Body Language Experts Break Down Job Interview Etiquette | WIRED

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Body language experts explain how to conduct yourself during a job interview. From the very start of the interview process to maintaining your poise until leaving the room, Joe Navarro, Dr. Abbie Maroño and Anne-Maartje Oud demonstrate the things interviewers are looking out for and how to make the best first impression.
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  • @juliegolick
    @juliegolick4 ай бұрын

    A mindset tip that will help with confidence: remember that you as the interviewee have power too. This isn't just about pitching yourself to the company, it's about finding out if the company is right for you. THEY have to prove themselves to YOU as much as YOU have to prove yourself to THEM. (Believe me: I've sat on hiring committee where we REALLY wanted to win over the top candidates.) Knowing that you have power in the relationship too might help you be less anxious.

  • @yukisnoww

    @yukisnoww

    4 ай бұрын

    True, starting with that mindset, I've gotten a pretty good hit rate. I just ask whatever I want to know, without holding back. Might be easier for me cause I am like that usually. Even if it went well and I find it not right, whether the place as a whole or the HM/HR, I just go next, passed on a couple of offers.

  • @lesliespeaker668

    @lesliespeaker668

    4 ай бұрын

    That's better advice than anything said in the video!

  • @truth2910

    @truth2910

    4 ай бұрын

    They have to prove what exactly? That they will exploit and control me less than other companies?

  • @tijmenaalberts4259

    @tijmenaalberts4259

    4 ай бұрын

    That’s actually so helpful

  • @michaelcastillo7883

    @michaelcastillo7883

    3 ай бұрын

    What does a hiring manager do or say to be considered proving themselves? What could they do or say that you’d say is disproving themselves? Are there certain things you can say to them, and by their response, that would help you know if they’re right or wrong for you?

  • @smittywerbenjaggermanjenso2814
    @smittywerbenjaggermanjenso28143 ай бұрын

    Recruiter here: I agree with all the things in the video but I also wanna emphasize that you should be yourself. We notice it very quickly when someone just plays a role. Just be a version of yourself that is a little more confident than you actually are. Boosts also your confidence in the long run

  • @shannonbrice8012
    @shannonbrice80124 ай бұрын

    I got a job offer because I was the only one who talked to the receptionist out of all the candidates. We didn't talk much but chit chatted about the weather, she had a beautiful picture behind her on the wall and I commented it was very nice. It made all the difference in the world I guess.

  • @vihangaharshana

    @vihangaharshana

    4 ай бұрын

    Yeah I saw you. Did you see me talking with her? I mean I’m the one who got kicked out by security guy. And she was being nice to you and rude to me

  • @adonbush4465

    @adonbush4465

    4 ай бұрын

    Really? I came before you and just asked her something but she instantly said she has a boyfriend...

  • @vihangaharshana

    @vihangaharshana

    4 ай бұрын

    @@adonbush4465 lol

  • @onkelpappkov2666

    @onkelpappkov2666

    3 ай бұрын

    I was the guy who calmly waited in line for her to nod me over, stated my business and sat down when told to. I should have commented on the picture, darn it!

  • @petruccifanboi

    @petruccifanboi

    2 ай бұрын

    I am the guy who hired you BUT NOT because you talked to the receptionist but because you had the skills for the job and most importantly were okay with the compensation we had set up ( which could have been much higher tbh) . It helps that you are nice . Welcome Aboard !

  • @dnika006
    @dnika0064 ай бұрын

    I look at the screen during online interviews not really to see how I look but rather to see the interviewer’s reaction to what I’m saying, makes it feel more like a conversation

  • @ColinGrym
    @ColinGrym4 ай бұрын

    I love Joe Navarro's videos. I've watched a lot of them and the change in people's reactions when you use his tips are meaningful. Plus he's just such a great communicator (which makes sense given his specialty).

  • @nestromae
    @nestromae4 ай бұрын

    For truly confident individuals it works automatically (good posture, solid handshake). But if you are not, you probably shouldn't fool people. Boost your confidence aside, one step per day and you'll never need to imitate it. Just be yourself.

