Christians are Driving People Away from Church

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  • @fij715
    @fij71527 күн бұрын

    Depression and suicide are also record high. All though I’m Dutch (not american) I converted back to catholicism to escape the everlasting nihilism. If I was the last of ten people in my country to be Catholic I wouldn’t care. My soul is saved and my life is one of happiness while I see the world crumbling around me. It will not affect me because I stand on the rock of God.

  • @marcihf217

    @marcihf217

    27 күн бұрын

    I am a cradle American Catholic who didn't practice my Catholic Faith for many years. I was living a very secular, wordly life. My Catholic Faith (the way I was living it was very wordly, very Protestanty). My life was a complete and utter mess. By the grace of God (with help from our Blessed Mother Mary) I came back some years back. The closer I stay close to Our Lord and His Church, the happier and more at peace I am. The more I do what I want, what the world says is good, etc....the more problems arise.

  • @fij715

    @fij715

    27 күн бұрын

    @@marcihf217 Yes and it is better to have two faithful like you than to have two thousand of people who are there for other reasons than God.

  • @gpanthony

    @gpanthony

    27 күн бұрын

    @@fij715 Blessed are you, as a sibling in the Spirit, I pray for much peace and joy in your life!

  • @gpanthony

    @gpanthony

    27 күн бұрын

    @@marcihf217 I'm glad that you were called back and I pray for much peace and consolation for you and for steadfastness in the Spirit!

  • @marcihf217

    @marcihf217

    27 күн бұрын

    @@fij715 ❤❤❤

  • @togaplop
    @togaplop27 күн бұрын

    Father Casey. Thank you for your ministry. Making the church relatable and humble is needed to bring people back, and you do an excellent job.

  • @creativecatproductions

    @creativecatproductions

    26 күн бұрын

    Making Church relatable is exactly how the Church became irrelevant.

  • @AnnMcErlean-de4jo

    @AnnMcErlean-de4jo

    24 күн бұрын

    I love the Parables told by Jesus. They were meant for us too.

  • @user-om7mk4xf2f

    @user-om7mk4xf2f

    21 күн бұрын

    Well said!

  • @jeffhedglen
    @jeffhedglen27 күн бұрын

    I heard once that good preaching should comfort the afflicted and afflict the comfortable. This is a great video and with will comfort and afflict. Praying for you as you make bold stands.

  • @clairejagels9598

    @clairejagels9598

    19 күн бұрын

    That's a good one!

  • @apalsnerg
    @apalsnerg27 күн бұрын

    Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on us, who are sinners.

  • @theguyver4934

    @theguyver4934

    25 күн бұрын

    Just like biblical and historical evidence proves that jesus and his apostles were vegatarians biblical and historical evidence also proves that the trinity, atonement, original sin and hell are very late misinterpretations and are not supported by the early creed hence its not a part of Christianity I pray that Allah swt revives Christianity both inside and out preserves and protects it and makes its massage be witnessed by all people but at the right moment, place and time The secred text of the Bible says ye shall know them by their fruits So too that I say to my christian brothers and sisters be fruitful and multiply Best regards from a Muslim ( line of ismail )

  • @trevorleclerc602

    @trevorleclerc602

    21 күн бұрын

    What about protecting us from clergy who are sinners? Molesters and embezzlers?

  • @apalsnerg

    @apalsnerg

    21 күн бұрын

    @@trevorleclerc602 What about that?

  • @trevorleclerc602

    @trevorleclerc602

    21 күн бұрын

    @@apalsnerg It demonstrates the priesthood is corrupt. They are the sinners and should look to themselves before claiming to look after their parishioners.

  • @christopherpearson2116

    @christopherpearson2116

    21 күн бұрын

    @@apalsnerg What about 2 Samuel 24? Also - who, is the jeopardizer... At root. As for corrupt or inept priests... see also, Romans 13:1. And all cases of 'guided steps'. Setting the table is not something solely done by humans. Nor perhaps... is misplaced cutlery.

  • @bryanssuperhappyfuntime2457
    @bryanssuperhappyfuntime245720 күн бұрын

    Father Casey, thank you so much for your channel. I recently re-embraced my faith and your videos have been a Godsend to me in learning how to come back to my walk with Christ. God bless you and keep up all the great and hard work you do, you are greatly appreciated!! ✝️

  • @HokeTheDog
    @HokeTheDog26 күн бұрын

    Another elephant in the room: many Christians are low income service occupation workers who are one work shift away from homelessness. I have had employers who have become punitive when they found out why I wanted time off. It is illegal but by the time a worker wins they are often left with very little to live on and in extreme situations,out of an a place to live.

  • @eliinapajunen7500
    @eliinapajunen750027 күн бұрын

    I appreciate your points in this video. The LGBT part affects me deeply as someone from the acronym--I have had conversion therapy pushed at me, had people casually mention how "disgusting" LGBT people are in conversation incessantly, been told to keep quiet about it if I dare mention such--and I'm not even "acting on it"!! I don't even tell most Catholics I know because they can be so harsh and cruel about it--more ham-fisted rhetoric, less humanity. It's as if to be a "good queer" one must verbally self-flagellate whenever it comes up and either totally hide that side of oneself or use it to convince other queers to toe the line (ie blog about celibacy or whatever). It's exhausting! I just want to be as good as anyone else, that's all!

  • @nathanielodell2575

    @nathanielodell2575

    27 күн бұрын

    Every single one of us should be aiming to BE A SAINT. Settling for being less than that is a huge problem keeping people from the Church.

  • @eliinapajunen7500

    @eliinapajunen7500

    27 күн бұрын

    @@nathanielodell2575 I struggle to see where your point is a good faith reading of what I said? I am of *course* striving to BE A SAINT! (Aren't all of us Catholics?) That doesn't change that there are a great many Catholics that I've met who think that's not a thing I can do, merely because of things about me beyond my control. That is what I address in my comment when I say I appreciate what Father said.

  • @eliinapajunen7500

    @eliinapajunen7500

    27 күн бұрын

    I'm sorry if I sound annoyed. I am trying to see your point, but your comment isn't coming off friendly, just FYI

  • @MatrixRefugee

    @MatrixRefugee

    27 күн бұрын

    You and me both. I struggle to keep a balance between authentically living my faith and authentically living my identity. You aren't alone in this, and I'm probably stating the obvious in saying that. The hardest part is living a chaste life and that not being enough for far, *far* too many people in the Church - who don't seem to realize that we all, LGBT or het or ace, are called to live chaste lives according to our calling. Two authors have helped me out immensely: Eve Tushnet, who's written some excellent books on living an authentically Catholic and LGBT life (also some novels that would give Flannery O'Connor a run for her money, for the sheer weirdness of her characters and the situations their choices lead them into), and Dunstan Thompson, a poet in the last century who left the Church but returned and brought his partner, Philip Trowter, into the Church (I regularly ask them to intercede for me; I once even cried out to them "Can you guys be my gay Catholic dads??", whereupon, I sensed two friendly, slightly bemused presences and then felt a great peace and acceptance, as if they'd accompanied the Holy Spirit to comfort me).

  • @adinadumitrescu9784

    @adinadumitrescu9784

    27 күн бұрын

    I feel for this person. I relate to it. I'm straight but I was always puzzled why there is such aversion for the lgbt. In the way that there is no compassion for them. I suffer from a mental illness that is very stigmatised and all I desire from the others is to not vilify me, but to show compassion at least. We each bear our crosses. And I feel like people forget that working towards your salvation is a process, a journey in which Christ changes you. I now reflect of on my Christian life and for example it took 3 years of giving up an idol in my life that had been so ingrained in my personality, that when I converted it had never been even on the table to hope to get rid of it. For i didn't even know it was so grave. And quietly, God worked inside and I gave it up by my own accord after 3 years. I look with hope towards the future because God is working to sanctify us. I give you hugs 🫂

  • @kevinkirby4305
    @kevinkirby430527 күн бұрын

    4:49 I only experienced this one time when I went to a traditional Latin mass and I didn’t know how to read the misel, a young father with his wife and daughter helped me and I felt amazing. Felt like I was part of this community. We definitely need this

  • @atrifle8364

    @atrifle8364

    26 күн бұрын

    The traditional Latin Mass doesn't exist. It's the Missal of 1962. Yes, we need more community, but we need less experience chasing.

  • @FrankHannon-sv5bh

    @FrankHannon-sv5bh

    25 күн бұрын

    @@atrifle8364 This is equal parts untruthful and uncharitable, but in the context of this video, I'll give you high marks for irony.

  • @CrestviewCutters

    @CrestviewCutters

    21 күн бұрын

    The TLM community is one of the most welcoming I’ve ever experienced.

  • @monicaganderson9431
    @monicaganderson943127 күн бұрын

    I'm really lucky to have mostly met Catholics living their faith authentically at my time going to Catholic high school, it was one of the reasons I decided to convert from protestantism, witness is really powerful!

