Can a Modern Woman be an Ideal Wife? - Sadhguru
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A student at the London School of Economics asks Sadhguru about the social expectations from a modern wife.
Tamil version of this video - • இந்த காலத்து பெண் நல்ல...
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He makes u understand that living life is the most simplest thing to do......
@ktolwal
4 жыл бұрын
i seriously order from uber eats every single day twice. inspite of my wife being a good cook. 🤐
@julijakeit
4 жыл бұрын
yea, you wake up, wash yourself and go.
@shivam_nagar69
2 жыл бұрын
situation have changed now, your comment was 2yrs ago
@fairygodmomma2313
2 жыл бұрын
👌
@iammealways1124
Жыл бұрын
@@ktolwalReduce the amount of exchange in her needs. Stop sexual urges for some days and do nofap without telling her. She feels useless and do everything for you. I write a bond paper this works 100%
If we're not respecting & appreciating the person whom we chose to stay with for the rest of life .... Thn we are creating biggest mess for ourselves & coming generation too...
@marissaojeda2700
4 жыл бұрын
You would think thats common sense.
@susantakumarsethi7148
4 жыл бұрын
Its true
@leolotus4155
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
I love the way his body bounces when he laughs! 😂😂😂
@debayanbasu8964
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤪😂
@Ss-hn5rf
4 жыл бұрын
Shoulders* ....shoulders* bounce
@ctetguru3363
4 жыл бұрын
This comment made me laugh really loud and hard at the midst of night
@AK-pq6xu
4 жыл бұрын
Freespirited laugh😂
@yadavikankanwadi782
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 hilarious
FRIENDSHIP FRIENDSHIP FRIENDSHIP because passion wears off so fast. Need to be with someone who brings you joy and vice versa, especially when sexual libido declines as we age & stay together longer. Also what I lack, he makes up for. What he lacks, I make up for. Together, we GROW like a flower. And loyalty to each other is first and foremost. Don't underestimate the power of laughter and kindness towards each other
@chloethemessenger
4 жыл бұрын
hello lyda well said 👏🏾
@sonalshastri
4 жыл бұрын
Right
@lordoffools9457
4 жыл бұрын
lol. nice joke
@kea7119
4 жыл бұрын
Very well said.
@PMcse
4 жыл бұрын
@@lordoffools9457 joke ? Well, if u think that this is a joke, then u r probably inviting the opposite of happiness.
He is absolutely right. If two happy people meet than happiness will multiply. Namaste from India🙏
@missanonoymous7829
4 жыл бұрын
We have to take into this the idea that marriage is not only about happiness. My huaband has a mental illness. We have ups and downs due to this reality. But..we are committed to each other. Happiness cabnot be the sole purpose of marriage. Does this make sense?
@nehashah2455
4 жыл бұрын
@@missanonoymous7829 hey even my brother has mental illness, he can't speak though he is 13 yrs old taking care of him is very difficult it sometimes frustrates the whole family but we take care bcz we love him.. he doesn't understand anything but whenever I get hurt he starts crying like anything looking at this it gives us happiness... We love him and are sure that one day he can achieve good and that will give us happiness.... He is happy bcz he loves us too so isn't a family threaded together by happiness and nourished by love? Ik there are many other things but the soul purpose is happiness and that's why we r together. So I don't think that person is wrong.... Btw hope you all are good and safe in this pandemic
@jayeshjoseph8122
3 жыл бұрын
Marriage is not about happiness or love ! It's about duty and responsibility to the society and kids .. its hard work and sacrifice for a bigger good .. rather than petty happiness for one self... Yes happiness can come as a by product that may come out of the satisfaction of fulfilling one's duty but surely ain't the sole purpose to begin with ...
@mukul.niranjanparekh3954
2 жыл бұрын
@@jayeshjoseph8122 what will you get out of contributing to society? After making many childrens you will only increase the load on mother earth. Marriage is about love and happiness.