  • @RishabhSharma10225

    @RishabhSharma10225

    4 ай бұрын

    Fake it until you make it

  • @nestromae

    @nestromae

    4 ай бұрын

    @@RishabhSharma10225 faking for yourself vs faking for others

  • @vminhope3040

    @vminhope3040

    4 ай бұрын

    Im just trying to eat man…

  • @user-vv7mu8qt4g

    @user-vv7mu8qt4g

    3 ай бұрын

    strong handshake is so overrated, feels stupid when someone presses my hand to prove that

  • @kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168

    @kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168

    Ай бұрын

    Sometimes confident, and has a prospect for success, integrity and person can be nervous when walking into an interview. Someone who displays confidence can also be a total liability.

  • @One_In_Training
    @One_In_Training4 ай бұрын

    I was waiting for the part at the end where they say "now forget everything we just told you; and just be kind, honest and relaxed. The rest will take care of itself."

  • @leahariel828
    @leahariel8284 ай бұрын

    I have an interview tomorrow for my top choice PA school - this came at the perfect time!!!! I hope everyone with interviews coming up do fantastic❤

  • @do_you_know_what

    @do_you_know_what

    4 ай бұрын

    Please tell us after you're PA school interview how it went!!

  • @baublesanddolls

    @baublesanddolls

    4 ай бұрын

    Good luck 😊

  • @ericafedu9690

    @ericafedu9690

    4 ай бұрын

    All the best

  • @Dark2Reaper
    @Dark2Reaper4 ай бұрын

    The takeaway is that this is to improve your chances, not guarantee a job. If a company has candidates of equal talent, they have to dig deeper on how to narrow their selection down.

  • @truth2910

    @truth2910

    4 ай бұрын

    The takeaway is that it's impossible to predict such a complex thing like chemistry between people, also there's no such thing as equal talent it's all relative. This vid feels like watching horoscopes.

  • @boobacly9103
    @boobacly9103Ай бұрын

    In the real world none of these matters actually. What really matters are connections and recommendations.

  • @rruksana307

    @rruksana307

    13 күн бұрын

    the sad reality 😢

  • @RobinMoerland
    @RobinMoerland4 ай бұрын

    I was once in an interview that went well. But it continued in the parking lot. There was a car with a flat battery and did an assessment outside the room. What do you, how did you do it. Fortunately for me there was an employee that really had a flat battery. I helped her out and we went our separate ways. Turned out it was the chief of HR. Landed the job because of this.

  • @artanme

    @artanme

    2 ай бұрын

    Can i ask what was the job for?

  • @RobinMoerland

    @RobinMoerland

    2 ай бұрын

    @@artanme HPC cloud/infra engineer.

  • @bastelkiste2242
    @bastelkiste22424 ай бұрын

    I'm not too much into the handshake thing since covid. In fact in Germany a lot of people still avoid the handshake and I like it.

  • @Dayvit78

    @Dayvit78

    4 ай бұрын

    Fist bump for the win.

  • @BaBaNaNaBa

    @BaBaNaNaBa

    Ай бұрын

    cringe. dunno if you are a troll

  • @bastelkiste2242

    @bastelkiste2242

    Ай бұрын

    @@BaBaNaNaBa i am not. For example doctors, they do not Shake hands any more. For hygienic reasons

  • @kerigirl711
    @kerigirl7114 ай бұрын

    What about virtual/remote job interviews? The business model has changed drastically since COVID, and I’d love to see more advice for virtual/remote interviews and etiquette.

  • @bobbymath2813

    @bobbymath2813

    4 ай бұрын

    For virtual interviews, it would also be cool to have a psychologist describe the science of what your camera background communicates to the interviewer, or whether your performance is better if you’re wearing dress pants and shoes, etc.

  • @damonlin9505

    @damonlin9505

    4 ай бұрын

    Have chatgpt opened up in 1 of your tab.

  • @truth2910

    @truth2910

    4 ай бұрын

    @@bobbymath2813 Or simply read what the horoscopes say before the interview, that way you save money and you get the same results with the same explanations in case you succeed or fail. Oh wait! there's this magical good luck crystal that works well too.... lmao at psychologist and science in the same sentence.

