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@Priya-hi6mk

2 ай бұрын

i feel so bad cod him

@nishantkk1177

Ай бұрын

Bro, when you felt disrespected you should have conveyed that in words. However, you leaving was not big deal it is part of growing together in relationship

@callmecynthiaa

Ай бұрын

Can I date him? 🙋🏻‍♀️

@Candiosd

19 күн бұрын

This is why you don't trust southeast Asian women. As an east Asian, we know what they're like.

@rebecavc2071

18 күн бұрын

He was beginning to dissociate at @12:05 . You guys need to have a counsellor on set for things like these, it's extremely irresponsible to put people in such vulnerable situations without a trained professional to help manage when things go south. This is coming from a therapist myself. Please.

bro's face and demeanour totally changed after seeing her phone. He was ready to cry. Sad to see that shit ngl

@pikes-ten

2 ай бұрын

all hopes for the date had left this body at 10:22☠️

@30__

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bro was going through it

@mattdubs357

2 ай бұрын

She was playing him and laughing in his face, I'd be fuming

@snobel0

2 ай бұрын

You get that knot feeling in your throat. It’s brutal

@ibrahim_-_-_

2 ай бұрын

fr man

She’s a walking red flag. Trying to excuse her actions on technicalities yet lying to the other person about the status is hypocrisy at its finest. This is why “situationships” gotta go, they really just be excuses to play with the others feelings

@ibrahim_-_-_

2 ай бұрын

shit’s haram for a reason 😂

@stantwice3629

2 ай бұрын

she’s pathetic like actually. girls like this will play in peoples faces when they clearly need more internal work.

@dieauferstehung

2 ай бұрын

a 304 that runs back and forth ew

@Rudi_Mentary723

2 ай бұрын

Yup ....the streets it is ! Typical though. Not surprised. Pretty common among the so called modern women.

@FledgedPhoenix

2 ай бұрын

Yup situationships and friends with benefits only benefit women because they have carte blanche to any guy possible. Guys are too desperate they'll date someone who is taken already.

I really hate this type of girl, like nothing can satisfy them they always want more. She even pulled the “situationship” card and completely invalidated my man’s feelings. He deserves better.

@danhewit

19 күн бұрын

She’s 21 and wait once she hitsw 25 -27 the 304 gna hit the wall

@user-sm5vo7ob9x

17 күн бұрын

Onlyfans and a bunch of cats waiting for her no doubt

@TrueRattlehead

15 күн бұрын

​@@danhewitand believe me she will be dming him 😂 I just hope he learned his lesson

@lesterdiamonds27

12 күн бұрын

This type of girl? This is all women!!

@pol581

6 күн бұрын

Fr lmao all fun n games ​@@danhewit

That’s not sadness man that’s anger that’s just an unreal level of composure!

@DegenerateHour

19 күн бұрын

I don't even think it's anger. Bro's perception of the world was just shattered and he needed a moment. 😭

@StrikerEureka85

19 күн бұрын

sadness and anger often go hand in hand

@AdoptedPoo

18 күн бұрын

@@DegenerateHour he got blackpilled

@sanhcman666

9 күн бұрын

Vulcan anger. Man, that reminds me the chapter of Archer and sobek arguing about finding the bombers. The vulcan was enraged AF.

pulling that card was a blessing in disguise, saved your time bro, she just wants to have fun

@Candiosd

17 күн бұрын

Her face is out in public. She's going to face a lifetime of embarrassment now that everything was on video. Lmao

@TrueRattlehead

15 күн бұрын

everybody is going to remember this and probably keep her in the "fun only" category

@ryanlak1234

4 күн бұрын

@@Candiosd I hope so- she honestly deserves it. Every man who wants to date her should watch this video.

Damn when she deleted messages no wonder the guy was fucking pissed off

@ibrahim_-_-_

2 ай бұрын

ong bruh 😂

@suavetony

2 ай бұрын

@@ibrahim_-_-_😂he was cooking

@ConfusedConure

Ай бұрын

He got so upset with the ones he read, imagine if he read the ones she frantically deleted…

@vsmith5949

Ай бұрын

Those were nudes…😳😳😳

@superrich8187

Ай бұрын

She wasn’t deleting message she definitely was deleted pics or videos of her spread eagle for Malibu Chad, Jersey Mike, or tyron future 🤷🏽 it is what it is

One look at this guy and you can tell he's sincere, serious, and nice. She KNEW she was leading him on just enough to efficiently use him for everything she can. I hope this follows her the rest of her life as if it were in her LinkedIn. Venomous woman.

@michaelscotthawthorn7871

13 күн бұрын

This is why body count matters. Never waste your time with a woman who sleeps around, they have no value.

@lesterdiamonds27

12 күн бұрын

This is all women get over it!

What makes me so angry, is the fact I've had conversations PAINFULLY similar to this one, and the girls all tend to react the same as this one, they act as if they're the victims in the situation and did nothing wrong

@deficator750

18 күн бұрын

They never ever take responsibility - "i was confused, its because of my last break up blah blah, he got the wrong message, exclusive, blah blah"

@adlerzwei

16 күн бұрын

Sociopaths 🤢

@adlerzwei

15 күн бұрын

@@Chuck9852 But lying is wrong though.

