Guys comments me hi match making kar lo dekho koi mile to

@vikrantkhedkar6451

Жыл бұрын

Haha

@reallymanas

Жыл бұрын

Let's start 💀🤣

@taufique._.

Жыл бұрын

is there any girl here? 😄

@DoxSam

Жыл бұрын

Pinned Comment With Just 3 Replies Lemme Fix It !

@Jee2024IIT

Жыл бұрын

Ha or fir livin me raho and like shradd- 💀

Being single doesn't mean you're weak, it means you're strong enough to wait for what you deserve..

@mediaviper2957

Жыл бұрын

Wow great Mai to zindagi bhar single rahunga

@vinayaksharma7134

Жыл бұрын

hare krrishna bro

@kaifalam7777

Жыл бұрын

@@mediaviper2957 satchi m kyaa??? Serious ho ap???

@vilayatkhan5919

Жыл бұрын

@@mediaviper2957 shaadi kar la bhai zimmadar ban joga parents bhi khush aap bhi khush

@NationalistFirst

Жыл бұрын

@@mediaviper2957 Bhai, trust me abhi yeah bolna easy hota hai jese Umar hojata tum bohat pachtaoge 🤣🤣

The bad behavior is not limited to only singles. When I lived in mumbai, the married couple living in the flat below ours fought almost everyday. Their screaming and yelling would always be audible to us from balconies and bathroom vents. Not only that, they would occasionally smoke in the bathrooms which would bother our family all the time. It really depends on what kind of person you are rather than your relationship status.

@max-cs9ko

Жыл бұрын

But, land owner became a party when any legal conflict happened with bachelor, that an issues nobody talk

@kdjoshi726

Жыл бұрын

@Muskan Singh My parents always fought a lot. To the point that my mum had to pull a knife on us. She's diagnosed as schizophrenic. When confronted her parents, it was found that she showed severe schizophrenic tendencies after she had my brother. Her condition became worse in the family. Marriage is not the key to solve anything in fact it destroys you a lot of times as it is India & it is especially demanding from couples & the whole marriage system here is just... shit. So yeah it does depend on what kind of person you are. Single or married, if you behave like sh*t then you are a sh*t

@NehaHadkar

Жыл бұрын

Exactly...families create more nuisance than bachelors

@btspurplearmy7703

Жыл бұрын

yes couples fights r louder than the dj parties of singles

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

@@kdjoshi726 are bhai baat marriage ki nahi ho rahi he, karna nahi karna ye individual choice he she's saying ki agar family ko room de diya jaye to wo thode carefully rehte he.. kyunki agar kuch galat ho jaye to ek ke saath sari family evict ki jati he. Isliye thode careful rehte he. Warna young men and women duniya bhar ki masti karte he ghar se dur jab rehne jate he to

Yes, Being single is better than getting married and breaking someone's heart for physical relationships.

@somnathbanerjee_2922

3 ай бұрын

What if it's already decided earlier ??🤔

I'm a teenager and recently started attendeding college.... beleive it or not here it's like if you are single then you are doing something wrong....like nobody cares if I want to focus on my career right now or its just my personal choice to be single......i don't understand why people take relationships as an achievement...... stupid society we are living in

@gargeebasak9648

11 ай бұрын

Bcz there r a lot of incels nowadays whor mostly teenagers and it's hard to deduce who is actually avoiding relationships and who can't get one

@dannyboy3413

3 ай бұрын

​@@gargeebasak9648So I deduced that relationships and dating is not for me. I'm very short (5'3) for a male and balding. I'll never be attractive to anyone. So I gave up and now living in peace and focusing on myself and my passions for the plenty of time I've left.

@AashishTelgote-zx4wp

19 күн бұрын

Majority of unmarried men in India don't have a gf. Because, of gender segregation it's difficult for them to approach girls.​ They become nervous and fear rejection. They too want to get into a relationship, but don't have guts to express their feelings. So, they end up being single. Its not like girls approach boys. @@gargeebasak9648

Being a girl and single at 32, I stopped going out just because I don't want to answer "why am being single at this age". Why can't the society understand that life is not just about getting married and having kids. When I say that am not interested in marriage, people keep asking me "who will take care of you when you're old?". Doesnt that mean people are having kids, only because they want someone to take care of them when they are old. Isn't selfish to have kids and asking them to take care of us in our old-age? They must have other things to do. Why bother them with our problems at that point. It's better to have some sort of savings and depend on oneself rather asking others to take care of ourselves. If India had health care system like NHS or social security pensions like developed countries, then most people wouldn't be worried about all these issues of marriage and old age care.

@howyou2035

Жыл бұрын

You will get robbed if you're home alone in your old aged. I saw a lot of reports on that. Even married old couple got robbed because they had no one to save them.

@NeelamSharma23500

Жыл бұрын

@@howyou2035 ok I'll hire two security guards from agency and two rottweiler.... And will buy dot gun alongwith licenced revolver....

@princejangra1231

Жыл бұрын

@@NeelamSharma23500 to be fair though The sole purpose of existence is to procreate And unless you are doing something greater than life Then i don't see a point in anyone staying lifelong single It's a simple as that

@pama1442

Жыл бұрын

​@@princejangra1231 it's a choice. Not everyone wants to procreate.

@NeelamSharma23500

Жыл бұрын

@@princejangra1231 i think uh got the answer... When somebody is saying that he/she will not marry... There is some strong motive behind it... Its not something like chalo av fun ka mood h to bol dete h shadi ni karenge, lifetime single rahenge... Kuch genuine reason hota he h... Or ye sab baatein procreation, gravid period, biological period, ye sab hame v pata h... But apni zindagi hum kis timeline me easy dekhate h, ussi ko choose krna chahte h.... Mental peace v to chahiye....

Being single is a choice. Being with someone is a choice. If we can't think good for anyone we should not think bad as well. I'm 27 & single and never been in a relationship. Marriage is overrated. Always remember 'Being single won't kill you & being in a relationship won't heal you. Live your life the way you want just don't regret. Thanks Mohit for making this video ✌🏻🖤

@a-kc2un

Жыл бұрын

True

@brajeshs4487

Жыл бұрын

absolutely... Do Vipassana as taught by S N Goenka. The power of observation comes from consistent practice.

@tuhinkumarkole

Жыл бұрын

He is Mohak

@litlit76

Жыл бұрын

End me hagg diya 😭

@paglusingh8504

Жыл бұрын

@@brajeshs4487 he is just fake business guru

I am 34 Single who recently moved to India after 10 years in US and I can confirm life is very difficult in India for single.

@lovej8155

Жыл бұрын

Hi

@dangerousmind1121

6 ай бұрын

*Yeah wonder why you moved to India then ?*

@ninjapirate123

5 ай бұрын

this is why im never moving to India

@kerorikun8910

3 ай бұрын

​@@dangerousmind1121maybe couldn't renew their license

In India, people are judged on their Marital status, Caste, Color, Family background and having child or being childless. The Qualifications, Character, Life choices, Ideology, Good values all other are secondary things.

@jijithattil1548

Жыл бұрын

In India, people are judged. They find fault to feel superior.

