BORN INTERSEX: A LIFE STORY

MALE, FEMALE, BOTH?
On this episode of Conversations with Dr. Dora, we hear the inspiring and difficult story of an intersex person.
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  • @user-rb9sc1ok4j
    @user-rb9sc1ok4j25 күн бұрын

    What an eye opening interview. I truely commend both the interviewer and the interviewee for conducting this conversation the way they did.

  • @naomikalemba7205
    @naomikalemba720528 күн бұрын

    This interviewer was done so well. The sensitivity, respect, and the attention to detail were on point. Not intrusive at all. And Mphatso, very articulate. You have educated us well today.

  • @pgnamaka

    @pgnamaka

    25 күн бұрын

    Totally agree!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @clarkmelinda6663

    @clarkmelinda6663

    17 күн бұрын

    In

  • @michelleweatherspoon8087
    @michelleweatherspoon808725 күн бұрын

    This person is a very beautiful person.

  • @CharmedR1
    @CharmedR125 күн бұрын

    This was a successful interview on so many levels The gentleman has class. He showed that he developed his attitude not as a result of negativity but as a result of positive. He was never defensive and offensive. Yes hus situation is different but he grew to make decisions based on the reality of who he is. This could be contentious ( my interpretation) he never used the term "feeling" unlike persons who when asked to explain their gender identity or choice. He has done his research and he's able to articulate his responses clearly and unflustered. Dr Dora's questions were what all of us would have asked. She made it comfortable for him. It was indeed a lesson for me. I have heard of hermaphrodite but never heard of "intersex" His explanation made me realize and accept how it could be. I hope that his journey forward is filled with continued blessings.

  • @raymondtendau2749
    @raymondtendau2749Ай бұрын

    I admire his/her courage. Really admirable. No matter your take on this issue, kindly try not to be judgemental. For he didnt choose to be this way.

  • @jennysiankali1295
    @jennysiankali129525 күн бұрын

    I love the way he answered all the questions with less challenges and I respect the fact that he has data about the case and looking at him,u can tell that he can't be intimidated by anyone.....bravo dear

  • @williejinnahkosseh2289
    @williejinnahkosseh228923 күн бұрын

    My total support and respect goes to this young man- guest. I hope UN and Africa raise awareness to this. He educates me and I send my gratitude 🙏 to him. Please, Host , involve in any organisation this man will create to educate the world. Thx

  • @ArinolaOniyide
    @ArinolaOniyide27 күн бұрын

    Dr. Dora, you're a fantastic host and interviewer. You exude empathy and intelligence. You are the real queen of talk❤ lots of love ❤️ from Nigeria. My empathy with intersex people . Your guest is great , intelligent, and so passionate to help other intersex live in equity as good and productive life as citizens.

  • @yvonnebrowne9116
    @yvonnebrowne911628 күн бұрын

    You are very brave and honest. Continue to love God. He is loving and is your Creator. He loves you soooo much!

  • @ugoeziegwim1552

    @ugoeziegwim1552

    27 күн бұрын

    Is it the same as hermaphrodite.

  • @rubywedderburn9487

    @rubywedderburn9487

    23 күн бұрын

    ​@ugoeziegwim1552 I was wondering the same thing too🤔

  • @fantasticmrfox7497
    @fantasticmrfox749722 күн бұрын

    I take away from this interview that intersex is a contnium hence diverse presentations. I am really greatful to have had this opportunity to hear about the Social impact of being intersex amongst the various educative discussion. Thanks to everyone involved in bringing this toipc to us.

  • @magdavanderlith925
    @magdavanderlith92528 күн бұрын

    Amazing interview. Both such intelligent and stunning people. Thank you.

  • @williebrown4960
    @williebrown496021 күн бұрын

    I am an American living in Pennsylvania. I appreciate this interview even though I do not know anyone who is intersex it’s lightning and surely educational. Thank you.

  • @user-rf2rw9kp2y
    @user-rf2rw9kp2yАй бұрын

    Very brave mpaso, continue advocating for such people,we are proud of you as a nation 🙏

  • @thobekazabo5019
    @thobekazabo501926 күн бұрын

    Thank you for such an informative, respectful, and eye-opening session. Stay blessed

  • @brittajacobson2523
    @brittajacobson252321 күн бұрын

    It sure would be nice if we ( people in the USA) could have an intellectual conversation like this.

  • @user-ll4nc7db1p

    @user-ll4nc7db1p

    8 күн бұрын

    We do. U just may not have come across good interviews. There r also some very crazy interviews in Africa my friend. Every continent has good and bad.