@williamsduran3232

14 күн бұрын

We on the same boat brother.

@michaelscotthawthorn7871

13 күн бұрын

Normalize treating women the way they deserve. When a woman is disposable, feel free to treat her that way. Stop showing respect to women that don't deserve it.

That big lump in your throat after you see or hear something you weren’t supposed to see/hear. That kind of pain can never really heal.

@entezami777

19 күн бұрын

She enjoyed his pain. The smile the body language. It was sicking to watch

@pagefault404

19 күн бұрын

I've been cheated on so many times, that pain never does heal. There's no really about it. I think about shit from my first real relationship in high school and I STILL feel some kind of way about it, and that was over two decades ago. Recently (within the past 10 years) I was with someone who had a guy who was problematic and instead of dropping communication with him, she kept him around, then cheated on me but blamed it on some anonymous guy at her college, then I found her later on dating apps, then she ended up getting pregnant by him and saying the baby was mine but I had a vasectomy, so we moved to Florida to get away from him. When the twins were born, instead of going to the NICU to see them, she was emailing him about the twins birth, then later confessed that the very first time she cheated it was ACTUALLY this guy (the father of the twins) and then later I discovered a screenshot of a craigslist ad of her trying to find someone to impregnate her with my exact same build and features. None of that, or anything else, is ever going to heal. This guy, while this hurts, he's saved himself from so much more pain.

@StrikerEureka85

19 күн бұрын

it heals, but it can take a really long time. been there

@cristiano7ronaldo599

19 күн бұрын

Cap, i moved on and i completely healed myself from it

@ViVi-mm7to

18 күн бұрын

Saying you can’t heal is not true, there is just no schedule on the healing, it happens over time

Life tip: the love of your life wouldnt put you in a situationship. I know its hard, but lets be real about it

@AlzMarioWolfe

Ай бұрын

TRUE

@minorperez5998

Ай бұрын

Situationships aren't about love. They're about not being alone.

@mrdavman13

Ай бұрын

@@minorperez5998ayo put that one on a shirt

@kiwigal9388

Ай бұрын

100% ... accurate ... I'd rather be alone then deal with bs

@elohellisreal

Ай бұрын

You wouldn't know who it is until you're past the situationship stage.

I've been in this situation before. That moment when he lost his smile is when you lose all of your love for the other person. You just feel empty and you don't care anymore. He's gonna be ok in the future. One day he's gonna have that sigh of relief he dodged that bullet.

Lots of respect for that dude. A lot of composure, a lot of dignity. A developed man, dude will do well, I’m sure of it. She’s just a hurdle. She’s just less mature, not a bad person, just a naive narcissist, growing in popularity as the normal age people grow out of said behaviours is constantly increasing.

@user-sm5vo7ob9x

17 күн бұрын

She’s slowly heading towards becoming “bad” (basically Karadshian minded narcissist) but if she get her heart shattered maybe she can learn.

@rustyshackleford2469

13 күн бұрын

Not a bad person? Cmon now buddy

@Candiosd

4 күн бұрын

Haha.. from her actions she will never learn. NEVER.

I applaud the way this guy is able to control his emotions. Bro got a thousand things running through his mind at once and he still kept his composure

@harry31619

20 күн бұрын

This is something that some of the redpill/alpha male community should do

@Views-rj3nw

15 күн бұрын

@@harry31619I thought that red pill was all about emotional composure and logical stoicism, despite knowing the truths about women’s behavior. That’s how i see it, at least.

@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713

5 күн бұрын

@@Views-rj3nwthat’s how the members of that community view themselves, and it’s what they like to preach, but it isn’t what they practice

@Views-rj3nw

5 күн бұрын

@@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713 Are you referring to the entire community as hypocrites?

@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713

5 күн бұрын

@@Views-rj3nw not the entire community, but rather the community as a whole. a majority of the influential figures in the community

12:47 Props to the producer of this show for being sensitive enough to break when there was discomfort and checking with the two of them to see if they wanted to keep going.

@Josh-st6sx

2 ай бұрын

Yea but they should have ended it way sooner it was clear he was bothered and trying not to say anything

@electric336

2 ай бұрын

I actually think they shouldn't have jumped in. They should have just let things happen naturally.

@timeoutdrew6491

2 ай бұрын

facts. it seems like both times when he started to grill her (rightfully so) on the clear mixed signals she's giving him, they would call for a break or times up. he may have been asking a lot or too much but he had every right, seems like he was fine with being just friends and she comes back into his life with romantic feelings knowing he still feels the same way but with no true intent to pursue anything real. just controlling his feelings at that point. I would've let them keep going but clearly by the voice the producer was a female so of course she's gonna jump in to save a fellow "woman"

@johnmelbournejacinto6642

Ай бұрын

They shouldn't worry about the woman

@ageebs5986

Ай бұрын

Nah he should have got an answer to his questions. She shouldn’t have jumped in.

She's keeping him as a backup once he moves on and gets a new gf she'll start to panic and try to win him over and in the end she'll still treat him as a "friend"

@donotSTrAYfromyourdesTINY

5 күн бұрын

If that happens, I sure hope he’s moved on by then

This is a lesson a young man needs to learn far sooner in life.

@lezorn

6 күн бұрын

And what lesson is that? Wtf did he do wrong?

