It’s 1:30am in Texas right now. I’m laying on the couch in tears feeling like a failure as mother. My precious son is 9. He’s autistic and he’s perfect in my eyes. He’s curled up at my feet. It’s the closest he’s come near me lately. I see so much beauty in him. I can see the world through his big blue eyes. But I also see his pain. And I see the way the world looks at him. This song. This perfectly written string of words fills my heart with hope. It feels me with power. I sing your music daily and just finished your audio book. When it was over my heart broke a bit. It was if , for awhile I was hearing a friend talk to me about their life. It made me feel less alone. I just want to say thank you for your words. For your voice. For sharing your soul with us.

@angelloves5637

2 жыл бұрын

Your son is a blessing and sadly others cannot see the gift God has given you" to raise and care for everyday.. He is so blessed to have you as his mother and God will give you strength in those times that it gets hard in your Lives. in the name of Jesus Christ his son .. May the good Lord always watch over you and your son ...

@Patriotswelcome

2 жыл бұрын

I have a 7 year old with the same diagnosis. He doesn't talk but boy does he love music! Don't ever give up. This life is very hard but also so beautiful!

@Mary-Love

2 жыл бұрын

This comment inspired tears and chills upon my skin, kind stranger, you are beautiful too, please never stop spreading love in every colorful form

@MRSANN2010

2 жыл бұрын

I wish i could say it gets easier but it does get more manageable. My son is 25 you surely isn't alone. We are out here fighting this fight of faith with you. You just can't see us individually. God is in control of our lives take it day by day. Start your day with prayer throughout the day give Him thanks and end your day with prayer. God loves you and so do i. ❤🥰❤🤝🏽🤝🏽🤝🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾

@Milaperadotti

2 жыл бұрын

I just read your story and it touched my heart. I have an 8yr old daughter with autism. I tell her how much I love her she can’t say it back. It used to break my heart until I realized she shows her love in different ways. You are a great mother the fact that you worry that you are not ,just shows that you are a great mother.

I love that she put a veteran in this video. We overlook the people who put their lives on the line for our freedom and so many times they are overlooked, and abandoned.

@jenniferbradley8470

2 ай бұрын

These people fought for our country so that we could have freedoms to be whatever we could be, and they should never be forgotten or cast aside.

@triksy02

Ай бұрын

Your freedom...? Sorry didnt know usa has a freedom problems..

@barnesjohn7657

Ай бұрын

Yep..,.. as an old gay geezer no one is given an exception to cruelty

@veeherreraJanecka

25 күн бұрын

And she included an immigration story too. Humanity

An anthem to inclusion and acceptance. A middle finger to bullies and haters. What an amazing, haunting, powerful song and video.

@Venetiababy1

6 ай бұрын

It knocks me out! Omg! What a talent!

@sjcolo78

Ай бұрын

Well and truly! I keep falling in love with this song whenever I hear it. It's rare that I get this captivated by a song; its lyrics, music and even her voice is strong yet gentle and angelic. This girl is mighty gifted!

@Gods_Real

Ай бұрын

No it's not. God's a man and he's above. You're all below him the 99.999999999999999999 because you're not the 1.

I'm a School Counselor and used this video as part of a Social Emotional Lesson for Middle School this morning. Tough crowd. This video is absolutely disarming and powerful. It has a great representation of ages and cultures/skin tones that is inclusive and reaches the empathy even Middle Schoolers can access.

@micheledegroot2247

29 күн бұрын

Love that, wish we had counselors like you way back when

A few days ago I turned 44 years old and today I listen to this song for the very first time, and I couldn’t stop crying while I was on the train to my house... I’m latino, inmigrant, gay and old... many times I have felt invisible in a city with millions of people around me, but tonight I saw myself in your song. Maybe you never read this but today you made me feel human again for 4:58 minutes... Thank you Brandi... ♥️

@dameargumentos

5 жыл бұрын

Were do you live?

@MoonShoes22

5 жыл бұрын

You're not old...

@puddinpak

5 жыл бұрын

One correction, you are very young yet!

@MC-ij3lb

5 жыл бұрын

I'm the same age. I'm your sister. So you aren't alone. xoxox

@jennys2294

5 жыл бұрын

Happy Birth-week, Santiago. I am 43, and recently I have been feeling old too, but I am hoping for a 2nd wind because I am about to move countries and start again from scratch. It is scary, and yes, it is lonely. Life has so many ups and downs. But I am determined to try. I was a strong, energetic and creative person when I was young and lost most of that the past few years, but I want to try and find some of that in me still. I hope you also find the best in you soon too. Warmest wishes.

I'm leaving this comment here so that everytime it gets a like I will come to know that someone has finally discovered this masterpiece. Sooner or later people will discover this gem. 💖

I am a therapist. I can't tell you how many times I have shared this song and video with clients. It is beautiful.

@geralt6229

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤. You know they are beautiful too.

@Dani-nl2id

Жыл бұрын

Do you share it with a certain kind of client? I'm having a hard time understanding the reasoning behind showing it to them. Is it the "the joke's on them" line? Is it about bullying maybe? Or is it "I've seen how it ends". Is it to tell them it will all be okay in the end? Sorry if I come across ignorant, I just want to understand :)

@AlphaMachina

Жыл бұрын

If you haven't seen it, you should check out "Hi Ren" by Ren. It's a lifechanging experience.

@laurenbendik2006

10 ай бұрын

Im not the therapist but id say its good to share with anyone who feels they are made to feel lesser than or feel beat down by life.

@MichelBiesot

4 ай бұрын

Amen Lauren! ❤​@@laurenbendik2006

I can't believe I've wasted so much time not hearing her voice. What a gift she is. A storyteller and a musician. I've found my new favorite artist!!

@elizabethsinding5618

10 ай бұрын

Totally agree!Where have I been?

@Bugg7354

3 ай бұрын

Same! I just discovered her a year or so ago! How have I missed her!!!!

@cleocatra9324

3 ай бұрын

I’ve been a fan since I first heard her around 2006. Since then most of the time there’s a new song I really like on the radio there’s a 90% chance it’s Brandi

@randalynfisher4996

3 ай бұрын

This song amazes me!I hope someone plays it in remembrance of me!!