  • @charlottelanvin7095

    @charlottelanvin7095

    4 ай бұрын

    did you watch the video? they address those specifically after 6:50

  • @rja62b
    @rja62b4 ай бұрын

    This doesn't apply to software engineers. Interviews are all online. Also, doesn't matter what you look like as long as you can solve the code/problem. I envy people who have careers where how they appear can affect the results of their interview.

  • @everssonnascimento4601

    @everssonnascimento4601

    4 ай бұрын

    Don't worry about appearances then enjoy having to report to someone with less technical knowledge than you

  • @js2000honda

    @js2000honda

    4 ай бұрын

    Leetcode 24/7

  • @magdadrague

    @magdadrague

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes, but such careers are unfair as well.

  • @zr1129

    @zr1129

    4 ай бұрын

    Why? Careers where merit matters is far more fulfilling than becoming a professional bullshitter such as these "experts".

  • @NSDCTwitch
    @NSDCTwitch4 ай бұрын

    I think the majority of the steps they are talking about are more corporate level style jobs. Most jobs nowadays are virtual and these old school tactics don't resonate with the new type of jobs that come up now. They are still fantastic tips. But the biggest thing you need to be able to do is this: Sell yourself, think of the job you are applying for and do some research or internal value searching to see: "What have I done in my previous jobs/experiences that make me qualified to do this job." Most time they will ask the dreaded question: "Tell me about a time where... *INSERT PART OF JOB HERE* Maybe it was a difficult situation you overcame, maybe you had to break some really bad news to someone, how did you handle it with empathy and so on and so forth. Being able to sell yourself is legit 70% of the interview. The other 30% can be making sure the business aligns with your goals and your values. If you fit, it will click. My Experience? I hate interviews because I hate selling myself. That is a personal issue I've been working on, but I got my recent promotion because of what I said above. It's all about experience.

  • @mbogucki1

    @mbogucki1

    4 ай бұрын

    Agreed. If I was hiring most of this stuff would make you seem like an uptight stick in the mud trying to hard. But then I am in the design field. 😅

  • @cynthiavanteylingen7922
    @cynthiavanteylingen79224 ай бұрын

    Learned a lot again. These videos always give so many tips.

  • @DmitriySokhach
    @DmitriySokhach4 ай бұрын

    That's how you get "overpaid", "oversold" professionals into the team, who know how to bargain, but can't produce real artifacts. So many highly competent IT professional were not hired because of that and find their place in world leading startups instead of "overpaid/underskilled" corpo teams.

  • @WEIWANG-ep4hl
    @WEIWANG-ep4hl2 ай бұрын

    thanks for uploading, i find it very helpful

  • @chris-sb7sz
    @chris-sb7sz4 ай бұрын

    so approach them like they’re royalty? sweet

  • @Angelynk
    @Angelynk4 ай бұрын

    Please educate HR folks that some people are more stressed by the idea of touching someone else's hand than for the interview itself. I've seen people become happier, less sick and less anxious the moment we stopped handshakes (and the "bise" in France especially) in the workplace. Also quick tip for online interviews: uncheck the mirror video. Your left hand will stay your left hand and it feels way more natural for non verbal communication.

  • @AllenJohn
    @AllenJohn4 ай бұрын

    Do all this and you still don't get the job.

  • @tumainijastus326

    @tumainijastus326

    4 ай бұрын

    😅😅😊

  • @SteveLEKORodrigue

    @SteveLEKORodrigue

    4 ай бұрын

    With this attitude (showed by your very comment), I understand why. 😉

  • @almohnad2

    @almohnad2

    4 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @baublesanddolls

    @baublesanddolls

    4 ай бұрын

    The interview doesn’t mean you get the job! 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @baublesanddolls

    @baublesanddolls

    4 ай бұрын

    @steveLEKORodrigue, I was just going to comment the same thing.

