can exes be just friends? | tea for two

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Thanks to Unlikely Collaborators, we layered in Perception Box questions to help our daters dig deeper and uncover more meaningful connections. Learn more at www.unlikelycollaborators.com or check them out here / @unlikelycollaborators
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  • @lovecommanectar
    @lovecommanectar12 күн бұрын

    do you think it’s okay to be friends with an ex? lovecommanectar.co/4bKT6qT

  • @alpaqa

    @alpaqa

    11 күн бұрын

    Yeah

  • @jeenajoan

    @jeenajoan

    10 күн бұрын

    In this case it makes me very happy that they stayed friends with their exes.

  • @mercymunoz1408

    @mercymunoz1408

    10 күн бұрын

    Yes

  • @TheMilkyWay444

    @TheMilkyWay444

    2 күн бұрын

    Hell no, Let that shit go.

  • @yusterhunter2560
    @yusterhunter256011 күн бұрын

    I’ve battled addiction alone for 6 years. These young men putting their pride aside to aid in her recovery is the purest form of love. Respect to all 3 of them.

  • @Bri-tf6eu

    @Bri-tf6eu

    11 күн бұрын

    988 is always there to text or call if you ever need it man

  • @smome7773

    @smome7773

    Күн бұрын

    I don't know many men who could have done it, matter of fact I think 70% would have sent her over the edge..... She was really blessed to come across them.

  • @ivak515
    @ivak51511 күн бұрын

    Me crying with Trey and Alyssa when they’re talking ab Alyssa’s mom

  • @Shwayzee

    @Shwayzee

    9 күн бұрын

    I’m literally bawling my eyes out

  • @Halal_constant
    @Halal_constant11 күн бұрын

    Whoever edited this needs a raise.. this felt like a movie

  • @oliviaeaston4527
    @oliviaeaston452711 күн бұрын

    That letter moved me to tears, what a beautiful episode

  • @Othman1247

    @Othman1247

    11 күн бұрын

    It’s the best one yet

  • @3D1ofakind
    @3D1ofakind11 күн бұрын

    The amount of respect and emotional maturity everyone shares in this room is overwhelming, like I didn't think this was possible, especially given the scenario 😮

  • @Katechap20
    @Katechap2011 күн бұрын

    All three of these participants are so mature, vulnerable, well spoken, and brave. I’m thankful for their willingness to let this kind of conversation be recorded and shared.

  • @anniecsonu
    @anniecsonu11 күн бұрын

    this is my favorite episode by far, its so deep, and all three people are so mature and profound

  • @estefanysepulveda10
    @estefanysepulveda106 күн бұрын

    "I realized that the most important legacy I can leave for you was not a tale of being rescued but one of self-rescue" instant tears!! the letterrrrr

  • @JazmynMarez3232
    @JazmynMarez323210 күн бұрын

    As watching alyssa and trey for years together, this makes me feel good about how much closure they got and how much she got out of her fresh one. It takes a lot and I respect all of them for doing this.

  • @annen22
    @annen2211 күн бұрын

    You are all three beautiful people. It’s crazy to see how much you all have been through just in what you talked about in camera. I could tell there was so much more to each individual story. The unconditional respect for one another was so beautiful to see.

  • @kyliet4523
    @kyliet452311 күн бұрын

    I teared up watching Alyssa and trey’s part and the letter :(

  • @mwahnobars
    @mwahnobars11 күн бұрын

    the letter was so beautofully writen im crying.

  • @treezah308

    @treezah308

    6 күн бұрын

    literally im crying rn

  • @SlapSister
    @SlapSister10 күн бұрын

    Damn, she needs to make her story into a movie. It's very dynamic and emotional.

  • @Jamierice139
    @Jamierice13911 күн бұрын

    Damn this shit got real deep real fast. Only half way through 😅 but Loving the vulnerability.

