She’s so pretty, honest, helpful, and open minded.

The obsession stories gave me a giggle but it is a serious situation and can get out of control. You completely forget other aspects of your life and people in it. Ive forgotten bdays and important dates bc my minds been so focused elsewhere. It really is very unhealthy.

I get like this alot I feel, I put one person at the center of my existence even though I know it's wrong

@Martin-zr2tb

3 жыл бұрын

😔I’m interested in how this works I’ve had people obsessed with me as stupid as that sounds, I’ve had very strong feelings to be in relationships with people before But I’ve always known that I have boundaries and things I won’t stand for that if they do I just will leave or tell them to fuck off

@Martin-zr2tb

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes the almost bipolar aspects of people with obsessions, though most of them have good will , between their love and their insecurities They can be their own worst enemy to what they want

@angeliquetaylor1368

3 жыл бұрын

I over honor people and under honor myself ive really only done it with 2 people Nd i loved then very much just hard for me to give up when I knkw it is what i want.

@LisakenntguteMusik

3 жыл бұрын

I'd love this. I loved my bpd partner soooo much. I'd love if he was with me all the time. I loved just everything about him. But he couldn't stand being loved back. I would never have cheated on him, nor left him. I just wanted to love him forever. But everytime it went really well, he couldn't stand it that I loved him and fidelity and closeness.

I obsess over the past a lot, often really old memories that I can't let go of.

Someone in a 12 step group meeting recently called it People addiction. Also, maybe its "over honoring" this individual while I under honor myself.

@jisbinsanjose6231

6 жыл бұрын

here's several things for how to get any man you want take your time Use fewer words and choose them carefully Communicate via behaviour as well as words (I discovered about these and more on Maras Magic Words website )

@pumpkinspice2597

4 жыл бұрын

I'm obsessed with someone but I'm not acting weird I'm obsessed with one person never been on a date with them. But I'm anxiety ridden and I think way too much about them and I have insomnia over it and I don't even really know them. How do you make it go away? I confessed to the person but I'm not trying to stalk or be around them all the time. It's just psychological.

@kipperlane8959

4 жыл бұрын

Very well said!

I've never heard anyone verbalize MY feelings so well....thank you for putting this video out!

That's one of my biggest problems and because of that I don't know if what I'm feeling towards a person is obssesion or a real feeling (like love for example), it's one of the points of BPD that hits me hard, because it makes me feel like I'm empty and incapable of feeling real feelings.

This came just in time for me! I can notice when I start to obsess over somebody. I can't make my brain stop and it drives me mad. The worst part is that I consciously notice it. I know that I have it, but my brain just seems to push more and more and more. I will have fantasies even if I don't want to have those fantasies and I will go out in hopes of seeing somebody even if my rational mind knows that this is me, just obsessing over somebody and wanting to feel loved. I start to imagine how I'll change myself in order to become more attractive to them. I will start looking for clothes that I would not normally wear. I will delete stuff from my social medias I think they might not like about me. I try to make it stop, but nowadays I just sort of wait till my all white image gets into the black form and the obsessing stops. It's annoying to say the least. I need to constantly remind myself "fake it till you make it, just be you, just be you, you, you, you, nobody else, you, they'll have to love the real you, you you you you" I can imagine why so many of us have substance abuse problems, when I drink it feels SO good to not be so full of shame, guilt and disgust over myself. To stop having these paralyzing mood swings even for the couple of drinks that I've had.

@yeahwhateverokay

4 жыл бұрын

I've had these feelings forever and never knew how to explain them, but you put this perfectly into words. As someone who goes through the same thing with every crush or significant other, I'm here for you

@ms.x1669

4 жыл бұрын

Most relatable post I've ever seen

Could you/have you done a video about 'healthy' obsession ('normal' crushes, close friendships, etc) vs unhealthy ones? I am so concerned, basically all the time, that my feelings/behaviours are unhealthy or or inappropriate because I don't know what's 'normal' or acceptable.

