Next time a man (or woman) claims how “out of control” he gets and how it’s not really his fault cuz he’s upset, remember how calm this guy is. He’s describing how he waited to wake her up. He did everything 100% deliberately. He was in control the entire time.

@momtrips6783

Ай бұрын

and waited to wake her up AFTER he sent the messages to her family

@jkutnink87

Ай бұрын

Alot of the claims women make are exaggerated. Not every damn guy is this "out of control" dude.

@kiowah231

Ай бұрын

@@jkutnink87 Shut up

@Big.Stepper.

Ай бұрын

So, the next time a domestic violence situation occurs, we're supposed to apply the details of this specific case involving entirely different people? 🤨

@user-um8zt2ke8o

Ай бұрын

​@@Big.Stepper. comprehension is a hell of a skill

“…then he started cutting up stuffed animals with a box cutter.” This guy has legit serial killer potential. He’s a textbook sociopath, at the very least. Girl, you better run and run fast.

@carllennen3520

Ай бұрын

She was cheating on him. WTF you mean she better run? She is a scumbag, and deserves a man like him. He was cutting up the gifts he gave her. If he was a "serial killer", he would have been cutting HER up. Chill out with the goofy histrionics.

@jennross6466

Ай бұрын

She'll probably stay with him because she LOVES him and she is the one who will make him a better man.

@JasonWatts-n1x

Ай бұрын

Bro cut it up because he bought it and she stole $80 from him 😂

@sara37193

Ай бұрын

My thoghts exactly

@alittlebabyskull

Ай бұрын

@@JasonWatts-n1xwhat happens when they cut your stuffed animals that they didn’t buy you? Just your plushies because he’s mad and wants to hurt you.

When i was cheated on, i just left them. Violence doesnt make the cheating go away, it just makes everything worse.

@grizzlycountry1030

Ай бұрын

If you have self worth you walk away from cheaters or when someone wants to break up. You know what you bring to the table and it's their loss not yours.

@alvaroq2024

Ай бұрын

I don’t understand why people act surprised when their significant others cheat on them! Not many true blue marriages or relationships exists. Guessing it was inevitable since we’re living in different times.

@ece282

Ай бұрын

@@alvaroq2024yeah, women fet cheated on all the time and we don’t go strangling the shitty boyfriend,, most males would be dead if women did 😂 also he could lie about accusing her of cheating just to get away with assaulting her,, alot of males are emotionally stunted and horrible people,, wont believe a girlfriend beater to begin with…

@ece282

Ай бұрын

you don’t get to assault someone just because you accused them of cheating,,, most males would be black and blue if that was the case.

@ece282

Ай бұрын

@@alvaroq2024it’s not a different time… people have always cheated ,, you don’t get to assault someone,,

Ladies word of advice. Don’t give anyone a key 🔑 to your home after only THREE MONTHS ‼️🤦‍♀️

@rimmymindplease8120

Ай бұрын

Guys...word of advice. Don't date anyone who wants to give you their keys in three months or less.

@kiowah231

Ай бұрын

@@rimmymindplease8120 You won’t have to worry about any of that

@ChrisMFlorida

Ай бұрын

hell if you gonna open them legs you already gave him the key to the city.

@thetowertarot13

Ай бұрын

@@rimmymindplease8120 Totally 💯 agree 👍🏻

@TitaniumTurbine

Ай бұрын

@@rimmymindplease8120 Blame the victim, that’s all you’re good for. Keep defending the patriarchy.

His calm disposition and him ending with "I have nothing to lose, so it's whatever" is truly haunting

@imtheeastgermanguy5431

Ай бұрын

He is just a looser

@ASAPLOWLIFE

Ай бұрын

He just got his heart broken. And he is 4x her size he could have easily dismantle her. I feel sorry he fell in love with a thot. Hope he chooses better.

@gary-rr7jp

Ай бұрын

Yeah, if he felt that way in a moment of anger she might end up on the other side.

@ashtondillard6906

Ай бұрын

He was giving heavy serial killer vibes.

@deborahbarksdale826

24 күн бұрын

He must not have a life if he has nothing to lose and can’t move on. There’s a word for that: loser.

His last sentence was chilling..."I don't have anything to lose ... so it's whatever"..... that makes him dangerous.

@RaeBies20

Ай бұрын

Omg right!? He's 100% dangerous. I hope she stays away from him.

@cynthiatolman326

Ай бұрын

Extremely

@Veronica-dc5ms

Ай бұрын

@@RaeBies20~ they never do

@carllennen3520

Ай бұрын

No it doesnt. Its a typical response from someone who knows they F'ed up.

@jennross6466

Ай бұрын

100%

Pos thought he owned her after 3 months. Here's news bub: 3 months, 3 years, 3 decades YOU NEVER OWN ANOTHER PERSON.

@Cream-and-Chigurh

Ай бұрын

Are you wolverine, bub?