@randalynfisher4996

3 ай бұрын

Plea

This song is more criminally underrated than I thought 😳 thanks Benny and AGT for the introduction wow it’s beautiful 😭

@mmmk1616

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, me too! I cried, and I'm crying again now!

@joycebarlow9215

4 жыл бұрын

Chris 8 this singer is just Awesome 😎 what a fantastic voice xx

@WombExplorer

4 жыл бұрын

This song just has less views but it doesn't change the fact that this song Actually won Grammy award! People are busy into rap/hip hop shit rn:(

@welcometoreality3450

4 жыл бұрын

please everyone pass this video around!

Brandi Carlile! OMG what insight what feeling. This came from the Universe. The tears won't stop flowing and I am 78 years old. Thank you for this song. 🌹🌹

@strollinwithrollin

Ай бұрын

Those are the tears of life, let them flow

To the young people watching this video and listening to this song, REMEMBER THIS. The bullies are ALWAYS more miserable than you. They are broken, sad, lonely and empty, and the only thing that makes them feel better is to try to make YOU as miserable as THEM with their ugly words and actions. Keep fighting through the tears and you will come out on the other side more strong and confident and beautiful than you could ever imagine. You are worth the fight ❤❤❤❤

@fry5544

4 ай бұрын

🧡 Thank you so much. 🧡 Infinite love to you. 🧡

@fry5544

4 ай бұрын

Been bullied all my life from everyone, by my family/parents, sister, partners, friends, school, university, work, teenagers, adults, white people, coloured people, neighbours, neighbourhood. It feels like the whole world is bullying me. Thank you for your kindness & respect.

@fry5544

4 ай бұрын

Been bullied all my life from everyone, by my family/parents, sister, partners, friends, school, university, work, teenagers, adults, white people, coloured people, neighbours, neighbourhood. It feels like the whole world is bullying me. Thank you for your kindness & respect.

@ozbizbozzle

2 ай бұрын

I don't think the bullies even know what they do for they carry so much trauma that they believe that's who they are.

@Gods_Real

Ай бұрын

False be christ and 1 person blamed for all your fu** ups and not sticking up for yourself or dying for yourself. You're a loser expecting or designating someone else to do it. The person that doesn't die inherits thebearth and you all follow. Play this game. Bet right or wrong. It's a 50 50

I’m a transgender youth in the south, texas to be exact. I just turned 18 and i’m so scared to be an adult here, it feels like everyone here hates me and who i am, what i am, every inch of me. but this song gives me hope, makes me feel like maybe, just *maybe* it’s worth it, to keep on trying and maybe get somewhere better. I’m terrified of violence, to use public bathrooms, to speak or for my binder to show. i hope it’s going to be okay, that i’ll live a long happy life where people don’t hate my identity and see me for who i am. Thank you for this song, and thank you for the hope and peace it brings me.❤️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

@joanramler7831

2 ай бұрын

I cry reading your post. I hurt for you. I am old and I know that at 18 so many things seem overwhelming. Trust me, it will get better. You will find your place. Not everyone hates. Please, just you be you.

@marylynnebiener4205

2 ай бұрын

I’m a 51 year old mom in Toronto. My daughter is a year younger than you. She’s queer and most of her friends are queer and trans. Most of my friends are as well. It enrages, terrifies, and deeply saddens me what all trans and nonbinary people are being faced with, this endless barrage of ignorance and hatred and literal violence. It’s time that the assholes perpetrating this rottenness are accountable. It needs to stop yesterday. I just want to send you some love and support, and I got a big old internet mom hug if you need one. And I’m a good listener if you ever need a friend. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I’m glad this song gives you some comfort. It does me, too. And I literally just sent it to my kid.

@adamlorber

Ай бұрын

❤

@user-bq2pc9hd6h

Ай бұрын

Be happy with who you are ❤

@getgaymin

Ай бұрын

As a young queer in 2007, when Brandi's first album came out, I felt the same way.... I am so proud of her for continuing to inspire, and you for continuing to persist & persevere. Know that you are loved & that you will find your tribe soon and they will wrap you up in a big blanket of love

heard this first at AGT 2019.. such a beautiful song.

@tomward8640

5 жыл бұрын

Benicio Bryant goes to my school

@tomward8640

5 жыл бұрын

Kool kid

@danielaguerra4812

5 жыл бұрын

@@tomward8640 cool

@faimagine9817

5 жыл бұрын

Mee too

@Ace-dp9wl

5 жыл бұрын

❤️

This is one of the GREATEST songs ever

@awesomedeb9922

4 жыл бұрын

Agree!

@paulchandler9241

3 жыл бұрын

I have to agree.

@paulchandler9241

3 жыл бұрын

I think it might be the best song this century so far.

@brooks323

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds Alright. Sounds like a song from the 70’s.

@fawzulazimrafid1484

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree and one of the most underrated song ever

I'm pretty sure this is actually the greatest song of all time.

@louis9945

10 ай бұрын

👍🏻 agree❤

I never realized how powerful this song is. Whew 😢! For some who have never fit in, thank you for finding our voice. 🙏🏽🥹

Thanks AGT and Benicio for bringing me here. Great song.

@edgargomez4620

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@reginavanzuiden3737

5 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@adrianapatanduk7786

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@yousafkhankhannies948

4 жыл бұрын

Me too as well

@gdgill5298

4 жыл бұрын

Great song.. thanks to Benicio..

I can’t even express how important a song this is. I wish every teen who has felt rejection could hear this song and every person who has felt prejudice due to class, or any type of social difference. I sure needed this in the 1980s.

@girljocknerd

Жыл бұрын

💯💙

I'm a 42 year old straight cis white male... and I cannot get through this song without 😭 Brandi Carlile isn't just the voice of our generation... she's the voice of ALL generations!