@RecoveryMum

6 жыл бұрын

MrsTeePotTV yes my lovely I can do this vid for you xxx

omg this girl just talks as if she's talking specially about me!! thank you for trying to make ppl understand our constant struggle💘💘

I absolutely LOVE your videos. I'm not diagnosed with BPD however I suffer from chronic PTSD and am a recovering codependent. I grew up with a narcissistic environment....so i relate to most of your videos regardless, thank you so much for them. Also to add, you're HILARIOUS, i seriously die laughing at least once in each of your videos, love your sense of humor! You're an amazing person :) God bless.

@RecoveryMum

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much my lovely! Lots of love to you xxx

@kristyyoung7724

6 жыл бұрын

Check out Lisa A Romano as well ....very good videos on being raised by narcissists and codependents as well as being married to to a narcissist...and being a codependent....I also found great help from Melanie Tove Evans.

"With my new husband" lol, you crack me up :). I too have obsessed over many many guys over the years and there have been girls I've admired too. Not in a sexual way but I love everything about them. Their hair, their mannerisms etc. and I want to be like them. I can make friends very easily but I have cut off all communication with a lot of them if they have done something that has hurt my feelings, e.g. Forgetting my birthday is a really big one. Maybe that is because I don't really have a sense of self. I love the feeling of being 'in love' with someone but that nice feeling doesn't last long because if they don't announce their returned love for me, I get into a deep depression. I would want to change myself to what I think they like in a girl. I will stop eating to lose weight, change my hair colour, clothes, personality and if I find out they get a new girlfriend, I am absolutely besides myself. I feel not good enough for them. Ask myself why I'm never good enough for any man and the self-loathing begins. It's why I have gained so much weight over the years. I've been consoling myself with food. Then there's the guys who do really like me and I've pushed them away because of my behaviours - jealousy being the main culprit. If they don't pay me enough attention. If I don't get a text from them but I've seen they've been online on whatsapp. I get seriously enraged about that. Then I have to confront them about it and they think I'm a crazy, jealous bitch. So now I stay away from men. I don't want to be in a relationship because I don't have the right skills to have a healthy relationship right now.

@AveragePothead

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same about not being ready to maintain a relationship did it get better for you x

I feel as though I have this problem currently. I’m not the obsessive one, but I feel like somebody is obsessing over me in an unhealthy and toxic way. It’s very scary.

@RecoveryMum

5 жыл бұрын

If you ever feel in danger or even just nervous you should let people close to you know hunni xxx

@tchaney3777

5 жыл бұрын

Milan Marie get as much distances as soon as possible, even if it’s a slow fade

I have my own story to tell about this. I'm now 21, but it all started roughly around my senior year but I first started crushing so much on a band member when I gone through my late teens emo phase, so like 17 and 18. But then then that quickly turned into an obsession. I would think he was my soulmate, I wanted to meet him soooo bad, I would role play and pretend we were together. I would wanna know what he was doing and who's he's hanging out with, you know since he would post or his friends would tag him in posts. I was jealous seeing him with his ex girlfriends and this one time he supposedly 'dated' this specific woman and he seemed to like the more sexy kind of women. It made me feel like I wasn't good enough for him. And anything he liked or did reminded me of him. For example leather jackets, beer, motorcycles, rock bands you name it. It made me so happy seeing it anywhere I go. I was just very infatuated with him but it got to the point where he was at the top of my head. That later got the best of me and I had to go seek help and that's a whole lot to talk about. It's been over a year. I'm totally over him. I don't care if he gets married tomorrow or is doing whatever. Thanks for reading, please do not criticise me for this. That was way back, I'm better for sure now!

@RecoveryMum

5 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't criticize you at all - in fact I can completely relate!! Xxx

I have gained so much clarity and insight, and awareness from this video, thank you SO much. I now have an idea more along the lines of what I suffer with, which I do have a really strong feeling that it is BPD. The journey to Self Empowerment and maturity and awareness starts here, and it all starts with a single step. So many thanks go to you after watching this. Thank you so much. xx

I turn to God for this🙏🏼

@aliciayoung7209

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@JCMELKOR

3 жыл бұрын

did it work?

