Biwi Ki Duty hai Sasural ko Khush Rakhna | New Life Changing Bayan | Muhammad Ali & Asiya Mam

Husband ki Maa ko Khush rakhna kiski Zimmedari h
Shauhar ki Walida ka Khayal rakhna Biwi ki duty h
Miya Biwi ke walidain ke Huqook
Miyabiwikehuqook
Islamic Bayan on Husband wife Relationship
Responsibility of Husband
Resolvefamilyissues
Sasuraal ko Khush Rakhna kiski Zimmedari hai
Husband kya kare
Husband ki Expectations
Expectations of Husband
Shauhar ki Expectations
Maa ki Khidmat
Walidain ki Khidmat
Speaker -Muhammad Ali Sir
Kaisser Ahmad Raza
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  • @ahmed6534
    @ahmed653410 ай бұрын

    Jo marzi krlo jo marzi krlo shohar ki maa kabi bahu se khosh nahi ho sakti razi ni ho sakti jo marzi krlo sas kabi maa ni ban sakti

  • @CuteGirl-et1wk

    @CuteGirl-et1wk

    7 ай бұрын

    Sach me kabhi nai kabhi bhi nai

  • @esaehsan7550

    @esaehsan7550

    5 ай бұрын

    Galat agr bahu apni ma ki trha saaS ko samjy to saas ko ma banany me der ni lagti

  • @hrdailyvlog2777

    @hrdailyvlog2777

    4 ай бұрын

    You'r right ​@@esaehsan7550

  • @nabeelahmad8502

    @nabeelahmad8502

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@esaehsan7550 jhoot kabi b ne ho sakta me ny 10 salon ka experience kia but no response

  • @shaheenusa631

    @shaheenusa631

    4 ай бұрын

    Bilkul galat sab saad Aisi nahi hotin. Aap un ko Apni maa ki tarah manegi to wo bhi Aap ko beti ki tarah hi manengi Azma kar dekh len 😊❤

  • @nasheed7868
    @nasheed78684 ай бұрын

    Ya Allah mujhay achi saas banana aur bahu bhi naik dena Aameen.

  • @asiyabegum6463

    @asiyabegum6463

    4 ай бұрын

    Ameen

  • @fatimasalman6036

    @fatimasalman6036

    4 ай бұрын

    Naik bahoo ki dua na maangain. Apny bety k liay naik biwi maangain.

  • @user-iq7jp9of1b

    @user-iq7jp9of1b

    3 ай бұрын

    Me too ameen

  • @manampho

    @manampho

    3 ай бұрын

    Aameen Same here

  • @farasattanveer771
    @farasattanveer7714 ай бұрын

    Alhamd u lillah,main bhi aik saas hoon,I love my daughter in law. Main chahti hoon woh apni marzi se Zindagi guzare, Khush rahe.woh khush to mera beta khush aur hamaray gher main sukoon ho ga

  • @islamickhwateen

    @islamickhwateen

    4 ай бұрын

    MashaAllah...Nice Thinking

  • @lifewithmehru8633

    @lifewithmehru8633

    3 ай бұрын

    Mri saas bi allhumdullah bht achi hain bht zada

  • @misssamaira252

    @misssamaira252

    3 ай бұрын

    Aap bht achi sas h

  • @user-je2id3hm2c

    @user-je2id3hm2c

    3 ай бұрын

    kash meri sas bhe aisi hoti .... 😒😒

  • @adeelbaba4096

    @adeelbaba4096

    3 ай бұрын

    Har koi apki tarah nhi ho sakta na...ur daughter in law is very lucky...

  • @faridashoaib5133
    @faridashoaib5133 Жыл бұрын

    جو لوگ اللہ سے ڈرتے ہیں ان کے گھروں میں کوئی مسئلہ نہیں بلکہ زندگی بہت خوب صورت انداز سے گزرتی ہے

  • @shehnazqadeer857

    @shehnazqadeer857

    Жыл бұрын

    بالکل درست۔۔۔۔

  • @irshadb4911

    @irshadb4911

    Жыл бұрын

    True

  • @sscloset4032

    @sscloset4032

    Жыл бұрын

    💯 100 baton ki ak hi baat

  • @azanadnan3222

    @azanadnan3222

    Жыл бұрын

    Allah se to har koi darta h or zindgi khubsurat b chayea hoti h sb ko lakin agar susral walay hr bt pe bahu ko e ghlat tehraty h to usi ghlt tehray jany pe jb bahu kuch kehti h to ghlat ku lagti h bation k b sary raz dafan kr k phirti h na woi sas to bahu ki hr choti bari ghlti ka dhandora ki peetati h wo 😡😡😡😡😡😡

  • @m.shaikhman4889

    @m.shaikhman4889

    Жыл бұрын

    Bilkul sahi bat kahi apny.. Allah sy dar kr sab sidha rehingy..Allah ka dr nhi isly dramas khaty hin ek dusry k sat

  • @abbasninja5812
    @abbasninja5812 Жыл бұрын

    Ap kitna hi apni saas ko khush karlay kitni hi zindagi mitta day agar apki saas apko pasand nahi karti ap kabhi khush nahi reh saktay aur shofar bhi sirf maa ko sahi samjhta ho to bohat mushkil tareen hoti hai zindagi parwardigar hum sab ko behtreen sabr ata farma

  • @zarminaharoon4806

    @zarminaharoon4806

    Жыл бұрын

    Right now suffering from this shit😢

  • @user-ig4oe8gq8v

    @user-ig4oe8gq8v

    Жыл бұрын

    Right sis jis bahu ko pasand karti he us ki burayon py bhi parda aur jis ko na pasand kary to choti choti bat sheher bhar me dhandora.bhtareen hal ye he k alag ho jao bas nahen khush hoti to na ho allah hi khush kary us ko bhi .aur khud ka bhi sukoon

  • @zarminaharoon4806

    @zarminaharoon4806

    Жыл бұрын

    @@user-ig4oe8gq8v Alag hona asana ha kia jaha beta maa ki politics me aisay nidhal ho k maa aik percent b ghalat nhi lagti ho aur baqi government ne chora ha k banda zehni sakon se alag ho betay do do ghar cahlaye

  • @khadijaarif2107

    @khadijaarif2107

    4 ай бұрын

    Saas susar pr farz hy k wo apni bahu ko pkaa pkaa k laa laa kr den bzaar sy cheezyn..? Or bahu b esi jisy theek sy kuch pkana b naa ata ho.. Saas pkaa pkaa k dey... Or bahu 5 minute paas bhi naa bethy apny room me 24 ghnty bethi rahy.. Jab pakk jaay to jaa khaa aay or phir dubara apny room me chli jaay or soti rahy....?? Zra dusra rukh bhi dekhyn tasweer ka

  • @naserabano8817

    @naserabano8817

    4 ай бұрын

    Same condition😢

  • @asmaarslan2179
    @asmaarslan2179 Жыл бұрын

    shadi k baad larki ki sari omr susral or husband ko khush krny mai guzar jati...larki ko apni khushi sy zyda susral walo ki khushi ki fikar rehti...magr phr bhi koi khush nahi hota 😔

  • @iftekharalam1869

    @iftekharalam1869

    Жыл бұрын

    Aaj kal ki larkiyo ko shadi nahi karni chahiye apni khusi dekhni chahiye

  • @sadiamerajvlogs8121

    @sadiamerajvlogs8121

    Жыл бұрын

    Bilkul aj kal ki larkiya begerat hn had sy ziyada.... mothers na tarbiyat hi na ki ho jaisy... bd ikhlak or batmeez larki beti ho ya bho Allah ki lanat ki mustehak hoti ha.