  • @cy7025
    @cy702524 күн бұрын

    Thank you, Father Casey. Spot on with #3 - Lack of Intimate Relationships. My mother passed away in July 2023. Not one person from my parish sent a card, nor called me to ask how I was doing, nor even dropped off a meal Not. One. It was painfully hurtful. I can't seem to convince my husband to leave and find a more loving parish. On #4 - the LBGT Issue. Spot on with the lack of compassion and mercy. During one homily the priest made the comment, "boys liking boys is wrong and God doesn't like it." And, people wonder why the LBGT community doesn't feel loved and cared about from those within the Church.

  • @frankdagostino9089

    @frankdagostino9089

    23 күн бұрын

    I had some cards, not many, maybe 3 or 4. As time progressed no one asked me, ‘hey Frank, let go to coffee, or Let’s do lunch or dinner. We are just adrift. Catholic are excellent with their devotions and and almost privatized Mass….I have been at my new parish 3 years. Maybe 5 people know me, I have tried to get involved in any ministry. But I just think catholics don’t know how to have real relationships with other people besides saying a “hi” on the way in to Mass. I go to Saturday vigil Mass and Sunday mornings I sometimes go to a Lutheran church just so I have community and a sense of fellowship…..after services we all go out to brunch. I can’t go often because of the distance. Nevertheless, Pleople stay in contact with me. A couple weeks ago the Pastor emailed me saying he missed seeing me was I okay. Catholics could learn a lot from Protestants. I would never leave the Church though…it is my home since birth….but like so many churches it is dysfunctional. Some places are trying to address this…hasn’t filtered down to my parish yet. I do my best and trust God…..and I have no qualms about finding community elsewhere …God made us for community and relationship.

  • @cy7025

    @cy7025

    21 күн бұрын

    @@frankdagostino9089 Thank you. I grew up Methodist and converted to Catholicism 21 years ago. I love my Church, but I do miss the community of my Methodist upbringing. It felt more like a family.

  • @anthonyterrice7

    @anthonyterrice7

    20 күн бұрын

    In y parish, the Church puts the family on a list. People bring food, comfort.

  • @Genre-zv9xw
    @Genre-zv9xw5 күн бұрын

    I grew up Catholic. I loved the old latin masses, the beauty of High Holy masses in particular, and communion especially. What drove me away primarily was the constant harping about "church authority." No one comes unto the Father but through Jesus. That's what Jesus taught. That's what the scriptures read, and I believe that with all my heart. But no one comes unto Jesus but through "the true church". That's what the church taught. That's what I learned in CCD classes. I reject that. Then when I accept Jesus as my lord and God, with all my heart and soul, I'm told I "left the church" and "going to hell?" And then a priest who I considered a friend when my mother passed away tried to "dry hump" me in the parking lot ... in front of my wife ... that kind of did it for me. Then I was told that because my wife was protestant and did not want to convert that I could no longer "by churches authority" receive communion? The one thing ... the ONE meaningful connection that I loved about "the church" ... I was "not allowed" to partake because of "the church's authority" ... not Jesus' command and in sheer spite of his invitation ... and this by a nihilistic band of child rapists? Not ALL clergy are evil ... all are sinners certainly ... but to bar me from communion when potential child rapists are distributing it was too much for me to deal with. I was faithful to my wife until the day she passed away of overian cancer several years ago, and she was always faithful to me. I raised my 12 year son as a single parent with no help from the "one true church" and now he is successful and on his own. I baptized him myself when he was first born, because no one else wanted to do it. He's not "religious" in the same way as I was when I received my first Holy Communion, but he loves Jesus in his heart and soul as I do, and Jesus loves and protects us both ... with or without "the church's authority". What the church needs to do in my opinion is stop using their so-called "authority" to be the barrier to Jesus but rather and enhancement of faith and love for Jesus. Without Jesus you have nothing and are no better than an ornate tomb filled with dead men's bones.

  • @marcihf217

    @marcihf217

    2 күн бұрын

    Jesus started the Catholic Church. You can't seperate Jesus from His Church. You can't separate the head from the body.

  • @Genre12345

    @Genre12345

    Күн бұрын

    Jesus did NOT start the Catholic Church. Don't know where you got that, but it is NOT true, never has been try IN SPITE OF CLAIMS made on Jesus' divinity who wished only to rob him of his divine authority and claiming it exclusively for themselves while attempting to impersonate Jesus while brazenly denying him and disavowing everything Jesus and his disciples taught. No power on earth or in the heavens can ever separate us from Jesus ... even if they claim to have such authority and attempt to act upon such pretentions. Arrogance will not save you, salvation is a gift from God through Jesus only so that NO ONE may boast. Period.

  • @darsisler6491
    @darsisler64915 күн бұрын

    I prayed to God to show me truth and he led me to study and know Jesus. The more I studied, the less I saw Him in all Christian churches. I love God with all my heart and I know an atheist who lives more like Jesus than many Christians. It breaks my heart to see Jesus being so ignored by the religious organizations that use his image to judge others, but they don't know his heart. I see Jesus in your heart. Thank you for giving me hope.

  • @davidjones5547
    @davidjones554727 күн бұрын

    As a 71 year old Catholic, I stopped going to church several years ago for 2 main reasons. Reason one was the priest complaining about the need for more money from the pulpit each and every Sunday. Then there was my parish priest's support for Trump and how Biden is evil and should be excommunicated from the Church. He too made this point clear to the congregation. Can we go to mass on Sunday and not be forced to hear the political opinions of the priest, regardless of whether he is a conservative or a liberal? The pulpit is not the place to engage in political discussion. Nor is it the place to be constantly complaining about money.

  • @arthurgouvet9606

    @arthurgouvet9606

    27 күн бұрын

    Yeah, ok. But what about your faith? What about the EUCHARIST ?

  • @rramrez32ja

    @rramrez32ja

    27 күн бұрын

    So equally for you and the priest... What does scripture say about idols?... DO NOT HAVE IDOLS.... for me I am republican but I even know that politics is a equally an Idol!

  • @enderwiggen3638

    @enderwiggen3638

    27 күн бұрын

    My church takes $1.8 million a year to operate. If you can’t make enough to run the building and pay it’s bills but rely on donations either you need more donors or for existing ones to give more. Otherwise the church has to get help from another parish to stay alive. The priest has to ask. In the end all will feel compelled to explain to Christ why they didn’t go every week …. Some may even lose faith for not going and end up being so shamed that they turn away from God at their time of review of their lives. None of that should matter … it’s the Eucharist and it’s healing properties that should compel us to go. The internal reflection over the liturgy. The remembrance that in spite of the pain in his death that Christ died on that cross for every bad thing you have ever done on this world and that it’s each of you who put him there.

  • @davidjones5547

    @davidjones5547

    27 күн бұрын

    @@arthurgouvet9606 I believe that my faith is good and I try to live a good Christian life even though I no longer attend church. As for the Eucharist, I do receive it when my younger brother who is a Catholic priest and I get together. Maybe I will return going to church if my parish priest is either transferred or dies. But not before that. If you are wondering why I just do not attend another Catholic Church, the answer is simple. The nearest one to where I live is a good hour’s drive time.

  • @giovannimartini6405

    @giovannimartini6405

    26 күн бұрын

    But why not simply looking for another parish?

  • @Aescobar87
    @Aescobar8727 күн бұрын

    Thank you Father Casey, “no one is defined by their sin” I recently had a priest shame, scold me, and make me feel awful. It was priest not from my parish, and had no idea who I was and the struggles and journey I’ve been on returning back to my faith. I won’t let this one encounter detour me from my faith but I did think “no wonder people are leaving the faith” I appreciate your ministry, you compassion, and your gift of explaining the beliefs of the Catholic Church.

  • @arthurgouvet9606

    @arthurgouvet9606

    27 күн бұрын

    Please, all the teachings of the Catholic church, of the Saints are easily avaible on internet. Please everyone has to improve his knowledges of the Gospel and of the person of Jesus Christ. God bless You and yours

  • @bobboscarato1313

    @bobboscarato1313

    25 күн бұрын

    I've seen some Catholic priests and some Lutheran pastors shaming parishioners. They're are doing a very bad job!

  • @user-ji1gp4is9o

    @user-ji1gp4is9o

    24 күн бұрын

    There's not more details in your post, but shame is not wrong necessarily. Some people need to hear the truth about theirs sins so they repent and save their lives. People living in homosexuality and defining themselves as that category of sin, are not on a path to salvation.

  • @Hazzard483
    @Hazzard48327 күн бұрын

    I'm a convert to Catholicism I was brought in by the intellectual tradition from protestantism when I first went to a Catholic Mass everyone is very cold shoulder and not very welcoming it wasn't until I found a TLM Parish that I felt welcomed in the community

  • @anthonytan7134

    @anthonytan7134

    27 күн бұрын

    welcome home bro/sis, God bless

  • @atrifle8364

    @atrifle8364

    25 күн бұрын

    That's falling in love with the Missal of 1962, not the Church. Protestants are abnormally attracted to the "right thinking" found in Missal of 1962 communities. If you can't feel like you can join me at a ordinary Mass, then there is more spiritual work to do.

