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Happily married to my Thai wife for 22 years with 2 boys 18 and 17. love my Thai family so much. Think about what happens with there Thai family as soon as they cry someone picks them up. You can't change that it's Thai culture and very hard to do when your by yourself. I can tell your a great dad and stop overthinking it. Think how lucky you are to have 2 lovely girls, a great mum, a great Thai family. When your mum gets there it will be a lot easier, keep you chin up mate you're doing a great job

@user-ly6qh5sb1u

2 ай бұрын

เด็กไม่คุ้นเคยกับพ่อ พอ่ต้องเอาเด็กมาเลี้ยงนานๆ 1เดือน2อาทิต ผลัดกันเลี้ยง

@stephenhurley3078

2 ай бұрын

sorry Ricky I don't agree, they know who you are. As they get older they will get more independent and not need to be picked up all the time

@BareKnuckle666

2 ай бұрын

Exactly Ricky. There kids. Kids cry 😭 lol. Stop getting worked up and get to Pattaya for a few days to chill out. Blow off some steam 👊

@gaynorannjensen4335

2 ай бұрын

Well said Stephen 👍

Hang in there Ricky, It doesn't matter if they are fed,changed, and rested. Babies sometimes just cry for no reason. It takes a lot of time, work, and patience to raise children. It can be very stressful, but it's so worth it. They are beautiful little girls.

@MrKaypet

Ай бұрын

Very true.

The twins need a permanent home. Going to pick them up and spending just a few hours with you is not enough. Parents have to put their children first, but you chose to move for yourself. This in turn has made the twins think the village is their home and you are just visitor. The girls need to be with you more before it gets worse.

@Maryhilton-ws6ol

Ай бұрын

Yes theyll be screaming crying and shouting in thai he wont have a clue. Take them Australia a couple years save up then take them for vacations. If you let it go on they will be telling you soon we want to go home (village) if you dont mind then ok! But if you do you got to nip it in bud now! Say sorry thai family. But wave 👋 bye to the twins. Or when they get older will it upset you when they say we dont want to go with dad! We want stay here. Its what kids do. Good luck to you in every way i wish u all well. If your new partner moves in and you get the twins its life. I know you feel obliged to thai family but you are the parent not them, its your decision. Eid chose you to be the father of her kids when she married you. If she had wanted her other family to bring them up she wouldnt have married you! Ok👍

@MrKaypet

Ай бұрын

This is rubbish about the twins needing a single permanent home. Like many babies who haver working parents who have gotten used to around 3 relatives homes minding them, the twins just assume they go to all these people and cry when they don't get whatever they want now. They know and love to be taken by their dad. Plus they will only adjust to what Dad can do is by continuing his visits and being with theThai family.

Hi there My twin girls cried their hearts out every time my wife went out the house , they were inconsolable and it was so frustrating for me , but I think they pick up on our state of mind , frustration anger stress etc , it’s not easy , and kudos to all the ladies who seem to have a magic touch or at least know where the off switch is , like someone else said it’s familiarity, they see the Thai family so much , not just their grandma but the young relatives who they’ll be watching doing silly things and are missing that , do what you can and that’s enough , even for an hour or so , or go to the village daily for a visit with them , it makes you more familiar, or try and organise your time with them when your girlfriend is around and visit her family, small steps , the girls love seeing their dad it’s obvious when you see their smiles , time and lots of patience , and your mum will be there soon for some support also , keep up the good work and post as and when you want to , don’t put more pressure on yourself , Regards Davy 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇹🇭

Ricky your spot on , baby’s are always going to be easier and more occupied when there’s more people around. Your doing great , follow your heart ❤❤

Oh Ricky I feel for you. U are doing everything right by taking them out & trying to keep them entertained. Pls know u are amazing father & that your mental health is number 1. Doing it alone is too hard for anyone. Chin up mate, things will get easier -especially with your mum 😘

