What a horrible niece/daughter. I swear, you can really see who the greedy, spiteful ones are in the family (and even outside the family) when someone dies. It's so sad.

@kiahhh444

2 жыл бұрын

Horrible is a harsh word, she’s a young kid, it’s sad that it falls on her anyway

@TheAATheorist

2 жыл бұрын

@@kiahhh444 Nah, you're right. "Horrible" probably is a bit harsh. She's definitely suffering herself. I suppose I just hate to see families get ripped apart over something silly like $438 and whatever the change was; just pisses me off. And even though I was a little too much on this, I do hope that all of them are able to heal from this. Losing a loved one is not easy, I was the one being harsh.

@nevermindlaughs

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao she’s 20, I know 40yr olds with worse attitudes and more privilege

@marilynwillett804

2 жыл бұрын

@@kiahhh444 no young kid, she's stiff necked and non co-operative,

@marilynwillett804

2 жыл бұрын

@@nevermindlaughs thats why she should be pliable and easy going at 20, shes already bitter.

The niece has no remorse, we all know she emptied her dad's account 🙄

@Kimi1968ful

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!

@Sherwoody

2 жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s already spent the money.

@stormy6454

2 жыл бұрын

@@Sherwoody That was my first thought, that money is long gone.

@janaecatt2407

2 жыл бұрын

How could she empty the account when grandma is the one with the card. the grandmother is in possession of the money right now

@ima4366

2 жыл бұрын

@@janaecatt2407 The money is gone.

What the defendant meant to say was "I've learned absolutely nothing".

@C3yl0

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly that in a literal sense. Lol

I love how the judge does her best always to keep family together.

@payableondeath9091

2 жыл бұрын

Her name should be Cantelme not Maritza

@dorisbrannon5141

2 жыл бұрын

Good decision. Neice should be ashamed!

@YDKM-dx8ij

2 жыл бұрын

I've noticed that too, it's so commendable ❤️

@masoodismybaby

2 жыл бұрын

Must be the Latina values ✨✨

@minnie1379

2 жыл бұрын

I see is as toxic tbh what good is keeping family together when you're gonna be miserable in that family when dealing with their toxic ways.

At the end when she said, “I won’t give up on, I didn’t give up on her dad, so RIP Jay, I love you” that hit me 😭😭

"Real family won't send you to court." Ma'am, real family wouldn't steal from family. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@Monika-bc3dq

9 ай бұрын

THIS! I'm always so annoyed when Harvey asks people if they would sue family kver money and 95% of the time they say no "family is family", "blood is thicker than water" completely ignoring the fact that in proposed scenario it is family who screw you over in the fiest place.

She probably felt that she didn’t have to pay back her aunt because she’s family. Or that she could pay her back whenever she felt like. Wrong either way.

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

Yes. Also she probably thought her age would give her a pass. No excuses for being deceptive. At any age.

@eatendeer3483

2 жыл бұрын

Thats what I was thinking she probably felt like she didn't need to pay her aunt back because they're family but realized her aunt was expecting to get her money back and wasn't going to go away I feel like that's why she was trying to block her aunt from going with her to get the death certificate translated because after that the next stop would have been the bank and the aunt would have been with her and the first thing the aunt would have expected is for her niece to put the money in her hands.

@C3yl0

2 жыл бұрын

Yes. Unfortunately, my 19 yr old daughter has that same mentality and it is beyond comprehension.

@faznout

Жыл бұрын

I'm kind of split down the middle about it. First of all, if I was the aunt that little $400 is nothing and I would just say forget it and never give her money again. If it was $4,000 or more then that's a different story. Also it's not uncommon at all for several family and friends to chip in for the cost of someone's funeral and not expect it to be paid back to them. Especially when it's immediate family putting in the money. But I also get the feeling that the niece probably did finally gain access to her father's account and spent all the money and now has nothing to show for it. Which is not uncommon at all after someone dies when family gets a hold to the deceased bank account.

The defendant radiates smugness, belligerence, and crassness.

When the defendant said "Nothing is going through my head" and "Family is more important, except for this"...is all I need to know. The aunt is a good role model.

@bravo2966

2 жыл бұрын

The only correct thing she said was when she said nothing was going through her head.

@wynottgivemore9274

Жыл бұрын

That's what I came here to address, she even said it herself ...nothing is going through her mind,and nothing the judge said got in either 😔so sad.