@ibechuu9695

6 күн бұрын

That's not what he meant. It's a lesson to warn him that there are women that are capable of truly hurting you, and that lesson is better to learn much sooner than later in life. It goes both ways between genders, but yeah, the lesson he learned here will protect him from future situations like this. He will become successful and find a true woman way better than his so called "best female friend" here. ​@@lezorn

@fuhque9132

6 күн бұрын

Why just men? Women deal with this shit too..

@lizardlounge6476

6 күн бұрын

@@lezorn Not all lessons are learned because of personal shortcomings

I feel like the phone thing needed to happen, for his sake. I’m glad he got his clarity

Everyone’s saying he wanted to cry, But I felt like he wanted to snap. Especially after he shared he’s blown up before and it scared her. On the other hand home girl is playing him. Lol

@xcoxic3259

2 ай бұрын

Thought the same

@Ookashay

2 ай бұрын

I'd snap too getting humiliated like that on camera for millions to see by a girl he thought he loved is crazy.

@StreamerSam

2 ай бұрын

She for the streets

@TheZomboy11

2 ай бұрын

She tried not to laugh at the situation so she seems to think this whole thing with him is a fun joke, man need to move on she is not worth it.

@30__

2 ай бұрын

Bro reveled his true feeling just for her to play him this why you shouldn’t be vulnerable in front of girls do it with your bros instead

She was just keeping bro on the side, real respect for this dude for going through with the interview and being strong

@user-sm5vo7ob9x

17 күн бұрын

She gonna be a drive thru in the future

@Bunny11344

Күн бұрын

@@user-sm5vo7ob9xshe already is

She has no empathy, sympathy, no soul. I pray that this brother finds happiness whether by himself or with a special person in his life 🙏🏾💪🏾

his face after he went through her phone almost MADE ME CRY. he looked so sad...it hurt...i wish i could of given him THE BIGGEST hug after that...poor guy 😢

@exposed975

2 ай бұрын

Bro was angry asf 😂

@fryeesaucee

2 ай бұрын

@@exposed975 true…at first I thought it was pure sadness but then after he started talking more I was like “he is FURIOUS” I thought he was going to lose his cool for sure

@imnotsurewhy

2 ай бұрын

@@fryeesauceeold him would've. He has said that he had a temper and had to change

@Rudi_Mentary723

2 ай бұрын

​@@imnotsurewhy He shouldn't have changed, atleast not in front of this kind of woman.

@khalilsstories

Ай бұрын

@@exposed975nah deff sad

bruh the amount of time she spent on her phone before letting him go through it is crazy, she probably even deleted worst than he saw. bro was definitely been led on Edit: Thanks for 775 likes, never had this much.

@deegee6184

Ай бұрын

Nah, I think she deleted all the nice messages about him to assert dominance.

@ncktyu

Ай бұрын

@@deegee6184😅😅😅😂

@jowyboi

Ай бұрын

She was 1000% sexting the other guy.

@TSCK412

Ай бұрын

Said the same shit .. she deleted the MOST important shit .. and let him see what she thought wouldn’t mean much.. she’s fucked up fr

@superrich8187

Ай бұрын

She wasn’t deleting message she definitely was deleted pics or videos of her spread eagle for Malibu Chad, Jersey Mike, or tyron future 🤷🏽 it is what it is

He handled that better than I would. Maturity and self control is next level 🙏

@richrich6247

25 күн бұрын

He is too good for her

Being ok with being a friend, while you actually don't want to, is how you hurt yourself.

Okay a situationship is one thing but bringing him to a interview catered toward “couples” is psychotic

@alexgee3072

Ай бұрын

Yeah dude. He needs to learn how to give the energy he's receiving. If she was talking to dude while they were dating I understand. But there's nothing official

@samd6119

Ай бұрын

⁠​⁠​⁠@@alexgee3072 but the problem is that he did take a step back to see where her energy was at after she said she wanted to be friends. Then soon after she started to initiate conversations and wanting to hang out with him 1on1 and they even discussed plans to what to do for Valentine's day. She's giving both Justin and her ex mixed energy. In the video she says they should stay as friends, but then says it's a situationship, 'not explicitly stated,' but then also told her ex, "me and Justin are not a situationship"

@tubebejr1

Ай бұрын

​@alexgee3072 hey buddy. I'm going to assume you are young. The reality is, even if they aren't dating, but are great friends and had a situationship and if you had respect towards your friend, you'd tell them "hey, by the way I'm talking to someone else and seeing them" out of Respect to a friend. You could even remove the word "friend" and say " respect to your fellow men". There is no way anyone can spin it and say what she did wasn't disrespectful and manipulative. She tried so hard to validate the deceit. I'll even add this fact that we can all go back to and watch. Over and over, if what she said is true and if she believed that they both knew it wasn't anything serious, "why would she delete what she delete"? . If what she said was true, you'd let them see what all has been said and done and then say "but we both agreed it wasn't serious". But she knew, she knew he wanted her and she jjst strung him along as a back up if the other person didn't happen.

@deficator750

19 күн бұрын

no she literally had a text saying "its NOT a situationshio" then she lies saying its not exclusive. shes an evil POS.