Ricky please don't get down on yourself. That's how babies roll, some days just miserable with no apparent reason. My grandson was one of them just cried and cried all the time. Their teething might be contributing to it. There are going to many more days like that unfortunately, but that too will pass. You are doing the best you can. Chin up

They want you to pick them up

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Yeah I did that on the live video. Still wasn't great. Going to try taking 1 at the a time so I can do all the carrying

@rodneyalbertholland5615

2 ай бұрын

No disrespect but the Thai family are many What I mean is you need a helper

@bertibear1300

2 ай бұрын

Try singing to them.Or something soothing with your voice.Its going OK.They need attention and love.

@thanawanmueanglue1358

2 ай бұрын

It could be their teething Ricky! Get some teething Gel from 7/11 or pharmacy

Loads of kids in my village used to cry like hell when they saw me at first. I'm the only farang here. Now I am uncle Toby to them all and they don't bat an eye. Once they get a bit older they will be fine mate. They are just used to the routine in the village and not used to the change of location and people around them. Don't stress to much about it, things always work out OK.

Awe, Ricky. You hit the nail on the head. They are surrounded by so many women in the village. You’re doing everything you can to be with your girls. So good to hear your girlfriend and her family are a positive help and encouragement for you. It will improve; don’t give up hope. You are a wonderful dad. Your mom’s upcoming visit is going to be so helpful. ❤

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you JC. Really looking forward to mum getting here

They tend to do this when they spend more time with certain people. They can also sense if you not feeling ok. You not a bad father don’t ever think that. I really feel for you honestly it’s hard enough being a single parent. Ignore the ignorant trolls online. Keep your chin up. 💛

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

I'll keep my chin up and keep fighting

Just wanna drop you a message of encouragement! You’re doing absolutely great! Don’t give up! Keep turning up for the twins. One bad day doesn’t mean the end of the world! Move on and keep trying! You’re great!

@Maryhilton-ws6ol

2 ай бұрын

One bad day have you seen last 3 vlogs

@ixi

2 ай бұрын

@@Maryhilton-ws6ol Then 3 bad days better? Kids at this age is tough… all parents know… but no point counting bad days is just what I’m saying… doesn’t help with the depression at all

@Maryhilton-ws6ol

2 ай бұрын

@@ixi i answered the person who said one bad day! Just being realistic! Men arent cut out for this, just saying, they can learn but its not easy for them it isnt in their dna, but hes trying hard, and he will do it, hes determned, but no ones counting, just pointing out that irritable babys cry more than one day, it is what it is! Babys are confused now, but they growing up, and need to cut ties with gran and sister more!!!

@dianegreig6168

2 ай бұрын

Might be teething

Ricky, you are doing a fantastic job, babies cry and sometimes we don’t know why. It’s hard going when you have them on your own but never give up on those gorgeous girls, they need you and you them. They will bring tears, frustration, smiles,laughter and lots of love it’s all part of being a parent. I am not being patronising . Babies don’t come with a manual, you learn as you go and you doing AMAZING. Love watching the girls 💕💕

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Janet

Daddy just keep holding on be strong 💪 they will get big one day u will look back and say I miss when you guys were baby. As I said one day at a time. God will give 🙏 you the strength. Don't give up. It will get better trust me. U are a one parent and it is hard. ❤😂🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁

I thought they looked tired when they were crying. I used to drive my daughter around in the car when she was having her crying grumpy times and pray that she would sleep. You are right there are many hands at the Thai family house. It will be a struggle for you but not insurmountable. One day at a time Ricky.

Do not leave the channel !!!! We love you and your babies !!!!! Things will get better as they get a little older. You are doing the best you can. You are overwhelmed and its understandable why !!!! Just hold on Ricky. We love you.

