I believe that as men we should ask ourselves the same questions... especially the first one.

@sanane66543

Жыл бұрын

yea imma(guy top 1% 99%halal) ask myself to not wear makeup or revealing clothes so i can show obedience to everyone

@gafcat585

Жыл бұрын

@@sanane66543 ?

@iloveindia2444

Жыл бұрын

very true why should a woman should always put under scanner.

@zain1132

Жыл бұрын

Obviously you'd only ask that first question if you were practicing yourself

@MrAlyyy

Жыл бұрын

​@@sanane66543 If you're guy then you should ask yourself that do you lower your gaze? As for women ,modesty in clothes is important while for men lowering gaze is important.

The woman you marry will be the mother of your children, choose wisely.

@iamapokerface8992

Жыл бұрын

cringe

@cocobeh

Жыл бұрын

@@iamapokerface8992 its not cringe its true

@faiz1857

Жыл бұрын

​@@cocobeh bcs some doesnt even marry and have a child

@cocobeh

Жыл бұрын

@@faiz1857 ye

@natevic1867

Жыл бұрын

Men will still always choose looks first. Let’s stop lying to ourselves.

My father died two years ago. Please make him dua and those people who died also. MAY ALLAH grant them to jannah

@user-bp3tv4cg2t

2 ай бұрын

Ammen

@maryamibrahim7537

Ай бұрын

Ameen,may Allah console you

@leeghany5163

23 күн бұрын

He is very proud of you. ❤

@syedashahgillani6979

13 күн бұрын

Aameen

As a woman i think these are important questions. However the last one, i dont know about that. Find a less intrusive way to say it because up untill that time that woman has dressed up for herself, if you ask her this, even a woman that's already modest in her dressing will be wary of you. wary of the fact that we aren't even married and he's already trying to control me, who knows wt happens next, maybe he's one of those super controlling guys. This is how women think. So try finding a way to test or question her without being direct about it. A woman is an emotional being, you might just make her feel trapped and she might withdraw. You are analyzing her but she's also analyzing you, your tone, your behaviour everything.

@naghmatalat4257

Жыл бұрын

I definitely agree with you, you maybe a good person but if you ask such a question, the girl can think you are super controlling or that will make you such a person in her mind . That will not be good for your relationship

@mohsinakhan1511

Жыл бұрын

I definitely agree with you sister, even for me if my husband does this in this tone then it will be like a shock for me Or for any girl who dress modestly or put minimal makeup

@MaShah21

Жыл бұрын

SubhanAllah exactly what I was thinking. Personally that last question would make me uncomfortable

@kthebaws712

Жыл бұрын

@@MaShah21 why? What kind of alien world do u female muslims live in? Did u not know the prophet pbuh that u claim to follow publicly cursed the women who wear perfume in public????? Let alone the makeup and sexualised hijabs????? Hahahaahhaah yall women are cursed and u know it. U wanna justify it by all means but the truth is islamically u are not allowed to beautify urself in public or even leave the house without a mahram!!!! So shame on u women

@MaryamQasi

Жыл бұрын

Yes you’re right, last question made me feel uncomfortable to be honest. I hope my future man would be humble enough hope testing

And every women should ask the man these questions Edit: Wow, don’t ask about the makeup and that’s it don’t act like you don’t know

@YoYo-kw3rm

Жыл бұрын

For men the questions are different 1) fajr 2) relationship with his mother 3)relationship with female’s in general 4) not sure about the last question, maybe something like would he take care of bills and expenses

@ibrmk2610

Жыл бұрын

@@YoYo-kw3rm yeah but it is better to ask about his relationship with both parents it is better to know

@afei4989

Жыл бұрын

​​@@ibrmk2610 if the husband is good with his mother, then the wife better prepare to give in

@ibrmk2610

Жыл бұрын

@@afei4989 not always being good with your mother does NOT mean the person would be good with everyone

@Lemons19902010

Жыл бұрын

​@@YoYo-kw3rm I like those questions, alhamdulillah

The most important question you should ask for your to be wife is (Do you pray, are you willing to learn and grow in faith with me, Is it ok for you to accept me earning this much money, (standard living cost, etc) tell her you don't want a big nikah and if she agrees, you want to make the nikah simple and halal. From there, enjoy the journey as husband and wife to get closer to Allah. This is me speaking from personal experience, this is what I did. There is no perfection in marriage, you will struggle but it is how you both can come together to solve it. The best is to advise each other and stand together in remembrance of Allah Subhanawataala.

@Livingindeception

Жыл бұрын

underrated comment

@NM-ft9pb

Жыл бұрын

May Allah reward you, you think how people should islamically but it’s rare these days.

@SF-jf3xv

5 ай бұрын

It's hard to find a woman that you can talk to like this

@hahahaHaa-gq8bv

3 ай бұрын

Masallah

@Sunny.Williams

Ай бұрын

This is great advice. Jakazallah.

As a recent revert I will never want my wife to be "obedient" to me she is not a child and she is not my child. Allah SWT created her with her own mind and her own free will. As her husband i can ask her but never command her.

@TaelynLangstaff-jd8zh

2 ай бұрын

Yes she is not a object she is a living emotional human being who deserves to wear and be treated with respect as well.

@ybcaramel

Ай бұрын

May Allah grant you whatever your heart desires. Beautiful comment 🤲🏼

@ahabarhossain773

Ай бұрын

Allah literally uses the word obedient for woman's roles to their husbands in the Qur'an. Yes, she is not a child, but a man is the leader of the family. How is he supposed to lead the family if he is not sure whether his wife will listen to him or not? The Prophet SAW said that obedience to one's husband is one of the four things that a woman can do to guarantee entry into paradise.

@fridawsbamba1641

Ай бұрын

Hope u don't change ur mind in the future

@mynmeisname4825

28 күн бұрын

​@@fridawsbamba1641he's contradicting hadith who would u pick? Prophets saying or emotions?

