Note to self: If his showing you he has money; yet is spending YOUR money..RUN!!!

@zarasbazaar

4 жыл бұрын

They didn't know he was spending their money. They thought he had invested it for them.

@Jen1112111

4 жыл бұрын

you need to rewrite what you just said

@sirnathanstorernbsn

4 жыл бұрын

Lovie Smith EXACTLY!!

@danielobara4692

4 жыл бұрын

@@zarasbazaar those women were blind. All women are blind when it comes to love.

@agathapoirot5373

4 жыл бұрын

@@danielobara4692 And men.

big props to the guy who searched him up and found him as a runner. Scammed the scammer. You love to see it.

@Gizmos457

3 ай бұрын

Hi what's this called please see I can look it up.

@susanmoorhead8762

2 ай бұрын

I assume he went to jail or prison for a hood long time. He certainly was crafty and convinced many who were needy and vulnerable. The man in London who “smelled a rat” with Hammish was the smart one… skeptical. There are female scammers too, who go after men with money. Maybe a widow or divorcee. People want to believe in a charming man or woman. They are flattered, and maybe feeling lonely. One of you mentioned making a lot of money before making a commitment. Smart idea, but if a single snd young woman got pregnant in a first marriage with her spouse, it’s really important that she gives her child a secure environment and access to mommy. I know we are all different, but most if us don’t have that kind of money. I guess the scammers wouldn’t get interested. Never tell a new man how much you have, especially if you have a lot. That’s like catnip for a scammer!

@theobservereffect33

2 ай бұрын

He has a good friend.

Had a boyfriend in college who "borrowed" $5 here, and $10 there. When the total got to $50 and he had never paid back a dollar I ended it. It's a sign of disrespect in my opinion. I consider that my $50 lesson that I've never had to repeat.

@GUITARTIME2024

2 жыл бұрын

50 measly bucks? Lol. I bet he was testing to see I you were a keeper. You failed.

@dimmacommunication

2 жыл бұрын

@@GUITARTIME2024 Not really, depends on situation . I had a friend flashing expensive clothes , I have this I have that blabla... Always freeloading , hey do you have 5 here , 5 there... you just recognize the pattern when you are alert. The eyes never lie. If you are asking for 10 bucks while you have 400€ shoes and you always brag about money you should give me a reasonable explanation.

@GUITARTIME2024

2 жыл бұрын

@@dimmacommunication point taken.

@dimmacommunication

2 жыл бұрын

@@GUITARTIME2024 Sorry if I wrote a long post 😂

@GUITARTIME2024

2 жыл бұрын

@@dimmacommunication lol

What stays most with me is the goodness of the one woman whose neighbor paid off her 8 figure mortgage and was willing to await payment when she sold her home. That depth of kindness is wonderful, they were not asked but learned of the dilemma and offered. I feel so bad for men and women wanting no more than to be part of a couple and end up swindled.

@learningenglishthroughtran8540

Жыл бұрын

7 figures

@KJ-lb4tj

Жыл бұрын

@@learningenglishthroughtran8540missing the point.

@charwest9449

Жыл бұрын

He may have done it out of the goodness of his heart, but he likely also didn't want the property values to fall in his neighborhood. And he knew she was good for it, and would repay him upon sale. If the bank foreclosed, it would be sold for a much lower price.

@kimthreadgold2755

Жыл бұрын

Real wealth

@JBizzle123

11 ай бұрын

Right! I had major brain surgery & my neighbors didn't even offer to bring up the trash bin from the curb! Lol 😂

What I’ve learned after my own share of mishaps, is you never tell someone specific details about what you want in a partner. I always say, “I know exactly what I want. I’ll allow you to show me the qualities you have as we progress”. That way, they can’t shape themselves into the image of the person you’ve shared with them, they have to present the true qualities they have. Listen twice as much as you talk.

@samoriab5999

4 жыл бұрын

Thats why you are single

@sarahd1457

4 жыл бұрын

@@samoriab5999 There is nothing wrong with being single.

@samoriab5999

4 жыл бұрын

@@sarahd1457 thats why you are single..

@sarahd1457

4 жыл бұрын

@@samoriab5999 And that's exactly what I want, hun.

@samoriab5999

4 жыл бұрын

@@sarahd1457 I dont believe you, hun

To all the folks who have been scammed out of money, please do not beat yourself up, these people are very good at their game, and know that the humiliation does go away. Went through something like this and it made me a stronger person.

@ericephemetherson3964

2 жыл бұрын

Karen Lowe owned a multimillion dollar mansion after the marriage breakup. And where the hell did she get that mansion? Of course, from her ex-husband whom she conned in the divorce process. She met Hamish bacause she was greedy, too.

@christinemomy8018

2 жыл бұрын

@@ericephemetherson3964 so youre aware of the divorce settlement? Or are you divorced and bitter?

@ericephemetherson3964

2 жыл бұрын

@@christinemomy8018 Neither one. I have never been married. Never sought to marry any member, saturated of lying and exclusively self-mariginalized, deception infested society of opposite sex.

@kutie216

Жыл бұрын

@@ericephemetherson3964 Most women who have wealth got it from their families or from their ex husbands. I’m a woman and I know that is true for a fact. It’s kind of embarrassing for them admit to being scammed by some random dude who showed interest.

@ericephemetherson3964

Жыл бұрын

@@kutie216 We are all random.

I had a housemate like that. Put on his suit every day to go to his “job” at KPMG. One day I came home early to find him on the couch. I called reception next day and they’d never heard of him. We kicked him out and I only lost a few hundred, but if it weren’t for instincts and swift action it could’ve been worse. Beware.

It’s when I watch programmes like this I’m glad I’m paranoid 🙏🏼

@donnakerr4997

2 жыл бұрын

Yes ,paranoid and poor too.

@unknownpatriot7426

2 жыл бұрын

@@donnakerr4997 😂😂😂😂

@precisiont5188

Жыл бұрын

Crooks like him make women paranoid which makes it difficult for ethical men to gain their trust.