Wow, the defendant lies and keeps the plaintiffs money, and she says, “I can’t believe SHE did this to me!” What?! You (the defendant) are the one disgracing your family and your fathers memory. Shameful.

@APilgrimInAFallenWorld2030

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, usually when someone plays up the victim role and is dramatic, they are usually the one in the wrong. They figure if they blame it on someone else, nobody would see their true character!

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

@@APilgrimInAFallenWorld2030 I am sure if the niece reads your comment she will not understand probably never larned the word character.

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

Also, her age is absolutely no excuse. The brain function growth is not complete until approx 25 but a person's moral compass is generally fully formed. A liar at 20 is a liar for life. She will get better at deception as she matures.

@payableondeath9091

2 жыл бұрын

@Lawson Patterson then when she said the Plantiff said she could make that money in like a day, AND?! Like WTF you don't get it lady you still owe per your agreement for your dead relative🤦ngl I think this is why I see so many families with donation car washes bcuz they just can't get it together when someone goes like these two ultimately showed

@TK-ge2gh

2 жыл бұрын

Get the feeling there is other animosity from when her father was alive. No mention was made of the girl’s mother or any other family members taking sides in this case.

Little girl, you pay back family when you owe them money. You are as the judge said, “dead wrong”.

@colindong7316

Жыл бұрын

It's not that easy if you have a shit job and barely making rent. She should be honest and say she's broke.

@adammiller9179

Жыл бұрын

@@colindong7316 Did you even watch the episode?

13:15 the defendant is craz, craz! She's upset that her aunt took her to court over something so petty, but it's not petty enough for her to pay what she owed? She's better off cutting ties with her!

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! She's the one being petty. She lies about not being able to get time off work. She forced her lovely aunt into a corner where she had no other options, except losing the money which is obviously rightly & legally hers. The niece believes because she's young & her father was the aunts brother that the "grown ups" should take care of everything. It's time She grew up! 😊

@tiarast628

2 жыл бұрын

I waited for your time stamp.... and lord, she's so confused.

This is why people need LIFE INSURANCE!!

@ashleywallace5755

2 жыл бұрын

I made the same comment

@NiaMSnow

2 жыл бұрын

What does life insurance do???

@shelbyclark3733

2 жыл бұрын

@@NiaMSnow depending on ur plan it can go towards your funeral and earthly expenses such as debt or bill cancelations etc. It's so ur family isn't trying to come up with all this money to pur you to rest. Many people buy their plots headstones and services so their family doesn't have to pay it and also get life insurance that is given to loved ones to help them out etc

@NiaMSnow

2 жыл бұрын

@@shelbyclark3733 ohhhh ty

@janiesehenderson

2 жыл бұрын

Life insurance doesnt cover suicide, my grandfather died from a suicide attempt and he wasnt covered by life insurance

When the judge said “I’m telling you that you’re wrong” you could tell by her reaction that she is in denial. She thinks she did the right thing and is very stubborn.

@phuckyouqweef7927

11 ай бұрын

This is the kind of ignorance is why I watch this show.... but it somehow still hurts my soul

The niece is an immature kid who needs to start growing up.

@aprilpinketon2567

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, a kid that is being burdened with things that shouldn't be. I lost my Dad at 20 and bc he was a responsible adult everything was taken care of. I know one thing for certain, if he didn't have everything set up the adults in my family wouldn't have looked to the kids. The adults would have pulled together and made it happen. Ppl don't do things like they once used to. We want to look at kids (which in her case sounds like she's had a tough start having irresponsible parents) and want them to grow up fast bc they had to or bc they haven't had decent parents. It's ridiculous. She's 20 and should be in college somewhere getting a good start. Not this shitty start she was handed. Over $438.00 smh.

@kyuubisgirl3232

2 жыл бұрын

@@aprilpinketon2567 She’s not a kid when it’s convienent and an adult that makes a living wage. She lied to her aunt and was dodging her. She’s being a bad family member by putting all the responsibility on the other family member(s). Death regrettably occurs when we don’t expect it but that doesn’t mean you don’t take care of business to honour your father. My niece lost her mom when she was 8 and she’s even more mature than this 20 year old. And like the judge says, when people take others to court it’s always about the principle, not the money.

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

@@aprilpinketon2567 This has nothing to do with age. It is solely about honesty. At any age. Her moral compass is not correct & she will hone her skills of deception as she matures. A proven liar, in court.