@Olivia-bs5wj
2 жыл бұрын
Can you always be happy? Or what is happy people?
Conclusion :- Learn to GEAR UP....Don't always expect others to change for you.
Can a modern man be a ideal husband? Should be the next video for sure.
@revanthganesh3808
3 жыл бұрын
There is no modern man🤣🤣
@dikshantkhobragade5095
3 жыл бұрын
No man say he is modern 🙄
@ravichandrakumarchouturi5571
3 жыл бұрын
men remained almost same as they are from past 500 years , we wore same shirts and pants from then on only changes happened with women , changes also happened with men major changes happened with women . feminist
@leo-jr3mu
3 жыл бұрын
Yea , no man says I'm modern
@jayeshjoseph8122
3 жыл бұрын
Modern woman are not fit to be married ! If u don't have a predefined roles in a marriage it doesn't work .. nor anywhere for that matter .. The concept that love makes a marriage works is delusion!
Situations have changed but expectations are still the same.
@vstextiles6359
4 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for you.... get well soon...
@anosjc
4 жыл бұрын
Expect nothing and you'll be happy.
@paparudaruda656
4 жыл бұрын
vs textiles and you...get smart soon!
@mastertuhinbaruah9614
4 жыл бұрын
@@anosjc you said the right thing expectation hurt...when it's not fulfilled.....
@pk417
3 жыл бұрын
Yes my expectations are still same
He has Divine Knowledge with some amazing sense of humour .
@winstonalf
4 жыл бұрын
nothing divine.. He is just smart and intelligent.
@govindsingh-qd2lg
4 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@rashmii_kashyap02
4 жыл бұрын
watch sadhguru vdo on bermuda triangle....he is cunning man....fooling people in the name of religon
@subramaniamiyer2432
4 жыл бұрын
@@rashmii_kashyap02 😂 good so you are listening to some of his speeches.. It will definitely help you on the long run..
@Asmiiiii530
3 жыл бұрын
Oh bhai😆 watch his video on lactation on birth of twins.
Love from the UK I have no religion but your words touch me
If you are a misery and you need source of happiness... Then well... It'll multiply.. 😄😄👌👌👌
@sudaniamerikani3438
4 жыл бұрын
Jagan Mohan love it!!
@kroneexe
4 жыл бұрын
That's not even the quote, dude.
Knowledge..it is as precise, as clear and as simple as it can be when it comes through Sadhguru
@centralprocessingunit2564
4 жыл бұрын
even the continuum hypothesis?
Love this, humour and beautiful message. Made me laugh with your humour, and relayed a message so important, thank you Sadghuru 🙏.
There is nothing called as an ideal wife or an ideal husband in this world. No one is perfect or can be perfect. We all are humans and have some or the other kind of expectations from each other. Problem comes from here when we start expecting and we want to change the other person according to our own needs. We need to understand that everyone is unique and different in their own ways and there are both positives and negatives in a human being and we should learn to accept it. We can't always please others and we can't always keep others happy because it's human nature that we get sad, angry, depressed, annoyed, happy, disappointed. Human being is made up of all these feelings. So instead just try to be the best of you and be happy. Because if you are happy then only you can keep others happy. Just be healthy emotionally and physically so you can enjoy your life the way it is.
@syrjanen3397
2 жыл бұрын
Bad comment
@scys3k
2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@GRAPHIFOX1111
Жыл бұрын
So true :)
Angel of light! Thanks for the enlightment & guidance!
@rebeccanicholson8366
5 жыл бұрын
vishal kumar shining the light on a the topic or subject matter! Wisdom is shared to the masses to awake the mind !
This person is amazing. I never said it about anybody else.