@Hunter-nh3yy

Ай бұрын

Marriage is the closest thing that comes to “owning”. You own eachothers HEARTS. Hehehe 🤭

@snapmalloy5556

Ай бұрын

Sounded to me like he thought he owned her well before that. There was mentioning of suspected cheating well before this incident. He said he suspected her cheating for a while. What? You are barely into a relationship and it's to that point? What a dysfunctional mess.

@loua1519

Ай бұрын

​@trophyheadmvp Ooh you sound bitter. Been cheated on have you?

@trophyheadmvp

Ай бұрын

I actually haven’t but have always despised types like you though. Loyalty is high on the karma chain

I’m sorry but anxiety doesn’t cause someone to choke someone out.

@lareeweatherman8309

Ай бұрын

No it does not! He's an abusive guy and that the bottom line.

@user_kH9bw3ns1

Ай бұрын

fr. like that girl who claimed she stabbed her boyfriend hella times because she had cannabis

@TitaniumTurbine

Ай бұрын

I have anxiety about as severe as they come (I’m sure it gets worse/not trying to be one of those types)… it most certainly doesn’t cause physical violence. I know some people have startle syndrome too but that only last a few seconds and may involve a quick hit/punch… definitely not choking. That was just his justification and one she used to justify his behavior. Many victims cling to reasons that their SO acts the way they do.

@danbaron2561

Ай бұрын

Why are you sorry?

@oliverwynn6564

Ай бұрын

@@danbaron2561 figure of speech.

Brian Laundrie used to put his hands around Gabby Petito's throat before the day he actually strangled her to death. Very dangerous behaviour.

@jackoliver7506

Ай бұрын

How do you know?

@bjbrown

Ай бұрын

​@@jackoliver7506she kept a diary.

@alexischavez3238

Ай бұрын

​@@bjbrownso sad

@JohnnyDanger36963

Ай бұрын

it waa a hoax,ritual,psyop both were actors,fake name

@Hasanpikersworstnightmare

Ай бұрын

​@@JohnnyDanger36963facts

This whole phone/social media password sharing amongst youngsters is foreign to me. I grew up understanding that if you have to snoop through your SO's phone/stuff, it signifies a lack of trust and no hope for a successful relationship.

@korbkelly

Ай бұрын

right? i don't get that either. I asked my sister if she and her husband do that and she said no way.

@user_kH9bw3ns1

Ай бұрын

fr. if they wanna cheat, they are gonna cheat anyway.

@user-um8zt2ke8o

Ай бұрын

Yeah if you can't trust me to not cheat, having access to my phone won't change that. You'll just use it to confirm every suspicion. No one checks their SOs phone for evidence of cheating when they don't expect that person to be doing so. You only want access to check. Usually bc they're doing it first. Occasionally borrowing it bc it's closer, sure. But you're not casually opening my phone and browsing through it, nope no way. Nothing to hide but nothing to see either!

@kapp0059

Ай бұрын

Well said

@jasonmorris2813

Ай бұрын

Because the whole generation is weak and insecure and very offended. They lash out and usually nothing is done. They just really weak-minded

There's a very specific reason why officers repeatedly ask about her being strangled. This is because in ALL available data on DV, strangulation is routinely known to be a pre cursor to murder, particularly in female victims that is widely recognised among threat assessors /DV specialists worldwide to be a behaviour regularly reported by DV victims who were subsequently killed by their abusive partner. And as such, it's crucial for officers to document this in an effort that extra resources may be offered to prevent a possible murder victim in the future.

@MommaGuarisco

Ай бұрын

Wow, I didn't even think of it that way... I think it makes total sense now, I've always wondered why of all questions their focus is they manner of "being choked, strangled" Thanks for the info, I'll def be looking more into this..

@The_other_Jen

Ай бұрын

My ex used to strangle and suffocate me. I snuck out while he was passed out drunk. He found me, and I was luckily surrounded by supportive people at the time. After that I moved away and now he has no idea where I am. I am grateful I got away because he told me many times that the only way I’d leave is in a hole in the ground. Now I am able to help others to get out of dangerous situations and educate men and women about the red flags of abusive behavior.

@kelseykaye7269

Ай бұрын

Good point. My ex husband choked me twice in our marriage. Next marriage he beat the woman and put her in the hospital. They will escalate and I am grateful he didn't escalate on me

@spankbuda3769

Ай бұрын

And choking is used during sex.

@mom-says-not-today

Ай бұрын

@@kelseykaye7269 I understand what you mean, but I think choking you was the escalation

Been together 3 months? I would count my lucky stars I found out early, leave. Damn, I thought he would say they were married with four kids. He's a weirdo.

@DemolitionManDemolishes

Ай бұрын

Are you cheating on your partners too?

@grbenway

Ай бұрын

@@DemolitionManDemolishes You see if dude had left he would be golden. Fresh pastures, fresh cows. Now he gets to do it with a criminal record of DV . Dudes need to do better for themselves and not let the system grind them up. BUt people who would ever beat on a woman are not known for their forward thinking

@DemolitionManDemolishes

Ай бұрын

@@grbenway I never defended what he did, but I dont see any reason for that, everybody is on the same page here, he's an a-hole, who WILL get punished for his actions. Now, how about we talk about what SHE deserves. How about her be charged with assault with bodily fluids, or something like that? Depending on the extent, she could expose him to an STI, how is that not considered.

