Growing up I was always told i am very beautiful, “fitting in those beauty standards” my mom on the other hand always said don’t think you are too beautiful,be kind. If you think you are beautiful don’t feel arrogant about it,it’s not your kamaal in it etc. Never liked it,I was like why my mom says all this when I know I am beautiful. Here i am 32 years old. Oh man! What validation i needed of my beauty which is not even something i gained myself. All my life I wanted to look a certain way and seek more and more validation.

@girlsinthetwincities2834

23 күн бұрын

Your mom is a wise woman ☺️

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I lovee this episode❤❤ i can relate to so much in this episode. I had body issues almost my entire life but now finally i m at a point where i can happy the way i look. We need more people to talk about body shaming

@girlsinthetwincities2834

21 күн бұрын

So happy you reached that point 💕💕 Absolutely we need to be more open about how bad body shaming is

Your podcast is the only podcast that i carefully listen to with all my ears, i enjoy listening to you girls and get so much positivity ❤❤❤. Thanks a million

@girlsinthetwincities2834

23 күн бұрын

Wow we are so happy to hear this 💕

Laila was my batch mate in school, i remember she came to APS Malir when we were in 10th. She was all those things that she mentioned in the intro but Radiant. I don’t know but there was something about her that would make her stand out, could be her dimples or her chouti on the side. So nice to her doing so well in life x

@girlsinthetwincities2834

23 күн бұрын

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Uff amazing conversation, so much to relate with , loved the whole episode ❤

@girlsinthetwincities2834

23 күн бұрын

Thank you 💕

My husband is good looking man and I’m more good looking fit than him. But I still sometimes feels insecure about how I look not because I am not beautiful but I feel may be he find someone more beautiful than me in terms of beauty. I am Afghan but people usually think I am from Russia, Palestine or Romania what I’m trying to say is I’m really beautiful according to any person I met in life. My husband brothers always tell him that he’s lucky to have such beautiful wife. They usually compliment me but I feel like it’s not true…… as you said heavy body usually feel insecure etc but I’m tall 5/9.5 inches, fit women but I wanna gain weight (Like kareena kapoor) even some people might wanna look like me so it goes on in life…. insecurity are part of life no matter how you look you still end up doubting yourself. Specially if you’re on internet…. It will effect you more because of peoples negativity, comparison, insecurity, lack of self love etc….

@girlsinthetwincities2834

10 күн бұрын

Exactly! Self confidence comes from within

It all starts from home. Parents should definitely think thrice before commenting on somebody's looks.

@girlsinthetwincities2834

23 күн бұрын

Absolutely!!

I thoroughly enjoyed the podcast.Having no sister myself, listening to your podcast feels like elder sisters sharing gyaan on how to deal with life in general.🫰

@ayeshakhan6552

23 күн бұрын

Exactly same for me ❤

@girlsinthetwincities2834

23 күн бұрын

This is exactly why we started this podcast! It’s what our younger selves needed. So glad you’re liking it 💕