@deficator750

19 күн бұрын

@@alexgee3072She should be saying from the GET GO "i am seeing other people this is'nt exclusive! Just friends to see where we are" BUT she lead him on into that relationship couple thing thats why they are on a COUPLES SHOW!!

i don't know what happens with them but i liked how raw and unfiltered this was.

@regina6838

Ай бұрын

Yeah I feel like I'm listening to someone's deepest emotions and I'm in the middle of a very personal conversation.

I dated a girl like this once. But she was much more attractive. They don’t understand what loyalty is and why it’s important. I believe you can’t really teach it to a person if they haven’t learned it by 18, unfortunately. My ex was 24. Moreover at that age, they learn how to fake what loyalty is. Always do your research even after you’re “official”. Every single date you are best served learning about each other. Good luck people, stay good

@Bunny11344

Күн бұрын

I was telling my bf my coworker had been flirty with me or trying to talk to me every time he got. My bf didn’t think too much of it and thought maybe he’s just friendly. My coworker mentioned he had a wife and they were on vacation and I was happy for him but a few days later he mentioned him and I should go grab some food sometime after work and that’s when I cut off contact. Like that’s just weird.

Why would someone so loyal ,kind and handsome date someone thats below average in looks and personality.i pray he gets someone he truly deserves..

@cookiesarelikecream

Ай бұрын

Agreed he’s very handsome he can find a prettier girl with a nicer and loyal personality. I hope he sees his worth and moves on. But he also needs to stop fixating on the past and stop going back to exes

@bruiseleeroy7010

19 күн бұрын

You should reach out to him 👀 but men get blinded by love just as easily if not more so

@pepe_s1lvia

15 күн бұрын

He's in the US army too. Crazily disciplined. He us a very good person and did not deserve it.

@MasterOfMyDestiny

14 күн бұрын

There is a saying in my mother tongue that translates to - "the heart wants what the heart wants, it might not pick the fairy but will settle on a donkey"

@BrooklynBum

12 күн бұрын

Because many men don’t value themselves

I see different maturity levels, he's ready for something serious, she hasn't figured out yet what she wants. Not really a good match but it will hard as hell for Justin to get over her but I'm deffo sure he can. Best of luck budy

@tsubakikunn6163

2 ай бұрын

I completely agree. He deserves someone with the same level of emotional sensitivity and consideration that he has. It’ll be hard for him to “let go of her” like he said but once he meets someone who can provide him with the reassurance and trust he needs he’ll be happier.

@johnmelbournejacinto6642

Ай бұрын

Make girl bite the curb

@tate3248

Ай бұрын

More like, she knows what she wants but her ex wouldn't provide, so she takes what she can because she met someone who actually liked her

@biswassimkhada1994

Ай бұрын

@@tate3248 thats so fucked up

@FalseShepherd

Ай бұрын

She's gonna be a single mom in the future with her attitude.

Bro got hurt but in the long run he will be thankful

This did him a favor. Now he knows for a fact where he stands. He can now fully move on.

he’s talking about a toxic relationship he was in and she didn’t even make eye contact. that was the first question and it only went downhill. poor guy.

@peptobismol3949

2 ай бұрын

Her mannerisms are just so awkward. She comes off like she doesn’t take anything seriously or have the capacity to act maturely

@johnjohn-mz4iu

Ай бұрын

@@peptobismol3949 because she is not real with him. it can cause her to be awkward. just look at her eye moment is shifting in all direction. you can even see her staring down sometime too. body language show so much

@user-or4ct5ow6b

Ай бұрын

becoz she knows she is also the toxic relationship. She knows dude got hurt before but she was also hurting him. so she couldnt look him into da eyes. big red flag indeed. he just didnt read it.

@BedtimeTalesforMamas

Ай бұрын

She’s also not fully listening nor care much about what he’s saying. Bet she’s thinking about what she needs to answer while he’s talking.

She forgot he was a human being not a toy for her main character arc

@so_h_am

Ай бұрын

She a main character? Hell naah she can't be that even of her own life. She'll always be a side chick fs.

@MSC_LFC

Ай бұрын

She looked like she got what she wanted. She was enjoying it.

@ciscom5036

Ай бұрын

She’s somebody’s toy

@Bunny11344

Күн бұрын

She ain’t even that cute

SOOO many good emotionally mature men go through this and these stories are rarely shared so bro I respect you for how you handled it.

The way he handled it was real af respect

She clearly knew how this was gonna go. She was deleting before she handed the phone over.

@omotayosatuyi252

2 ай бұрын

Probably text between her and her ex about him we can only assume

@4ii03

2 ай бұрын

@omotayosatuyi252 true we can only assume

@realkiller0

Ай бұрын

@@omotayosatuyi252probable cause

@salma_Nella22

Ай бұрын

@@omotayosatuyi252I’m guessing sexy photos. He wouldn’t have been able to handle that

@omotayosatuyi252

Ай бұрын

@@salma_Nella22 that would've been awful if that was the guess

the vibe turned 180 at @10:15 Let me just summarise this "situationship". Guy likes her a lot and "respects" her boundaries and is ok being her "friend" .. Meanwhile the girl was talking to her ex potentially more dudes and uses "situationship" as a justification and basically says "Hey i like you but i dont like you a lot, meanwhile i am still talking to my ex and I enjoy the attention you are giving me. If things dont work out with my ex at least I still got you. " This is why situationships never work, i have yet to see they work. My man, have some self respect and cut this shit.