Thank you Sadhguru, i don't understand yoga at all, but i can feel you are a wise man telling the truth, during a storm i learned how to light a flame inside my heart and now i don't need to stay in darkness. Much love from Brazil, please come visit our people, thanks for your outstanding work and contribution to humanity.
always awesome Sadhguru. What a blessing to have YOU amidst us Pranam
Wow..,.he is such a great genius soooo updated with current generation... look what he said uber,swiggy, etc...
I love Sadhguru .....💗❤️💞
How should I feel about it??? Feelings are to be felt not to be asked
@geethikas.pradeep8931
4 жыл бұрын
This was the first thing I thought.
@neerajsharma4394
3 жыл бұрын
@Age of Dreams yeah that's why she asked....coz perspectives can change....we can change how we feel once we know Abt it.
@armstrong2450
2 жыл бұрын
Not always. A direction is required sometimes. Even being high on weed feels good.
I lived on my own and depended on myself my whole life.
@MsJess-xs7kt
2 жыл бұрын
No mother ever? I'm sorry man. 😔 I woulda raised you , given the chance.
Why is this question being asked? Can a modern education compare to a 1950's education?
@akaciateague2204
4 жыл бұрын
Right, she asked how should she feel. It's a head scratched.
@Ritu-ci6li
4 жыл бұрын
Because girls or wife's r compared with mother's . That time a wife feels that she is not doing well enough ☹️
@vikramkishore1931
4 жыл бұрын
You are mixing literacy with education these two terms are totally different in 1990 they were educated but present generation are just literate only
@vidpid2113
4 жыл бұрын
What is an ideal wife should be the question. Her mother must have been an amazing mother but how can she as a daughter decide if her mother was ideal wife or good wife. This should come from his dad, isnt it?
@PMcse
4 жыл бұрын
@@akaciateague2204 true !
Why am i goosebumps and tears in my eyes after watching this.
@tsubakitarra37
3 жыл бұрын
Because you understand him. Lot of people don't and very few do.
Wao.! 🙏🏼 truly inspiring..!
Simple truth...beautifully expressed.....as aways!
He will always have answers to everything
The more I watch sadhguru, the more I hate to talk or make any comments or want to act smart because I realized I know nothing, so better learn by observation and meditation.
He is the Enlightened one. A wise and amazing personality.
Profound saying. Now a days people are after squeezing happiness from the other people
Sadhguru.... Just wow... Big big pranam to you.. bless us all 🙏
There's no such a thing as ideal wife or husband. Love each other, ask what matters most for him/her. We show our love through different things, so, what matters for me, might not matter for my spouse.
After only reading title : Why anyone has to be ideal ?? Why can't they be themselves and be true version of themselves. Why is it about female? P.s: this video popped up in my feed and these were thoughts came into my mind just by reading the title.
@duesdiaries371
4 жыл бұрын
When yu are hungry and need a Brownie, if the waiter misplaces ur order with a boiled egg, will u eat and pay for it silently saying i accept egg as such its nature? Likewise its evry1s choice to prefer ideal woman.. If yu r not the 1,then pick ur groom accordingly...but remember almost all guyz like ideal woman.
@imsoftdonttouchme8351
4 жыл бұрын
@@duesdiaries371 when men become ideal and perfect then we will be ideal and perfect
@duesdiaries371
4 жыл бұрын
@@imsoftdonttouchme8351being non ideal is the very nature of men.
@imsoftdonttouchme8351
4 жыл бұрын
@@duesdiaries371 and being non ideal is the very nature of women , actually of every human being !
@vikramkishore1931
4 жыл бұрын
Here one more feminist really you people are suffering god bless you
Eye opening things every time.
How gracefully explained..
As always briliant :)
Wise words ...thanks !
My life, thought process have been profoundly impacted by Sadhguru.
Always Right !!!! Thank you!!!!
This is beautifully put
As always wisdom at is best!! 🙏..
@chandanyadav2703
4 жыл бұрын
Seems that you are a great devotee of Lord shiva Ammada. From where are you?
this was beautiful
Great stuff
Thanku sir for solving our daily life problms so easily
Absolutely woww
Situations R totally different 🍁
Very wise!