  • @atrifle8364

    @atrifle8364

    25 күн бұрын

    ​@@anthonytan7134- The Missal of 1962 is being restricted with good reasons. Home is the feeling of walking into any parish and loving God. It is not loving a modified missal from 1962.

  • @anthonytan7134

    @anthonytan7134

    25 күн бұрын

    @@atrifle8364 I found out about TLM back in 20/21 during covid, and frankly that's the greatest discovery in my life I would argue ( like the parable of hidden treasure, Mt 13 )...now at least I can understand the meaning of worship in a Mass, not a communal celebration of Eucharist in Protestant sense. God bless

  • @hasselnttper3730

    @hasselnttper3730

    25 күн бұрын

    @@atrifle8364 You're saying they're the problem for loving the Tridentine Mass? That's ridiculous. Imagine being against a much older and more traditional liturgy... Anyways, why "fix" something that isn't broken? Why reinvent the wheel? The novus ordo is basically like downgrading from a beautiful cathedral to some sad looking commie block, and you're saying: "If you can't feel like you can join me in the commie block, then there is more spiritual work to do". He CAN, but that's just self flagellation for no reason.

  • @OliverPeabody
    @OliverPeabody27 күн бұрын

    It’s amazing how simple Jesus’ teaching was (for me, it’s basically love and forgive everyone), and how hard it is to put into practice. I ignore or struggle with it every day.

  • @zeroelus
    @zeroelus27 күн бұрын

    Thank you for pointing to the problem of the epidemic of loneliness. I recall watching a few documentaries about that here on YT (one by the channel coldfusion is one that sticks to my mind) and was absolutely torn when footage was shown of people crying distraught about how they didn't have anyone to talk to and just wanted one(!) friend, and it's important to note that most of the clips shown where pre 2020, so that was something concerning even before lockdowns and had long been coming. A solid, caring community in YOUR Church and solid sermons of a Priest connected to what's happening are critical. The church we go to is not the most convenient, nor the shortest, nor with the nicest church, but the community and the way that priest speaks and actually inspires is, to be blunt, why I stopped being a lapsed, indifferent Catholic and am happily here, never mind that it was through one of the ceremonies of Easter 2023 when I finally put 2 and 2 together and figured out I needed medicines for my mental health issues. Sadly, the tools so far in social media I think have also not really done a lot, yes they allow jewels like these videos an more effective communication and sharing of ideas, but also allow for echo chambers, extremism, partisanship and a whole lot of unsavory things. I've said it before, and I maintain in that while I am Catholic here in Mexico, I find some Catholic spaces online, specifically English ones, revolting because they are so poisoned with a toxic degree of American partisanship and if I lived abroad I do not know if I would identify as Catholic. They are not helping The Church. Thank you for these videos, and may God Bless.

  • @russellmiles2861

    @russellmiles2861

    27 күн бұрын

    With respect: I had a career dealing with such matters. There are not a few folk who se own children avoid them as they abuse them. They can be anti-social and destructive to community groups, churches, family. I use to lament colleges who suggested folk join clubs and community groups, attend mass. They only ruien such for other folk. Relationships require work, love and empathy. Folk must do the work - fortunately there are skilled therapist and community services that can help. But We just do the work.

  • @ChrisSizzly

    @ChrisSizzly

    23 күн бұрын

    I really wonder what you mean by “partisanship”. I have a feeling it involves people not being down with gay marriage or abortion, and the “non-partisans” would be people who support such evil.

  • @Wolffur
    @Wolffur24 күн бұрын

    I have some good news: We had 20 or more kids up on the dais last week getting their first Communion. We are still growing, just slowly.

  • @pipMcDohl

    @pipMcDohl

    23 күн бұрын

    Still growing but at a rate where new believers do not compensate for the loss of believers. AkA growing in a shrinking manner.

  • @Wolffur

    @Wolffur

    21 күн бұрын

    @@pipMcDohl Let us not discount the large numbers of converts and reverts. I'm a convert myself, in fact. St. John Neumann, Pray for Us!

  • @thegospelmessenger72
    @thegospelmessenger7227 күн бұрын

    I'm not a Catholic, but as someone who had doubts for many years, I wanted to say that watching your videos have strengthened my faith, led me to start my KZread channel, and truly have led me to have a closer relationship to Christ. While we may not be of the same denomination, we are both brothers in Christ. I just wanted you to know that YOU and your online ministry really do bring people to Christ. I thank God for you and pray for you every day. Bless you Father Casey.

  • @dansdiscourse4957
    @dansdiscourse49579 күн бұрын

    About the partisan politics thing...if the leadership of one party lead to an extra million people dying over the span of three years, is that something Catholics should consider?

  • @vincewarde
    @vincewarde27 күн бұрын

    If this retired evangelical minister can comment, let me say again: You nailed it Father Cole. I agree with everything you said. However, let me suggest that Catholic Priests and Deacons could learn a lot from us, without changing their theology. At the top of the list is preaching. 30+ years ago, when I was in school, I was literally taught how to preach as you outlined. Every sermon must ask and answer a question - and that question should be something the congregation is, or at least should be, asking. Every point should be an answer to the question the sermon is asking. The result is a clear. focused sermon. Does every evangelical minister use this method or one close to it? Of course not. Have I heard some great messages in Catholic churches. You bet. That said, I think that all in all, we are better at this than most priests and deacons. As for getting people connected, this is a challenge for all of us. However, small groups, recovery groups, life groups, all started with Wesley and we have been doing this for a long time. It sure wouldn't hurt is a Catholic church having trouble in this department were to ask an evangelical church doing these things well for some help and advice.

  • @russellmiles2861

    @russellmiles2861

    27 күн бұрын

    Perhaps ask a question; were you answering it. A petty example I know, but there is no list of 10 Commandments in the Bible. How many times did you refer to 10 Commandments without clarifying that the are an amalgamation and redaction from various texts: and reassemble into 10 in a non-canonical Hebrew texts. Let alone explain the secular reason that supports the choice of these Commandants or more correctly, sayings. Did you ever mention that there are over 600 Commandments in the Bible that Christians churches wisely ignore or even reject based on human ethics and reflection. Or did you lie by omission in the defence of your Faith. Be honest here!

  • @bobboscarato1313

    @bobboscarato1313

    25 күн бұрын

    Great idea; we all should learn from each other!

  • @charlier711

    @charlier711

    3 күн бұрын

    Great post sir. Although I am cradle Catholic I am always impressed at the engagement, energy, and welcome feeling I get when I go to a Protestant service.

  • @vincewarde

    @vincewarde

    3 күн бұрын

    @@charlier711 As I am impressed with the focus upon the atonement when I attend Mass.

  • @fvg6421
    @fvg642127 күн бұрын

    My first 25 years, I served as a staunch Catholic: I attended discernment but soon found out it wasn't' for me. Married as a Catholic with a tradition mass-wedding. Divorced 5-years later as a confused 'Christian'. For the next 10 years was a pseudo-Bible thumper - I gave that shot! Why not! Attended multiple Bible churches, was a touch interested in to pre-dispensation, 'gave my life to Christ' etc. You know the path of disillusionment and spiritual confusion? But once in a while I find myself attending mass. Ironically the last mass I attended was at a proper Catholic Church (of all places) Thailand! I haven't been a committed Catholic for 2 decades now. As I go forward, I somewhat feel... 'free'!

  • @carolynkimberly4021

    @carolynkimberly4021

    27 күн бұрын

    Keep going to Mass

  • @trntsllrs
    @trntsllrs27 күн бұрын

    I've not watched your videos for a while. This has brought me back. Thank you for what you do.

  • @johnparker6749
    @johnparker674915 күн бұрын

    “This is not in question, and I have no interest in challenging it” This pretty much sums up the reason the Catholic Church and Christianity in general is becoming quite irrelevant these days. The inability, or lack of willingness to challenge beliefs about God and what God “thinks” about a given topic is a stance that really has no place in a civilized society. As we learn more from science and become more rational human beings, and consequently less superstitious, this type of answer is simply unjustifiable.

  • @TheyHurry
    @TheyHurry27 күн бұрын

    Hi father Casey, can you make a video explaining the difference between Catholicism and Orthodoxy?

  • @blazel462
    @blazel46227 күн бұрын

    A couple turnoffs: 1) holier than thou Catholics. They vary in their presentation, but basically the ones who sit up front, hang out with the priest after mass, then cut you off leaving the parking lot. Another variant, the TLM holier than thou types. They think they are somehow prioritized because they attend and push tlm. 2) people don’t even shake hands anymore. Ridiculous to be so scared after all these years(or ever to have been), plus, imho it shows a lack of faith or trust.

  • @jdotoz

    @jdotoz

    25 күн бұрын

    Some of us just never liked touching.

  • @kellendobmeier9876

    @kellendobmeier9876

    25 күн бұрын

    "Holier than thou" is a bit of a blanket term that gets thrown at most devout Catholics. There are some bad apples out there who fit your description but casting the "holier than thou" net inevitably catches some people who don't belong in that category. Those who join the Catholic church mostly do so out of a desire to be challenged to grow. We must lean in to that. Standing by the teachings of the church, even when the world doesn't Iike it, will be the most fruitful method.