@Liverpool5095

3 ай бұрын

Then you're seeking out something to back up your ignorance. These are ultra rare situations. It's like me seeking out and watching all the many videos online of dogs mauling little children and then saying "This is why I hate dogs and dogs are evil". Same mode of oversimplified ignorance.

@KOBA971

3 ай бұрын

The best comment 😂

Thank God the man with the disabled child got his money back

@AamyieEcker

5 жыл бұрын

Mary Wilson he scammed the scammer. Love it

@jamesrandy8298

5 жыл бұрын

that guy with disable kid... sorry too said.. he also a Ex scammer... google research it up u find him..

@yukiefromoz2573

5 жыл бұрын

@@jamesrandy8298 Nope, did not find anything on Simon Shone. Post a link.

@vanidaknutson4616

5 жыл бұрын

But the money he was scammed out of was someone else's money. At least it was put to good use. I'm sure the victims wouldn't mine it was for the disabled child.

@marywilson4938

5 жыл бұрын

@@clt5991 , they didn't get their money back, if they did that would have been great too! However, we are thankful the man with the disabled child did.

My heart broke when the first woman’s son said he wanted to know if Hamish ( the fugly casanova) faked his love for him. 💔💔💔💔

@katarinanoren2867

4 жыл бұрын

Clown World devastating 💔 I feel sad for his girlfriend too who were groomed by this ugly old man. I kind of feel sorry for the women too, it’s easy to say “ I would never get caught up in such a scam “ when you are not in their situation. I think it’s easier than we want to believe.

@clownworld3913

4 жыл бұрын

@@katarinanoren2867 Groomed, big lol. She thought she had snagged James Bond.

@katarinanoren2867

4 жыл бұрын

Clown World a very ugly James Bond 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

@brettholt6277

4 жыл бұрын

All of us with a soul felt the same way.

@hoosainsalie7106

4 жыл бұрын

@will lol exactly was thinking the same thing

Hamish is a total sociopath. period. I'm happy these women at least escaped from him and found the truth. Court Systems need to put people like this away for a long, long time to stop them from damaging others.

@billmiller3425

Жыл бұрын

I agree and they should also lock up the MEN!

@onidoremc9490

10 ай бұрын

Damn smart conman

@leoniea138

7 ай бұрын

He is going to be more clever when he is out of the lockup....then make a grand comeback with a better scam....there will be foolish women falling again...

@AK-xj2di

4 ай бұрын

​@leoniea138 sadly yes😢

Casanova? He doesn't deserve a second look!

I cant even trick my girlfriend to buy me large pizza with three toppings.

@gladgirl9918

4 жыл бұрын

wadi gaji 😂😂😂 🍕

@georginamannor4373

4 жыл бұрын

😀

@sallybasto1930

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@crackerjack_1390

4 жыл бұрын

Learn how to put it down really really good and they will do anything for you. Lol

@wadisanaa

4 жыл бұрын

@@crackerjack_1390 lol glad she is not reading this

He got jailed for 16 years yesterday. Justice!

@bosbosloo780

5 жыл бұрын

Waarom what about the victim money? Can they get some back

@paulrussellevans

5 жыл бұрын

Not long enough by far he'll be out in no time :( He is truly the worst kind of criminal, as soon as he's out he'll be right back at it, it's what he does :(

@myunknownland9272

5 жыл бұрын

Ruined lives for 16 years

@alihs1

5 жыл бұрын

I would do 16 years for 70 million

@nostromov7892

5 жыл бұрын

@@alihs1 Nah, people lose their minds in prison (no matter how cushy, behind bars).

He is a narcissist, no empathy and no soul. I hope these ladies can find peace and move on and have a good life

@deekircher21

2 жыл бұрын

More than a narcissist, he’s a psychopath

@SeaTeaSnow

2 жыл бұрын

Psychopath… narcissists tend to be pathologically insecure, angry, malicious intentions to bring down others.

@christar9527

2 жыл бұрын

Probably a sociopath. Didn’t they say that he took on different personalities along with the aliases? At any rate he was very manipulative and had zero remorse or concern about anyone else.

@ericephemetherson3964

2 жыл бұрын

Karen Lowe owned a multimillion dollar mansion after the marriage breakup. And where the hell did she get that mansion? Of course, from her ex-husband whom she conned in the divorce process. She met Hamish bacause she was greedy, too.

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat

Жыл бұрын

@@ericephemetherson3964 . Are you Karen's ex-husband? You seem to have a real 🐝 in your bonnet about her.

I'm one of these women... just a different conman!!! Thankyou for sharing ladies... you've no idea how much hearing you sharing means to me. I pray that your lives are beautiful from here on in....A xx 🙏💜

@melanieah5501

2 ай бұрын

So am I. Conned out of £10k through threats and controlling & coerced behaviour. He was a professional petty criminal and scumbag.

Hamish should run for government. He wouldn't feel out of place.

@proudbluestaterful

5 жыл бұрын

espec not as a repubican

@judilynn9569

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, many politicians are, indeed, extreme narcissists. NPDs crave the limelight and power.

@victorialadybug1

5 жыл бұрын

Or a corporation.

@sengoma8638

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@wernerserieux9801

5 жыл бұрын

I totally agree!!!

When a man doesn't introduce you to his family, his siblings and has no friends... Ladies : beware.

@kiput3647

5 жыл бұрын

what if you have none

@wonderwoman1199

5 жыл бұрын

@@kiput3647 no colleagues you can get along with? No friend from work? Then you are anti social and shouldn't be with s lady coz you'll torture her. And instead should get a dog. Peace

@jackiehammond5231

5 жыл бұрын

Wonder Woman good advice!

@onkgopotsejita2934

4 жыл бұрын

Many people like that around Wonder Woman, they are called hermits or recluses they are either woman or man though.

@gavinslater2047

4 жыл бұрын

wow you are so right

A TRUE gentleman NEVER asks for money. Never.