Plz plz be nice to ur wife, this is not about make up or dressing it's about respect and obedience. U don't necessarily have to test her on things that took her hours of hard work to do, she probably did it for u. u never know. So plz be mindful and mature about things like this. Little kindness and respect won't hurt. Jazakallah

@ebuslamentee5963

Жыл бұрын

Yeah but still what hes saying is that if your wearing a crap ton of makeup and you look like a clown, then you should at least be respectful if you have a reasonable objection at least

@rangerbubblegum7509

Жыл бұрын

i like these comments. rather than being bitchy and toxic about it you explain your point in a nice way. thats the difference between muslim and western women

@hamoodtatari

10 ай бұрын

I agree wallahi, it all depends I mean she doesn’t have to be obliged to obey all the time. If she took so long to do it for me then that would be quite annoying to her

@jinhub2175

8 ай бұрын

Men shouldn't be "testing" women in the first place. Its a woman's job to do so and its the man that has to prove himself to be worthy of the woman he wants to marry.

@user-cf6dn5tg4f

7 ай бұрын

@@jinhub2175 no.

My man just bodied a lot of people.😭😭😭😭💀💀

@manino5872

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@Dont-worry1618

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@amirmir3244

Жыл бұрын

😂😂 your comment “ bodied”

@mubbashirgear

Жыл бұрын

@@amirmir3244 👅

@iamapokerface8992

Жыл бұрын

cringw

As a woman, the last question depends on the way you say it

@nothingwhatever7046

Жыл бұрын

u say it in a better way

@trusfrated4645

Жыл бұрын

@@nothingwhatever7046 yes. Good communication is the key!

@doomdesire3460

8 ай бұрын

​@@trusfrated4645read ehat he said again

@idkbro4932

7 ай бұрын

Not really, the question is worded fine. Its just that influence from liberalism and feminism has led people to not follow obedience to the husband in the good things he asks the wife to do.

@Minnie_silvertears

7 ай бұрын

​@@idkbro4932 you people put obeying your husband out of context we're grown women who know right from wrong so you can wuit your little power trip

Ah the first question I'd fail 🤭 I completely respect and obey both parents, have no contact with non mahram men aside from a few cousins, and makeup is a no-no while hijab and abaya is a must. But damn, I sleep through Fajr regularly and end up praying it when I wake up. It's the only prayer I struggle with. Wallahi I need to be better

@junaid7530

Жыл бұрын

sleep early, set up multiple alarms starting half an hour before fajr. maybe it it work

@fazleahmad9945

Жыл бұрын

May Allah make it easier

@hafiznuman7073

Жыл бұрын

At least you acknowledge this and thats a good starting. one day surely u will be successful in that as well if you keep reminding yourself.

@AbdAllah_54564

Жыл бұрын

May Allah make it easy for us Believers Ameen.

@sweettea1193

Жыл бұрын

@@AbdAllah_54564 ameen

It’s very sad that in fact men just look for beauty and they don’t even care about a person’s good habits. My husband left me and our child for another woman inspite of me being in hijab, religious, respecting him and his family. And for second marriage also men just want good looks and woman who is much much younger than them. No one wants a nice and caring person. No one wants responsibility only fun! So they want the woman to work also and take care of her expenses. At least this is what I have seen.

@moynabegum8923

Жыл бұрын

You are beautiful amazing in shaa Allah, Allah will bless you with someone bigger better and greater that will be the coolness of your eyes. Be strong. You will be in my duas sis.

@ebuslamentee5963

Жыл бұрын

Thats evil and haram

@Danielajorge14

Жыл бұрын

I 100/percent agree with you same with me it's sooo sad

@tahirballikaya213

11 ай бұрын

You have met the wrong men. Almost all men in my circle would want a women who stays at home and is obedient. As for beauty, yeah that's how Allah has created us, this is how we are attracted to women in the first place.

@tenyohaia

11 ай бұрын

I feel you, they want girls that look young and beautiful, slim and wears fitting clothes...I been kinda on the big size my whole life and for the last 10 years i been rejected from good marriage cuz when they see me they immediately just turn away... I have always wore modestly, I never once hurt anyone, but they didn't even try to know me, immediately just rejects me cuz of my outside , they don't know that I care about family, I love children (as I also teach childrens), I can be a caring person (most ppl describe me that way), as Muslim wr were taught not to mingual with boys and i stayed to it, but not know it was going to cause me waiting in line to marry forever. I want to have a family, a loving husband and children's, but all because I don't fit in the category of the standard set by the men. I m 30 plus now and still single, I tried loosing weight and ended up in hospital couple of times, they have no idea what we go through for marriage...and still have all these demands...may Allah shines all the girls life in good homes and with good people

A man who is NOT her husband has absolutely no right to expect her to be 'obedient' to him. Dogs are 'obedient' not women. He could mention that the dress seems to be not as modest as her other clothes & the same with the makeup. You cannot TELL her to take it off. You can just mention it politely & see what she does. I would NEVER allow my daughter to marry anyone so controlling who seems to think he can usurp her father's role. THAT, on the part of a man indeed is disrespectful.

@kingmosesix432

Ай бұрын

I think he meant respect for his role as the leader of the family

@percysbluefood

Ай бұрын

Finally someone with a bit of common sense!! This is what is wrong with the Muslim society these days!! The objectification of women is real.

@muks_h6991

Ай бұрын

I totally agree with you man! Nobody, not even a husband, can order you to do something or not. A modest women alread knows how to dress and conduct herself well. She doesn't need to take someone's orders of what is appropriate. This is a controlling mentality that everyone expects Muslim women to tolerate and normalize in marriage. Muslim women are smart and know their religious/moral boundaries. Period

@ahabarhossain773

Ай бұрын

No, this is not disrespectful at all. The whole point of the Islamic way of marital engagement involves the potential spouses getting to know one another and whether either of them is prepared for marriage. In Islam, the man is undoubtedly the leader of the family and it is incumbent upon the wife to be obedient to her husband. And yes, we will use the word obedient because that is what Allah says in the Holy Qur'an. Yes, a wife has rights and a marriage is based on love and mercy and it is haraam for a man to abuse his wife, but a wife is in general obliged to obey her husband in all permissible matters. The Prophet SAW emphasized obedience to a husband as one of the four things that a woman can do to guarantee entry into paradise. So yes, it is perfectly fine for a man to ask such a question for his potential wife because this is what is expected of an Islamic marriage. Him not being her current husband is irrelevant because he has come to be a potential husband. It may make some women uncomfortable but that doesn't mean that you can disobey your husband. Likewise, it is perfectly fine for a woman to ask her potential husband if he is willing to financially provide for every single necessity within the family because in Islam, it is a man's responsibility. Should the woman be seen as "money obsessive" and "greedy" when she asks such questions? No! This is her right to be financially provided for. If the man or the woman are uncomfortable or not able to currently uphild their obligations ordained for them by Allah within a marriage, then they shouldn't be getting married in the first place!