Hey Ricky That’s the reason why I watch your channel because it’s real, the good and the bad. No editing to show a fairy tale lifestyle. Keep going mate us Aussie’s don’t give up. Any time you need a chat mate you know how to contact me. 👍🏻👍🏻🇦🇺🇦🇺

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Appreciate it Jamie. I like keeping it real, basically a video diary that I can look back on. Appreciate the kind message too mate. Go bunnies

@Maryhilton-ws6ol

2 ай бұрын

Yes some familys edit to make their child look happy when you know it sooo isnt. Thats why i like this its real and sometimes funny, 😅

Ricky don’t beat ya self up matey, I have 1 son and when he was the girls age as soon as I was alone with him he cried his ass off, I did feel like wtf am I doing wrong but it’s not me or you it’s just how it goes. Keep on going matey it gets better and you will look back and think what a nightmare it was but you got through it. Just remember keep on going 🙏👍

I think they spend too much time with the Thai family and is not used to being with you, so they cry everytime you try to spend time with them alone. They need more time with you, less time with Thai family. You are their father so keep the twins with you majority of the time. Wish you luck.

@Allannah_Of_Rome

2 ай бұрын

Or they could be just teething.....

@whocarewa1352

2 ай бұрын

I’m disagreeing with you, touching from men and women is definitely different feeling, it’s instinct that babies can recognise, gentleness from the mother will make babies feel warmer..it’s not about who Thai who farang..that’s so wrong

@user-mm7pg3rg8x

2 ай бұрын

I agree

@wararat6054

2 ай бұрын

I'm agree with you.

@VietnamViking2021

2 ай бұрын

I agree

Such a brave, honest video.

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Appreciate it mate. End of the day it's something to look back on

You also need to have them more in your arms.❤

Glad your Mum is coming back yes she will help you cause you do need help. Stay strong sending you a big hug 💛

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Antoinette, mum just can't wait to see the twins

Your the father they need to live with you all the time! Grandparents are for babysitting and for visiting the grandchildren . You should never let them spend so much time with them.

@Maryhilton-ws6ol

Ай бұрын

Yes in west! But 3rd worlds father distances himself always

@UrsuGonegirlSolo

Ай бұрын

@@Maryhilton-ws6ol His from Australia not Thailand so he is west and these are his children to take care of!!!!!!

I think things will take a turn when your Mum arrives❤

Hang in there you doing the best you can do. It’ll get easier as they get older and can communicate with words.

Don't worry Ricky your mum will be here soon she'll get the situation sorted with the girls, they definitely have separation anxiety, alot of babies go through that stage. Cheer up 😊

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much

Ricky-I'm so sorry you are going through this!! I raised four children… And having babies is definitely hard and having twins is unbelievably hard. All babies need a schedule, which makes them feel very secure. Babies cry when they're teething and they cry when they're tired and they cry when they're hungry and they cry when they're sick and they cry when they're having a growth spurt and need extra food. Having two times a day nap schedule. One in the morning from like 1030 to 12 o'clock and one in the afternoon from like 2 to 430 will make them feel secure. Babies need security and even more so, A ROUTINE! So when they get up in the morning… You feed them you play with them and as soon as they get cranky, you put them down for a nap in their bedroom upstairs . The reason they need a nap is that they're overstimulated flashing lights, TV, you talking into the camera is going to add to that overstimulation. When they get up from their morning nap, it's time for lunch and clean them up and that's when you can go to the mall. They're rested they're fed. They're ready for diversion. If they're crying at that time then they're teething. Your wonderful mom is going to help you, and in a month you can get them on a great schedule, which will make them feel secure, comforted, and it will make the city feel like their home!! Make time to snuggle with them and talk baby talk with them in their peaceful times .... so they feel your warmth. Men's bodies are hard...they need that too... but continue showing your soft tender voice and soft side!! Practice getting them to belly laugh too :)) You are doing a good job… You really are… Most women have a group of women that have babies that help them with information like the above that I gave you. You just need support and your mom is going to be amazing.