@ibrahim_-_-_

2 ай бұрын

☕️ the thing is though, this is so common with modern women that there’d actually a term for it 💀 it’s called branch swinging or vine swinging they basically grab a new branch (man) without letting the old one go as not to “fall,” meaning lose both options, and once they have a tight enough grip on the second branch they let go of the first

@Switch_Comics

Ай бұрын

My ex smirked just like the girl in the video did when she broke me. She got caught texting the guy she told me not to worry about. She tried to justify it, just like this girl did in the video, by saying her and I weren’t technically exclusive when they started talking. A few years later a mutual friend of ours told me that her health was deteriorating due to GERD and she was released from the Med Tech program cause of her shaky hands. I’m only being honest here when I say this but hearing all of that gave so much cynical satisfaction.

@drsbrn

Ай бұрын

Went through this and she found someone new after, completely destroyed me over the course of the whole story, not sure if she’ll ever be back but Idk how I would react if she did

@wc3362

Ай бұрын

You must mean monkey branching. It all roots from women's hypergamy. They are hardly satisfied which is why they initiate 80% of divorces

@avi_innit

Ай бұрын

​@@Switch_Comics man i know you were dealt wrong but the satisfaction you felt is poison , let it go , feel indifference not hatred . I hope you are doing well and achieve everything in life , there will be many who will hurt you but don't lose yourself dealing with them

This man deserves the world. I hate when ppl take advantage of kind people and ruin them.

the fact that her IG isn't in the description but his is, lmao. smart decision

@nathanjarrelle

5 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂 everybody would be roasting her that’s why 😂

I’m ngl this is exactly how men process hurt, anger, and sadness. Not necessarily bottle them up, but we are condemned for overtly expressing our emotions in an impulsive way. It’s not just one emotion he’s feeling. He’s feeling literally all of them all at once and feels the need to suppress it until he’s in private.

@prastarkumar6889

Ай бұрын

If this was her instead of him. We would have seen all the emotions you mentioned right there in matter of seconds.

@occupytosavetheworld

26 күн бұрын

That's literally suppressed because of toxic femininity

@sonyagatien2555

26 күн бұрын

everyone is condemned, definitely men and women. emotions are literally bad according to the patriarchy and it sucks

@No304sCunt

20 күн бұрын

Another woman trying to blame this on men, typical ​@@sonyagatien2555

@ziiiiiiii754

20 күн бұрын

@@sonyagatien2555no it is not men and women. Women are literally taught to wear your heart on your sleeve. I’m not saying all women can, but most definitely are not afraid to show their emotion in a moment like this, unlike men

She just lost a keeper 😢that’s so sad he deserves so much better he’s so mature and pure

@jeeeenipurr

Ай бұрын

he got mad when he needed to look after her when she was sick idk that hes perfect either

@yomama69.

29 күн бұрын

@@jeeeenipurrright if you truly care about the person it wouldn’t matter if they got sick, you’d be happy just being in their presence. By the way he acted he prob was driving out to spend the night with her and get some, and when he couldn’t he got mad. That’s what I took from it either way dudes a red flag too

@rltw2753

25 күн бұрын

@@jeeeenipurrtf you making excuses for this trash of a girl

@speedythings7396

25 күн бұрын

Time for him to take the "Red Pill" And mfs wonder why "Andrew Tate" got famous

@speedythings7396

25 күн бұрын

@@jeeeenipurr Typical femoid gaslighting. Curse to human civilisation

I can't believe this woman kept a straight face when Justin was answering the questions about the last time he cried... HE FELT LED ON!

@dkoykoala1488

15 күн бұрын

Asian women are masters of leading you on.

A part of me felt every emotion, every pulse, every thought this guy had in this vid . But at the same time, I’m kind of happy that he had to go through this. Men love to always put themselves last, this is the result.

11:06 the whole conversation changed from this point bro probably just felt like what’s the point

@Nkulie_Valencia

2 ай бұрын

Yho I felt it 😭

@narcs8805

Ай бұрын

Poor guy

@Oldpangolin

15 күн бұрын

Yeah.

Damn… now I know why the mom didn’t even say “hi” on FaceTime. She knew this girl is bad news. She didn’t seem upset that Justin was upset. She was kinda smirking after he became upset. He can do so much better!!!

@entezami777

19 күн бұрын

She’s a red flag

@Obotron7

18 күн бұрын

It's just an awkward smile. She's not evil. Just immature and inconsiderate.

@entezami777

17 күн бұрын

@obi584 watch the whole video. It will change your tune

@Obotron7

17 күн бұрын

@@entezami777 I did. She lacks emotional awareness, communication and shows signs of narcissism. That doesn't make her evil. I'm not defending her actions, but to imply she enjoyed causing the guy emotional pain is a step too far.

@entezami777

17 күн бұрын

@obi584 Don't narcissist enjoy inflecting some pain on others?

She's being a technicality technician... She knew what he wanted. She was just kind of keeping him around until the next best thing came along. She just didn't want to admit she didn't eat anything wrong. Like most people in that situation, they don't want to admit that they did wrong and they'll deflect, gaslight and outright lie...

that girl just continues to smile through it all - that is just unbelievable..