This man has a lot of knowledge alhamdulliah that is critical for our young to learn and adhere to, to make life easier for themselves, the religion of Islam is simple we make things complicated by looking away from the religion and wanting acceptance from this world forgetting about the next.

@adrianSlasher

Жыл бұрын

Because young generation, whether it is muslim or non muslim think they still have long way ahead, so they strive for this dunya without thinking about the afterlife. So acceptance from other human being is what most of us prefer than the acceptance from Allah. May Allah SWT protect us from the hellfire.

@arifahmustafa2768

Жыл бұрын

He is a boy

@zakrabegum6557

Жыл бұрын

@@arifahmustafa2768 maybe to you he is, but to me an many others he is a man 👨

@Adam10412

Жыл бұрын

@@arifahmustafa2768 and you're a feminist

@trxp_raised2003

Жыл бұрын

@@arifahmustafa2768 boys don’t have beards

She'll be your wife and the mother of your kids, not an obedient slave. Choose your words carefully.

@sanane66543

Жыл бұрын

obedient is not slave you absolute brainwashed westerner. are you not obiedient to yo boss? or Allah? its not being a slave its showing love

@zain1132

Жыл бұрын

Or she could end up being a burden who goes out with other men and divorces you while taking half your money and the kids. These questions are important

@sanane66543

Жыл бұрын

@@zain1132 thats why you marry islamically without state involved brother.. if she does not accept you already know you dodged a bullet 😂

@DarkKnight-dk3bf

Жыл бұрын

when wearing modest clothes become slavery. 😂😂😂LoL the only person she should care is her husband not some random European beta C**k .

@ruhethahmed1402

Жыл бұрын

Your wife should still be obedient to her husband.. nothing about being an obedient slave

Assalamualekum brother why don't u suggest some questions to us (sisters) to ask a guy before marriage

@mkt106

Жыл бұрын

Cuz hes talking to majority guys.

@c.n.3938

Жыл бұрын

Wa aleykum salam wa rahmatullah

@turtle_truck1331

Жыл бұрын

U can ask men the same questions 🤷

@abdurehmanmalik8974

Жыл бұрын

I feel it’s best to look for such advice from sisters.

@apachekafka773

Жыл бұрын

This is a short...go look for the complete video don't be lazy. The advice is both ways

The girl after me asking those questions: *"You're so over protective, I'm sorry but this ain't gonna work"*

@mohammedali-rh7cq

Ай бұрын

Overprotective is a great quality of men,

@nathangrey6236

11 күн бұрын

Good low quality women left you

Before u ask make sure ur a reflection of those questions in some way. I mean the characteristics they will show

@Ajax-zx9pz

Жыл бұрын

yeah you dont want to come off as an hypocrite

@udontevenwannaknowbruv

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@paulamoogan8499

Жыл бұрын

Extremely valid point that needed to be said in the man’s video but for some reason was left out and the focus was all on what the woman needs to be for the man … it goes both ways in a marriage not one way … in this case it seems to be coming from one way … the man’s way

@yuppieyup8188

6 ай бұрын

​@paulamoogan8499 because he is talking about what men needs to ask and not the other way around lol. This whataboutry is weird and unwarranted. Cancel anyone who advises men against women. To hell with feminism

@ihalludbA

2 ай бұрын

Facts!

Even "disobedient" women deserve to be married. Many Niqabis ended up opening everything and many uncovered women end up covering and even leaving their mixed careers. These are not good questions to ask. What is more critical is understanding the Aqeeda and having a common goal and understanding of what a family means and what is roles are required from each partner. Far too many good people are not married these days and the Fitna is rampant because of these Bid3ah standards. A woman can be married for her beauty, her wealth/career/connections, her name/ethnic tribe, and lastly her deen (which actually refers to her way of life..not her PhD in Shariah for example). We need to look long term and to solve the problems at hand.

@sanane66543

Жыл бұрын

yea deserve to be married by soy weak loser men. a man which has things together almost never wants a disobedient women because those succesfull men have certain characteristics which goes against it

@sanane66543

Жыл бұрын

Islam also tells women to be submissive obedient to the husband so its not biddah

@Chatelaine0

Жыл бұрын

@@sanane66543 Don't confuse otger religions and cultures with Islam. There is no Quranic proof which says women should submit to their husbands. Men and women in the eyes of Allah are equals (except for the man's duty to be a spender/provider and characteristics specific to men like 9n average height). Very few Hadeeths talk about the virtue of a wife's obedience - but that is limited to acts of worship and sex. She has a say on how things are ran in her house and marital affairs is not aupposed to be a mute follower. Let me remind you in the Seerah..The Prophet's wife Khadija (pbuthem) was a wealthy business owner with Caravans stretched from Byzantea to Abyssinia. That's like owning and running DHL and all their fleets in addition to supplying goods and workforces ...like owning and running Walmart. She was not the humble mumble type. Neither was Aisha pbuh..a woman who never shyed to express her distate or jealousies publicly to the Prophet pbuh. Also, Islam made women on a level plane as men when Allah commanded to stop the murder of young girls and to allow women to give equal Bay3ah (voting rights) where a woman's vote is equal to a man's vote. Its only in giving testimony (court) where women are asked to be in twos because many women might get nervous and forget, so her friend or other companion can remind her and affirm what had occured. We Muslimahs are not obliged to obey husbands who are not Godly or in a state of diaobedience to God. We are not obligated to obey no one but Allah and our parents/leaders. Anything beyond that is Shirk...why would women obey a man who can divorce them anytime and be a complete stranger? We are not Christians or Jews bound by an eternal covenant to our husbands or else face damnation ıf we leave them. Alhamdulillah for Islam and the dignity and flexibility is brings where women are agreeable towards men by free will without subjugation because the men themselves are virtuous, caring, and exemplary as was the Propher pbuh.

@sanane66543

Жыл бұрын

@@Chatelaine0 it litterally says wife has to obey men of its reasonable 😂 what are you talking about

@hibbaimtiaz7947

Жыл бұрын

@@Chatelaine0 Thank you for laying it out perfectly. Marriage in Islam is more about the sense of "Mutual respect & Understanding." That totally does not mean that someone has a right to order around the other, completely disregarding their spouse's sense of intellect, Men and Women alike. It's unfortunate to think that Muslims with such views often forget that Men and Women in Islam were made different but at the very same time equal.