@urbanyouths

Жыл бұрын

Ok, simp.

@sheldonpearce2365

Жыл бұрын

Dahm right bruva

@urbanyouths

Жыл бұрын

@@sheldonpearce2365 The supreme gentleman doesn't pay for anything and allows the free liberated womyn to.

@pearlrodrigues372

Жыл бұрын

This is true, real men work 6 jobs to earn their own money, they'll never ask money ever from someone they love.

@dianachin4849

Жыл бұрын

Never talk about money in relationships

These women were seduced by his status, and his projected affluent image. If he looked poor , I bet they would not given him the time of day.

@Splits-man

3 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately you are correct.

@mariamacebekhulu2629

3 жыл бұрын

Well said

@ezza1236

3 жыл бұрын

And now Every man after this will be blamed

@denaupton8789

2 жыл бұрын

What a crock! The women are the ones who had money. They were after a relationship

@nickisnyder3450

2 жыл бұрын

None of the woman he went after were poor....or he would not be interested in them. Yes he had to appear to be rich to be in their class....but these woman were not after $

Poor Women 😢 What wonderful neighbours to help the Lady not lose her house. ❤️

@ethanricafrenteyamammoto647

3 жыл бұрын

That’s how sophisticated the rich can be when your In trouble, I bet she does not even have to pay any of it back”. 🎈 Instagram ARTISANAL ARTISTIC ARTIST

@graguitar6493

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing poor about them. They were targets as they were shallow gold diggers in the 1st place

@omara4726

2 жыл бұрын

@@graguitar6493 finally someone with common sense

@CJ-nz8it

Жыл бұрын

@@graguitar6493 how are the women hold diggers when they had loads of money to start off? Typical man victim blaming as usual

@tee228

Ай бұрын

pretty sure she took that house from her husband through a divorce

Messing with a person’s heart is the worst, not the money. These ladies were vulnerable and sincerely thought they had found a good mate. Being conned out of money is just pouring acid on a wounded heart. Glad to see them helping each other to heal.

@t.j.7789

2 жыл бұрын

I don't really think so! Beck KNEW something was going on or was OFF with him having coffee in coffee shops with her son's girlfriend!!! She felt something was off. You can get over someone "messing with your heart." If you really NEED that money to live, I think that's worse!!!

@lilmar1710

2 жыл бұрын

@@t.j.7789 oh shut up

@ericephemetherson3964

2 жыл бұрын

Karen Lowe owned a multimillion dolar mansion after the marriage breakup. And where the hell did she get that mansion? Of course, from her ex-husband whom she conned in the divorce process.

@Froggie757froggiefroggiefroggi

2 жыл бұрын

It is the money because it wreak their life!!u get over broken heart!

@ericephemetherson3964

2 жыл бұрын

@@Froggie757froggiefroggiefroggi Greedy women do not deserve to be sorry for.

Soooo, we're just going to skip over the fact that this man is a child predator?? 😐 I get that the main story is him scamming women/people (and I don't know if the age of consent is that young where they're from), but everyone seems to be overlooking something that's also pretty serious and really sick. 😒

I always question people's motives when they're around me. When it's too good to be true, I tend to run away as fast as I could.

@sugakookie6303

Жыл бұрын

Yep, I can relate, when they fall “in love” in less than a week…and oh can I borrow a bit of money for my dog’s surgery… 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

The world is run by remorseless psychopaths like this specimen.

@janetcampbell9286

4 жыл бұрын

No he's a narcissist. They love themselves, put blame on you if the relationship becomes shaky & they feel that if you are naive enough to trust them, then you deserve the con that they run on you. They leave a wake of financial & emotional devastation. If he was also a psychopath, he would have physically or psychologically tormented or threatened her and/or her son! psychopaths sometimes attempt to cover up these cons with killing the women! She's fortunate that he didn't do that as well!

@fredlachy

3 жыл бұрын

Not approving of what he did. But where did these single mothers get there assets? Divorce raping an ex husband.

@HeatherDMorris

3 жыл бұрын

@@janetcampbell9286 I agree . He is a narcissist not psychopath

@HeatherDMorris

3 жыл бұрын

@@fredlachy maybe they worked to get it ..like I do ?

@coiledsteel8344

3 жыл бұрын

Men AND Women

I don’t see how he passed for 41. He clearly looks at least 50. I guess people will believe what they want to

@shecoop6633

4 жыл бұрын

Kristen C exactly! Minimum 50.

@sensimania

3 жыл бұрын

Some people don't age that well. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@ThorBB

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. It is not uncomon for a lot of women to accept almost ANYTHING when she realize he had a lot of money

@sbtopjosh7841

3 жыл бұрын

Yet women believed him. You women are too emotional sometimes you look past the face.

@largol33t1

3 жыл бұрын

Which is probably why he was able to swindle so many people.

Don’t ever feel silly, you are dealing with a type of intelligence that is beyond our understanding. A master manipulator. By the way, I simply love Henry! What an unpretentious person! For a rich guy! She should marry him

@mkast2815

2 жыл бұрын

So she could do to Henry what Hamish did to her?

@bojangles2492

2 жыл бұрын

@@mkast2815 that is not what she said, I don't know how you interpret it that way.

@lvega5606

2 жыл бұрын

I kind of think it's counterproductive to call these criminals "intelligent." They're morally bankruptcy, not intelligent. They don't think better, they think in a distorted way.

I am 76, have owned my own companies, traveled the world and been engaged 5 times. I just cannot say "I do!", and they were all good men. The one thing that would have saved these women was in realizing that all the feeling of "love" is nothing more than a chemical reaction we cause in our self. It is the same reaction you get from chocolate, ice cream and many other things. It works when you like something enough to keep repeating it. Same reaction you get with drugs. Your body releases endorphins, dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin, which together, make you feel very happy. So what we call "love" is not real. It is what makes the rest of the relationship that is real. To know you have a "real thing", you have to get past what you believe to be "love", as it simply is not real.