@adammiller9179

Жыл бұрын

Yes, very immature. The video title is spot on: "Petty"!

She's young and mad because her aunt really sued her... She feels like family wouldn't sue you for such a small amount... It's called principle. Imagine telling this story 20yrs from now...🤦‍♀️

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

The daughter will still be having other pay her way 20 years from now. Takes no responsibility for herself.

@humaneleaguelancPA

2 жыл бұрын

She feels it's a small amount for her Auntie but I guess it really was a Big amount cause she wasn't able to pay it!

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

@@tcurry1531 I agree completely. At 20 the rational part of the human brain hasn't fully developed, not til around 25 but I believe the moral compass has. This niece will only get better at deception as she matures.

@helenbutoyi3944

2 жыл бұрын

It may seem small but where I come from the amount has two zeroes at the end & is therefore substantial

@niece585

2 жыл бұрын

It's the principal

She’s young, she’ll learn eventually. I believe she got that money from the account and she just don’t want to give it up

@tangajTANG

2 жыл бұрын

I wonder if she is using that money to save for something and taking money out would lose interest? There is a selfish reason that she doesn't want to touch that money. Imo

@tangajTANG

2 жыл бұрын

After hearing her final interview, that is a nasty selfish little wench. I am convinced that money is being accumulated for her benefit.

@tashanapink7688

2 жыл бұрын

@@tangajTANG I agree.

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

@@tangajTANG It was her dads money not hers. I would bet there is no will so the few hundred dollars in the account will probably go to the mother of the man who died. She should not have assumed it would go to her.

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

I don't believe she will learn. At age 20 we are not fully mature as far as our brain development is concerned, not until approx 25 but we do have a good grasp on which direction our moral compass is facing. If she's a proven liar at 20 then she's most certainly a liar for life.

The defendant is SO wrong!! She's already cleaned out the account, got caught in her lie by her boss, and is selfish and petulant, AND dishonest for not paying back her aunt. What a brat!!

The defendant is a brat. Where is her mom to set her straight? smh

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

She was brought up to believe that taking things from others is OK, she is entitled to it.

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

She learned how to be dishonest from somewhere. She will only get better at deception as she matures.

@michaelbrandon1222

2 жыл бұрын

Her dad was suppose to teach her that, did a poor job probably since he was so unhealthy.

The attitude of the niece. Piece of work.

My dad passed almost a year ago. I'm so thankful my brothers and I were able to work everything out without any problems

@msfoster2468

7 ай бұрын

I hope I don’t ever have any problems either if I’m ever in this situation. Family go through this all the time.

@someonenamedjenn_

7 ай бұрын

@@msfoster2468 Yeah I was shocked tbh. There was no will. But we all wanted things fair and evenly. I was the executor of the estate. However my brothers were not very helpful with everything, like moving out my dad's house

In this case I really commend the Judge's comments to the defendant. Yes, the neice is the problem and the neice needs to understand that and mend her ways.

@Drmefixu2

2 жыл бұрын

Spell check then it makes sense

@Drmefixu2

2 жыл бұрын

NIECE

@zigtown

Жыл бұрын

@@Drmefixu2 nah it made sense. Look past a minor spelling error. Just need to get your 2 cents in somewhere each day, huh?

Here i go once again straight to the comments and i gotta stop doing that because y'all gossip too much😂😂😂

The niece will get her wake up call. You don’t put family in a hard situation she doesn’t know what her aunt had to do with that “little bit” of money 🤨 the privilege must be overwhelming.

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

That "little bit of money" line is such a riddle! It's a contradiction. If it is so little then do the right thing & return the loan to the aunt. She is a proven liar & will always be one 😊

This is why life insurance, wills, and estate plans are so important.

@escalona8764

2 жыл бұрын

So that there is more turmoil between the family? My life Insurance is to cover my funeral expenses and donating the rest to whoever. No one gets it. Every single one of my kids will work hard for their money.

@christinespain-stewart7115

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you 100% you must treat your family right. This shows you the character of the person.

@roxiestarr7124

2 жыл бұрын

We had all of that and we still ended like this case.

Her last second side eye towards the judge says everything.

Lots of people think just because one has a little extra money then they can just miss it. That isn't how life works.

Just because it ends up in small claims - doesn’t mean they don’t love you. It’s better to look at it as a third party ending a dispute that has no familial or friendly ties without it being a complete stranger.