It is what it is ...just a bad day. When Mum gets there it will be fine. You need the month together. I promise it will all work . Time together will fix this .I promise I know . Do not give up thats not an option. Just love them and be patient . NOONE will ever love them more.Get into a regular routine when your Mum is there and everything will settle in .

Double trouble 😮 The crying helps the lungs develop. Sometimes they just need to cry. You get it in stereo mate 😅😅😅😅 Its quite normal. Its not a good idea to go running to them every time they cry. They develop a habit of it. (Maybe the grandparents spoil them too much?) It doesn't hurt them to cry for a few minutes. Get some earplugs 😅 (ive got 4 kids + 2 grandchildren) As long as they are not sick, hungry, or need changing, don't worry too much.

Awe, sweet babies.... they could be just teething mate. Get them some teething gel if you can mate, it will help them a lot or teething rings you can chuck in the fridge that will be nice and cold on their gums. Just a thought. Your doing a great job, parenting isn't easy even at the best of times!

Teething ❤

Just like everyone else said don't give up , you can see your trying your hardest to be.the best dad and sometimes babies just cry for no reason, but I can imagine how hard it is to hear them cry , listening to one baby crying is hard enough on your brain , as they get bigger you will be the fun dad for them taking them out and about spoiling them and the crying will stop , so don't doubt yourself or take it personally they are probably just out of their daily routine when you have them but it will get better and I'm sure when your mom's there she can help you out.its hard work with twins

Hey Rick my 2nd message and just remembered this, apparently I cried and screamed my lungs out for about a year or so with both my Mum and Dad. They were that worried (and stressed out 😟) that I was taken to a few doctors and specialist and all said he's healthy and there is nothing wrong with him. So mate I'm still here, I don't remember any of it, my parents loved me and did their best to endure at a stressful time and I know you will also Rick. Take care mate.

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

That would've been stressful. But hearing that also comforts me Gav

When I arrive Ricky I will be helping you with the twins !!! Give yourself some credit Ricky twins are hard work it’s not easy. !! Double trouble but Double love !!! Such Gorgeous gifts off your sister Jasmyne for her nieces, Ricky.

It's going to be nice when your mom gets there and your gf is there as well. Then it would help if you continue to have the twins more during the week.

Stay strong Ricky you're doing a great job❤❤❤

They just teething at that age. Don’t be afraid to give them baby panadol, thats what it's been made for. To take pain away from babies. My daughter gives her babies a half dose. My daughter is 39 has her 4th baby who is 2 year's old and she still can't cope most days, lol. You doin great job mate, there's only 1 of you. It will get easier as they grow. Many new mothers cry loads everyday with their new babies and that's just 1 baby. Just take it 1 day at a time. 👍

You do the best you can 😊❤everything will be fine

Your a good dad ricky hang in there mate

Don't beat yourself up. You're doing a great job. Parenting is tough, everything you are experiencing is totally normal. There will be days like this. Keep rested and keep pushing forward. Things will get easier. YOU'VE GOT THIS 💪

I understand how you feel, the stress you going through when the girls crying. My heart goes melting for the twins too, when ever they crying. Anyway you are doing good father. Good bless you and the twins.

Stress is contagious. You got stressed by the girls crying, they then pick up on your stress & get more upset. Then you get more wound up etc. It would be good if you had someone in the town you can call on for a bit of support when the day goes to shit. You are doing a good job. I was a single parent to 1, I can't imagine how I would have coped with 2. Also check if they're teething. And if spending more time with Thai family than you you might need to spend more time with them. When your Mum comes over aim to have the girls a lot.

Don’t worry if they cry . I know it’s stressful but you can’t always stop it. Hungry teething or tired.

@bighoss9705

2 ай бұрын

The crying also helps the lungs develop. Sometimes they just need to cry.

You're being a great dad! Don't be so hard on yourself, you have been through a lot. It's normal to feel down, soon you will feel better!