@yash_kanthaliya

Жыл бұрын

Sab jagah hota h bhai duniya me kahi bhi chala jaa, foreign movies me bataya vaisa jaisa nhi hota

@sharathk42

Жыл бұрын

Thats why i am about to move out and getting PR… No one can change mind set of people here… Either try to live with this or just move out😊

@blaze635

Жыл бұрын

Because what happens in majority cases is considered instead of rare cases, think how many actually have character/good qualities in them

@blaze635

Жыл бұрын

@@yash_kanthaliya are sab log apne aap ko hero mante ha or samne vale ko side character

This is the discrimination we all should be fighting against

@allipse8224

Жыл бұрын

We should fight against every discrimination..

@srilaasyamoka

Жыл бұрын

bruh 😂

@blaze635

Жыл бұрын

Bro khud ko na sudharo samne vale ko galat bolo

@RahulSingh-390

Жыл бұрын

There should be reservation for single people.

@yo.local.halal.cat364

Жыл бұрын

​@@srilaasyamoka and what's funny ?

44, decided to be single for ever and ever. Don’t believe in marriage or monogamy. I dont care about society too. You need to play your games well in this world being single, be honest but not stupid.

@SunLake-pr1di

Жыл бұрын

U are brave and have taken the right decision

@androidandroid4461

Жыл бұрын

@@SunLake-pr1di Thanks 🙏

@Must_77785

Жыл бұрын

Sir really you are amazing

@androidandroid4461

Жыл бұрын

@@Must_77785 thanks 👍🙏

@karantikoo9302

Жыл бұрын

you will have no legacy...stop earning, don't buy properties

It’s better to be single with high standards than in a relationship settling for less😶

@illhelpyoudude

Жыл бұрын

Is it a quote or your own experience ? unluckily single this side

@minobs4737

Жыл бұрын

Have standards high enough that you can meet yourself.

@criscrosxxx

Жыл бұрын

High standards lmao yeah cuz you're the queen of India

@BabaYaga-cq5dw

Жыл бұрын

This is only why I am single at 28 😇

@BabaYaga-cq5dw

Жыл бұрын

@@criscrosxxxhigh standards means truth and loyalty that we can't expect from cheap people.

Singles - ये दुःख खत्म काहे नहीं होता बे.....

@rajatgill2073

Жыл бұрын

Stay single stay strong 🗿

@pranavkanttripathi2971

Жыл бұрын

No Relationship>>> Wrong Relationship. Isliye to apan bhi offer accept nhi kiye. Better single than troubled.

@kalkinara

Жыл бұрын

@@pranavkanttripathi2971 🗿🗿 Bhai kasay pata lagta hai ki ladka/ladki kharab hai ..

@viratgami4931

Жыл бұрын

Bhai Hoga dukha khatam hoga

@sigmamale6143

Жыл бұрын

Pkka bihari hea tu

Mohak Never Disappoints He Talks On Real Problems & Solutions 👍👍

@rajatgill2073

Жыл бұрын

“Romeo died because of Juliet, Jack died because of rose, stay single if you want to live.”

@ChildFirst

Жыл бұрын

No in-depth research is done.. बंदा KZread से अपना घर चलाने में लगा है।

@yogendrasinghrajput1

Жыл бұрын

India is free cuntry ..paraud

@thomasfookingshelby8194

Жыл бұрын

@@rajatgill2073 the whole human population will disappear then

@dr_nalla

Жыл бұрын

​@@rajatgill2073 but fun fact : mohak Mangal is married 😂

As a 25 yrs old indian who doesn't wanna get married or have any children and who never did desire them either, im honestly worried about all the discrimination i might have to face. I believe this is one of the reason why many indian women desire living in foreign countries where women are given more choices and freedom. I love india but society really makes me believe otherwise.

Finally someone not only acknowledged our existence but also shared our problems in a respectful way. Thanks. This is my experience too. I did remember when I was trying to find a flat in Gurgaon, the owner blatantly asked me "do you have a boyfriend? If you do then don't search for property in this area, this is family area" I was shocked. Not because he said this, I am kind of used to these questions while searching property. I was more shocked because that whole area was full of PGs with single people, I literally found a flat just 3 houses away from his house in that cute "Family area". And this was just one of the struggles of being single. The society pressure thing is a whole another level of insanity. When you are single in your 30s, the only thing that comes to everyone's mind is that either we are hiding our relationship status or we have some kind of illness. My male colleagues also face the same judgements but it is more hard for women because society always associates it with your character (I mean they don't leave married women too, it is easy to declare someone's character wrong when you have big mouth) it is sooooo annoying. First of all I am not hiding anything. And second, if someone is in that situation, it is none of your business. They always say "you are getting old, marry soon otherwise you won't get the right partner". As we have a lack of people in this country to find the one. The family pressure, constant pokes from friends makes it hard to hang out with them. The relatives who I see maybe twice a year also poke daily saying "who will take care of you when you will get old", well NOT YOU for sure. Wow so much care! Where are these relatives when you need them? Probably busy in poking someone else's family I guess. My point is there is nothing wrong in keeping our mental peace as a priority. Maybe we are still figuring things out, maybe someone wants to focus just on their career, maybe they have family or financial problems, maybe they are still deciding, maybe they will marry in future or maybe they won't. Maybe someone doesn't have their shit together to take on new responsibility or maybe someone doesn't have any of these problems and still wants to be single. Who knows. You found your balance in marriage, I found my balance in being single. As simple as that.

@TheFirePhoniex837

Жыл бұрын

@thezoldics7648 L comment. Seems like a troll take. Obvious bait.

Being Single in India is also difficult because nobody would let you live in peace! Be it your own family! The relatives who have not seen you in ages! Neighbours! The constant nagging question, "Shaadi kab karoge" "Shaadi karlo ab" "Settle ho jao" "Shaadi bohat important hai"

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

I disagree. If you are a woman and you passed your 20s and entering into your 30s the parents and relatives stop caring. But this time it's your friend who will ask you to get married. And hopefully if they are good enough they will still hangout but if not they will drop you off. Generally married people tend to hangout with married people more.

@enriloni

Жыл бұрын

@@peteck007 Don't disimburse your personal experience as a fact. I have a lot of unmarried friends and cousins in their 30s and they are constantly nagged upon by their families and relatives and even the neighbors. So do not generalise your own experience as a one definite fact.

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

@@enriloni वैसे मैं ज्यादातर लोगों की बात कर रहा हूँ..

@enriloni

Жыл бұрын

@@peteck007 Q tumne global ya phir pure India ka survey kiya hai qa jo tumhe pakka pakka pata hai ki jyada tar logo k sath aisa hi hota hai?

@HasanUnknown

Жыл бұрын

Islam is not 1400+ years old, Islam is the Oldest and First Religion, Islam means "Submitting our Will to God" Islam is their since First human (Prophet Adam) And Prophet Muhammad ﷺ is Not the Founder of Islam, Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was just a Last Prophet Of Islam ! --------------------- “God is One and Only without second.” [Chandogya Upanishad 6:2:1] “He is Allah the One and Only.” [Quran 112:1] --------------------- “There is only One God, not the second” [Brahma Sutra] “There is only One Allah” [Quran 16:51] --------------------- “There is no image of Him.” [Yajurveda 32:3] “There is nothing like Him.” [Quran 42:11] --------------------- “There Is No Likeness Of Him” [Svetasvatara Upanishad 4:19] “And there is none Like unto Him.” [Quran 112:4] --------------------- “of Him there are no Parents" [Svetasvatara Upanishad 6:9] “He does not Beget nor is He Begotten.” [Quran 112:3] --------------------- “His form is not visible, the eyes cannot see Him.” [Svetasvatara Upanishad 4:20] “No vision can see Him, but He see’s all vision.” [Quran 6:103] --------------------- *[Reminder]* *Dear Hindus,* *You should worship only One God (Allah) and you must Stop doing Idol worshipping !*

Trust me I'm single and all the above you said is true.. and this discrimination is pushing me towards loneliness, because everyone makes me feel like a misfit and i don't even feel like a part of anything. People who are married are willing to fake it for society even if they are not happy or not satisfied with their lives, but being true to one self and bring Frank is totally judged

@ct8596

Жыл бұрын

So true.. I have seen married people post lovey dovey pics on instagram and in reality they are screaming for divorces😂 Atleast i am single and happy and i am true to myself and everyone

@abhishekvrm2777

Жыл бұрын

Hi Neha, can we become friends?