@Victor_Victory

20 күн бұрын

@@DemolitionManDemolishes women always get a pass

@DemolitionManDemolishes

19 күн бұрын

@@Victor_Victory I wish I could say you are wrong, but you are absolutely right unfortunately.

She needs to get away from him ASAP, otherwise she is risking her life.

@DrummerJacob

Ай бұрын

She failed to do that when she was cheating on him instead of leaving him, so I guess she kinda fucked up too.

@wavyremix

Ай бұрын

I mean, she's cheating on him. It's the right thing to do and way overdue. Could've all been avoided if she just was an adult.

@froogleislive

Ай бұрын

For sure and she should also reflect on how terrible of a person she is right?

@clhjr0

Ай бұрын

To be fair, they only dated for 3.5 months. Theres no reason to get that upset over someone you just met. And who goes through someones phone after you've only been dating for so short. That's already a huge red flag (cheating aside obv)

@melissasylvest365

Ай бұрын

​@@clhjr0a certain brand of fella views women as less than and actively enjoys their abuse . You can't get thru to them and they get pandered to online and bled for $$$ by other men

The sad part is…he really believes that he was justified because of whatever he thinks he found on HER phone. 🤨😡 I have one daughter, and if anyone ever laid a hand on her, I can guarantee they wouldn’t be smirking like this thing. 😑

@lorrainecook-cf9ut

Ай бұрын

The only problem with that is you make him a victim instead of the girlfriend. I know how you feel but it’s not worth you getting in trouble instead of the p.o.s.boyfriend

@momof4kids735

Ай бұрын

@@lorrainecook-cf9ut True. I just hope I never have to deal with that. I don’t know if I could even control my husband, let alone myself 🤔

@lorrainecook-cf9ut

Ай бұрын

@@momof4kids735 we went through with something similar. Our daughter was interfered with by a 15 year old male. It took everything to not do something to him but the police told us that if we were to get him it would make him the victim and not our daughter. It was very hard not to touch him with our car as we lived in a small town and seen him walking around town. 😡🤬😡🤬

@IfYouLetMeStay

Ай бұрын

Do you plan on raising a cheater?

@momof4kids735

Ай бұрын

@@IfYouLetMeStay yes, because that’s rational. Go away

He has the mannerisms of a sociopath. Probably has several victims already

@Jo-dz9iu

Ай бұрын

He reminds me of the character that Christian Bale played in American Psycho!!!! 😳

@bornstellarnova1991

Ай бұрын

He's calculating. Definitely arrorgant. He's also young, seems tall so he already stands above everyone else. This is all beneath him. His nonchalance during the whole thing is a red flag imo, honestly.

@robinbond7878

Ай бұрын

Absolutely!

@georgyzhukov6409

Ай бұрын

dont cheat

@Sarahthompson2237

Ай бұрын

He’s disgusting and dangerous

The only thing more disturbing than the abuser in the video, is all the abusers in this comment section. Don’t waste your time with these creeps…

LEO ~ "How long have you guys been dating?" Girl ~ "Facebook official September 30th." Is it 2012? 😂

@jasonbuckley1510

Ай бұрын

I thought the same shit 😂

@Teri_B.

Ай бұрын

@@jasonbuckley1510 🤣👍🏼

@jeffheim163

Ай бұрын

2012, the year everything flipped in this existence.

@SniperSpense

Ай бұрын

lmao ppl man!

@eh-i1841

Ай бұрын

I hate Facebook.

"I went through her phone. You know, the usual." This boy isn't a man. He's impulsive, over-emotional, paranoid-driven and requires submission to feel secure. This only escalates. She needs a restraining order and he needs therapy to work through his "anxiety" vs being a pill-popper.

@_Sorceressb

Ай бұрын

PERIODTTTT!

@Victor_Victory

20 күн бұрын

How else was he supposed to know she was a cheating pos

@1234mc-x3l

15 күн бұрын

@Victory_Victory When addressing the issue of crossed boundaries, engage in a mature conversation regarding the specific boundaries that have been transgressed. If the individual becomes confrontational regarding the perceived breach of boundaries, it may be necessary to disengage from the conversation.

This man sounds like a sociopath. No emotional inflection, perfectly calm, and feeling completely justified. Girl needs to run NOW.

@_Sorceressb

Ай бұрын

That part!!!

@deborahbarksdale826

24 күн бұрын

He may be stalker material too.

It sounds like she was trying to downplay what he did to her when the cops asked her, in the first part of the video; I really hope she doesn’t let him back into her life otherwise he will bulldoze over her 🙁

@user-um8zt2ke8o

Ай бұрын

Its hard to talk about any difficult situation out loud to strangers right after it happened, especially a violent one where you were the victim. Being the victim sucks, none of it seems real and you don't want it to be real bc you never think YOU would be in this situation. The suspect gets charged and they do their time and they usually don't care what they did anyway. The victim has to live with it forever.