@melvill4185

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed! I saw one case where two brothers were like we just came for you to tell us who is right. Then they left laughing and hugging each other.

@rhiabeatingo9107

2 жыл бұрын

@@melvill4185 omg i want to watch that. What is the title called?

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

An excellent point. It really is a mediation with no (hopefully) emotional biases. It's just that as a society we have laws to assist us in cases where we don't see "eye to eye". 😊

@KrazeeClark

2 жыл бұрын

That's the way I see some of the cases as well. Judge M. becomes more of a mediator than just a Judge. 👍

$400 isn't something "small" 😞 prayers for this family 🙏🏼

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

She's talking in riddles when she says this. If $400 is "small" then pay it back! 😊

@KayTee979

2 жыл бұрын

$400 is ridiculously small. Especially when it comes to family-- you really want to put $400 between you and a relationship with a family member. It is so not worth it. Especially when that $400 is sitting in the bank account of your deceased relative and it will cost you nothing but time to go retrieve it.

@exorpiona

2 жыл бұрын

@@KayTee979 its the principle. $400 can do a lot

@shaunhowerton9262

2 жыл бұрын

@@KayTee979 the point you're arguing can be used for both sides. If it's so small why did she not pay it back? SHE is also letting it come between her and a family member as she is not following through with what she said she would do.

@noname-ip9xe

2 жыл бұрын

@@KayTee979 400 is a lot for certain people, hell, it's taking me around 4 months just to save up 300, 400 would do a lot for me rn.

The Aunt seems like such a kind soul. The niece is absolutely horrible. I hope she’s grown from this and I hope they have rekindled their relationship.

"You're not right. I don't know who in your family is telling you you're right." So often a change of heart on the part of a defendant is caused by advice from family and friends.

In my years of living I have buried enough good and bad family members. I attended each funeral and wanted to speak. Sometimes it is better not to say anything. Honor the dead by honoring the ones still living.

The defendant is a jerk and doesn't care about her aunt to get her money

Niece brain is still growing. Hopefully she'll learn to be understanding as she continues to grow

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

The rational part of the human brain isn't fully developed til age 25 but but I believe a person's moral compass is. This self centred niece will only get better at deception as she matures.

@elaine5446

2 жыл бұрын

@@cousinsister69 I'm a bit more hopeful

@clifffischer4409

2 жыл бұрын

@@cousinsister69 I agree

@payableondeath9091

2 жыл бұрын

@@cousinsister69 I honestly doubt it with that attitude🤣

@gabrielafreeman94

2 жыл бұрын

Well hopefully she did this episode was years prior hopefully by then she grew up mentally

There's a reason why the words "young" and "dumb" are often put together. Maritza is extremely immature and one day, she'll grow to regret her actions surrounding this matter.

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

I doubt it.

@jenerin905

2 жыл бұрын

I hope she grows to regret her actions, but she may stay young and entitled. One thing my parents taught me was no one owes you anything in life, not even them. If you depend on yourself and you don't feel entitled to things that belong to other people, when they actually gift you something, show gratitude. But you are never entitled to things.

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

I believe at 20, even tho the rational part of the human brain isn't yet fully developed, not til around 25, the moral compass has. She knows right from wrong. She was proved to be a liar & will only get better at deception as she matures.

@joejo6637

2 жыл бұрын

@@cousinsister69 not sure if turning 25 fixes the problems tbh. It’s not about the age but one’s nature. Besides, I think 20 is young but old enough to know better than that

@bravo2966

2 жыл бұрын

"Beauty fades, dumb is forever" - Judge Judy

What an ungrateful kid. Smh your aunt helped you put and thats how you behave? The kid couldn't even take any ownership.

The niece's logic is very flawed

@getin3949

2 жыл бұрын

It isn't even logic, it's greed.

In my opinion. This is about blocking the Aunt from knowing about the money. There is no reason to not get it translated and then the niece has access. That is the issue.

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

I have a feeling that a few other family, like grandma and mother were telling her what to do, being an adult is doing the right thing and she sure did not do it.

@Decopainterandtea

2 жыл бұрын

@@tcurry1531 Agreed.