@narasimhashelar6745

Жыл бұрын

some one's gonna start flirting with you now.

@kashmeerar

Жыл бұрын

Don't let anyone pull you down. Remember that you are independent and supporting a precious life that is you. Be proud of it. If aunties and uncles tell you to marry, ask them this "are you genuinely happy in your married life?" It usually shuts most of them.

@nihal9023

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

My god! I don't see myself getting married and this video just gave me anxiety about the pressure I may have to face in future. 😅

@illhelpyoudude

Жыл бұрын

S Mitra just don't try to imagine ...and sometimes being in relationship with a right partner makes you experience the joyride of the life ......

@yurika_edits

Жыл бұрын

same! but people keep telling me lakiyo ko ladke ki zarurat hoti hai. Bhai mujhe toh bas job karke apne chote se ghar mai aram se akele rehna hai 😭 isme kisi aur ki kya zarurat hai itni.

@kingking5257

Жыл бұрын

@THE ZOLDICS tum logo ke baje se india first position pe he ab poppulation me

@phoenix3787

Жыл бұрын

@THE ZOLDICS ranbir and alia got married bcoz alia got pregnant and child before marriage is not considered legal here...and they might have found love in each other. People will get married if they find love. And India has always been a populous country, I highly doubt if India is not considered as 3rd world country anymore

@Must_77785

Жыл бұрын

​@THE ZOLDICS forget alia and ranbir, the great scientist of india dr apj abdul kalam was single. Take inspiration from him

I understand both the spectrum as i am both single and a landlord. My flat is valued at close to 1 cr. When it came to renting out i felt i can't risk my fully furnished apartment and i wished for responsible tenants. A married couple, especially the ones with children, can be considered as highly probable of being responsible. In my 20s, i was single, not that mature and responsible, and if i were a tenant, i would not have likely rented the flat to myself 😂😂. But it doesn't mean all singles are irresponsible. Mohak said it right, its all a game of probability, and landlords don't want to take risks.

@iArpanMishra

Жыл бұрын

Bachelors do play loud music. Host parties! Invite a lot of people. I agree with Anubhav Bassi actually. "4 single ladko ko kuch sath me krna hi nahi chahiye!" I have lived in societies where bachelors were living and the amount of nuisance is unbearable! Indians have a nasty habit of staring. The sight of four guys staring gives me chills. I would be much more comfortable with a group which has people of all genders. Also, not getting married is a sign of commitment phobia, a non-adjusting attitude. These are FACTS! Nothing will happen by denying them.

@self-improvement2166

8 ай бұрын

​@@iArpanMishra😂I agree your last point but I will remain single.I don't fear people killing me or making jokes what I fear is most I can't relate to another person.I'm type of person feel tired with other people easily.

@adityasalunkhe1288

6 ай бұрын

@@iArpanMishra agreed but not marrying isn't always an issue with commitment tho

You may be happily single, but society won't leave you alone. They will pathologize anyone who is different/unique.

@nostalgia5342

Жыл бұрын

Modiji laughing in corner.

@jinfin221

Жыл бұрын

Aisa kuch nahi hai. Your family is gandi

@s.r301

Жыл бұрын

@@jinfin221 I was just stating a fact. Why are you getting defensive? Are you among the people who shame others based on Marital status?

@jinfin221

Жыл бұрын

@@s.r301 Yes.

@chadultrapromax1735

Жыл бұрын

There is a beautiful line to say to society in these scenarios which is "Maa chudae society ".

As living in Pune , I can confirm that most of the resdential societies have made rule to not give houses to bachelors and it has become common here

@Kathakathan11

Жыл бұрын

But why? What were the reasons you encountered?

@chinmaychavan4220

Жыл бұрын

@@Kathakathan11 as im still living with my parents , i remeber when i was in 6 standard the society allowed bachelors to live in flats , so they were bachelors who were living right under our floor , so they used to be awake till 4 am , they used to play songs and used to smoke cigarets that smell comes to our house , this may be the reason

@Kathakathan11

Жыл бұрын

@@chinmaychavan4220 yes may be. I really want to throw my neighbour out who smokes entire night it seems. Cannot stand in balcony. We had Nigerians who stayed in building next to us. And they were caught kidnapping a child and illicit drug trafficking. Since then that area has stopped giving any flat for Nigerians/ any Africans

@S-tx2lk

Жыл бұрын

It's not legal. You can complain and can fight legally.

@Crauniverse

Жыл бұрын

@@Kathakathan11 but why to create problems when you just solve them without going to any legal process just stop bachelors every problems solve because bachelor live in pg but families not.

I am a single woman and faced most of the discriminations 🙄 even more than mentioned 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I have never been invited for any family or friend's functions, finally your financial and emotional support point I can agree , as I can see I am not getting it from anywhere I am now pushed to get married and have become totally mentally unstable Recently with all the insecurities coming in my mind regarding these 2 topics... and as u said I will get married to some lallu just for the marriage' sake " To feel accepted " in our rubbish society...I don't have much friends hardly any relatives have only my parents and my younger brother (sometimes as he is married)to support me and my parents are getting older now....

@adityasalunkhe1288

2 ай бұрын

just take care of your parents and be with people who can understand you, it's not like everyone is forcing you to get married

It's hard when not only society but parents don't understand you

Being double is a problem Being single is a problem Then, what the heck I should do now 😅

@jabarsiddiq2198

Жыл бұрын

Everything is problem

@zuesr3277

Жыл бұрын

Life is a problem

@shikhar2054

Жыл бұрын

Wait for few years. A.I will solve our problem. And the way climate change is happening, nothing would matter in next 25 years.

@risinggamer3011

Жыл бұрын

Bhajo ram ram hare hare .

@HEAVENLY_DEMON_ALPHA

Жыл бұрын

Leave the country.....Just kidding, but for real though, WHAT DO WE DO? 🤔🤔😥

A lot of people don't realise that, after you crossed the 30 year old mark, the parents and relatives don't ask you about getting married. But this time, the friends you had start getting distanced since they have their own set of friends who are married. So the married people hangout with other married people. And at that time you basically start loosing friends or lost friends already. But you need to actively look for friendship by joining different activities and groups. Or you will more likely to end up becoming depressed.

@letmespeakthetruth1601

Жыл бұрын

Completely agree. It becomes quite awkward. And I have seen people ducking invitation to those parties and choosing to go for a hike more often on a weekend. But the other question is why would you not want to get married? If that's what you want, then that's what you are going to face. Too much freedom is not free. 🙂

@nehashirodkar1273

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely true

@smitaliskape8867

Жыл бұрын

Yes absolutely true I strongly agree directly or indirectly they disowned us like family gatherings

@dreamguy6441

Жыл бұрын

@@letmespeakthetruth1601 Alot of people in life don't want to take responsibility of a child, a lot of them don't earn enough to support a family, a lot of them come from troubled family background (like me) who wish to stay single out of fear of redoing this drama again. Are we to force such people in marriages?