  • @MeowyMakes

    @MeowyMakes

    23 күн бұрын

    I completely agree with the TLM "holier than thou" crowd. Anyone that thinks they're automatically better just because they attend TLM is a HUGE red flag. Plus that pushes people away from wanting to attend TLM and ppl will keep attending Novus Ordo (which IS a legit form of mass, btw).

  • @FourEyedFrenchman

    @FourEyedFrenchman

    21 күн бұрын

    Pharisitical behavior is a massive turn-off, and it is unfortunately very prevalent in TLM parishes.

  • @dan69052

    @dan69052

    17 күн бұрын

    Don't be holier than thou; try being more knowledgable & truth tha thou If you are wondering about the question of whether your sexuality is a sin or not, I welcome you to consider the following thoughts for clarification. Let’s look at some basic fundamental facts based on extensive research & ongoing R&D. During fetal development a verity of biochemical agents are introduced which determine the total development of the fetus. Major agents such as testosterone & estrogen & a host of others agents determine size, weight, hair color, eye color & sexuality along with a host of other traits. Variations in the amount & timing of the introduction of these agents have a major effect in our development. The fetus is a passive participant & has no influence in these matters. Sexuality, for example, & all other secondary traits are thus given to us. Well, this begs the question, is homosexuality a sin. If your religion or belief system states that it is, then there can be no argument. These are the rules based on this system’s dogma. If you accept this system, you must accept the rules. This is your only choice which is condemnation. If, however, you are in a belief system based on logic, reason, observation & common sense, & no reliance on spirituality, the conclusion is totally different. Replacing ancient religion & mythology with reason leads to another conclusion. Leaving religions that use condemnation & ridicule for control, can be the first step in becoming a true human being minus any imposed or fabricated guilt. There exist many variations of human sexual expression. When you leave various ancient religious beliefs behind & chose knowledge based in research, you can see & understand the true nature of humanity. You leave ignorance, hatred, & prejudice behind. In the book Gay Straight & the Reason Why by Simon Levay PhD, explanations regarding this aspect of humanity are clearly explained & is based on research. While I am not gay, I highly recommend this book. Being gay is no more of a sin than having red hair. They are both based on genetics & clearly not a sin. There is nothing wrong with you. This is the true choice. Peace

  • @ThePhilologicalBell
    @ThePhilologicalBell13 күн бұрын

    "We encourage them to change their ways only after we have befriended them and gained their trust." In other words, wait until they're emotionally invested so you can manipulate them when their guard is down. Sounds very wholesome

  • @BreakingInTheHabit

    @BreakingInTheHabit

    13 күн бұрын

    Such a cynical way of approaching the world. Do you listen to friends when they correct you? Are you open to criticism from loved ones? I would hope so. But you're probably not open to correction or criticism from strangers. That's the point. We need people to guide us and show us the way, but we're not going to listen to random people.

  • @ThePhilologicalBell

    @ThePhilologicalBell

    13 күн бұрын

    @@BreakingInTheHabit tbh yes I'm cynical because I've been deeply hurt from buying into Catholicism's supernatural claims before. Intellectually I'm aware you're probably a good person but this whole "Just love them first and then get them to change schtick" gives me really creepy cult vibes. It's literally the plot of horror movies like Get Out

  • @ThePhilologicalBell

    @ThePhilologicalBell

    13 күн бұрын

    Actually I won't say probably, I know you're a good person. One of my closest friends is a Dominican friar and I see what anyone of the cloth goes through. It's a life of sacrifice and deep love which I have a lot of respect for. Bad people probably don't go into it

  • @kingrichardiii6280
    @kingrichardiii628012 күн бұрын

    as an atheist that first part is 100% correct. seen so many hypocrites, in public and personally. when i was raised catholic when reading of helping the poor i hear my neighbors say "the poor can't expect a hand out". when reading all have sinned there was the mega preacher on tv pointing out everyone's sins except his own, even though later he would "repent" when the news caught wind and the cameras were on. and this is what broke me and caused me to question Christianity. for a good chunk of my life i thought Christians were like the fox preaching to the geese. though my lack of belief now is more along philosophical lines of if a god exists and how we know, it was the hypocrisy that drove me away.

  • @lupea8079
    @lupea807925 күн бұрын

    People will hate christians for being hypocrites. But when a Christian lives out the faith fully as Christ wants us too. Well then they will hate you for being a dogmatic zealot. So damned if you do damned if don't. 😢

  • @karchariasameiliktos2660
    @karchariasameiliktos266027 күн бұрын

    Dear Brother Casey, I am deeply grateful for your beautiful reflections. They really moved me. For a long time in my life, I stopped going to Mass. I experienced those suffocatingly boring liturgies. It was unbearable to hear empty words in church, cancelling out all meaning and inspiration. Thank you for pointing out this problem: I feel it's an acknowledgement of what I've been through. Unfortunately, I turned my back on Christ, mea maxima culpa. This estrangement from the Mass, from the faith, had increasingly serious consequences on my life. At a certain point, the icy, despairing absurdity of agnosticism was such that I had to question myself. I found my way back to faith. Providence led me to a parish with priests who preached the Gospel with fervor and inspiration. Since then, order, meaning and purpose have returned and I feel buoyed up. I won't comment on the rest of what you said, but I assure you it was all wonderfully relevant. Thank you so much!

  • @user-wo7rz3yn4o
    @user-wo7rz3yn4o2 күн бұрын

    I never have been and likely never will be a good catholic, and so my existence is not a benefit to the church, however I am glad for the church for your existence and example. Peace be with you.

  • @cthulhupr
    @cthulhupr25 күн бұрын

    Why do most catholic channels on KZread obsess over liturgical abuses and the lgbt situation in the church? The parish I grew up in enfasized that everyone in church is a sinner one way or another. Personal sin is not a problem for the community but for the confessor.

  • @nunagoras

    @nunagoras

    24 күн бұрын

    Because, among other things, current society is great on discussing the consequences instead of the causes. The world has changed. On that I believe all of us would agree. But the world hasn't changed the way some desired or has gone too much for some to even follow... Then blame the abusers of all kind, and of course those ones whom while being a minority are sort of strange to the majority! No surprise the "resistance band" groups will regroup themselves on their little few cells, like SSPX and others. Of course they're as or even more on the minority than what they think they are and what they aim to stand against, but they can to make extreme noise...

  • @ruby07241
    @ruby0724127 күн бұрын

    My parish is small but our homilies are usually very good. I always try to complement the priest when the homily speaks to me.

  • @russellmiles2861

    @russellmiles2861

    25 күн бұрын

    I am sure your folks brought you up well. But as an aside: if my students don't react and challenge something I have said, I consider I have done poorly. I want them to think and express their ideals; not mine. When the parish priest offers something challenging, I hope we thank them too. I am confident that you would - a good example to us all

  • @PrettyGirl-un3qh
    @PrettyGirl-un3qh24 күн бұрын

    As a proud Catholic who also happens to be sexually diverse, I would like to express the following: Fortunately - no matter how hard you try - you may keep the gays away from the Church, but you will not keep the gays away from God. The fact that so many of us have held on to our faith in a loving God while being insulted and mistreated by fellow Christians seems like a little miracle to me...

  • @BreakingInTheHabit

    @BreakingInTheHabit

    24 күн бұрын

    Sorry to hear how you are mistreated but I am inspired by your faith. I hope the “you” isn’t directed at me personally, as I hope I’m doing my part to help, not hurt, but can’t say I’m perfect.

  • @PrettyGirl-un3qh

    @PrettyGirl-un3qh

    23 күн бұрын

    @@BreakingInTheHabit No, father, it was not directed at you personally, it was aimed at the cruel people out there. Keep that preaching sweet, we enjoy it!

  • @bcgarrels
    @bcgarrels26 күн бұрын

    I agree so much with everything you say. I am a member of a parish in the inner city of a major metropolitan area. We have lots of homeless and addicted people. We also have lots of tourists who visit the city and attend Mass while visiting. I can tell that many people are put off by the homeless who sleep in the pews and sometimes make outbursts due to being high on substances or mental illness issues. I understand that people visiting an inner city church when coming from a church in suburbia with none of these issues can be unsettled. But I pray that they understand these are the people Christ ministered to in his day, and that the marginalized in society are just as precious to Christ as anyone else. While I agree that you have pointed out many of the main issues facing the Church today, I think you left one big one out. That is the pitiful lack of availability to partake in the sacrament of reconciliation (confession). I know that priests are busy and have many commitments. But I am sorry, it is not enough to have confession for a half hour to an hour before the anticipated Mass on Saturday. The sacrament of reconciliation is the primary driver of our growth as Christians in my view. It also helps form a bond between a priest and a member of the parish. I cannot tell you how I wish I had a close relationship with a priest who could take me by the hand and help me deal with my sin and proclivities to sin. I go to confession often, but it feels transactional and anonymous. That has to end. I think the appeal of protestantism is that people feel a deep connection to the officiant and feel a personal connection to that person. Of course, it is false doctrine, but I understand the appeal. How do we fix this?