This man is dangerous ,never put your hands on your spouse, he belongs in jail for a long time. That goes for men and women.

@DrummerJacob

Ай бұрын

Never cheat on your spouse. Leave the relationship before you torture someone emotionally by lying to them constantly and causing them to inevitably doing things they shouldnt be like getting violent.

@StarBunniiiii

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacobpeople are going to be shitty to you. That’s human beings. It’s YOUR job to control how you respond. You can’t control how other people treat you. If that person cheats on you they were never for you. Man up and move on. Creating more violence in the world does what exactly?

@botticellirejectbotticelli2668

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacobYou only have his account that she was cheating, she said “it isn’t what you think” it could be that she isn’t allowed to speak to any male friends. He thinks going through someone’s phone is ‘normal’ . I’ve never dreamt of going through my husband’s phone.

@postysbaby

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacobfound the woman beater!!!

@nursehoney24

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacobyou’re really making excuses for this POS?? I agree that nobody should cheat, leave before it comes to that. But a real man would’ve just left & never give another second of his time to a cheating female. There is no excuse good enough for abuse. Period!

Trust me this not the 1st time his hands been around her throat...

@cpthreeoh

Ай бұрын

Pathetic

@DrummerJacob

Ай бұрын

Well why would she be with him then? And shes cheating on him, so theres various reasons for her to leave and she didnt. Whats your "trust me bro" scientific response to that one?

@northwestclasspnw7974

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacob why are they together at all

@wavyremix

Ай бұрын

Or the first time she cheated.

@AOCITYBOY

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacob Maybe she like to be choked, did you think about that's what I meant before you got so offended? Trust me, you got to stop being so quick to assume, you'll live longer 🙏🏽

Just leave if your partner is either cheating or abusive. No need to keep the volatile relationships.

That women cop was amazing getting him to talk. She's on her way to detective. Nice job!

This young lady needs to get away from this abusive man! It’s only going to get worse!

@Shellackle

Ай бұрын

She probably likes all the money he spends on her while she cheats

@christopherfuller5413

Ай бұрын

Imagine if the woman was the agressor instead. People on the comments would have all the excuses to justify her actions.​@Shellackle

@Shellackle

Ай бұрын

@@christopherfuller5413 Nice speculation, I prefer to live in reality though.

@SqueakPip

Ай бұрын

I’m confused. I never saw their face. Is this a girl, or a boy?

@TitaniumTurbine

Ай бұрын

@@SqueakPip Look at the title. Just read it and sound it out slowly if you need to. Lol

She needs to get away from him. Get a restraining order on him. It will only get worse

@bjbrown

Ай бұрын

Restraining order is nothing. How many people have been murdered when they have a restraining order. Either kill the person or relocate to where they will never find you. Believe me they will never quit unless they find another target.

@georgyzhukov6409

Ай бұрын

and learn how to not cheat

@captaincapitalism264

Ай бұрын

@@georgyzhukov6409 Also yes, but that's not a justifiable reason for violence. This is a CRIMINAL BEHAVIOR type of video, not a relationship-advice one.

@user-pi7ug4dm6m

Ай бұрын

As if restraining orders work.. I mean I guess get one in Case he kills you. Imagine if you can inject the wisdom of your older self into your young ass self. I mean we've all had stupid arguments where we've done stupid things and as soon as you're old and wise enough you realize how stupid and what a waste of time that was and how cheating is really ridonculous.

Why do men feel justified using violence when cheated? 😂 if you can’t just walk away after being cheated, wouldn’t that make you emotional?

@0bservationist

Ай бұрын

emotional men kill their significant others all the time. the laugh emoji isn't very fitting here.

@iswm

Ай бұрын

because men want justice.

@samariathornton9110

27 күн бұрын

@@iswm if women got justice every time a man cheated, there wouldn’t be many men left 😂

@hhealy7199

23 күн бұрын

Ignoring female cheaters?

@0bservationist

23 күн бұрын

@@samariathornton9110 if you can't keep a man around, that's on you huh?

This dude is creepy

He feels he was completely justified because of her "cheating". Scary.

@DrummerJacob

Ай бұрын

Cheating is one of the worst things you can do to someone. Its not just being unfaithful, youre tarnishing someones name, lying to them and breaking every trust you have in the relationship. Men have violence, women have emotional manipulation. Its the same thing, and its disgusting when people act like men get violent out of nowhere and that women are always innocent when in this case shes literally the entire cause for the problem.

@saint-miscreant

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacobshe may not be innocent, but that doesn’t mean she should be subject to violence. there are adult, civilised ways to handle personal slights. assault and strangulation is not one of them.

@drafter3412

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacob Dear god, I pity the women in your life if you think violence is justified for cheating. They should run, and run far.

@botticellirejectbotticelli2668

Ай бұрын

@@saint-miscreant We only have his account that she was cheating, she said “it isn’t what you think” it could be that she isn’t allowed to speak to any male friends. He thinks going through someone’s phone is ‘normal’ . I’ve never dreamt of going through my husband’s phone.

@botticellirejectbotticelli2668

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacobAre you the perp? He is the only one that said she was cheating, why do you naturally believe him? Oh yes, it’s because you hate women.