@pranavshah4787

Жыл бұрын

True

If family is such a fundamental unit to the Indian society then why is Indian society so opposed to romance? Romantic relationship is the foundation of a strong marriage,which in turn leads to a stable family and a stable society.

@retrosai

4 ай бұрын

Obligation and peer pressure makes Indian society.

I have faced similar discrimination in Bangalore. 4 of us used to stay in a 2BHK at the start of our careers. We maintained the house pretty well, paid all the rents in time and even our landlord said that he did not expect such a clean home after it was handed to a tenant. However the society pressurized our owner so that he asks us to go because we had friends coming over during weekends. It was said that many shoes were scattered outside our apartment and that was not aesthetic. That was the only reason. 😝 Moreover, we had some surprise visits from other apartment owners who would barge inside our house to check if someone is smoking or consuming any other objectionable material. Nothing was found ever but still we had to vacate.

I have a video suggestion. Many companies don't allow female employees to add their parents to office health insurance, if they do then an extra premium is charged. According to the policy a female employee can only add her husband and kids to the policy at no extra cost, whereas as a male employee can choose to add either his parents or his wife and kids. I say this is discriminatory. I have seen this happen at TCS. A video would be appreciated.

@helo98736Hah

Жыл бұрын

Nothing discriminatory women ko hire karte hai wahi badi baat hai😂

@ApurvaThakre

Жыл бұрын

@@helo98736Hah 🤦

@anshuanandsharma1984

Жыл бұрын

I was in tcs never seen this. Husband can have insurance of in-laws

@SharkFishSF

Жыл бұрын

@@helo98736Hah haha, lekin kuch ladkiyaan bahut productive hote hai,

@kashishsharma5213

Жыл бұрын

@@helo98736Hah you should have thought about your sister while writing this comment.

Being a single I can confirm that this is true 😭

@Mr.SledgeHammer

Жыл бұрын

As an owner of a house given for rent as well as neighbour to single people on rent. I can understand when tenants prefer only married couple and avoid single men/women. Single people have less responsibility and they have the mindset of "we are doing you a favour by renting your house". They are reckless ,keeps the house dirty most of the time and fight with other tenants frequently. This causes the other tenants who are a family to avoid our house because of bachelor's living in other floors. Worst happens when the tenants fails to pay their rent on time or absconds without paying rent, electricity bill and water bill. Single people also fall in the trap of debt,drinking and other activites which not only affects them but the neighbours as well. My neighbouring tenant throw their beer bottles into our bin in front of our house which caused our bin to break and nobody is willing to take responsibility of the same. The owner of my neighbouring house swore on his life that he would keep each house empty if need be but will never give it to a bachelor again due to repeated problems as mentioned above. What needs to change is not the "family only" trend but the mindset of single people who need to act responsibly. This is why owner take an interview to asses them.

@ramhruday

Жыл бұрын

​@@Mr.SledgeHammer your point is understandable.

@RamMadarchodhh

Жыл бұрын

Hindus say they dont wanna marry and then the same hindus blame muslims for their population getting reduced🤡🤡

@fluxx9458

Жыл бұрын

@@Mr.SledgeHammer Agreed Being Single= having less responsibilities and when you have less responsibilities, you don't feel much accountable for your actions as compared to someone who has more responsibilities. Of course, this is not all there is to it. There are other aspects too. Getting married is recommended and should be recommended. Traditional Asian societies which follow traditional gender values face less problems as compared to the western society where the birth rate is on a decline and depression is prevalent. However this does not mean we should start discriminating against singles.

@vivek8580

Жыл бұрын

@@fluxx9458 lol Arre bhai shaadi krna hai but kisiko 27 mee krni hai kisiko 21 mee, sbki apni choice n, ab jisko 28 mee shaadi krna hai so obviously wo 23-28 single rehke hii job krega n

Being single is world most beautiful thing ❤️

Told my parents loud & clear "Agar sahi life partner naa mile then ill stay single forever...... accept it or leave it" More power to Singles 💪🏻

@awrjkf

11 ай бұрын

But the conundrum is how do you find the "sahi partner". You can only find after the marriage. Can't even trust on love marriages, because the love can go stale. Happens with so many "love" marriages. So what is the solution? I believe a well-calculated risk has to be taken.

@DibyanjanNayak

11 ай бұрын

@@awrjkf yes exactly! Even love marriages can be broken, but so do arranged ones. The thing is that you have to give time in a relationship. I mean I've decided if I'll find someone with the same life goals, interests & vibes then I'll date her for at least 2 years(including live in relationship) so that I'll be clear about her......then if everything goes well we'll marry. As I said you need to be clear about your requirements...... Not every relationships gonna break Mann but yes anything can happen.......some things aren't in our hands so.......do your best as you can & Good Luck 🙂

I am a single indian woman living in Sweden. Trust me social discrimination for being single is also here. I, like many other single women here, don't get invited to family gatherings. There is no discrimination from government system per se. But married people or couples do have some more benefits. But socially one can get very excluded. People also keep asking if a single person is dating etc.

@Allah_is_gay

Жыл бұрын

Do you have any plans of returning back to india Just to know tho :o

@user-lehsun-le-garib

Жыл бұрын

@@Allah_is_gay Lol why would she think of Moving from One of the best countries on this planet

@train_xc

Жыл бұрын

Don’t expect your friends to invite you in social gatherings.

@DipayanPyne94

Жыл бұрын

​@thezoldics7648 Why not ? Characterless people don't understand diversity.

@debris360

Жыл бұрын

Sanchi I wanna marry u

Love is psychological Marriage is social Sex is natural

@risinggamer3011

Жыл бұрын

I would prefer natural way 🤣🤣

@okoptimus

Жыл бұрын

sex without marriage is wisdom

@user-lehsun-le-garib

Жыл бұрын

Wow What a philosophical discussion here

@themulticourse2460

Жыл бұрын

@@okoptimus that's not wisdom that's big mistake

@okoptimus

Жыл бұрын

@@themulticourse2460 idc its wisdom for me

People in the comments who are afraid of dying alone and want to marry citing that as one of the reasons.....Think about it. When you're dead, you're dead. It makes no difference to your body if it is by the roadside or being given a state funeral. It makes no difference to you whether people remember you or forget you because you don't exist anymore. All these emotional connections you make about dying surrounded by loved ones or being remembered after death....all these are pointless attachments. They matter only in your imagination. Once you're dead, there is no imagination, no emotions, nothing. It will be exactly how it was before you were born.

I appreciate your videos about real-life problems, social problems, love, etc. These things are considered taboo in our society. But this must be acknowledged for the betterment of our society.

I am a 24year old single and whenever I had to put my house on rent, I always preferred family because I had this stereotype that single people especially men are reckless and problem creater but recently I have changed my mind and out of my 4 places, 3 I have rented to singles,I have realised not all singles are demon and not all committed people are angels.This video was wholesome covering all aspects of problems faced by single people and how we can all contribute our bit to support every section of society.

@akrutipachpinde5766

Жыл бұрын

So cool that you're 24 now and already have 4 spare rented places!!

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

@@akrutipachpinde5766 thanks to the fem....