  • @virginiamacebo2250
    @virginiamacebo2250Ай бұрын

    I dont even know where to start. I had loads of questions answered from this interview. My heart goes to Doc the interviewer and Sakala I salute you to be brave to face the world and answer these questions. I shed a tear, putting myself into your shoes. I am here praying for your strength. God Loves you and created you in a position he found fitting. 🙏

  • @katongokasonka2393
    @katongokasonka2393Ай бұрын

    The young man/woman is so eloquent and articulate i feel like i know all about the condition

  • @elizabethlowe9618
    @elizabethlowe961827 күн бұрын

    We are not to judge him that is how God create 🙏 🙌 him ,this person is a miracle 🙏 👏 on earth showing how God can be Himself Mama and papa 🙏 ❤ one spirit .

  • @nolastehse8385
    @nolastehse838523 күн бұрын

    Bravery, Honesty, Ethics, Smartness, I’ve learned a lot from this …Well done!

  • @thehumbleone3853
    @thehumbleone385323 күн бұрын

    Love this topic Society need to accept that those ppl did not have a choice in their making Therefore they should be treated with love and respect Acceptance shouldn't be hard

  • @EstherShawa-ye1gw
    @EstherShawa-ye1gwАй бұрын

    Very very intelligent interview with mama Dora. Mpatso is very brave to come out openly and talk about such issues usually kept secret in our society. God bless you and hopefully people can become more aware and informed.

  • @Buddy69Love
    @Buddy69Love28 күн бұрын

    Excellent interview, thank you for sharing👍

  • @florencenyatsine1156
    @florencenyatsine115626 күн бұрын

    Very insightful interview. Thank you so much for being brave to share your story. You’re eloquent and humble. May God continue the bless you and guide you in all your future endeavors. Thank you Dr Dora, you’re amazing, keep up the good work..

  • @bongiwencayiyana220
    @bongiwencayiyana220Ай бұрын

    Whaaw what a strong positive and an intelligent interesting interview😊😊Thankyou and good luck young man.

  • @nelliedejager9553
    @nelliedejager9553Ай бұрын

    Imformative... educative...beautiful and articulate both host and guest...new to channel..keep up the good work ..God bless

  • @malonmwambazi554
    @malonmwambazi554Ай бұрын

    Some situations are difficult to explain. All the best to you and everyone in this situation

  • @marthamungure1777
    @marthamungure177726 күн бұрын

    Very brilliant and brave person. More grace to you

  • @sholaawe1028
    @sholaawe102825 күн бұрын

    So Educative, good information, Your Guests, Very Very intelligent, l Wish him the Best things of Life, and Should Always remember God👏💖.

  • @alsolomantrotman6969

    @alsolomantrotman6969

    23 күн бұрын

    If it's intersex while label it as a gender??

  • @sakalameck
    @sakalameckАй бұрын

    Loud and clear. Very confident, not emotional like other activists do. He has wise parents and he respects them too.

  • @AXZJ104
    @AXZJ10424 күн бұрын

    Thank you a very mature and informative interview. Wishing you all the best for your future.

  • @KarenBulenge
    @KarenBulengeАй бұрын

    Very insightful,we were together at school and we played tennis together,she very very reserved I can actually count hw many times I would see her smile,and its different when I meet her now ,wow she was very outspoken...i guese coming out to the world has really helped her to be free and express...am so happy for u friend keep on the good works u r doing,right behind.

  • @sholaawe1028

    @sholaawe1028

    25 күн бұрын

    Should be address as a 👨 Man according to the way it Pleases him.. thanks.. from 🇳🇬 Nigeria.

  • @giselec6773

    @giselec6773

    24 күн бұрын

    😂

  • @casmirifeanyi7788

    @casmirifeanyi7788

    22 күн бұрын

    I'd rather refer to him as him and not her, coming from what the message of the video say

  • @lawino1552
    @lawino155222 күн бұрын

    Beautiful interview and very informative.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @OShaughnessyC
    @OShaughnessyC21 күн бұрын

    Fascinating and such an educational interview. Thanks to both!

  • @imaginelovepeaceandhappine3281
    @imaginelovepeaceandhappine328121 күн бұрын

    I’m surprised and proud that many are respecting that he identify as a male. I’m sure it’s confusing and judgmental by many because he has very large breast. I’m glad there is an advocate in the country for the intersex people.