@gsoboslay6348

Жыл бұрын

I'm headed out tomorrow from N-E Ohio to Nashville. All you Whippersnappers ... lighten up and keep planning fun things in your future. I'm going to add B C & Twins to my list. My. Birthday gift to me...a concert to hear the best ... on my 80th birthday 🤩

@KLM1883

Жыл бұрын

What is cis white male

@chels2cool32

Жыл бұрын

What does you being a cis white male have anything to do with you crying

@floccinaucinihilipilificat6749

Жыл бұрын

@@KLM1883 cis means not trans

@KLM1883

Жыл бұрын

@@floccinaucinihilipilificat6749 😂🤣😂🤣

I am 58 years old, and starting to heal old wounds others inflicted during my childhood. I am an oldest of everything (oldest grandchild, daughter, niece, cousin). I was blessed with 5 kids and (for now) 12 grandkids. This song definitely have healing properties. Listen and sometimes sing it every day to help me survive some of my most challenging days. Bless you all 🙏🏼♥️

@katemcalear8591

8 ай бұрын

This sounds like me. Hope you are doing well. This song is beautiful x

@gemazdiclasse7325

8 ай бұрын

Thank you dear. Doing better. Greetings and Blessings 🙏🏼♥️

If I had a dollar for every time brandi’s music made me cry on the bus I would be able to afford something other than public transportation

@YourLoyalDeserter

5 жыл бұрын

Deena M that made me laugh lol

@josephavendano6902

5 жыл бұрын

You are a sweet soul.

@josephavendano6902

5 жыл бұрын

Deena M you read like a kind soul Deena👼

@mikesimonian990

5 жыл бұрын

Deena M get a job

@pelicanstatepiper2916

5 жыл бұрын

Vehicle ownership is overrated

As far as as I'm concerned Brandi is the most talented female singer/song writers of her generation! I'm so glad I found her music! ❤ Oh! And I'm 65!

@carpenter123154

2 жыл бұрын

I'm 66 and feel the same way... her music is haunting and reaches deep within.

@katieklein3256

2 жыл бұрын

I’m 15 and I feel this way, I feel that she is one of the most talented and caring singers of my generation as well

@mwbrada

2 жыл бұрын

I'm just glad I found her. That kid from AGT brought me here. This song...

@sue17

2 жыл бұрын

Fellow 65 year old! Been fangirling over Brandi since 2005!

@sandyseward522

2 жыл бұрын

@@sue17 Great, I didn't stumble on her until 2008. She really is an amazing singer songwriter. So few left!

HOW DID I JUST TONIGHT, DISCOVER THIS MASTERPIECE??!!!!! Wow. Life is amazing. Just when you thought you heard everything….your heart is swept up and forever changed.

@christinet100

6 ай бұрын

you're a year ahead of me! I have it on autorepeat - need to make up for lost time 💕

My son was born with Down Syndrome 36 years ago. He was laughed at. He asked me what a spastic was and what was a mongol. I asked him where he had heard these words. He said it was his ‘friends’ at school. Thank you Brandi, I am smiling as I listen to your voice as the tears roll down my cheeks. My Boy shines and he is beautiful and he is My Guardian Angel who gifts me and many, unconditional love ❤️

At 68, I've heard how many songs? Yours, Brandi, is one of the best.

@intowngirl102

4 жыл бұрын

61..I feel the say way!

Benicio Bryant from America's Got Talent brought me here! What a phenomenal cover of a beautiful song.

@cjoviac

5 жыл бұрын

Cody Osborn Me too! I just took a single lyric from his performance hoping to find the original song. He really did a wonderful job!! What a song choice for a 14yr old though? Good for him!! I’m rooting for him!👏🙏

@madysoncausey3217

5 жыл бұрын

AGREED

@quintaldasrixas

4 жыл бұрын

me 2

@dishatto

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!!

Thank you Brandi for letting me take part in your vision. Six years have passed just about, I was so tortured back then. But stuff like this gave me hope. Thank you for being part of my blessing here. We go on. 💗🙏🏽

This song hits right in my heart I cry every time I listen to it. Even more now, we lost our beautiful niece July 2023. My sisters daughter. Let's be kind and teach kindness to our kids.

Most of the time I am unimpressed and depressed with this world because I am different. This magic song makes me want to grab some paper towels and a bottle of windex and shine up my soul until it sparkles like a huge diamond. How restored and soaring you made me feel. With thanks from your newest fan, a 56 year old single red state misfit in Columbus, Ohio who discovered you and this song for the very first time tonight while watching you on the Grammys. My dog Belle moved off the couch and stared at me because she thought something was wrong because it made me cry. Many thanks for making me feel something. Just HAD to attempt to let you know.

@susiq4857

5 жыл бұрын

James Geo You're alive, your heart beats, your soul sings and you are special.

@TheGreatConstantini

5 жыл бұрын

You are not alone out there. Perhaps there are a lot of people who in these dark times are more like you than you will ever no. The rest can just spin...

@jess4299

5 жыл бұрын

This is so beautiful. I so wish she could see this comment! You seem like a beautiful person just from these few words. Shine on!

@sataniccommunist9045

5 жыл бұрын

well said..

@aylbdrmadison1051

5 жыл бұрын

Reading these comments has made me feel hopeful and made me smile and tear up at the same time. Love for all of you.

I'm here after watched AGT Brandi carlile is a great singer Love this song ❤️

@pverel7510

5 жыл бұрын

me too!

@PrashantPatel0042

5 жыл бұрын

Yes

@johnchikkatiganis5801

4 жыл бұрын

Likewise Awesome song

I am unashamed to admit this song brings tears to my eyes every time I hear it. So beautifully delivered.

@cheriroush2509

Жыл бұрын

❤️

@caroljohnson2018

11 ай бұрын

Me too.

@meriembendarhal11

10 ай бұрын

Same here . Don't be ashamed of being a beautiful person reacting to beautiful things ❤

@norashaner3103

10 ай бұрын

Absolutely and sends chills down my spine!

@jenniferbradley8470

2 ай бұрын

I cried so hard today hearing this song!!! Played it 3 times

Words and music from the heart. Universal language of the heart, the mind, and most importantly the soul.

The way her voice breaks is so thrilling. It pierces through everything through all the bs and trauma and baggage and pokes right into your heart. I wish I heard her more on the radio, theres so much junk getting airtime instead of great artists.