@jashsylde8136

Жыл бұрын

Inherit4 homes from 'family' or did u make it urself. If its the latter u have achieved nirvana at 24. Congrats.

@PahadiBrothers769

Жыл бұрын

Correct

@reallymanas

Жыл бұрын

@@PahadiBrothers769 bruh wtf 1M subs 💀

The title made me giggle since I'm single and I'm happy😂😂

@namansharma13

Жыл бұрын

Video to dekh le. Wo single relationship ki baat nai kar raha.

@Dr.roshan28

Жыл бұрын

​@@namansharma13 🤣tum v dekho hot 🥵 topic hai

@bored3202

Жыл бұрын

@@namansharma13 arey im talking about the title I saw the video

@defenceexams4776

Жыл бұрын

Single aur happy Jaanth mera Angoor nahi mile to Angoor khatte hai

@rajatbansal3599

Жыл бұрын

Yet, your username is Bored

I am lucky that my parents supports me & gave me the choice of being single or married 😊 My choice : single (99.9%)

Toxic guys gets committed within 20 years but innocent guys remain single for 35 years

@MohammadSaud-vo9hd

23 күн бұрын

True more relevant in today's world

I am single and moved to Saudi Arabia after living in Dubai for 7 years, I never faced so much discrimination even in middle East countries for renting apartments... India is full of this societal drama..... Daru badnam, single or widow hona badnam wtf..........hallelujah

@Dhruv-Kumar

Жыл бұрын

@@howyou2035 women are your crops

@salmanfarooque888

Жыл бұрын

@anime hi why dont you do a bit of research before you comment, there is no such law that stops you from living in a relationship, no one cares what you do in your personal life, and there is no Sharma ji next door watching your activity, women can drive, there is no need of protest, the government gives enough of support, there is no compulsory dress code for women in Dubai, they have the freedom to choose what they want to wear, you can see women walking in a bikini.

@kdjoshi726

Жыл бұрын

@anime Bhai kya bole ja rhe ho

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

@anime कम्पेयर नही कर रहा है भाई बस सच्चाई बता रहा है कि कैसे कुछ देशो में इतना प्रॉब्लम नही होता है इन सब चीजों को लेकर

@RMatt2016

Жыл бұрын

@@salmanfarooque888 dubai only recently made it legal to have sexual relations out of marriage (unmarried couples). it was around 2020. before this women who had children out of wedlock got jailed/deported. ill tr to link if i can

The lack of domestic skills is a major problem that in my opinion, could be made worse because of the way our families are set up these days. My theory is that, for the longest time, while growing up we are not expected to do any household chores because 'mummy is there' and you just focus on your studies. we may end up not lifting a finger in our formative years in our rather self centred bubbles of studies & career which, though important is not the only aspect of life. (Not trying to generalise here, but this is just a theory based on what I've observed. I have also seen some lovely bachelor homes so I 'm not saying these are facts) We are not taught to cook and clean, do our laundry, manage finances & time, making the house look presentable etc. Then suddenly we graduate college, and move away for jobs and we don't know how to do basic housekeeping, nor have the money in our early career to afford a housekeeper. We aren't taught at schools, because we're all being pushed to get the best marks, because the competition and pressure is so high. After school also we come back home and study or run from class to class right from 6th / 7th for that extra high level JEE class, or just tuition classes for what is already taught in school. And being in India I think this problem is worse if you're a boy.. You are not expected to do much household chores growing up, and if you move out you're left with no basic life skills and could end up falling sick because of bad eating habits or unclean living conditions, therefore affecting your work also.

@DipayanPyne94

Жыл бұрын

Exactly right.

@nijistuff

Жыл бұрын

that's an astute observation

@Raju_K

Жыл бұрын

I think men are faring way better than you think. Men ususally are survivors, so we fall and learn fast to survive. If you say not all men are like not many women are actually good at chores either. Most people learn by falling and learning it by themselves

One of my clients totally unmarried has lots of elders lots of animals plants lots of children around him because he ended up creating a community of all such people who wanted different set up. They have entire colony for themselves..so without being married he has more in multifold in all senses..even if some people leave him still he has 100s...whereas people who were married their partners left then children left them and they are all alone now..thanks for raising this imp point. So marriage is not guarantee of anything..its one of many solutions availaible to address human needs at one place

Waah 👌🏾 superb sirji ✌🏾 💯💯💯👍🏾you have chosen a very unique or rather an overlooked topic. Brilliant analysis and inference.

Finally someone who raised voice for guys like us 🥺🥺 mohk bhiya hm tumhare saath hai

@cinemauniverse1437

Жыл бұрын

'guys' he bhai gays nahi

@ChildFirst

Жыл бұрын

Raise करनें? कोई research नहीं है, सिर्फ़ content हैं channel चलाने

@mohammadakramali1466

Жыл бұрын

Guys*

@sagaforever

Жыл бұрын

Wo khud shadi shuda hai

@CockySuSMounted

Жыл бұрын

​@@sagaforever so ?

This is sooo true, i have been searching for a flat for so long in Bangalore. I have had so many owners and brokers hang up the phone the moment they heard the term "Bachelors". We finally got a 3bhk apartment, and even in that the guard said on the first day itself that girls are not allowed in the apartment because "Aap log bachelor ho". This condition was not even put before we moved in, but alas we cant do much. I talked to the president of the society, and he said that the people in association have a problem with it. Dude its my life, my room, my fucking apartment. I pay the rent, I should be able to do whatever i want, who are they to tell us what and what not to do. If people around me are having issues then they can complain and throw me out. I dont even drink or smoke. But nope, they didnt listen. Being unmarried in India sucks!

@HyperMusic13

Жыл бұрын

I'm in 10th but I'm damn sure to be a bachelor in future I fear the society. I think I will have to marry even though I don't want to.

@ct8596

Жыл бұрын

​@@HyperMusic13 Earn so much that you can buy a home Dont marry and ruin your entire life

@Bharatwasi7

Жыл бұрын

​@@HyperMusic13 Don't be weak☮️

@HyperMusic13

Жыл бұрын

@@ct8596 i don't need to earn i plan to be an officer in the defence forces so i think that i will get a quarter

@HyperMusic13

Жыл бұрын

@@ct8596 since i told my mom that i don't wanna marry SERIOUSLY. She has been just predicting all the time that how my married life will be

This channel is so good like loook at this topic....rare honestly and unique 🙌..will do continue with this channel......👏👏👏👏

you are one of the most important indian creator, keep making great stuff! :)

I'm 29, Single and very much happy being alive and living a fulfilling life.

@cosMYs891

Жыл бұрын

keep going❤

@SyedSaifAbbasNaqvi

Жыл бұрын

I am 32 and i am single. Sometimes I am happy & other times i think that I would end up alone.

@__nimitjain__

Жыл бұрын

@@SyedSaifAbbasNaqvi you will end up alone 🙂 i listened ratan tata once he feels lonely even after everything he achieved to karlo bhaiya shadi

@wahegurumeharkari2944

Жыл бұрын

🥴❤️‍🔥

@wewin7899

Жыл бұрын

I dont want to get married but i want to intimate atleast once and for that i have to marry

I want to be single for whole life because I want absolute freedom and don't want any kind of pressure but I think family will pressurized me.🙂

@anewlife5846

Жыл бұрын

Your family might pressurise only if you don't live your life with sophistication. If you instill confidence in them that you will live a better life as a single, they won't force you against your wish.

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

@@anewlife5846 parents don't generally force once you pass your 20s. They leave you on your own accordance.