Applause 👏 what an explanation.
So exact thing he said Soothing
Well spoken wisdom 😊
You're such a wonderful person
Nice talk
pls update this stuff without edits. no music. no cuts. no intros on a different channel. i really used to like this and download it on my phone and listen to it while on my way to uni but now it's really something else. i need to cut out the intros everytime y.y
So true ❤️
When it comes to women being the ideal anything I think it's important for women to not to compare themselves to a ideal as ideals can be to much pressure to follow and stress it's more important just to be the best ideal you one you achieve that then you will be the best woman for any situation in life including marriage
Sushmita: an interesting topic which SadhGuru answered so beautifully AND with a punch of course 😀 Love you Guru-Ji 😍
Speaks alwz logical 👌👌
Much respect for Sod Guru and his wise advice.
Great wisdom Sir. Sending Love, From Tanzania, TZ
@vijayshanker7447
5 жыл бұрын
We all too send love and prayers to you all
Tq sadhguru...
@mayursakri5889
5 жыл бұрын
From Malaysia...
@phoeNYkx
4 жыл бұрын
@@mayursakri5889 lmao
Listening to him made me realise I'm gearless. 😐😐 and I have so much friction that one could simply light a matchstick 😶😶
@bd1803
4 жыл бұрын
U will be fine,man..
Why is there no discussion about whether a man can be an ideal husband...that that question is not discussed is the reason why the modern woman is perceived as not an ideal wife..
@namratak9232
4 жыл бұрын
This is a highly misogynistic channel. What else do you expect 🙄??!!!
@sanjaybhat4260
4 жыл бұрын
its bcause no one there asked the question. If someone asked that questio then sadguru would nswr that as beautifly as well
@manasveesingh2314
4 жыл бұрын
Because I think nature has created us (females) unique n more perfect than men..so our responsibility towards our family n society is more.. We r the shapers of our family n society... Sometimes just believe n try to understand nature's law rather than debating over men's vs. women's....
@marvelxavier
4 жыл бұрын
Manasvee Singh stop.. there is no place for a feminazzi here ...
@danielthe1st
4 жыл бұрын
I respectfully disagree with you. He did answer the question for both man and woman. The basis of a happy marriage, I.e. being an “ideal” wife or husband, is that each one of them is happy and they do not depend on the other to be happy, then their union can be a happy one.
Great !!!
Well said 🌸
Why there is no video about, is he good husband or how to be a good one? Time to change the topic on wives. 🤷♀️
@friendlymonstaa
3 жыл бұрын
People are only asking these kind of questions, what can he do?
@ankushkumar9089
3 жыл бұрын
May be you haven't searched for that.
Good lesson.
Excellent speech
Great
My aunts belittle my career achievements and personal goals, and measure my worth based on how many traditional dishes I cook (not even one, am cosmopolitan). This video is exactly what I needed.
She is very true..
of course why not
Only patience and understanding of the root cause of problems and giving up on each other (husband and wife) will make difference (good way). And staying patience until bad situations pass away,If you have baby it's good be responsible. Don't marry according to someone s force or don't convince someone forcefully to marry take time and talk about their advantages and disadvantages (not family) You're both going to alive for next 85 year Not who forcefully convinced to marry , Everything has its own advantages and disadvantages. In my opinion marriage is good. Good evening all 🙏🙏
@learnerbutnotamaster4978
5 жыл бұрын
@@JABRONZKI7 not surely I will
Absolutely! V true. ♥️
Everyone is making video how women should be... Not how a man should be ..... Do your own work and love others, don't try to judge a man or a woman ..... Because everyone is different just like our fingerprint🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
superb sadhguruji.
Wearing sador mekhela nice & i love hearing sadhguru.