You’re so beautiful. Thank you for sharing all of your experiences and information so openly. I aspire to do the same. I do the same already but you’ve been really open and you haven’t allowed judgement or fear of judgement from others to make you stop sharing. Which I appreciate cause we need this. I need this. Thank you, love to you!

Awww this is so real and straight from the heart. You are deserving fellow human.

Today it’s exactly 9 months of me being in a treatment! You’re so inspiring for me and you really help with my recovery. THANK YOU!!!!!!🙏🏻💖

Thank you for putting up these videos I had no Idea what BPD was before watching them..... Thought I was on my own with the way I act and think. Now I know what is going on in my mind is possibly down to this and have a tangible potential diagnosis to speak with my GP about rather than just “brushing it under the carpet” like I have done for the last 3 decades.

I love how comfortable you are discussing things that typically make me blush 😅 Helps me feel more centered and ready to deal with obsession.

You are very , very , very good at explaining BPD . I give you 10/10 . Absolutely amazing!!!!!

Thank you so much for being brave and sharing this. I thought I was the only one who struggled with this, and your testimony is literally exactly like how I am. Thanks again for giving me insight and freeing me from some of the shame associated with this issue. ❤

Recently got diagnosed with BPD, and decided to look into it and understand what exactly I’m dealing with, and found your videos. Subbed. Thank you for posting such great content.

@pumpkinspice2597

4 жыл бұрын

What's BPD Borderline personality disorder?

Thank you for your openness and honesty, Recovery Mum, I can relate to what your saying.

Wow! What an honest post and clearly explains the condition.

Ohh my freaking hello. I needed this video SO much - FINALLY someone who does what I do! I don't actually have BPD, but I form these obsessions with people exactly the way 13-year-old you did. It's never been romantic, more like an older 'role model' (mostly female) who I admire, I want them to be my sister, I want them to be my friend, I get envious of their close friends. The only way I overcome this obsession - is if they actually befriend me, or I find another person. As a pre-teen, I was obsessed with older girls at school. When I went to uni, it was tutors and mentors, now it's a female colleague - who happened to be my 'buddy' last year as I was newly graduated, I love her, I think she's awesome, amazing, I want to be her. Actually I want her to like me and care about me. Ffs. I don't even want to distract myself from the thoughts because I love the fantasies. I know so much of her schedule, I have run in places I hoped she would be.. the guilt is so bad - but not as bad as my need to see her. I added her on facebook and she never responded.. I hate my life!

Thank you so much for making this video!! In my life I would often develop these weird obsessions about random people in my life, and often they wouldn’t even be people I knew, they would be celebrities that I thought had perfect lives and I would just start idolizing them! But one time, few years back when I was in high school I became obsessed with my teacher, it wasn’t even a male teacher, it was female and it wasn’t anything romantic I just thought their life was perfect and I idolized them, trying to imitate them thinking it would make me perfect and happy and did what you said in the video, trying to make myself be better in school and look better in order to impress them but in reality they didn’t even know I existed. It became really bad in my senior year when I had to leave school, especially because my self esteem was extremely low and the stress about having to choose my future really got to me and I felt extremely lonely and in order to escape that I started romanticizing and idolizing my teacher and their life, and wanted to know more about them, their life, family, marriage all that stuff believing it was perfect. It got really bad to the point where I stalked them on social media, waited around my school just to see them for like 3 seconds with their spouse/kid and even looked up their address online and tried to find out where they lived. Looking back on it now I feel SO embarrassed and ashamed about the entire situation and I wish I could take ti back. I know now it was all about my mental health and I was in a really bad place at that time and few years after it happened , but I still feel extremely guilty about it, I think to myself what if they were scared of me because of how I acted and I wish I could apologize for my behaviour somehow but also I think that may creep them out even more. Anyway I never told that anyone because of how embarrassed I felt, I considered therapy but even then I was too embarrassed to tell the therapist that, but knowing now that there’s a name for my condition I feel less embarrassed because I know that it isn’t my fault, I have a disease and I can work on it. I still often get obsessed with fictional characters and couples in books/movies but I can work on that stuff now. Thank you so much, will definitely watch more of your videos!!