I hope all the men asking the women these questions are asking themselves the same thing

I would use more silent methods to ask these as well, to root out any possible lies and to see if they contradict themselves. Don't ask these questions directly, make them silent and unnoticeable and do it after to breach their initial tone, so this way you get an honest answer

@sabeehkhan8638

Жыл бұрын

Please could you give an example?

@galaxyx4851

Жыл бұрын

@@sabeehkhan8638 Firstly, ask questions that obviously need an honest answer. Now that you have done this, you will need to breach their layer of defense when it comes to words. How you breach this depends on the girl. Now subtly throw in the questions, or parts of the questions you wish to ask, and piece together everything. You should wind up with all the answers you need.

As a women, these questions are it Allahuma Barik.

The problem is 90%boys won’t ask bcoz that’s not what they want

@lilyflower7385

Жыл бұрын

This is very true even if they are practising they don't want a simple girl they like the modern hijab look.

@doumbouya2355

Жыл бұрын

That’s not true. A good Muslim man would want a practicing Muslim woman and not a modern hijabi girl

@AliAhmad-sn2ce

Жыл бұрын

@@lilyflower7385 BRUHHH what are you saying! That’s what most of the «PRACTICING» Muslim men if not ALL would want… 🙃

@kaktusdesiberie7196

Жыл бұрын

I disagree. In fact it depends of what kind of man you meet. If you meet regular Muslims I agree. If you look for a religious man they go 💯 for good girls. They can sacrifice a lot about looks in order to have a good wife, they know this life is temporary.

@manino5872

Жыл бұрын

@@lilyflower7385 that’s fair tho, if a man is happy and a women is happy who are we to get in the middle of that, slowly they will both become closer to allah

My suggestion would be to see the behaviour of his/her siblings and family members around him/her...that will tell about his/her temperament...

@sweettea1193

Жыл бұрын

Ah that's not always fair because many people have pretty wild family members. How a member of our family behaves is out of our control

@salie2022

Жыл бұрын

@@sweettea1193 i agree with you

@smeshcel3025

Жыл бұрын

they arent gonna have a ufc event in the house when you come over. everybody is gonna act on their best behavior

@sajid279

Жыл бұрын

@@smeshcel3025 Talk to them before going for marriage proposal...ask their neighbours and friends indirectly about their character..

@Series_here12

Жыл бұрын

​@@sajid279 lol you ask others about your future spouse. And imagine that other people are jealous of your future spouse. And fill your head with bullshit lies.

There is no functionality in any of those questions. These are basically to make sure the girl doesn't have a mind and thought of her own.

@AAA-xc4zm

Жыл бұрын

Can you explain more?

@aira6951

Жыл бұрын

@@AAA-xc4zm As the man said it is to test the girl's humbleness and obedience. Humbleness is a virtue that all humans must have but on what grounds is anyone testing obedience? Respect for your spouse goes both ways but obedience is for relationships like master and slaves not spouses.

@AAA-xc4zm

Жыл бұрын

@@aira6951 Are you a Muslim?

@aira6951

Жыл бұрын

@@AAA-xc4zm yes but I don't know how that matters

@AAA-xc4zm

Жыл бұрын

@@aira6951 It's because in Islam obedience to your husband is an integral part of being a wife. It might be a hard pill to swallow for some women. But it's the truth

Please make video for women regarding the same

@doumbouya2355

Жыл бұрын

Well, if u ask me, the number one thing the women will ask is are u interested in a second wife ???😂😂😂😂😂😂just kidding there...But Actually, number 1-3 in the video are also the same with men if u ask me and not just applicable to women 1)when was the last time u slept through fajr 2) what’s your relationship with your father/mother 3)what’s the nature of your relationship with women in general ? And then u can add other things u would like to know like his salah, his iman, if he drinks or not, if he smokes etc

@duskairable

Жыл бұрын

It goes both ways

@umm7641

Жыл бұрын

Brother talked about what women should ask in this same video. This is just a cut out clip made into a short. u should be able to find it if u browse through this brothers channel

@kicou88

Жыл бұрын

​@@doumbouya2355 Yeah I also think it might be something like that and maybe also "Is this your first marriage?" to know if they already had a story with someone, why it ended if they want to talk about it of course and then to know their view of what's a family. Their plans for the future, how many kids they want to have...

@homeschoolindianmom

Жыл бұрын

​@@doumbouya2355 I don't understand why anyone who lives in a western country would ask this because it is illegal anyway. I also don't understand why one would think not having more than one wife is better. Why ask this question from the start?

They need to ask us men this too 100%

Most men want a beautiful girl. Everything else comes later.

@HamadiENT

Жыл бұрын

Beautiful girls are everywhere one that checks all those boxes aren’t

@zainababdulhameed6561

9 ай бұрын

Beautiful face ends after some time while a beautiful soul always remain the same

@jjama8668

8 ай бұрын

You can also have a beautiful girl, nothing wrong with that, but make sure she fears Allah, and she would mostly likely fear violating your rights, being a great wife in return .

@MuhammadSalman-ph9iw

7 ай бұрын

​@@zainababdulhameed6561thats the answer i was looking for simple and straight forward👍

@TaelynLangstaff-jd8zh

2 ай бұрын

But making her obey your every command Is like treating her like she some slave so I highly recommend not to do that, and if your only with a women just for her looks then just stop you are not worth her time and efforts anyways.

The last question made me think "I am good being single, Thank you 🙂" If in the first meeting a man asked me this then it's will give me the image that he is super controlling, and might even have a thing about humiliating me in public. Because I have seen man who makes their wives dress a certain way and then in public gatherings stare at other women openly. And then loudly complaint how their wives have let themselves go after the marriage.

@noumanahmed5441

9 ай бұрын

It's sad that there are plenty of muslim women like you , who have been brainwashed into this feminism bullshit. Read about the women of Islam who came before you, I'm not saying that us men are perfect, but most of us follow our Prophet Muhammad pbuh footsteps and expect our future wife to be pious as well. Don't forget that the man has authority over his womenfolk, and this is mentioned in the Qur'an. If you reject the Qur'an, you can no longer be a Muslim . Allah knows best. May Allah guide us all.