  • @iftekharalam1869

    @iftekharalam1869

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sadiamerajvlogs8121 pehle zamane mei shadi se pehle larki ki ma ko dekhte thay. Darakht dekh kar fal ka andaza lagate thay. Abhi jaise poora ka poora bhag hi waisa hai, maloom nahi sare ke sare larkiya itni behis kabse aise hogayee. Abhi ke mardo ko shadi nahi karna chahiye

  • @sadiamerajvlogs8121

    @sadiamerajvlogs8121

    Жыл бұрын

    @@iftekharalam1869 shadi krni chahiye us larki sy jo shadi sy phly whatsapp pr love you love you na krti rahi ho... mrd therki ko therki hi milti Allah ki traf sy ... or saas pr raham b Allah at last kr hi deta .... q k 100 bachy b ho jain aisi ort husband chor k at last dafa ho jati ha... bacho k liay thetki mother father dono Allah ko jawab dy hn... bacho ki life b disterb hoti ha. Maa bhan bap bhai to disterb hoty hi han boy k

  • @sadiamerajvlogs8121

    @sadiamerajvlogs8121

    Жыл бұрын

    @@iftekharalam1869 aj kal k boys ki dadi tarbiyat kry k wo aik to halal zadi choose kry shadi k liay. Dosra aba k paisy sy shadi na kry bhara ho k. Or ghr seperat kama k bna k shadi kry ta k usy pta ho halal zadi lani ha na ki whatsapp pr yari lagi haram ki ort

  • @komalhayat2720
    @komalhayat2720 Жыл бұрын

    Your parents are your responsibility as said in the quran, my parents are my responsibility as said in the quran. The first Muslims of Islam never lived in joint families. My parents have no sons, they live happily and comfortably be-iznillah, Alhumdulillah, Mashallah. I have a 9 year old son and I have already told him that he will take his wife to his separate residence when he gets married. Jese betion ko rukhsat krungi wese hee Betay ko bhi krungi. Stop telling daughters to leave parents while giving the men the luxury to live in joint families crushing other people's daughters.

  • @farahy5278

    @farahy5278

    Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful thought, love and respect to u

  • @iftekharalam1869

    @iftekharalam1869

    Жыл бұрын

    Its quite early to say something like this let your son get married then seperate him from you.

  • @komalhayat2720

    @komalhayat2720

    Жыл бұрын

    @Iftekhar Alam I am already training and teaching him that this is how he would be living. He is already aware at 9 years of age that this is the Ahsan way of starting a family, the way of the sahabas & the very first original Muslim way. I told him that joint family systems were introduced by Hindus when we coexisted in the subcontinent. Insha Allah, if I can have my daughters leave me to get married and start a life, I can do the same for my son. Wa kafa billahe Wakeela, Allah is my best companion and my best provider. And the best thing is that my husband also realises and supports this ahsan way for our son, insha Allah.

  • @komalhayat2720

    @komalhayat2720

    Жыл бұрын

    @Iftekhar Alam the daughters of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW), did not go to live in joint family systems. The perfect example for all Muslims should be the lives of our Prophet's daughters, not the lady from this video.

  • @iftekharalam1869

    @iftekharalam1869

    Жыл бұрын

    @@komalhayat2720 time will tell Do not be fooled by one who recites Quran, for his recitation is but speech. Instead, look at the actions. Umar Ibn Al Khattab(RA)

  • @farahgulshamsi3943
    @farahgulshamsi3943 Жыл бұрын

    Jo mothers aur sisters apna beta aur bhai share nahi karsakti uski bv kay sath unko apny betoon air bhaiyoon ki shadiyaan nahi karni cahye ..kisi larki ki zindagi b kharab nahi hogi aur larka b azaab ki zindagi nahi guzara ga

  • @phoolquty4834

    @phoolquty4834

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you

  • @Yasrab779

    @Yasrab779

    Жыл бұрын

    Bilkul sahi bat

  • @ijazahmed4800

    @ijazahmed4800

    Жыл бұрын

    Bilkul sae kha ap ny mri sister same situation sy guzr rhi hai bht preshani my rhti hai wo lakin koi us ko nhi smj pata bs sary usy hi bolty hai tm sabr kro but how much😢

  • @simranfatima6418

    @simranfatima6418

    Жыл бұрын

    💯 right 😢

  • @tggaming7969

    @tggaming7969

    Жыл бұрын

    My life becomes hell becoZ of his mother

  • @AbidAli-gm8cx
    @AbidAli-gm8cx Жыл бұрын

    الصلوة والسلام علیک یا سیدی محمد ﷺرسول اللہﷺ♥️♥️ Haq Wahid Sach badshah✋🏻

  • @syedijazhasan3473
    @syedijazhasan3473 Жыл бұрын

    پلیز صحابہ صحابیات کی زندگی میں سے ساس بہو کے باہم خوشگوار اور نا خوشگوار تعلقات کی مثالیں بیان کر دیں۔

  • @sajid88559

    @sajid88559

    9 ай бұрын

    Houn Gye waqayt to bayan houn gye صحابیات algh gahr ya khaima jo BHI ekh lo or shaba APNI MAA ki khidmat kartey thy na ke bahu se karwatey they 😂😂

  • @ara2472
    @ara247211 ай бұрын

    Best tareqa agar hsbnd chahta hai ke uski biwi uski maa ko khush rakhe,uski izzat kare tu hsbnd ye kare ke uski biwi ki maa ko khush rakkhe aur usko respect de......biwi khud aapki maa ko respect degi.... Hota ye hai ke biwi ke maa baap aur ghar walon ki koi izzat nahi karte aur biwi se chahte hai ke wo maa baap ke samne bich jaye...

  • @farhakhan9716

    @farhakhan9716

    10 ай бұрын

    Bilkul shi kha apne

  • @nosheenumer8920

    @nosheenumer8920

    10 ай бұрын

    Mer sath bhi aisa hi hota hy

  • @shahsultan2493

    @shahsultan2493

    4 ай бұрын

    بلکل۔ 100%

  • @Fari106

    @Fari106

    4 ай бұрын

    True

  • @user-el4cw3cc2u

    @user-el4cw3cc2u

    3 ай бұрын

    100000% correct. Same with me😢😢

  • @englishhub6357
    @englishhub6357 Жыл бұрын

    I'm Alhamdullilah Alhamdullilah educated lady an M.phil and grade 17 officer alongwith blessed with Islamic knowledge too. My marital life is also on verge of separation just because of the reason that I'm unable to serve my husbands parents well due to my full time job. He has said maa baap aur nhi milty bivyaan aur mil jati hain. When would we be able to change this cultural mindset of the SOCIETY that a lady is married to one man not whole family. It's literally not possible to make the whole family happy.

  • @aafreenjahan1663

    @aafreenjahan1663

    Жыл бұрын

    Assalamualaikum how are you... How many years has passed of your marriage and do you have kids... plz sorry agar mera comment aapko hurt kare to

  • @amna_28

    @amna_28

    10 ай бұрын

    True Pakistan ma he aisi hota k Bhai to or nahi milen he biwi to mil jaey gi maa baap nahi milen ge biwi to mil jaey gi ... Shoher se pochna chaheye k apni beti k leye apnay jaisa shoher Pasand karo gay ya apnay se accha??

  • @shamsaijaz8698

    @shamsaijaz8698

    10 ай бұрын

    Its all due to illiteracy.We have answers to all the questions and issues in the Quran..and Hadeeth. Read and understand 1.HaquqAllah. 2.Haququlibad. .

  • @tabbibi694

    @tabbibi694

    8 ай бұрын

    You are hundred percent right I totally agree

  • @zarajawed8474

    @zarajawed8474

    3 ай бұрын

    Jo mard kehty hyn k biwiyan or mil jati hyn maa behen bhai or nh milty, esay mardon se guzarish hy k jese apko apni maa behen piyari hy wesi dusron ki maa behenen bhi unko bohot piyari hyn. Esi soch waly mardon ko dubara to kya pehli bar bhi koi apni beti na de kyun k behene sab ki sanjhi hoti hyn inko chahiye k apni soch badlain

  • @naureenanjum8286
    @naureenanjum8286 Жыл бұрын

    Very sensitive and important issue for every married life....

  • @KarnatakavloggerNaaz786

    @KarnatakavloggerNaaz786

    Жыл бұрын

    True said

  • @aleenaattariya771
    @aleenaattariya771 Жыл бұрын

    Saas agar apne bete ki biwi ko izzat Dene Lage to kbhi bhi ghar ka mahol khraab nhi hota hai...saas khud to apne shohar ko ungliyo pr nachati hain or beta zra khyaal karlein apni biwi ka to kehti hain biwi ka gulaam...yahi ho rha hai aajkal

  • @samituba6325

    @samituba6325

    Жыл бұрын

    Right

  • @samituba6325

    @samituba6325

    Жыл бұрын

    Meri saas apni shadi k bd se alag rhin mgr mujse expectations hn k m hamesha sath raho 😂😂😂

  • @MunazzahIbrahim786

    @MunazzahIbrahim786

    Жыл бұрын

    Reality......