  • @ilsejustme303
    @ilsejustme3034 ай бұрын

    perfect timing, i have a job interview tomorrow morning

  • @jansenart0
    @jansenart04 ай бұрын

    How about "don't take jobs with corpos that judge good posture as 'being headstrong.' ". The only constant in job interviews is that the process is ARBITRARY. No two companies are alike, and the key to getting the job IS KNOWING THE PERSON HIRING.

  • @WendifurTTV

    @WendifurTTV

    4 ай бұрын

    It isn’t about good posture. It’s about the language your posture projects. It’s not just corporate people who look for this stuff in interviews.

  • @gut9941

    @gut9941

    4 ай бұрын

    my thoughts exactly

  • @carlosmspk

    @carlosmspk

    4 ай бұрын

    This is general to all human beings. If someone comes with hunch back looking down, you feel like they don't really think they'r up for the job, even if you're not aware of that feeling. But I understand what you mean, this whole video feels a lot like corporate talk, and at the end you can use your bad interview practices to your advantage, to make them act as a filter for companies that value superficial stuff like this too much, but it's always gonna pull you down

  • @ItsBrown__

    @ItsBrown__

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@carlosmspkcompanies that "value superficial stuff".... Yeah like 99% of companies. It's not superficial, it says something about your attitude and confidence

  • @Dayvit78

    @Dayvit78

    4 ай бұрын

    There ya go. You get hired if you can do that job - and they know you can do the job; mainly because they know you already. Body language has nothing to do with it.

  • @Unan1mouz
    @Unan1mouz4 ай бұрын

    These are some very good tips! Though I really hate interviews... The fact that we get judged before we even enter the building is just so much pressure 😮‍💨😵‍💫🤯 And we cant make any bad moves or mistakes!! UGH

  • @GautamYH
    @GautamYHАй бұрын

    Your originality is key for the interviewer to assess. Take all suggestions with a grain of salt, nothing more.

  • @rebecca_stone
    @rebecca_stone8 күн бұрын

    The advice here is fine - but as someone in senior management at a global corporate (not my background btw, it's been an eye opener!), I can tell you that sooooo much depends on what a firm needs at that point in time. You'll either be a match or not. You can accidentally mess up one or two of these body language things, but if you are super attentive to the people in the room, authentically respond to their cues, and how you can solve their business / team problem, that's what they'll remember.

  • @philbuarque
    @philbuarque10 күн бұрын

    I just love Dr's Abbie Maroño body Language

  • @jopo7996
    @jopo79964 ай бұрын

    Note to self, stop starting every interview with "pull my finger!".

  • @sabahlarakadar420

    @sabahlarakadar420

    4 ай бұрын

    Kid named finger:

  • @vminhope3040

    @vminhope3040

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 No that’s a great way to start!

  • @Kakki82
    @Kakki824 ай бұрын

    Whenever I decide to go on a job searching spree on Indeed, within a spanof week or two I get 5 to 6 interviews and always get the gigs that it becomes just a warm up practice for me. Then I choose which one I like afterwards. I always make it like I'm the interview. Like a Chess match. Snd all my life I was so uncident 90 percent in public interactions and awkward.

  • @DeMelkBoer
    @DeMelkBoer4 ай бұрын

    So the advice is don’t be yourself… Pretend and get the job and then deal with the problems that brings. Luckily i got chosen for my skills.

  • @SKYWINDAIR
    @SKYWINDAIR4 ай бұрын

    Wow this video came just in time for my final interview tomorrow ty!

  • @DrKritter

    @DrKritter

    4 ай бұрын

    good luck!

  • @SKYWINDAIR

    @SKYWINDAIR

    4 ай бұрын

    Thank you!@@DrKritter

  • @Smittenhamster
    @Smittenhamster4 ай бұрын

    I would say instead of confidence I'd look for self-awareness. It's okay to be shy and not march into the room like you own the place. But it's important to be aware that you are maybe socially awkward or need a bit of time to thaw up. I'd rather employ someone like that and have a well-mixed team than Mr Testosterone.

  • @DeAguaMusic
    @DeAguaMusic4 ай бұрын

    I don't know man, I'm an artist, people don't care if I'm a completely nutjob or if a dress like a hobo, they show me a piano, I play like Liszt and I'm in. I feel sorry for the people that have to pretend to be someone else to get a job.