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

I think that the aunt already knows about the money 😊

@Decopainterandtea

2 жыл бұрын

@@cousinsister69 I meant anounts rtc but you are right, I wasn't clear lol

@SunShine-tr5cw

2 жыл бұрын

Didn't the defendant say her grandmother has his debit card? It's really likely the niece just used it & spent the money in the account & that's why she all of a sudden didn't want to go w the aunt to translate the death certificate. Because she found a way around it

I’m loving Judge Milian. She’s bringing the wisdom to these families letting them know what’s most important!!!! The niece is hardened her heart needs healing and her mind needs growth

I lost my dad all of a sudden just last year when I was age 22. If my family needed $400 to bury my dad, I would have hustled for it if I didn’t have it. If my aunt offered to put $400 up she might not have truly had, I would have busted my behind to get her that money back. Family means more than money. It’s hard enough to leave a dad, let alone a aunt as well.

Her father would be so disappointed in her 😔

Defendant is so young and immature.... I hope she'll reflect back on the video and change her mind.

@Joesmoothdog

2 жыл бұрын

She won't. This is the current generation almost in a nutshell.

@katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364

2 жыл бұрын

@@Joesmoothdog Yeah that's too bad

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

At age 20,even tho the rational part of the human brain isn't fully developed yet, not til around 25, I believe that the moral compass is. She knows right from wrong. She's a proven liar & will only get better at deception as she matures.

This is so strange. As the sister I can’t imagine wanting to be reimbursed. As the daughter, be grateful that someone could step in and help since it seems the Dad didn’t have his affairs in order. “Something so small” we’ll pay her back.

@wilmadavilus

2 жыл бұрын

I see where you’re coming from but we’re not really sure the aunt’s financial obligations that allowed her to assist. She put it on a credit card and not out of a savings account or anything of that sort. Another angle is the funds are available and sitting in an account. It’s not like she had to “work” to pay her aunt back. It’s the principle of the situation. I can tell you when my mother died my siblings and I had to make a lot of sacrifices to give her a proper burial. We were all struggling at that time and even had to go into our 401K to put in our contributions. It’s not as black and white as it always seems. Even if it were a $1 borrowed…keep your word! The “love” of money is the root…people act real funny when it’s time to pay back.

@IssaYouTube

2 жыл бұрын

@Wilma Davilus we also don't know the daughter's financial obligations. That's now the daughter's problem to get her dad's affairs in order; maybe she needed it. Being that she's young she may not know how to translate that convo with her aunt, as the top comment said in the beginning, its strange, as a sister what u put in should be your portion I would not ask for it back from my niece who's now probably having to deal and pay way more for having to tie up all her dads loose ends. I recently lost my dad from covid, I few months ago 😢 and my family n I are STILL going through it n getting his affairs in order, I had to pay for so many things in the beginning of his funeral process that it left I huge financial hole in my savings, infact I have no more savings because it all. 💔

@wilmadavilus

2 жыл бұрын

@@IssaKZread I hear you sis…there’s a lot we won’t ever know for sure but her presentation and words spoken really said a lot about her disposition in this whole thing to me. It’s just sad all around! I don’t think I would ever sue my niece but the hurt and emotions would be difficult to forget:(

@wilmadavilus

2 жыл бұрын

@@IssaKZread Also…I’m sorry for your recent loss. Loss my mother as well and it’s a LOT to deal with!💞

@bran9730

2 жыл бұрын

@@IssaKZread My condolences 🙏

She already spent that money… that’s why she kept dodging her

I think that the thing that’s being left unsaid is that the aunt doesn’t really NEED the money. So the niece feels like she’s making a big deal out of something when she doesn’t even need it. Unfortunately, she doesn’t have to need it in order for her to expect her niece to do what she said she would do.

Ungrateful little brat. And I do understand that she has gone through a lot. But you can’t treat ppl like crap. Especially the ppl that are actually trying to help you. It’s so sad. Hopefully down the line she’ll do some growing up and she and her aunt can have that relationship back.

It always amazes me when someone like the defendant says 'I can't believe she would do this over something so petty', but that goes in both directions, she is being petty for not fulfilling her obligation. She's only 20 and she's already this nasty, she will only get worse as she gets older...

Ready for my daily dose of her honor.

@32icon

2 жыл бұрын

This is the comment. 😂

@dabaddie5504

2 жыл бұрын

😇😂😅

How sad that the young girl shows to the world how horrible she is and still stands her ground at the end. She has no shame, no soul. It is said that the move of money is the root of all evil. I have no doubt at all she wanted all the money in her dad's account.

That was great that you talked to her judge Milan. Made me tear up.

I believe the niece did all that so she could hold the money and not have to reimburse the aunt at all.