@myrnagrijalva3042

2 жыл бұрын

I have been hurt so much, primarily because I refused to see the red flags and did not bother to ask God if it was the person he had created for me. However, just as miserable I have been, how much hurt and disappointed I've been through, I believe good people exist, and love is real

@charlottebruce979

2 жыл бұрын

How cynical!! love when real is better than chocolate and drugs, its actions of care, respect and shared interests and values. Maybe you have never been in love?

@fredahwiwu5219

2 жыл бұрын

So spot on its all a chemical reaction which tricks you to behave stupidly

@szuszapatagonia1130

Жыл бұрын

@@charlottebruce979 May be you missunderstood Marlene Funk ? She didn't say love = chocolate, etc. She says: "It is what makes the rest of the relationship that is real."

@cor3944

Жыл бұрын

She is referring to the chemical action of bonding. That’s why in earlier times a young woman always had a chaperonne and never get bonded before marriage.

My wife’s brother borrowed $300 from me 30 years ago. Within a month he paid back $200 of it. Still owes $100 and I’ve never said a word but I’ve never borrowed any more money to family or friends. It was the best $100 I’ve ever lost. Let this be a warning to others.

@michaelsciberras4303

3 жыл бұрын

Same think happened to me

@PInk77W1

3 жыл бұрын

Smart

@tanit7741

2 жыл бұрын

Why didn’t you just let him have it

@GUITARTIME2024

2 жыл бұрын

You screwed up. You should have demanded that 100. Its about respect.

@fredahwiwu5219

2 жыл бұрын

Clever

Scammed the scammer! that's a beautiful thing, well done!

@padmasalam5267

5 жыл бұрын

Cracker Jack yes indeed! Sometimes you have to play the fool, to fool the fool, who is trying to fool you. Poetic justice I suppose. Oh! jolly well!.............xxxxxxxxxx.

@debadev2179

5 жыл бұрын

That’s the best .

@keyboardwarrior4859

5 жыл бұрын

Spoiler alert

@Coco_au

5 жыл бұрын

Cracker Jack I highly recommend for you to watch a Bollywood movie it is called Ladies versus Ricky Bahl, scammer and scammed women’s drama, I felt like I was watching that movie in different version.

@crackerjack5210

5 жыл бұрын

He has just been sentenced to a minimum of 12 years in prison.

You can see how the son was even incredibly charmed by him... so sad :(

How Tracy believed he was 41 is beyond me 😳

@user-oe1mb9hu9i

7 ай бұрын

Gold digger ... YES she was conned, but as you say; she fell for the 41 lie and the cars and luxury life style and she said it herself, HE was her future !!!

@FM-jo1jh

7 ай бұрын

@@user-oe1mb9hu9i she had her own money, maybe she wanted an equally successful man but I don't think she was a gold digger per say. He was dying his hair too so likley why she belived he was only 41. I wouldnt know that's what someone looks like in their 40's and I'm in my late 20's.

@user-oe1mb9hu9i

7 ай бұрын

@@FM-jo1jh Sorry miss, but you've just opened up a whole new business for me ! Making young 20 year old women think I'm 41 by simply dying my hair !!! LOL. Unfortunately for me, the young women in my neck of the woods all know what a 40 to 50 to 60 year old looks like. Don't you have parents ?

@KonstantinaVlahos

5 ай бұрын

@@user-oe1mb9hu9iher future - using her own money. She thought she’d found a solid, caring and equally hard working partner

"He's a dick....don't you think?". Best line in the documentary. And yes, I do concur sir!

@thriftflipfire3501

8 ай бұрын

Agree!!!

@Heal..Restore..Moveforward

2 ай бұрын

He said it as it is.

@BEAUTYnIQ

Ай бұрын

the way he said that was way cool..!

my dad always told me to never give a man money.

@stacey4u2luv

4 жыл бұрын

@Jones Jones I always told my 3 sons to treat women as ladies, to treat them right, pay for dates, get to know them, do not rush things and at the same time beware of users and abusers and women that just want to take them for a ride. When younger that education comes first before women. That they have to take care of themselves first because if they don't nobody else will. Plus, to never rush into fire and get to know someone well first for many reasons i.e. scammers, users, disease etc....

@bhuvvai5491

4 жыл бұрын

Sweet heart he is training u to become a gold digger...get money..only inflow..no outflow

@imfunaplaymahgames8880

4 жыл бұрын

SEVEN WILLIAMS you’re dads absolutely right!!

@danarmando537

4 жыл бұрын

What about orgasms?

@rosemariemcgowan6388

4 жыл бұрын

Your Dad sounds a sensible man x

Boy he got them Chucky eyes! 👀 what the hell u mean “it was those eyes 😍”?!!

Thank you so much Simon and thank you to Simon's friend Steve, two of them really did some due-diligence , good friends do that, we protect friends to ensure that no one will take us like a fool. Thank you SIMON and STEVE !!!!!!

He found woman who were just getting out of divorces, very vulnerable. They probably felt beating up by the divorce and here he comes swoops in to save the damsel in distress...🤷‍♀️

@tee228

Ай бұрын

clearly they werent beaten up by the divorce if they had 100s of thousands to lose

Omg . His stepsons girlfriend . So sickening. The poor woman . He not only betrayed her but her son as well . Sickening

@annaesmaili4867

5 жыл бұрын

Kevin Burrow A 16 year old girl ?? Are you being serious ? He’s a grown granddad ffs . He has the responsibility to decline any acts of foolishness on the girlfriends part . No typical sleazy sickening act of a sleaze bag old man . And a man does all the chasing . Woman don’t chase men , in this case 16 year old girl doesn’t chase older men . No the older men bring her into this by showing off with their wealth and being flash . She’s a young girl . Inexperienced. So yeah his fault all the way . Sickening !