@mikaeelr5971

8 ай бұрын

@@lostinthedunyathey still go out there way to look at women with makeup on if they are married I’m a woman btw

@meology8510

7 ай бұрын

it's wrong to not lower your gaze from someone rather than your spouse, that's something i agree on. however, i don't agree that if you're married you don't have any sense of protectiveness over your spouse & allow them to fully reveal their beauty in public, & thus have other members of the opposite gender magnified to them. so both should fulfill their responsibility that Allah commanded them with.

@user-cf6dn5tg4f

7 ай бұрын

I you’re ever asked that by a man voice your opinion! He’ll know to avoid you 😂

@yuppieyup8188

6 ай бұрын

Yeah, voice your opinion when being talked to so they know what's up. We are actively trying to avoid feminists who will consider everything controlling. Muslim feminists are the worst because they want us to uphold Islamic law when it comes to paying for their stuff but do not uphold the law they are responsible for

And yet men only look for slim, young and fair skinned girl😂 the first condition is that the girl has to be slim, not too short or too tall, below 21 years old, fair skinned. It doesn't matter how pious, patient, and skilled the girl is. If she doesn't check all those categories, they'll look for someone else to marry.

@Danny-dh2pg

Жыл бұрын

Being young is a chance every woman has. Being slim is what almost all women can do if they make the effort. Men will go for all skin colors.

@user-cf6dn5tg4f

7 ай бұрын

I guess I’m not a man

@Eren-yt7hh

8 күн бұрын

​@@Danny-dh2pgwell everyone has a preference but character is more important of course

I grew up with 9 brothers i get along with boys than girls doesn't mean i don't respect myself

@2590muhashong

Жыл бұрын

But ofc, you avoid relationships with non mahrams. You have your brothers, you wouldn't need other men unless for marriage

@mirzabaig8522

Жыл бұрын

Yes sister, when they say this they dont mean shy yourself away from a man when he just wants to ask a simple question or for example, a cashier is a man and you can't check out. I as a muslim sister believe that We must distance ourselves and respect ourselves.

I frowned so hard at the last question. I felt intrusive somehow. I will bolt if he asked me this in such a tone and I know most women will too. I don't know, maybe too much controlling attitude?

The primary purpose of a spouse is to help you find peace. If you are looking for someone who is always obedient, you are talking about a slave.

@mohammedali-rh7cq

Ай бұрын

Obedience of the wife to her husband is a command from Allah, it is not something that men made up.

@mynmeisname4825

28 күн бұрын

Ibn Hibbaan narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 660.

First question ✅ her faith Second question ✅ her behaviour Third question ❌ tell me you’re insecure without telling me Fourth question ❌ trying to be controlling There’s so many other important questions you could’ve asked. Allah knows best

@user-bo4hw9mo4r

2 ай бұрын

Obedience to the husband is very important. Husband has every right to tell his wife what to wear

@yobro6053

2 ай бұрын

Guy friends whilst married to a man? Ehhhhh no.

@percysbluefood

Ай бұрын

​@@user-bo4hw9mo4r it is not lmao. You can ask her nicely, and sit and talk your issues out. Your wife is not a dog or a slave to obey you. Keep that in mind.

@andithanoj8372

Ай бұрын

​@percysbluefood that is what Islam says. Not sure why it has to be taken to the extreme of being a slave or a dog. Obedience doesn't mean her opinion isn't heard on anything

@issawicheima8128

Ай бұрын

@@andithanoj8372 Us women we don’t have a problem with being obedient to our husband. It comes naturally when we have a loving, understanding,respectful and providing husband. But nowadays there’s a bunch of guy not even fulfilling their responsibilities asking you to be obedient.

Bro most of men today just look for beauty( today standard fake eyelashes, fake nails, fake cheeks, fake hair) that is reality, they won t ask for your pray, your knowledge in Islam, your maturity, our your faith. I witnessed so many times...

I smashed it. Thank you my Lord, my master, my sustainer, my provider, the one who blesses me even though I am unworthy of his love, favour and blessings. Truly blessed May Allah swt have mercy on us all especially me that I may please my Lord the one and only God Allah swt. Ameen

@helenandersson1320

Жыл бұрын

Everyone that haven't repented to Jesus Christ being our only hope and savior, is a follower of satan.. Your ignorant as it also says in the Quran to worship the Messiah that is Jesus Christ. Educate yourself about the Quran versus the Bible but not with the help of family or your Iman, as they will most likely lie to you

Assalamu alaikum good points. What are the 4 questions to ask the brothers prior to marriage?

Thank you so much, my brother. This is what I need right now, algamdulillah

I sleep thru fajr every month for a week straight

@yasmino6387

Жыл бұрын

Ahahaha stop !!

@fisabilillah8481

Жыл бұрын

@@djhd3670 you didn’t get it 🫣

@girl-mv4vy

Жыл бұрын

​@@djhd3670 shes on her period dude

@Friel718

Жыл бұрын

That’s different lol

@NurKh4n

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 😂but nah, you've been used to waking up. You'll wake up anyway and do morning adhkar.

If you are not comfortable with her make up or clothes, don’t marry her. You can never change people, the only person you can change is yourself. I will never marry a man who ask me all these questions. All these questions sounds so condescending.

@MyGoodDeeds

2 ай бұрын

If He Is Practicing Muslim Then He Is Not Judging You All By Himself But, What Allah SWT Has Mentioned In The Quran. That's It!

@nurulhidayahabdulwahab918

2 ай бұрын

⁠@@MyGoodDeedsif one is a true practicing muslim, one will try to be the best version of himself and guide his wife and family with full wisdom. Not by judging people especially another fellow Muslim

@ihalludbA

2 ай бұрын

It’s funny you say that because the purpose of theses questions do exactly that, guiding his wife to worship Allah. The essence of theses questions are 1)prayer is important and she should be praying 2) respect your parents 3)do not speak and associate with the opposite gender (free mixing) 4) do not commit the sin of tabaruj , which according to Hadith will effect not only the wife but her husband as well so this question is just as important.

@nurulhidayahabdulwahab918

2 ай бұрын

@@ihalludbA should ask himself first.