It’s sad, if she keeps behaving like that she has a hard life ahead of her. I know siblings right now who wouldn’t put a dollar towards a burial if there are heirs. Her aunt chipped in and went above and beyond. Such a nasty young woman, she has a lonely life ahead of her.

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. People are making excuses for her because of her age but at 20 you have a fully developed moral compass. ie We know right from wrong. This niece is deceptive & will only become better at lying as she matures.

@peryole

2 жыл бұрын

@@cousinsister69 and I don’t understand why at 20years old I was already living in my own house, employed full time, and in college, paid all my bills on my own.

What I don't understand is, how could they make an agreement to have the aunt paid back with money from the deceased bank account, if they didn't know how much money was in the account to begin with.

@lynne709

2 жыл бұрын

I’m surprised the judge didn’t catch that. This was a bad plan from the beginning.

Ugh I hate when people say “we was” instead of “we were”.

@sarahroxanne

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Was about to comment the same exact thing!

@loriwhiston1587

2 жыл бұрын

Spelling, grammar and pronunciation has taken a big nosedive in the past couple of decades. To be fair though, English is probably not a Puerto Rican's first language. They certainly speak better English than I speak Spanish. I've noticed a trend for urban people to speak black ghetto "speak". Why is baby momma so prevalent? ('For example). And black ghetto use of "axes" instead of "asked"? Are people celebrating their ignorance and attitude? Why has this become so cool? Are we devolving? Bad education opportunities for poor people?

Don't volunteer money if you don't have it. This is disgusting

Ayeeeee!! I’m early ! I was here 4 mins after upload. I’m officially an addict. But the two before me are worse 😂😂😂

I lost my father to brain cancer two years ago at 24. I'm still grieving. My younger sister was 16 when he passed. Our whole family fell apart from grief and I have been estranged from them. I wasn't even invited to the scattering of his ashes so I have no closure. I miss my family and feel like an orphan. Despite my attempts, grief and pride get in the way of them accepting me as a daughter and sister.

@generationalcursebreaker5397

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe you have a special calling on your life.

@widowrumstrypze9705

2 жыл бұрын

I've found *WAY* more compassion, strength and loyalty from my Chosen Family than I ever did from my blood relations. May you attract positive, good people in your life, you DESERVE it!

@little_devotchka3970

2 жыл бұрын

@@widowrumstrypze9705 Thank you so much ❤️

@Little_Devotchka

2 жыл бұрын

@missy loves emeka I'm so sorry for your losses 🥺❣️🌹 it's so hard to deal with the grief it is debilitating and your life is never the same again you just feel lost. Please try and stay strong ❤️❤️

I lost my grandma four years ago and I understand her pain I had a cousin who was never around wanted stuff I said no

What a beautiful aunt she has there who has been there for her especially at a time like this. At 20 it still shows her immature. She still has alot of growing up to do? I know she's hurt but she is blinding herself to her responsibilities. Better days are coming You have been through a lot. Soon it'll be time for you to shine. Never forget who helped you when you needed them And helped you before you even had to ask? Family is very important.. She seems like a wonderful Aunt.

That’s why it’s so important to have life insurance!! You can also add a POD(paid on death) person to your bank account should you die so that YOU can access the remaining funds. My mom had everything set up before she died. We fought over nothing!

The niece is thinking “She knows we need that money why is she asking for it at all?” and “If she really loved my dad she wouldn’t ask for the money at all..” Typical 20 year old

Damn this is a sad story. You live and you learn.

She has a lot of growing up to do. A million people can feel one way and she feels the opposite. In her mind everyone else is wrong.

How wonderful to see the judge employ compassion and wisdom calmly and firmly. Money issues ruin so many families - the bratty niece has some growing up to do.

*Her face!!!...You know that face when your caught!!!...man that's it!!*

@joejo6637

2 жыл бұрын

Your comment got its own font. How’d undo that Lol

This girl is only 20 years old. As someone who lost their dad at 25 I can say it was hard to come to terms with the loss. But to expect her to pay for her dad’s funeral is a little much. If she was my niece id never ask her to pay. 2 years ago this girl was considered a dependent child. If she was in college she would still be. I just don’t agree.

@wilmadavilus

2 жыл бұрын

She’s not paying for her dad’s funeral. She’s giving back money that is sitting in his account to pay back what the aunt “borrowed” to her. It’s the principle and the sneakiness of it all that’s sad. The aunt put it on her credit card so obviously she didn’t have the funds readily available to herself and made a sacrifice as well. Show appreciation by paying the money back that is not really coming out of your own pocket.