Don’t get depressed about it there babies it will get better I think spend more time around grandma’s house without taking them, so they see you a lot more around there

Brother you do you and with ur daughters Try block out the negativity people You are a great father and you have a great support network

I had a family member who died when her baby was just 4 months old..It cried all the time ..The doctor told them that the baby was grieving over its mother..It fills abandoned..Does make since ..They already had that bond ..Prayers for you and the twins

Dad, I think you need a break and recover, twins pick it up somehow. They just need picking up and being close to dad. Cuddles, lots.

One crying baby is bad enough, let alone two. I hope they are at least sleeping at night for you. You’re not doing anything wrong by the way, that’s just babies, I know, I’ve had six boys.

@ivydickson7596

2 ай бұрын

Well said, don't beat yourself up Ricky, you are doing great. You are doing nothing wrong, you love those girls and just wait for mum to give you some help.

@maxineb9598

2 ай бұрын

​@@RustyShakleford1And you don't think comments like yours aren't helping anyone either!!

Don’t give up buddy .. you’re doing nothing wrong it’s the joy being a parent .. these days happen .. keep fighting buddy love your channel

You got it! It will only get better as they get a little older...

You’re doing Great Ricky! Keep on Keepin on! 👏🇨🇦🐢❤️🙏

You are doing a great job Ricky please don’t get too down on yourself. As others have said, some days with kids are just hard for no reason.. This too shall pass. You are loved and supported by so many.

You are honestly doing great, don’t forget the twins are constantly attended to which unfortunately absolutely spoils your time with them, please don’t give up 😢🙏❤️

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you! Will do!

Don’t despair , you are doing a great job as a single dad , the most important is you love them and keep them safe , crying won’t hurt them , you are their father , they need more time with you , keeping you in my prayers .🥰🙏

Keep pushing, like you said mate 💪🏼👍 Sometimes the bad times are really bad, but the good times are awesome, and they’ll come. Trust and keep on truckin with the excellent support you have 👍

I acknowledge how hard you are finding this. I don’t think you are doing anything wrong. They are just little humans that have not been alive very long. Maybe their security and familiarity is based around the Thai family right now as they haven’t been with you quite as much lately. Don’t give up, spend more time at your house with them, and just expect a bumpy road for a bit. You are so important in their lives. Hang in there, be kind to yourself.

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you Jenny, you're absolutely right

Considering the circumstances you are doing a great job mate. I personally think the channel at the moment is providing you an outlet for your frustrations and is allowing you to talk it out and get your head straight. Keep fighting if you can. As the Thais say "su su su" Whatever you choose to do will work.

You are doing a fantastic job! Love your channel!

Hey Rick, mate I really feel for you at this moment and can see the stress and doubt in your eyes and hear it in your voice. I'm not a father so have no advice or silver bullet remedy to fix your situation. Rick if you need to take a break from YT and concentrate on yourself and the girls for a while or until your mum gets there then do it buddy. The true followers and members here will completely understand. Rick I will be in Thailand in June and would like to come visit you if you need just to talk some shit? I don't care if your city is quiet if I did then I would be planning on spending a month in Bangkok and Pattaya only.

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

I'll see what I can do Gav, stopping might help or could do me worse. Sometimes I feel good chatting and sharing my down moments on YT. I'll see what I can do also mate, maybe I can get down your way too

Hi Ricky, sounds like the girls are teething now. Give then ice pop to suck on. You’re doing well, don’t beat yourself up, we all go through this as mothers. Hard for you being a father . Things will settle down ❤

The twins are cutest 😍 😍💕 ever!

Don’t be too hard on yourself Ricky you are doing a great job babies cry for nothing sometimes but man can’t handle it they think that something is wrong they will get used to it and be with dad and you will be fine and manage the situation better so don’t be too worried

Hang in there Ricky, it’s not easy fore sure when they’re this young, once they’re grow up more gonna be so sweet with this beautiful girl.