  • @sumaiyasayad8267

    @sumaiyasayad8267

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you..mere mu ki baat chin li

  • @s.p.shaikh5394

    @s.p.shaikh5394

    Жыл бұрын

    Yahi meri life mein bhi hoa hai

  • @iqbalbibi1266
    @iqbalbibi1266 Жыл бұрын

    Sas susr ke khidmut karne se lazmee junat miltee he wo be dunya maen dekha de jatee he yae mera sath howa he ❤

  • @shaziafayaz8507
    @shaziafayaz850711 ай бұрын

    بیوی۔ اللہ کی رضا کیلے۔ کرے۔ اللہِ پاک اس۔ صِلّا دیتا ہے❤

  • @sabaarshad5398
    @sabaarshad5398 Жыл бұрын

    Dkh tb hota JB ap dill sy SB rishtoin ko ly KR chlain un responsibilities ko Jo Allah NY ni dalii wife pr phr b Yh sooch KR ky alhlakii takaza b hota hai ..susrali phr b bht azeeyat dety Hain ..or husband wafr ko ak dosry sy bezar KR dety Hain shaid yh small word hai bizar nufrur piaida KR dety Hain ..dono main .Allah SB ko Islam pr chl y ki tofeeq ata frmaye

  • @rabeeyarehman2092

    @rabeeyarehman2092

    Жыл бұрын

    خدا ہی سمجھے ان بھآئیوں اور بیٹوں کو جنھیں صرف بیویاں ہی نظر آتی ہیں ان بیویوں کو بھی پھر ایسی ہی بھابیاں اور بہویں ملتی ہیں ۔۔

  • @iramshahid2895
    @iramshahid2895 Жыл бұрын

    Brilliant idea given by the man with glasses.Should be the necessary part of our syllabus.تعلیم کے ساتھ تربیت بہت ضروری ہے

  • @robi8677
    @robi8677 Жыл бұрын

    I am agree with the lady. Men of our society should be trained to set a balance between wife and mother.

  • @naveedalmel668

    @naveedalmel668

    Жыл бұрын

    Need of the day

  • @shinningeyes256

    @shinningeyes256

    Жыл бұрын

    Ajkal k mardon main ye wisdom ha hi nai, bs kisi aik side k ho jatey hain, mostly maan k peechey aur kuch biwi k peechey lag jatey hain

  • @dreamhousejewels158

    @dreamhousejewels158

    Жыл бұрын

    They are only trained to do -----

  • @iram2934

    @iram2934

    Жыл бұрын

    They should be trained by who and where..? They r already raised in such a poisonous and political environment that the wife gets either a spoiled child aka husband or a total pakistani mamas boy with no understanding of wife's "huqooq " phir shuru hoti hay sari umar ki Black mailing unfortunately 😢😢😢

  • @zaheerrafiq4135

    @zaheerrafiq4135

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry to say I think so why the ladies also should be trained???

  • @khooshikhooshi5011
    @khooshikhooshi50118 ай бұрын

    Agood wife will always make sure to bring peace in husbands life and good husband will bring peace in wife’s life.marriage brings you both to a family.Mutual respect is very important.Please don’t say that wife is not responsible.Yes they both need to follow ikhlaqiat,morals,It is added value to peace to eachother.I agree with thé brother

  • @mrssadaf7857
    @mrssadaf7857 Жыл бұрын

    Bivi k behavior khrab hi usi wqt hota h JB phly din Sy sas tany dena shoro hojati h

  • @ayeshabilal9958

    @ayeshabilal9958

    4 ай бұрын

    Tany nhe btmezi jhot makari jhity anso bs Allah bachye bs

  • @hudabaig2504

    @hudabaig2504

    3 ай бұрын

    Exactly koi larki ye socha k apna ghar chor k nahi atti ke larai karon gi ,kisi ko tang karon gi ,wo tu ghar badane atti hai,lekin problem ye hai k her urat dosari urat se apne badle leti hai Jo uss pe guzri hoti hai,meri Behan ki saas behad zalim thi hum her waqat apni Behan ko khete rahe k tum ye sub baaten yaad rakhna Zindagi ma,aur tum kabhi esi na banana,lekin surprisingly wo ap e beton ko bilkul apne husband ki tara bana rahi hai k siraf maa ki sunno 😭herani hoti hai,hum point out Karen tu wo manti hi nahi

  • @sadianaz2741
    @sadianaz2741 Жыл бұрын

    یہ بات بلکل ٹھیک ہے کہ ساس سسر کی خدمت کرنا فرض نہیں ہے ۔ مگر خدمت کرنے سےبہو کو اللّٰہ سے اجر ملے گا۔ مگر ہمارا جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم بہوؤں کو یہ اجر لینے کے قابل نہیں چھوڑتا ۔ ایک۔۔۔۔ وجہ یہ ہے کہ شوہر خود کو ماں باپ کی خدمت سے بری الزمہ سمجھ لیتا ہے ۔ بیوی کی موجودگی میں ماں باپ کو پانی کا گلاس بھی خود پکڑانے میں اپنی توہین سمجھتا ہے ۔ یعنی بیوی موجود ہے تو وہی پانی کا گلاس ساس سسر کو دے۔۔ یہ کیسا بد نصیب بیٹا ہے جو خود تو والدین کی خدمت سے جان چھڑاتا ہے اور بیوی کے لیے ساس سسر کی خدمت کے لیے حکم جاری کرتا ہے حالانکہ شوہر کو تو بیوی کی حوصلہ افزائی کے لئے فرصت کے اوقات میں گھر کے کام کاج اور بچوں کی ذمہ داری میں بھی ہاتھ بٹانا چاہیے ۔۔ دوسری۔۔۔۔۔ وجہ یہ کہ بزرگوں کی موجودگی کی وجہ سے گھر میں سسرالی رشتے دار اور بیاہی بیٹیاں داماد بھی آتے ہیں ۔ ان سب کی ذمہ داری بھی اکیلی بیوی پر ڈال دی جاتی ہے ۔ یعنی ساس سسر کی خدمت کرنا بھی کافی نہیں ۔ اس کی آڑ میں بہت سے خاندانوں کے لئے مصروف عمل رہنا ہے۔ بہو کی اپنی صحت ارام خوراک اور بچوں کے لیے کوئی نہیں سوچتا ۔ سوال یہ ہے کہ کیا بہو کوئی مشینری ہے۔ جو تھک نہیں سکتی ۔۔؟؟؟ کیا مندرجہ بالا ڈھیر سارے خاندان کی روزانہ میزبانی کو ساس سسر کی خدمت کرنا کہتے ہیں ؟؟؟؟ جناب یہی وہ وجوہات ہیں جن کی بنیاد پر ہر لڑکی جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم کے نام سے ہی گھبرا جاتی ہے

  • @sanazafar6349

    @sanazafar6349

    Жыл бұрын

    بہن آپ کی بات سے سو فیصد متفق ہوں۔ یہاں بیٹوں پہ فرض ہے کہ وہ ماں باپ اور بیوی بچوں کی زمہ داریوں میں حدود کا تعین کریں۔

  • @snaveedkhan8510

    @snaveedkhan8510

    Жыл бұрын

    کیا ساس ،سسر کو بہو کی خدمت کرنی چاہیے۔۔۔۔اس پر بھی روشنی ڈالیں۔۔۔۔

  • @snaveedkhan8510

    @snaveedkhan8510

    Жыл бұрын

    کیا آج کل ۔۔۔اس طرح کے مسائل ۔۔۔۔نظر آنا شروع نہیں ہو گے

  • @sadianaz2741

    @sadianaz2741

    Жыл бұрын

    ساس سسر بہو کی خدمت کررہے ہیں ؟؟ اگر ساس سسر صحت مند ہیں تو وہ گھر کے کام کاج اور بچوں کی دیکھ بھال میں بہو کے ساتھ تعاون کر رہےہیں تو یہ تو بلکل ٹھیک ہے ۔ اسی طرح شادی شدہ بیٹیاں جب میکے جاتی ہیں تو بوڑھے ماں باپ بیٹی اور اس کے بچوں کی خدمت کر رہے ہوتے ہیں ۔۔۔ لہزا اگر اللّٰہ نے صحت دی ہو تو ساس سسر بھی کام کر سکتے ہیں ۔۔ اور اس کو خدمت نہیں بلکہ تعاون کہنا چاہیے

  • @muhchou02
    @muhchou02 Жыл бұрын

    Islam says that looking after parents is the duty of the children not their spouses. If the wife takes care of her mother in law that's her big heartedness not her duty!