@appledowgpup1545

2 жыл бұрын

hey I can relate about being too ashamed to admit to anyone about my obsession lol, and also being ashamed about stalking behaviors about them (though I haven't look up the persons address luckily). also can I ask you, for how long did you obsess over the certain teacher?

Thank you for this amazing video, I was obsessed with someone that I briefly dated who ghosted me. I made a complete fool of myself trying to get to the bottom of it by sending angry and desperate messages. I still think about it to this day and wonder why it happened even though it was like 3 years ago as I never got any explanation. I checked his FB and he's got a baby now... I guess he moved on!

Thank you SOOOO MUCH FOR BEING SO OPEN. You are amazing.

Thankyou for posting this. I am really struggling myself with this at the minute

@thumbles7930

6 жыл бұрын

June Ingram I feel for you June, I’m struggling at the moment too, keep strong

@juneingram669

6 жыл бұрын

Thumbles79 thankyou and you

@TheSazstar

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah same :)

@agnesmiroslawska1022

5 жыл бұрын

Me too :(

@charliee.bri.monique

4 жыл бұрын

June Ingram, i also going through the same thing. And its causing me more stress in my head.

This video was really comforting. I am currently obsessing because of the odd behaviour of someone with BPD and find it very difficult to do tasks that require concentration. Talking about this mental condition assures me that I am not the only one who experiences this problem and will soon get over it.

Brilliantly explained. Really helpful. Thank you.

I am very obsessive without a clear no. I will create complete fantasies over people and not ever speak to them. Then I frustrate myself because I can’t tell if there’s a chance with them

I get like this also; am trying to get through something like this now! So happy to have found you.

Thank you for your courage & honesty...so good to know we are not alone with our struggles...🙏❤️

What a beautiful person you are! Hearts on you...

It’s so funny how we can completely overlook the negative. It doesn’t matter if they tell you they’re a serial killer, they’re perfect!! Absolutely 100% nothing wrong with them perfect.

My ex BPD missus was actually an amazing person and miss her so much and wish she was to get herself better but she doesn’t feel she needs help. I actually think being so idealised then being devalued and cut off cuts really deep which is why it takes longer to get over BPDx partners especially if they’re “hoovering” afterwards, makes it very difficult to properly let go. Having aspergers made it easy to get sucked into to her emotional tailspinning and it’s difficult for us aspies to actually not take people on their word and quickly get stripped of defences then you’re left like WTF!? Did she actually just say and do that and then act like you never existed? I think you have the best BPD videos on YT and think it can help ex’s or partners understand what’s happening

I love you so much! Your channel is such a help. And we are soooo similar; I can relate to almost every video! Plus you are sooo pretty and have a great sense of humor, I love to listen to you. Thank you for your channel

Yes Yes Yes Mahalo Nui Loa for your eloquent, on point description of this issue.

Thank you so much for all the effort you put in your videos.

Thank you so MUCH. I love your channel. This helps so much. My ex-husband lives with his new girlfriend and I started to obessed, having private conversations in my mind, what if they break up, what if she gets pregnant, what if he wants me back. It goes on and ON IN MY HEAD. It SUCKS! He consumes my mind most days. Even at work, he's there. I know ppl see my lips move but say nothing, so I'm paranoid about that, I just feel so out of control.

@v3rsatilempath

6 жыл бұрын

😞😞😞😞 any thoughts recovery mom?

I've had many obsessions too. But in an autistic way rather than bpd. Usually over subjects or shows & characters. But I have with a couple people in earlier years. I didn't have fear of abandonment, but I did try my best to fit whatever I thought they'd like. I'd pay close attention to small details as much as I could. And would often find myself imagining us together as friends or partners. Dreams often would feel real too, and I'd convince myself there was something real to them. I'd be upset when I perceived to have found rejection. But in my mind I still felt convinced we were together/connected. I started drinking around then too. I'd drink until everything was gone or I passed out. So.. I'd wake up sometimes to find things I wrote either on notepads/books, or I sent them cheesy poems, songs, and art. I spent many years feeling regretful and cringey about it all. But I eventually apologized and slowly forgave myself over and over. I've also done lots of self reflection since then too. I follow them again now, but not in an obsessive way. Their music still helps me. And they inspire & motivate me to be my best self. I still look up to them, but I'm much more grounded on it. I have a new obsession now (a character and fictional universe). But I'm making sure I stay grounded. So I can still enjoy it, but in a healthy way.