Ricky do not give up on your girls, they get to much attention at there thai home. When your mum comes she will support you, you are not doing anything wrong, trust me. Love to you & your beautiful Lily ❤ & Dasiy ❤

Thank you Ricky. Love twin

You are not doing anything wrong Ricky. You are experiencing what every Mother goes through from time to time but not often does a Father have sole responsibility like you. You are so special to even be willing to take on all of this alone. All will be well Ricky , just keep doing what you are doing. ❤

@dianafernandez2999

2 ай бұрын

Ricky i pray to Jesus christ for you n the lovely twin, be patient all will fall well

Don’t worry Ricky i know it’s really hard looking after twins by yourself but remember you are super dad 💪😘and you are doing a great job!

Keep your head up brah!!

G'day from the Goldcoast mate. Life throws us spanners sometimes Ricky, especially for a young single dad with twins. You'll be right mate, just make the most of the good days and soldier through the tuff ones👍🙏

Ricky....you're not going to give up because the reality is, your baby girls need you and they want you just as much as you need and want them...kids at the best of times are a challenge...in a years' time you will look back at this and wonder what it was all about. Rick the best advice to you as a mum....and I was a single mum of 2 little ones 15 months apart...is, just go with the flow...have your plans but if you know the girls are unsettled, then scrap the plans for another day and get them and you out for a walk, it puts them and you in a different head space. now they are sitting...take a blanket with you, find a nice spot and get the girls out and sit with them...take something small they will eat. Don't put the pressure on yourself to film, because you feel you have to.....if you do, then set the camera up on the table or someplace and shoot your comings and goings with them...and put it to music and upload it, that way the girls have your attention, and you then feel like you've uploaded. Most of all don't be hard on yourself, there is light at the end of the tunnel, you may not be able to see it yet...but having kids...this won't change, it will only be different as they age...it all comes down to how you want to manage it. your GF is right...the girls need to be with you more, to allow you all to establish a routine...they are to use to the family's routine...they need to transition to their own with you. Keep ya chin up.

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Margy, I like the picnic idea 💡 now is a good time to try it while it has cooled down

I think your girls don't know you U talk like ur giving quickly..I don't know your everyday csuse you show us a snippet But u should have ur girls and Thai family get them weekends so you can hang with ur lady friend Instead ur doing it the other way ... u drop them to Thai they wake up have all the quality times They list 1 parent n u need to show up more for them ..morning time, bath time feeding is important.

You are doing a amazing job 😊hang in there it will get easier

You the best dad . don't worry they growing up that's why they change.soon everything's fine with your two little twins princess.Take care and God bless to your family.

Keep doing your best Ricky! It's a hard situation for everyone - some days with babies just don't go as planned. You don't need to prove anything to anyone and it's okay to have hick-ups along the road. Keep your head up, you're a great father!

Sucks to see you like that mate, but you're a great man and shit gets hard some times, you'll do what's best for all involved and hopefully mum can come in and help get shit back on track. You know you've got a bunch of supporters and friends on here and we all love seeing you, even through the bad times. That's just life. Stay positive and keep on keeping on.

It’s a bit of a stage they go through mate, the more time you spend with them the better they’ll get mate. Don’t second guess yourself because there’s no handbook on being a perfect parent 🇦🇺🙏

Sorry to rock the boat, but those kids are better off with their Thai family. They are there 24 hours. You are not. Also, with the kids half sister having her own KZread channel it shows how well they are looked after and loved at the village. You should not have left the village. Your new girlfriend also puts a spanner in the works. Sorry, my personal opinion.

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

New gf has nothing to-do with it. I couldn't stay in that village regardless

Keep on keeping on bro. I know the helpless feeling well, when I couldn’t get my kids to settle as a dad. The frustrating feelings you’re going through are normal and we have all been there as parents when nothing stops them crying. Chin up mate you’re doing fine and we are all behind you in spirit hoping the best for you. Every days a fresh start 😃👍🏼

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Appreciate it mate

Hang in there Ricky..your doing a great job..won't be long they will be following you everywhere..take care

you are a good father don’t blame your self!