  • @theheavenofart8708

    @theheavenofart8708

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly 💯

  • @amrilsindhovlogs4098

    @amrilsindhovlogs4098

    Жыл бұрын

    To sari duty islam me sas ki hy k woh baho ko beti b samjhy shadi b karaye bety ki or bad me yehi beti sas ko maa tuk na samjy ????

  • @amenairfan6256

    @amenairfan6256

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@amrilsindhovlogs4098 madam apke hisab se bahu pe maa samajna farz hai ?! Toh kya saas bahu ku beti ki jagah deti? Bilkul nahi.aajkal ki ladki phir bhi open mind ke saath shadi karti hai par saas kabhi sachche dilse nahi apnaati.mai khud is ki victim hu.

  • @taskk3068

    @taskk3068

    Жыл бұрын

    Agar sas, bahu ko beti samjhegi to bahu k dil me bhi sas ki jaga banegi... Vo bhi use apni ma ka darja degi.... Coz give respect take respect...vrna kisi ek se compromise expect krna galat hai

  • @iftekharalam1869

    @iftekharalam1869

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@amrilsindhovlogs4098 May Allah bless you

  • @mahnoorn9109
    @mahnoorn9109 Жыл бұрын

    so i attended this live session with raja zia ul haq and i asked the same question that my husband is too much demanding when it comes to his family k sb ko khush rkho but he never considered my happiness once n that lead to severe anxiety n depression frm last four months but he replied that ask the imam frm ur area or masjid, why would i come to u if i hv trusted these people more thn u i thought he will understand so today when i watched this show i realized that its really very true that nobody especially men can understand the pain that women n newly married girls are facing in making their in laws happy, they are losing the essence of their marriage,n the only thing they can say to u is "har larki ko brdasht krna prta" but sorry to say har lrki ko nai sirf pakistani lrki ko n ustad nouman ali khan is soo right k sabr do kisam k hoty ek pakistan wala or ek islam wala but still i love youth club n these people may be he was unable to solve my problem but he really is helping thousands out there

  • @abdullahibrahim9576

    @abdullahibrahim9576

    Жыл бұрын

    India wala bhi sabr same hi hai .saas nande kuch gharo me bht ghamand karti hsi .ladka paida jarne ka tax bahu se letey.

  • @nasheed7868

    @nasheed7868

    4 ай бұрын

    Pakistani bhi naik sharif lerki ko. Love marriage wali tez lerki ka husband uske neechay laga hota hay and maa behen ki band bajtaa hay. Tez and bay haya lerkiyan khush hain. Naik sharif ro rahi hain. Allah ko dil se pukaro woh zalimon ko jaald saza dega aur tumhay sakoon dega Insha'Allah.

  • @bebeautiful583

    @bebeautiful583

    3 ай бұрын

    I am totally agree with you,or sabar ka b ye standard he k JB tk moo pr physical abuse ka scar na ho justify NH hoga, mentally doesn't count in abuse at all

  • @shaheenusa631
    @shaheenusa6314 ай бұрын

    Mera manna hai ke Agar Aap ke husband job pe hain aur un ki Ammi saath me rahti hain to Agar Aap ki Acchi tarbiyet hai to Aap zaroor un ki Ammi ki khudmat karengi kiyun ke husband ki Ammi bhi Aap ke Ammi jaisi hain faraz nahi hai shohar ki mother ka dekh bhaal.karna magar ek insaaniyet hai ke if you really love your husband you should love his mother &father Allah give you reward duniya And Akhrat ❤

  • @islamickhwateen

    @islamickhwateen

    4 ай бұрын

    Jii Khidmat Allah ki Raza ke liye Karni chahiye...Bando KO Na Aap khush kr skte h aur na hii raazi...

  • @Abdi-et8nd

    @Abdi-et8nd

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@islamickhwateenbilkul sahi.

  • @Abdi-et8nd

    @Abdi-et8nd

    4 ай бұрын

    Sari saaseyn ek jaisi nahi hoti. Sab ki izzat Kareyn aur muhabbat se raheyn liken bahu ka bilkul farz nahi hai SaaS ki khidmaat karna. Shariat me ye role aulad ka hai sirf. Agar SaaS ke hath aur per sahi salamat hai to Apna khud kaam Karen bahu koyee babysitter nahi hai

  • @asmaasif2937
    @asmaasif2937 Жыл бұрын

    توازن ضروری ھے احترام کا رشتہ قائم رھنا چاھیے

  • @MuhammadAli-cj6co

    @MuhammadAli-cj6co

    Жыл бұрын

    Assalam 9 alekumm...Jaan g bilkul ..aap sah8nkeh likh rahi his aap mrs.Asif....kis city I m from sindh pak reply plzz me and you like a good nice friendshipbplzzz reply

  • @naseembano4905

    @naseembano4905

    Жыл бұрын

    Beshak

  • @MuhammadAli-cj6co

    @MuhammadAli-cj6co

    Жыл бұрын

    @@naseembano4905 Assalam o alekumm..Naseem bano aap kis city say aap mrs.. i m from pak plzzz reply

  • @hamidafarhat4400
    @hamidafarhat4400 Жыл бұрын

    Alhamdolillah main bahool b rahi sas b hon par bohat achi tarah nibaya qk ayk soch rakhin Jin rishton k baghar guzara nahi un k sath achay say raho Dil say to bohat achi zindgi hotti

  • @HoorainHoorain-wl4dm

    @HoorainHoorain-wl4dm

    Жыл бұрын

    To kuch logu k sath jitna mzi kr lo vo ni bnty

  • @mariamwasimmirza8442
    @mariamwasimmirza844210 ай бұрын

    Alhmdulilah we r living joined fmly and both r taking care I serve my perants in law and they serve me very caringly

  • @abeehaijaz117

    @abeehaijaz117

    4 ай бұрын

    aap ki tarbiaat Ka Kmaal hai I know girl who tortured her husband mentally by kids took big amount as a pocket money but usko apny SB khaandaan sy akag kr Diya JB khud k haqooq Ada Krny ki Bari aati to said much p Kuch frz Nahi Hain aisi besharam auraton k bary me aisi naan nehad apny grudges nikaalny wali aalima aur aalima kiyun discuss nahibkrty

  • @beenanasr8932
    @beenanasr8932 Жыл бұрын

    Same facing this problem 23 year married life have 3 young kidz but hasband is same mummy boy 😢

  • @HashirShahzadAbbasiHashi-mw6zd

    @HashirShahzadAbbasiHashi-mw6zd

    Жыл бұрын

    😢

  • @sanaaAhmed140

    @sanaaAhmed140

    Жыл бұрын

    Mere shohr ny tou maa k kehny p mjhe talaq dy de meri beti paida hne k 10 din bd

  • @mehreenbalouch9079

    @mehreenbalouch9079

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here yar mery husbnd jobless hein uska bhttt faida lety hein us k parents wo ghr tk nu janny de rhy mujhy na millny dty ksi sy upper sy koi chiz nh dty smjh nh aati kia kroon 😢

  • @asadvlogs55

    @asadvlogs55

    Жыл бұрын

    Aapi ghum na karo amuman aisa hi hota hai

  • @asadvlogs55

    @asadvlogs55

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sanaaAhmed140 Assalam alaikum wrwb. To aap blkl ghum na kariye apne Rub se apne liye behtari mangiye jis ne aapke talaq di hai wo murd tha hi nahi agar wo murd hota to talaq deta hi nahi

  • @nuzhatshabana7375
    @nuzhatshabana7375 Жыл бұрын

    This is very important to respect both parents meaning wife and husband parents ❤️

