon being guy doesn't prevent him from getting an STD

@EastSide-qc5oy

6 ай бұрын

If Brandon came home and said the girl he’s seeing suspects she’s pregnant and he’s the daddy, Jim would probably react in a somewhat similar manner.

The trouble you dont realise you’re too young until your older…… at the time you feel so grown up and want to be an adult , u til the consequences happen

When a son does it it's no big deal. The dad, thinks great now your a man. Those same values not do much for girls

The end lmao

A woman sees something wrapped in plastic in the garbage and doesn’t think it’s something gross like a tampon?

@CC3193

4 ай бұрын

My high school boyfriend's mother went through his bin to look for evidence of sex & was rewarded with a used condom that she fished out from a balled-up tissue. She confronted her son with it! 🤢 So gross. I thought she should be relieved he was being careful & using condoms.

I swear to God we won’t 😂😂😂

Looking back as an adult there a lot of double standard between Brandon and Brenda. When Brandon's gf from Minnesota came to visit. Brandon lost her virginity to her. They were pretty chill about it. Despite the fact they literally had in the house right under there nose. They were kinda off and on again. Jim nor Cindy gave him the same speech like they did with Brenda. Brandon was in the same risk of getting her pregnant or STD. While Brenda who has been in a serious relationship with Dylan. They have talk and planned it for awhile. Atleast they didnt have sex in their house. My parents would have been pissed if me or one of my siblings had sex in their house esp if they were home. Since we were disrespecting the house and them

@robinorlowski2449

2 ай бұрын

Yes and they are supposed to be twins. So that's another reason they need to be treated the same.

RIP Shannen Doherty 💔🪦🙏🏾🥀🕊️

It seems like 90210 brought open discussion about a lot of subjects that nowadays seem so common but back then were still really an issue. Even more so outside of the US. I was in Europe watching the series and it looked like they lived on Mars. My teenage years surely didn't resemble these stories at all. I remember a 90210 storyline about students fighting for sex ed or distributing condoms at school or something like that. I remember the Donna character being the one who would make the epic speech that would convince everyone. Those issues were still taboo at the time.

Today jim and cindy would be raising Brenda and Dylans baby. They were good parents.

No way this is not happening..😂😂 Poor Brenda, and Dylan will take the Split later on 😢

1:32 - The Walsh Family sure had a lot of Encyclopedia sets. They're definitely not law reviews since Jim is a CPA and not a lawyer.

@robinorlowski2449

2 ай бұрын

it was 1992 when this episode aired. The internet wasn't the big thing it is now. And there was no social media. It was possible for Jim to work without the internet. Notice at work he usually calls people over a land line at his office. My parents had the same type of books in their house for years.

@msmilano7091

9 күн бұрын

Pretty much every family had those in the 90s 😊

They didn’t even do this to Brandon when he lost his virginity at their house. It Sickens me how Obsessed Jim is with his own Daughter

Those parents react like it was in the 60's. Omg how embarrasing this is to watch.

@Sephiroth766

Жыл бұрын

This was 1991, teens having sex on TV shows was still taboo

@lemurianchick

8 ай бұрын

How old are you? There is so much porn addiction and acting out sexually among younger people. Not an improvement.

Nice

So Cindy tried her best but still came out awfully. What were tthey suposed to do? Allow them to stay in their house ?

Omg the way the parents talk to her get over it happens alot

@lemurianchick

8 ай бұрын

How old are you? There's nothing wrong with parents actually caring about the welfare of their daughter. This was also the '90s. The '80s was when AIDS became a concern and put a damper on sex. This continued into the '90s. Life can be created by sex. This means that it's a big deal. Even if you think abortion is okay, if you go through with one it can be traumatic regardless. It can affect the relationship you have because of mixed feelings. People should be very conscious about who they are intimate with.

@ZennaD

5 ай бұрын

Are you serious?

@startracker5895

5 ай бұрын

@@lemurianchickthe mother yes. Not the father. It’s totally inappropriate for a father to talk about sex with their daughter.