His first mistake was getting with a woman who uses the term situationship. In vast majority of cases it's cope. He'll learn. Most men will go through a real bad one like her.

@CoffeeMadeMeSay

22 күн бұрын

Some more than 2-3 (after honeymoon phase).

@user-sm5vo7ob9x

17 күн бұрын

This generation is so useless for using worthless terms like “situationship” “baby momma and daddy” Back then it used to be full relationship or bust no stupid Kardashian type drama

@CoffeeMadeMeSay

14 күн бұрын

@@user-sm5vo7ob9xand don’t get me started with OF…it’s sad

He’s so mature and I love the way he communicates and expresses himself. I know he’s going to be a good boyfriend and great husband to someone.

@fatesi1486

Ай бұрын

Someone...

@arsq5020

26 күн бұрын

Too bad thats not what women want

@DeeDee-se6vs

23 күн бұрын

@@arsq5020not true

@the-madvillain2636

19 күн бұрын

​@@DeeDee-se6vs it's kinda true honestly, he's a lot of women want to have but not keep long term

@DeeDee-se6vs

19 күн бұрын

@@the-madvillain2636 it’s not true because he said women don’t want a mature boyfriend/ husband. Majority of women do.

Bro as a man I wanted to give this dude a hug! I felt the hurt I saw it in his face stay strong king!

It’s really crazy what you’ll find out when you ask the right questions.

That relationship was over the moment he took a sip of that wine and she knew it

@Pumpkingamer69

Ай бұрын

Exactly. When he was putting down his glass you could see that flash of anger and disgust. Crazy

@kennedigriffin9495

Ай бұрын

They weren’t in a relationship this is what happens when guys don’t fully commit she said that they were in a situationship and he never made it clear that they were exclusive

@kennedigriffin9495

Ай бұрын

There is no loyalty in a unclear relationship

@bobbyfrank9859

26 күн бұрын

@@kennedigriffin9495this is the comment of the lazy and dense. Everyone can tell what the other person wants in any dynamic. If you need “clear lines” so your ass doesn’t cheat or play around else where then you’re still a child lmao

@kennedigriffin9495

26 күн бұрын

@@bobbyfrank9859 I feel like in this generation you have to make is clear bc the hook up culture is crazy and guys play around with women emotions all the time and proceed to not feel bad about it so I don’t feel bad for him he didn’t make it clear and she is a young woman who isn’t even married anyway that even if she was the one who brought up the situationship first he still agreed if he wanted a relationship fr he should of told her that bc nowadays there isn’t really real relationships if your a man then say what you want tf don’t agree to things you don’t agree with wtf they labeled it a situationship he agreed I’m not gonna be loyal to anyone in a situationship womp womp

Man do I wanna grab a drink with this guy. Such a good guy and was willing to spill his heart out for the wrong girl

@ibrahim_-_-_

2 ай бұрын

same bruh, wanted to hug him

@aakashchand5041

Ай бұрын

True

@talkingtochapri

Ай бұрын

Good guy or desperate guy 😂

@fatesi1486

Ай бұрын

​@@talkingtochaprigood guy. We all gotta learn

@samd6119

Ай бұрын

@@talkingtochapriwell he's not the one still talking to their ex

I went through something similar a year ago, I’m not going to lie. I kinda needed this as closure. I miss her but I need to keep going. Justin if you see this, keep your head up, you’ll find someone or it’ll work itself out

As soon as the words situation-ship left her mouth there is no more conversation needed. She says she lost that spark in a few days, that is code for she found another toy but got ghosted, she then comes back to stability.

This man can find better in his life! Brother I hope you find someone who communicates to you on a open level that you did.

his face broke my heart. Sometimes I forget that dating can look like this.

She goes to UCLA bruh. She's living her best life, getting dug out raw. The streets has her now.

@dredfull_

8 күн бұрын

😭

@EdSuavePerez

6 күн бұрын

“Till she buhhhhh”

Her eyes say it all. @14:03 You can tell she looks down on him, with no real respect, and doesn't really care from her eye emotions while he is explaining his fears. Watched it back a few times. That's just sad. Avoid these types of people in relationships. Stay strong bud

She's a red flag, a big one. She definitely deleted messages before handing her phone over to him. I felt so bad for him, he was clearly heart broken. I hope he is able to move on from her, cause she's just playing with him and his feelings.

@Freeflow32

Ай бұрын

Pretty sure she deleted the messages from the random guys shes been seeing but still let him see the messages of her ex because that's what she couldn't get to in time. It seems like they weren't communicating a lot but just back and forth so it wasn't at the top of her messages.

@oreoakalaperoji8314

29 күн бұрын

I wasn't thinking he hasn't even seen everything. This whole situation especially on camera is so tough

@speedythings7396

25 күн бұрын

He needs Andrew Tate

The way he let himself fully feel his emotions and sit with them in the moment was so powerful ❤

@talkingtochapri

Ай бұрын

Women do it all the time 😂 and there's nothing about that

@mojojojo9128

Ай бұрын

@@talkingtochapri clearly not.