Where do these monsters, who have absolutely no self control and who think that physical and verbal abuse is okay... Where do they come from?? Unreal. Totally unresectable.

@zippymacadoo6336

Ай бұрын

They usually learn it at home.

@bjbrown

Ай бұрын

They usually start out as small instants and over time grow into huge problems. I dated a man who couldn't control his temper. It lasted three months and I couldn't do it any more. First sign of trouble run as fast as you can because it will only get worse.

@aAngel93

23 күн бұрын

They really seem like demons

The fact that he admits he’s been aggressive with her before, giving the example of the new years incident where she walked “too far away from him” so he grabbed her arm aggressively… girl 🤦🏻‍♀️. This is not the first incident 😒 this guy is dangerously😮‍💨 in the creepy calm but will snap at any moment kind of way.

Just remember - Ted Bundy “looked” like a nice guy! He was intelligent, personable - some would argue “charming.” That old saying “you can’t judge a book by it’s cover,” may seem rather trite, but it’s good advice. Judging people on their words and actions tells you WHO they really are - not the “mask” they wear for the world.

@hhealy7199

23 күн бұрын

Judging on the fruits only, not words.

Emotional maturity of a gnat

Clark Kent is a psychopath 😫

@porshataylor-ee5ri

Ай бұрын

Jeffrey

@Sarahthompson2237

Ай бұрын

Yes!!

She needed to leave yesterday. Once things get physical it’s pretty much over

@rickmadzia4928

Ай бұрын

Not pretty much over. It's over. No man should hit a woman ever.

@DrummerJacob

Ай бұрын

She was cheating on him to begin with. She should have left instead of cheating in the first place. It only got physical because she emotionally tortured him. I didnt hear any examples of any abuse or violence before she cheated on him and through that essentially lied dozens or hundreds of times. Theres a reason we have morals in this world.

@melaninmonroeeee

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacob lol , you really dont need to comment the same ish 100 times.

@rickmadzia4928

Ай бұрын

@@Sarah-dq1fm so you can justify hitting a woman. Smh. Yes this world does need morals. He should have just walked away. Self defense is the only reason to hit a woman.

@Sarah-dq1fm

Ай бұрын

@rickmadzia4928 Umm, please explain to me how my comment justified hitting a woman?

She needs protection n not a restraining order…

Being choked is one of the scariest feelings ever. Not being able to breathe or scream for help.

Her making excuses for him just makes him more dangerous. Anxiety doesn't cause this behavior. This guy is dangerous and she needs to get away from him and a restraining order asap? 3 months together and he has a key and the password for her ohone? Wth!

he has anxiety..i have anxiety i dont go around chocking people in their sleep

@annamariavalatka636

Ай бұрын

Exactly

@SuperMegaGoofyGoober

7 күн бұрын

Speak for yourself…

He's a sociopath. Look how calm and creepy he is. Hope the girl can get away from him because I think he's dangerous.

He said, " I was just going through her phone after she fell asleep, the usual" 😂

Immaturity on display with both parties.

Thank GOD young lady your still alive, I’ve been in your shoes, honey too many nice guys out there to have a man put hands on you. Move on don’t even talk to him , because he’s going to think it’s ok that. Sweetie RUN

@standback5806

Ай бұрын

You are so right. Men need to protect women not hurt them.

The guys an asshole, he gets a buzz out of being aggressive and having control over her. Bit of a power freak i think.

She needs to move outta that apartment and get a restraining order. If he still pursues her, she might need to change her name, move outta state, change her appearance, etc. It can be a pain in the ass, but it's worth her staying alive and away from that psychopath. If i were her, I'd check under the car and around the apartment for cameras and tracking devices. I think the police can do that in situations like this. She can never truly escape him if he knows where she is at all times. I wish her luck in removing him from her life for good.

The fact he could articulate exactly what he did wrong without a reaction is incredibly troubling. He also alludes to possibly SA'ing her, all very nonchalantly. He is not ok. I hope she got out.

@deborahbarksdale826

24 күн бұрын

All the signs are there-red flags are flying.

Run girl run, change the locks, move if possible, change your number, trade cars...... .......he is insane, and you are in danger. 3 months and he acts as if you are married for years, oh he11 NOOOOO.

@MrRubendra1

Ай бұрын

Maybe just leave the relationship if you are unhappy instead of cheating, for all anybody cares both of them are stupid

"How long have you guys been dating?" "Facebook official September 30th." 🙄🤦‍♀️😒

@futuremelina

Ай бұрын

Childish, that explains why she thought it was a good idea to give a key to this guy

Oh look, a total psychopath.

It’s terrifying that someone so mentally unstable can just decide to stop taking their meds and become so insanely dangerous… and there’s not a lot you can do to make ‘em keep taking their meds 😓

@IAmALawyerToo

Ай бұрын

Yes, wouldn’t want to violate their civil rights! 🙃

@truthhurts2879

Ай бұрын

Thank all the civil rights do gooders who have made it virtually impossible to monitor such individuals, much less make them take their meds.