  • @annen22

    @annen22

    11 күн бұрын

    Agreed I had to take a break to look at the comments cause it was so intense

  • @sunvavachi
    @sunvavachi11 күн бұрын

    These young people are so motivational. You never know what life throws at you!

  • @user-cf7vy4hl8p
    @user-cf7vy4hl8p11 күн бұрын

    the wisdom in these conversations is ridiculous, I mean that in the best way possible. thanks for creating a space to understand the vulnerability & have the courage to lead with it.

  • @glocellsalting8466
    @glocellsalting846611 күн бұрын

    I’ve watched Alyssa and Trey from the start and seeing them two grow as individuals really warms my heart 🖤🖤🖤. Although they are no longer together, just from the feel of the video, that genuine connection that they have is still there

  • @Lustful_Twilight
    @Lustful_Twilight11 күн бұрын

    I was not ready for the roller coast of this video. The letter at end broke me, but in the best way.

  • @REDRUBYXOXO
    @REDRUBYXOXO11 күн бұрын

    I was not planning to cry on a Saturday morning 😭 this was so good

  • @oxceanz
    @oxceanz9 күн бұрын

    When she said “they were my beautiful chapters…..” awwww man 🤧

  • @larizatarango
    @larizatarango9 күн бұрын

    I have never sobbed so much through a KZread video. The lack of pride these men have, the care, the love they've shown her. THE LETTER. Forever inspired and changed fr

  • @kat-fk7on
    @kat-fk7on11 күн бұрын

    🖤 Wow. I’ve been a fan of Alyssa and trey ever since their very first KZread video after they went viral on Twitter. Being apart of their journey has been such a light of hope in my life even with all of its trials. Now in this chapter here, my love and appreciation for you all has grown , and has gained as well for Adal. Thank you to the three of you for sharing your truth. And that letter at the end wow. Alyssa you were born to be a nurturing human and I’m happy and hopeful to see that that nurturing will start with yourself 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @QuyenNHokom
    @QuyenNHokom10 күн бұрын

    These three souls hv given me hope that this world might not be going to shit after all lol! It was cathartic for me when she revealed who she addresses the letter to. With that letter I won't worry for her. She has learned through her struggles that ultimately, it is pure self love that is the fuel that gives you the power & strength to lasting inner peace & happiness. Noone can give that to you but yourself. Easier said than done.

  • @mimiluyen
    @mimiluyen8 күн бұрын

    i've been watching alyssa and trey's story from the very beginning and to see all the things they've gone through together and continue to still be in each others lives, gives me so much hope and happiness for alyssa. alyssa deserves the world, i'm happy to see her have such wonderful people who truly care so much for her that they choose to be here still even though they aren't in a romantic relationship anymore. trey and adal, you're wonderful and genuine people, thank you for being friends for alyssa.

  • @ashleanicole
    @ashleanicole11 күн бұрын

    Wow. Just wow. Mature beyond their years and just an incredibly well put together story of three different lives coming together as one. Thank you to the participants and Nectar for letting them share their stories ❤

  • @Noname78624
    @Noname7862411 күн бұрын

    As someone who lost her mom 2 months ago and watching this during first mother’s day without her…I bawled 🥺😞

  • @mckennadecker3382

    @mckennadecker3382

    10 күн бұрын

    You are going to make me cry

  • @kiarag8395

    @kiarag8395

    8 күн бұрын

    i lost mine 6m ago. I’m right there with ya. keep going, you’re doing great ❤️‍🩹

  • @Noname78624

    @Noname78624

    8 күн бұрын

    @@kiarag8395 sending you a big virtual hug 🫂 we will get through it, one day at a time. 💕

  • @Noname78624

    @Noname78624

    8 күн бұрын

    @@kiarag8395 sending you a big virtual hug🫂 we will get through it, one day at a time. 💕