@gopraydontdelayy

Ай бұрын

@@nurulhidayahabdulwahab918 my dear he's gonna marry the women so of course he's gonna ask the future mother of his children whether she prays or not! What's condescending about that? I mean, when you are gonna get married wouldn't you ask your spouse to be, questions like "do you pray your daily prayers, do you exercise and maintain yourself, etc etc"... Imagine if somebody comes up and says "You should ask yourself that questions first".. That would sound ridiculous because first off yes i did asked myself and I expect my husband to-be, practicing Muslim as well and hence I am asking those questions in the first place. And it's my right to do so cause I am gonna spend, In Sha Allah my whole life with that person. Hope it makes sense✨🌷

Wow hearing this I realize how lucky my husband is 😂 ما شاء الله

@hannantanveer9660

Жыл бұрын

can you suggest some one for me so that I can also become lucky

I have all these characteristics alhamdulliAllah TabarakaAllah but I have not yet had anyone ask me these questions.. I pray to Allah for me and for all those who are in the marriage age❤ may Allah give us zawj salih

Brilliant. Girls also need to ask those questions, they are marrying future father of their children, must choose wisely.

SubhanALLAH so true

If she asks if Fajr is a type of sleep paralysis, Run.

@Alexalexalexalexx

10 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Islamiciman

9 ай бұрын

Everyone knows it’s salah 😊

Brother, thanks for your advice!

Honestly some fathers dont deserve respect tbh. We soemtimes sugar coat how vile the world truly is. The point of respecting your father in the first place is because he raised you. There are men who sexually abuse their own daughters or deprive them of essential needs or simply left their mother when they were concievedetc. These types of fathers shouldnt have any repsect

You don't want a wife, sounds like you want a servant.

@Darur1308

3 ай бұрын

the wife will serve u yes, but other than these things everything else is just gonna be smooth sailing inshalalah

@syedyousuf1056

2 ай бұрын

Will you cook for youre husband?

Yeah I have LOTS of problems with the last q, tho it may be for reasons that are very specific to my own circumstances. I used to be married, my ex was very jealous and he would be upset if I dress up and wear makeup when we go out for anything even work. Consider that I already wore very minimal makeup to begin with and my clothes are modest and not form fitting. It got to a point that he even makes a big deal about me doing regular skincare. I became very drab and unkempt just bcs I am tired of having to argue for my self care EVERY SINGLE TIME. And guess what? Our marriage ended because he cheated with a girl who wears a pound of makeup and dresses like a hoochie. There were other reasons that already weaken the bond between us, but the infidelity was the last straw. So my take on this is that a person who is excessively jealous and restrictive of my looks would very likely be the cheater himself. So if I were asked this question, I would run out the door before you can demand an answer. No sir, thank you. Good luck in your future endeavors. Byeeeee.

@jklmnoqr

10 ай бұрын

@continuousself-improvement1879 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 CONGRATULATIONS on being delivered from a living hell! I'm SO glad you escaped that despot!!!

@tuhin9910

Ай бұрын

makeup is haram to wear if men can see you

@mynmeisname4825

3 күн бұрын

Just cuz your husband was bad doesn't mean every man who wants his wife to not be looked by man is bad. Any real man won't want men stare at his wife is it that hard to understand 😭

Also work to become worthy of such standards… Don’t lower your standards rather raise yourself inshallah

Not only the wife should be respectful and obedient the husband also should be respectful and obedient Love respect and value for your words goes both ways not only the wife or women

@rizwan1998

Жыл бұрын

He never mensioned it is just for the guys. The fact that he says if you are a guy does not exclud the women. He is only speaking to his brothers. Not everything is about if this then that.

@coffe2270

Жыл бұрын

the husband should be obedient? this is not from islam

@jjama8668

8 ай бұрын

@@DankWasTakenbut not be obedient, if someone has authority over someone else, they can surely be loving, caring and respectful towards them, but being obedient towards them defies their authority over them, it doesn’t make sense

@idkbro4932

7 ай бұрын

The husband has authority over the wife in the good things he asks her to do. The Qurʾān nor Sunnah doesn’t exactly mention this same role for the women. You can be respectful to the wife without being obedient.

@mynmeisname4825

28 күн бұрын

Where does it say husband gotta be obedient? Cuz had it been necessary it would be in Quran and hadith. As for women being obedient that's in hadith Ibn Hibbaan narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 660.

"Evil women are for evil men Pious women are for pious men, Impure women are for impure men Pure women are for pure men."- surah Nisa. Allah's Qur'an is an absolute truth. 🕋

Very good.. what questions should the girl ask the “angel” oops I meant the guy

@Estelleeeeee

11 ай бұрын

How many camels do you offer? (in his case) :P

@Shay3356

7 күн бұрын

lol

Don't just go for Beauty Brothers! Look for Peace! For without this, there is just misery. You will be given signs, do not be fooled the veil of Lust! Tough times are for every relationship. Make sure you are both strong enough to handle these. Build yourself first Brothers, the better you are the better the person you will attract.

Like one wise man said: if you want to ruin society... ruin the mother

Women in past years had to obey because they had no education and were dependent on men for guidance. Now days women have degrees and money. However, I do meet my husband’s expectations because that’s the contract. He also tries to make sure that I am happy.

@mynmeisname4825

28 күн бұрын

Ibn Hibbaan narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 660.

Makeup one is a deal breaker for me 😂

@mynmeisname4825

28 күн бұрын

Ibn Hibbaan narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 660.

I also think girls should ask questions too, and definitely the same 1st one I think it’s the most important!

If a sister says she sleeps through fajr, that wouldn't necessarily be a red flag for me. Waking up for fajr can be difficult art times and so you may miss it but still have the intention to have prayed. The whole point of marriage is to help your other half to wake up for fajr if they struggled to do so before marriage. 💕

I’m Muslimah Alhamdulilah. But I only pass 1 of these prompts lol. Remember, women want respect too. You shouldn’t ‘tell’ someone what to do especially if they aren’t your family. You can make a request and explain yourself and she can make a decision . You have to build trust before expecting someone to follow you. Also- some fathers turn out to be monsters. Hear the story before you judge someone.

@mynmeisname4825

28 күн бұрын

Yeah "some" fathers "Some" mother's monsters Too. Not talking about u but generally women make it look like thar 99 percent men are evil

@mynmeisname4825

3 күн бұрын

There's a prophets hadith about obeying husband, U shouldn't obey if he says to do something like shirk obviously. Where did fathers came from?