  • @adammalinauskas8154
    @adammalinauskas81549 күн бұрын

    Hello, I just wanted to say I appreciate your approach to this. Too often Catholics are very quick to say what's wrong with "the culture" (whatever that is) and don't do a lot of inward looking at our own communities. Seeing a splinter in someone else's eye before removing the beam in our own as it were. As a series, I think this could have been a lot longer and contain more segments considering the huge spectrum that exists between "non-affiliated" or "not going to Church" or being "areligious" and being an atheist. To me, an atheist is someone who has made the intellectual decision to not believe in God (for any of the reasons you mentioned in the other video). In my experience, people are often in a scale of belief (which includes the terms above but also such descriptors as "not Christian", "agnostic" "unconvinced" or something else. Their releuctance towards Christianity in or Catholicism in particular has much more to do with the human reasons above than any specific philosophy or ideology. 90% is failures on our part both in our contemporary Christianity and historically. God bless you!

  • @geertdecoster5301
    @geertdecoster530127 күн бұрын

    The duty of the church is to comfort the disturbed and to disturb the comfortable (Michael Ramsey)

  • @fij715

    @fij715

    27 күн бұрын

    The duty of the church is to do the will of God and get as many people to heaven as possible.

  • @geertdecoster5301

    @geertdecoster5301

    27 күн бұрын

    @@fij715 Not the Anglican Church, nor the Early Church that was once 🙂

  • @TP-om8of

    @TP-om8of

    26 күн бұрын

    afflicted

  • @ChrisSizzly

    @ChrisSizzly

    23 күн бұрын

    Anglicans don’t really get a say in what the duty of our church is, they left.

  • @martinjlord
    @martinjlord27 күн бұрын

    As a Protestant Pastor I will say we are all responsible. We stand and fall together.

  • @tx_7134

    @tx_7134

    25 күн бұрын

    My problem with Christianity is that you call yourself a protestant yet preach keep some of the doctrines and traditions such as the trinity and Eucharist that came from the early catholic church fathers, if I were catholic and believed that Christ found the catholic church and is his embodiment then I couldn't stand with a protestant because you are practicing out of disobedience to God, because you know the truth but decide to be outside of the body and preach your own interpretation via sola-scriputra, Catholicism is 100% Christianity This my outside perspective of a non christian myself

  • @lzlsanatomy
    @lzlsanatomy4 күн бұрын

    In hardcore Catholic countries like the Philippines, there's too much emphasis on worship not much about love of neighbors. I think spirituality and connection with each other is more important. I crave authentic connections

  • @matthradek89
    @matthradek8917 күн бұрын

    Before we returned to the Catholic Church, we spent a few years with a Christian church that did an amazing job with points 2 and 3. Sermons were bible led and very relevant to modern lives, often breaking down each word and explaining what the original translator might have been trying to convey. The community was warm, welcoming and very involved with their church. This church continues to grow its membership, often through parishioners leaving the “older churches”. I often how the Catholic Church could replicate this type of energy without straying too far from its roots.

  • @BertoniCostales
    @BertoniCostales24 күн бұрын

    Thank you very much for such a brave video. In my humble opinion, at least from what I see with my family and friends, you are absolutely right. Hypocrisy is what drives people away from the church. We are expected to be some kind of beacon in society, but sometimes, with very little humility, we cloak ourselves in a moral superiority that we lack and do something that is forbidden to us: judge people (do not judge and you will not be judged) without considering 'the plank in our own eye. On the other hand, sometimes I feel that we, as Catholics, get stuck halfway with some things. We focus on the death of Jesus when, in reality, the resurrection is the important moment ,we focus on sin and not on its forgiveness, on suffering and not on all the good things in life...we treat our Christianity as a burden and not as the gift that it is for us. We have also turned Christianity into a ticket to heaven, like any other consumer product: follow the commandments and you buy a ticket to heaven. I don't think life can be approached that way. The correct way, I believe, is to be consistent with our ideas, go to Mass because we want to, not because it is a sin not to go, help others from the heart, not as a burden, thank God for all the good things that happen to us, but also be humble and accept the bad with dignity, pray to God to be stronger, not as if we were asking the genie of the lamp for wishes. Best regards and thank you very much for your video, as always, inspiring.

  • @dan69052

    @dan69052

    17 күн бұрын

    Let knowledge drive out hypocrisy If you are wondering about the question of whether your sexuality is a sin or not, I welcome you to consider the following thoughts for clarification. Let’s look at some basic fundamental facts based on extensive research & ongoing R&D. During fetal development a verity of biochemical agents are introduced which determine the total development of the fetus. Major agents such as testosterone & estrogen & a host of others agents determine size, weight, hair color, eye color & sexuality along with a host of other traits. Variations in the amount & timing of the introduction of these agents have a major effect in our development. The fetus is a passive participant & has no influence in these matters. Sexuality, for example, & all other secondary traits are thus given to us. Well, this begs the question, is homosexuality a sin. If your religion or belief system states that it is, then there can be no argument. These are the rules based on this system’s dogma. If you accept this system, you must accept the rules. This is your only choice which is condemnation. If, however, you are in a belief system based on logic, reason, observation & common sense, & no reliance on spirituality, the conclusion is totally different. Replacing ancient religion & mythology with reason leads to another conclusion. Leaving religions that use condemnation & ridicule for control, can be the first step in becoming a true human being minus any imposed or fabricated guilt. There exist many variations of human sexual expression. When you leave various ancient religious beliefs behind & chose knowledge based in research, you can see & understand the true nature of humanity. You leave ignorance, hatred, & prejudice behind. In the book Gay Straight & the Reason Why by Simon Levay PhD, explanations regarding this aspect of humanity are clearly explained & is based on research. While I am not gay, I highly recommend this book. Being gay is no more of a sin than having red hair. They are both based on genetics & clearly not a sin. There is nothing wrong with you. This is the true choice. Peace

  • @weaver7811
    @weaver781127 күн бұрын

    I once tried to sit down at a sermon at my grandparents' church. Got up an left after what felt like twenty minutes of "You need to donate to the church. If you don't give us money god will make you crash your car and get your money that way." Paraphrased of course but pretty much what he was saying. It didn't leave me feeling terribly inspired.

  • @w33d533d

    @w33d533d

    27 күн бұрын

    yeah, i dont attend sermons or churches in person but i study theology and church sermons for fun sometimes, when i can stomach it, all the people i listen to preach have offended me in ways it's hard to get over and get excited about watching more of their content which i know sounds silly but i just can't get past it, when i try to watch them or listen to them again it just reoffends me. If i were there in person during such occasions they start tirades about money and ulterior motives besides talking about the scripture i wouldn't have any qualms about just getting up and leaving, i wouldn't care too much about how rude i would seem at that point, that's what i think everytime i turn off one of those bad sermons is yeah if i was there in person this would be the point i would be getting up to leave, i don't have to sit here and listen to this.

  • @Church888

    @Church888

    27 күн бұрын

    Gnarly

  • @Church888

    @Church888

    27 күн бұрын

    @@w33d533d , ask God to help you, the Church loves you ❤️ "Sermons for Sundays and Festivals" Saint Anthony of Padua Mystic

  • @suetrublu
    @suetrublu26 күн бұрын

    That was really thoughtful and hopeful. Thank you very much and God bless you! ❤️

  • @mapelp7
    @mapelp726 күн бұрын

    Fr. Casey, speaking on the topic of relevant sermons, you just gave us an excellent standard with your presentation. Thank you for being willing to act as a lightning rod in exchange for presenting the splendor of truth. No matter who gets bothered.

  • @DallasAvonJudeDeZilva
    @DallasAvonJudeDeZilva27 күн бұрын

    The true solution is rekindle the holy spirit in the Church. Not by our strength but by the power of God.

  • @ThomasBoyd-gx9wr
    @ThomasBoyd-gx9wr27 күн бұрын

    Awesome. God bless you Father Casey. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @elysiawilby4132
    @elysiawilby413226 күн бұрын

    Thanks for your content today, I think it's so relevant and so well thought out. We love watching your videos and they always inspire us to have meaningful discussions that help to challenge our 'status quo' walks. Looking forward to your next instalment ❤

  • @SteveKilgore27
    @SteveKilgore2727 күн бұрын

    With regards to the first point you brought up, in addition to cutting out gossip, one of the biggest ways I found to try and be more Christ-like is reminding myself to always give everyone the benefit of the doubt, and choose to believe that everyone is acting with the purest intentions until proven otherwise. That being said, I am never foolhardy when it comes to giving out too much trust. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but I still must be cautious, so as to prevent myself or others from being taken advantage of by someone who definitely does not have the best intentions, despite my hopes. I do not assume that someone walking behind me on a dark street on a late night in the city is a mugger, but I recognize that I must still not put myself in a situation where if that person was a mugger I could get hurt.

  • @joesouthwell4080
    @joesouthwell408027 күн бұрын

    The issues addressed here are not what the data suggests. People leave the church at around the age of puberty (12-18). There isn't a place or process at most churches for deeper questioning, or a good process of transitioning from a child in the church to an adult in the church.