Hi u doing a great job,keep it up

Sending lots of Hugh hugs to you😘 don’t be so hard on urself.You are doing your best 💪👍

You’re doing great Ricky! Sometimes babies will cry because of teething at this stage ☺💕

@rickyisaan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you Sarah

All the best man you are doing great work with the twins. Doesn’t look easy but your patience is immense

You did your best, Ricky. ❤❤

I love that you were so brave to show honestly what it's like to have twins

U don’t see them enough that’s what it is It’s sad I do feel for u but u need to be with them more

For the twins' safety, their gold bracelets should be worn as a gesture only and kept.

Hey Ricky. You’re a great dad. It is difficult being a single father, especially with twins. Your daughters are bonding more with the Thai family than you. I think you should raise them full time in your apartment. Let the Thai family come visit when they want. I don’t even think you should share “once a weekend they spend the night” for now. You’re trying to learn how to be a father to them and you need more time with them in your own space. I’m sure it’s incredibly hard and easier to just pass them off to the Thai Family, but they are yours. When they live in your house they will adjust and feel the loving bond of a father that they will want. I say full custody, let Thai family visit and ask on occasion if they can baby sit. You don’t have to let them tho. It’s up to you. You’re the daddy! It’s like you’re doing the deliveries and visiting while they’re rearing your daughters. You simple need more time with them every day as a good dad should. You’re still a great father no matter the position you take as long as you don’t give up on those girls

Keep up the good work

You are doing amazing mate. We all go through that with trying to work out why they are crying. You feel so frustrated. It is bad enough with one, but so hard to try to calm two at once. Look after yourself Ricky. Don't feel bad dropping the twins off to the grandmother and family. You are not a failure, you just needed a break dude. Wish we could help.

Your mum will be there soon keep going don't listen to other negative people sending love for om Scotland

You are doing better than you think! Just relax into caring for them. They can pick up on your stress levels, so try make your interactions more fun. 😊 you are a great dad and things will be easier the more you practise x

คิดถึงวันมีเวลาเลยมาดูค่ะ❤❤

There’s half a dozen family to play and nurse the girls. There’s no fatigue for one person. Babies like getting picked up and being doted on. Keep on trying when mum gets here, you’ll. Have some great support. Things will change for you.

Hang in there mate it will get better

No day is straight forward with kids. Plans are made to be broken. You are doing amazing. Make sure YOU have everything you need in life- including time and conversations with other adults. Its not just about the girls as wonderful as they are. They need a contented dad. .

สู้ต่อไปคะอย่าถอดใจหรือยอมแพ้กับปัญหาทุกสิ่งยอมแก้ใขได้พระเจ้ากำลังทดสอบความเข้มแข็งของจิตใจคุณ อย่าเศร้าหรือเสียใจกับสิ่งที่ทำร้ายจิตใจของคุณ ขอแค่ให้คุณมีจิตใจแข็งแรง พวกเราพร้อมที่จะเป็นกำลังให้คะลูกสาวของคุณพวกเค้ากำลังเติบโตและสวยงามคุณเป็นพ่อที่ดีและเมื่อพวกสาวๆโตกว่านี้เดินเองได้พูดได้คุณจะมีความสุขมากที่สุดเพราะสาวๆจะพูดคุยกับคุณ❤ ติดตามดูสองสาวสวยและคุณพ่อ แบบคุณ😊

@gavreynolds2689

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What you just said is a lovely comment.🧡🧡

@ppppp7537

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@gavreynolds2689

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@@ppppp7537 ฉันบอกว่าความคิดเห็นของคุณสวยงาม

@gavreynolds2689

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@@ppppp7537 ฉันบอกว่าความคิดเห็นของคุณสวยงาม