@ButtonsCasey

2 жыл бұрын

@@wilmadavilus She put it on her debit card. Aunt had the funds.

@ButtonsCasey

2 жыл бұрын

So who's supposed to pay for funerals then if the person doesn't have a spouse but has adult kids?

@mikadre12

2 жыл бұрын

The grandmother has the card and access to the account as well though.

@amuthanshan

2 жыл бұрын

The amounts matter and that's why the girl is morally right (although legally wrong). The 20 year old girl believes the aunt ( and aunt's 3 brothers) are more wealthy than she is and hence the siblings should pay off the remaining funeral costs (£438 which is approx £100 from each sibling) and not use her dad's money (he only had £800 left in his bank account) because that money the girl will eventually inherit and her dad would want that, right? The girl thinks she needs her dad's money more than the aunt does, which is true because she is young and that money would matter more to her.

Oh, if she insists on remaining like that, despite Judge Milian’s words, life is definitely going to teach her lessons.

Defendant needs to return that damn bag she’s struggling with. She seem more interested in the bag’s well-being than paying her Aunt.

@aaa-pp

Жыл бұрын

The money is in the bag😄

The niece deep down knows that going into her father’s account to pay his own funeral expenses means he’s really gone. It’s an emotional thing and nothing to actually do with the aunt. It’s deep seated and I don’t think even SHE understands this is a protective mechanism to avoid facing that pain. Once that’s paid off and the his final affairs are over with, she has to face that he’s really actually gone.

@dmills7080

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing.

Her ‘feel bad for owing another 120’ is what got me Lol. How petty .

That young woman needs a reality check!

Aunt Carmen is clearly in the right & she is mighty fine 🙂 as well !

This young lady just doesn’t get it. Hopefully she will do what’s right and they can move forward.

She probably just hoped the aunt would give up on the money and forget so the niece could eventually just keep it for herself.

@NellieKAdaba

2 жыл бұрын

Yes.

Oh dear... The aunt did the right thing holding her niece accountable. Niece, get it together.

I'm thinking she probably could've let this one go.. RIP to their pops/bother hope they move past this bc life's too short💯

@gracegreen1859

2 жыл бұрын

Clearly she doesn’t have the financial status to just let it go.

@Ommizal23

2 жыл бұрын

@@gracegreen1859 would you take your neice to court for $400 if her father/ your brother passed away? Seems distasteful imo but hey... you're entitled to your opinions too

@gracegreen1859

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ommizal23 if I didn’t have the money and it was part of the agreement of me lending out money that I really don’t have, sure why not?! I need to be made whole again. A loan is a loan. If I was able to gift something without being needed to be repaid then sure. I’m also the type to not give if I don’t have anything to give and instead give whatever I can give.

@Ommizal23

2 жыл бұрын

@@gracegreen1859 I respect your anwser ❤

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

None of us know what the money the niece borrowed was for, although it was not the cost of the funeral as others chipped in and paid for that. If she asked her aunt to pay her expenses and she said that she would pay it back then she needs to pay it back.

Family ain't the same no more I could never sue a niece or nephew for something like this, no the niece ain't right but this whole case is wrong

@nekec9451

Жыл бұрын

I agree also they are completely disregarding the head space of this young girl and the trauma she is going through after her dad commits suicideee?? and barely even leaves money to bury himself how is she coping???? I could have never sued that child......

@elvickRULES

Жыл бұрын

But it’s okay to take money from family saying you’ll pay it back with the dad’s money but then not do what you said? That’s an okay way to treat family? With family like that, who needs them? They’re useless leeches who don’t care about you if they use you like that.

I love this judge❤

Can she and everyone in Tv court rooms stop saying "Bascially"? every 5 seconds lol

Idk if I would sue my neice for my brother/her dad funeral especially for a few hundred.

She wanted the $800 for herself and then got angry at the aunt; how can you not afford $120 when you work 5days a week. My guess is that Wednesday, she took off to got to court, and took the money out.

@bravo2966

2 жыл бұрын

I think so too. She paid the $120 and got the money and decided to keep it. She'll have convinced herself it's the right thing to do, the aunt can afford it, she deserves it anyway, it was her dad after all...all these type of things these people tell themselves, you see it over and over again. At the end of the day it was the aunt's money and it should have been returned to her.