  • @shashirekhakamle4655

    @shashirekhakamle4655

    2 күн бұрын

    So sorry. Hang in there. It will b alright

  • @ShannonPring
    @ShannonPring11 күн бұрын

    Been here since the start when her and Trey were together and posted their first video then the mid point and afterwards, then her meeting Adal and getting to see her live through another chapter of her life with another loved one. Though her experiences and events differ from mine exponentially, I couldn’t help but feel the vulnerability and nakedness of her life story. I love all 3 of you guys so much and I am moved by how this whole 30 minute video has affected my perception of a loving type of love 🖤

  • @hollyliujah
    @hollyliujah10 күн бұрын

    omg im crying. what a beautiful letter 😭 it’s amazing to see 2 mature men push their egos aside to help someone they love so much. alyssa you inspire me so much & you deserve the world. im so happy you’re with us & to hear you’re doing better 🖤

  • @0hcae_
    @0hcae_11 күн бұрын

    got me sobbing and reflecting on my own life fr 😭

  • @mariella692
    @mariella69211 күн бұрын

    you’re so strong and i wish you nothing but the best in life 🖤

  • @mandyymoniquee9010
    @mandyymoniquee901011 күн бұрын

    The letter to your future daughter 🥹🖤

  • @Poundtown765
    @Poundtown7659 күн бұрын

    watching Alyssa back in the day and then now watching this video is just amazing. everyone included in the video is so beautifully spoken and so respectful. I really appreciate the vulnerability showcased. cried like a baby during the letter. love you alyssa! stay strong darling

  • @Goodvibesaround3
    @Goodvibesaround34 күн бұрын

    The level of emotional maturity those young men possess is absolutely astounding. They are well spoken, kind hearted, and incredibly mature. Given the circumstances of each relationship, it’s nice to see that she was able to attract a partner who wasn’t using, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 stuck by her through that journey to see her come out of it on top. Putting her before himself is incredibly difficult but so very important. It’s nice to see someone else has lived a similar journey to mine.

  • @denniellecorpus9500
    @denniellecorpus95007 күн бұрын

    Ugh I love how raw and emotional and just open and loving this all is. I’m sobbing. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @KJFAdaily
    @KJFAdaily9 күн бұрын

    this was beautiful to watch.all so strong, mature, and open minded. definitely expected to cry watching these 3.

  • @mells5152
    @mells515211 күн бұрын

    🖤🖤 This one cut deep . It’s been beautiful to watch Alyssa and Trey both mature into young adults over the years . I can’t wait to see where life takes all of you . Wish you all nothing but the best 🖤🖤

  • @kathytran5872
    @kathytran587211 күн бұрын

    🥺 they love them I hope they’re doing well with their lives. Just glad that they still have each other during their hardest times.

  • @thetrinitymiller
    @thetrinitymiller9 күн бұрын

    🖤🖤🖤 I’ve been watching Alyssa since the very beginning. I’ve never met her, and I hope one day I do, but I genuinely feel so much love for you alyssa. She’s inspired me so much and because of her and watching her handle similar situations I too have experienced I’ve grown and strived everyday to be better. You’re so loved.

  • @julianned3218
    @julianned321810 күн бұрын

    🖤🖤🖤 just finished watching and I’m so proud of you to see all the growth and change you continue to do with your life 🖤✨

  • @MilkyMik
    @MilkyMik11 күн бұрын

    🖤 sobbing. So proud of how much you’ve overcome and extremely happy for the support you have. 🖤

  • @leareyna6015
    @leareyna60157 күн бұрын

    I held it together so good because I knew much of Alyssa’s story already from TikTok but the letter at the end broke me. This was a fantastic episode. May God continue to bless and guide each of them on their journeys.