I can relate so much. Thank you for posting this!!!

Thank you so much I can't control i felt like he was my high and I just want to talk to him all day so I blow him up on his phone and he wouldn't respond because he says I'm acting crazy 😔 so I got drunk and just lost control I cussed him out and he got mad because I accused him of being a bad guy which he isn't uhh I'm so obsessed it's killing me thank u for this video

Obsessing is so, so painful for us. I can relate to so much of this video. The craving to be loved, to be with that special someone. It takes up so much of my life. Ahhh the pain.😥. Thank uou for this video.

I can soo relate to this video. It’s a bad habit that I wish I can kick it off. Hopefully I can start obsessing over food more than people because food is better than people haha

@nefelibata4190

6 жыл бұрын

good point.

@rainingpatchouli4476

6 жыл бұрын

Aquarius Tail , Food has after affects too- I just weighed myself , I’m pushing 195😑

@charliee.bri.monique

4 жыл бұрын

Demon Llama, I could agree more.

I needed this today. Thanks for this :)

you really gets into detail,&its great,cuz most youtubers don't talk about these things thank you for your interesting videos:)...

I’m obsessed w someone...I’m a weirdo but he Dosent know😅

@internetuser2768

4 жыл бұрын

Krystal Garcia same like i try to be them like i want to be them like i kinda stalked her house and whole social media and i just love them 😔😔 and im obsessed

THANK YOU SO MUCH!! THIS IS SO ME!!

You are so precious! Yes my boundaries are jacked up but still I think you’re adorable!🦄

@hotcoffee9184

4 жыл бұрын

Raining Patchouli I dig that screen name for some strange reason.

Thank you so much for this video it really really has helped in so many ways

I love your presentations

What a rational lady

Facebook stalking is my biggest vice! And I feel that same knot in my stomach you describe because when I'm obsessive I feel worthless about myself, because I know I'm invading their privacy by looking through all their information. I'm actually working on being more aware because I do lose sense of reality with my fantasies. Wise mind makes me feel empowered when I tune in to reality but a little bit shattered because I can't use obsession as my coping mechanism to avoid my pain.

@perryh.5306

2 жыл бұрын

I'd let you invade my privacy anytime!

Ty for this one--I know I need skills in this area more than anywhere else in my life! It is so hard for me to not be obsessed with this person, and it goes way back to when I was 12 I lost my dad and then I met a boy who was 15-16 and developed a crush which took over my life by age 13. I would daydream about him and did so intensely until one day he kissed me and then after that it was just fuel to the fire and yet when I was 19 I realized it wasnt realistic at all and then he married another girl which totally made me depressed and I met another guy and ended up marrying him. Then i ended up in a much healthier situation. Until he and I divorced when I had become obsessed with another, this time totally out of reach guy who I put on a pedestal to this day, even though I'm remarried and even though he is a workoholic and probably doesn't know I exist! So this is a big one for me...I will look for your emotional regulation videos...ok Ty again!

YOU NEED MORE SUBSCRIBERSS ❤️❤️

This is very true for me my obsessions are never romantic but they can last for years and years they completely take over my life and our so distructive

well explained and well said ! 🖒❤💧

Thank you, I'm new to your channel. I'm trying to understand my friend with bpd and help to have a healthy friendship/relationship with her. It's difficult at times as she can be 'clingy and' at the moment it's really difficult as my partner has cancer and I'm trying to navigate that and obviously that's my priority, I totally understand how she feels I've abandoned her and its heartbreaking that I'm hurting her unintentionally. Is there anything I can do to help her understand I've not abandoned her!?