@mynmeisname4825

3 күн бұрын

Do u agree with last point? Idk y many women got angry with that. As a man let me tell you, any man who is really modest and protective and loves his life, would not want other men to stare at his wife or wear attention grabbing stuff like makeup

@PENH5428

2 күн бұрын

@@mynmeisname4825 The point about the father is question 2. Regarding the last point - honestly , it depends how he asks. In this scenario, the man and woman aren’t married and the man is asking the woman to change her outfit/ makeup. The man is gauging whether or not this woman is a fit for him but don’t forget , the woman is also gauging the man to see if he’s a fit for her . Does he speak with love, tenderness ? Or is he demanding and controlling ? For me , I’ll happily oblige anyone ( friends family husband ) who treats me with respect and consideration vs a robot that must obey every command no matter what.

💀💀 the switch up from the 1st to 2nd question.

This is absolutely true. We fixed my brothers marriage and set the date. Since my brother was practicing Islam he wanted the marriage to be very simple and easy but of course the girl’s family refused. Just before 2/3 weeks of the set date we caught the entire family lying about her past and when we confronted they shamelessly counter attacked. Instead of apologising they demanded apology from us. The girl would rudely reply to my brother that he is not yet her husband and she is not answerable to him any more. Seeing this and how much my brother was depressed we decided to cancel the marriage and two days later the girl calls and accept that they lied and my brother said since you created this mess you resolve it and he forgave her but her family was too proud to do that too. We ended the entire thing and alhumdolillah we later learned the facts about their family and glad he was saved from a really bad situation. وَیَمْكُرُوْنَ وَ یَمْكُرُ اللّٰهُؕ وَاللّٰهُ خَیْرُ 🤲🏻

the happiness i feel! because i asked myself these questions, and i'm pleased with the answers, praise and glory be to Allah, al'hamdhulillah He has guided me and may He guide you, O you who is reading this 💐 may He open closed doors for you and make your hardships easy for you. may He grant you happiness in this world and the hereafter, and may Allah make you among His beloved slaves ❤️

Many women will lie about all 4 questions if they want you bad enough.

@girl-mv4vy

Жыл бұрын

True. Other way around men will too

@DaggerSecurity

Жыл бұрын

@@girl-mv4vy yes. correct

@Abuhan47

Жыл бұрын

And her/his family and friends will also

@esthellakomerl8084

Жыл бұрын

Not sure. Because if a woman's heart is not into the deen, it shows. His questions are based on how practising a woman is.

@doukoure3468

9 ай бұрын

@@Abuhan47😂😂 too much

My toilet seat has more rights man. Come on

@user-kt1fz5md8t

4 ай бұрын

Can we chat

MaShaAllah brother Straight to the point

Ok SubhanAllah, In Sha Allah my future person will be very lucky Alhumdullilah and In Sha Allah hopefully I’ll be as well 🤲🏻✨

I have the answers ready i just need someone to come and ask XD...

@Paper-Z

Жыл бұрын

What are your answers😁

@mubbashirgear

Жыл бұрын

Have sabr 😁

can u do one of what a girl should ask him before marrying him

@wolmark-ym9pw

Жыл бұрын

Check this. kzread.infoZlxCZ2ZvEHs?feature=share

@rahbid121

Жыл бұрын

Ask him, 1) what makes a good husband 2) a good father 3) about his relationship with his father and mother 4) his daily routines and what sort of friends he hangs around with. (Because prophet Muhammad (saw) said, "show me your friend and I'll tell you the type of person you are"). 5) send many children inside the room, and test their patience. Ask about their interactions with the opposite gender. 6) their temperament. 7) once you ask a question, observe their way of answering. 8) if he has a sister in law, how is his relationship with her? 9) the most important, ask him about his ibadah, which mosque he goes to, to pray. 10) how would he like to raise his children. What input he'd like to have. (The reason I mention this is because, once you have children, your life takes a 360degree turn. You see the world through your children. That's when the reality kicks in, and you ask yourself if you've made the right decision in marrying the right person.

@rahbid121

Жыл бұрын

May Allah guarantee you a pious, loving, kindhearted supportive husband, who will be the coolness of your eyes hearts and souls Ameen.

Jazakallahu Khairan ❤

I am not Muslim but I am.arabic (I'm druze). I love the last three questions though and I am a kid however I saved the video to remember when older. May Allah bless you!

Good luck finding a woman like that.

@tjc4085

Жыл бұрын

Which part is unrealistic to you?

@anisah8546

Жыл бұрын

Trust me, they exist, even in western countries. I know women like this at the mosque. They are quiet and don't go out much, and you CERTAINLY won't find them on social media - that's why you don't know they exist. But wallahi there are many, more than you think - and some are surprisingly young.

@MelodyAlf

Жыл бұрын

Good luck to you too! I'm also hoping to find a good man while making sure I'm also a good person by improving myself little by little. Everyone has a different journey, but I hope it all goes and ends well for everyone, including you and me 😊

@anom6707

Жыл бұрын

Yup it’s near impossible nowadays.

Brothers asking very good questions

@humaafandi8894

Жыл бұрын

Asking like a Nazi. Not using other senses

Remember women's it's also applies on guys 1. How much he prays 2. How much does he respect his mom 3. What's her relationship with other women(non-mahram) 4. Something that you don't like

@mynmeisname4825

3 күн бұрын

What would u give an example for 4th one?

@nathangrey6236

2 күн бұрын

@@mynmeisname4825 Check if he's someone actually worth being led by. A man is supposed to be a leader. And if he's lacking in that quality then you shouldn't be obedient to him.

Number four. What Islam is! Power and control over women!!! 🥷

He wants a pet not a wife

@girl-mv4vy

Жыл бұрын

For real

@Abuhan47

Жыл бұрын

What would you say if the woman’s awrah is not covered and her husband tells her gently? I agree this guys words are demeaning but I ever say to my wife when we’re first married about certain clothes she had in a nice way and it was fine.

Feminists Crying in The Comment Section

Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: “If I were to order someone to fall prostrate before anyone other than Allaah, I would have ordered women to prostrate themselves before their husbands because of the great right that Allaah has made due to them from their wives.”