  • @GenineDarcheville
    @GenineDarcheville5 күн бұрын

    I was literally crying with you guys. You've come soo far, keep going🖤

  • @naomivanessaaa
    @naomivanessaaa11 күн бұрын

    love you alyssa, that letter was so beautiful 😢🖤🖤🖤

  • @leyahzz
    @leyahzz8 күн бұрын

    This was such a beautiful watch. That letter at the end helped heal a little part of me. Thank you for this video ❤️

  • @BelaDesouza_
    @BelaDesouza_10 күн бұрын

    It’s so interesting to see people who express their wholesome. deep, past memories. Part of it is very beautiful but also so strange because I can tell I’d never hang around these people but they have their own lives with crazy stories you know? Just so fascinating. And people can look at me and say the same haha, life is so interesting

  • @TheAmiz6
    @TheAmiz611 күн бұрын

    🖤🖤🖤 I’m crying. I felt all the emotion in this

  • @thee792
    @thee79210 күн бұрын

    Her and trey have so much chemistry I hope they get back together

  • @iisshana
    @iisshana9 күн бұрын

    I am bawling!!! This is such a beautiful and raw video

  • @sofiaaras4888
    @sofiaaras488810 күн бұрын

    They are all so strong, much love and appreciation for all of them❤️

  • @aravelpabilona2291
    @aravelpabilona229110 күн бұрын

    This video had so much layers to it and I just appreciate how these three beautiful people were able to share their stories and experiences. 🖤

  • @faithboulom4211
    @faithboulom421110 күн бұрын

    God this broke me & healed me in so many ways

  • @jemmaalegre7164
    @jemmaalegre716411 күн бұрын

    🖤 what a beautiful interview and healing process!

  • @imdazed6158
    @imdazed615810 күн бұрын

    Even tho jubilee;You really put content that from my outer mindset and my country’s culture.you really did a job at explaining this situation that i will never see.Much love from 🇯🇴

  • @cmooreHD
    @cmooreHD11 күн бұрын

    This was one of the best and deepest episodes on this channel yet! Just wow..

  • @marissachantelle
    @marissachantelle11 күн бұрын

    I’ve been watching Alyssa and Trey since the beginning. Seeing this video was so healing for me so I can’t imagine how healing it was for you 3. I commend you for allowing an outside source be the one to edit and share this story because I’m sure that it is so hard not knowing if your story will be portrayed truthfully. And the respect Trey and Adal have for each other is so incredible. Alyssa, I hope when you have the capacity to watch this and you’re able to see how much growth you’ve all gone through. 🖤🖤🖤

  • @damarismowatt
    @damarismowatt20 сағат бұрын

    Beautiful editing yesss 😌🤍 kudos to the nectar team x

  • @fried920
    @fried92011 күн бұрын

    proud of you alyssa 🖤🖤🖤

  • @yeeyang7230
    @yeeyang723010 күн бұрын

    9:18 is so relatable ! Those moments and time will definitely always play in ur mind ❤

  • @geniuspeng
    @geniuspeng11 күн бұрын

    The ending letter was so powerful

  • @kianaleipenaranda8025
    @kianaleipenaranda802511 күн бұрын

    a beautiful episode 🥺 and the letter 🥺🖤

  • @TheKatarinaGiselle
    @TheKatarinaGiselle11 күн бұрын

    Best episode ever! The ending kinda confused me though and left me with questions…I kinda hope you have her on again.

  • @emilylewis8754
    @emilylewis875410 күн бұрын

    this was ducking beautiful. thank you so much.

  • @willow1840
    @willow184010 күн бұрын

    so happy to see alyssa on this channel

  • @alondrac2603
    @alondrac26039 күн бұрын

    It’s so beautiful to see Alyssa Healing and Health 🥹🤍

  • @liindawgg
    @liindawgg11 күн бұрын

    gah I saw the three clips on tiktok and was hoping for 444 years of happiness to both of them whether it be with or without each other.