  • @emeru_emeru
    @emeru_emeru4 ай бұрын

    why cant these kind of videos be longer :( i really like them, specially if Joe Navarro is there.

  • @lukecasey1883
    @lukecasey18834 ай бұрын

    This was relevant maybe 20 years ago

  • @boringperson-zb8vy

    @boringperson-zb8vy

    14 күн бұрын

    Nope. Still is.

  • @rgp1989
    @rgp19894 ай бұрын

    I've been on interview panels where there was a fixed grading system and we were not allowed to take into account most of what they mention here. Not saying its bad advice, but it depends on the culture of the organisation

  • @fernando717
    @fernando71719 күн бұрын

    The interview begins when you leave your house. I had a friend get in a little road rage incident where he flipped someone off then to find out that the person he flipped off was one of the persons who interviewed him.

  • @jemmakhachatryan1
    @jemmakhachatryan14 ай бұрын

    Thanks!!!

  • @noblesleem1077
    @noblesleem10774 ай бұрын

    Visually, vocally, verbally, haptics

  • @mohamaddepp7455
    @mohamaddepp7455Ай бұрын

    Life is not problem to be solved it is a reality to be experienced

  • @bgezal
    @bgezal4 ай бұрын

    This looks like an executive job position.

  • @dtheguy
    @dtheguy4 ай бұрын

    This is perfect timing. Just tomorrow I’ll pass and interview akin to a job interview .

  • @do_you_know_what

    @do_you_know_what

    4 ай бұрын

    Please tell us after you're interview how it went !!

  • @dtheguy

    @dtheguy

    4 ай бұрын

    @@do_you_know_what it went fine actually , about what i expected. Thx for caring The key is to be chill

  • @do_you_know_what

    @do_you_know_what

    4 ай бұрын

    THAT'S GREAT !!

  • @PeanutButterN8
    @PeanutButterN84 ай бұрын

    Girl in the black dress had my mouth watering when she was handshaking.

  • @lesliespeaker668

    @lesliespeaker668

    4 ай бұрын

    It looked almost unreal

  • @zeroceiling

    @zeroceiling

    4 ай бұрын

    You could literally place a small refreshment plate on the spoiler in the back!

  • @michete

    @michete

    4 ай бұрын

    ew wtf, get help.

  • @lesliespeaker668

    @lesliespeaker668

    4 ай бұрын

    @@micheteC'mon, you gotta admit it looks... unique. This is a video about appearance, ffs

  • @michete

    @michete

    4 ай бұрын

    @lesliespeaker668 body language and physical appearance are not the same cmon. Lol be respectful she's a professional in her field giving advice, not standing there for creeps to comment on her body.

  • @mirandamorrison9033
    @mirandamorrison903322 күн бұрын

    As an etiquette professional, I can say that these points are excellent. However, one should not shake hands with a table or other obstacle between those shaking hands. Also, unless one is physically unable, always shake hands while standing.

  • @nextfriday
    @nextfriday4 ай бұрын

    Am loving the cloud behind the stool. How'd ya do that?

  • @pippa3150
    @pippa31504 ай бұрын

    The only person I would hire based on body language here is the lady in black.

  • @aj_z4168
    @aj_z41684 ай бұрын

    JOE NAVARRO IS BACK BABYYY. I waited so long omgg istg

  • @Tarasankar_Gangopadhyay
    @Tarasankar_Gangopadhyay4 ай бұрын

    So, you guys really don't want to see the person genuinely rather how expertly he can fake himself?

  • @Omar-wq9dz
    @Omar-wq9dz4 ай бұрын

    Yes, Joe is back

  • @gsilcoful
    @gsilcoful4 ай бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @AV-tl1vn
    @AV-tl1vn4 ай бұрын

    I'm autistic and this stuff TERRIFIES me. I'm essentially blind to all of this.

  • @RationalEra

    @RationalEra

    4 ай бұрын

    These people are just psycho, don't worry about them. You are more normal than they are. Corporate culture is so silly.