  • @farzanaabdulmajeed5799
    @farzanaabdulmajeed5799 Жыл бұрын

    ایک مسلمان عورت اپنی ساس کی عزت کرے گی تو اسکے شوہر کو ماں کی دعا ملے گی تو اسکی عزت و خوشحال زندگی ملے گی ۔

  • @aliasghar7150

    @aliasghar7150

    Жыл бұрын

    ساس کی عزت کرے گی تو اس کی اپنی ماں کی بھی عزت ہوگی جو سسرال میں آتے ہوئے اپنے پرانے گھر میں چھوڑ کر آئی ہے۔یہ لوگ یو ٹیوب میں بیٹھے بلکل بکواس کر رہے ہیں انہیں جیسے لوگوں نے ہی معاشرے کو تباہ کیا ہے۔ہر عورت اپنے گھر ایک ماں چھوڑ کے آتی ہے۔اور کل اس نے بھی ساس بننا ہے۔

  • @marianawaz792

    @marianawaz792

    Жыл бұрын

    Yh fazool ki blackmailing hai

  • @farzanaabdulmajeed5799

    @farzanaabdulmajeed5799

    Жыл бұрын

    @@marianawaz792 یہ تمیز ادب معاشرتی اقدار مسلمان کو تو انکا دین سکھاتا ہے اللہ جانے آپ کونسی بلیک میلنگ کی اور کس مذہب کی بات کر رہی ہیں ۔ایک اور بات دوسری تیسری اور چوتھی شادی کا اختیار بھی مرد کو اسلام دیتا ہے پھر جب مرد شادی کرنا چاہے کرے اسکی مرضی بیوی کبھی بھی کچھ نہیں بول سکتی اگر وہ اسکی بنیادی ضرورتیں پوری کرتا ہے ۔

  • @shahanaawan2349

    @shahanaawan2349

    Жыл бұрын

    Saasen Kabhi Khush Nahi hoten. MERI saas nay to aysi game kheli hay k hamari separation Karwa Di. Itni zalim aurat hay. Allah hisab zaror lay GA is aurat say 😢

  • @urdujaltarang2757

    @urdujaltarang2757

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@shahanaawan2349INSHAALLAH

  • @farzanaabdulmajeed5799
    @farzanaabdulmajeed5799 Жыл бұрын

    میں نے خود دیکھا ہے ایسی خواتین جو ساس سے بات بھی نہیں کرتی

  • @qasamakram6299

    @qasamakram6299

    4 ай бұрын

    Phir sas hi lraku ho gi lrai k dr sy Nhi krti hogi

  • @raziaparveen6335

    @raziaparveen6335

    19 күн бұрын

    Same here

  • @raziaparveen6335

    @raziaparveen6335

    19 күн бұрын

    Alhamdulillah I treat like my own daughter but she has her thoughts now 1 year no restrictions on daily base when to wake up or cook once in a while when she make food n breakfast she serve only for husband even my son doesn’t say a word to serve his father or family members who sitting along with him. Alhamdulillah taribiya n self interest is more than important than the culture

  • @YOURSHININGSTAR506
    @YOURSHININGSTAR506 Жыл бұрын

    Truly said k betio k achey naseeb ke dua ke jati .fact beto ke bhi kerni chahiye.ulad sari k lia karaen.

  • @zainabhafeez5321

    @zainabhafeez5321

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @jashello7949
    @jashello7949 Жыл бұрын

    Madam’s concept is very clear, and she explains beautifully,,

  • @islambehtrennaimat8581
    @islambehtrennaimat85813 ай бұрын

    Jazakillah khairan kasera

  • @princessza4141
    @princessza41413 ай бұрын

    اسلام علیکم دُنیا کے ہر ملک اور ہر خاندان میں امیر غریب مڈل کلاس اپر کلاس سب میں ساس ہوتی ہیں اور سب کو دوسروں کی بہوں اچھی لگتی ہے

  • @sanaalam2017
    @sanaalam2017 Жыл бұрын

    Dono ki janat unky apny apny parents k qadmo nechy Hain, dono aik dosry k maa baap ka kahyal kr lain sub set rehta hai

  • @Nazriz5234
    @Nazriz5234 Жыл бұрын

    Bht mushkil topic hy mujhy lagta hy yeh duniya makafate amal hy.agar koi sochy to yhi kafi hy is masly ko samjhny k liy.who agree?

  • @laserpoint8613

    @laserpoint8613

    Жыл бұрын

    💯 true

  • @user-xq7pv3se6e

    @user-xq7pv3se6e

    Жыл бұрын

    True ❤

  • @aliaatif-ec4ld
    @aliaatif-ec4ld4 ай бұрын

    zabardast work done...GOD BLESS U MORE..

  • @FatimaSeemab
    @FatimaSeemab Жыл бұрын

    the idea of educating children about relationships is great and it should be promoted

  • @haiderabdullah774
    @haiderabdullah7748 ай бұрын

    Parents or wife 2no hi izzat k haqdaar hain, 2no ko unka muqam dena mard ki responsibility hai, jo mard bv daal kr aaram se side pe ho jata hai, yaad rakhen, parents ya bv 2no k liye hi jwab dena hai qabar mai sirf maa baap k liye nai bv k saatb zyati ki to kal qayamat k din wo b gireban pakrey gi aapka

  • @foodtarka1
    @foodtarka18 ай бұрын

    Ma'am, your point of view is really nice ❤. in our society the reason behind 90% divorce is mostly mother in law, who can't allow her son with his wife, living a happy life.

  • @imranwaris

    @imranwaris

    4 ай бұрын

    True

  • @Nabila-qy4pp
    @Nabila-qy4pp5 ай бұрын

    Ye batain sb jante bh hain aur doosron ko samjhate bh bht hain laikin khud amal karne ko tyar nahi

  • @syednasreena1494
    @syednasreena14944 ай бұрын

    Leiken Insha Allah mein apnay waqt change dikhawungi .Allah ki maddad se mein ne naeknirada rakha hai aaj se hi .betay ki shadi se pehlay mein ghar mein khadima rakhingi taaki meri bahu meri tarh kaam wali bhai na baney .unko zindagi ka har faisla khud se karnau dungi ..Allah ki maddad se unki lyf luxurious banadungi..

  • @annilaq7541
    @annilaq7541 Жыл бұрын

    So true, man has to draw a line.

  • @amrilsindhovlogs4098

    @amrilsindhovlogs4098

    Жыл бұрын

    Tera beta b tery sath asa kry toh kehna draw a line beta

  • @annilaq7541

    @annilaq7541

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amrilsindhovlogs4098 why ? Did you ask your son the same thing?

  • @Qurankibatein-ge6zq
    @Qurankibatein-ge6zq10 ай бұрын

    کیسے شوہر کی ماں کو خوش رکھا جائے وہ خوش نہیں ہوتی ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ جتنی مرضی خدمت کر لو وہ راضی نہیں ہوسکتی۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ یہ بات مجھے 14 سال بعد سمجھ آئی ہر کہنا مانا سب کچھ کیا لیکن ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔اب میں خاموش ہو گئی ہوں

  • @user-ec3rl8pw6k

    @user-ec3rl8pw6k

    8 ай бұрын

    میری کهانی سنادی 😭😭😭😭پاگل بنادیا ساس نی مهجی سالو سال اذیت دیتی رهی

  • @user-yo2cj6se6e

    @user-yo2cj6se6e

    4 ай бұрын

    Same here

  • @sadiyamirza9562
    @sadiyamirza95623 ай бұрын

    Allah paak dilo k haal jaanta hai,apne iqtiyar me jitna tha Maine sab kiya phir b mentally bahot toucher kiye gaya mujhe, Alhamdulillah mere husband ka support raha mere liye.

  • @bebeautiful583

    @bebeautiful583

    3 ай бұрын

    Me is mamle me bhi lucky NH Rahi,just pray for me

  • @nazmavelog8125
    @nazmavelog8125 Жыл бұрын

    very good talk... ider to hum se gur waly hi khush nae hoty shohar ko kub khush kren... miyan bivi mn kubi zati lrae nae hoi. wja maa hi bnti hy. myre khyal mn pyda hoty hi maa khyal rakhti hy khany piny pehanany ka bivi aa k sub sambalti hy maa ki zimadri but jati hy sas ko us bivi k ander maa se chir hoti hy.