  • @ChancyC
    @ChancyC27 күн бұрын

    I think the question that is not being asked is... what is more important? The number of people who call themselves Christian, or the number of people who believe in and live for Christ. There has been many years now in the West where being "Christian" was simply the default. It was what you were and what you did, but it also bread a hollow faith. Today being an open and strong Christian is unpopular and even shunned. This has indeed led to a loss in numbers of the church. But this CAN be (if handled properly) a time of renewal and growth (in REAL Christian faith). It is sad to see so many people "leave the church" but the question actually should be, were they ever actually a part of the church or just there as it was easy and what you were "supposed to do" My point? The goal shouldn't be to focus on how many people come or are "driven away." Preach the Gospel, speak the truth, do not compromise on values, and those who come and remain in the church are those who are true believers. People will seek Truth. If you aren't speaking it, they won't come to you. The response will inevitably be "but we want everyone to come to the church." The answer? Even Christ knew people would reject him. Our job isn't to pad the numbers. The Holy Spirit will do its work, our job is to be there when it does, to who it does.

  • @ChancyC

    @ChancyC

    27 күн бұрын

    Just to add for thought. If you were in a church with 500 people in 1990 and only 100 of them were truly on fire for Christ, that same church in 2024 now has 150 people, ALL of them on fire for Christ. Has your church grown or shrank? I would argue its grown and been improved, though numerically (and often financially) its shrank.

  • @vladdietheladdie7345

    @vladdietheladdie7345

    26 күн бұрын

    ​@@ChancyC hmmm, interesting point, sir!

  • @respectkindness-oj6xz

    @respectkindness-oj6xz

    26 күн бұрын

    exactly. appearances can be deceiving and bureaucracy​ doesn't prove anything @@ChancyC

  • @VojtechFort

    @VojtechFort

    25 күн бұрын

    I feel like a lot of novus ordo parishes are still filled by people who attend without faith, and these numbers are shrinking, I also think it is quite hard to become real christian here. That is why, I think, despite the restrictions, TLM is growing, and there won't go people who don't believe, why would they? For me it is sad that pole Francis is so uninformed that he keeps restricting it. TLM restrictions might not be main factor of church attendance dropping but in the video everything else was mentioned, except this

  • @davids5956

    @davids5956

    25 күн бұрын

    @@VojtechFortThere is a desire for liturgy that is more “high church” than “low church”. In the Catholic church in the U.S. the only high church option is TLM. There is no reason that the NO can’t be done more high church. “Anglo- catholic” parishes in the Anglican have been doing it that way for hundreds of years - a beautiful and traditional liturgy in the style similar to the NO. Of course, the sacraments aren’t recognized by the Roman Catholic church, but we can learn from them how to make our NO liturgy much more rich and formal.

  • @MyCatholicBookNook
    @MyCatholicBookNook6 күн бұрын

    I left my parish for reasons #1 and #5. Thank you for addressing this, I thought I was crazy! I found another parish that is closer to my age and socioeconomic demographic and it has helped so far. A big part of the problem is lack of prayer and contemplation. Weekly adoration is a must in my opinion. The church isn’t a social club, but is meant to bring us closer to God. I started to feel unwelcome once I began suffering with my health and could no longer engage in church activities because there were only active ministries and social get togethers. Any discussion quickly devolved into cultural war debates that caused unnecessary stress so I had to say enough is enough. I am cautious to be too social in my new parish, but at least it has a quieter, more prayerful atmosphere, which I really appreciate.

  • @rmglabog
    @rmglabog24 күн бұрын

    Having studied in Catholic schools, including college and graduate schools, I don't have any issues with theology or teachings. It's the behavior of priests and the administration of the Church itself which I find problematic. I have nothing against Jesus, the Virgin Mary, the Saints. I'm however doubtful about the people who claim to represent them.

  • @mattnelson9477
    @mattnelson947726 күн бұрын

    Community is huge; I’m a member of the Ordinariate of the Chair of St. Peter, and Sunday Dinner/Fellowship after Mass is one of our hallmarks. One other thing that we’re known for, and where I will offer some constructive criticism, is liturgy. Fr., I didn’t hear you mention that, but the SSPX, Sedevecantists, and other more traditionalist groups outside the Church are swelling due to bad liturgy. The “conservatism” that you seem to be critical of is part of the backlash against bad liturgy. People would not leave the Church in droves if they believed that the Eucharist was truly Christ’s Body and Blood, and as they say, “lex orandi, lex credendi.” I’m not advocating for everyone to switch to the TLM or my own beloved Mass of Divine Worship, but if our liturgies look like a cheap knockoff of the Protestant Church down the road, people will go to there. Use the full 2,000 year history of liturgical music, not just stuff from 1970 onward (most of which, let’s face it, sounds dated and isn’t easy to sing) Give communion on the tongue at a communion rail, or at least have kneelers as an option. Chant the Mass, especially priests. It’s meant to be chanted. Wear vestments that don’t look like table cloths from the 1978 edition of some home magazine. Treat Mass like the Holy Sacrifice that it is.

  • @hannahfoster5970
    @hannahfoster597026 күн бұрын

    Adding some Protestant insight here, but it's not just the Catholic Church having these issues, it's Christianity as a whole. There's been a major shift in American culture in the last 30 years towards secularism (and other places in the world no doubt). I'm almost 30 and I'm the youngest person in my Methodist congregation, and I was the first one baptized here in years from what my pastor was telling me. God bless you, Fr. Casey for your amazing work!

  • @k.c.sunshine1934
    @k.c.sunshine193412 күн бұрын

    Unfortunately, too many people are more interested/influcenced by the fallen society that we live in rather than the church. Some things do not change as prophet Isaiah highlighted when he faced a righteous Lord. Isaiah 6:5 So I said: “Woe is me, for I am undone! Because *I* *am* *a* *man* *of* *unclean* *lips,* And I dwell in the midst of *a* *people* *of* *unclean* *lips;* ...

  • @tonylopez6213
    @tonylopez621327 күн бұрын

    WoW! Beautifully articulated and could not agree more.

  • @ianwhite4615
    @ianwhite461527 күн бұрын

    Hay quick question, what is going on with upon fr review?

  • @Itakepicturesofthesun

    @Itakepicturesofthesun

    27 күн бұрын

    I think it got taken down because of copyright reasons. Such a shame

  • @seraph-8086

    @seraph-8086

    27 күн бұрын

    It's because Fr. Tuttle has been removed from the ministry for allegations against him...

  • @DayleDiamond

    @DayleDiamond

    27 күн бұрын

    @@Itakepicturesofthesun The investigations against Friar Tuttle have concluded and he has been removed from duty.

  • @Itakepicturesofthesun

    @Itakepicturesofthesun

    27 күн бұрын

    @@DayleDiamond oh, man I didn't even know about this. My goodness Tuttle has been removed.

  • @BFDT-4
    @BFDT-422 күн бұрын

    My dear boy, take care of the homeless. If the homeless are not taken care of, then what about the rest? Next, stop the exclusion practice (us vs. them). If you can't define "us" and "them" then uh-uh, we stay away.

  • @BreakingInTheHabit

    @BreakingInTheHabit

    22 күн бұрын

    I do the first and don’t do the second.

  • @mrs.g.9816
    @mrs.g.981626 күн бұрын

    I do remember how cold and unwelcoming the church of my childhood was. Yes - It's very important to have community - a church "family" - with the priest or pastor being approachable and keeping in touch with each family in the congregation.

  • @bensfortin
    @bensfortin26 күн бұрын

    After hearing this I am so fortunate to attend mass at two Catholic Churches with excellent priests. Their homilies make all the difference in the world and when I visit somewhere else I miss what I have at home. Church here in Michigan and then the virtual mass in Portlaoise, Ireland.

  • @lxlylb
    @lxlylb26 күн бұрын

    Go to the average catholic church at night and see what happens, the doors will be locked and no one there. Imagine how a person in crisis would feel standing in front of a church with it's doors locked shut. That's just one of a million issues. That's my litmus test for a church, if im there at 1 AM and the doors are locked and no one there, that'll let me know everything i need to know.

  • @Murph_gaming

    @Murph_gaming

    26 күн бұрын

    Pardon my ignorance but who is supposed to be there at 1AM? Is there someone supposed to be living on the premises?

  • @lxlylb

    @lxlylb

    26 күн бұрын

    @@Murph_gaming It used to be very common for the priest to live in a clergy house that was adjacent to the actual church but now It's a mixed bag of some priests still doing that, some having private apts/houses and some living in parish apartments that could be close or could be far away from their church. So if It was 1am and you needed help, either just shelter or counseling, unless the priest was called by a hospital to perform last rites/confession to a dying person, you could just knock and he would be there, you'd probably wake him up and he might be a bit grumpy but at least he would be there to help you.

  • @bobboscarato1313

    @bobboscarato1313

    25 күн бұрын

    @@lxlylb We used to go to a small church but the pastor lived 15 miles away as there were no cheap rentals in the area. Only option was to build and apartment on the premises. Budget didn't allow it (Mission Church).