@fai3379

Жыл бұрын

Being a singal how can have absolute person,they are no person who dont, have absolute person singal or married work presure is equal to both parties,and it not means partig all day and other things is presuee can be from siblings,parentv also if it a wife it is only one if u cannot live can separate or divorce but can you over come presure of a own family

Being single can you will get Many facilities 1-you can enjoy your life like a bosss 2-you don't have any tension 3-you can do anything in your life freely whether it's studying , travelling and other like of stuffs 4-you are king of your world Even lord Hanuman ji is single my friend so don't worry

@ss0498

6 ай бұрын

Yes my friend, being single and wealthy is the wet dream for most youngsters today.

Amazon Prime needs to make a web series Titled " Not a Family Man " ⚡⚡⚡

@everydaynotes

Жыл бұрын

😂

@richamishra5335

Жыл бұрын

😂

@thegreatone899

Жыл бұрын

😁🤣🤣

I've been a single renter and I've been a home owner who considered renting a well. As you said, it's a game of probability for me. With bachelors, the biggest issue is accountability. If they make some issues, and have to be kicked out, they'll find it much easier to move out, compared to a family. This reinforces the belief that they're more likely to cause issues, as accountability is low. Family person have more restrictions, as they have to worry about kids, parents, and other norms. So, they're unlikely to cause issues compared to bachelors. Not saying that bachelors cause issues always. I was one. I was quite model person, who didn't drink, didn't have parties, and mostly helpful to neighbors and good with apartment. But, I know many of my friends who weren't. So, it's a probability game, where single are beaten in renter's market. (One way home owners offset this risk, is by asking singles to pay higher rent. But, that's again risk hedging)

@trueword4971

Жыл бұрын

For me, I can live with a girl for just sake of showing that we are in relationship. But what happens if that girl became violent and put me behind the bars in a rape case.

@Mr.SledgeHammer

Жыл бұрын

As an owner of a house given for rent as well as neighbour to single people on rent. I can understand when tenants prefer only married couple and avoid single men/women. Single people have less responsibility and they have the mindset of "we are doing you a favour by renting your house". They are reckless ,keeps the house dirty most of the time and fight with other tenants frequently. This causes the other tenants who are a family to avoid our house because of bachelor's living in other floors. Worst happens when the tenants fails to pay their rent on time or absconds without paying rent, electricity bill and water bill. Single people also fall in the trap of debt,drinking and other activites which not only affects them but the neighbours as well. My neighbouring tenant throw their beer bottles into our bin in front of our house which caused our bin to break and nobody is willing to take responsibility of the same. The owner of my neighbouring house swore on his life that he would keep each house empty if need be but will never give it to a bachelor again due to repeated problems as mentioned above. What needs to change is not the "family only" trend but the mindset of single people who need to act responsibly. This is why owner take an interview to asses them.

@NeerajMishra03

Жыл бұрын

And sir you, you seem much better person who despite having that broken bin by beer bottle incident are not abusing your power of being landlord. You judge people individually and don't generalise. Need more sensible people like you. For I am a person who abide by each n every rule even when 99.99% guys of my age just do not care, I can understand how it feels

@ashwininath1109

Жыл бұрын

If bachelors don't pay rent on time or cause damage to your property, it can very well be recovered from the advance/security deposit that they've given. So what's the issue then?

@AmeyaRanade

Жыл бұрын

Money isn't practical. It's there as deterrent. Home owner will have to spend time fixing things, and cause overall headache. Overall, accountable tenant (via any mechanism) is preferred. Else Home Owner loses RoI

That's true me and my friends struggled for 20-25 days continuously to find an apartment. Many apartments said bachelor's not allowed.

Great work brother.... it's really a topic to be discussed in today's world 👏

That Day will come soon when Apartments & Societies will put hoardings of " Only Singles & Unmarried " Required ⚡⚡⚡⚡

@jayaswati1505

Жыл бұрын

It's better.. Give them taste of their own medicine💊

@rain_jen257

Жыл бұрын

YES WE WILL MAKE THAT HAPPEN

@hehehehehehe7878

Жыл бұрын

​@@jayaswati1505 what taste ? Married couples has thousand different option, it won't affect them much. Maybe after 4-5 centuries.

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

This would never happen.

@jayaswati1505

Жыл бұрын

@@hehehehehehe7878 well we can make our own safe space and wont let marriage certificate maniacs to dictate our life.

I went through all that harassment. This was one of prime reason I left India and moved to US and will never ever return. I was earning well, decent looking, had my own home in Mumbai in my early 30’s and quite successful in my life but I was only judged by people and friends around me ki shaadi nahi hui bichaare ki not on my knowledge skills independent life etc. bas jaha jaao people are obsessed with shaadi … for me, my mental peace is important. But my friends and people around literally pushed me to this level that I was like I am done with this shit. US is way better in such stuff and I peacefully belong here I feel.

@kanakalatahembram1650

Жыл бұрын

I thought Mumbai must be the highest level progressive enough safe haven for bachelors in India!

@ravigangani

Жыл бұрын

@@kanakalatahembram1650 Mumbai is little better. But the bacteria of taunting on marriage is still crawling inside the people … forget about Mumbai …even in USA, If I meet Indian people, first thing they asked - are you married? And this is where I start ignoring people … some people Even lectured me (on first meeting) ki Life me akele rahne se jyada depressing kuch nhi hai shaadi life me sabse important hai … and that too in US … so in the nutshell, this virus is hardcoded in DNA of Indians. I am sorry to say but this is true fact. Americans or other people never ask me about marriage family bullshit, they are mostly interested in discussing interesting ideas or science or information or other valuable stuff.

@offred6013

Жыл бұрын

Yeah just stay away from schools if u do not want to get shot at. Lol

@Ben_Eastwood

Жыл бұрын

@@ravigangani "This virus is hardcoded in DNA of Indians" this is so true and the sad part is many of the folks out there don't even know this hardcoded thing that you have mentioned exist in them, Even I did not know it existed in me and I discovered it recently and I was really shocked and terrified that most of the conversations I had with people I meet were one way or other related to meaningless relationship gossip which ultimately leads to the this question when are you getting married

@crazy_prazy5931

Жыл бұрын

By the how you made the switch to USA. I am also looking to move abroad. Earning decently right now. But fed up with this place.

5:56 the most indian thing i have heard ever in a video like this 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Too good man. Great analysis. 👍

Chad's don't fall for this trap, build ur own home, bring JCB and break their home, steal their gfs and stay in their home 🗿🗿

@Bhakticoded

Жыл бұрын

proper description of how i think when the word "love" pops up in my mind ! Chads only love their parents but don't show it

@Sailed_away

Жыл бұрын

Yogi ji took this advise seriously lol

@godman6591

Жыл бұрын

@@Sailed_away 🤣🤣🤣

@_kartik_chauhan

Жыл бұрын

bhai rehne do itna mat feko

@blaze7177

Жыл бұрын

Yeah get those strong arms not for a chick but to carry groceries for mom 🗿🍷 Cumtrillionaire grindset

Just yesterday I came back from a road trip with my college friends and they grilled me the entire trip just because I'm the only single. Sometimes people felt left out of conversation just because of this.

@ichbinarchitt

Жыл бұрын

How old are you 😂

@akshatsharma8151

Жыл бұрын

That's a greater problem than all the ones mentioned in the video

@gargeebasak9648

11 ай бұрын

That's the problem for single people actually, all of these can be solved with proper laws implemented. This will not change. You'll keep losing friends unfortunately

@self-improvement2166

8 ай бұрын

Good I have less friends but understanding ones.