  • @jinanjinan123
    @jinanjinan123 Жыл бұрын

    جزاکم اللہ خیرا

  • @saiqazahid5037
    @saiqazahid5037 Жыл бұрын

    Saas susar mard k bhi hotay hain,,,,,saas,,damad ka mehram rishta hai,,,larkay ki maa ghar ajaey tau wo ghar ki malkan aur responsibility??larki ki maa ghar ajaey tau isko itna acha nahi samjha jata,,,,,,dono sas susar ko equal respect di jaey tau balance ragey ga,,,,,InshaAllah rishtoan main chir chrahat nahi aey gi

  • @rehanabounse8168

    @rehanabounse8168

    Жыл бұрын

    Bilkul sahee kaha hai

  • @abdullahmirza7714

    @abdullahmirza7714

    Жыл бұрын

    She has right on her son's money.

  • @saiqazahid5037

    @saiqazahid5037

    Жыл бұрын

    @@abdullahmirza7714 Allah ho Akber ,,, All money belongs to her,,,chahey baitay ki ho chahay baitee ki

  • @haramfatima6862
    @haramfatima68624 ай бұрын

    Yes beti k maseeb k beton k muqadar k dua b mangni chahiye

  • @haramfatima6862

    @haramfatima6862

    4 ай бұрын

    Muqadar zarurari ha mard k Liye b.

  • @sazaydehmed9819
    @sazaydehmed9819 Жыл бұрын

    The man’s suggestions r very valid

  • @farzanaabdulmajeed5799
    @farzanaabdulmajeed5799 Жыл бұрын

    اسلام ہمیں معاشرتی ویلیوز و اقدار بھی سکھاتا ہے۔لہذا مسلمان عورت اپنی ماں کے لیے جیسے بہو و بھابھی چاہتی ہے ویسی خود بھی بنے بس سارے مسائل کا حل یہی ہے۔

  • @safiapanezai5060
    @safiapanezai5060 Жыл бұрын

    If your husband is giving you respect then automatically In law becomes insecure. Why it happened so.

  • @raziakhan2619

    @raziakhan2619

    10 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately...women create this problem. For some unknown reason women are happy to see other women suffer😢

  • @saimaahmed9047
    @saimaahmed9047 Жыл бұрын

    Maa ny to bahoo pr kitna bara ahsan kia hy apna kamanay wala beta dedia ab kya wo marr jay???meny to hmesha saas ke foa le hy or ab apny bachoon ko doa dayehon khosh rehny ke orat ghiss nhe jayge saas ke khidmat krky abhe jawan hn bahooyn khob nakiyn kmaln allah ajar zaror data hy mare azmai bat hy💕💕💕💕

  • @minikitchenpak8475
    @minikitchenpak8475 Жыл бұрын

    A very realistic topic... In our society...

  • @anayaattar243
    @anayaattar24310 ай бұрын

    Asllamu alekum Baji meri shaadi ko 12 saal ho gye abitak mere ghar mai bhut masle chal rahe the Lekin 2 mahine phele hum alag ho gye jab se Mashallah ghar mai bhut sukoon he Allah hum sab ko khush rahke ameen

  • @rubeenamohammad5362

    @rubeenamohammad5362

    7 ай бұрын

    Assalamualikum appi aap mere liya dua karna my bohut pareshan hun 15 saal say.

  • @humarasalman3570

    @humarasalman3570

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes lucky You r. I am facing this issue from 15 years .. No hope for separation

  • @fatimamajeed1207
    @fatimamajeed1207 Жыл бұрын

    except all some girls never want to ask their mother in laws. it all about ikhalq and kindness.

  • @user-jv9wp5xg9r
    @user-jv9wp5xg9r4 ай бұрын

    Baji ap ki bata bohat achi lagi h sb asa hota h

  • @munnazashahid1369
    @munnazashahid13694 ай бұрын

    V v strong concepts of madam.kash husbands ye lines draw ker sakaan.is ke lea tarbiat bohat zaroori ha.

  • @user-ik2rk8op9c
    @user-ik2rk8op9c Жыл бұрын

    Salam Bhai my ny ye Suna hy K hmary Aqaa karee Salato Salam ny farmaya "Khuda ki qasam wo momin ni jis ny jhod pait bhar k khaya to us ka parosi bhoka rha to shohar ki maa jis ny us k shohr ko jana wo bori yaa la char bhoki bethi rhi baity k ghar aany tk?

  • @sanazafar6349

    @sanazafar6349

    Жыл бұрын

    ایسی لاچار ساس کا کیا حل ہے جو بہو کا پکا کے آگے رکھا کھانا دھتکار دے کہ پسند نہیں ایا۔

  • @rehanabounse8168
    @rehanabounse8168 Жыл бұрын

    Islamically there’s no joint family system

  • @sameenapatil6018

    @sameenapatil6018

    10 ай бұрын

    Islam mein yeh ek hee point nahi bola hai aur bahot kuch hai follow karne sirf yahi ek baat acchi lagi tho isko hee follow karna aur baaki Western life se jeena ....ajakl ke youth sirf yahi karre

  • @rehanabounse8168

    @rehanabounse8168

    10 ай бұрын

    @@sameenapatil6018 about joint family that is one point which is very important but at the same time it’s common sense that you’ve to look at the whole picture & see what Islam requires you to do . Respect each other, & not put down each other. A daughter in law is not an unpaid maid of the whole house but a family member who’s most important job is to be a companion,a friend & a soulmate to her husband & if they have children to take care of them .

  • @tayyabahussain164
    @tayyabahussain1643 ай бұрын

    Shohar ki ma'an ko Khush rakhna namumkin hu

  • @marianawaz792
    @marianawaz792 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful conversation

  • @HassanAli-yk1ct
    @HassanAli-yk1ct Жыл бұрын

    4 kidz Hony k bawajood husband ko koi interest nae . apni walida aur behno se agy kisi ko nae samjhty. it's difficult ult for me😢

  • @rabeeyarehman2092

    @rabeeyarehman2092

    Жыл бұрын

    مجھے بھی کوئی دکھادے ایسے بیٹے اور بھائی بھابیوں اور بہووں کے سامنے ہماری اوقات ان سے کم ہی ھے اگرچہ بیٹے یہ بات نہیں مانتے مگر ہمیں اپنی limits کا پتہ ھے ۔۔

  • @shankhan677

    @shankhan677

    Жыл бұрын

    AAP APNAY BHAI BHABHI K BARAY MAIN AASA HI SOCHTI HOON G .......

  • @HassanAli-yk1ct

    @HassanAli-yk1ct

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shankhan677 apko kesy pata

  • @HassanAli-yk1ct

    @HassanAli-yk1ct

    Жыл бұрын

    koi kisi ko judge nae kar sakta

  • @HassanAli-yk1ct

    @HassanAli-yk1ct

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shankhan677 insan tbhi hard words bolta hae jab 2no sides pe mushkil ho. warna koi pagal nae itna harsh boly

  • @Rabia.Fatima
    @Rabia.Fatima11 ай бұрын

    Husband's mother always has the complains about wife that she doesn't talk to me, or your sister, doesn't come to my room, doesn't cook for all of us. Cooking is not difficult for a wife but the problem is, it's not so easy for a female to cook atleast 10 to 12 breads(roti) so sister or mother should also help the wife.

  • @bakeandcookrecipes3503
    @bakeandcookrecipes3503 Жыл бұрын

    JazakiAllah khair maam

  • @saimahamid9146
    @saimahamid9146 Жыл бұрын

    JAZAKALLAH khair

  • @ahmedch8665
    @ahmedch8665 Жыл бұрын

    اللہ کی قسم میں اپنی بہو سے بہت پیار کرتی ہوں۔مگر وہ مجھے اذیت میں رکھتی ہے اپنے رویے سے

  • @aminaasif5770

    @aminaasif5770

    11 ай бұрын

    اسکو کہہ کر جوائنٹ فیملی سے الگ رکھ دیں نہایت درجہ مطیعہ ہو جائے گی

  • @sajid88559

    @sajid88559

    9 ай бұрын

    اس کو الگ کر دیں آپ بھی خوش وہ بھی j

  • @seeya7610
    @seeya7610 Жыл бұрын

    Immature men shouldn’t marry! Most are dependent on others & not ready to start a marriage or family. Mostly Pakistani men have unrealistic expectations. Treat your spouse as human being. Islamically & morally there is no joint family.