@jeffheim163

Ай бұрын

Meds are the start of all problems. I recall when leaving the dentist after a teeth cleaning(as a young one), they would give you a sticky, sugar filled lollipop… Apply the same to the pharma industrial complex. In short, a revolving door of profiteering on the sheeple.

@kellyyardy2128

Ай бұрын

Anxiety medication isn’t going to prevent this kind of behaviour.

@gj5990

Ай бұрын

He needs to be in jail. Anxiety meds don’t prevent evil.

When a woman is strangled by an intimate partner one time, she is now 800% more likely to be murdered by that partner.

@karenneill9109

Ай бұрын

It’s one of the most dangerous signs. He also cut apart her stuffies, another extremely dangerous sign (destruction of treasured objects). After only 3 months.

This is why the mental institutions need to make a comeback. This guy is dangerous in my opinion. My advice is to stay single and focus on herself. Because it's not worth it.

@stevecousins1205

Ай бұрын

I agree, we closed all ours down, now they are in jail in stead of being in a save place themselves, or homeless not getting help

@tropicanajuice2438

Ай бұрын

Mental institutions are still here! Why do so many ppl think that every single mental institution in the whole country is closed?!

@daveeyde9622

Ай бұрын

​@tropicanajuice2438 bc it fits a narrative. It's not the institutions fault he quit taking his meds. And frankly...I take meds for anxiety. It's never once occurred to me to choke someone.. much less my wife. There's something else very wrong with that young man. I hope he gets help.

I was in an abusive relationship where my ex-husband would slam hard/sided luggage against my head and on top of my head if I was on the ground. The only way I got out was leaving in the middle of the night and going to a battered woman’s shelter. It was impossible to escape when he was awake. I hope she was able to get out and away from him. I never went back especially when he found me driving to the shelter with our 6 month old son in the car and tried to run me off the road. No one is worth living through that kind of hell. They won’t stop….ever.

@TitaniumTurbine

Ай бұрын

I’m glad you’re with us and away from your tormentor. ❤

@MrRubendra1

Ай бұрын

Did you cheat on him aswell ? (just asking not an attack)

@user-bo1rj2xu2s

20 күн бұрын

@@MrRubendra1 Troll.

@user-bo1rj2xu2s

20 күн бұрын

Glad you and your son got out. I hope you're living your best life!

@MrRubendra1

20 күн бұрын

@@user-bo1rj2xu2s cant you read ? the video had someone cheating so i asked if they did it too and its not an attack smh

Who gives a crap if she's cheating or not? We learn on the first day of kindergarten that you don't put hands on other people. End of discussion. Why is a cheater worth going to prison and losing money?

3 months and he's this violent? he didnt live there but came and went as he pleased?

Have you ever been aggravated at your battery? Just buy a new one, and don't beat up your girlfriend!

@oceanoflotion8630

Ай бұрын

😂 Rayovac and Duracel thank you

@alvaroq2024

Ай бұрын

It’s not that easy to get a new one and expect it to be almost perfect.

@justadudeffs

Ай бұрын

Aspiring comedian eh? Don't quit your day job just yet.

They dated for three months and he has a key to her family's apartment?

@masspence1

Ай бұрын

3 months is not enough time to really know someone.

after 3 months he's escalated this much? scary

He is proud of his actions that he describes chillingly while minimizing each one. This is a scary individual

@PAMELAPORTER-ci7mr

Ай бұрын

He's a bully & proud of it. 😡

@alxinldn11

Ай бұрын

The lack of emotion or even inflection in his voice is pretty chilling

Why the hell would you give a key to your home to someone you been dating 3 months

@futuremelina

Ай бұрын

Trust me, I've heard worse. Some women are too trusting, and they don't have people to warn them or they don't listen to warnings.

If you can’t just walk away without hurting someone you are too emotional😂

@theshadowfax239

Ай бұрын

Typical man, letting their emotions rule them instead of logic.

3 1/2 months, and this is happening? People fall in love too easily. This means this wasn't love. it's infatuation, lust Not love. Wake up, people . In my opinion. People dont have to agree.

@slickx45

Ай бұрын

"Facebook official" should tell you everything you need to know. Not dealing with mature individuals here.

@OGKenG

Ай бұрын

Desperation out of loneliness

LEO ~ "He does have mental health issues. He's on medication for anxiety." What kid, teen or adult does NOT have anxiety? 🙃 Feeling stressed, anxious, jealous, overwhelmed, etc. is part of life. Every feeling/emotion does NOT equate to a mental health issue or require 💊. 🤪🙏🏼💞

@peri3818

Ай бұрын

Agree!

@iamarianna8972

Ай бұрын

What happened to basic life skills, coping mechanisms, fortitude etc? Parents just not teaching their children these things?

@TitaniumTurbine

Ай бұрын

There are different degrees of anxiety. Do not act like everyone’s psyche is the same. But really, what kind of narrow-minded thinking is this? Do you believe everyone’s heart beats the same too? How do you explain heart attacks? Completely absurd. It’s so lucky that you’re not genetically predisposed to mental health issues… everyone should clap for you, good job dude. 👏🏻 YAY for Teri and her perfect health! YAY! 🎉

@annamariavalatka636

Ай бұрын

I agree 💯

@Teri_B.