  • @miadiaz9043
    @miadiaz904311 күн бұрын

    what a beautiful letter

  • @falisha5952
    @falisha595211 күн бұрын

    Alyssa and Trey have been my favs for years 🥹🫶🏽

  • @kathryn8462
    @kathryn846211 күн бұрын

    man seeing her letter made my heart hurt. ive had a few exes that saved my life. some im still talking to others i hurt too much to be friends with

  • @Mosekidi_n
    @Mosekidi_n11 күн бұрын

    this was so beautiful🥺🥺

  • @deelutz8460
    @deelutz846011 күн бұрын

    Her letter at the end... Amazing ❤

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza9 күн бұрын

    this is actually beautiful had me crying

  • @evyraudenbush2675
    @evyraudenbush267511 күн бұрын

    Didn’t expect to cry today 😭❤️

  • @lydiacoffey2003
    @lydiacoffey20038 күн бұрын

    Then talking about Virginia Street made me so emotional ❤

  • @iaminfinitymartinez
    @iaminfinitymartinez9 күн бұрын

    these men are brilliant alyssa is so lucky.

  • @awesomealie8179
    @awesomealie817911 күн бұрын

    i think after high school there should be a class for dating and relationship. For some reason girls and boys that are not even worth getting into relationship are getting into lousy and troubled relationships.

  • @30__

    @30__

    11 күн бұрын

    There’s already a class for that and it’s called “sex Ed” 😂😂😂

  • @jenishmaharjan1962
    @jenishmaharjan196211 күн бұрын

    7 mins in and im teary

  • @gabbysantos0925
    @gabbysantos092511 күн бұрын

    🖤So inspiring i cried so much through this

  • @CraftingWithTopaz
    @CraftingWithTopaz9 күн бұрын

    I remember meeting them in Cali in 2018, and they were such kind people.

  • @yuuiz9405
    @yuuiz94059 күн бұрын

    that letter was beautifully written.

  • @janamathipikhai4431
    @janamathipikhai44319 күн бұрын

    I’ve SHED tears this episode

  • @earthbbyy
    @earthbbyy10 күн бұрын

    i cried sm watching this omg

  • @trixield
    @trixield11 күн бұрын

    i’ve been following Alyssa and Trey since Twitter when they went viral, and I love how well they communicate and express themselves, i’m glad they’re all mature enough to have these conversations. And that letter was so beautiful🥹🖤

  • @whatdabeck
    @whatdabeck11 күн бұрын

    Love you Alyssa 🖤

  • @Ki-KisWorld
    @Ki-KisWorld11 күн бұрын

    People will debate about this question for forever

  • @seducedbysasquatch
    @seducedbysasquatch11 күн бұрын

    Alyssa is a beautiful writer

  • @Zakuru12
    @Zakuru1210 күн бұрын

    I WAS NOT prepared for this tea

  • @aliyahmitchell15
    @aliyahmitchell154 күн бұрын

    such a beautiful episode

  • @nataliecalderonmoultrie9546
    @nataliecalderonmoultrie954611 күн бұрын

    Beautiful friendships! 🖤

  • @elianabotello5304
    @elianabotello530411 күн бұрын

    Alyssa the letter was so beautiful🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @jelly4129
    @jelly412911 күн бұрын

    Such beautiful stories

  • @wildflowerone
    @wildflowerone5 күн бұрын

    This is... the best one yet

  • @StephanieMoka
    @StephanieMoka11 күн бұрын

    this left me sobbing

  • @lor9582
    @lor95825 күн бұрын

    just because there wasn’t a relationship connection doesn’t mean that theres no human connection ❤️

  • @Aviyonsaunders
    @Aviyonsaunders6 күн бұрын

    Omgg I used to watch Alyssa and Trey's youtube videos!! This is such a deep vid

  • @bestfriendsisterchannel3108
    @bestfriendsisterchannel31089 күн бұрын

    I hope her and Trey rekindle. ❤

  • @alexandracortes4134
    @alexandracortes41348 күн бұрын

    I cried like a baby this whole episode 😭

  • @30__
    @30__11 күн бұрын

    It’s interesting how everyone’s type looks like siblings.

  • @Chrollo_Gaming
    @Chrollo_Gaming11 күн бұрын

    50sec ago is crazy

  • @CraftingWithTopaz
    @CraftingWithTopaz9 күн бұрын

    I did not think i'd be crying before work

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