  • @AV-tl1vn

    @AV-tl1vn

    4 ай бұрын

    thanks my friend! it is silly! I'd rather just be real and say hey this me, ahah all this body langauage stuff I'm cool off of haha @@RationalEra

  • @edrow7403
    @edrow740324 күн бұрын

    In my last job interview, I made a point of pausing before answering the their question and I think it weirded things out a bit. On reflection, this might've been a bit disingenuous. Jo says in the vid that hesitation is a killer, and I definitely agree when it comes to making an impression. But also in interviews, I do like the pause before answering, because : A) It can reduce babbling and B) I can double check with myself various answers I already know that will best answer the question. Job interviews are hard!

  • @Eagle3302PL

    @Eagle3302PL

    4 күн бұрын

    If you genuinely need a few seconds to mull over a thought, simply tell the interviewer you're taking a few seconds to think, don't sit in awkward silence. Generally a quick but in a good ballpark answer is better than a slow thought out answer as it doesn't stall the conversation and makes follow up questions easier.

  • @funkypunkypine
    @funkypunkypine4 ай бұрын

    Most interview styles are really ridiculous. They really are looking for people who can BS really well on the fly.

  • @lesliespeaker668

    @lesliespeaker668

    4 ай бұрын

    Because that's exactly what management is supposed to do

  • @funkypunkypine

    @funkypunkypine

    4 ай бұрын

    @@lesliespeaker668 Yeah, and it's really stupid. They aren't looking for honest answers; they are looking for sociopathic behaviors.

  • @dr.trollman8132

    @dr.trollman8132

    4 ай бұрын

    @@funkypunkypine If everyone was unhinged and honest with their reactions/intentions in a large professional setting, there would likely be more conflict and less getting done.

  • @MrMRSAF
    @MrMRSAF4 ай бұрын

    Miss the simpler times

  • @baublesanddolls

    @baublesanddolls

    4 ай бұрын

    ???

  • @shapeofsoup
    @shapeofsoup4 ай бұрын

    Humans are so arbitrary and presumptuous.

  • @Yu-wj8pj
    @Yu-wj8pj4 ай бұрын

    Sad to see that appearance weighs more importance on getting a job and people have to modify their personality instead of showing yourself for who you are. It's just 'fake it till you make it.'

  • @ArkaidDeims
    @ArkaidDeims4 ай бұрын

    What kind of psychotic companies would surveil prospect employees like this?

  • @vminhope3040

    @vminhope3040

    4 ай бұрын

    Literally every job even minimum wage jobs

  • @-.-_._--
    @-.-_._--4 ай бұрын

    Watching this will only make me more nervous

  • @laibasayyed9627
    @laibasayyed96276 күн бұрын

    Great video.

  • @thyydragonhart6123
    @thyydragonhart61234 ай бұрын

    i would expect at least a random email saying im not good enought for the position instead of the "headhunter" recruiter ghosting me in every plataform i try to contact checking if the process is still going on..

  • @AllenJohn
    @AllenJohn4 ай бұрын

    01:59 One of those flimsy handshakes

  • @starcrystal5551
    @starcrystal55519 күн бұрын

    Last chance to make an impression @ the end They make it seem like, 'take advantage of end of interview' like you might not accidentally say or do something declasse

  • @allen604
    @allen6044 ай бұрын

    The way Abbie presenters herself makes me think she's not too approachable. Her posture and body language is very angular. Her hand movements are very symmetrical. Her hair is brought forward, partially covering her shoulders and chest. This leads me to think that she's up tight, closed off or isn't willing to have fun. Having said that, her speech cadence is very deliberate showing that she cares about each word that is said and is important. This shows intelligence. She tends to gesture with the back of the hand facing the other speaker, meaning that she doesn't want to come off as the aggressor and wants to be respectful. Ankles crossed instead of legs crossed is showing me she prefers to be seen as petite. When she shakes the hand of the other person, look at her left hand. That raised left arm is still close to the body, and is still showing a bit of that tightness instead of relaxation. But if you notice the hand, it's limp and once again the back side facing the other person. My guess is in a romantic relationship she is the submissive one but also enjoys being correct. One other thing I noticed is when she chooses to gesture with both hands she gestures to her right (almost like a discarding motion to the side). She does this quite often, and never to her left. This means she engages her left side brain more than the right. As suspected, she's probably more of an analytical thinker.