Ай бұрын

@@TitaniumTurbine Speaking of 🤪... ⬆️ Lighten up, Francis. 😅😂🤣

Violence is never okay. If you are unhappy for any reason just leave. Find a way to make yourself happy. Being cheated on is PAINFUL but Violence is a bad response.

@123451248ify

Ай бұрын

Thank you for the public service announcement for dating violence. 🤣🤣

He looks like that actor who always plays the creepy bad guy

This guy is sick.

Been dating for 3 WHOLE MONTHS and he thinks choking is an appropriate response to possible cheating. Psychopath.

That male cop is looking at him like he wants to break his jaw, amazing how he kept his composure !!

Why are they questioning him in the garage?

@alvaroq2024

Ай бұрын

I think they’re trying to get his side of the story while it’s fresh on his mind. Perhaps at the scene wasn’t necessary since they needed to get those two far away from each other. That’s all I got.

@bjbrown

Ай бұрын

Seems odd. I know it's being recorded but still why not do it in the room.

@TitaniumTurbine

Ай бұрын

@@bjbrown I usually ask people questions in my garage. Don’t you?

@rea8755

Ай бұрын

So he feels comfortable not a room to make him defensive 😮

This guy looks and sounds like a serial killer.

@MaariyaArif

Ай бұрын

frr

@tjken33

Ай бұрын

dead eyes

@DrummerJacob

Ай бұрын

She sounds like a serial street whore who even the streets rejected.

@karenneill9109

Ай бұрын

The anger seething just under the calm surface… yikes!

This woman’s voice is horse at times and she’s coughing! This is a red flag. She needs the medics to check her at minimum and should go to the hospital.

This creep was already super possessive and physically had shown it agressivelyAnd lived with his Parents, Ugh! What a loser! Going thru her phone when she was sleeping?? Bad news creep 😡

He looks like he has bodies in the crawlspace

This a “prideful” man, he’s digging through something more than just a bad relationship. Check him for prints and dna. A lot of serial “assailants” get caught like this!!!!

That woman cop was so good at asking questions and getting the right side of the story. Thank you for listening properly.

I really hope she was able to get away from him since this was a year and a half ago. 3 months in and he's already a misogynistic ahole.

My feeling is that the very FIRST time either verbal, or God forbid physical abuse, occurs, irrespective of who is at fault, it’s time to separate and terminate the relationship. Abusive behavior is typically repetitive. Filing charges and sticking to them is the only way to try and stay safe. IMO, similar to never believing an addict, never trust an abuser. They may apologize (and even believe they mean it); however, up and until they ask for and receive help for the underlying causes for their behavior, a pattern of behavior develops and it generally ends very badly.

Girl, RUN!!!!!!!!!! Seriously, this guy isn't right in the head. Scary.

The female cop needs to improve her interviewing skills. "Did you use both hands to choke her. It's okay if you don't remember," doesn't cut the mustard.

@montezuma6962

Ай бұрын

Well, he is a fool for answering any questions or making any statements.

@HannadayFLO

17 күн бұрын

She also said could you show me how you choked her - while in handcuffs!

She needs to change her locks, change her phone number, get a restraining order and get security cameras. This guy sounds really dangerous

@JasonWatts-n1x

Ай бұрын

I worked with this guy. They dropped the charges shortly after she went to the DA and admitted she lied about most of it. Her step-dad (blurred in the video on his phone) told her to lie. Not sure why…but when I talked to him about it, he was as honest as he appears in this video about it. That he did lose his cool and cut open the stuffed animal, but he specified he did it because he knew how special it was to her and to signify how hurt he was. He should’ve never talked to them without a lawyer, but he never strangled her. It even says in the affidavit that there were no injuries/marks/bruises on her, so I’m not even sure why he was charged with domestic battery in the first place Quiet guy, and a bit weird but he was always nice to me and willing to help no matter the circumstances

@karengilliland6006

Ай бұрын

@@JasonWatts-n1x wow, that's terrible if it's true she lied. I definitely don't condone that at all. And I can understand him being upset if she did cheat, but it is still scary him using a box cutter on her stuff. His demeanor was just kind of alarming. I hope she learns a lesson from this and him too.

@JasonWatts-n1x

Ай бұрын

@@karengilliland6006 agreed, there’s no reason to involve a box cutter but from I know about him this is greatly skewed against him and you can even tell she’s lying. Granted he’s still got issues to work on. No excuses to put hands on a girl no matter what

Holly shit, this guy LOOKS like a serial killer!!

@marymurphy246

Ай бұрын

Creepy how undisturb he is

The amount of victim blaming in these comments is disturbing

@theshadowfax239

Ай бұрын

If you haven't realized from being on the internet, men hate women. Or I should say, the type of men who are overly emotional and have no control over themselves and frequently post comments on social media I hate women.