Because I never really feel/felt worthy of love from a partner, I tended to overlook advances when they came from women, though I still do obsess over knowledge. For me this worked great in college when it came to writing papers and researching various issues. So I think some obsessions can be very beneficial, especially if you want to properly develop an opinion or a theory; the obsession of having a rock-solid theory helped with my studies. However when it comes to people, it is negative in a way because I want to know if they might be trying to use me for some kind of end. I tend to look at people like my studies and find out as much info as I can without anyone being aware that I am researching them. I guess it does kind of go with my quiet BPD since trust doesn't come easy to me. I do think about relationships as more of a whole, where I don't want to waste my time and effort if I don't think it will work out. Idk if that is selfish on my part or more based on not wanting to get hurt and then abandoned in the end. Definitely can relate to so much in this video. Keep up the great work, also be safe I heard some bad stuff happening in London. Take care.

Yea it is so funny how accurate you are. It is a really weird thing that I hate that I do.

holy shit... i went through the same thing. this guy legit made me obsessed with him on purpose tho. you know people actually do that shit. found out he reads books rigously on creating obsession and false perxeptions of love. shame on him

@ari23-23

5 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a narcisst

oh my god this is spot on

Actually this. I feel ashamed this is what I do. 😅

Your beautiful! Thanks for this one its very helpfull

When I was younger, I was catfished, but I was so obsessed with the guy in the pictures (wasn't who I was talking to) but we lived in the same town, so as often as I could, I'd go to the town and sit it the coffee shop that out looked everyone walking past and I went where the person I was talking to said they'd like to look for him, it makes me wonder what on earth my parents thought I was doing but I was enthatuated by him and did everything I could to see the guy in the pictures. It's so dangerous but I've done it to so many people, and I got through so many different obsession, my friend has described it as "it's like I have a fairy tale relationship with anyone I meet" so even my friends have noticed this. I do anything to make them not leave me. Yikes. This really bought stuff to my attention

Every single word you said is sooo true like so true

This is me exactly right now with my ex gf..the way u explain it is spot on

this is like an asmr video

How do you deal with someone who is obsessed with you and your family? I have been dealing with a woman who is obsessed for 18 years. She is really aggressive. I appreciate you sharing your experience.

My new obsession is you... 😂 it's just recently dawned on me that I have been suffering medium BPD all my life... a lot worse in my late teenage/early twenties and being falsely diagnosed as depressed since I was 15 I've already been doing a lot of work in the last couple of years with mindfulness on watching my thoughts and behaviour. I had always thought I was bad person for some of my behaviour in the past. After doing my research and watching your great videos I realise that I didn't have any control and I'm not evil or dangerous... just a little traumatised. I've been referred back to mental health services and I'm going to explore this further and ask for DBT. Thank you so much for all these wonderful videos - they have really helped me come to terms with this and I have already learnt so much more about myself which can only be a good thing. I am BPD but I'm also beautiful and in active recovery. You are beautiful! Thank you again xxxx

I've recently been diagnosed with BPD and your videos really help me to understand what I'm trying to accept. My fiance is the only one that was concerned enough over my emotional rollercoaster to have me to talk to someone. A lot to deal with personally much less choose to be with someone with all these things. It's definitely a challenge and hopefully we can get it still together.

so interesting thank you for sharing babe, also you look like angelina jolie such a beauty

Doing drugs is bad. But I bet there were times you were a ball of fun doing coke. From the character you show in your videos you seem like a fun person. I appreciate the work you put in to make these videos. You help me to understand what goes on in my loved ones crazy like noggin. Because she makes me feel like I'm crazy

@thumbles7930

6 жыл бұрын

64maxpower Coke isn’t really a fun drug in my experience, it’s a very lonely drug in all honesty

@64maxpower

6 жыл бұрын

Thumbles79 I hope you realize that i was making a silly joke but explain. I think coke is the Devil if I were to be serious

@thumbles7930

6 жыл бұрын

64maxpower its all good, I wasn’t trying to start a row, just stating my opinion

@Alpha-mz5cp

6 жыл бұрын

Doing drugs isnt bad.

@victorjones3536

6 жыл бұрын

Alpha .... diagnosed bpd have a endless supply of drugs from there psychiatrists. and they can't be treated on drugs so it's impossible to treat a pathological liar. who is drugged out there mind.