My answers 1. The last time I slept through fagir was at 11 years old because I didn’t get enough sleep and it was Ramadan 2. I respect my father and I still talk to my father and I forgive him because of what he put me through, (I don’t stay with my father anymore) 3. I stare down when I go out , and I don’t talk to men unless it’s my grandfather or uncles or father. 4. I would say “if you don’t like it I will change, whatever you don’t like I don’t like.” In general I don’t wear makeup . Alhumdlilah 🤍

@samikshagoyal7707

8 күн бұрын

If you are a woman, I am really concerned about women’s rights in Islam 😢 Your answers are as if you are a slave. I am not blaming you for anything but I as a Hindu Goddess worshiper find it really concerning 😔

@miss4862

4 күн бұрын

Mashallah!!!

@Better.without.youuuu

4 күн бұрын

@@miss4862 🩷🩷

Could you do a version of this short of questions a Muslim woman should ask someone before marrying them

Mashallah may Allah reward you

This man is grooming young people. This is disturbing. This IS NOT what you should think about women. Obedient??? Obey you????? Sick and twisted mindset that opresses women. Have you seen what they do to young girls and women who do not 'obey' them???!!!! No human should ever obey another human. Ever.

@homophobic_Scissors

Жыл бұрын

Grooming minors, do you have -iq?

@user-wf1bw3og4c

5 ай бұрын

You are not a smart person

@mynmeisname4825

3 күн бұрын

Ibn Hibbaan narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 660.

Alhamdulillah Thank you very much ❤️I needed this Video very much Alhamdulillah please keep makeing more of those Videos Inshaa الله and let the Sunnah go forward and don’t stop May الله subhanahu wa ta'ala keep you all save and protect us from the evil and May الله subhanahu wa ta'ala give us the needed patience and May الله subhanahu wa ta'ala answer our Prayers and May الله subhanahu wa ta'ala give us the strength to never forget him and that we Worship and serve him until our deaths❤️🤲🏼Amin

On GOD DAT BOY SPITTIN TALK YO SHIT KING!!

Honestly they can answer one way and then act another way

@sanane66543

Жыл бұрын

then its on them lying is major sin

Most men are not as religious as they say they are either. I’ve seen super religious men who still simp for a Muslima so long as she looks good.

@Waqar_Khan475

Жыл бұрын

I've seen people who still follow it properly mostly middle aged and old

Imagine being asked this on the day you don’t hear your fajr alarm but have previously always had a solid track record 😳

@kamisahdaud3688

Жыл бұрын

Then the answer should be a clear yes!!! We are only human. If he find issues with that than okay he be better off to next girl.

As a woman myself, I approve of these questions

The last one, if he's the one being unreasonable, of course no one would listen to him. Compromise should be done on both sides. If a man wants his wife to cover up more than she always did, I doubt she'll listen to him

@mynmeisname4825

28 күн бұрын

Ibn Hibbaan narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 660.

The last question to me is controlling. After she's already made herself up to go out with YOU, for you to say take it off is a hit in the guts. Especially since she thinks she is being modest enough. If a man I'm considering marriage with asked this, I would be wary of him. Maybe asking "if I was uncomfortable with you going out wearing a certain outfit, would you stop wearing it out for me?" In essence the same, but more gently worded. These things matter. I would then ask the man what exactly do you consider immodest, and we would have a discussion to see if we're aligned. Having someone dictate to me how I should dress just doesn't go well in my mind.

@user-kt1fz5md8t

4 ай бұрын

Can we chat

Dang. That's like 85%-95% of them off the list... 🤣🤣🤣

@raeedkamran6136

Жыл бұрын

Yeah

@abelievereverrising283

9 ай бұрын

All with question 1, probably

Allahuma barik ! Really good question to be honest

This is just straight text book behaviour of controlling relationships, holy hell. Do not do this. Have respect for your partner as a person. They are your equal, there is no need to force anything on them.

@soob9178

Жыл бұрын

so if your husband said to you "i'm going clubbing with some women", and you say no. And then he says you can't tell me what to do. Is this controlling behaviour? If he asks you nicely and politely that he isn't comfortable with you going out with those clothes, and your reaction is "you can't tell me what to wear! and you don't control me!". It is YOU that lacks respect and humility to say "I respect and trust my husband and he knows what is best for me, so I am going to listen to him". Has nothing to do with wanting to assert control. It's not an unreasonable request to not want your wife going out in public with crop-tops. You can't force anybody to do anything from a technical sense. But people have boundaries in what they will tolerate in one another.

@noname-yb3nh

Жыл бұрын

This is about Islam. You worry about your West don't tell others how to live

@PSNloversalu

Жыл бұрын

What the others said here. Also these questions are before the start of the relationship. So what you said is invalidated.

As a woman myself, if you are a religious brother, believe me.. you dont want to marry someone who wears makeup outside the house..

@ummabdirrahmaan8756

Жыл бұрын

dont ask if she would take it off and see how she reacts. You need to instead ask, are you someone who wears make up outside the house?

@sanane66543

Жыл бұрын

​@@ummabdirrahmaan8756 90%+ women wear makeup if men follow what you say noone would marry😂

@forestdude5168

Жыл бұрын

@@sanane66543 yeah, i literally never met a woman who didnt wear make up, guess marriage wont be a thing anymore lol.

@sanane66543

Жыл бұрын

@@forestdude5168 i mean there are some with very little guess we need those brother 😂

@saaa.aaa.

9 ай бұрын

​@@forestdude5168i dont wear makeup outside only mehram

😂 and now i am aware about it as a girl.....and will inshaallah bring these in my life only 1 is missing in me

Refrain from get married to a divorce otherwise the relationship will be toxic.

With regards to question 1 and 3, it is not good to ask about someone his sins. BarakAllaahu feekom❤

@alia-wm8ug

Жыл бұрын

Your going to marry this person and most likely be with her the rest of your life, so yes ask whatever question that might effect you

The first question is so weird if someones missed fajr that day and they havent missed it in months before that are you just going to determine their relationship with salah like that? Also she isnt your servant, she doesnt have to obey you in something thats not your right. Hijab is her choice. Makeup is her choice. Thats between her and God. As a partner, you can suggest/encourage her to wear it but you cant control her.

@AllahTheOnlyTrueLord

Жыл бұрын

The girls like you we don't want 😂😂 DESI liberal

@AllahTheOnlyTrueLord

Жыл бұрын

OK then pay your own bills 😂 And do whatever you want

@mynmeisname4825

3 күн бұрын

Ibn Hibbaan narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 660.

As salaamu alaikum wa Rahmatallahi wa BarkatahuPlease provide the link for the wholel video..... Jazaakallah khair

May Allah grant us all good spouses. Aameen