@garbageman9145

2 жыл бұрын

@@bravo2966 Exactly

Fighting over $800 so pathetic. Death brings out the worst in people.

What a beautiful aunt. You have a good heart. I get the feeling the niece was jealous.

There is something in the will or whatever the 'Paper' is that needs to be translated, that the niece/daughter knows about, and she just does not want the aunt near it. No one in that family can scratch up $120 in this length of time? Listen to that exit interview of hers, she absolutely does not want to admit she wants her aunt to stay hands off!

@cousinsister69

2 жыл бұрын

There was no will. The niece was proven to be a liar, several times, in court. She is simply self centred. She knows right from wrong & wants to keep the money that she owes.

I think I would have eaten the $400.

Am abit early today. It's 00:00 n instead of being asleep am busy watching The people's court 🤦🏽‍♀️ I need help this addicted is way too much. That girl should get it together,I know she may be hurting but after losing a parent you have to be humble n grateful for those that love you. Time will teach her

Defendant just showed her true colors on national TV. I'm sure that is never going to affect her life in her future. It's a shame that even at 20 years of age and losing her father, she still has animosity towards her own family members. To her, Family is worth less than $500. That's just disgustingly depressing.

The young girl needs to do the right thing it’s only 800 give ur Aurty half back - got a lot to learn - not as if it is 8,000. She mad because her boss drop her in it. Sad - Judge gave good advice.

@tcurry1531

2 жыл бұрын

No, she is mad because she thinks everything should be given to her. She did not pay a dime out of pocket, sure her flight, food, hotel, etc. were all paid by someone else.

A day will come, she'll watch this case and realize how evil she was.

@NellieKAdaba

2 жыл бұрын

👍🏿

@bravo2966

2 жыл бұрын

You should clarify which she you are talking about. The 20 year old would think you are talking about the aunt, wrongly of course.

20... still immature and sadly angry at the wrong person.

I wonder if being a judge is a lot like being a parent. Kids are arguing, gotta keep them from going after each other.

So wait she can't contribute nothing to her brothers funeral. Damn

@ElLiSe..

2 жыл бұрын

She did 400$ but the 700$ was a loan n go fund was 300$ so she wants back the balance

@TMS-pj7fp

2 жыл бұрын

I'm not going to expect my brother to pay when I'm gone that's my job b4 I'm gone or my husband's job. My parents on the other hand is mine as nd my siblings if they don't have funeral funds set up. Just my opinion but siblings are not usually expected to pay burial expenses

@ToniaAlex13

2 жыл бұрын

@@ElLiSe.. okay, didn't here that part 👍🏽

@ToniaAlex13

2 жыл бұрын

@@TMS-pj7fp that's not the point. This circumstances is different. He died leaving nothing and the family needed help. What would you do leave his body at the funeral home so he can't be buried

@hanaj

2 жыл бұрын

Or flip it- how do you die with $800 in your account and no life insurance?

Niece is weird

@ooxds1416

2 жыл бұрын

And in her head somehow this all makes sense.

It's always amazing how some people can destroy a friendship or a relationship for couple hundred dollars.

@Lemonade_Stand_

Жыл бұрын

To a lot of people a couple of hundred dollars is a lot of money.

The Defendant believes that her family has the obligation to support her financially and pick up her tabs. Plain and simple. 🤦🏻‍♀️

I would have never asked my niece to reimburse me for anything but that's just me.If the guy only had 800 in the bank he obviously wasn't that well off to begin with So why not just pay out of the kindness of your heart?

@humaneleaguelancPA

2 жыл бұрын

Kindness of your heart doesn't pay the Bills!

@reenh462

2 жыл бұрын

@@humaneleaguelancPA Like i said that's me because I am really close to my niece. I didn't say everyone should do it.

@naynayjones9166

2 жыл бұрын

She put over 400 from the kindness of her heart. She paid the rest 790 after they were still short, which wasn't out the kindness of her heart

@josmith8233

2 жыл бұрын

If they needed a go fund me money was short for everybody involved. The plaintiff chipped in along with her brothers and still needed go GoFundMe. The plaintiff paid the balance due fro her own money with the stipulation that she be paid back from the deceased bank account. The niece was deceptive and wrong for not following through.

I thought they were sisters!

What I love is "do not step in the well."

When my mother pass all her children come together with her funeral expense.

Auntie is gorgeous