  • @silviersabi8964
    @silviersabi8964Ай бұрын

    A true journalist that she is,,, interesting interview.... very insightful

  • @patwilson7596
    @patwilson759624 күн бұрын

    Such a good interview!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 When I was in nursing school I saw a baby born with male and female genetalia. "Ambiguous Genetalia" That was back in 1975. Im happy to hear you speak out on it. Continue to be an advocate 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾and educate those who have no knowledge about babies being born with this imperfection.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @imaginelovepeaceandhappine3281

    @imaginelovepeaceandhappine3281

    21 күн бұрын

    Is being born intersex an imperfection? I don’t believe he called it or think of it as an imperfection.

  • @ruthshabangu8038
    @ruthshabangu803823 күн бұрын

    Very insightful interview. Thank you very much from both interviewer and interviewee ❤

  • @dorothychirwa816
    @dorothychirwa81626 күн бұрын

    I love you because you so honest and on point....I wish all can come out like you

  • @nkirukayakini1333
    @nkirukayakini133321 күн бұрын

    Excellent interview, very informative. Much Respect to your guest!!!

  • @walusunguzimba7739
    @walusunguzimba7739Ай бұрын

    He is such an intelligent guy. Thanks mphasa

  • @Imani7777
    @Imani777725 күн бұрын

    Very informative! Thanks 🙏🏿

  • @ettienewand9850
    @ettienewand985028 күн бұрын

    A very mature and sound conversation. We need policy change /development to allow for these cases.I wish Mpaso courage in this endeavour and courage to all those struggling with this experience. To parents raising intersex children, courage to you too.There will be a time when our deep ignorance on these issues will fade.Much love from 🇰🇪.

  • @nathankamanga8455
    @nathankamanga8455Ай бұрын

    Learnt more about this unfortunate plight in this short interview than I have in my entire life, I was regrettably very ignorant. I wish Mphatso and every other Zambian living out this reality all the very best

  • @lovehopeandgrace
    @lovehopeandgrace23 күн бұрын

    I am wiser for having listened to this interview. We are not to judge but to learn from others who are experiencing it realtime. I admire his courage and integrity to speak the truth. May his org grow from strength to strength as he assists to educate and protect others like himself. Wonderful interview 👏👏

  • @princesskaulinge
    @princesskaulinge23 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, Mpaso. I'm enlightened and inspired by your bravery.

  • @user-qw4nk7qq8s
    @user-qw4nk7qq8sАй бұрын

    Bravo bro/sus.ur so special, God gives u more courage, bigup

  • @kasapomanjimela7361
    @kasapomanjimela736126 күн бұрын

    Educating people is the key well done Mphatso this is so informative.

  • @tolaniaiku8200
    @tolaniaiku820024 күн бұрын

    Brilliant interview 😊

  • @lucianahaingura1128
    @lucianahaingura112825 күн бұрын

    Thank you dear for opening up I am a female now age 55 you help me to clear my mind i remember having I friend at age 5 or 6 i can nor recall. Well she was I having both genetal male part in the middle surrounding by female and when I tell people they look at me like a make up story cause at age 7 we moved to the town and I don't know where she is now you see little children always play and show each other their look and we were always wondering why is her female part having male part in the middle I wish you strength from the lord cause no body of us created him or herself continue to open up it will save many lives🙌❤sorry for the broken English

  • @JM-vj7we
    @JM-vj7we24 күн бұрын

    Intelligent informative compassionate interview.

  • @prince_success
    @prince_successАй бұрын

    Very rear and special people only God can explain but heyy life goes on..mphatso is very intelligent,special credit to ISSZ thanks Dr Dora for this lovely sensitization.

  • @alsolomantrotman6969

    @alsolomantrotman6969

    23 күн бұрын

    Only God can explain when y'all claim God created man and woman?

  • @kennybproductionshouse6213
    @kennybproductionshouse621324 күн бұрын

    Really appreciate your confidence. God bless you

  • @Zoe186
    @Zoe186Ай бұрын

    God Bless you Mphatso.

  • @cynthiaphiri5558
    @cynthiaphiri555826 күн бұрын

    I remember you from Kabulonga girls class of 2004,this is so beautiful learnt so much from you.

  • @roxcee6710
    @roxcee671023 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. God bless him.