@onairo2499

2 жыл бұрын

Krater.96

@spareparts1017

2 жыл бұрын

What’s a “radio”

@coreybuchanan2169

2 жыл бұрын

My favorite part is her voice breaks.

@kindredspiritfly

2 жыл бұрын

she is an amazing vocalist!!

@leaf2180

2 жыл бұрын

When I'm in the car i usually stick to the stations that play music from before the 90s, occasionally listening to 90s if they're playing a good song. Kind of sad that you have to get on the internet and search up gems like this just to listen to it. Been a fan of Brandi since i was a kid. Always hoped and wished she'd blow up like Taylor Swift, can't say I'm disappointed that she didn't. But she does deserve much more recognition.

Don't know why but I am a 45 year old man sobbing at this song something spoke to me

@stevebailey5591

4 жыл бұрын

It must trigger memories from your childhood, or maybe you're a parent yourself.

@Brend.0

4 жыл бұрын

my childhood here

@redheadedfreckles2

4 жыл бұрын

Andrew Hughes me too

@everythingNotHere

4 жыл бұрын

55 and same here.

@SweetColo

4 жыл бұрын

61, same here. Guess we have all suffered or are suffering. It hits a primal nerve in a beautiful way. Chilling.

I came straight here , after seeing this INCREDIBLE singer, performing this song live , on the NBC Today Show this morning. I live in Brisbane Australia , and I have never heard of Brandi Carlile - until today . You have a new fan Brandi

I was bullied in jr. high by 2 girls that made it hell for me. I wish I’d had this song then. Their bullying really scarred me and caused much grief for me even now. Totally changed my sweet and naive nature to one of mistrust and fear of other people. This is a great song.

@stevenholst

9 ай бұрын

Sorry you went through that. Hope you've been feeling better.🙂

@bobhess7434

8 ай бұрын

I am so very sorry about this. You deserved so much better than what you were given.

You're feeling nervous, aren't you, boy? With your quiet voice and impeccable style Don't ever let them steal your joy And your gentle ways, to keep 'em from running wild They can kick dirt in your face Dress you down, and tell you that your place Is in the middle, when they hate the way you shine I see you tugging on your shirt Trying to hide inside of it and hide how much it hurts Let 'em laugh while they can Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends And the joke's on them You get discouraged, don't you, girl? It's your brother's world for a while longer We gotta dance with the devil on a river To beat the stream Call it living the dream, call it kicking the ladder They come to kick dirt in your face To call you weak and then displace you After carrying your baby on your back across the desert I saw your eyes behind your hair And you're looking tired, but you don't look scared Let 'em laugh while they can Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends And the joke's on them Let 'em laugh while they can Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends And the joke's on them

@davidcantwell2489

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to write that down I for one appreciate it.

@raheelsidddiqui1033

5 жыл бұрын

Jennifer Pardue thanks... peace and love ..

@JennP.Can6316

5 жыл бұрын

@Raheel Sidddiqui @David Cantwell No problem at all. Honestly, I just copied and pasted from another website. 🤷🏻‍♀️😬 The song is so very inspiring and meaningful, I wish everyone in the would would hear it, and soak up the lyrics in their hearts.

@emilymaleahtench9409

5 жыл бұрын

so beautiful ♡

@vlm5723

4 жыл бұрын

@@JennP.Can6316 what is the song about? I am not quite sure. Beautiful and haunting.

In tears just heard this song today and it’s just what I needed to hear. My parents put me though 33 years of hell. I never lived up to their expectations, it’s been 5 years now that we have spoken. I’m happily married to a wonderful man , three kids , who could ask for more ❤️ Thank you Brandi!

@libster9631

4 жыл бұрын

I get it. My estranged father and I unexpectedly met. It went poorly and he said, "I hate you" to me

@kriszti31

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear this had happened to you. I hope you're ok.

@MrChrissy1r

3 жыл бұрын

I get it too, I could never do right in my parents eyes. Though I married a beautiful girl, and was/am a successful businessman, with a lovely home and a fantastic son, but I never let my parents jaundice, get to me. They are long gone now, and no regrets. Sadly I lost my wife after 49 very very happy years five years ago, (cancer) so, alone now, and only have my memories and the very best thing in my life now is memories , music and song!!

@yourworshipthegreat7630

3 жыл бұрын

This is the 4th year of no any sort of communication! She massed up my psychic as a child and yet she thinks im the problem! What hurts is that, she doesnt understand the extent of what she did affects me and i didn't confront her about! Other wise she will insinuate of me wanting an apology because yap! parents on this side of the world are not faulty to their own off springs which i understand! I left the country may be after ten yrs i will think of a possible make up that is 6yrs to go!

@MIB_63

3 жыл бұрын

@@MrChrissy1r I can totally relate to you. All I have left after an accident that left me disabled, losing my wife and losing the love of my son is music. Music is a healer. Stay strong, Chris Bond!

I’m a female, Latina, gay, and seeing the worst was fool of fog, I’ve been invisible for many years, but this song made me feel like I can kick high and keep my head up high, thank you for this..

@Doni4684

Жыл бұрын

Yes, you can!! ❤️=❤️

@angielopj5275

Жыл бұрын

Me gusta tu nombre Jessica Palacio

@daniello9155

Жыл бұрын

Jessica, just be a good person and be true to yourself, thats all that matters.

After waking up from Jehovahs witnesses cult indoctrinations, after 40 years, shunned by all my family and life-long friends, I found the lyrics to have a special meaning. Thank you very very much for this piece of art giving my heart a hug of comfort and motivation.

This is one of the songs that takes you to another dimension. You can feel it in your skin, your bones and of course, your heart. Love every single word.

@leafnlore2712

3 жыл бұрын

You, too? Absolutely. Peace to you!

@sue17

2 жыл бұрын

YES!

@silviaoliveira6290

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

@kcfurn

2 жыл бұрын

Perfectly said

@yvonnewheeler6230

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely Amen to that ❤

This is the America we fight for. This is the America we grieve for. This IS America! What a beautiful gift!

@biggiepablo

5 жыл бұрын

TheBuch4 Well said! Well said!

@larrymoore9986

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

I cry every single time I listen to this. I first saw her sing it at the Grammy’s. I saw the emotion in the audience as well. Amazing thoughtful beautiful song sung by an amazing woman.