The video topics are getting batter. Keep making these type of social issue videos ❤

Thank you for choosing such topics 🔥🔥🔥🔥

Even our PM and Chairman of the TATA group are single, and many more successful personalities, it just doesn't matter Love is amazing, it can be any form, and romantic one is also one of them

@Warrukbadikpapa

Жыл бұрын

he may not born , if his parents wanted to be single [ No offence to tata , just logic]

@rain_jen257

Жыл бұрын

@@Warrukbadikpapa what doesnt make sense

@rowdy4725

Жыл бұрын

Pm is not single he was married before and What happened 404 error

@mars_z7851

Жыл бұрын

@@Warrukbadikpapa Remember his father was adopted

@vilayatkhan5919

Жыл бұрын

@@rain_jen257 it makes sense u have to get married it's very important issa aap bhot zimmadar banagoe aapka parents bhi khush rahenga

I am planning to remain single throughout my life and to explore the world. This is the only problem I am facing the most.

@risinggamer3011

Жыл бұрын

Keep it brother

@parassaini9748

Жыл бұрын

Bruh binod moment

@themulticourse2460

Жыл бұрын

Ok I challenge you will regret at the age of 60 if you didn't $uside

@gautamsagar2545

Жыл бұрын

Live abroad that's better

@stepasidebiaach

Жыл бұрын

Bro is a SIGMA CHAD ✊

I still remember when i was coming to India back from meeting my parents in Dubai. I was sitting with a woman who was coming back from Dubai to India to do a function. She was in her 30s and she did her degree in genetics something we bonded over as i am doing my degree in biotechnology. We went over the topic of marriage after talking science and shit and i asked her if she was single and she said she wasn't, now i am single not by choice but she was. She explained that she isn't planning to get married and her explanation is that until she truly believes that she can settle down she isn't going to get married as she said if she marries a person she will live him for decades. That's a lot of time. In 30 years she was able to become a child to a woman. A marriage sometimes is longer than that. When i heard that i realised that marriage is simple. It is a commitment issue and although divorce exists no one truly wants to take it. But unfortunately if the current kind of forced marriages occur divorces will occur obvsly. In a way it's better to separate 2 people who can hurt each other.

well done mohak for talking on all these issues!

Single is not a status it is word that describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoy life without depending others

@Mr.SledgeHammer

Жыл бұрын

Mechanical engineer ho kya? Even mechanical engineers say "Royal mech is not a word it's an emotion" at the start of engineering and end up with "Bhai ,ek job dilade .. Jo kehto ho Karunga.. drilling,cutting ,coding .. kuch bhi " by the end of engineering

@jioboy2676

Жыл бұрын

Stay Single...Stay Happy🙂

@hehehehehehe7878

Жыл бұрын

​@Shreya that's why he added "strong enough" in this world of greed and lust, can't expect love

@lilducky15

Жыл бұрын

Unreal Cope 😭

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

@Shreya Shreya 40s shuru hone ke bad bahut bura lagta he

This video's link was sent to me by an ex-colleague who thinks I want to remain single because I am depressed... As an almost 30 years old single male who has never been in a relationship ,I have faced most of the mentioned discriminations... Most people never understand that being distant from social life is so much liberating for me and makes me happy, not depressed.... Requesting people of "normal" society to do better. Glad I found this channel

@sreerajr6470

Жыл бұрын

I am 33 and I have situations like yours.

@clashwithfriendscolony7195

Жыл бұрын

U will realize when u'll hit ur 50s

@RahulSingh-pu6vv

Жыл бұрын

@@clashwithfriendscolony7195 you are right, I may feel that way in future.... I personally have tried being a part of social life in the past, in my younger days... Didn't like it. And if I regret it in my 50s, i will have nobody else except myself to blame.

@ankanaghosh5163

Жыл бұрын

@@RahulSingh-pu6vv if you are religious you can join Iskcon temple

@RahulSingh-pu6vv

Жыл бұрын

@@ankanaghosh5163 trust me I think about it often 😊😊😊😍....

your topic choices are brilliant bro👏🏻

you have literally touched the so called societal issue and everything is so apt nd related!

If you are single it doesn't mean that you are weak or unable to find a right partner but it could mean that you are strong enough to face problems by yourself.

@mrigankroy

11 ай бұрын

So true

@dangerousmind1121

6 ай бұрын

*But on the other it also means you are coward and timid to take real life challenge where you can find a proper balance.*

@AkshatBakshi-jq4wk

8 күн бұрын

Coping

It’s not about just being single , being in a relationship is way too hard in our country . For some reasons being married is the only way out .

@ramchandrajadhav2019

Жыл бұрын

Kare to kare kaya, bole to bole kya?

@rahulanand5801

Жыл бұрын

@@ramchandrajadhav2019 kuch nhi ignore karo common single ho k hum society ka sochenge faayda kya fir single hone ka? mera seedha maan na h unki suno jo tumhe paalega yaani maa papa bas

@adityaverma1298

Жыл бұрын

and once you are married there is no way out

@rahulanand5801

Жыл бұрын

@@adityaverma1298 divorce murder ka naam suna h

@adityaverma1298

Жыл бұрын

@@rahulanand5801 didnt expected that

So relatable... Feels society see as rejected people not willingly single

Indian education and now...Indian society Why are they soo worse???

Couples be like, " Agar hum dukhe h to, singles bhi dukhe rahega". Singles ko kush koi nhi dekhna chahta.

hey mohak i totally agree on the context that our Indian societies basis is marriage but on the topic u mentioned of singles adopting children and the ashram or wherever the child is being adopted from tells the person to get married and then adopt . i think theres a reason behind that as a child with no father figure around as we row older it becomes difficult to deal with men as we have in our deep subconscious that they will leave us too . for a childs psychological development it is very very important to have both parents around as the roles of both the genders in our lives indirectly tells us how the outside world will be and how to deal with people later in life . if u adopt a child being single they'll only know one parent and the other half will be missing and their cognitive development will be affected . also as a person who loves kids and would like to adopt in the future i would want the best for them but at the same time if i can only provide one parent for the child and there is no male figure around ill be doing injustice to the child and i consider it selfish . we adults adopt when 'we' feel like and even after that if we cant provide bare minimum for the inner development then its a failure . then we are basically adopting becoz 'we' like kids and they bring 'us' fun rather than thinking about them and how can we help them grow . '

Thank's For Covering 🙏

According to me singles are really responsible for the flat situation. Most singles create chaos in an apartment and flats. I had to suffer getting evicted from a flat and disrespect due to my flatmate's nuisances.

@lschandankumar3661

Жыл бұрын

Bhai shach bolne se yahi hota hai aapko like nhi mili na comment me koi meri tarah reply diya

@archanasingh3806

Жыл бұрын

yeah i have single Neighbours and one played extremely loud music everyday whole day even at 2 am in the night so much so that my father had to go and shout at them my father is usually very patient we bore it for like a month. now that boy has moved out of the room there are some more bachelors living but they do party like once a week so it is tolerable and one of them is very shaant so we have no problem with him so i guess it also depends on the type of person

There needs to be a conversation that both single and married people have faults ABD we need to make people better rather than spew hate against each other

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

Young adults especially, 19-24 yo are nuisance. But if somebody's single and over the age of 28-30 they usually don't have this problem they get flat so easily. Because wo itna hallagulla nahi krte he

Mohak, glad to see this topic. Just wanted to know how your research works? I read you are based out of the US, so wanted to understand how you get on ground information for these topics

Mohak I just love your topic choice ❣️

Being single i can confirm tenants creating drama , lacking social acceptance, pressure for marriage etc i faced all these things 😶it feels like having a fight against the whole thinking of society..but i will remain strong 🙏n self dependent always

@thesaiyanmindset

Жыл бұрын

@Shreya 💀 religion makes unity among a community

@thesaiyanmindset

Жыл бұрын

@lord 💀 how bro?