  • @charlesmulenga8685
    @charlesmulenga8685Ай бұрын

    You are a fighter dear

  • @kjmax1068
    @kjmax106824 күн бұрын

    I read or watched about this condition decades ago and it amazes me that more people don't understand this. Especially now with the DNA knowledge universally. Hoping your interviews will open more eyes and ears

  • @essthumelo4452
    @essthumelo4452Ай бұрын

    Very well spoken.. I'm glad he could keep his peace coz zambians are very judgmental when it comes to issues they don't fully understand..keep advocating for the best❤

  • @gladyskachana7320
    @gladyskachana7320Ай бұрын

    Something that occurred natural is pure and should be given equal respect as any other.I ike her/him.From Namibia.Admire the courageous vibe.

  • @mercypeal702
    @mercypeal702Ай бұрын

    Mphatso is very intelligent 🎉

  • @RichMedia1010
    @RichMedia1010Ай бұрын

    Proper podcast 👌

  • @mojisolaadebowale-marykayb6701
    @mojisolaadebowale-marykayb670122 күн бұрын

    What a beautiful person. God bless you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @RhodaMfula
    @RhodaMfulaАй бұрын

    Amazing and intelligent mphaso God bless you and I love the way miss Dora was asking questions I have learnt a lot from Gift Mphaso

  • @user-og7ce9ys7j

    @user-og7ce9ys7j

    29 күн бұрын

    You are wonderful product of nature God bless you

  • @user-mo9fl1zx7c
    @user-mo9fl1zx7cАй бұрын

    Very interesting.Intelligent and confident young man.Lots of people are enlightened.Can you come to Jamaica sir

  • @OppoleneChambers

    @OppoleneChambers

    24 күн бұрын

    OH my goodness..!! I had a heated conversation about a week ago on this exact condition..i stand alone on this subject..I wish I could find them so they could educate themselves on this.....and YES I'm JAMAICAN / AMERICAN..❤❤❤❤

  • @Angel-AB1421
    @Angel-AB142119 күн бұрын

    What a charming and intelligent young man! The interviewer asked insightful questions and was able to learn more on this subject.. Excellent interview

  • @patriciakalota428
    @patriciakalota428Ай бұрын

    Beautiful young woman, very brave indeed

  • @alsolomantrotman6969

    @alsolomantrotman6969

    23 күн бұрын

    If is intersex,where you get young woman from??

  • @bunmiakintola3825
    @bunmiakintola382523 күн бұрын

    Mpazo, I actually love ❤️ you. And thank you for bringing us this awareness. You are an amazing person. I wish that you are my friend.

  • @mottieinnis7137
    @mottieinnis713728 күн бұрын

    Hmm 🧐.. what an interesting interview.. this is a spectrum.. intersex spectrum, bringing some clarity to myself. Even though I read the book: Middlesex . Thnx for your articulate explanation. Your cause should be supported immensely.

  • @samwelesamwele8267
    @samwelesamwele8267Ай бұрын

    She has really spoke of challenges faced by many affected by such conditions

  • @msampamvula6892
    @msampamvula6892Ай бұрын

    Dora is a great interviewer ❤. Very educative and emotional interview.

  • @jeniphersemagongo8328
    @jeniphersemagongo8328Ай бұрын

    Amen wonderful

  • @ronnetymasilo5137
    @ronnetymasilo513729 күн бұрын

    My brother you are blessed ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @joanraymond5792
    @joanraymond579222 күн бұрын

    This is the first time Thanking you for this topic

  • @MrShmaxx
    @MrShmaxx24 күн бұрын

    Thank You.

  • @Doreen_Maclean1.
    @Doreen_Maclean1.24 күн бұрын

    Very informative

  • @thobekiletwala9824
    @thobekiletwala982428 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this interview. I actually think that they should cover the whole Africa

  • @venekapussewela3201
    @venekapussewela320123 күн бұрын

    very educated questions and very educated answers.

  • @ntombehlubinelani8781
    @ntombehlubinelani878129 күн бұрын

    Very proud of you

  • @NOURINHO-rv5fk
    @NOURINHO-rv5fk24 күн бұрын

    I am intersex person. I have both female genitalia, and Female genitalia, and I love it because I was born with it. I can be either man, or female it is best of both worlds.

  • @tula_tracey

    @tula_tracey

    22 күн бұрын

    You typed female twice, however I understood. I'm glad that you have self love, it's important.

  • @iraanderson66

    @iraanderson66

    20 күн бұрын

    So you use both parts in sex?

  • @chawanangwamkandawire5850
    @chawanangwamkandawire5850Ай бұрын

    His looks and voice are very much feminine, but I guess it's the male part that controls his sexuality.