  • @syedaaishaa

    @syedaaishaa

    3 ай бұрын

    totally agree with you

  • @satnaamkaur6663
    @satnaamkaur66634 ай бұрын

    Rabb ko khushh kiya ja sakkta hai... magar Saas ko khushh karna namumkin😢😢😢

  • @farzanaimran3947
    @farzanaimran394710 ай бұрын

    Very nice conversation Of Asiya Mam ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sarahdurrani8937
    @sarahdurrani8937 Жыл бұрын

    agr aap chahti hein ghar mai sukoon rahay , mohabat rahay aur barhon ki izzat ki jaye un ka khayal rakha jaye to aap yeh darss dein pehle saas aur sussar ko ke jb Allah Pak aap logon ko bahu dein to uss bahu ko apni saggi beti hee bna kr rakhna , uss se itna kaam na krwana ke woh aajiz ajaye aur uss ke dil se koi bd'dua niklay , ussay apni beti hee bna kr rakhna Insha'Allah , to jb barhay khayal rakheinge to lazmi chotay bhi kuch to lihaaz kr hee lenge aur kuch to apnay saas , sussar ka khayal rakh lenge Insha'Allah.. saas , sussar ka khayal rakhna chahheyy, haan lekin jo bohat zyada khidmat expect krte hein to bahu bhi jese apni maa ko kahay gi ke ami yeh mujh se nhi hota to ussi mohabat se saas ko bhi keh kr to dekhay .. aray saasein itni zalim bhi nhi hotien ..

  • @umerfarooq2094

    @umerfarooq2094

    Жыл бұрын

    G 💯fi sad nahi 200 fi sad ap ki bat se muttafiq hun

  • @hirajaved8626

    @hirajaved8626

    Жыл бұрын

    100%true

  • @ridazainab7458

    @ridazainab7458

    Жыл бұрын

    aesa mumkin ni h k sas susar sagi beti mane bahu ko.... or kbi ager bahu kehde k mujse ni hoga to sas mu bna k bol dengi k sub chordo m khud krlungi... bki apne kitna hi kuch kia ho aik bar inkar krdo kisi kam ka phir kisi ko yad bhi ni hota k kia kia he.......

  • @ridazainab7458

    @ridazainab7458

    Жыл бұрын

    beti beti hi hoti h or bahu bahu wo kbi beti ki jagah ni le skti

  • @rabeeyarehman2092

    @rabeeyarehman2092

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@ridazainab7458 baho beti ki jgah ho bhi nhi sakti kyon k wo saas ko maa ki jagah nhi deti

  • @salmanarif6651
    @salmanarif6651 Жыл бұрын

    That is very common, baat karne ki husband wife dono mae baisc human respect nahein. Kisi aik mae hoti hae to dosre mae nahein, ego rastay mae a jati hae

  • @khushbukainat4369
    @khushbukainat4369 Жыл бұрын

    Beshk sahi bat farida shoaib

  • @BiLalBilal-iu7ue
    @BiLalBilal-iu7ue Жыл бұрын

    Good bro I agree with you 💯 right

  • @omaraazfar8500
    @omaraazfar8500 Жыл бұрын

    Its a complicated topic and lots of scenarios in it. When sons are raised to bow to their mothers they will only draw lines for wives never for their mothers. And when the wife doesnt live up to the MILs expectations such mothers will blame their sons that they hv become joru ky ghulam. Its a confusing culture where the son was raised by the mother to follow her but he sees his own father following/submitting to his mothers wishes but taught to never submit to his wifes wishes( living separate etc) by both parents. In such cases he becomes a confused adult who has seen his own father nd men in the family following wifes orders but taught to be aggressive to his wife and taunted when they see he cant control his wife. These are deep Narcissitic behaviours. Noone addresses them. In general discussions such matters dont come up.

  • @raziakhan2619

    @raziakhan2619

    10 ай бұрын

    💯 Hence it is best to follow Islam and not culture.

  • @critics1156
    @critics1156 Жыл бұрын

    اک تو تم بد دماغ اور نکمی لڑکیوں کو کچھ آتا جاتا نہیں پھر بھی دل پر پتھر رکھ کر تمہیں گھر لائں اور عزت دیں ۔

  • @fatimazubair8669

    @fatimazubair8669

    Жыл бұрын

    Yahi bat apni beti ko bhi sikhana k tm jesi bd dimagh larki ko sasural waly izzat se ly jain yahi bht ha.

  • @princejutt233

    @princejutt233

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@fatimazubair8669 intehai koi jahil h ye apni maan behan ko bhe yehi khta hoga

  • @princejutt233

    @princejutt233

    Жыл бұрын

    اسکا مطلب آپ اپنی ماں بہن کےلئےبھی ایسا ہی بولتے ھوں گے اور آپ جیسے مرد اوہ نو مرد تو آپ ھیں نہیں ۔۔۔۔اللہ نہ کرے آپ جیسے جانور کوئ اپنی بیٹی دے ۔آمین

  • @critics1156

    @critics1156

    Жыл бұрын

    @@princejutt233 no dear its your filthy sister

  • @QulinaryBites
    @QulinaryBites4 ай бұрын

    Agree with all Very nice meeting

  • @mahnoorkhan203
    @mahnoorkhan2034 ай бұрын

    Meray muamlay main bhi yehi hai,lakin yahan insecurities nahi ehsas e taquber hai.married at 21 and still at 48 pehlay din wali situation hai.or ab main es had taq thak gaee hon k koi ilfaz nahi .

  • @creatievehub

    @creatievehub

    4 ай бұрын

    Allah apky lye asani paida karen ... bohat jald ap apny ghar main hon g in shaaa Allah

  • @RafatRashid-ny8dd
    @RafatRashid-ny8dd Жыл бұрын

    Saas sasur ki khidmat krne ke baad bhi wo khush nhi hai sir Unhe lgta hai ki is praayi ladki ne hmara beta chheen liya Jabki beta bhi bht farmabardaar h

  • @rabeeyarehman2092

    @rabeeyarehman2092

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@nausheenjahan1192 امید ھے آپ اپنی والدہ کو بھی یہ ہی سمجھاتی ہون گی شادی کے بعد بھائی نافرمان ہوجائے تو کوئی بات نہیں آپ اپنے کام سے کام رکھیں

  • @nausheenjahan1192

    @nausheenjahan1192

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rabeeyarehman2092 Meri walda is duniya mein nahi hain or bahu ane se pehle wo intikal kr chuki hain or rahi bat wo is mentality ki Bilkul bhi nahi thi ki unhe Lagta ki unka beta parayi larki ka ho gaya hai ya fir biwi ko manta to mummy apni bahu ka jeena azeeran Kar deti wo hargiz aisi nahi thi

  • @rabeeyarehman2092

    @rabeeyarehman2092

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nausheenjahan1192 یہ ہی تو مسئلہ ھے میں نے آج تک کوئی ایسی لڑکی نہیں دیکھی جو مانے کہ میری ماں بری ساس ھے یا ہوسکتی ھے اسی طرح آپ کی نند بھی یہ نہیں مانے گی ، سب لڑکیاں یہ ہی کہتی ہیں میری ماں سب سے اچھی ساس اور میری ساس سب سے بری ۔۔disgusting

  • @nausheenjahan1192

    @nausheenjahan1192

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rabeeyarehman2092 I think u didn’t understand what I mean to say plz don’t judge others I replied to rafat that if ur mother in law has that much issues with bahu these women should not get merried their son if they have so much insecurities regarding son with their bahus

  • @nausheenjahan1192

    @nausheenjahan1192

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rabeeyarehman2092 alhamdulillah my mom was not that type of conservative lady who get insecured with good relation between bete and bahu