@aafreenalam3223

Жыл бұрын

@@lord-ww3qf don't get sad because of them tell them you are enough for yourself n you don't need anyone 😋tell them" a strong personality don't need nobody "

@danish6958

Жыл бұрын

No one can be single for long time he or she become depressed or just mentally disturbed

@Nezukoochan20

Жыл бұрын

​@@kavyanshsingh6381 read his whole comment

Me who is single watching this video 😂😂 And ab pta chala ki koi humaari pareshaani bhi samjhta hai

The topic on which video is made is interesting and has lot to learn from the deep analysis in the subject...Truth is not all are bad..

there is also an element of cultural social programing which strengthens this.Ceremonies are designed to achieve this.For an average person who havent had any athletic,academic artistic or otherwise,any achievements ,something like a marriage ceremony gives them a sense of achievement,this could have been that only time in their life,where there is a special event,in their honor ,where they are congratulated ,given gifts, and their friends ,family and social circles come together to celebrate them,for those people this would feel like a validation that they have been seeking their whole life and those naive people wants to 'share' that experience with others and goes around and tells other people to do what they did.

Have you ever heard the term "single shaming"? Sure, we have heard about terms like "fat shaming," which generally refers to people shaming a certain body type. Similarly to this, "single shaming" is when people have a negative attitude towards people who are single after a certain age. This is something that is casually thrown around all the time.

37 year old man and a proud and happy single My family doesn't bug me but once in a while some oversmart relative try to give me free advise. I usually don't engage because that's only a waste of time.

@SunLake-pr1di

Жыл бұрын

Right decision taken by U sir

@Dd_12348

Жыл бұрын

proud

This is the first channel I saw on KZread which raised this growing issue... Singles .... doing a great job👍👍

Great work as always

I am 33 and will remain single. I haven't faced this problem first hand but have seen boards saying "Bachelors are not allowed". No wonder why world considers Indians to be racist.

@Anish-Kumar-Verma

Жыл бұрын

How this is racism 🙄. Its more of a stereotype problem.

@__nimitjain__

Жыл бұрын

@@Anish-Kumar-Verma stereotype and racism so interconnected bro 😣

@Anish-Kumar-Verma

Жыл бұрын

@@__nimitjain__ that might be the case bro. But i dont think single person are of another race 😂

@Mr.SledgeHammer

Жыл бұрын

As an owner of a house given for rent as well as neighbour to single people on rent. I can understand when tenants prefer only married couple and avoid single men/women. Single people have less responsibility and they have the mindset of "we are doing you a favour by renting your house". They are reckless ,keeps the house dirty most of the time and fight with other tenants frequently. This causes the other tenants who are a family to avoid our house because of bachelor's living in other floors. Worst happens when the tenants fails to pay their rent on time or absconds without paying rent, electricity bill and water bill. Single people also fall in the trap of debt,drinking and other activites which not only affects them but the neighbours as well. My neighbouring tenant throw their beer bottles into our bin in front of our house which caused our bin to break and nobody is willing to take responsibility of the same. The owner of my neighbouring house swore on his life that he would keep each house empty if need be but will never give it to a bachelor again due to repeated problems as mentioned above. What needs to change is not the "family only" trend but the mindset of single people who need to act responsibly. This is why owner take an interview to asses them.

@FirstNameLastName-tm4tg

Жыл бұрын

Did you even watch the video? It's completely egalitarian discrimination against all bachelors. Wether it young, old, rich, poor, black or white. ALL bachelors shall be discriminated!

Whatever you do just don't get into a wrong relationship, all the problems as a single are nothing infront of problems you'll face in a wrong relationship

@DipayanPyne94

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. I already have health problems because I became a victim of healthcare fraud, last year. I am only earning money to look for solutions to the problems even in other countries, if necessary.

@hyperbeastnimit4190

Жыл бұрын

@@DipayanPyne94 I wish to God you get well soon and find solutions to all your problems, don't loose hope brother

@DipayanPyne94

Жыл бұрын

Wish to god ? Oh dear. Please stop. I know you mean well and I thank you for that. However, if god really existed, he would have protected me from the crime in the first place. You need to understand reality properly. I would love to help you understand it. Only when you have understood it properly will you start caring about justice in the right way.

@hyperbeastnimit4190

Жыл бұрын

@@DipayanPyne94 I used "god" for formality here even I believe in nigurn bhakti and about thanking God, well you're still alive with all your senses perfectly fine and have food in your stomach so I guess god haven't been that bad to you. I agree what happened to you was bad and your situation is uncomfortable but trust me it could have gotten way worse

@DipayanPyne94

Жыл бұрын

That is a bad philosophy of life, imo. To constantly tell people to be grateful is bad. If someone loses his or her eyes, will you then say that they should be grateful that they have their other senses intact ? If they lose most or all of them, will you then say that they should be grateful to be simply alive, even if like a vegetable ? I hope not I am glad that it didn't get any worse. But it's bad enough. I have been EXTREMELY stressed for more than 1 year now. Only one life. So much to do. Career. Savings. Family. Etc etc etc. And you say this ? I don't wanna make you feel bad. You just need to understand reality. Nobody knows how the universe began. About how life began. Let's not assume. Let's understand that humans have free will (a compatibilist one, but still) and create a system a justice system that maximizes well being.

That's why many people move to other countries and blossom there. And we complain of "brain drain".

Thankyu for making this video 😢

Thank u , i am actually a trainee engineer in INDIAN RAILWAYS and i faced the same thing ..thanx for raising our issue thanx mohak bhai , love from bhopal

SINGLE isn't a status. It's a word that describes a person who's strong enough to enjoy life without depending on others.

@dangerousmind1121

6 ай бұрын

*YEAH SINGLE ON THE OTHER HAND IS ALSO A SITUATION WHERE ONE IS LOOKED UPON AS HAVING SOME DEFECT OR IS COWARD TO TAKE THE REAL LIFE CHALLENGE TO LEAVE A LEGACY IN THIS WORLD.*

Kamal hai bhai bade sahi topics lekar aata hai

Awesome video very informative It was when I come to north it will be use full thank u give if models like this.🙏

I think as the number of singles will increase the indian society will get more accepting of this, ofcourse this will probably take a decade or maybe longer

@hehehehehehe7878

Жыл бұрын

Decade ? Lol. It will take centuries.

i am 19 in my graduation today i saw one girl and a boy sleeping on the same desk with their faces facing each other ... it was such a beautiful moment

@osowiecwalking9434

Жыл бұрын

LOL.

@Hindu428

Жыл бұрын

Lol 😆

@everydaynotes

Жыл бұрын

😁

@wewin7899

Жыл бұрын

I dont want to get married but i want to intimate atleast once and for that i have to marry

@Life_isstrange

Жыл бұрын

It was me