The victim was being evasive initially, and I personally think it's because she didn’t want the officers to know she was cheating. It would have been helpful if someone had explained to her that creating may be morally reprehensible, but it's not illegal - assault is. The way she asked, "Did he... say anything...?" makes me wonder if she was experiencing shame, feeling like it was her doing that he assaulted her, worried he would rat her out to the cops (which of course he immediately did). But it seems both the victim and her offender were under the impression that her cheating was an extenuating circumstance that makes his crime less heinous. Nope. Not under the law - hope they both get that point clear.

Run girl run far away ‼️

@DrummerJacob

Ай бұрын

She was the one cheating! Shes the one that caused this! Wheres she going to run to? One of the guys shes cheating with? And then what.....cheat on him and then run somewhere else? Its time to stop acting like it only takes one loser to create a situation like this. Ya girl is the problem here.

@botticellirejectbotticelli2668

Ай бұрын

@@DrummerJacobShut up and go away.

@Jen-he3cw

Ай бұрын

That's a man baby that's a man

Wow. The female Leo was practically hugging the abusive bf. I've never seen an abuser talked to so sweetly after choking a woman.

@amandabrown8086

Ай бұрын

I’ve spent a long time working on the legal side of DV and I can confidently say that this is very common. I can’t even begin to tell you the countless hours I’ve spent watching police hold the hand of abusers (both literally and metaphorically) after being arrested for DV. Sometimes it’s a tactic to get more information out of a suspect and sometimes they genuinely have sympathy for/relate to the abuser.

@amandabrown8086

Ай бұрын

@@LeoS300 cheating on a partner is not even close to the same as strangulation. There’s a reason one is a serious crime and the other isn’t even a crime.

@amandabrown8086

Ай бұрын

@@LeoS300 you called him weak for strangling her but called her a horrible person for cheating. He’s not weak for what he chose to do to her, he’s dangerous and violent. You also equated their abuse when it isn’t even close to the same. You have more contempt for her cheating when what he did was exponentially worse. Maybe reflect on why you are doing that

@MondayMacabre

Ай бұрын

@@amandabrown8086 Cheating does make you a horrible person, yes. One is physical abuse, the other is emotional.

@Just_selene

Ай бұрын

@@amandabrown8086same, I work crim. at the courthouse and the coddling of abusers is disgusting. Like the abusers in this comment section defending this creep.

Sounds like a guy who almost killed his girlfriend because he's insecure

This is his reaction after THREE months?? Yeah he’s dangerous.

They've been together 3 months and it's clear that this man feels that he owns her. Hope she leaves him successfully.

@ChrisMFlorida

Ай бұрын

time for two things.. a restraining order and a conceal carry.

these guys need to stay away from each other. the abusive one should go to prison, & the victim one should gtfo

@ginmar8134

Ай бұрын

Would it K*** you to read a book? "LEAVE?? Leave?! I never thought of that! Thank you, kind sir, for this brilliant advice!"

@johnmosley9376

Ай бұрын

@@ginmar8134 You and the guy in the video need the same anger management class.

@TitaniumTurbine

Ай бұрын

@@ginmar8134 Clearly, it would upend a lot of people’s lives here if they managed to read a book. Most people are here because moving pictures are more understandable and easier for them to understand than books. Life experience on topics like this usually come from sitcoms and a very narrow-minded thought process that is so beneath me, I don’t even understand how they can comment some of this stuff with a straight face. I totally get you and where you’re coming from - thanks for finally bringing some intellect to one of these comment sections (I mean it).

26:25 just proves he’s crazy the way he said so calmly and normal that he’s been aggressive with her before .. LEAVE HIM SIS.

He just straight incriminated himself lmao always bewilders me people do this in these scenarios

GeeeeZ i couldn't IMAGINE why she cheated on him. His demeanor and explaining sounds like he gets cheated on often.

She seems really pitiful and childlike. I expect that she'll take him right back.

Alot to go thru for dating someone for 3mos…

@bjbrown

Ай бұрын

Sometimes people make it seem normal to be overprotective. I dated a man and after a few weeks he seemed really loving and caring but then it went wrong. He checked my phone when I went out for a smoke and that was the first problem and it went wrong from there. Never again.

I was waiting for him to say, "Do you hear the lambs Calrice?" FFS

Hes a handsome dude. He has a lot to lose behaving this way. If its true she cheated leave her. You aren't average looking and can get another girlfriend easily. No need to put your hands on her. Now look where you are. What did this accomplish? Nothing.

I’m sure he’s been building up his abuse. They always start out with insults “jokingly 🙄”, and when there’s no resistance, they build upon that. Nip it in the bud if you don’t want to leave. I had one guy start off like that too, then one day I went crazy on him when he kept bouncing a basketball off the back of my head repeatedly as we walked to the courts. I finally told him to go ahead and hit me with whatever he had handy, but to make sure I stayed down. I didn’t stick around, he wasn’t going to change.

Girl get away!! Next time he might not stop!

"You're Hired. You Have 15 Minutes To Suit Up. "I Ordered A Small Uniform, Not XS." "Take It Up With HR, K?"

He's proud of himself..