Pranam Sadgurudev 👏
Just be loving, caring, understanding and be the best friend of your man, and the man yours best friend too. Talk every problem out, contribute equally to everything (not monetarily), maintain an equal give and take. Make the relationship go to a soul depth. There you go, the best wife/husband.
Namaskaram Sadhguru🙏🙏🙏
Sadhguru has the answers which Google doesn't have ;)
Sadguru u r geart for make people understand about man women companionship which is way more practical that wester thought *marriages r made in heaven*
Expectations.... we are in a time of excessive and unrealistic expectations.
@YouTubeDeletesComments
4 жыл бұрын
And Women are the worst when it comes to being realistic, or should I say the lack of the ability to be realistic, and not materialistic!
Beautiful ❤️
Well said
Thank you Sadhguru Ji❣️
The girl asking question is wearing a pink mekhela chador.. A traditional Assamese attire 😻😻
Everyone has a different definition for an ideal partner but a few things remains same. Honesty Loyalty Responsible Mature Independent Good values And the list goes on
@pij6277
4 жыл бұрын
Virginity.... But this will draw the ire of women.
@suparnachakraborty9801
4 жыл бұрын
@@pij6277 I agree. That's also important for both husband and wife (no one is an exception) . It depends on mentality. People are becoming more open minded now.
@silverbullet3939
4 жыл бұрын
That is precisely the problem - that there is a long list! Most of us are deeply flawed with inconsistent views driven by hormones. If we judge ourselves by the standards we judge others and had a fair view of reality, we would have happier relationships!
♥️ ನಮಸ್ಕಾರಗಳು ಸದ್ಗುರು ಅವರೇ ♥️ 🙏 Namaskaram sadhguru 🙏 📕📖📖📖📖📖📖📖📖📖📕
@kushdwivedi3691
5 жыл бұрын
Which language do you know
@nkstudios4947
5 жыл бұрын
Srinidhi ಶ್ರೀ sharanu
@nkstudios4947
5 жыл бұрын
Kush Dwivedi Kannada
I love u ,,,u r just awesome.
What are the characteristics of an ideal husband ? Who is an ideal wife ? Questioning herself - Populist stand from lady asking the question . Touched 😉
@marissaojeda2700
4 жыл бұрын
Depends on the relationship and what that person wants. But generally it's someone with compassion, patience and a loving personality.
Is being a "geared" human being superior to not being one? What is the ideal way to live? With or without the support of social support. And finally, what does one really need to do with his/her life? What does it mean when Sadguru says that one must know this piece of life in its entirety? What is the significance of that and what will such an understanding culminate to? Someone please send this to Sadguru and make him make a video on it or something.
Intelligent answer. 😀
It's all about exploiting nowadays
@varshaphal
4 жыл бұрын
@Debanjan Banerjee and you too. Grow up kid.
Such a rational view 👌👌
Love you sadhguru from Canada
She is honest. 😍😘
I love u, my Guru!!!❤
The lady is Assamese. Where this interaction has been held?
Probably the best video till date... I hate the fact that Nepalese parent's force their daughter to be an ideal wife... We from our very first day we are treated as outsider and our parents especially mother teaches us to do household stuff rather than other useful things ,so that we can be ideal wife .... Well I'm not saying this is not useful... It's the basic skill of life we girls are blessed 🙏 of , but why are we forced to do these things.... ??? Now being 18 i started to think the same will i be a good wife.... Or should i not be get married because we won't have life for ourselves after marriage.... We need to think of other people and husband and relationship.... So i thought i will never get married.... But if any men get this point and this video... Than surely not every man thinks like my mother.... !!
Definition of culture is " moving with the times...in a positive way......" If a woman is not modern she is not cultured........how can she be a good wife.....sound education plays a critical role in a person's ability to differentiate the positive & negative aspects of human activities...... & they must be bold enough to ditch all negative activities...or else society will stay in a stagnant mode.....a woman who fully understands this is able & will prove to be an efficient & understanding wife & mother....