  • @ChrisSizzly

    @ChrisSizzly

    23 күн бұрын

    We have a chapel that’s open 24 hours. Everybody knows the door code too, so we can worship all day every day if we wanted.

  • @andreasviken2949
    @andreasviken294927 күн бұрын

    I used to be atheist until my late 20s. I’m 31 now and thinking of joining the Catholic Church. I was baptized in a Lutheran church I think. I hope I can still be a part of the community going forward. I’m simply looking for structure and something to hold me accountable for my bad actions because living alone has allowed me to make a lot of bad sinful choices.

  • @carolynkimberly4021

    @carolynkimberly4021

    27 күн бұрын

    If you can, find a Traditional Latin Mass parish and talk to the priest. He will give you sound instruction and you will be received much quicker.

  • @SethNoorzad

    @SethNoorzad

    26 күн бұрын

    God bless you

  • @atrifle8364

    @atrifle8364

    25 күн бұрын

    ​@@carolynkimberly4021- That is converting people to the Missal of 1962, not the faith. The restrictions are there for good reason. Loving Holy Mother Church means more than loving an older Mass form.

  • @atrifle8364

    @atrifle8364

    25 күн бұрын

    ​@@andrirublov- There is nothing wrong with the current missal. In especially the United States there is a rebellion focused on the Missal of 1962. Those communities abnormally attract Protestants and people rejecting Vatican I and II. The "TLM" as people imagine exists simply doesn't and is being restricted for the best of reasons. If you want to convert to Catholicism find the best parish you can locally. There are plenty of orthodox priests using the current missal. Just look for pro-life events etc

  • @sandyriver4705

    @sandyriver4705

    25 күн бұрын

    @@andrirublovnovus ordo in our country is so beautiful and so reverrant as well

  • @ridetrainz8185
    @ridetrainz818526 күн бұрын

    I went from attending my local parish weekly to just sometimes and attend the TLM instead because of some the points you talked about

  • @christiandpaul2022

    @christiandpaul2022

    13 күн бұрын

    what's a tlm?

  • @TauAspire
    @TauAspire27 күн бұрын

    Excellent and relevant content, Fr. Casey! Your ministry through SM has assisted in my discerning the OFS, third order Franciscans. Whether I profess or not, your content is showing me a more clear path to a closer relationship with Christ. Thank you, young man!

  • @naturelife418
    @naturelife41827 күн бұрын

    Church is supposed to be a refuge for sinners. We have sins, if people cannot come to church with their burdens and be accepted why should they come. Be authentic first, inspire second. Trying to improve is a lifelong thing, pretending to be perfect is not reasonable.

  • @fij715

    @fij715

    27 күн бұрын

    The world is the refuge for sinners. The church is the refuge for repenters.

  • @tylere.8436

    @tylere.8436

    27 күн бұрын

    ​@@fij715 Except the ones with rainbow vestments and flags, those churches are compromised.

  • @purelysmetalnightcore

    @purelysmetalnightcore

    27 күн бұрын

    I think the problem is sinners don't want to be called sinners. Too many churches tell people they're fine the way they are and sinning the way they are so why bother going to church? Everything's fine, so you don't need to. Then these same people get pissed when a legitimate church that actually cares about the state of their souls tells them they need to actually put the work in and stop sinning because whatever they're doing (sleeping around, for example) isn't okay.

  • @user-ji1gp4is9o

    @user-ji1gp4is9o

    24 күн бұрын

    @@purelysmetalnightcore Exactly.

  • @Catholicity-uw2yb
    @Catholicity-uw2yb27 күн бұрын

    POPE BENEDICT XVI: “The Jansenist mentality presented a grim and severe face of God, very remote from the face revealed to us by Jesus. It lead to a very strict and widespread interpretation of moral life.” In the 17th century the Jansenist heresy preached a religion of fear and anguish. Priests were obsessed with “sins of the flesh.” God was presented only as a harsh and condemning judge, not as a merciful Savior and Good Shepherd. The Jansenists taught that only a few people were saved, and only the purest of souls, free of all taint of sin, could receive Communion without the fear of committing a sacrilege. New Eucharistic devotions emphasized the separation and distance between God and ourselves. St. Vincent de Paul said: “We no longer see people receiving Communion, not even at Easter, the way they formerly did.”

  • @SeekingTruthFindingJesus
    @SeekingTruthFindingJesus27 күн бұрын

    Thank you for making this video. Very much needed, currently i'm looking into churches and have been siding with orthodoxy but watching your unbiased videos reminds to me always see all the sides. Pray for me, and God bless.

  • @PuppyLuv2504
    @PuppyLuv250419 күн бұрын

    Love your video and I could not agree more with everything you said. Let's control the things we can and help reduce the amount of people leaving the church.

  • @sylviamontaez3889
    @sylviamontaez388927 күн бұрын

    i used to despair over declining mass attendance, but now i dont. why? because upon this rock jesus built his church. for as long as we dont give in to despair, the gates of hell will not prevail. for there are already signs of growth and revival, such as increased baptisms in france for the fourth year in a row since 2020, and record breaking attendance at easter in the uk

  • @AallthewaytoZ2
    @AallthewaytoZ227 күн бұрын

    Something is going on and people can sense it.

  • @JackMathewson-ls4oi
    @JackMathewson-ls4oi16 күн бұрын

    When you said, act like him and people will come my body literally shivered in agreement.

  • @maramiguel7310
    @maramiguel731027 күн бұрын

    Father , my sister once told me she is hesitant to go to mass because the priests' homily is all about politics ..politics..politics never related to the gospel nor how to enriched her faith. 😢 She told me because of that , she listens to a different teachings of other Christian faith though she looks forward that one day she will be back attending the Roman catholic mass once she discovers a priest does not tackles about politics . I understand my sister very much because I myself is not interested to hear politics on a Sunday mass.

  • @delizzadavila3657
    @delizzadavila365726 күн бұрын

    I love your clarity and compassion ❣️ You remain in my prayers Fr Casey🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @DarthHLT
    @DarthHLT25 күн бұрын

    Glad to see that he is healthy, but sad at the same time that the other chanel Upon Friar Review is gone and that all the Videos are "deleted" / dissapered. Pity...

  • @amberjulia123

    @amberjulia123

    24 күн бұрын

    It’s bc Fr Tuttle was removed from ministry due to sexual abuse. Info about it was released on April 4th of 2024. An investigation was done and the allegations were determined to be true. The victim is receiving counseling at this time. It doesn’t state the age or gender of the victim.

  • @Wolffur

    @Wolffur

    23 күн бұрын

    There was a scandal involving Fr. Tuttle, and although I enjoyed Upon Friar Review myself, it doesn't look good to have been seen with him.

  • @sylwam09
    @sylwam0927 күн бұрын

    Thank you Father, one member of my family is contemplating leaving the church. It is a big problem world wide

  • @LahBT575
    @LahBT57518 күн бұрын

    The 4th one is such a BIG problem! I'm not mentioning the LGBT precisely, but this judgmental behavior that so many christians have! I had a very similar debate with a friend of mine, who was exactly doing that. Belittling sinners. So I told him "and what Jesus said when he saved Mary Magdalene? John 8:7-11, Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her" And Jesus himself, didn't condemn her. Jesus taught us to embrace sinners, and not only throw rocks at them. Through compassion is how we can show them salvation

  • @eagleswings5693
    @eagleswings569327 күн бұрын

    If a brother or sister be naked and in lack of daily food, and one of you say unto them, Go in peace, be ye warmed and filled; and yet ye give them not the things needful to the body; what doth it profit? Even so faith, if it have not works, is dead in itself.

  • @vex1669
    @vex166924 күн бұрын

    "Hey, let's gain their trust before telling them their sexuality is evil." What you call compassion, sensible people recognize as abuse.

  • @user-ji1gp4is9o

    @user-ji1gp4is9o

    24 күн бұрын

    The truth should be stated outright and that is that homosexuality is a sin. It is not an identity or type of person and then you can be Christian. It's just a sin plain and simple, and people want attain eternal salvation unless they stop it.

  • @vex1669

    @vex1669

    24 күн бұрын

    @@user-ji1gp4is9o You can believe whatever you like and I simply don't care. I care about actions and Father Casey encourages emotional abuse in this video, which I find simply abhorrent. And you seriously wonder what drives people away from your kind...

  • @BreakingInTheHabit

    @BreakingInTheHabit

    24 күн бұрын

    The “abuse” you speak of is calling someone to morality. It is not belittling or manipulating anyone. Our world is so far removed from any sense of personal morality that correcting another is now seen as abuse.

  • @ChrisSizzly

    @ChrisSizzly

    23 күн бұрын

    Love involves telling people the truth. If we are not sharing the truth of the gospel, we are failing at our mission. Repentance for sinful behavior is the bare minimum, and it is not impossible, it’s actually really easy when you understand why we are called to live chaste lives outside of Matrimony.