Oh god. I just pretty much burned a very good person to the ground because of my obsessive behavior. I did such embarrassing and shameful stuff in the process, mad pleas for attention. I'm trying to move on now, thank you for your video.

I didn't know it had a name. I caught someone in the act. They would look towards my window and I wasn't sure if I was hallucinating about this. I began to do things differently. I changed my thought of frame. I'm currently doing things at different times so that I don't bump in to them outside. It's kind of scary to catch someone in the act like that, because you can right away tell they have an issue and they can't stop looking at you. I'm a nice person, but sometimes that can give a different impression. This happened to me a few times and I learned from it. I don't trust certain people. I know now what you mean. I'm very careful.

One of my most serious problems my whole life and still can’t find no explanation at all! 😞🤔

My obsessions are mostly guys. Like I could barely talk to the particular guy and yet build up fantasies that were together and know his family etc 😂 it's so pathetic. When it comes to people, it's not TOO bad in comparison . I want to be everyones friend and want them to like me.

I can relate go this so much especially now. Thank u so much love u

@RecoveryMum

6 жыл бұрын

Ct Pth 😘😘😘

The crazy thing with the obsession is how it goes from Obsession to devaluation which can be very confusing especially if the person did not eyes that they were obsessing over you and thinking about marrying you and all the stuff that you knew was going on the beginning but they will not acknowledge anymore honestly if the girl I was with would have just kept obsessing over me it would have worked out because I am the fantasy I'm every fantasy that a girl could ever want.

Thomas Mann wrote an autobiography on having an obsession over someone (a young boy). Death In Venice, it's such a sad book but liberating to read it.

How can we have a lasting relationship cuz I know it’s my BPD that’s ruining my relationships

@burgermister7580

4 жыл бұрын

Medication

@CicoinTokyo777

4 жыл бұрын

No medication don’t work too much for bpd person. Affirmation,meditation,yoga, self love, positive thoughts are really useful for us

She's so beautiful i can't stop looking at her

Loved the video. I have been know to stock a person or two. Showing up at a dance class because a girl I was crushing on was there. The girl didn't even have a clue i exist.

@charliee.bri.monique

4 жыл бұрын

Mr Bpd, i love your comment. - Brenaya❤️

What kind of medication could help?

I'm obsessed but I have these moments when I go crazy so I shut off all my emotions sometimes to ease the pain am I a Psycho

@charliee.bri.monique

4 жыл бұрын

OBSESSEDfreak Alone , no I don't think you're crazy.

I thought it was "normal" to obsess over someone I've been doing it with people for over 15 years. I've only just been diagnosed with bpd and dpd.

I've bpd it's awful very hard I'm in the middle of the trying to stop cutting

Holy crap ! Thank you now I know what to stay away from haha

someone tell me if they relate to this, theres this person and im obsessed with them and there life and i just wanna be them like they go to a diffrent school and we can only text a lil and i cry over them

@appledowgpup1545

2 жыл бұрын

can I ask you how long have you been obsessed with that person? mines over 3 friking years :"[

A recent ex of mine whom I am certain has bpd has shown up, or basically stalked as you say, where she knows I would hang out. This has occurred every free weekend she has for two months. Luckily it has seemed to stop. But, she eventually would bring her new boy toy with her to show him off by hugging and smooching him in front of my face. All while she would follow me around an establishment with him in tow. Always keeping near to me and keeping me in the corner of her eye. Kind of eerie to say the least.

I wonder if you have a way to contact you I have a few questions about my situation..

woman, my actual therapist couldn't have given me such good advice...i'd to know your view on bpd in men...

@RecoveryMum

5 жыл бұрын

I have done a vid before on bpd and men. I also have a specific section for men in my book - The Big Book on Borderline personality disorder by Shehrina Rooney (that's me!). Thank you so much xxx

Thank you !!

My crush is always in the white I pray for him and wish amazing things for I have extreme compassion for him

Relatable

Annoying when strangers are like this, especially men like they're trying to mother you as another man. Then there's co-workers that you really don't know personally. Even if you tell them to F off they still don't let it go. They don't get it that you don't need anything from them and don't want anything from them.