@lemurianchick

5 ай бұрын

@@startracker5895 How about them doing it together?

@franzchong5889

7 күн бұрын

@@startracker5895 I agree.I saw how Degrassi,Home and Away and early years BH 90210 DID THIS topic.this and the Canadian Teen Drama had a good mother to be there when and if the bad news came out(Spike and Brenda).I saw what Original Roo had to deal with and the pathetic excuse of a father she had to not be able to have a discussion about it with.

Now that sex is everywhere in all ages from middle school on up, is it no wonder we have all these issues we didn't have before? Any correlations hmmm? 🤔

Ahahaha she did it two weeks ago for the first time and she thought she got pregnant immediately 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. That really shows she was still a naive child

@robinorlowski2449

2 ай бұрын

She's supposed to be playing a teenager. There are other reasons a teenager can be 'late'. She should have taken the pregnancy test at Kelly's, the school bathroom or even Dylan's since he lives alone.

Did Brenda really think her dad would be fine with her blasé “yes, of course” 😮

I agree that teenagers aren’t emotionally mature enough for sex but I also know that it’s human nature, it’s a part of growing up and it’s a huge life lesson. There’s nothing shameful about it.

Protect your high school kids from STDs especially HIV related. And stay far from their life. Give them freedom and be their friend. With this way, you can protect them. If you want them to take sex serious, teach them, do not interfere later!

...Jim is WIRED! (1:04) ...I think we ALL agree that Jim was holding Brenda to a different set of morals than Brandon...who brought TWO Girls into his Bedroom, BEFORE Brenda!! ...It is wonderful he's actually there (and trying to be understanding), but it WAS 1991...different times, Jim...your Daughter WANTED to ...HER decision (& responsibilities), Man.... (2:53)

@svin7987

8 ай бұрын

At least he took it seriously when brand drunk drove.

Yes of course ☠️

Sex comes with many responsibilities. When you're ready to own them, you're ready for sex.

what episode is this and season

@levko2002

Жыл бұрын

Maybe, Ep 1. S2 is 100 percent.

@kathconserv

Жыл бұрын

Season 1.

@robinorlowski2449

2 ай бұрын

@@kathconserv no it's season 2 episode 1. This happened after the spring dance from the end of the first season.

The parents were right though, she was too immature for sex. I definitely agree that they shouldn’t have a double standard for Brendan and Brenda though.

I’m sorry but teenage girls are way more mature than teenage boys. They should have been more worried about their son than their daughter having sex.

@L99Kyh3r3

8 күн бұрын

Not all teenage girls are more mature than teenage boys

The comments are crazy raising a girl is completely different then a boy and teenagers don’t need to be having sex this was a horrible message to send to the teenagers

@sailorsister211

8 ай бұрын

How is it different? Do guys not get STD or have unplanned pregnancy. I know they can't get pregnant, but I always assume they can still get girl pregnant. The girl doesn't get pregnant on her own

@startracker5895

5 ай бұрын

@@sailorsister211boys parents just don’t care if their sons get teenage girls pregnant. It’s actually disgusting not to care. Babies can ruin fathers lives as well as mothers. Men have to pay maintenance for a baby they never wanted.

It’s Cindy’s fault for not putting Brenda on the pill.

@L99Kyh3r3

8 күн бұрын

The pill can cause breast cancer.

Promo>SM

utterly domineering parents

@jenniferraymond9766

6 ай бұрын

Uh, no. Parents who...God forbid...want to be in their children's lives guiding them. Do you even have kids??

@LanaDelRadioFM

6 ай бұрын

Lana del Rey is childless 😂​@@jenniferraymond9766

@startracker5895

5 ай бұрын

@@jenniferraymond9766no this was on another level! No dad should talk with their daughter about having sex. It would be humiliating and degrading for the daughter having to talk to their Dad about sex. It should be left to the mother,

@robinorlowski2449

2 ай бұрын

@@startracker5895 and what if there is no mother/the mother is not functioning? Kellys mom was drugged up when she was growing up.