  • @vex1669

    @vex1669

    23 күн бұрын

    @@ChrisSizzly I get that this is what you believe. But as there isn't sufficient evidence for any religion, I'm a non-believer. What do you think your claims of truth and holy mission sound like to me? And to give some context: In my country there's about four million more non-believers than catholics.

  • @joepugh678
    @joepugh67827 күн бұрын

    Fr I live everything you have just said. When I was young I was all into building Parish community. I got involved in several initiatives and formed some beautiful friendships along the way. But the groups never lasted. I had hoped that the Holy Spirit would fan into flame our efforts, but that never seems to happen. I'll keep showing up a church, maybe God will let me into Heaven anyway.

  • @silvanahurtadovares1528
    @silvanahurtadovares152824 күн бұрын

    Ok, I got you....months looking for an answer and this has been the most clarifying 10 minutes of my last 3-4 years. The Holly Spirit is with you in every podcast (...or He led me towards you?). Please keep doing these videos. ¡Muchas gracias Padre Casey!

  • @kevinomahony4139
    @kevinomahony413925 күн бұрын

    "For a world that is becoming more and more sympathetic to LGBT issues, attitudes like this will drive more and more people away". Is the church there to accommodate the worldview or the change the worldview by offering a different one?

  • @user-ji1gp4is9o

    @user-ji1gp4is9o

    24 күн бұрын

    The problem with these heretical "priests" is they have already accepted people identifying as homosexual/sodomites, or in other words sinners. These sins are not immutable traits. So the "priests" are supporting them labeling and identifying themselves as sinners then telling others to accept them and be nice. That is wrong. Those people unwilling to change are on their way to hell and treating them in this manner will not save them.

  • @PhryneMnesarete

    @PhryneMnesarete

    22 күн бұрын

    “By their fruits you will know them.” The Church’s lack of respect, tolerance and compassion for LGBT people drive away those who possess those virtues. The fruit of this is that the Church is diminished. The faith fades. The priesthood vanishes and borders of Christendom shrink. That fruit seems to me to be a clear judgement on the Church’s present teaching on LGBT issues.

  • @franco1481
    @franco148127 күн бұрын

    I think the main reason I became an atheist was because of this; religion just felt fake the way it was preached to me. It took me years to see how nourishing it can be for people when done right, when done with love. While I remain a complete non-believer (Now for deeply personal reasons), I wish you the absolute best and hope you continue on your mission. I love your content.

  • @fij715

    @fij715

    27 күн бұрын

    I reverted back from atheism to Catholicism. The nihilism will do the same to you.

  • @ianhepplewhite4328
    @ianhepplewhite432825 күн бұрын

    Father Casey - this is a great observation, and as someone who is considering conversation (after many Pentecostal years) its a welcome comment ... I've been going along here in the UK to weekly Mass for a couple of months now, and our priests preaching (we have 3!) varies greatly, but I suspect the 'togetherness' is perhaps the most noticeable by its absence, and events to break down barriers that appear thin on the ground. Its not putting me off though, lol!

  • @yeetmaestro575
    @yeetmaestro57526 күн бұрын

    A lack of community, especially for those under 30 and not in college has been the hardest challenge for me since I converted two years ago.

  • @GodsLoveandGrace-dl8yt
    @GodsLoveandGrace-dl8yt25 күн бұрын

    I have mixed feeling about declining church attendance over the decades. As much as I would like to see the church grow, we shouldn't be too concerned about number alone. I think it is more important to have smaller congregation that is serous about their faith than to have large numbers of seat warmers who don't live the Christian walk during the week. Even though church attendance might be small compared to 100 years ago, who we have left are more likely to be dedicated. It's easy for people to say they are Christian on a census form, but how many of them have made Jesus Lord of their life compared to those who tick the box because they go to church once a year or believe that their might be a mysterious God somewhere out there. For that reason, I'm not that worried about what the statistics say, but it does concern me however that their is increasing hostility towards God and his church. It is a shame that many people have become discouraged these days. Church should be a place where people want to flock to for the right reasons.

  • @rhwinner
    @rhwinner26 күн бұрын

    I don't know the solution, but I do know watering down the gospel is _definitely_ NOT the answer.

  • @stephenandersen4625

    @stephenandersen4625

    21 күн бұрын

    Living the Gospel is.

  • @smpark12
    @smpark1226 күн бұрын

    This is an outstanding video that touches on so many important points. Thank you Fr. Casey!

  • @mssixty3426
    @mssixty342627 күн бұрын

    Well - - I started a scathing comment after hearing the first part of your video, then I cut it, and decided to listen to rest of your comments. I stand corrected. I must say - the three Priests from Nigeria and one from Mexico in our Diocese are exactly what you are asking for. We are blessed in our poor state. Blessed be Good!

  • @pineapplesoda
    @pineapplesoda27 күн бұрын

    Amen! The church needs about 10,000 more priests like this guy.

  • @RPlavo

    @RPlavo

    25 күн бұрын

    Good luck!

  • @irishman5562

    @irishman5562

    25 күн бұрын

    If we don't confront the sin isn't that the same as condoning it?

  • @RPlavo

    @RPlavo

    25 күн бұрын

    @@irishman5562 well yes, but we don’t agree on what should be confronted first….after abortion of course first, then?…..sins of the flesh? Fraud? Violence against children as in war? Clergy coverup? War? Instigating an insurrection against lawful authority?

  • @anthonyhulse1248
    @anthonyhulse124827 күн бұрын

    Excellent video.

  • @BreakingInTheHabit

    @BreakingInTheHabit

    27 күн бұрын

    Be sure to watch the other part!

  • @rob9495
    @rob949527 күн бұрын

    I needed to hear this today. Thank you!

  • @Jasminestealth1
    @Jasminestealth127 күн бұрын

    just curious does someone have to approve your videos before you can post?

  • @michaelgeorgio7780
    @michaelgeorgio778026 күн бұрын

    While I agree with the premise of Father Casey’s message, I’m finding a growing Church. I recently saw extraordinary increases in adult Baptisms. A Diocese in the Dallas/ Fort area reported a 70% increase. Other Metropolitan areas like Charlotte, NC and Orange County, CA saw significant increases as well. We need to grow even more and that takes all of us.

  • @Jake_Frac
    @Jake_Frac27 күн бұрын

    As a 32 year old former Catholic, I really appreciate your honesty and willingness to be self critical. You hit on a lot of reasons why I believe in God, but can't support the religion. The hypocrisy and LGBT issues are really hard for me to overlook. That being said Christians like yourself make me believe that maybe someday I can find myself back supporting the church.

  • @user-ji1gp4is9o

    @user-ji1gp4is9o

    24 күн бұрын

    There's no eternal salvation for those in a Church moving in a direction that accepts sin. Rather conform to God's will and Commandments. Don't try to find "priests" and "churches" that j justify homosexuality sins.

  • @Jake_Frac

    @Jake_Frac

    24 күн бұрын

    @@user-ji1gp4is9o you really got to ask yourself what kind of god says love between two consenting adults is a sin? I can't square it in my mind. If it is what stops me from being welcome in heaven then so be it. I don't do what I do and believe what I believe for the reward of heaven. I do those things so my conscience can rest at night.

  • @mario352
    @mario35225 күн бұрын

    Do you still do upon friar review?

  • @kentd4762
    @kentd476225 күн бұрын

    Thank you, Fr. Casey, for your thoughtful and honest video. God bless you and your ministry.

  • @terencef999
    @terencef99927 күн бұрын

    I contend we could keep current and attract new people if we just smiled and said hello to those around us. I am not kidding.

  • @kajerlou
    @kajerlou26 күн бұрын

    I'll never forget the Knights of Columbus summer trip I took when I was 11 years old. The main attraction? Stone Mountain, a Confederate memorial for Stonewall Jackson, Robert E. Lee and Jefferson Davis. It was on that trip I lost any pride and joy I had ever had in that organization.

  • @userJohnSmith
    @userJohnSmith27 күн бұрын

    Fr. Casey, one of the biggest issues I wonder about is when I watch old movies people always seem to have had a personal connection with their priests. We're about the same age, I think, and even though I went to Catholic school and was involved in that community I think I met my priest twice outside of Mass.

  • @BreakingInTheHabit

    @BreakingInTheHabit

    27 күн бұрын

    Part of the problem is that over the past 60 years the number of Catholics has gone up and the number of priests has gone way down. We are stretched way too thin and can't be as present to everyone anymore.

  • @userJohnSmith

    @userJohnSmith

    26 күн бұрын

    @@BreakingInTheHabit Yeah, I know but I'm going through premarital right now and have yet to meet with our priest. This is at a relatively small parish where there might be three couples going through at any given time. I know you guys are stretched but that feels a little off.

  • @CaptainGrimes1
    @CaptainGrimes117 күн бұрын

    I can't believe what Father Patrick did, it really made me question who to trust in the church 😔

  • @BreakingInTheHabit

    @BreakingInTheHabit

    17 күн бұрын

    Remember that you don’t actually know what Fr. Patrick did. Don’t jump to conclusions.

  • @christiandpaul2022

    @christiandpaul2022

    13 күн бұрын

    what did he do?