Women spin kindness like a innocent child that they teach and hold dearly each moment of life.

Hands down, Brandi Carlile gave THE BEST performance at the 2019 Grammy’s. Should have won more than she did.

Just watched her live on the Grammys. I had chills the entire time. The woman is absolutely incredible, unique, and powerful with her voice.

@semisophisticate63

5 жыл бұрын

Wasn't it an amazing performance??? I loved all the performances but this one stood out for me.

@juliecopelandbarrows2971

5 жыл бұрын

Me too. I was mesmerized by Brandi last night.

@1974jrod

5 жыл бұрын

It was awesome!

@sazcarr

5 жыл бұрын

I can’t find a video of the performance to watch it 😢

@emilyh.8704

5 жыл бұрын

I have never watched her perform ..but let me tell y'all..this incredibly amazing talented woman touched the very depth of my soul with her words and chilling yet soothing voice...totally blew me away..I saw her today on Ellen as well and THAT performance was way better than on the Grammys..Ms. Brandi..I wish you nothing but all the success and happiness ..love from all.. you so deserve..you are down to earth and true..peace be with you and your wife always..

I have been bullied. By everyone, i know all my life until i heard this song a few weeks ago.... i even got sober . Thank you, Brandi ... I'm a fellow musician. I'll cover this song to save others. With your permission.

I listen to this song regularly on my commute to work, and while I do housework it comes on my automatic playlists. I can’t count how many times I’ve heard it. I cry every time she gets to the part where she says “they displace you after carrying your baby on your back across the desert”. I’ll never come close to feeling what that must be like. I was born in America. My parents were not fleeing from anything. The rest of the song resonates with me as a disabled person, as a queer person, and as a woman. And that part always makes me just feel so much like I want to send kisses and hugs and good fortune to anybody in that situation- and so sorry that I cannot help. I hope anybody who is trying to win a better life for their children is met with victory. I’m not a religious person, but that line in this song really does make me pray to the universe that anybody who has carried their child on their back across the desert enjoys every good thing life has to offer after they end up where they want to be.

@bigfan7330

9 ай бұрын

That is also one of my favorite lines in this miraculous song!

When I first heard this, I felt like she was singing directly to me, to that part of me that I've forgotten about, to the scared little boy who still wants someone to tell him he's okay just the way his, that it's okay to be sad and scared but that he doesn't have to be any more. Thank you, Brandi Carlile.

@OutGayMusic

6 жыл бұрын

I so can relate, Shawn. Feel free to subscribe to my channel, please. Many songs in my playlists speak to similar feelings. Many are gems, many are under appreciated, many others range across a wide spectrum.

@johnmichaelarnaud

6 жыл бұрын

Right there with you, brother.

@drewroberts948

6 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way everytime i watch this video. She is my new hero!!

@heathmartin9283

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@CantWaaait

5 жыл бұрын

Shawn McClearn You're still okay just the way you are 🤗

I had never heard of her and I'm thankful to the Grammys for introducing me to her. Chills all over my body

@Fallingfast09

5 жыл бұрын

TheOtherSide she was fairly popular in the mid 2000s. You should listen to her other songs. She’s great!

@vuez1

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed!! Go back and listen to The Story. I still listen to it, first song on my Mp3.

@kycone

5 жыл бұрын

She’s even better in person. Go see her if you can!

@lucretiabagley2494

5 жыл бұрын

Yes this song has been downloaded I felt those same chills

@lunalovesprocrastination9248

5 жыл бұрын

saaaaame

I can’t explain exactly why, but this song completely dissolved me into tears. Maybe the why doesn’t really matter.

Who are these 2.2K people who don't like this song? Are you nuts? It is heavy, but addresses acknowledges many of the problems we have in America.

Grammy Nominated!! I am so happy for her, this song deserves Song and Record Of The Year nods

@Adansonia13

5 жыл бұрын

Deserves the award for each category :')

@gabrielasilva41

5 жыл бұрын

Shallow is better

@daddyspecialangel

5 жыл бұрын

Citizen Erazed I wish it got more plays on the radio. I didn’t even know who she was until the Grammy nominations and she deserves to win with this masterpiece

@ariobimod

5 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry but shallow is that btch. Period!

I'm here as Elton John said, of any song he could wish he had written, it was this one.

@latoyamitchell3430

4 жыл бұрын

Has to be the ultimate compliment of all time for an artist.

@susandoc1739

4 жыл бұрын

Well it took me a lot longer but he led me to this and I'm so appreciative of the posts about those featured I am learning.

@pamelaa.mankowski212

4 жыл бұрын

Omg finally I listened to her song a while back called “The Story “ just as good this woman is by far my favorite singer composer .and ty Benicio Bryant for singing The Joke on Agt....🤗😘🤗 my goosebumps are flipping out insanely

@emmymatt

4 жыл бұрын

Did he really say that? I love this song 😭😭😍😍

@eme.261

4 жыл бұрын

Considering that the vast majority of Elton John's songs were written by his long time lyricist, the songwriter Bernie Taupin, that's an interesting thing for Elton to have said. Elton composes the music, but it's Bernie who writes the words. The lyrics for almost all of Elton's beloved songs were written by Bernie Taupin, such as "Tiny Dancer," "Candle in the Wind," "Your Song," "Someone Saved My Life Tonight," "I Guess That's Why They Call It the Blues," "Sacrifice," "Daniel," "Goodbye Yellow Brick Road," etc. Bernie's a quintessential Gemini lyricist, as is Brandi Carlile. Gemini are usually phenomenally gifted lyricists, when they're musically inclined. Other famous Gemini singer/songwriters are: -Bob Dylan -Paul McCartney -Tupac Shakur -Prince -Kendrick Lamar -Macklemore -Lauryn Hill -The Notorious B.I.G -Stevie Nicks -Brian Wilson -Danny Elfman -Lionel Richie -Sturgill Simpson -Melissa Etheridge -Noel Gallagher -Alanis Morisette -Pete Wentz And on and on...