@bajsbrev4651

Ай бұрын

@@talkingtochapri not even close

@samd6119

Ай бұрын

⁠​⁠@@talkingtochaprino there is something special about it. Bc we're finally reaching a point as a society where it's ok for a guy to express himself emotionally instead of being told to not feel anything or keep it surpressed just because he's a dude. Don't be dismissing someone emotions because of their gender

@isvalami8527

16 күн бұрын

​@@talkingtochapriTry to dismiss his very good virtues by saying all women can do this is absolutely insane and a very weak try. In there you are not a victim, not all women are victims the guy is the victim and the girl is the abuser. Go and try to use the women victim card somewhere else it got declined here.

I like the fact that the part that hurt Justin the most wasn't the fact that Diane was talking to her ex, it was the fact that she led him on and lied to him about the whole thing. Granted, Justin could've been more aware of what she was doing, but I don't blame him. Justin seems so sincere I feel like he actually believed Diane.

I swear to God, 85% of girls these days don't know what they want. They all say that they want a guy that knows how to treat a woman with love and respect but when they finally get that guy, they'll go and do some dumb shit like this. You deserve more bro. She wanna be playing games, leave her in the streets where she belongs. I know I'm a very emotional person so when it comes to being in a relationship, it's all or nothing. I don't do situationship cus i know in the the end, I'll be the one that'll get hurt.

@MrColdwilliam

15 күн бұрын

No bigger evidence of women not knowing what they want than Bumble. An app built for women, by women, giving total control to women -- who then promptly complained about the difficulty of making the first move and being ignored or rejected and now blame men for the flailing response from the dying application. Can't make this ish up.

@based_prettyawsm

5 күн бұрын

@@MrColdwilliam lmao

I feel like she doesn’t want to place that label of “friends” because she wants him around as an option in case things don’t work out with someone else, which is an awful position to be put in btw. But I wish them both the best either way

@puhtronproductions

2 ай бұрын

Yupp

@J-tt1lu

2 ай бұрын

He lost her the first time

@EdSuavePerez

6 күн бұрын

Naw she can go kick rocks 😂

She ain't the one homie, emotional maturity of a doorknob ik her type she just likes you around for the attention (especially true considering the fact she recently went through a breakup, she just coping with you lol)

i strive for the amount of control this man has.

What she did to you doesn’t deserve a talk it over. You deserve better brother. See your self worth, she doesn’t see you as a human, she sees you as someone she can use. She only cared about herself, still does. Hopefully she’s out of your life by now.

He deserves someone honest and more loving towards him. I hope he finds her…

Let go dawg. She was wrong with not communicating how she felt about him, but i think gent just falls to hard and his heart stayed with her even when they ended the first time. End of the day love is a risk🤷🏾‍♂️

@30__

2 ай бұрын

Bro was entering his Redpill arc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@devilishirv

29 күн бұрын

well some of us have to be like that, unless you wanna be like her

@speedythings7396

25 күн бұрын

@@30__ Bro needs Andrew Tate

@kuzol5384

19 күн бұрын

It's good for him. He's learning.

The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it. The dude doesn’t have any control because he’s not willing to walk away and value himself..

Someone get this man his crown. He deserves better.

im so glad they gave him a 5 min break well done nectar

@edxdies

2 ай бұрын

Yeah I felt it when he said no the first time cause I was like he wants to be strong and stoic but it’s ok to not be ok and I assume nectar saw that and decide it for him which might as well be what he was hoping for, I know I would be

DAMN the raw emotions in this episode got me out of my seat (literally). What a great episode! Hoping bro is able to move on cause it doesn’t seem like she’s as committed or interested as he is

Bruh, you are enough to someone that values you the right way, and let go or put boundaries to those who don’t see you. You are lucky to get out as early as you could than having it go down the road with all emotion invested and got it wasted.

Such a beautiful man he is! I wish you nothing but peace and a loyal partner! More powerr to you my brah

“I didn’t know this was going to happen” = “i didn’t think I’d get caught”

seeing him be upset and then having to carry on hurt my feelings tbh :(

@rltw2753

25 күн бұрын

Hurt your feelings ? 🤣

@elisazouza

24 күн бұрын

@@rltw2753 dont take it seriously lmaoooo

@Forit26

14 күн бұрын

@@rltw2753This brother just discovered *empathy*

@SSEi02

12 күн бұрын

@@rltw2753 internet man is confused by the concept of empathy: news at 11

The one you’re supposed to be with will never make you feel like an option. What I saw him go through was a betrayal in real time. All his insecurities came true. She sat there smiling and making convenient narratives of why it’s a situationship. I hope this serves as closure for both. Accept that it’s not meant to be and find the one who will never keep you as a second option. This goes out to both men and women. Know your worth!

I hope he looks back at this one day with gratitude. These are the lessons a man in your life is supposed to teach you but at least now he probably will know better

bro move on she‘s not the one

@allio3459

Ай бұрын

He did. Left her ass

He’s so great at communicating and asking for her permission when revealing their past

What people mean when they say that it’s what you do with life and not what it does for you. The immense void between their emotional maturity is crazy. I see a 21 year old child and a 21 year old adult. She’s worried about taking care of herself because she KNOWS deep down that she’s too immature right now. I hope one day she can see past her own need for validation and realize how that chase is going to waste so much precious life. Justin, you’re going to be okay. I’m so sorry you went through this but I admire your communication skills and I hope you keep on that path.