  • @FlorianCalmer
    @FlorianCalmer4 ай бұрын

    I just use the Costanza method and go against every single one of my instinct. The less I am myself, the more they'll like me.

  • @DDAngel1
    @DDAngel14 ай бұрын

    2:57 OMG her tush is protuberant!!😄

  • @rogerstlaurent8704

    @rogerstlaurent8704

    4 ай бұрын

    I rather hire the. Chick with crop top on. But the one with the skintight dress on going into an interview. Applying for a job if I was the Hiring Manager there be no way I would hire he that would be pure trouble.

  • @PanekPL
    @PanekPL4 ай бұрын

    Make sure you find a job that doesn't care about your body language and appearance but rather about your skills and who you are as a person.

  • @Smittenhamster

    @Smittenhamster

    4 ай бұрын

    That heavily depends on your field. Everything with customer contact, yes a company will care about your appearance.

  • @PanekPL

    @PanekPL

    4 ай бұрын

    Then you shouldn't care about the company.

  • @michete

    @michete

    4 ай бұрын

    body language can tell a lot about who someone is as a person; those subtle things that they verbally aren't revealing

  • @hostkevincq
    @hostkevincq4 ай бұрын

    hand in hand, we rise above

  • @theasian24601
    @theasian246012 ай бұрын

    I usually go firm, but some people immediately give me a loose handshake. I go loose because i dont want to hurt them.

  • @YellowMilk14
    @YellowMilk144 ай бұрын

    "How to Win at Corporate* Job Interviews"

  • @selewin
    @selewin4 ай бұрын

    I think this video is gonna do more harm then good. One way to kill comfort and confidance is to think there 40 rules that you are doing wrong.

  • @miqueiassilvanascimento7331
    @miqueiassilvanascimento73312 ай бұрын

    Conteúdo top

  • @michelroso
    @michelroso2 ай бұрын

    Wow i cannot remember the last time i shook hands with someone! Always one or two kisses on the cheek

  • @Lalaundercover389
    @Lalaundercover3895 күн бұрын

    Hi everyone,so I greet upon walking into the room ofc,then I handshake while standing?then ask to sit?

  • @teruphoto
    @teruphoto4 ай бұрын

    Who chose that stool? It was biased towards taller people. Anne-Maartje was trying her best but her position looked awkward

  • @leejohnson3270
    @leejohnson32704 ай бұрын

    Now i want to start this by saying in no way am I good at interviews, im probably the most introverted person you could meet (I only know two people who are more of an intervert then me). Have you ever had an interview with someone who was clearly unqualified to be giving one. Interrupts you, weak handshake, doesnt even know the position you're applying for. What are some of your advice for dealing with those situation, and personally I try not to think to much into it but is that a red flag for you or is it supper common (im on my 5th job now and I still dont have a lot of experiences with job interviews, basically all but this newest job was confirm before my interview)

  • @karanjeet-ne1qk
    @karanjeet-ne1qk3 ай бұрын

    Good

  • @Skitigdread
    @Skitigdread4 ай бұрын

    They forgot to mention to bring chocolates and flowers. Always bring chocolates and flowers.

  • @asianzhang
    @asianzhang4 ай бұрын

    The comments saying this is irrelevant are missing the point. Most interviewers probably aren’t consciously looking for these things, but subconsciously all of these things make a difference whether you like or not, because we’re all human.

  • @David-ln8qh

    @David-ln8qh

    4 ай бұрын

    We have no reason to assume that.

  • @BlatentlyFakeName
    @BlatentlyFakeName3 ай бұрын

    As a tech I'd say don't go and buy a 4K camera to do an interview. It will eat bandwidth and might get choppy :D

  • @udinbata
    @udinbata3 ай бұрын

    3:28.. I like this tight handshake,...