I have been listening to her since 2007. The Story caught my attention and I never looked back. She does not get the recognition or attention she deserves. Her voice is phenomenal. The radio doesn't give her the playtime that she deserves. It's so sad really. One of the best artists of our time

@michaellyons949

Жыл бұрын

Why would the story be of importance?

@nycklyneprice9341

Жыл бұрын

@@michaellyons949 Her song The Story caught my attention. That is the importance. That's the first song I ever heard from her. Get it?

@michaellyons949

Жыл бұрын

Do you really want to know where the story came from ? The eye , there is more to the story and what the songs mean .... Fire watchers daughter , turpentine, But who cares ?

@nycklyneprice9341

Жыл бұрын

@@michaellyons949 Wow...okay you have totally lost me...but like you say ....whatever.....I was talking about a song. I have no idea what you are talking about, dude. Have a good life. Maybe you should clue me into what you are actually talking about because I guess I am dense.

@ryanlasenbby3974

Жыл бұрын

​@@michaellyons949 im curious so you should politely explain

Whoever you are, wherever you are…celebrate yourself. Never give up. Never.

To those who ever took my kindness as my weakness... The joke is on them

@derpaderp198

3 жыл бұрын

🤗💗💙

@dishatto

3 жыл бұрын

Such a perfect comment. This comment needs to go viral. You should hash tag it. Can I steal it and put it on my Facebook? It’s exactly what I feel too.

@lamlalatoyabam9028

3 жыл бұрын

Yes❤❤❤❤

@dailydedication2663

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY, EXACTLY, EXACTLY!!!!!!!

@evabailey3860

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤

Never heard this song.Came from Grammy nominations Very beautiful song

@bernardofelsenfeld9142

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@thiagoferreira9213

5 жыл бұрын

Me too - two

@PatrickSamlal

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@speedyposty14

5 жыл бұрын

Yup. What a performance

@seattleclock

5 жыл бұрын

Ditto

As a Christian, I believe all Christians need to listen to this and hear her words. We are too judgemental and aren't the loving people the Lord commands us to be. We are to love one another. That is a complete sentence/command, there is no "except for" at the end. To those that feel judged and are hurting, you are loved just as you are. Others don't define you nor have been given any authority to judge you. Don't catch their ball of hate when thrown at you. You are worthy ❤️

TY Brandi for this song.

Benicio Bryan is the reason I know this song Where has this song been hiding wow Such a beautiful message

@josuamrt4217

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@lilRadRidinHood

4 жыл бұрын

Previously I'd gotten strong messages from Pinks' "You are beautiful", & Mary J. Blige (I forgot the song.) We needed a new anti-bullying and self-esteem song in these times for sure, and Benicio brought this one to light for millions.

Everyone who is here because of her Grammy nominations should explore the rest of her catalog. I’ve been a fan of hers for years and this recognition is well deserved.

@sunroller1215

5 жыл бұрын

yaaasssssssssss

@YuTu13e

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I’m doing. Thanks for not being one of those assholes that criticizes people for “just finally finding out about her because of the Grammys”. Should definitely win record of the year imo.

@cletusdeletus

5 жыл бұрын

YuTu13e Everyone discovers music in different ways and at different times! Some people act like they were the first to discover every artist they listen to lol. I’ve been “late to the party” on many bands and artists who are now some of my favorites. Gatekeeping annoys me, and I’m just glad more people are discovering how amazing Brandi is!

@YuTu13e

5 жыл бұрын

Ashley Marlow same, I’ve been on both ends.

I love how she sings with emotion that can uplift people who were isolated by society.

Blown away by the grounded, compassionate wisdom of these lyrics. And your voice so full of depth and strength. My teenage self would have found solace in this song; I hope the people that need it find it 🙏💙

Upon learning today of the passing of Rita Houston, the program director at WFUV-FM in New York, and reading that Rita was included in this video, I immediately needed to find it and watch. And, of course, watch it and listen to it again. And again. It was a delight to read Brandi's kind remarks about Rita today (wfuv.org/content/rita-houston-apostle-artistry), including the mention that Rita was the first person to play Brandi's music on the radio. That speaks volumes to Rita's insight, talent, spirit and grace . . . that she so quickly recognized, embraced and supported outstanding musical artists like Brandi Carlile.

@shannanberry

2 жыл бұрын

This is my new anthem...

This video deserves 100 millions views!!! Brandi is such a talented who makes us understand how charts doesn’t matter comparing with talent!!!! ❤️

@InesHerrmann

4 жыл бұрын

Hi there, if you like her voice - you might like mine too! kzread.info/dash/bejne/fY6jl6uyl9SvXbg.html

I’m looking through the comments as it plays and it’s amazing all the stories and trauma experiences people getting through it , losing it, making it, seeing through it, denying it, holding it, rolling w it, hating it, living it, indifferent. And all of it is just ok and I’m just a ball of tears right now.

I love that the people in the video get to smile at the end. It should be that way.

I cannot understand how anyone who owns a beating heart could give a thumb's down to this most beautiful song.

@firstnamelastname6016

5 жыл бұрын

Their tears made them slip up and hit the wrong button because they were just so moved by the song.

@yvonnesteinert1922

5 жыл бұрын

Because human kind is stupid and mostly heartless today

@aylbdrmadison1051

5 жыл бұрын

@Yvonne Steinert _"Because some of human kind is stupid and mostly heartless"._ Fixed. ^-^

@yvonnesteinert1922

5 жыл бұрын

@@aylbdrmadison1051 yes...my bad 😁

@kathyw.854

5 жыл бұрын

Not everyone has the same tastes. If this is a song that everyone _has_ to love, then what is the point???

AGT brought me here. Never heard this song before but it is amazing

@iamjen1

5 жыл бұрын

Same here

@karimtc1227

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

The emptiness of living with a heavy burden until the end of this world. It's a very sad and deep song.