That phone thing is everything. The second someone doesn't respond like that guy who clearly had nothing to hide, just run. Truly reveals someone's integrity

Feel for my dude. His whole demeanor shifted immediately, you could see the internal struggle. We've all been there bro, I know exactly how he felt, mind racing, analyzing everything he thought he knew for the past however many weeks, its tough. Keep your head up man, do whats best for you.

Bro's reaction when he found out hits deep for me. Emotional Maturity and to act accordingly despite his emotions being shown, this only shows how matured and understanding he is in that moment.

Protect this man at all cost! He doesn’t deserve any of that

The fact that she is wearing the Goddess of Compassion/Quan Am/Guanyin is IRONIC

@nhatle2160

Ай бұрын

Foreals. It's just forshoe no values attached

@speedythings7396

25 күн бұрын

Typical woman behavior. Displaying something they aren't

@a.rchvs_

23 күн бұрын

damn nahhh you ATE with this

@southeastasiandude

20 күн бұрын

Had to google it....funny

When she straight up deleted messages, that's when I knew she was no good.

convincing people, women AND men, that it's ok to be talking to multiple people at the same time as long as there isn't an "official" label on anything is one of the great tragedies of this time frame. IT'S NOT OK! It is breaking people's trust, their abilities to connect, and their perception of worth. This window-shopping mentality is literally just exploitation of other individuals. It's gross

@lostsurferjames5

6 күн бұрын

This has pretty much broken me in dating. Last couple of women I've talked to/wanted to be with I've gone thru the situation you explained, interest and hope that this situation is growing, even words of confirmation that a more committed relationship is coming by the woman. Then out of the blue the conversations slow, the mood when around each other is cold/distant from her, then.... nothing but a text that usually reads "I think you're super sweet and a great person, but I don't feel it between us. You'll find someone amazing one day." Then a few days later on the socials I'd see her with another dude and the realization hits, there was always another dude in the picture. I've pretty much checked out for the time being because of this.

There is a word for people that are unable to feel shame, remorse, or empathy.

Justin if you see this... Just wanna say she isn't reciprocating what you're giving her she literally said we're going on a date but then she says you guys aren't even a situationship she's in a stage where she doesn't really care about your emotions deleting the mesaages was wrong at least you should be able to confront the person but she couldn't I hope you get somebody who loves you just the way you'd love your significant other 💗

@Shaptacular

Ай бұрын

Didn’t he hurt her first and that’s why they broke up? Horrible thing to reciprocate, but it’s reciprocity nonetheless.

i respect this guy, he is both nice and fearless, giving her no smile no play along type of shit... corners her in every answer she gives

@ShenellM

Ай бұрын

This!

@bossdev-tb6we

Ай бұрын

@@ShenellM your keybaord is broken or what ?

@hanmira

14 күн бұрын

@@bossdev-tb6weThe person is agreeing with you lmao

I’m saving this video so I can analyze it to see the red flags as practice. First one was she was in face time with his mom , and mentioned the challenge card. She is not interested in him, and it’s important to pickup on it sooner than later. He’s a hurt soul & I wish only good things for him. I hope you’re ok. 15:22 this moment of the video is really important. My experience is when I hear the friend zone comment time to just move on. He’s looking for the one & not a friend.

This is so real and painful. I appreciate the mediator let him take a break to distance himself.

Summary: She was still texting her ex and texted him and her and this guy are just a situationship. Guy saw the text and Him: how much do you guys talk? Her: inaudible Him: Is it just the him initiating? Her: both of us Him: do you want him back? Her: silence. Basically she still wants her ex and he's being played

@StreamerSam

2 ай бұрын

Good summary. I think she’s using him to make her ex jealous too so her ex will want her more.

@jsbfkdls

Ай бұрын

Nah this is fked up. She clearly knows that he likes her and they got something. Shes doing all that and knowing that its wrong. Otherwise it wouldn't be weird to admit the feelings. Shes just trying to damage control. It wouldnt have hurt him if she had just been truthful throughout whateber relationship they had. Absoloutely disgusting behaviour. I hope this guy bounces back, he seems like a decent dude.

@klu.official

Ай бұрын

So why agree to the interview?

@valterfrancisco5505

Ай бұрын

No, no, no. In the text with the she said her and Justin are not a situationship. He verbatim says the message he read later.

The mood change after the phone switch was actually crazy

Lmao i know this type of girl. She's emotionally distraught over her recent breakup, hasn't managed her feeelings, and is just keeping him around on a lead until she gets the option she really wants

@HoesLoveGas

Ай бұрын

1000%

@LoiLoi-ln7vb

Ай бұрын

100% accurate

@AtariWow

Ай бұрын

Almost was on the receiving end of that, luckily I snapped out of it and got away from her before I got hurt.

@deontadonald1057

Ай бұрын

Yep stg I was in this same spot

RESPECT to the channel for posting this, the whole point is to see how people really are. She's convinced that because she's a solid 5.5 and goes to UCLA she's absolute magic, she's a 1980's troll doll with nicer hair and her manipulative skill that comes second nature makes her radioactive waste. It's *awesome* that you posted this, women spend their whole life trying to find someone as sincere and nice as him, and she deliberately uses him like a napkin. The channel handled it great in the moment, and then posted it which I admire. ❤

he deserves someone better who can reciprocate his love