  • @colinstu
    @colinstu4 ай бұрын

    why are some of these shots really blurry / bad chromatic aberration?

  • @emilynewnam7129
    @emilynewnam71294 ай бұрын

    What if they keep asking a question the same way over and over and there’s still no clear point to the question and you’ve tried to get them to ask another way but they don’t see the need to change how it’s asked to make more sense to the person answering

  • @vminhope3040

    @vminhope3040

    4 ай бұрын

    That’s when you leave 😂

  • @Naveen-iu7ej
    @Naveen-iu7ej4 ай бұрын

    2:55 3:14

  • @honduranflame
    @honduranflame4 ай бұрын

    I love these Body Language videos 🥰

  • @mbogucki1
    @mbogucki14 ай бұрын

    This makes me so thankful to be a freelancer who does not have to deal with interviews...ever...or suits of any kind...ever. 🤣

  • @beyikcykarylano4522
    @beyikcykarylano45224 ай бұрын

    teach us more...

  • @ChairmanHehe
    @ChairmanHehe4 ай бұрын

    in-person fatigue is way worse than zoom

  • @takudzwamashamba7453
    @takudzwamashamba74534 ай бұрын

    I’ll also go to that interview with the presence of God. Thank you for the tips.

  • @NecroMorrius
    @NecroMorrius4 ай бұрын

    I’m a hiring manager and most of this is nonsense

  • @mysurfing3550

    @mysurfing3550

    4 ай бұрын

    To be fair, studies show hiring random people works just as well (actually a little better but not statistically important better). So, if people get this perfect for your sake it says nothing about how well they will do at the job.

  • @jayment3634
    @jayment36344 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video, very helpful!

  • @ntt2232
    @ntt223216 күн бұрын

    Good news 85% you should already know…decent reminder

  • @tylerbakeman
    @tylerbakeman4 ай бұрын

    The only thing you need to win at a job interview, is to be related to someone. Body language expert who conducts interviews, what a waste of schooling 😂

  • @AdamBoozer
    @AdamBoozer4 ай бұрын

    So do the exact opposite to annoy as much as possible?

  • @SighManP
    @SighManP4 ай бұрын

    OUT OF DATE - of the 29 interviews that I have had this year for senior roles, NOT ONE was in person and most of this advice is not applicable to Teams / Zoom / Google meet

  • @theliftexpert

    @theliftexpert

    4 ай бұрын

    Reread your comment over and over….fyi You need to utilize the zoom calls to determine if you are interested in pursuing a relationship with any company. If any of the 29 zoom calls were of interest to you,then you need to be assertively pursuing an in person meeting with the management team that will be doing the hiring. How we choose to communicate should be equal to the importance of the conversation. Text-low importance Email-low importance but more formal Phone call-two way verbal communication is required Zoom call- important to see and hear each other. In person meeting-very important to see,hear,feel ,touch and smell each other and to negotiate any potential relationship or steer an opportunity your way over a competitor. Best wishes

  • @funkypunkypine

    @funkypunkypine

    4 ай бұрын

    They addressed zoom in the second half of the video....

  • @98olober
    @98olober4 ай бұрын

    The editing was way too fast pace in this

  • @khushwantgaur
    @khushwantgaur4 ай бұрын

    Entry achi hai lekin baithne ka tarika thoda casual hai😂

  • @eternyti
    @eternyti4 ай бұрын

    TLDR: portray yourself as a perfect, happy and proud slave to postmodern capitalism. 👍

  • @johncroll1467
    @johncroll14674 ай бұрын

    Interesting video. Too bad I had to watch an unskippable iPhone ad every sixty seconds. The same commercial over and over. My next phone maybe should be an Android...

  • @kasondaleigh
    @kasondaleighАй бұрын

    The barbie doll talking about feeling “natural” 😂

  • @Pr3d4tor99
    @Pr3d4tor996 күн бұрын

    What they don't tell you is that if you're not the right person for the job you can do all these things listed here right and still won't get the job cuz you're not the right person for the job. I think too many of these videos put too much emphasis on how to have a great interview instead on what actually matters and that is too have the right knowledge,skills and experience for a specific job!

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