  • @noorzindagi9108
    @noorzindagi9108 Жыл бұрын

    Insaniyat ke rishta se dekha jaey to sab ka eyk dusrey pe Haqq hy Parosi ka bhi Haq hy, Mehman ka , rishtedar ka , Gareeb ka, Borhey Buzurg ka bulkey Buzurgo ki to Khidmat bhi farz hy Maa Baap ka bhi farz hy Beti Betey dono per chahey Deen mein ya insaniyat mein bilkul is hi tarah Saas ka bhi Haq hy aur Bahu ka bhi haq hy bas Borhey Buzurg ya Umar mein ya Rishtey mein barey log ya Saas ho ya Maa Baap ho in sab ka Lehaz malhooz e Khatir rakhna hota hy har baat sunn ker bura na maney bulkey tehzeeb aur tameez zaroori hy aur Khush koi bhi kisi ko nahi ker sakta bas Baron ki Eizzat kerna Must hy baqi Zindagi mein utar charhao Aaney hi Aaney hotey hyn Apney upper rakh ker dekh len to samajh aajata hy kisi ko Khush kerna Aap per lazim to nahi hy(lekin ye karen to buhat sawab aur bari baat ho gi) Khidmat ker dena Madad ker dena farz hy (jab dusron ko ker saktey hyn to ghar walon ki kiun nahi) chahey wo kesey hi karen ya kisi se kerwaen Larki nahi ker sakti to Apney Husband se saaf kahey lekin tameez se ke wo nahi ker paey gi Shohar Khud karey ya Kisi se pesey de ker khidmat len. to baat ye hy ke Betey per to Farz hi Farz hy bas bahu per insaniyat ki wajha se farz hy ke jesey dusrey ke liey kerna hota hy to Apney itney qareebi Rishtedar ka kiun nahi? Thanks JzAK

  • @naseembano4905

    @naseembano4905

    Жыл бұрын

    Right ✅

  • @crochetbyhijabeez
    @crochetbyhijabeez4 ай бұрын

    Nice conversation from all members

  • @slimeasmr471
    @slimeasmr4714 ай бұрын

    Bahot zabrdat

  • @farzanaabdulmajeed5799
    @farzanaabdulmajeed5799 Жыл бұрын

    مرد کو چاہیئے کہ عورت کو دین سکھائے اور دین سیکھی ہوئی بیوی اور بہو تلاش کرے تاکہ ایسی عورتوں کی حوصلہ افزائی ہوئے اور زندگی بھی اچھی گزرے۔

  • @Ordinarydays
    @Ordinarydays Жыл бұрын

    Question should be “kia maa baap or behno ko kush rekhney k leye biwi ko sab k samney zalil krna jaaiz hai” !!

  • @PeachBlossom475

    @PeachBlossom475

    Жыл бұрын

    Han, tabhi to wo good son or maa ka beta kahlayega warna usey biwi ka ghulam kaha jayega.

  • @rabeeyarehman2092

    @rabeeyarehman2092

    Жыл бұрын

    کاش میں نے بھی ایسے بھائی اور بیٹے کہیں دیکھے ہوتے ساری زندگی گزر گئ کبھی بھابیوں کو ایک لفظ نہیں کہا چاہے وہ بھائیوں کے کتنے ہی کان بھریں اور بہووں کو کچھ بھی کہنا ہمارے ہاں روا نہیں کہ ہم خود ایسے نہیں اور نہ ہمارے بیٹے برداشت کرتے ہیں ۔۔۔

  • @HoorainHoorain-wl4dm

    @HoorainHoorain-wl4dm

    Жыл бұрын

    @@PeachBlossom475 sae kaha... Maa samny kya sb k samny zleel krty ye hsbnd

  • @Just_Fiza
    @Just_Fiza Жыл бұрын

    Yes, that is true! Eastern and western problems with the family system is the same everywhere.

  • @iqbalbibi1266
    @iqbalbibi1266 Жыл бұрын

    Alhmdolilah subhanallah ❤ ❤

  • @amazingvideos58

    @amazingvideos58

    Жыл бұрын

    SubhanAllah Allah is always from uppercase letter

  • @AliBaba-hr7wy
    @AliBaba-hr7wy Жыл бұрын

    Her aurat shadi k baad apne shohar ko Alag rehne or khud MAA ban Jane k baad woi aurat apne bacho ko hamesha Sath rehne ki Talqeen Karti hai 😊😊

  • @nehatabassum9256
    @nehatabassum9256 Жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah..

  • @parveenakhtar3646

    @parveenakhtar3646

    Жыл бұрын

    Jo bive sad sosar ke khedmat karte ha usy Allha bohat ajjar dy ga

  • @amazingvideos58

    @amazingvideos58

    Жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah Allah is always from uppercase letter

  • @Pakistani530
    @Pakistani5304 ай бұрын

    Yes , responsibility of son nd his wife bcz one time aik suhabi nay complain ki parents ki to Hazrat Muhammad nay farmaya (tu or tera mal teray Mann bap ka ha)

  • @thedoctor4133
    @thedoctor4133 Жыл бұрын

    i believe Mommaz boys shouldn't marry.. ...sadly i married the same person ....

  • @ambreentabassum6072
    @ambreentabassum6072 Жыл бұрын

    jb biwi aisa ni krti tu return me Husband usko us k maa bap se milne ni deta unka koi kam ni krne deta

  • @zufeshanfatma2186

    @zufeshanfatma2186

    Жыл бұрын

    Agr wife krti he saas ki khidmat toh kaun se husband apne saas sasur ki khidmat krte hei!!!

  • @AdnanKhan-xq4kh
    @AdnanKhan-xq4kh Жыл бұрын

    Ya Allah hum sabko ek nek, deen dar aur khubsurat Biwi aata farma, Ameen 🤲

  • @muhammadsultanularifeen3752

    @muhammadsultanularifeen3752

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @mohammadrijwan7387

    @mohammadrijwan7387

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @mashgamerz9437

    @mashgamerz9437

    Жыл бұрын

    Khud mai bhi ye sab qualities paida krain plz first deserve then desire...but I hope ap mai hngi ye qualities tabhi tu ye dua h apki😊

  • @nabilausman2906
    @nabilausman29064 ай бұрын

    Jo susral new ane wali bahoo ko beti ki trha rkhy pyar dain .surf bahoo un ko he Khush rkh skti wrna nai.

  • @ibrarahmad1930
    @ibrarahmad1930 Жыл бұрын

    Mery sath b yehi problem hy, Husband bolty k meri maa khush hy to tm ho ni to tm b ni,Or sas ami or nandon ki wjha se ma apny maiky ma hun 😢😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @hamnaashraf8012

    @hamnaashraf8012

    4 ай бұрын

    Behn APK shohar ki bat ap pr farz Hoti h shohar ka haq to sari zindgi koi orat ada nhi kr skti ...to jis trah wo Khush hota h usy rakhy or usk sath rahain Simple

  • @Mastiki_pathshala1234
    @Mastiki_pathshala1234 Жыл бұрын

    Ek hi solution h bête ko widaa Karo Damad ko ghar lao

  • @mishfanaaz7182

    @mishfanaaz7182

    11 ай бұрын

    To kya betiyaa ka haq h maa ki khidmat or beto ka ni betey kya maa k bajay SaaS ki gulami karey ?😢😂

  • @user-sb6vu5iv9l
    @user-sb6vu5iv9l Жыл бұрын

    کیا بیوی کی ماں کو خوش رکھنا شوہر کا فرض ھے !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @sajid88559

    @sajid88559

    9 ай бұрын

    اگر وہ اپنی بیوی س اپنی ماں کی خدمت کرواتا ہے تو پھر شوہر کا بھی فرض ہے اپنی ساس کی خدمت کرنا 😊

  • @zoyaumar2166
    @zoyaumar21664 ай бұрын

    Allah ko raji raky Allah apni mohabbat dalday aur Allah apni siwa kisi k mohtaj n rakay

  • @green-ii9rx
    @green-ii9rx Жыл бұрын

    jo sad ko baho ke khedmat krni parti jab baho bachy pyda krti ha wo b to sas pr farz ni ha

  • @SaniaAbrar-yp2xo

    @SaniaAbrar-yp2xo

    Жыл бұрын

    Good 👍 aj Kal saas bht achi hn bahu chalaken hn pehly zamany main saas susar k samne bahu ki ni chalti thi but aj k zamany main bahu chahti Meri har bat mani jaye

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