@user-rn3bb3dj4p

5 жыл бұрын

@Kevin Burrow typical of women, chase the glitz and glamour

@annaesmaili4867

5 жыл бұрын

Kevin Burrow Yes I understand this . I think that the money will turn heads from any woman at any age .look this is the sons mother who is telling us this . So even though she was a mature woman she had her guard down . Imagine a 16 year old !? No I wouldn’t dream of sleeping with my boyfriends dad even if he had all the money in the world . It’s not he done thing . It’s creepy

@agg5984

5 жыл бұрын

@Kevin Burrow he groomed that child.

@andrewparry1474

5 жыл бұрын

Wasn't just the 16 yo girl. Perfectly happy to drag all these kids into it without any conscience what so ever, even a disabled kid, needing an operation. Couldn't not be a psychopath!

This proves love is a temporary stage of psychosis

Narcissists mirror their targets, that's why it's easy for people to believe that they are in love with them. They pretend to like what you like etc. However, the mask always falls off at some point and you get a glimpse of the true evil that they are. Very sad!!😭😭

@caroleminke6116

11 ай бұрын

It’s exactly like a hall of mirrors & they just look for those who will also mirror them in return 😂

If a woman has low self esteem or going through a low period, she may open herself to predators such as this. Family and friends sometimes can not even break the grips of the predator on her. 😞

@koketsophalane3915

5 жыл бұрын

pinkivy93 ud be suprised on how slick this ppl are..high self-esteem or not,they will get through to you

@celinamilian

5 жыл бұрын

Bulls hit, greed makes you open up

@soniag4516

4 жыл бұрын

True that. My mother had passed and my dad was in a tragic accident leaving him a para-plegic. I was clinically depressed and only 20. Here came this male gold digging moocher convinced my sister that he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. She arranged my marriage and within 10 years he wiprd me out, my business two homes and other assets devoured by him and his family from India. After three children and 8 more years of abuse I walked away with my children, a broken down vehicle, thousands of dollars in debt, my body too sick to work, no friends nor family who would stand with me i started crawling out of the deep hole. That was 25 years ago now life is great again and I'm a grandma of two absolutely adorable girls who I love as the apples of my eyes. None of my kids talk to him or have seen him since 1998.

@pinkivy93

4 жыл бұрын

Intruder naw......... These women already had money but I can see your point. However, some women who have low self esteem are not exposed to supposedly rich men like this. They will take even the poorest specimen of a man if he says and does the right things.

@pinkivy93

4 жыл бұрын

Sonia G Women are so much stronger than they think that they are. Men like this break down women to their very core and rebuild them to not see their horrible flaws. Thank goodness there is always a flicker of intuition and fight down in a woman’s core. I am so glad that you survived and prospered with a happy life.

I wish they had interviewed his parents since they're both still alive, and I wish we had more inside information about where he came from, how he grew up, siblings, former schoolmates, etc. .

@samlsd9711

4 жыл бұрын

why? All what he did has nothing to do with his parents.

@HypnoticHollywood

4 жыл бұрын

Conmen find influence in themselves, not their family.

@persephone2706

4 жыл бұрын

Yeesh, the dude was just wondering how this man actually grew up.

@carriemtsh9648

4 жыл бұрын

Try would be interesting to get to the root of his behaviour

@zikebucan1785

4 жыл бұрын

Sam LSD of course your upbringing plays major role in how you behave as an adult, you idiot

He looks 60 years old not 41???

It was super cringe when they pulled up his picture and she drooled over his "beautiful eyes" I'm sitting here like 0_o to each their own

@tanit7741

2 жыл бұрын

He looks Neanderthal

@amber40494

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think she drooled, she just remembered the feeling and probably secretly wanted to vomit.

the WORST thing that you can steal is someone's heart!!!! nasty piece of work that man

@studiobencivengamarcusbenc5272

5 жыл бұрын

Jean and women never do that - they are all divine these women neither have taste nor intuition - the guy looks like a snake

@888alp

4 жыл бұрын

STUDIO BENCIVENGA Marcus Bencivenga 🤣🤣

@kristinburton4953

4 жыл бұрын

I'd rather have a broken heart than a broken bank balance. You need cash to buy a tub of icecream to help heal the heart. I'd rather someone leave me broken hearted than unable to afford the icecream to get over it.

the most dangerous kind of psychopath, smart and with great charisma.

@roshnirandhawa5238

4 жыл бұрын

Add good looking and they're deadly

@floraelizabeth1589

4 жыл бұрын

My ex exactly.

@denniero6904

4 жыл бұрын

@Tien Hoang exactly. The true psycho's are on top positions. Snakes in suites.

@agathapoirot5373

4 жыл бұрын

@Tien Hoang Absolutely. The one sitting at the White House and his minions : narcissistic, megalomaniac sociopaths

@samdobie6748

3 жыл бұрын

@@denniero6904 True psychopaths can be found in anywhere

This kind of story is a million dollars lessons for anyone. Much appreciated for delivering this story.

Men like him don’t work alone . If he’s conned investors out of $70 million and more , then there are a few people in the operation , who are the brains & he’s the hustler . He’s also the ‘fall guy ‘ . I wondered be surprised if he didn’t stay that long in p.rison . He probably has quite a few million stashed away , like the Cayman Islands or Jersey .

Henry was a gem. Best part of this documentary.

@nnj6918

3 жыл бұрын

Thank God Karen had some real friends

@pallabidutta968

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah with his English humour.

The funny thing about all this is that if he had just actively invested the money he was pilfering he probably could have become what he was pretending to be.

@taitjones6310

5 жыл бұрын

@Jerry Rawlings umm, everybody is pretending. That why is called "playing a role"

@poonambhatia3627

5 жыл бұрын

Talt Jones He probably is.Some people get a kick out of ripping someone off.And these ladies were asking for it!They didnt have much between their ears, did they?

@DeniseEggertwaterlily

5 жыл бұрын

@@poonambhatia3627 I wouldn't be that hard on these women. They all had been in broken marriages or broken relationships; they were grieving the loss of their relationship and they were feeling lonely and alone. Con men usually swoop in and and take advantage of those who are in a vulnerable state. These women might have been programmed that they were of less value, without a man. They could've been programmed to find a man ASAP to be fulfilled. When I announced to my parents that I was going to nursing school to become a professional nurse, they told me that I needed to find a husband , get married, and have children because I was an old maid of 21. I didn't pay any attention. I have always been a nonconformist.