I go to a dance studio where I take ballet, pointe, and am on the performance team. I am going into my sophomore year of high school and at my dance studio the year you graduate you are allowed to have a senior dance. So you can pick what style, choreography, and song you dance to. Ever since my mom knew of this, she has taken it upon herself to brainstorm song ideas for my senior dance. When she drives me places she plays her own music in the car and every so often she will have me listen to a song and say “this would be perfect for a senior dance🤩”. I always kind of just said “yeah” and forget about it. A couple days ago, she was driving me to dance and said she wanted me to listen to a song. I rolled my eyes a little and expected it to be just another slow tempo, lyrical song. But when I listened to it, I had chills with every word this woman sang. This song has so much real emotion and soal in it. When the song ended I immediately downloaded it on my phone. The cracks in her voice are so addicting and moving at the same time. I have listened to this song on repeat for I don’t know how many hours and it never gets old. There is no doubt in my mind that this is going to be my senior dance and my favorite song forever.

The song ended, but I'm still crying; my God! What a powerfully moving peice of beautiful art this is.

@toytrelldean

5 жыл бұрын

Angela Lopez yes it is 💞 we need more music like this.

@mllink

5 жыл бұрын

I agree! I have been a fan of hers for years and I was so happy to hear she got a Grammy nomination for this song. She is a singular talent with a stunning voice.

@AsktheHarry

5 жыл бұрын

always when i hear this

This song needs to win the grammy. Its one of the best songs of this year.

I am reading her book, Broken Horses. Mere words cannot describe all the emotions I feel as I read it. This beautiful song, The Joke, is probably now my favorite of hers.

The ballerina, Michaela DePrince, was an amazing asset to this video. What a wonderful song for all of us.

Brandi, I've been following you since 2006 at least, maybe earlier. It's about damn time you start getting the recognition you deserve! Your talent is beyond words and you just keep getting better. There aren't many artists as talented as you and the twins, especially the the lyrics you write. Congrats on your well-earned Grammy nominations! (I never watch but I will this time just to cheer you on.)

@neasaconghaile1791

5 жыл бұрын

Didn't even hear if this before that

@BrookeKnight561

5 жыл бұрын

AMEN! I've been a fan for over 10 years. She's absolutely fantastic. Total creative genius!

@JulesRaylin1999

5 жыл бұрын

Tara Wagner Me too, not going to lie, totally cried at The Grammys last night!

@janetscoggan1154

5 жыл бұрын

She was amazing

@pamorama

5 жыл бұрын

That's about the year that a friend put her work on a playlist for me. She's so talented--the voice, the lyrical content and melodies. And I would have watched the show if I knew she was going to be on. :-(

Very few artists have the ability to deliver a song that makes you feel like your heart and mind shake - Ms Carlile, never fails to make me quiver. Masterpiece.

I live in the Deep South though I was born and raised in the northeast during the 60s. I still hold those values of equality, justice, opportunity and loving acceptance of every lifeform on our wondrous Mother Earth. I battle in local governmental politics, exposing BP in the 2010 Disaster, corruption and bigotry, environmental justice. I have been attacked inperson and on SM as a feminazi, libtard, as a "anti-growth communist" etc. I wrote my older brother and despaired that my voice was not heard, what was the point? He told me "Never stop, your voice is your gift, your voice gives courage to others, never stop talking!" And he shared a link to this incredible anthem! And I feel strengthened every time I listen. "Misfits" are the movers and changers in the world!

The first song I ever heard on a talent show where I truly preferred the original, thank you to Benicio for introducing me to the wonderful music of Brandi Carlile ❤️

@ochajennifer1067

2 жыл бұрын

Same here AGT

@norycomia1577

2 жыл бұрын

one of my favorite

@kiranmahilange9

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@aaliyahcoleman2173

2 жыл бұрын

THISSS

@alyurpaly406

2 жыл бұрын

Me 2!! Thank you Benicio, I never woulda heard this before. Oh man, OH I WISH I WOULDVE WROTE IT!!!! BEAUTIFUL!!! 💜💗💙

I could listen to this song a thousand times and have the same reaction as if it was the first... ♥️ The song literally touches my soul.

@dishatto

3 жыл бұрын

That’s because it hits the very heart of justice. Everyone should live with the compassion this song conveys.

Yes, I didn't realize that I didn't comment on this beautiful song... So well written and sang from the depths of a heart that feels for humanity. Thank you Brandi. I heard it for the 1st time on the Howard Stern show shockingly who has been so insensitive to many many groups... His wife has influenced him for the better, perhaps.... But this is about Brandi and her amazing heart/music. Love her.

Im 58 I believe I have watched and heard more performances on Saturday Night Live than most, the performance of Broken Horses on SNL was one of the best live performances I have ever seen !

Her stellar Grammy performance brought me here. What a gift you are. Wow.

@nohemiejoanis1926

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

Her performance at the Grammys yesterday made me tear up. I've felt so empty my whole life, alone in a world made for other people but in some point I found where I belonged. However, music is so important and what this song brings up to me is that we all deserve a space where we feel free to be ourselves, not just what we were meant to be but our true and imperfect selves.

@amandsgour

5 жыл бұрын

cannot agree more.

@billkonigsberg190

5 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said. Thank you. You are not alone!

@Dafawama

5 жыл бұрын

Mrs Brightside you are wonderful

I bawled my eyes out. What a beautiful tribute to anyone who has had it rough or been bullied or ignored. Loved it.

This is one of the best written and performed songs I have ever heard. I tremble in emotion and tears pour down my face every time I hear it. Truely magic.

I'm very happy for Brandi Carlile for FINALLY getting the recognition that she deserves...has deserved for over a decade literally. I've been a huge fan since....2000 and...10? I've enjoyed each and every album she's out out. Every song. I've learned how to sing by singing her songs. My favorite of hers is I Will, from Give Up The Ghost. And I Belong To You from The Firewatcher's Daughter. And many others. Shes just amazing. But we also have to recognize the Hanseroth twins who play guitar and sing backup and help with song writing!

@dishatto

3 жыл бұрын

Imagine, I JUST discovered her today because of a person who sang this song on AGT. What have I been missing out on?

@jedswenson5667

3 жыл бұрын

@@dishatto Me too

UGH, I LOVE HER CONTROLLED VOICE CRACKS, IT JUST MAKES THE SONG SO MUCH BETTER.