  • @marthamungure1777

    @marthamungure1777

    26 күн бұрын

    I think he looks both male and female. Voice in between, body looks both

  • @mirriamkasaro9442
    @mirriamkasaro944222 күн бұрын

    So educative

  • @daphneywallock2358
    @daphneywallock235823 күн бұрын

    THANKS FOR EXPLAINING SIR. IT CAN'T HAVE BEEN EASY FOR YOU WHEN YOU WERE YOUNGER. GOD BLESS & KEEP YOU HEALTHY"*, HAPPY "*. NUFF LOVE BROTHER ❤

  • @ntombehlubinelani8781
    @ntombehlubinelani878129 күн бұрын

    You are very clear and concise to be honest. Where and when can I hear from you to help someone in S.Africa please. You tick all the boxes.God bless you . Where can I contact you to help this young boy in S.A.

  • @bonnysimelane5703

    @bonnysimelane5703

    29 күн бұрын

    Hello, I am intersex and live in Johannesburg and where are you based?

  • @wheretheresnochef1490
    @wheretheresnochef1490Ай бұрын

    Learning...

  • @alicemushibwe9054
    @alicemushibwe905420 күн бұрын

    Very educative

  • @mowthorn8570
    @mowthorn8570Ай бұрын

    I very much appreciate this interview. Gender is a spectrum and so is sexuality. The society is the problem, because it is stuck in the ancient cultural and religious narrow view. The saddest thing is that, that binary view informs every aspect of our lives and such normal people as Mphaso are excluded from fully participation in the society. Gays Lesbians and all the other variations also need to be heard. This would benefit the society and also help our governments make better policies and educate us all. Thankyou so much, keep doing the good work.

  • @sophiakimaro5174
    @sophiakimaro5174Ай бұрын

    I can't lie but I love these people. I never meet them in my life but I wish to meet them.

  • @kabelotebohotote4914
    @kabelotebohotote4914Ай бұрын

    ❤I like you the way you are because everyone in the universe was God's plan.SOUTH AFRICA🎉🎉🎉

  • @Ekundayo-ce5el
    @Ekundayo-ce5el15 күн бұрын

    Amazing Dr. Dora you are the best Interviewer of all times. Those so-called Nigerian journalists should come and learn under your feet. No offence to Nigerians because I'm a Nigerian myself.

  • @maria_mutondioriginal5
    @maria_mutondioriginal5Ай бұрын

    May God give you the desire of your heart amen

  • @chimariich3278
    @chimariich327823 күн бұрын

    Feel so bad for this beautiful soul. Why does this happen to people. You're loved!

  • @rehemankisi3551

    @rehemankisi3551

    21 күн бұрын

    My question too. I know there are so many extracting Thru out Africa n never dealing with the toxicity they leave so communities around n near their sites

  • @prithacaroline2837
    @prithacaroline283728 күн бұрын

    God bless you

  • @patriciakalota428
    @patriciakalota428Ай бұрын

    Sorry I said woman, you are a very brave young man would love to learn more about this great organization I will definitely look it up

  • @joeewell4846

    @joeewell4846

    Ай бұрын

    There are hermaphrodites who have had children, with many having uteruses both ovaries and testes.

  • @josephchileshe6037
    @josephchileshe6037Ай бұрын

    They are gods, they are unique We are learning

  • @janetphiri8731
    @janetphiri873112 күн бұрын

    I admire your courage and your blondness proud of you

  • @davieskabwe5729
    @davieskabwe5729Ай бұрын

    Hi Mpatso, Kindly share with us on the analysis results with regards to your Pelvis....... Your pelvis is the part of your body that contains your uterus and bladder. The female pelvis is wider than the male pelvis, as it’s designed for pregnancy and childbirth. What is your opinion on hormonal balancing and supported surgery by the government?........

  • @kennybproductionshouse6213
    @kennybproductionshouse621324 күн бұрын

    I think the best is to establish campaign, crusade and awareness for government and for government to come to their aid of these special people especially from tender age to correct the imbalances medically and help them to carry out surgery to align with a particular gender, depending on which hormones are higher in each individual body.

  • @dorothyjoyrobinson2452
    @dorothyjoyrobinson245226 күн бұрын

    Very Intelligent

  • @alexmulelema9339
    @alexmulelema9339Ай бұрын

    Wonderful interview

  • @mosesmuriithi3532
    @mosesmuriithi3532Ай бұрын

    Mama Dora, please let him express the views