@realtalktina

5 жыл бұрын

How would you have actively invested the money?

@olympiaziermann8608

5 жыл бұрын

I don't think anyone can legally invest money without identity 🤔🤔

People like him rule the world because there emotionless and relentless. It’s the simple survival of the fittest rule, and these sociopaths are the most advantageous nature’s mutation for our modern human society.

@pa4765

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, that certainly is the scary truth which is why I place my faith in God and not in the world.

@anti-ethniccleansing465

Жыл бұрын

@@pa4765 Yeah, I place my faith in the tooth fairy. It helps me a lot to be delusional and bonkers.

We all need discernment in relationships.

Keep him in prison until he gives up the money, forever if needs be.

@JamConcerned

5 жыл бұрын

Probably in an offshore account or a Swiss bank account. The Swiss probably having billions of unclaimed funds

@nostromov7892

5 жыл бұрын

@Lynette Scribner Even if the government "finds it" they won't report it (all?) and -find a way to- keep it, because it's Australia. xF

@AB-lq1zd

5 жыл бұрын

@Lynette Scribner He got 12-16

I don’t trust myself with my money let alone a stranger.

@yesandno000

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@Nothingsofar123

3 жыл бұрын

😆 right!?

@mona.shaaban

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@jayangli

3 жыл бұрын

haha same

@christisgodd

3 жыл бұрын

Anybody can be scammed even you .

Omgosh! I sat through this glued to this video, and then the last three minutes there is no sound????? WTH?

@cherylween4973

6 ай бұрын

Oh really? I thought there was something wrong with my phone or earbud! I'm glad I saw your comment to explain it.

When your man sends you videos calling you •my love” or “my wife” it might be because that video is getting sent to multiple women ;-)

@Ohkeh640

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha yup

@marcusp905

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree with this my love

@tanit7741

2 жыл бұрын

Damn

@shuga682

4 ай бұрын

Very true

I’m glad Karen had a wealthy neighbor to help her. What an terrible loss that would have been

@joeydelrio

3 жыл бұрын

thank the Lord she didnt have to sell her multi million dollar mansion and go live in a home that would have still been way more than the rest of the world.

@grahamdowdell4356

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah so glad she got to keep her $11M house.

@ericephemetherson3964

2 жыл бұрын

Karen Lowe owned a multimillion dollar mansion after the marriage breakup. And where the hell did she get that mansion? Of course, from her ex-husband whom she conned in the divorce process. She met Hamish bacause she was greedy, too.

@antzpantzz8490

2 жыл бұрын

Obviously her wealth didn't come frome good business acumen. I would have smelled a rat immediately upon hearing his investment proposition

@ericephemetherson3964

2 жыл бұрын

@@antzpantzz8490 I do not trust one single woman in this world.

If you have money, alot of it, beware of strangers who are a little too friendly.

With this much charisma and talent with convincing people, he could have truly made money/wealth, legitimately!

A methodical thought through process, the antithesis of the scammer. Simon and Steve turned the table.

"Hamis" means "fake" in Hungarian.

@southwoodside

5 жыл бұрын

Hamish is Gaelic for James.

@Girl-101

5 жыл бұрын

mackenzie I never knew that, I should due to me being Scottish as Gaelic is spoken in parts of Scotland! Back to school for me...🤓🤓

@dannyswift6519

5 жыл бұрын

@@southwoodside yes same as sheamus in ireland gaelic

@southwoodside

5 жыл бұрын

@@dannyswift6519 Seumas is the nominative case, Hamish is the vocative case. Strictly speaking a person ought to to be referred to as Seumas when discussing him, and addressed as Hamish when talking to him, but, in Scotland the English version is almost always Hamish. Weird.

@southwoodside

5 жыл бұрын

@@Girl-101 Yes. Alasdair is the Gaekic for Alexander. Iain is Gaelic for John. Rory is an Anglicised version of Ruaridh, which means Roderick. Calum is Gaelic for Malcolm. Mairi or Mhairi means Mary. Sine, or Sheena, translates as Jean.

The people who were scammed were not stupid. That scammer was a manipulative pro.

Very interesting documentary. Frightening how you can be duped. My mum always said to me if it seems to good to be true listen to your instincts.

Tip to lonely ladies: con artists who are psychopathic or antisocial will con you out of money and scam you in every possible way. Love is a good excuse to steal from you.

Ladies! Ladies! Ladies! Alarm bells right from the start! Such perfection *DOESN'T EXIST!*

@catherine9808

4 жыл бұрын

The Fab Chef 😂😂😂😂😂

@justme4609

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, it does. Just not for you.

@claudiahasievera4636

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@samoriab5999

4 жыл бұрын

Secret: you can't tell em that...they would rather die single than believe that.

I've always said that a beautiful smile can be the most deceiving thing a person can offer you, because you never know the true intentions behind it. A a multitude of sins can be hidden behind the most beautiful charming smile.

@lillianlilo7447

5 жыл бұрын

Like many others I too have a beautiful smile. I also have morals, ethics and integrity. To say that people with a nice smile is deceiving is the biggest judgement call I've ever heard.

@prayerpower1585

5 жыл бұрын

@@lillianlilo7447 Antoine said a beautiful smile *can* be the most deceiving thing a person can offer, not that it is or always is. You should take his words to heart, lest you be susceptible to being conned by someone with a beautiful smile, assuming they have morals and ethics and integrity just because you have those qualities and also have a beautiful smile.

@prayerpower1585

5 жыл бұрын

Truth

@mariamacebekhulu2629

2 жыл бұрын

Well said

This should be teached on school, not only how to stay away from drugs.

Women fell for THIS GUY??? LOL

@JulieMorales-kp4yc

2 ай бұрын

I don't get it.