Last year I saw her on PBS singing “The Story” and was blown away. Then I had to see if she was related to Go Gos singer Brenda Carlisle. But their names are spelled differently. Then I saw her on SNL giving another flawless performance. I’m sure she gained many more fans after that. And now this masterpiece - OMG, it gives me chills!! It’s a rare song that can do that! Every time I’ve seen her sing it she gives it 110% regardless of crowd size, venue, etc. I ❤ this video, seeing the marginalized feel empowered and heard. She cannot be boxed into just the country genre. I had to look up the story behind this song. It was done when she had seen tRump ridicule and mock the disabled. She was incensed as much as many of us by his cruelty and lack of any empathy. It explains the line telling the young girl that it’s her brother‘s world a little while longer because yes, Hillary would’ve been president if we didn’t have the electoral college! I love the line about the mother, carrying her child on her back through the desert, which is so timely. And heartbreaking.💔 Especially now hearing how Trump wants to destroy them! Now I’m gonna have to get her book “Broken Horses.” I like seeing her sandwiched in between “the twins” who she’s been with since she was 17. And now they all live on the same property. So when she says they’re family, she means it! And one of the twins legally is since he married her younger sister. I was surprised to see Scooter Jennings playing the piano on several occasions. She said her one regret was calling the band the Brandi Carlisle Band, but she can rectify that - just let them all decide what they want to be called. I also like how she has her own cellist! I’m glad D. Cobb challenged her to write a song as big as The Story and Elvis’ Trilogy. I had to look that up, too. This far surpasses Elvis!’ Trilogy. This song is EPIC!

This song is about power. The power you give to another human being to pass judgment on you. Stop. Know who you are. Give nobody this power over you.

Why do we hear the same music over and over on the radio when we have this!! She is amazing 😊

@jenniferhollowell9198

5 жыл бұрын

Try different radio! Search for local, community radio (if available in your area) or search out ones on the web. WMNF.org in Tampa.

@christophershibles383

5 жыл бұрын

I've heard this song play once at work. I'd heard Hold Out Your Hand many times before the Grammys but shortly after, I did hear this song play. It was a nice change. I do like it when Hold Out Your Hand plays. Most of the music is not very good and when something I enjoy plays, it's such a nice few minutes!

I'm here after watching Ben Platt's concert on Netflix. He spokes about this artist and this song, so I come here! (And sorry if my english is not good! I'm french!)😉

@kristenrichardson439

4 жыл бұрын

You done very good!

@aydaff

4 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@buck_etcunt

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@collinanthonycyster7310

4 жыл бұрын

Me tooo❤️❤️❤️

@guilhermeazevedo3872

4 жыл бұрын

me too!!

Nothing like being bullied all through school for being short, skinny, nerdy, you name it... but pushing through in spite of it... then coming home from college and seeing one of your biggest bullies hand you your food at McDonald's. And as the years go by, continuing to realize as you go through life that that was just a small part of your big and wonderful life. They don't define you. You define you.

Everything about this song I love (the word is not too strong) - the lyrics, the singing, the music, the video, the cast, and the indomitable spirit of the song. I have listened to it two dozen times or so during this past week, and I have cried in grateful response to its deeply human message every single time that I have listened to it. The music begins with a sorrowful, almost mournful tone, but as the song progresses, the music becomes first more hopeful, and then by the four minute mark, it becomes a song of victory over loss and despair, while the performances of the diverse cast are exceptional for their emotional power. It is one of the most perfect songs I have ever heard and I have decided to make it the “official song” of the website on which I am working because of the subject that it expresses with such profound sensitivity, artistry, and grace. This is the song that I would want played when the sacred day comes that we know at last that we are making our way to the far, far better world that has been the hope of everyone who has ever lived.

Grammy worthy vocal.

@guschmidt2425

5 жыл бұрын

Turns out you were right lol

@oNegLeEk

5 жыл бұрын

bronco devil you were right!

This song soothes the lost and scared 12 year old version of myself that pops back into focus when I'm stressed and depressed . Truly one of the most beautiful songs.

I heard this song at the end of the movie “Joe Bell” This song blew me away brought tears to my eyes! An instant classic, Oscar and Grammy worthy! The anthem of our times!♥️

@joylife8960

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree! I wasn’t paying attention to the end credits part of the movie while this song was playing, then I paused and started to listen to it all the way to the end. Next thing was I came here to find this video… This song made me life is good again. :-)

@davidsmalley1427

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, that movie is what brought me here. Great song.

@dorismcveigh1164

2 жыл бұрын

I just discovered this song with the closing song of Joe bell,and had to google it,so happy I found it..so so beautiful and what a voice Brandie has♥️

@annettehunter9743

2 жыл бұрын

That's where I first heard it too and I then began to explore her other songs. Oh my, she is absolutely incredible. I don't listen to music but I have been playing this song all day In Ireland 🇮🇪

@robertsmith20022

2 жыл бұрын

Yep…just saw this movie today. Cried like a baby

I came across your beautiful voice when you and Wynona Judd sang “ The Rose🌹My beautiful 18 year young son suffered, not bullying,BUT being a ghost in his school.To me its a form of bullying.He’s so shy,beautiful,sweet,autistic spectrum,and came out to me,he was gay.I knew in my heart,but waited for him to tell me.Pretty hard when you have grown up conservative. God loves us all.Life’s too short. I’m so honored God choose him to be my son.Life will always have bumps,but tomorrow is a new day!!Be kind to a stranger,smile,show love and compassion!! ❤️

@fazsicle

Жыл бұрын

Your comment is full of love 🌻

I'm predicting it now. Grammy for Record of the Year, and Vocal Performance. Perfect song.

@DaPoopIsInDaPudding

6 жыл бұрын

Lisa Angell so. Who cares. I like shit whether it gets a Grammy or any dreamt up award. That’s superficial BS.

@LaaLaa901

6 жыл бұрын

Have a Snickers Jan. I didn't say I loved it because it is Grammy worthy. It was just a prediction. That's all.

@hafiznazri7320

5 жыл бұрын

U r right sis. But this song sounds like beautiful by christina aguilera. Still great though.

@navigator387

5 жыл бұрын

Well you predicted right, she won the Grammy !!

@sage7296

5 жыл бұрын

Lisa Angell damn ,you were right