@natachaganthier5837

Ай бұрын

😅😅

Classic narcissist. If someone seems too good to be true, they probably are.

He called himself Mr. James at The James hotel 😂😂😂 I’m weak afff !!!

@rosarioperez7509

5 жыл бұрын

It’s his narcissism move. Agree as he’s a bit full of himself only laughing at his own joke.

@chickwithaguitar6876

4 жыл бұрын

What an EGO! Lol.

@katarinanoren2867

4 жыл бұрын

Constance Weaver brilliant guy that Henry 😂😂

@WisdomTooth1987

4 жыл бұрын

I'm mr. Hilton .

@Litetorture

4 жыл бұрын

Okay!!!! Mr. James!!!! FLATLINES!!! LMAO!!! The only men who can get a dime from me are my two suns and they don't even ask-they work!!!

After watching this, my heart truly aches for those victims. This dude was just so cold-hearted and greedy.

@jovitavillalpando9127

6 ай бұрын

It’s not his fault he only does to them what they let him do to them

@rebels42wynn83

6 ай бұрын

@@jovitavillalpando9127 -SO TRUE ON THAT!!!!

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat

6 ай бұрын

​@@jovitavillalpando9127. Jeez. Can you hear yourself? Unbelievable.

While it’s terrible that these folks fell victim to this con man, it’s important to remember that while $100 000 is a lot of money for most folks, a lot of these women are from families in a league of they’re own where $100 000 is only a drop in the bucket.

36:24 „We scammed the scammer!“ Well done!

@jillsmcfarland2001

3 жыл бұрын

With friends from Goldman sax its doable.

@charithelson7203

3 жыл бұрын

Imagine how much luck they had to locate him just by looking up large Australian events?

@pinkyyyyyy05

3 жыл бұрын

😆

@joydot7620

3 жыл бұрын

British men. Pay attention.

Max 41? Omg he looks 60!

@googleuser2609

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah he probably lied about his age.

@dwayneevans683

3 жыл бұрын

Not necessarilly some people age badly! Ive seen one of my classmates a few years after we left high school he look like he was 40 years old, and he was only around 18 years old! He look like he was drinking heavilly and smoking , so this just made him looking even older!

@happydayz7857

3 жыл бұрын

His wrinkles are deep set and if he’s 41 he looks really bad. Maybe he spent some years on the street homeless. Very worn down skin on his face.

People have actually died in plane crash and 9/11. How could he even make that story up? Its disrespecful and disgusting.

I love how at the end, the two girls refer to themselves not as victims, but survivors... Very powerful.

I love Karen's friend Henry. WHAT A BLOKE

@jackiehammond5231

5 жыл бұрын

Jessica Blundell my Too!

@sallybrite1530

4 жыл бұрын

With $ signs in his eyes. I get that a desperate, middle-aged woman could fall for all that. But a guy?

@peterflanagan5901

3 жыл бұрын

You like him for ££$$€€

Nobody should sign a paper before or without reading it, even if it is somebody very close to you, you always have to read what you sign!

@katarinanoren2867

4 жыл бұрын

Agustina agree although she assumed he was working for the bank who issued those documents. It’s always easy to be cautious after the fact. Poor women.

@agustina3493

4 жыл бұрын

Kat Kat OK but no matter what, even if it’s your father or somebody close to you, we should read documents before signing, no matter what!

@annie_xo

4 жыл бұрын

So true. I know a man who was conned by his own daughter and her husband because he trusted them and didn’t read through a contract they set up for a shady property investment thing. Cost him several thousand euros he’ll never see again.

@brooklynn52dee38

4 жыл бұрын

Agustina,, Hindsight is 20/20, easier said then done. Not all are as perfect as you come across to be.

@claudetteearle3052

4 жыл бұрын

Listen. If it involves my home or money. I'm not giving over anything or putting my name to anything, especially if it's substantial, that I've not taken some time to look over, so he would not have bothered with me. He'd have left me alone. Because I don't believe in mixing up my finances with anyone, except the bank and I would visit the bank so I know I'm in the right place. He'd be charming and I'd be just as charming in telling him how I operate. I suppose I might also have missed good opportunities in the past because of my oh, so cautious attitude. I'm one of those people who would rather give money, than lend, so might have given him some money if he needed it, which couldn't be much because, as I'd see it, he's not my responsibility; furthermore, I don't like men who 'eye up' women's money, especially if he's not bringing anything liquid to the table, I wonder about their self-respect as a man....sorry...I consider these things. Perhaps too cautious, come to think of it.

His steps son’s girlfriend, flicking a 16 year old on the bum with a tea towel 🤢🤮. I am single since my covert abusive ex husband eventually moved out with me paying half his rent. It’s all my low self esteem that stopped me getting involved with someone else. I have 2 girls. I was paranoid. It is so horrible- it’s no win. I would not date. Women who accept they are worthy of a decent relationship in their new life are then used by a disgusting individual.

This is an example of why we should not be flattered by words, looks, and most importantly money.

As a young girl, my father was never around so to have someone coming in my life, being that father figure all for a scam would be devastating. I hope that disgusting manipulative man gets what he deserve and pray that the family heals from all of it

@cheanarchist2381

2 жыл бұрын

Yer those poor boys dealing with that scum bag , would give anyone trust issues , & even coming for his own girlfriends total scum

@Dragon_rls

2 жыл бұрын

Hamish is my personal hero.

@agbangbekelvin7938

Жыл бұрын

😳

@dianekeegan5250

10 ай бұрын

​@@Dragon_rlsdo explain why please

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat

6 ай бұрын

​@@dianekeegan5250Rather NOT hear from another nut

My heart breaks for this mom of 3 boys and all the others he scammed. It's scarry that people like this man live among us, and most of the times they camouflage well, by the time they are being exposed damage is already done.

@tomerph

5 жыл бұрын

Atheist Mommy you can thank god u weren't scammed oh ~~~wait a problem

@unavailble2024

10 ай бұрын

​@@tomerphjudgemental much😂

@ruthiesmith6770

7 ай бұрын

WOMEN WHY ARE YOU SO DESPERATE ! CHECK THEM OUT FIRST

@Chief_Brody

6 ай бұрын

*scary

@8PMFORMULA

6 ай бұрын

She had a good husband and betrayed him. Don't feel sorry for her.

Karen Lowe owned a multimillion dollar mansion after the marriage breakup. And where the hell did she get that mansion? Of course, from her ex-husband whom she conned in the divorce process. She met Hamish bacause she was greedy, too.

There's a lot of image-conscious self-delusion going on here. He dressed up in a suit, rented flash cars, apartments, and that was all women needed to see. As soon as Tracy saw him in prison clothes, all her emotions for him were gone - how telling. In other words, she fell in love with the window dressing.

@El_.5794

9 ай бұрын

Yeah, unfortunately most shallow women tend to admire the outside appearance of a flashy lifestyle, a good talker and attractive personality . They love that in men first, somebody who can sweep them off their feet in the extravagance and over spending without knowing and realizing it’s all their money that was spent

@assmonkey9202

3 ай бұрын

Facts 0 sympathy for any of these dumb women

@sunnyday8254

3 ай бұрын

"..... falling in love with the window dressing"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@pauletterhamjus3933

3 ай бұрын

That and losing all her money.

I love these women's supportive friendship SO MUCH! From victims, to survivors, to advocates for one another and others as well ❤️

@muzwot9603

3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't go as far as to say that they deserved it, but they CERTAINLY asked for it by being so gulliible and status driven (perhaps not the sixteen year-old girl though, she can be forgiven for her inexperience).

@bstr-ey6wl

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🙏

Why would you give your life savings to man you dating!?

@leviathanrising9763

4 жыл бұрын

thats why men dont marry anymore, great point!!!

@alphamasaf154

4 жыл бұрын

Did she say 320$ that's not worthy life savings unless I heard it wrong

@TrueCrimeReport

4 жыл бұрын

Because she a gold digger that got conned

@Jez2008UK

4 жыл бұрын

For services rendered ?

@miriamhavard7621

4 жыл бұрын

You must be YOUNG.......

When it said he was 41 I laughed. He looks 60. How could an attractive young girl fall for that?

@cool_cat007smoove3

5 ай бұрын

Money can do magical things. 😮😮😂😂.

****I wish there was a website where these crooks and conmen could be listed along with proof. This would mean women could go and check new partners' so-called details****

@HughBond-kx7ly

3 ай бұрын

Yes why not.There was a U/tube channel for sex offenders in Aus called MAKO but it got pulled for some reason.

I feel for Bec's son. He was deeply hurt

@huzcer

3 жыл бұрын

Hamish was tappin that tight piece

@annrrf1464

3 жыл бұрын

@@huzcer loser

@huzcer

3 жыл бұрын

@@annrrf1464 you've hit the wall hard I'd say invisible woman

@annrrf1464

2 жыл бұрын

@@huzcer I can tell your dad did the same to you.

@huzcer

2 жыл бұрын

@@annrrf1464 take your noxious and dry wizard's sleeve elsewhere

The hurt in that young guys heart has made me tear up

Mr James...The james Hotel. That got me ROTF😂😂

Everyone needs a friend like Simon's.

Guys like this make it harder for men who actually respect women and want to treat them right.

@emailfromme4275

4 жыл бұрын

Do you know where to find those men?

@peskyfly6087

4 жыл бұрын

@@emailfromme4275 I'm one of them, but already married.

@TrueCrimeReport

4 жыл бұрын

No he makes it easier, just be a bullshitter

@felixfox5806

4 жыл бұрын

Life's for living as well as for learning.. my advice... Learn hard

@felixfox5806

4 жыл бұрын

@@emailfromme4275 yeah their with Peter pan

When I was young and my daughter was 13 or 14 I had a lot of men wanted to date me but I kept thinking yeah it’s no me you want you want my daughter

@sherahm.inspires9969

3 жыл бұрын

Or both of you

@ethanricafrenteyamammoto647

3 жыл бұрын

“That’s the way they are, SIN”. 🎈 Instagram ARTISANAL ARTISTIC ARTIST

Such an amazing documentary ❤ thank you, greets from Europe 👏🏻

My mom was robbed for almost 450,000. Men like this need jail. Permanently

@samanthanelson5143

Жыл бұрын

Why? She's an illiterate. She doesn't get to be rewarded with strife for being an arrogant illiterate.

@jjsquirdlesupastar3875

Жыл бұрын

@@samanthanelson5143 who is illiterate

He's a plain old narcissist. They don't have empathy, they don't feel empathy like us normal people. They're what you call people without a soul. They say that some of them turn out to be like that because of childhood sexual abuse where their emotional development is stunted and never grows past that age. And some become high level conmen, some become scumbags who just take advantage of good people in relationships, one after another.

@nicnaciswacp920

5 жыл бұрын

Ok Dr. Lol

Now people talk about Nigerians involve in dating scams however this dude from Australia acquired over $70 million over the course of his quest in swindling money from women across the world.

@RibbonVintageGirl

4 жыл бұрын

Don't forget Anna Delvey

@SuperKwame1

4 жыл бұрын

Whites were doing it way before some Nigerians copied it! Con in English not Yoruba or Ebo!

@SuzLa1

4 жыл бұрын

@PearlPerlita Venegas Watch Scambait Central. They try to meet the scammers.

@Badrobot1500

4 жыл бұрын

@PearlPerlita Venegas Not true as some do.

@bobsmith5441

4 жыл бұрын

@ejiro okri We're all people. Good and bad everywhere. Don't fall for this tit and tat on race. Rise above it.

When someone always talks about their achievements, its a sign that they're faking it. Real success speaks volumes, you don't need to speak for people to tell that you're successful.

To Bec's son.....you are more of a man than Hamish.......even at 16.